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Over the history of this podcast there are two people who have probably influenced the way I think more than anyone else: Howard Marks and Michael Mauboussin. For this special episode, I went back through my conversations with both of them and brought together the sections I continue to learn from. They were recorded separately, but the ideas speak to each other in a way that becomes especially powerful when you hear them together. Howard Marks on standing apart from the herd, why "it's not what you buy, it's what you pay," the decision he's proudest of (deploying $7B during the 2008 crisis), and the most important thing in life outside of investing. Michael Mauboussin hita on the discipline of clear thinking, why behavioral mistakes are the most durable source of edge, the decision journal Daniel Kahneman told him to keep, and how his career was launched by a trash can. Watch or read the transcript HERE About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to a small number of founders, CEOs and investors, working with them over long periods of time as they navigate consequential decisions across business and life. He is also the host of What Got You There, where he has spent more than a decade studying how exceptional people think, make decisions, develop their craft and live. Learn more about Sean → SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com

We tend to think of ability as something contained within the person. But the same trait can become extraordinarily valuable in one environment and almost useless in another. Patience. Obsession. Aggression. Curiosity. Judgment. Their value changes depending on the game, the incentives, the people around you, the time horizon, and the structure you're operating inside. In this episode, I explore an idea I've been thinking about as Environmental Leverage. Warren Buffett's patience becomes far more powerful because of the structure around him. A talented athlete can look ordinary in the wrong system. Great people inside badly designed organizations can spend more of their ability navigating the organization than doing great work. Which raises a different kind of question. What conditions would make the best parts of me become much more valuable? Your position changes your ability. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to a small number of founders, CEOs and investors, working with them over long periods of time as they navigate consequential decisions across business and life. He is also the host of What Got You There, where he has spent more than a decade studying how exceptional people think, make decisions, develop their craft and live. Learn more about Sean → SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com 00:00:00 The Lever and the Place to Stand 00:01:00 Environmental Leverage 00:02:40 Why Buffett's Patience Works 00:5:00 The Terrain Changes the Trait 00:8:00 Nature–Game Fit 00:11:00 Leading Teams

Robert Hagstrom is one of the most thoughtful multidisciplinary investors and writers of this generation. He is the author of seven investment books, including The Warren Buffett Way, and is the Chief Investment Officer at Equity Compass Investment Management and senior portfolio manager of its Global Leaders Portfolio. In this conversation, Robert explains why investing is the last liberal art and how ideas from philosophy, psychology, biology and literature can create an advantage in markets. We explore how Wittgenstein helped Bill Miller recognize Amazon's true business model, why great investments underperform more often than most people realize, the difference between conviction and stubbornness and how Robert rebuilt after the devastating experience of the global financial crisis. Robert also shares his approach to reading, portfolio concentration, return on invested capital, holding multibaggers and distinguishing between investments that are easy, impossible or simply too difficult to understand. This is an episode about investing, but even more than that, it is about how to think. Topics include: Buffett, Munger and Bill Miller Multidisciplinary thinking and mental models The Amazon IPO Investor psychology and self-reliance Holding great businesses through drawdowns Concentrated portfolios Reading to become wiser The changing structure of financial markets Learn more about Robert Hagstrom and his work at Equity Compass. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. For more from Sean, visit SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com. This conversation is for educational purposes and should not be considered personalized investment advice.

Eight years ago, I had Boyd Varty on the podcast for the first time. At the time, I knew I resonated with his work. But I don't think I fully understood the role it would go on to play in my life. Since then, Boyd's book The Lion Tracker's Guide to Life has become one of those rare books I return to again and again. It's one I've gifted countless times. The first time I read it, I remember feeling like something in me both softened and intensified at the same time. That is hard to explain, but I think anyone who has encountered Boyd's work in the right moment knows exactly what I mean. In this episode, Boyd and I talk about what has changed in his life over the last eight years, the cultivation of presence, the practice of returning to center, and what it means to build a life that is both intentional and fluid. One of the central questions we explored is: How do you learn to trust your inner guide? And right now you can sign up for Boyd's Masterclass to explore learning to trust your inner guide - https://boydvarty.com/course-listing/track-your-life-masterclass About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 In this episode, Boyd and I explore: What has changed in Boyd's approach to life over the last eight years The embodied state of awareness and presence How to cultivate deeper self-trust Goethe's line: "As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live" Building a life architecture rooted in listening and fluidity Josh Waitzkin's idea of "form to leave form" Why inner work is a lifelong practice The importance of returning to center What supports you when nothing external supports you The meaning of mastery Why being yourself in any situation is so difficult and so powerful The wisdom of letting go Fatherhood, maturity, and the healthy masculine How younger unconscious patterns show up in adult relationships Making the unconscious conscious Tracking recurring patterns and upper-limit dynamics Finding what truly matters David Whyte's "conversational nature of reality" Why being fully yourself gives others permission to do the same

Chris Begg is the founder and CIO of East Coast Asset Management and an Adjunct Associate Professor at Columbia Business School, where he teaches Security Analysis in Ben Graham's seat. This is one of the most original and wide-ranging conversations I've had on this podcast. Read the full written distillation: whatgotyouthere.com/the-distillation-of-chris-begg In this conversation we go deep on graph theory as a general principle for identifying the greatest compounders of the next 30 years, a word Chris coined called "Compressence" (compressing something to its essence), the simplicity on the other side of complexity, how Chris and his team built an AI analyst called Faraday in six weeks, his framework for navigating clouds of uncertainty, Value 3.0 and where the frontier of value investing is heading, the danger of putting circles around things you think you understand, three-month immersive deep dives as a learning method, right brain and left brain integration through the work of Ian McGilchrist, Lila and the Sanskrit concept of eternal play, how Chris designs his life around freedom and spaciousness, the hare over the wave and what Egyptian hieroglyphs taught him about renewal, why the best investors are also artists, and why duration is a design principle. Chris also discusses David Whyte and the pilgrim's path and how that inspires his new music project he wrote inspired by the Camino de Santiago. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 YouTube X Instagram  My Books Masterpiece In Progress: A Daily Guide to a Life Well Crafted & Insights of the Ages: Quotes for a Life Well Crafted! Checkout what people are saying about the book: "Intensely positive and upbeat, Sean DeLaney crafts a master class in personal development. This book is about the art of AMPing up your life." – Frank Slootman, CEO, Snowflake and author of Amp It Up "The brilliance of Masterpiece in Progress is its ability to impact us all and in all aspects of our lives, whether you're an athlete, entrepreneur, author, aspiring executive, parent, friend, coach or mentor. Sean's insights light your path as he delves deep, providing not just inspiration but tangible tools to help you craft the life you envision. A masterclass in self-growth and a must read." – Scott O'Neil, CEO, Merlin Entertainments and former CEO of Philadelphia 76ers and New Jersey Devils "Operating in some of the world's most challenging environments, I've seen firsthand the importance of grit, resilience, and relentless pursuit of excellence. Masterpiece in Progress embodies these principles, offering a roadmap to all who aim to conquer their personal and professional battles."— Michael Burns, US Navy SEAL (Retired), Bronze Star Medal with Valor "Sean's beautiful, thoughtful writing reminds you what's important and calls your attention to a perspective that lifts your spirit each day. Highly recommended." – Derek Sivers, author, sive.rs

On this episode of Beneath the Surface, Sean DeLaney shares the foundational lessons he hopes his kids absorb not from what he says, but from how he lives every day. For parents who want to live intentionally, this episode shows how to model an authentic path, love with full attention, and give kids both roots and wings. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 Stay Connected with Sean 🌐 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com 📚 Get my latest books, tools & coaching SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com 📩 Reach out or connect with me directly [email protected] If this resonates, share it with a friend who's walking a similar path. TikTok YouTube Twitter Instagram  I am Sean DeLaney, the executive performance coach with over a decade of experience working with CEOs, executives, and leadership teams, guiding them beyond traditional definitions of success. Interested in working together? https://seandelaneycoaching.com I exclusively work with high-achieving CEOs, executives, and professional athletes who, even at the height of their careers, continue to explore deeper avenues of potential. While these driven individuals aspire for elevated professional heights, they equally crave profound personal fulfillment and a distinct path to infuse their lives with more clarity, direction and purpose. My Books Masterpiece In Progress: A Daily Guide to a Life Well Crafted & Insights of the Ages: Quotes for a Life Well Crafted!

In this soul-stirring episode of Beneath the Surface, Sean DeLaney invites you into a deeper conversation about something every human must face, suffering. Unlike most self-help content that offers quick fixes or tips to "overcome" pain, this episode cuts through the noise. It won't give you shortcuts. Instead, it guides you into a new, more powerful relationship with suffering. Drawing from the wisdom of Carl Jung, Viktor Frankl, Rainer Maria Rilke, James Hollis, and more, this episode breaks down three types of suffering: Inevitable Suffering – the necessary pain of being human Destructive Suffering – the pain we perpetuate by avoiding what's real Sacred Suffering – the pain that initiates transformation You'll learn why most people unknowingly amplify their suffering by resisting what must be felt, and how shifting that resistance into curiosity can completely change the trajectory of your life. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 🌐 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com 📚 Get my latest books, tools & coaching SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com 📩 Reach out or connect with me directly [email protected] If this resonates, share it with a friend who's walking a similar path. TikTok YouTube Twitter Instagram  I am Sean DeLaney, the executive performance coach with over a decade of experience working with CEOs, executives, and leadership teams, guiding them beyond traditional definitions of success. Interested in working together? https://seandelaneycoaching.com

In a world that tells us to measure our worth by what we do, it's easy to confuse our roles, titles, and achievements for who we are. But what happens when the job changes, the title disappears, or the success fades? Who are you beneath all of that? In this episode, we go beneath the surface to explore the truth about identity—why tying your self-worth to external success creates a fragile life, and how to build an identity rooted in values, presence, and essence.  In This Episode, You'll Discover: Why success-based identity creates burnout and emotional instability How labels, even positive ones, limit your growth and potential How to create a personal code that grounds you in who you truly are About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23

We live in a world desperate to be seen, but rarely do we slow down enough to truly see one another. In this soul-stirring episode, Sean DeLaney explores the quiet, transformative power of presence, attention, and attunement. You'll discover that seeing others isn't just a relational skill, it's a transformative act. One that can heal, connect, elevate, and awaken the humanity in us all. We'll explore: Why presence is the most profound form of recognition The difference between transactional attention and soulful seeing Cultural and spiritual practices like "Sawubona" and "Namaste" that honor the sacredness of others How to become an illuminator, not a diminisher, in people's lives What happens when we witness others into their own becoming You'll hear quotes and insights from Simone Weil, Maria Popova, David Brooks, Peter Kaufman, and more—all pointing to one truth: the quality of your attention is one of the most powerful forces in the world. "Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity." — Simone Weil If you've ever felt unseen, or you're ready to offer others the kind of presence that changes lives, this episode is for you. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com

In this powerful episode, Sean DeLaney goes beneath the surface of what confidence truly is and what it isn't. From earned self-trust to emotional fluency, from identity clarity to the quiet strength of presence, this episode will dismantle the myths you've been sold and rebuild your understanding of real, lasting confidence. We'll explore: Why confidence is contextual, not universal How self-trust—not achievement—is the root of confidence Practices to train confidence like a muscle How to evolve beyond confidence into liberation You'll learn that true confidence isn't loud, it's grounded. It doesn't come from controlling outcomes, it comes from knowing who you are, even when nothing feels certain. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com

Too often, we think of art as something we create outside ourselves. But what if the most meaningful art you'll ever make… is your life? In this episode, Sean DeLaney goes beneath the surface and explores what it means to shift from passive participant to intentional creator and to live not by default, but by design. You'll hear why your thoughts, your presence, your choices, all of it, are brushstrokes on the canvas of your life. And why reclaiming your authorship might be the most courageous and liberating act you can take. We'll explore: Why your life is already your most powerful form of self-expression How to shift from reaction to creation mode The hidden architecture behind living a beautifully crafted life This episode is an invitation to grab the brush and start living as the artist you already are. Because your life isn't just happening to you. It's a reflection of you, a dance between circumstance and choice. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com

This episode is about the impact you make, even when you don't realize you're making one. Every thought. Every word. Every choice. It all sends ripples outward and inward. In this episode, we explore the unseen yet undeniable ripple effects of our lives. You'll learn: Why the smallest moments often carry the deepest impact The powerful truth that your presence speaks louder than your words Why every action not only ripples outward—but inward, shaping your identity How to become a more conscious source of light, healing, and resonance in a noisy world This isn't about striving to be perfect. It's about becoming more aware—of the legacy you leave behind in every room, every moment, every interaction. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com

So many of us live with the illusion that there's a final moment of arrival—a place where the striving stops, the doubt fades, and we finally become enough. But what if that place doesn't exist? In this episode of Beneath the Surface, we're unraveling the myth of arrival. We explore the subtle ways this illusion robs us of presence, poisons our progress, and keeps us from experiencing the richness of what's already here. You'll hear: Why chasing "someday" slowly erodes your joy and self-trust How to shift from a destination-based life to one rooted in presence and being What it means to live from wholeness, not for it This isn't just a mindset shift, it's a new approach to life.  Because your life isn't a finish line to cross. It's a living expression to enjoy. There is no arrival. And that's the gift. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com

Your life expands with every act of courage.  In this episode of Beneath the Surface, we explore one of the most essential, misunderstood, and transformational inner capacities: courage. We're not talking about the kind of courage that looks heroic or loud. We're talking about the kind that shows up in unseen moments. The courage to tell the truth. To make a hard change. To say "I love you" first.  We'll explore: Why courage requires fear—and why that's exactly the point How your most courageous acts might never be visible to anyone but you What it means to live with your heart on the line, and why it's the only way to feel fully alive How a single moment of truth can shift the entire trajectory of your life Why real growth always invites you into the unknown, not away from it This episode is for anyone who's been hiding in safety while craving aliveness. For those ready to stop performing and start participating in life with their whole being. Because every time you choose courage over comfort, life expands. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com

In this episode of Beneath the Surface, we explore the foundational force that sits quietly beneath every transformation: awareness. Without it, we're just rearranging surface symptoms and never addressing the root. You'll hear about: Why awareness is the beginning of every habit, relationship, pattern, and belief shift The difference between mental recognition and embodied awareness How unconscious emotional loops control your life until you illuminate them This isn't an episode of answers. It's an invitation to stop running, pause, and see. Because you cannot change what you cannot see. But once you do see it… You can never unsee it. And from that moment on, your life begins to shift. About Sean DeLaney Sean DeLaney is a private advisor to founders, CEOs, and investors, an author, and the host of What Got You There. Website: https://SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sean-delaney-00909190/ X: https://x.com/SeanDeLaney23 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com