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What does “we’re dating” actually mean? In this episode, Isabella shares a thoughtful, faith-centered reflection inspired by Single, Dating, Engaged, Married and talks through some of the biggest tensions in modern dating culture. From unspoken expectations and false entitlement to purity, clarity, and the difference between love and lust, this is a conversation about dating with honesty, wisdom, and God at the center. In This Episode, We Talk About: Why dating should be a process, not a status to rest in The danger of unspoken expectations and assumption-based relationships Why dating should reveal alignment, not become a space for control Recognizing misalignment and why “good” is not always “right” Why labels do not equal ownership Personal reflections on access, attraction, and being ready to love someone well How purity protects clarity and helps guard discernment The difference between lust and love The hidden cost of staying in relationships that are misaligned Why honesty before God matters in every dating season Key Takeaway “Dating should not be a place where we look for ownership. It should be a place where we practice discernment.” Bella’s Break Room Moment Not every connection is meant to become a covenant. Not every label means safety. Not every spark means substance. Guard your heart, but also guard your clarity. Share This Episode If this episode resonated with you, send it to someone who’s been thinking deeply about dating, relationships, and what it means to keep God at the center.

After over a year away from the mic, Isabella is back softer, stronger, and more grounded in purpose. In this episode, Isabella opens up about the quiet detours that reshaped her: a big move, health challenges, new community, and a deeper walk with God. She reflects on what it means to return not with noise, but with intention. From finding joy in unexpected friendships to teaching a bold new generation (who somehow found her podcast 👀), this is a heart-to-heart on healing, humility, and honoring where God has placed you now. 💛 If you’ve ever had to start over mid-journey, this one’s for you!

Join Isabella, the heart and soul behind Truth By Bella, in this heartwarming episode filled with love, laughter, and timeless dating wisdom. Isabella's passion for guiding you through the complexities of faith, romance, and relationships shines through as she debunks common dating myths and shares practical tips. Discover the art of spotting 'green flags' and balancing faith in love. A must-listen episode for anyone on a journey to find love while honoring their faith.

[00:02:33] It's important to spend time with your partner's friends and observe how they interact. If their friends have different values, it's worth investigating. The Holy Spirit may also guide you if the relationship is not right for you. [00:04:54] Respect and healthy boundaries are important in relationships. Avoid those who lack respect and pressure you. Friends and family reflect who you are. [00:07:04] Personal story shared about a date [00:11:04] Be aware of actions and information given. Notice how someone behaves in different situations. Manipulation and deceit are red flags. Don't make excuses until it's out of control. Hot temper shows lack of self control and emotional-driven behavior. [00:14:59] We focus on people liking us rather than being right for us. Fear of rejection and self-doubt make us ignore red flags. Applies to friendships too. [00:20:24] Setting boundaries benefits communication, mental health, self-esteem, independence, identity, and filters out toxic relationships. It prevents people from taking advantage of you. [00:24:00] Boundaries for clear expectations and treatment. Ignoring red flags indicates unhealed attachment trauma and low self-esteem. Seek guidance and support for healthier relationships. [00:27:04] Prayer for guidance, wisdom, and protection from toxic people. [00:28:40] Closing

We always and see emphasis on how marriage has a purpose. Have you ever wondered what's the point of singleness or is it just the prelude before getting married? In this episode here, Isabella speaks on the purpose of being single along important things to learn before joining with another person. Hope this episode blesses you.

Let's talk about the creep that comes in our various relationships.. Assumptions, it is! Isabella speaks on how it appears into dating situations, romantic relationships, and even marriage. Be prepared to learn some wisdom nuggets on how to dismantle assumptions from ruining your relationships before diving into communication. Hope this episode blesses you!

Truth By Bella is back with a Part 2 of the Dating Culture Chats. In this episode here, Isabella discusses with Emmanuela Rodenberg on the dating culture for Christian singles coming from the perspective of a dating coach. She touches on the importance on knowing how to choose correctly when you're dating. So many gems were dropped in this episode. We pray that it truly blesses you!

We hear about "dating" consistently whether it's courting or mingling with others. What is the culture associated with it? In this episode here, Isabella discusses with Michelle Apples from Canada, a matchmaker, on the dating culture for Christian singles and the importance of investing in yourself when it comes to your relationship with God and dating. Here's the Part 1 of Dating Culture Chats.

What does being intentional look like especially when you're in a season of focusing on yourself and understanding what God is doing in your life? In this episode here, Isabella shares how she developed a strong sense of self, being intentionally single, and the importance to knowing what to be mindful when properly in the future.

Waiting on God is good, but can be tough in the society we live in. Sometimes we need to ask: Are we waiting on God or is God waiting on us? In this episode here, Isabella shares important gems she learned while her season of waiting.

Season 2 of Truth By Bella Podcast is Here! In this episode, Isabella from Truth By Bella encourages her listeners to take a Reflection Pause and important questions to ask self reflecting on 2020 and planning more into 2021. Hope you enjoy this episode!

In this episode, Isabella from Truth By Bella speaks on some life lessons she learned and important keys to pay attention when you're getting ready to transition into a new chapter of your life. Pray that you enjoy this episode and gain takeaways to apply.

In this episode, Isabella from Truth By Bella shares on a glimpse of her testimony and the impression that the Holy Spirit gives her when it comes to identifying your Why in the season that you are currently in. Hope you enjoy it!

Isabella talks on the importance of music and share some of her favorite Afro Gospel, Christian and Gospel songs from Truth By Bella's Playlist with her listeners.  Hope you enjoy it! Link to Truth By Bella's playlist on Apple Music : https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/truth-by-bellas-playlist/pl.u-zPyLm6Ptk6d4dv

Isabella from Truth By Bella & her guest, Naa-Afi, founder of Kingdom Connects, came together to discuss the topic of “Unlocking Purpose”. Both ladies allowed the Spirit to minister through them to share the importance on taking steps to unlock your purpose using the analogy of doors and keys from life experiences. Isabella and Naa-Afi shared some encouragement to those who are in the process of discovering or need helps when it comes to purpose in the episode. We pray and hope you enjoy this episode!