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This summer we are diving into the Enneagram! In this episode, Micky Scottbey Jones helps us make sense of the Enneagram and how it can help us in our relationships and in our work. In the following nine episodes we will be doing a deep dive into each type! In this episode we also talk about: The Enneagram Institute - RHETI Micky Scottbey Jones What is Enneagram for the People?

A listener asks how to help their queer kids as they continue to hear about sweeping anti-LGBTQ+ legislation. Plus, Matthias and Kristen talk about the commercialization of Pride and other celebrations. Kristen also shares an update from her ketamine therapy. Links + Resources: Bars Over Bottles Solid Intense Conditioner Ethique Eco-Friendly Face Cleansing Bar for Oily to Normal Skin

How do you support a spouse with depression? And why are there so many TV shows about people with personality disorders right now? Plus, Matthias shares his favorite resources for relationship anxiety and Kristen shares some show recommendations! Links + Resources Attachment Style Quiz Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love by Jessica Baum Thais Gibson's YouTube Channel Heidi Priebe's YouTube Channel Under the Banner of Heaven Love on the Spectrum

We are discussing the tragedy in Uvalde, and how to process the feelings of helplessness and despair around gun violence, paired with the shocking discoveries around law enforcement's failures that day. We follow up on our convo from last week around feelings and butterflies, and what to do when you received messages that feelings can't be trusted. In this episode we also talked about: This Cute Amazon Caftan Shower Brush Back Scrubber Body Exfoliator Why deal with razor burn and wasteful disposable razors when you could be getting the best shave of your life with the Athena Club Razor Kit? Athena Club razor blades are surrounded by a water-activated serum with shea butter and hyaluronic acid, so you get a silky smooth shave that actually leaves skin soft and hydrated, not stripped dry. And the blades are spaced out to let hair and shave cream pass through easily, so you don’t have to take a ton of passes over your skin to remove hair. Fewer passes means less irritation to your skin, cutting down on razor burn and ingrown hairs. The Razor Kit is only $9 (with free shipping!) and comes with two blade cartridges, a magnetic hook for shower storage, and your choice of handle color. Get 20% off your first order at AthenaClub.com with promo code selfie. Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com. It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals. Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit – no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System! Somavedic is a device combining Eastern approach to health & wellness with modern-day technology. If you’re concerned with the unwanted influences of electromagnetic radiation and geopathogenic zones, you’ll appreciate Somavedic. Somavedic devices rely on frequency therapies and the healing powers of precious and semi=precious stones and metals to create a natural energy field to harmonize your home. If you’d like to experience

A listener wonders, "what do I do if I feel like my husband isn’t helping equally?" Plus, Matthias and Kristen chat through why butterflies aren't always the most reliable indicator of true love. Links + Resources: Ninja Foodi Pressure Cooker + Air Fryer Sent Away Podcast Fair Play Cards Beyond Shame Book

Kristen and Matthias answer a listener who wonders if it's healthy to make friends with people you're attracted to while in a partnership. Then, they chat about anxiety around national events like the possible repeal of Roe v. Wade. Plus, Kristen shares what happened when she got in a fight with a megachurch pastor. Links + Resources: Philips Norelco OneBlade Life of Beth Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com. It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals. Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit - no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System! Native is doing their part to help our earth with their new one-hundred percent plastic-free and recyclable packaging! Just like all of Native’s other deodorants, their plastic-free deodorant is aluminum and paraben-free, kills odor-causing bacteria, and has twenty-four-hour odor protection to keep you feeling and smelling fresh. With Native choose from ten scents - including their classic Coconut and Vanilla, Sensitive formulas that are formulated without baking soda, and even Unscented! Go to NativeDeo.com/selfie, or use promo code selfie at checkout, and get 20% off your first order. Backblaze makes backing up and accessing your data astonishingly easy. They offer unlimited computer backup for Macs and PCs at just $7/month. You can back up docs, music, photos, videos, drawings, projects – all of your data, and access your backed up data from anywhere in the world using their web app. Get a free fully-featured no credit card required trial at: Backblaze.com/selfie.

A listener asks about quick centering practices to help in her busy and high anxiety life. Kristen and Matthias chat through a couple personality disorders that have been in the news a lot recently. Plus, Kristen explains the newest skincare treatment she's tried: sebaceous hyperplasia burning. Links + Resources 1Password App Kitsch Self-Draining Shower Caddy Drunk Elephant Face Bar EFT Tapping Stop Walking on Eggshells Book

A listener asks about their college age kid rooming together with someone of a different gender, Matthias and Kristen discuss this alongside the complexity of teen sleepovers with different genders and sexual orientations. Plus, the Amber Heard/Johnny Depp trial and the reality that domestic violence doesn't just affect women. Links + Resources Heartstopper on Netflix Rothaniel on HBO Max National Domestic Violence Hotline Website Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com. It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals. Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit - no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System! Native is doing their part to help our earth with their new one-hundred percent plastic-free and recyclable packaging! Just like all of Native’s other deodorants, their plastic-free deodorant is aluminum and paraben-free, kills odor-causing bacteria, and has twenty-four-hour odor protection to keep you feeling and smelling fresh. With Native choose from ten scents - including their classic Coconut and Vanilla, Sensitive formulas that are formulated without baking soda, and even Unscented! Go to NativeDeo.com/selfie, or use promo code selfie at checkout, and get 20% off your first order. Backblaze makes backing up and accessing your data astonishingly easy. They offer unlimited computer backup for Macs and PCs at just $7/month. You can back up docs, music, photos, videos, drawings, projects – all of your data, and access your backed up data from anywhere in the world using their web app. Get a free fully-featured no credit card required trial at: Backblaze.com/selfie.

Psychedelics are at the cutting edge of mental-health research right now. Kristen talks about how she's about to try ketamine therapy for her depression and chats with Matthias about his experience in psychedelic-assisted therapy. Then, a listener asks about trying meds for her depression or continuing to try healthy habits. Plus, how is Pixar using psychology in their movies? Links + Resources: How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan Ancient Minerals Magnesium Oil Spray Bottle The Dream Podcast How Pixar Movies Use Psychology Many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals.

 This week, Kristen and Matthias are talking about all things ADHD and kids. A listener wonders, how do you know when to seek an ADHD diagnosis for young school age kids? Then, they discuss the ways TikTok is enabling predatory ADHD advertisers to target young users. Plus, a mental health check in and Two Thumbs Up! Links + Resources: Kyte Car Rental Reusable Clear Boba Straws TikTok is enabling predatory ADHD advertisers to target young users Adult ADHD Self Report Example CircleDNA Premium is the world’s most comprehensive DNA test - over 500 reports across 20 categories such as diet, nutrition, fitness, stress and sleep, cancer and disease risks, common health risks, family planning, drug response, ancestry, personality traits, and so much more! With CircleDNA Premium, you get 2 complementary (FREE) 1-on-1 consultations with a genetic counselor and a genetics-trained health professional to help you interpret your results and proactively improve your lifestyleGo to CircleDNA.com and use the coupon code SELFIE today to get 33% OFF any CircleDNA kit. This code is valid only on the first 33 kits sold, so make sure you act fast and don’t miss out Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit - no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System! Native is doing their part to help our earth with their new one-hundred percent plastic-free and recyclable packaging! Just like all of Native’s other deodorants, their plastic-free deodorant is aluminum and paraben-free, kills odor-causing bacteria, and has twenty-four-hour odor protection to keep you feeling and smelling fresh. With Native choose from ten scents - including their classic Coconut and Vanilla, Sensitive formulas that are formulated without baking soda, and even Unscented! Go to NativeDeo.com/selfie, or use promo code selfie at checkout, and get 20% off your first order.

This week, a listener asks what to do when their teenager's friends are negatively affecting their mental health. Kristen and Matthias discuss birthdays as adults and a new kind of face mask Kristen is using. Plus, former TikTok content moderators filed a lawsuit over ‘psychological trauma’ -- what's going on there? Links + Resources: Huberman Lab Podcast Fluff & Tuff Dog Toys Dermabeam Pro Light Therapy Mask Former TikTok content moderators file lawsuit over ‘psychological trauma’ Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com. It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you.  Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals.

This week, Kristen and Matthias chat about how difficult it is to find a therapist who takes insurance. Why is that? Kristen also shares about a new type of therapy for chronic pain she's having success with. Plus, with the recent news of more suicides at Stanford, Matthias and Kristen talk about high-pressure environments and the toll they take on mental health. This episode does contain frank discussion about suicide. Links + Resources: Pain Reprocessing Therapy The Way Out: A Revolutionary, Scientifically Proven Approach to Healing Chronic Pain Tell Me About Your Pain Podcast Queerology Podcast Graydon Skincare Putty Super Smoothing Face Cream Vivosun Plant Grow Bags After Star Soccer Player’s Suicide, Stanford Acknowledges It Has a Suicide Problem CircleDNA Premium is the world’s most comprehensive DNA test - over 500 reports across 20 categories such as diet, nutrition, fitness, stress and sleep, cancer and disease risks, common health risks, family planning, drug response, ancestry, personality traits, and so much more! With CircleDNA Premium, you get 2 complementary (FREE) 1-on-1 consultations with a genetic counselor and a genetics-trained health professional to help you interpret your results and proactively improve your lifestyleGo to CircleDNA.com and use the coupon code SELFIE today to get 33% OFF any CircleDNA kit. This code is valid only on the first 33 kits sold, so make sure you act fast and don’t miss out Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit - no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System! Native is doing their part to help our earth with their new one-hundred percent plastic-free and recyclable packaging! Just like all of Native’s other deodorants, their plastic-free deodorant is aluminum and paraben-free, kills odor-causing bacteria, and has twenty-four-hour odor protection to keep you feeling and smelling fresh. With Native choose from ten scents - including their classic Coconut and Vanilla, Sensitive formulas that are formulated without baking soda, and even Unscented! Go to NativeDeo.com/selfie, or use promo code selfie at checkout, and get 20% off your first order.