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You Can Handle Anything with Shira Gura

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Rating
★★★★★
4.8
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78 reviews
This podcast has
418 episodes
Language
English
Date created
2017/05/10
Latest episode
2026/01/29
Average duration
9 min.
Release period
22 days

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You know that moment when someone pushes your buttons and you just... snap? Or maybe you freeze when you want to speak up, or maybe you shut down completely. Either way, you regret your reaction, spend days replaying it, and then beat yourself up for how you handled it? This is what I call getting stuck in the Reactivity Loop. On this podcast, I share real stories that show you how to break that loop - so you can show up as the person you want to be, even in your hardest moments. I'm Shira Gura, and this is You Can Handle Anything. www.shiragura.com

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How to Handle When Things Fall Apart
2026/01/29
Not every challenge we face involves other people pushing our buttons.  Sometimes things just fall apart - like when technical issues derailed my 3-day challenge that over 1,000 people signed up for. In this episode, I share how I used The unSTUCK Method multiple times to move through frustration and disappointment, and how it helped me respond with calm, clarity, and creative solutions instead of breaking down. This is a reminder that this method works for ANY difficult situation you face - whether it's with others, yourself, or just life throwing you curveballs. Get started here: www.shiragura.com
413: How to Handle Disappointment in Someone Else's Behavior (When It Has Nothing to Do With You)
2026/01/08
Ever watched someone else mess up and felt the urge to jump in and fix it - even though it had nothing to do with you? In this episode, I share a real story about my husband being late and disappointing our son, and how I almost made their conflict MY problem. You'll hear exactly how I used the unSTUCK Method in real-time to stay out of the Reactivity Loop and respond in a way I was proud of - without the struggle. If you've ever felt responsible for fixing other people's mistakes or managing their relationships, this one's for you. To learn more: www.shiragura.com
How to Handle Failure Without Getting Stuck in Shame
2026/01/01
In this episode, I share a recent failure I experienced - one that left me feeling embarrassed, guilty, and stuck in a cycle of shame. I talk about what happened when I published my book "A Consideration a Day," realized it wasn't what I wanted it to be, and then caught myself avoiding this very podcast for weeks because I didn't want to admit my mistake. But here's what changed everything: I walked myself through The unSTUCK Method and chose to get unstuck from the Reactivity Loop instead of staying stuck in it. If you've ever failed at something and found yourself spiraling into negative self-talk, hiding, or taking on guilt that doesn't serve you - this episode is for you. Listen to hear how I moved from stuck to unstuck, and how you can too. Sign up for the upcoming 3-Day Challenge: www.shiragura.com
411: How to Handle Someone Else's Mistake
2025/12/11
Have you ever been in a situation where things went wrong because someone else was irresponsible? How did you handle that? Tune into this week's episode of the You Can Handle Anything podcast, where I share a story of how I used The unSTUCK Method to handle such a situation—transforming frustration over a scheduling error into a moment of grace and self-control. To learn more, visit: www.shiragura.com
When a Little Thing Becomes a Big Deal
2025/12/04
In this episode, I share a real-life story about how a small disagreement with my husband over moving the car turned into a surprisingly emotional moment. What could have easily led to resentment or conflict became an opportunity to pause, reflect, and get unSTUCK using the method I teach. You'll hear how a simple voice message shifted the dynamic and created space for understanding, connection, and repair. This story is a powerful reminder that it's not about the car—it's about how we choose to show up when things don't go our way. It's just about 10 minutes—perfect for a quick reset and real-life inspiration. www.shiragura.com
Taking a Deliberate Pause
2025/07/29
While I'm on vacation visiting my family, I will be taking a deliberate pause from the podcast. I look forward to returning in September.
How to Handle the Unexpected
2025/07/24
This week's episode is about one of my students who was traveling to a retreat I was leading when her train hit someone and all service stopped, leaving her stranded hours away while everyone else was gathering for dinner. Instead of panicking or falling apart, she used the tools we practice to stay calm and handle each unexpected challenge with grace. Listen to her incredible story of transformation - and how she chose to show up as her best self in a completely overwhelming situation. www.shiragura.com
Consider Learning from Experience
2025/07/17
I'm about to lead a 3-day challenge called "React Less, Feel Better" - and yesterday I completely lost it with my kid over a car incident. Talk about ironic timing! I was shocked by my own reaction, but here's what I learned about why we react differently to new situations versus familiar triggers. And here's why your "failures" are actually learning opportunities. Click here to join the Challenge.
Consider it's not yours to carry
2025/07/10
Ever had someone give you a horrified look that made you instantly feel like a terrible person? That happened to me recently. Listen to how I caught myself mid-spiral and got myself "unstuck" from that situation so that I could feel better and move on. And how you can do the same. Learn more: www.shiragura.com
How to Handle Constructive Criticism
2025/07/03
Have you ever had the experience where someone points out something you are doing wrong? What's your first instinct? Get defensive? Get mad? Shut down? What if you could handle criticism with total grace instead? Listen to how my student Sara turned a potentially awkward moment into pure growth. www.shiragura.com
Consider it's not your business
2025/06/26
In this episode, I share a real-life story from just last night that perfectly demonstrates The unSTUCK Method in action. When my husband and daughter got into an unnecessary argument right in front of me, I had a choice: jump in and "fix" it like I used to (which always led to bigger fights), or use what I teach. I'll walk you through exactly how I noticed my own stuck emotions, paused instead of reacting, and completely avoided the drama that would have followed. This is what's possible when you transform those tiny moments – building not just better relationships, but your own self-trust and resilience. Plus, I'll share the one question that might change everything in your relationships today. To learn more, head over to: www.shiragura.com
Emotional Eating
2025/06/19
This week, I'm sharing a personal story—and two from my students—about breaking the pattern of emotional eating, one moment at a time. Inside my You Can Handle Anything program, we've been exploring how emotional habits form and how even small shifts can create powerful change. You'll hear how awareness in the moment opens the door to choice, and how using The unSTUCK Method can help you interrupt old patterns and choose differently. It's just about 10 minutes—perfect for a mindful moment between meals or anytime you need a reset. www.shiragura.com
Consider it doesn't matter
2025/06/12
In this light and relatable episode, I share a real-life story about a board game night gone sideways—and how one small comment could have easily spiraled into conflict. Instead, I used The unSTUCK Method to pause, shift perspective, and remind myself what really matters. It's a simple story with a powerful message: not everything needs to turn into drama. Sometimes, peace comes from choosing not to be right. It's a short episode—perfect for a short reset or a mindful moment in your day. Learn more by heading over to www.shiragura.com
Taking a Deliberate Pause
2025/05/28
In this special return episode, I share why I took a 3-month pause from the podcast—after nearly 8 years of showing up weekly—and what that deliberate break revealed. We explore the power of stopping as the first essential step toward real change, and why most of us skip it without realizing. I open up about how this pause helped me gain clarity, make meaningful updates to my work, and align more deeply with how I want to serve you. Tune in to hear what's new, what's coming, and why learning to pause might be the most powerful thing you can do for yourself. www.shiragura.com
400: April 1, 2025
2025/04/01
I've been "stuck" wondering what to do to celebrate the 400th episode of this podcast. I'm glad I got unstuck. Enjoy.

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4.8 out of 5
78 reviews
★★★★★
lkwnsf 2021/02/09
A good stop & reflect podcast
I just recently found this podcast & I’m really enjoying the topics & style that Shira discusses. She makes me stop & reflect on the things in my head...
★★★★★
Krista Luzio 2020/09/21
Small steps lead to a positive big picture outlook.
I recommend this podcast for anyone going through a challenging phase and wanting to make changes - big or small - in their life or perspective. Liste...
★★★★★
alisal18 2020/09/08
How Do You Want To Show Up Each Day?
I started listening to Shira’s podcasts about 2 years ago. She shares her own stories using her method of Living Deliberately that truly resonate with...
★★★★★
WVyogi 2020/05/23
Life changing tools and teacher
Shira’s ability to create, share and teach emotional well-being tools is not only one of her gifts, but it is a gift to us all. Shira has gifted me ...
★★★★★
hadar5 2020/05/19
On Falling Of Track
I am a weekly listener and a Living, Deliberately Certified Coach. This week's podcast knocked it out of the park! It's okay to fall off track. There...
★★★★★
CathiColas 2020/05/11
On Getting From Here to There 157
Awesome podcast that really forced me to think about decisions I made in the past and how to present for the ones I am making now. Shira has a way of...
★★★★★
itsjessicann 2019/10/19
Inspiring and revelatory
I love how Shira uses symbolism, movies and quotes to reveal the humanity at our core. Her recent episode deconstructing the Wizard of Oz beams with m...
★★★★★
Leona vdM 2019/07/23
Consider Doing the Right Thing - and Tip Toe Through the Tulips
Just needed to share that I listened to your podcast today and have to tell you that I played the ukulele in middle school. Your podcast brought back ...
★★★★★
lavdm 2019/06/20
Podcast 111
Thanks, Shira, for another great episode and clearly explaining how getting unSTUCK is "all about me." That normally sounds like an egocentric attitud...
★★★★★
Awesomee 231 2019/04/09
Great podcast
I first heard you on Jews You Should Know and was very taken with you method and thought process. I’ve been listening to your episodes and anecdotes a...
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