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You can be making real progress and still hear that voice: Why am I not there yet? Or know a decision is true to you… and still find it f*****g hard. In this first Roxy Edit, I’m starting with Anaïs Nin and the uneven way we grow. I get into the pressure that pushes you forward, the kind that turns you against yourself, and why compassion doesn’t steal your edge. Then, alignment. Because it doesn’t always feel good. I’m also sharing a future-Self journaling prompt that invites all your senses in. Think songs, temperature, color, taste. There’s more to her than what her life looks like. Plus, melomaniac. If you don’t just listen to music, you LIVE it, you might want this word. And a Guns N’ Roses story involving a rare, spacious weekend I’d planned for work… and two versions of future Roxy. Is there a decision in your life right now that your future Self could help you see differently? ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal FREE RESOURCES: 🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making. 🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge. 🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting.

In this rewind I share five key points to help ease the pressure around finding your purpose in life. I break down why purpose can't come before self-knowledge, why it's allowed to be more than one thing, and why chasing external validation to make your purpose feel "worthy" will always leave you empty. This episode was originally aired on 04/04/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

There's a version of you already living the life you keep putting off.  Today I'm getting into why we resist our own big projects — even the ones we swear we want — how to be both fully loving and someone people know not to mess with, and how to build a career and a life around who you truly are, not just what you do. I also share the moment I realized my dream life wasn't going to make me — I had to become the woman who'd create it.  This episode is about closing the gap between you now and the version of you who's already living the life you desire. In this episode: Why you resist writing the book (or project) you say you want to finish The difference between not being ready and genuine writer's block How to hold both softness and an unshakable boundary without contradiction How to build self-trust by practicing small, uncomfortable moves Why "who you want to be" matters more than "what you want to do" for your career How focusing on your future self naturally builds the life you want ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

In this rewind I break down specific tactics I use for mornings, movement, nutrition, and sleep, and explain why managing your energy — not your time — is actually the more powerful lever for feeling and performing your best. This episode was originally aired on 03/07/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

This compilation episode is about abundance — not the version everyone sells you, the real one. Money is only one room in a much bigger house. My guests and I get into why abundance was never a place you arrive — it's a frequency you either occupy now or keep chasing, exhausted, wondering why nothing's landing. We talk about ownership, about dropping the excuses that keep you small, and about the hyper-masculine push so many of us mistake for ambition — the kind that quietly caps what you're able to receive. Peace, not more effort, is the actual doorway in. You don't get abundant later. You get abundant the second you stop negotiating with your own life. In this episode: Why ownership — not blame — is the real power move Why abundance is a frequency you match, not a destination you earn How hyper-masculine hustle energy quietly caps what you can receive Why peace, not more effort, is the actual doorway to abundance What it means to be a magnet for miracles, starting now ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

In this rewind, I share ten principles I've created to help you anchor into real, active self-love. I unpack why self-love requires courage and honesty as much as it requires warmth, and walk through the mindset shifts — from self-witnessing to trusting your intuition — that help you build a stronger relationship with yourself over time. In this Roxy Rewind: Why witnessing yourself without judgment is the starting point for self-love Self-honesty as the greatest act of self-love, even when it's uncomfortable Choosing curiosity over judgment when you look at your own patterns Listening to your intuition before the critical mind or outside voices take over Why turning inward in hard moments is true empowerment, not avoidance This episode was originally aired on 02/28/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

Words cast spells — including the ones you use on yourself.  Today I'm answering more of your questions: how to separate yourself from your feelings without bypassing them, what actually keeps me committed to this podcast on the days I don't feel like showing up, and whether I've always felt this alive or had to cultivate it. I also get into what to do when you hate the way you look on camera, and why that word "hate" deserves a closer look.  Big, honest questions today — let's get into it.  In this episode: How to separate your feelings from your identity without rejecting them The "weather vs. climate" metaphor for when a feeling becomes who you are What keeps me committed to podcasting even on unmotivated days What "aliveness" really means, and how to cultivate it deliberately Why hating your own content is worth investigating, not judging How self-inquiry and journaling build self-trust and self-respect ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

In this rewind I walk you through four of my go-to journal prompts for checking in with your energy — your most valuable and finite resource. I share my own honest answers to each one, explain why judgment has no place in this kind of self-inquiry, and show how these simple questions can become a powerful weekly ritual for staying rooted in yourself. In this Roxy Rewind: Why energy, not time, is the resource that matters most The four prompts: what's inspiring me, what's challenging me, what's giving me energy, what's draining me Why self-judgment blocks real self-inquiry — approach it as the student, not the critic Reframing "problem" as "challenge" to open up growth instead of resistance Why naming what drains you is the first step to protecting your energy This episode was originally aired on 02/21/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

This talk will make you rethink everything you've been taught about attracting real love.  In this special episode, down again with Christine Hassler—Spiritual Psychologist, Master Coach, Facilitator, Speaker, and a Best-selling Author who doesn't do surface-level—nor do I.  Together we get into why women get so exhausted searching for love, why being told you're 'too much in your masculine' almost always means something else entirely, and why desire itself was never the problem—attachment is. Christine breaks down her theory of magnetism, the difference between an expectation and a desire, the important connection between inner child work and relationships, and the real meaning of being called "intimidating."  We also get into her own love story, fawning as a hidden trauma response, and her upcoming Love Magnet workshop with her husband, Stefanos.  In This Episode: Why so many high-achieving women feel exhausted in their search for love The difference between being in your masculine and being in hypervigilance Why desire isn't the problem — attachment to outcome is How family of origin and inner child patterns shape who we're drawn to The difference between an expectation and a true desire What fawning looks like in relationships, and how to recognize it in yourself I loved every minute of this conversation with Christine.  I am so excited for you to listen to this one, AND if you feel called, come join her extraordinary FREE LIVE WORKSHOP with her husband, Stefanos Sifandos.  You never know what saying YES will offer your relationship with yourself—and to your love life. Believe✨ Claim Your Spot for Christine’s and Steph’s Free Workshop: LOVE MAGNET  ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FIND CHRISTINE IG iTUNES 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

In this rewind I break down five of my personal power moves for developing real, lasting self-confidence. I share the practices I've used throughout my life — from betting on myself with no real plan, to why my health habits directly shape my confidence — and how each one connects back to the relationship you have with your own word. In this Roxy Rewind: Why self-honesty is the non-negotiable starting point for real confidence "Competence creates confidence" — the role of preparation and repetition Betting on yourself in the face of uncertainty, even without a plan Why integrity — being fully of your word — fuels self-respect and self-trust How health and vitality directly shape your confidence and clarity This episode was originally aired on 02/14/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

Self-betrayal doesn't always look like weakness — sometimes it looks like kindness, patience, or being a team player. Today I break down five common ways people betray themselves without even realizing it, from saying yes when you mean no to constantly outsourcing your own judgment. I get into why repeated self-betrayal turns into full self-abandonment, and how fear — not love — is usually running the show underneath it.  If the title of this episode caught your attention, there's probably a reason for that. In this episode: What self-betrayal actually is, and how it differs from self-abandonment Why saying yes when you mean no (or no when you mean yes) erodes self-trust How constantly seeking outside opinions hands your power away Why breaking promises to yourself quietly destroys your self-worth How minimizing your own feelings is a form of self-rejection How to start repatterning self-betrayal using your future self as an anchor ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

In this rewind I dive into one of my favorite core values — integrity — and why it's one of the most powerful attributes you can build. I share a real story from behind the scenes of the podcast, unpack why integrity is directly tied to self-trust and self-respect, and offer a self-accountability practice for the moments you're not fully living up to your own standard. In this Roxy Rewind: Why integrity means being "whole and undivided," not just honest How misalignment between your words and actions erodes self-trust Why you're always the witness to your own actions, conscious or not Self-accountability as an empowering practice, not a punishment A real story of showing up with integrity when it wasn't easy This episode was originally aired on 02/07/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

Dolly Parton didn't just leave us music—she left us a masterclass in knowing exactly who you are.  This episode is a tribute to a national treasure who turned self-knowledge into an art form.  I walk through five lessons from her life, her career, and one iconic 1977 Barbara Walters interview that still gives me chills—on Self-knowledge, Self-love, magnetism, refusing to be underestimated, and never saying yes to less than what you're worth.  This one will boost your Self-empowerment BIG TIME.  Rest in power, Dolly. In this episode: Why knowing yourself has to come before the world tries to define you The difference between being underestimated and being underpowered Why you don't have to be reduced to just one thing or one label Why Dolly turned down Elvis over her publishing rights, and what it teaches about knowing your worth—and honoring it Why true magnetism comes from fully showing up as yourself, not performing for approval Reflections on Dolly's 1977 Barbara Walters interview and what her composure reveals about Self-possession ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

This rewind is a conversation with my dear friend Nicole Vignola, a neuroscientist, keynote speaker, and author who reaches millions with practical, science-backed tools for mental well-being. We dive into the neuroscience of habit formation, why the brain can't fully tell the difference between something real and something vividly imagined, and what it actually takes to interrupt a pattern instead of just white-knuckling through it. In this Roxy Rewind: Why neuroplasticity depends on attention and emotional charge happening together The 1995 study showing imagined practice can shape the brain like real practice Why repetition builds identity, whether the pattern serves you or not How to interject a new pattern instead of trying to erase the old one Why sleep is the most underrated tool for consolidating change This episode was originally aired on 01/24/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

"You have to feel worthy" gets thrown around in manifesting circles constantly — but almost nobody explains what it actually means.  Today I break worthiness into two parts: the inherent worthiness that gets you the thing, and the functional worthiness that determines whether you can actually keep it. I get into why so many people can manifest something and then watch it slip through their hands, what your nervous system has to do with all of it, and why capacity — not deserving — is the real work.  In this episode: The difference between inherent worthiness and functional worthiness Why manifesting something is different from being able to keep it How responsibility is the overlooked part of every manifestation conversation Why your nervous system can block you from receiving what you say you want How to use micro-actions and body-based practices to build capacity Journaling prompts to identify where you're blocked in each type of worthiness ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle