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Your source for all things Responsible & Ratchet! If you're not here for honest, candid conversations about sex, love, relationships, pop culture, feminism and a whole lot of other sh*t, then why are you here?! This is where we break. it. down. Join Boonie, with her friends and special guests, for real and off-the-cuff discussions on life's every day happenings. Listen, leave a comment, click a rating and write a review! Then tweet, snap, send a smoke signal or a carrier pigeon--but be sure to tell your friends.
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283 - Your Pleasure Era Starts Now with Ashley Cobb
2026/03/16
In this episode of The Boonie Breakdown, Boonie welcomes back friend of the podcast Ashley Cobb, who returns not just as a guest—but as a newly published author. The two dive into Ashley's debut book, Pleasure Please: The Black Woman's Guide to Unapologetic Pleasure and Confidence, and the journey that took her from podcast host to author.
The book's creative structure is built around the alphabet, with each letter representing a theme that invites readers to explore pleasure, confidence, relationships, and self-discovery in a way that allows them to jump around and engage with the content at their own pace.
A major part of the conversation centers around reclaiming pleasure and redefining the often-misunderstood concept of a "hoe phase." Ashley reframes it not as reckless behavior, but as a period of intentional self-exploration—one where women can learn their desires, establish boundaries, and build confidence in their sexuality.
Later in the episode, the conversation turns to sex, relationships, and responsibility. Ashley discusses her experiences with PrEP as a preventative measure for HIV and highlights the importance of having honest conversations about sexual health—particularly in cities with higher HIV rates like Atlanta. The two also explore ethical non-monogamy, communication in relationships, and how setting clear boundaries is essential for healthy partnerships.
This episode is an honest, empowering, and thought-provoking conversation about pleasure, confidence, sexual autonomy, and embracing your desires without apology.
We get into: 📚 Ashley Cobb's journey from podcast host to published author
🔥 Redefining the "hoe phase" as intentional self-exploration
💋 Pleasure, confidence, and sexual autonomy for Black women
🩺 Sexual health, PrEP, and responsible sexual freedom
💬 Ethical non-monogamy, boundaries, and communication in relationships
Learn More About Ashley Cobb https://www.sexwithashley.com/
📲 Instagram: (@sexwithashley)
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Chapters 0:13 Welcome Back, Ashley Cobb
5:24 Boonie's Pick of the Week
5:24 Housekeeping Updates
5:38 Transition to Author Life
7:37 Writing Process Insights
11:40 The Whole Phase Explained
14:21 Navigating Dating Apps
17:27 Understanding Non-Traditional Relationships
20:22 The Complexity of Polyamory
23:30 Trust and Boundaries
28:25 The Importance of Safe Sex
35:53 The Power of Masturbation
41:35 Quickfire Breakdown
42:18 Book Promotion and Socials
282 - Finding Joy in the Chaos with Shika
2026/02/23
In this episode, I catch up with my homie Shika for a candid conversation full of reflection, laughter, and realness. We talk about protecting your peace, finding joy in chaotic times, and how navigating life lately requires equal parts honesty, rest, and humor.
We also discuss:
✨ The importance of self-care, therapy, and emotional healing
🎶 Our appreciation for Jill Scott's artistic evolution and what it means to grow alongside the music
📺 Nostalgic pop culture moments, including America's Next Top Model and reflections on Tyra Banks
💬 Masculinity, emotional labor, and why care and effort shouldn't be gendered in relationships
This episode is part vent session, part healing circle, part pop culture recap—and a reminder that joy is still available, even in heavy seasons.
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Chapters 0:17 Introduction with Shika
5:58 Finding Joy Amidst Chaos
7:52 Dark Energy and Current Events
14:45 The Weight of Knowledge
14:55 AI and the Future of Work
17:19 The Disillusionment of Society
25:14 Reflections on Reality TV
29:54 Accountability and Fame
35:03 Jill Scott and Male-Centered Conversations
45:24 Decentering Men in Relationships
55:40 The Evolution of Women
1:06:33 Closing Thoughts and Merch Reminder
281 - Discipline Over Vibes with Brian
2026/02/09
In this episode, I'm joined by our resident problematic fav Brian for a funny, honest, and low-key dragging conversation about the lie we tell ourselves every January: "New Year, New Me." We get real about why most resolutions flop, how self-awareness is the missing ingredient to growth, and what it actually looks like to hold yourself accountable instead of just talking about change.
From tech foolishness to internet culture rants, reality TV hot takes, and our very personal health and habit check-ins, this one is equal parts laughs and life lessons — with a little gym trauma sprinkled in for good measure.
We also discuss:
🎯 Why honesty with yourself is the first step to any real glow-up
🕶️ Brian's meta glasses and the unexpected (and questionable) possibilities
🚫 Brian's Dry January and what clarity without alcohol really feels like
🪞 Learning to check your own habits, vices, and excuses before life does it for you
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Chapters 0:10 Welcome to the Boonie Breakdown
0:46 Pick of the Week: Traders
2:27 Addressing Bias in Reality TV
3:12 Feedback from Episode 280
6:14 Housekeeping and Announcements
6:53 New Year, New You
7:48 Clarity in Sobriety
11:59 Health Journey Reflections
14:15 Self-Assessment and Honesty
22:17 Tech Gadgets and Tracking
28:02 Aging and Social Media
30:05 Validation and Self-Esteem
34:32 The Cost of Public Opinion
45:24 Hair Maintenance Conversations
52:05 Church and Distractions
58:29 Final Thoughts and Reflections
280 - Becoming a Caregiver at 26: Alzheimer's, Advocacy, and Fighting Broken Systems with Jessica Guthrie
2026/01/26
In this episode of The Boonie Breakdown, Boonie sits down for a powerful and necessary conversation with Jessica Guthrie, a dementia caregiving advocate and thought leader who shares her deeply personal journey as the primary caregiver for her mother, diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's.
Jessica opens up about becoming a full-time caregiver at just 26 years old—uprooting her life, navigating grief in real time, and learning the realities of caregiving without a roadmap. Together, Boonie and Jessica unpack the emotional, financial, and systemic challenges caregivers face, particularly millennials and young Gen Xers who are often thrust into these roles unexpectedly.
Through shared experiences—including Boonie's own caregiving journey with her grandparents—this episode sheds light on the isolation, resilience, and advocacy required to care for loved ones, while offering practical guidance for anyone navigating or preparing for caregiving.
We get into:
🧠 Becoming a caregiver at a young age and what no one prepares you for
💔 The emotional and financial realities of caregiving—and the necessity of self-care
🏥 Navigating healthcare systems, bureaucracy, and learning to advocate fiercely
📋 The importance of routines, documentation, and sustainable caregiving practices
📑 Legacy planning, power of attorney, and having critical family conversations before crisis hits
This episode is both a resource and a reminder: caregiving is hard, often invisible work—but it matters deeply.
Follow & Learn More from Jessica Guthrie:
🌐 Website: www.jessicacguthrie.com
📲 Instagram: @Jessica_C_Guthrie
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📩 Email: [email protected]
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Chapters 0:09 Welcome to The Boonie Breakdown
4:57 Caregiving Realities with Jessica Guthrie
13:38 Finding Balance as a Caregiver
23:35 The Importance of Advocacy
29:01 Preparing for the Inevitable
40:03 Understanding Hospice Care
48:17 Planning for the Future
279 - Romance Novels, Red Flags, and Real Life with Kurvy Katie
2026/01/19
In this episode, Boonie returns from hiatus with laughs, honesty, and real conversation. I'm joined by influencer and comedian Kurvy Katie, whose evolution from plus-size fashion content creator to viral comedic voice has resonated across Instagram and TikTok. Together, we break down creativity, dating, self-worth, and the cultural shifts shaping how women—especially women in their 40s—show up online and in real life.
We get into:
🎭 Curvy Katie's journey from fashion influencer to comedy and what going viral really looks like behind the scenes
👗 The challenges plus-size creators face in fashion and media—and how representation (or the lack of it) impacts content
📚 Black BookTok, romance novels, and Katie's ambitious goal of reading 150 books in a year
💔 Dating in your 40s, modern dating fatigue, and why good conversation matters more than ever
Follow Kurvy Katie:
📌 Instagram & TikTok: @KurvyKatie
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Chapters 0:18 Welcome Back from Hiatus
3:54 Fun with Kurvy Katie
12:33 Fashion to Comedy Journey
13:06 The Dating Dilemma
13:38 Discovering BookTok
21:17 Writing Aspirations
31:04 The Reality of Dating
44:38 Raising the Bar for Relationships
50:13 The Quickfire Breakdown
278 - Raw & Real: HIV, Condoms, and the Sex Recession with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe
2025/12/01
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe—award-winning sex researcher, Black feminist scholar, and sexual health expert—to break down the most urgent issues impacting Black women's sexual health in 2025. From HIV prevention to the "sex recession," we tackle the topics many communities aren't talking about but absolutely should be.
We get into:
🛡️ HIV & AIDS prevention for Black women and why proactive tools like PrEP for women matter now more than ever
📉 The rise of the sex recession and why younger generations are having less sex—or turning to more extreme sexual behaviors
😬 How COVID-19 disrupted sex education, creating new fears and gaps in safer-sex knowledge
❌ The decline in condom use and how shifting media narratives changed the national conversation
🩺 Dr. Shemeka's groundbreaking research on sexual pain disorders in Black women and the intersection with assisted reproductive technologies
Follow Dr. Shemeka Thorpe:
📌 Instagram: @drshemeka
🔗 Stay updated on her research: https://www.drshemeka.com/
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Chapters 0:18 Welcome Back After Hiatus
5:27 Diving into HIV and Black Women
5:27 Conversations on Sex Education
27:04 Understanding the Sex Recession
33:27 Researching Pain and Pleasure
40:52 Quickfire Breakdown
42:09 Closing Thoughts and Farewell
277 - Shedding, Shifting, and Skipping Christmas
2025/11/10
In this solo episode, I'm sounding off on politics, burnout, and why I might be in my season of shedding. Boonie Live: New Orleans—new guests, new energy, and ticket price drops - get tickets here: thebooniebreakdown.com/live.
Then we get into The Boonie Five Spot:
🌿 A Season of Shedding
🎄 Cancel Christmas?
💄 Celebrity Product Push Fatigue
📚 Thought Leaders or Thought Leeches?
🤝 What Support Really Looks Like
It's honest, funny, and full of reflection as I navigate change and peace in real time.
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Chapters 0:15 Solo Reflections
4:27 Shedding Season
12:03 Christmas Contemplations
15:39 Celebrity Fatigue
18:31 Thought Leader Tiredness
22:25 Support Redefined
276 - Swipe Right on Maturity: Inside the Fox Hunters Club with Brownie Marie
2025/11/03
In this episode, I sit down with Brownie Marie, the visionary founder of Fox Hunters Club, a groundbreaking dating app created for millennial women seeking serious, intentional relationships with Gen X and Baby Boomer men. Tired of the superficial swiping and the transactional vibes found on most dating platforms, Brownie set out to build a space that centers authenticity, maturity, and connection—without the sugar daddy stigma.
We dive deep into:
💘 The inspiration behind Fox Hunters Club and why it's not your typical age-gap app
💬 How intentional dating can transform your mindset (and your love life)
🚫 Why it's time to ditch the "casual only" culture on mainstream apps
🤖 How AI is shaping the future of modern dating—without replacing real human connection
Brownie keeps it real about creating a community that values substance over swipes, shares how the app is expanding into the DMV area, and gives tips for overcoming dating fatigue while staying true to yourself. Whether you're curious about dating older partners or just tired of the same old dating app nonsense, this convo offers a refreshing, grown-woman perspective on love and connection in 2025.
Follow Brownie Marie here:
📌 Instagram: @browniemarie
🔗 Learn more about Fox Hunters Club: https://www.foxhuntersclub.com
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Chapters 0:12 Introduction to Brownie Marie
7:20 The Fox Hunters Club Concept
9:15 Preference for Older Men
11:35 Vetting Process for the App
15:55 Dating Fatigue and Niche Apps
22:25 Intentional Connections vs. Hookup Culture
25:21 The Role of AI in Dating
28:53 Feedback from Users
34:06 Red Flags in Dating Profiles
39:09 Cultural Perspectives on Marriage
42:26 The Value of Dating Apps
45:23 Closing Thoughts and Promotions
275 - Trick-or-Treat and Tryna Survive with Shika
2025/10/27
In this episode, I catch up with my homie Shika for a free-spirited, unfiltered conversation — classic Boonie Breakdown energy. We dive into everything from the government shutdown to pop culture moments that have us in our feelings (and our opinions).
We also discuss:
💼 The real impact of the government shutdown and job uncertainty
🎃 Our hilarious and unconventional childhood Halloween memories
🎤 The brilliance of D'Angelo and our mixed thoughts on Megan Thee Stallion's new track
🤖 Our love-hate relationship with technology and how AI is shaping everyday life
Plus, I share updates on our upcoming New Orleans live show, our new partnership with One Condoms, and reflect on how we're all just trying to grow, adapt, and laugh through it all. Get tickets here: thebooniebreakdown.com/shop
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Chapters 0:13 Welcome to This Week's Episode
7:16 Halloween Reflections
34:34 Megan Thee Stallion's New Release
37:54 Remembering D'Angelo
50:52 AI and Its Implications
1:07:06 Final Thoughts and Farewells
274 - The Complexity of Attraction with Brian
2025/10/20
*]:pointer-events-auto [content-visibility:auto] supports-[content-visibility:auto]:[contain-intrinsic-size:auto_100lvh] scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" tabindex="-1" data-turn-id= "request-WEB:e2721f19-bac8-44f5-94c4-d5240e8786a1-2" data-testid= "conversation-turn-4" data-scroll-anchor="true" data-turn= "assistant"> In this episode, I sit down with our resident problematic fave for a hilarious, honest, and reflective conversation that kicks off the final season of The Boonie Breakdown! We unpack everything from the chaos of modern dating to personal growth, self-reflection, and what it really means to evolve in real time.
We also discuss:
💔 Why we're drawn to specific physical "types" in dating
👀 The mess and magic of dating within your "attractiveness bracket"
🙏🏾 The difference between abstinence and celibacy—and why it matters
Of course, we had to keep it fun — the Drag of the Week is back, and we're calling out the systems that keep playing in our faces. This one's full of laughs, vulnerability, and that signature mix of ratchet and refined you've come to love.
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Chapters 0:16 Welcome to the Final Season
0:51 Dating Dynamics: Ugly vs. Pretty
2:21 Housekeeping and Future Plans
6:02 Kicking Off with Brian
11:36 The Challenge of Attraction
16:30 Drag of the Week: Government Shutdown
17:39 Social Media's Impact on Self-Image
27:28 Celibacy vs. Abstinence
44:10 Intentions in Dating
59:59 Final Thoughts on Relationships
1:08:45 Closing Remarks and Thank You
273 - Ratchet Reflections with Boonie
2025/07/07
In this solo episode closing out Season 14, I'm sounding off on everything from chaotic reality TV to the very real "romance recession" y'all are living through.
Then we get into the good stuff:
💋 Love Island drama and the emotional chaos of bingeing 20+ episodes—why is everyone kissing everybody?!
🎤 Getting hyped for the Cowboy Carter concert and celeb beauty products that actually do what they say.
🧳 The struggle of packing. Because why does it take this much energy now??
💔 The "romance recession"—a real convo about why so many women are tired of the dating scene.
And of course—I end with a major announcement: Boonie Live is BACK, baby! We're hitting multiple cities and the vibes are unmatched. Don't wait on tickets 👀
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Chapters 0:12 Season 14 Finale
1:36 Sorority Shoutouts
3:02 Boonie 5 Spot Begins
8:38 Cowboy Carter and Hair Care
10:30 The Packing Struggle
14:39 The Romance Recession
17:29 Boonie Live is Back!
272 - Unlearning the BS with Dr. Donna Oriowo
2025/06/23
In this episode, I welcome back Dr. Donna Oriowo—the brilliant therapist, dynamic speaker, and now author of Drink Water and Mind Your Business: A Black Woman's Guide to Unlearning the BS and Healing Your Self-Esteem. Known for her candid insights and unapologetic approach to mental wellness, Dr. Donna returns to break down what it really means to heal, unlearn, and radically embrace self-worth as a Black woman.
We dive deep into:
🧠 The difference between self-esteem and self-confidence—and why it matters
😞 How shame shows up in our lives and keeps us disconnected from ourselves
📝 The power of journaling, reflection, and doing the work beyond the page
💔 Why unlearning childhood conditioning is necessary for growth and freedom
🪞 How to stop confusing external validation with internal self-worth
Dr. Donna keeps it real as we unpack the ways the world teaches Black women to shrink—and how her book offers a roadmap to expand, heal, and thrive. If you've ever questioned your worth, struggled with shame, or felt stuck in a cycle of people-pleasing, this conversation is for you.
Follow Dr. Donna here:
📌 Instagram: @drdonnaoriowo
🔗 Website & Book: https://www.drdonnaoriowo.com
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Chapters 0:16 Welcome Back, Dr. Donna Oriowo
2:24 Housekeeping and Episode Feedback
4:01 Upcoming Events: Boonie Live
5:01 Journey to Self-Esteem
6:34 Love Island and Social Media Influence
9:58 The Concept of Self-Esteem
16:23 The Impact of Childhood on Self-Concept
18:42 Understanding Shame vs. Guilt
25:13 Breaking Down Self-Worth
35:53 The Role of Shame in Relationships
46:49 The Difference Between Loneliness and Alone
51:34 Quickfire Thoughts: A Final Breakdown
271 - Why You're Not Ready for the Love You Say You Want with Brian & KG
2025/06/16
In this episode, I'm joined by two of my favorite guests—Brian, our problematic fav, and KG, our responsible fav—for a real, unfiltered conversation about dating in today's world. For the first time, we explore the game from both of their perspectives, diving into the chaos, calm, confusion, and comedy that comes with it.
We talk about the shift from "Brian-type" energy—thrilling but unstable—to "Kenny-type" stability and why so many women say they want the latter but still get caught up in the former. There are moments that left me speechless (literally) as we unpack the roles gender expectations, pop culture, and past relationships play in how we all show up in love.
We also discuss:
💥 Why some women aren't ready for "healthy" love
👩🏾❤️👨🏽 Dating apps, emotional baggage & the illusion of high-value partners
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Chapters 0:15 Welcome to Episode 271
3:06 Feedback from Last Week's Episode
4:09 Upcoming Live Show Announcement
5:29 The Drag of the Week
5:41 Introducing Our Guests
6:17 Perspectives on Dating
8:01 The Dating Gap
11:49 Accountability in Relationships
13:36 The Role of Friends in Dating
16:03 Navigating Modern Dating
17:57 The Reality of Sex in Relationships
23:06 Expectations from Dating Apps
28:36 Understanding the Good Men Out There
31:18 Baggage and Trust Issues
35:32 The Importance of Being Present
41:28 Insights on Long-Term Relationships
43:29 Advice for Daters
45:02 The Realities of Modern Dating
49:52 The Struggles of Relationships Today
56:59 The Impact of Social Media
1:00:52 Celebrating Fatherhood
1:01:42 Final Thoughts on the Episode
270 - What If You Let It All Go? with Samia Burton
2025/06/09
In this episode, I welcome back Samia—the vibrant creator behind Sexual Essentials, Not Just Another Sex Podcast, and The Art Exhibit—for an honest, raw, and refreshing conversation about reinvention, resilience, and redefining success. Known for her bold takes and fearless transparency, Samia returns in a new light as The Bankrupt Millionaire, sharing the powerful story of what it means to lose everything—and gain yourself.
We also discuss:
💸 Why she walked away from successful platforms and content creation
🧠 The mental toll of pretending everything's fine when it's not
🔥 What "Bankrupt Millionaire" really means—and how joy became the goal
📉 The myth of success and why transparency is a revolutionary act
Samia gets real about navigating the messy middle—the part no one talks about—and offers encouragement for anyone questioning their next step. This episode is for the folks at a crossroads, for those who feel like they're starting over (again), and for anyone learning to trust themselves in the process.
Follow Samia here:
📌 Instagram: @_thebankruptmillionaire
🔗 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/SamiaBurton
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Chapters 0:20 Welcome Back, Samaya
9:10 Transformation and Resilience
19:43 Community and Connection
30:28 The Shift in Identity
42:32 Learning from the Past
56:30 Embracing the Unknown
1:07:00 The Journey Ahead
REPLAY - From $1Million in Debt to Millionaire with Naseema McElroy
2025/06/02
We're hitting replay on one of the most jaw-dropping and inspiring conversations we've had on the podcast.
In this episode, I'm joined by Naseema McElroy—nurse, mom, money coach, and the powerhouse behind Financially Intentional. We dive deep into her incredible story of paying off over $1 MILLION in debt in under 3 years (yes, you read that right), and how that financial freedom unlocked a new purpose: helping others—especially Black women—build lasting wealth and take control of their money story.
We also discuss:
💰 What it really looks like to pay off 7 figures of debt
🧠 Why mindset is the biggest barrier to wealth building
💸 Practical steps to stop surviving and start thriving financially
👩🏾⚕️ Navigating money as a working mom and healthcare professional
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Janise_ 2025/03/25
Dope!!
I’ve been a listener since 2021!! I love, love, love the energy that Boonie brings to each and every episode!!!! The discord chats are great also!! Wh...
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Keep it up
I’ve always loved your podcast. Very informative and funny.
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Engaging and thought-provoking
An exploration into the journey of what’s taboo versus what’s reality in our new age and the curiosity to dispel it all, diving into what makes people...
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Five Stars for sure
I came across this podcast years ago while tuning into the BNA episode. Just recently cans across it again and I’m loving all the content. Perfect way...
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Ratchetness in a way that only Boonie can bring it. I'm here for it all!
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It’s Boonie For Me!
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Thanks Coworker
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