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A house can be full of wonderful memories and still no longer make sense for your finances, lifestyle, or future. But deciding to leave isn't exactly easy, especially after a major life change. In this episode, Stacy sits down with real estate expert Alexandra Gupta to talk about the emotional and financial sides of staying, selling, downsizing, or renting. From the true cost of homeownership to the pressure of timing the market, they unpack how to make a housing decision that fits the life you want to live now, not just the one you've always known. You'll hear them discuss: Why the home that once felt perfect might no longer fit your lifestyle, budget, or priorities The costs of maintaining a home that go beyond money, including repairs, cleaning, and the time and energy it takes to keep everything running How walkability, social connections, convenience, and feeling safe in your neighborhood can make a huge difference in your quality of life The differences between condos, co-ops, townhouses, and single-family homes, and how to figure out which setup works best for you The often-overlooked expenses of buying and selling, from closing costs and taxes to staging, commissions, and moving Why pricing your home realistically from the start can matter more than waiting for the perfect season to sell Whether it makes sense to wait for mortgage rates to drop, buy at today's rates, or rent while you figure out your next move Resources Alexandra Gupta on Website | Corcoran | LinkedIn | Email: [email protected] | Mobile: (347) 683-4433 | Facebook | Blog | Newsletter Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Who’s going to care for you when you’ve spent years caring for everyone else? Long-term care is one of those topics that’s easy to put off until you're left with no easy choices. In this episode, Stacy talks with long-term care specialist Denise Kligman about what care can really cost, what Medicare doesn’t cover, how insurance options have changed, and why planning early can give you and your family a lot more breathing room when life takes an unexpected turn. You’ll hear them discuss: Why Medicare and traditional health insurance generally don’t cover the day-to-day custodial care many people eventually need How the cost of home care, assisted living, and nursing home care can quickly put serious pressure on a family’s finances Why long-term care planning can be especially important for women, who are often both caregivers and more likely to need care themselves later on How traditional long-term care insurance compares with newer hybrid policies that combine long-term care benefits with life insurance When it may make sense to start looking at coverage and why your age and health can make such a big difference What actually triggers a long-term care insurance claim, including activities of daily living, cognitive impairment, and elimination periods Why having conversations about where you want to receive care, who you want involved, and how it will be paid for matters even if insurance isn’t part of your plan Resources Denise Kligman on Owens Group | LinkedIn | Email: [email protected] | Phone: 201-408-3501 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email "Because I Love You" - A Legacy Companion FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Scammers don’t need you to be careless. They just need you to be rushed, distracted, lonely, or convinced that someone you trust needs help right now. In this episode, Stacy sits down with Donna Olah-Reiken to unpack how today’s scams are becoming harder to spot, from AI voice cloning and hacked emails to romance fraud, fake investments, and financial abuse by people close to you. They also share practical ways to slow things down, verify what’s real, and build a trusted circle that can help protect you and your money. You’ll hear them discuss: How AI voice cloning is making emergency calls from “family members” frighteningly convincing Why urgency, fear, and emotional pressure are some of the biggest tools scammers use How hacked emails, fake meeting links, QR codes, and software downloads can open the door to fraud Why romance scams and fake investment platforms often build trust slowly before asking for larger amounts of money The financial red flags that can signal abuse, including unusual purchases, cash withdrawals, new accounts, and changes in spending patterns Why caregivers, family members, and other trusted people can sometimes be the source of financial exploitation Simple ways to protect yourself, including calling trusted numbers directly, using a family safe word, reviewing transactions regularly, and creating a circle of people you trust Resources Donna Olah-Reiken on Preferred Business Solutions | Preferred Business Management Solutions | LinkedIn | Email: [email protected] Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

How do you keep showing up for someone you love when grief has already started, and the bills, taxes, legal decisions, and everyday money stuff suddenly land on your shoulders too? Suzy McNamara joins Stacy for a conversation about caring for her husband through early-onset Alzheimer’s, losing both her husband and sister in the same year, and finding her footing again through grief. They talk about the financial wake-up call that came with caregiving, why both partners need to understand the household finances, and how small wins can slowly bring back a sense of control. You’ll hear them discuss: How anticipatory grief can begin long before someone dies, especially when illness slowly changes the person you love What happened when Suzy realized her husband could no longer manage the finances and how much had already started slipping through the cracks Why leaving all the money decisions to one partner can create a huge amount of stress when illness, incapacity, or loss enters the picture How getting help from financial professionals, friends, and a trusted support team helped Suzy rebuild confidence one problem at a time Why shame and embarrassment around money can keep people stuck, and the power of simply asking, “What can I solve today?” The value of regular financial check-ins with your partner so both of you understand the bills, savings, debt, taxes, accounts, and passwords How learning to manage money became one area Suzy could actually control during a time when so much else felt completely out of her hands Resources Suzy McNamara on Website | "The Silkworm, The Magician and The Sister Tree" Book | LinkedIn Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

You can have the will, the beneficiaries, the trust, and still get blindsided when someone dies. Bank accounts can freeze, automatic payments can stop, and suddenly the grieving person is also trying to keep the financial wheels turning. Stacy sits down with accountant Evan Gilder to unpack the practical money issues families often don’t hear about during estate planning, from frozen accounts and probate delays to beneficiary mistakes and unclaimed funds. You'll hear them discuss: Why individual bank accounts may be frozen after someone dies, and how that can disrupt mortgage payments, utilities, taxes, and other everyday expenses How joint accounts can make things easier, plus some of the complications families may still run into when accounts and assets are held at the same institution What happens when a power of attorney ends at death and why access to money can become much more complicated than families expect Ways families may handle essential expenses while waiting for probate or an estate account to be established and why keeping good records matters Why retirement account beneficiaries deserve regular checkups, especially after divorce, death, or other major family changes How unclaimed funds end up with the state, where to look for money tied to old addresses or previous states of residence, and why it’s worth doing the search yourself How thoughtful planning before a crisis can help families manage the paperwork, financial decisions, and unexpected problems that come with caring for someone and settling their affairs Resources Evan Gilder on Redlig Financial Services | LinkedIn | Email: [email protected] | Phone: 646-827-3600 New York State Unclaimed Funds - https://www.osc.ny.gov/unclaimed-funds Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

How do you honor a loved one’s wish to stay at home while also making sure they are safe, supported, and able to thrive? In this episode, Stacy sits down with gerontologist and care manager Rebecca Lippel to unpack the emotional, practical, and financial realities of caring for an aging family member. They talk about the many care options available, the hidden costs families often overlook, and why the right plan may need to change over time. Rebecca also shares a compassionate approach to difficult care conversations that protects dignity, autonomy, and family relationships. You’ll hear them discuss: How to determine whether staying at home is still realistic, safe, and financially sustainable The differences between companionship, part-time home care, live-in support, and overnight care Why finding the right caregiver is about personality and trust, not just qualifications The additional costs families often miss, including groceries, housekeeping, transportation, and medical appointment support What Medicare, Medicaid, health insurance, and long-term care insurance may, or may not, cover When assisted living, memory care, or skilled nursing may offer more than in-home care How to approach difficult conversations without taking away your loved one’s dignity, control, or sense of independence Resources Rebecca Lippel on LiveWell Care Management | LinkedIn | Phone: 917-923-1463 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Why are so many capable, successful women still hesitant to call themselves investors? In this conversation with Stacy, Samina Bari shares how women can move beyond saving and budgeting, take greater ownership of their money, and start building wealth with confidence. She also opens up about losing her husband suddenly and how that experience exposed a major gap in the support available during life-changing transitions. You’ll hear them discuss: Why women are often encouraged to save and budget, but not taught to invest How starting small can make investing feel less intimidating and help build confidence over time The importance of investing in companies, causes, and ideas that reflect your personal values Why women should stay involved in financial decisions, even when working with a financial advisor How Samina’s experience after her husband’s sudden death revealed the lack of clear, compassionate support for life administration Why checklists alone often fall short when someone is dealing with grief, trauma, or overwhelm How Farewell uses emotionally adaptive AI to guide individuals and families through major life transitions Resources Samina Bari on Personal Website | With Farewell | LinkedIn | Email Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com "Because I love you" - A legacy companion Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Estate planning isn't just about legal documents. It's also the conversations families avoid until it's too late. From second marriages and blended families to unequal inheritances and caregiver children, the choices you make today can shape your family's relationships for years to come. Stacy Francis sits down with estate planning attorney Stella King to unpack the emotional side of estate planning and why clear communication can be just as important as a well-written will. You'll hear them discuss: Why estate planning should grow and change as your family, finances, and relationships evolve over time. How blended families and second marriages create unique planning challenges, and ways to protect both a surviving spouse and children from prior relationships. Why leaving an inheritance equally isn't always the fairest option, especially when one child has taken on the role of caregiver. The pros and cons of choosing a family member, friend, professional, or corporate trustee to manage your trust. Why talking openly with your family about your estate plan can prevent misunderstandings, resentment, and painful surprises later. The common mistakes people make by waiting too long to update wills, trusts, beneficiary designations, powers of attorney, and health care documents. How thoughtful planning is about passing on your intentions, values, and peace of mind. Resources Stella King on ESS Law Firm | Email - [email protected] | LinkedIn Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Your phone knows where you’ve been, who you’ve talked to, what you’ve searched for, and sometimes even more than you realize. So how much of your digital life could someone else see if they had access? In this eye-opening conversation, Stacy sits down with digital forensic investigator Corey Davis to discuss cybercrime, hidden digital evidence, cryptocurrency, and the surprising ways people can access personal information. Corey shares real-world examples from his years in law enforcement and digital investigations, along with practical steps everyone can take to better protect themselves and their finances. You'll hear them discuss: How phones, computers, and cloud accounts can reveal far more about your life than most people realize The common ways ex-spouses and bad actors gain access to emails, messages, location data, and private accounts Why changing passwords and reviewing account settings should be a priority during major life transitions How digital forensic investigations can help uncover hidden financial accounts, cryptocurrency assets, and important records The challenges of locating crypto wallets and private keys after the death of a spouse or loved one What digital investigators look for when someone suspects they are being monitored or tracked online Why education, strong passwords, multi-factor authentication, and awareness remain the best defenses against cybercrime Resources Corey Davis on Cyrtofec | Email: [email protected] | LinkedIn | Phone: 860-880-2580 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Marriage comes with a lot of assumptions. Your spouse will inherit everything. They can make decisions for you if something happens. The house automatically stays in the family. Sounds straightforward, right? Not so fast. In this episode, Stacy sits down with estate planning attorney Lauren Klein to unpack six of the biggest legal myths that catch families, widows, and even financially savvy couples off guard. From beneficiary designations that override your will to retirement accounts, powers of attorney, blended family complications, and inheritance planning, this conversation highlights why good intentions alone aren't enough. You'll hear them discuss: Why being married doesn't automatically guarantee your spouse will inherit your assets, and how beneficiary designations can override even the most carefully drafted estate plan The critical role powers of attorney and healthcare directives play, and why spouses often can't make financial or medical decisions without the proper documents in place Common mistakes widows make with retirement accounts, Social Security benefits, and outdated beneficiary forms that can lead to unnecessary delays, costs, and lost opportunities How the way your home is titled can dramatically impact what happens after a spouse passes away, especially in blended family situations Real-life examples of inheritance disputes that tore families apart, and the planning strategies that could have prevented them Why trusts aren't just for the ultra-wealthy and how they can help protect children from divorce, lawsuits, creditors, and poor financial decisions A surprisingly creative estate planning strategy that encourages children to build successful careers while still preserving family wealth for future generations Resources Lauren Klein on Flourish Law Group | Flourish Law Group LinkedIn | Flourish Law Group Instagram | Lauren Klein on Facebook | Lauren Klein on Instagram | Lauren Klein on LinkedIn Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com ''Because I love you'' - Legacy Planning Companion - Free Downloadable Guide Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Selling a home can bring up way more than numbers and paperwork. Stacy and real estate expert Melissa Rubenstein unpack the financial realities and emotional side of buying, selling, downsizing, and renting - especially during major life changes like widowhood, divorce, or starting over somewhere new. You’ll hear them discuss: Why timing your life matters more than trying to time the real estate market How today’s interest rates are changing the way people buy, sell, and downsize The hidden costs behind selling a home and why sale price doesn’t equal profit Why renting can sometimes be the smartest financial move, even if people say it’s “throwing money away” What actually helps buyers compete in a competitive market besides offering cash Simple ways to prepare and stage a home without overspending on renovations How to choose a real estate agent who will guide you honestly instead of just telling you what you want to hear Resources Melissa Rubenstein on the Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | The Rubenstein Property Group | Email: [email protected] | Office: 201-962-9552 | Mobile: 646-872-5912 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Losing a spouse is already life-altering. Losing a spouse in the line of duty brings an entirely different level of grief, pressure, and financial complexity that most people never fully understand. In this episode, Stacy Francis talks with Air Force veteran, widower, financial therapist, and fee-only advisor Daniel Kopp about the unique challenges Gold Star spouses face after loss. Daniel breaks down the financial benefits available to surviving military families, the critical deadlines many people miss, and the emotional side of suddenly having to take over every financial decision while grieving. You’ll hear them discuss: What it means to be a Gold Star spouse and the unique financial planning issues military widows face The key survivor benefits available through the military and VA, including SBP, DIC, Social Security, and life insurance payouts The little-known HEART Act strategy that may allow surviving spouses to move up to $600,000 into a Roth IRA How the Fry Scholarship and Chapter 35 benefits can help spouses and children receive college education support Why grief and financial anxiety are so deeply connected after losing a partner How financial therapy helps widows rebuild confidence and feel more in control of their financial future The importance of finding support systems and communities that truly understand military loss Resources Daniel Kopp on Wise Stewartship Financial Planning | Email: [email protected] | Widow Life & Money Podcast | LinkedIn Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

A business can be one of the most meaningful things you build in your lifetime. But without the right plan, it can also become one of the most complicated things your family has to untangle. In this episode, Stacy sits down with estate planning attorney Katya Sverdlov to talk about the real-life decisions business owners need to make before a crisis hits. From buy-sell agreements and key person insurance to prenups, trusts, and simply knowing who can access the bank accounts. This conversation is all about protecting your business, your family, your employees, and the legacy you’ve worked so hard to create. You’ll hear them discuss: Why estate planning for business owners has to go beyond personal wills, trusts, and family assets The simple first step every entrepreneur can take: making a clear list of accounts, policies, payroll contacts, and key business information How a buy-sell agreement can protect your heirs, your partners, and the future of the business Why life insurance and disability coverage can be essential tools for business continuity How business ownership can create major complications in marriage, divorce, and inheritance planning Why timing matters when it comes to trusts and asset protection The importance of having honest conversations with your family about your wishes before they are left guessing later Resources Katya Sverdlov on Sverdlov Law | Email: [email protected] | LinkedIn | Phone: 212-709-8112 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Nobody wants to think about their own death, but the greatest gift you can give the people you love is making sure they're not left scrambling when you're gone. In this episode, Stacy Francis and Sunaina Mehra get into the practical, often overlooked steps you can take right now to make sure your wishes are documented, your assets are protected, and your family has everything they need. You'll hear them discuss: Why setting up a trust isn't as complicated or expensive as most people think, and why you definitely don't need to be wealthy to have one How to make sure your estate plan actually reflects your wishes in a way that's healthy for whoever's receiving it The Because I Love You legacy planning guide - a free downloadable resource where you can document everything from passwords to health proxies in one place Why this kind of preparation is truly one of the most loving things you can do for your family The importance of not making major life decisions in the immediate aftermath of loss, and how grief affects judgment more than most people realize Where to turn for support - financial advisors, trusted community, and resources like Savvy Ladies and the Financial Help for Widows guide Resources You Need A Budget WebsiteBecause I Love You - A Legacy Planning CompanionLinktr.ee/francisfinancialSavvy Ladies Rebuilding Financial Security After Loss Your Money Story Worksheet Original Event Sunaina Mehra on LinkedIn | Francis Financial Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!

Money can feel overwhelming, especially after loss… but what if the real starting point is your own story, instead of spreadsheets or strategies? In this first part of a powerful live “Money Circle,” Stacy and Sunaina slow everything down and guide you somewhere most financial conversations never go: inward. This episode is all about getting honest with where you’ve been, where you are right now, and what financial security could actually mean for you and your life. You’ll hear them discuss: How your earliest experiences and messages about money quietly shape your decisions today Why your “money story” isn’t fixed and how it continues evolving over time Simple reflection prompts to uncover what’s currently weighing on you financially The value of separating what feels uncertain from what’s already handled (and why that matters more than you think) How to identify the one financial area that would bring the most immediate relief or clarity Why even experienced financial professionals still feel like they have more to do and why that’s completely normal How to start thinking about financial security through intentions, not pressure or quick decisions Resources Your Money Story Worksheet Live Event Sunaina Mehra on LinkedIn | Francis Financial Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!