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In this eye-opening conversation, Rhonda sits down with Al Huntoon — a former custody mediator and co-parenting coach — to uncover what most people (and professionals) miss when it comes to high-conflict custody battles. Al shares the blind spot he discovered after working with thousands of families: in many high-conflict custody cases, one parent is driving the conflict, while the other is simply responding to it. This dynamic is often misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or overlooked entirely — and it's costing families time, money, and peace. Together, Rhonda and Al explore: How to identify asymmetric conflict in custody and co-parenting Why one-size-fits-all solutions like "parallel parenting" can backfire The role of emotional literacy and intentionality in navigating custody conflict Why assertiveness is a learned skill — and critical for collaboration How vague custody agreements create loopholes for high-conflict behavior Tools and tech to help you respond strategically instead of reactively Whether you're in the thick of parenting negotiations or supporting clients through it, this episode offers real tools and refreshing clarity on a deeply personal topic. 👤 Meet Our Guest: With a Master's in Social Work and over three decades of experience, Al Huntoon is a seasoned leader in family services, mental health, and adult education. His expertise in navigating complex family dynamics was honed through years as a custody mediator and coparenting specialist, where he supported families through shared parenting, blended transitions, and high-stakes relational pivots. Al brings a deep understanding of both the emotional terrain and practical logistics of separation and divorce, offering compassionate guidance, actionable tools, and tailored solutions that honor the unique needs of each coparent and child. His work helps families move through complexity with clarity, resilience, and grace. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alhuntoon/   🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CDS®, and CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Rhonda sits down with therapist and author Oona Metz to talk about the emotional journey of divorce — and how to move through it with clarity and compassion. Oona shares her five-phase model for navigating divorce grief, built from decades of work with women in group therapy settings. Whether you're newly separated or deep in the healing process, this conversation will help you name what you're feeling, understand what's normal, and take the next right step with confidence. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why heartbreak is the starting point of every divorce journey — even if you initiated it What it really means to "feel it to heal it" (and why it's not optional) The difference between therapy groups and coaching groups — and why facilitation skills matter How to move from grief to growth in Oona's 5-phase model: Heartbreak Emotional Rollercoaster Mending Letting Go Moving On How group support reduces isolation and accelerates emotional healing 👤 Meet Our Guest: Oona Metz is a therapist with 30 years of clinical experience. For the past 15 years she has specialized in treating women navigating divorce. She leads three weekly divorce support groups and trains mental health professionals to lead them as well. Her book Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women (Gallery Books/Simon & Schuster) comes out January 13th. Website: https://www.oonametz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oonametz/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womennavigatingdivorce/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/oona-metz-licsw-cgp-6a14a41b/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OonaMetz 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CDS, and ®CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

In this insightful episode, Rhonda sits down with Georgia-based attorney and author Bree Sullivan-Howell to unpack the emotional and legal realities of navigating divorce. From keeping your strategy private to the power of preparation, this conversation offers clear, actionable guidance for women in the thick of the process. Bree shares hard-earned wisdom on: Why empowering clients with homework is key to long-term confidence How oversharing—even with friends—can hurt your case The emotional traps to avoid when communicating with your ex How to prepare for court with clarity, calm, and compelling evidence Why being "the voice of reason" in court is often your best legal strategy How to build and protect your inner circle during this pivotal time The underestimated power of silence—and when to use it You'll also hear faith-based encouragement and a few of Bree's favorite quotes and verses that have carried her—and her clients—through the toughest chapters. 👤 Meet Our Guest: Bree Sullivan-Howell is a Georgia-based attorney, author, and divorce survivor. She's the powerhouse behind Crush Your Divorce and Keep Your Faith and Crush Your Comeback, both written to guide women through the legal and emotional trenches of divorce with faith, strategy, and strength. A former litigator with deep courtroom experience, Bree combines legal precision with real-world compassion. She's known for helping women cut through confusion, build strong cases, and take back control of their lives. Bree is also a sought-after speaker, content creator (@LawyerBri), and champion for women navigating divorce with clarity and confidence. Website: https://www.sullivan-firm.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crushyourdivorce Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lawyerbree Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerbree 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CDS, and ®CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

This week's episode is powerful, personal, and packed with resources. Rhonda sits down with Heather Kutz, a wireless industry expert with nearly two decades of experience, to explore how mobile phones can either empower or control—especially for women navigating domestic abuse. What You'll Learn: The red flags that your phone may be used to surveil or control you How shared phone plans can lead to financial and tech entanglement What the Safe Connections Act is—and how it helps survivors regain privacy Signs your phone may have spyware or tracking software installed Simple steps to protect your digital privacy 👤 Meet Our Guest: Heather Kutz has been in the wireless industry since 2006, working across multiple carriers and roles—from frontline operations to strategic leadership. Over the years, she has developed a deep understanding of how mobile technology works behind the scenes, and how it can be used to either empower or control. She is not here representing any one company—she is here to speak to how the entire industry is stepping up to support survivors. 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

In this episode of Disrupting Divorce, Rhonda sits down with Dyna Vink, a Certified Integrated Health Practitioner and expert in perimenopause and menopause support. They dive into a critical but often overlooked topic: how hormonal shifts intersect with the emotional rollercoaster of divorce. If you're navigating the end of a marriage while also feeling off—emotionally, physically, or mentally—this episode will give you clarity, validation, and practical next steps. What You'll Learn: Why so many women hit perimenopause right as marital stress peaks The 4 major symptoms that could be derailing your progress (and how to fix them) Why traditional medical tests often miss the mark What functional medicine can reveal about your hormones, gut health, and more Practical strategies to improve sleep, energy, mood, and metabolism How mindset—and the words you say to yourself—can change your experience Why now is the perfect time to start putting yourself first 👤 Meet Our Guest: Dyna Vink is a certified Integrative Health Practitioner who founded Holistic Nutrition Lifestyle to help women better understand and manage the symptoms of perimenopause. As she entered this transitional phase herself, she quickly discovered a lack of clear, accessible information about the profound changes women experience during this time of their lives. Too often, women are left to treat a collection of confusing and seemingly unrelated symptoms without realizing they all point to one root cause: perimenopause. You can find Dyna here:  Website: https://holisticnutritionlifestyle.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@PerimenopauseRelief  Faceook: https://www.facebook.com/dyna.vink/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dynavink/  🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

What does it really take to "disrupt divorce"? In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Jordan Rosenberg, a family law attorney from the Chicago area who believes the attorney–client relationship should be a true partnership — built on open communication, trust, and collaboration. Together, they pull back the curtain on what most attorneys wish their clients knew and how women can take a more empowered role in the process. You'll hear insights on: Why viewing your lawyer as a partner — not just a service provider — changes everything The power of organization (and how small clues, like a $5 savings account, can reveal much bigger financial issues) Why "the smartest people know when to ask for help" — and how that applies directly to divorce The importance of building the right team: legal, financial, and emotional support How to set realistic expectations — without slipping into worst-case-scenario thinking Why "trusting the process" doesn't mean handing over control, but staying actively engaged Jordan also shares one of his favorite quotes that perfectly fits this stage of life: FEAR = Forget Everything And Run, or Face Everything And Rise. This episode is packed with both practical tools and encouragement for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce. 👤 Meet Our Guest: Jordan Rosenberg is a partner at one of the nation's largest family law firms. He brings deep experience in trials and mediations, pairing sharp advocacy with practical, client-first strategy. A Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, Jordan has been recognized as a Super Lawyer and Leading Lawyer. He also holds credentials in Certified Financial Litigation and is actively involved in the divorce community, regularly educating and mentoring other attorneys. You can find Jordan here:  Website: https://www.beermannlaw.com/team/jordan-d-rosenberg/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JRosenbergFamilyLaw Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jrosenbergfamilylaw/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordan-rosenberg-9a0bb821/  🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

Prenups aren't romantic, but they are powerful. In this episode, NY matrimonial attorney Evan Schein explains what a prenup can and cannot do, why early conversations matter, and how precise drafting prevents costly fights later. We talk disclosure, fairness, and how to keep agreements current as life changes. What you'll learn What a prenup is, and isn't: A financial agreement signed before marriage that can cover assets, debt, and spousal support. In New York, it cannot set child support, kid expenses, custody, or parenting terms. Disclosure that holds up: Why both partners should list assets, accounts, businesses, and premarital property with as much detail as possible. Separate vs. marital property: How to define each, and why you must specify how income from a separate business is treated during marriage. Fairness and enforceability: Factors courts look at later, including independent counsel, full disclosure, and whether terms were unconscionable then or now. Avoiding the "muddy middle": Clear drafting prevents contradictions and vague catch-all clauses that derail enforcement. Pressure is a red flag: Don't sign because the date is set. Start early, get your own lawyer, and understand real-life implications. Amend as life changes: You can update with a postnup or amend the prenup. Revisit every 3 to 5 years or after major life events. Start the conversation sooner: Talk money, lifestyle, goals, and expectations before venues are booked. With the right strategy, you can protect love and money, reduce conflict, and set expectations that age well. You don't have to figure this out alone. 👤 Meet Our Guest: Evan Schein is a partner with Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein. He leads the firm's litigation practice, leading a team of 28 highly regarded matrimonial attorneys. Mr. Schein is a recognized authority on matrimonial law and litigation in New York State, with a practice focusing on issues that arise in high-net-worth and high-income divorces, as well as high-conflict child custody matters. As an experienced litigator who has tried many divorce cases and family law matters from inception through final decision, Mr. Schein is able to craft legal strategies unique to each set of facts and make strategic and tactical decisions that best represent a client's interests. His cases have resulted in reported decisions that have broken legal ground, and he has regularly represented business owners, doctors, attorneys, financial professionals, corporate executives, and high-profile individuals, as well as their spouses. In addition to his litigation work, Mr. Schein is also frequently retained to negotiate prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. You can find Evan here:  Website: https://www.berkbot.com/ 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

Divorce makes college planning more complex. In this episode, Vicki explains the 2024 FAFSA changes, student loan rules, and how to find scholarships that actually make a difference. She also shares client stories where strategic planning saved families thousands—even hundreds of thousands—on college costs. What you'll learn Why the parent providing more financial support (not the custodial parent) now files the FAFSA  How CSS Profile schools may require financial info from both households Student loan basics: limits, subsidized vs. unsubsidized, and upcoming changes for parents Smart scholarship strategies—what to prioritize, what to skip, and how to avoid wasted effort The impact of remarriage on financial aid and why timing matters With the right strategy, you can lower college costs, protect your retirement, and reduce conflict during and after divorce. You don't have to figure this out alone. 👤 Meet Our Guest: Vicki Vollweiler is the founder of College Financial Prep and author of "College Planning for Divorced and Widowed Parents." She has spent years helping families save thousands on the cost of college through college planning, financial aid, scholarships, and appeals. Her specialty is working with divorced and separated parents, offering guidance as a neutral third party so they can feel supported and confident while planning for their child's future. You can find Vicki here:  Website: https://www.collegefinancialprep.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CollegeFinancialPrep/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/collegefinancialprep 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

Vocational assessments can shape spousal support and earning-capacity debates. Rhonda and Dan unpack what credible reports look like, how to prepare, and how to challenge numbers that don't match reality. What you'll learn in this episode: ✨ Purpose & scope: Employability, realistic job options, training needs, and reasonable earnings. ✨ Data that matters: Social Security earnings, medical narratives, education, work history, and daily commitments.  ✨ Prep moves: What to bring, how to show up, and how to keep the interview factual and respectful.  ✨ Quality standards: Current labor data, paid databases, and transparent methodology—not a Google job search.  ✨ Retraining reality: Timelines (PT vs. FT), tuition costs, entry pay, and wage progression. ✨ After the report: Red flags to spot and when to seek a second opinion.  👤 Meet Our Guest: Dr. Dan Wolstein is President of Kincaid Wolstein Vocational and Rehabilitation Services. He is a highly experienced vocational evaluator who actively contributes to advancing science and professionalism in the vocational field. His research has been published in the Journal of Forensic Vocational Analysis. In 2018, he and Jeff Truthan presented their research (regarding the 137 sedentary unskilled occupations in the DOT) at the 2018 National Organization of Social Security Claimants' Representatives (NOSSCR) Disability Law Conference and again in 2019 at the IARP. Dan Wolstein served at the American Board of Vocational Experts, as President Elect from 2022 and 2023, President from 2023 to 2025, and will be serving as Past President from 2025 to 2027. He completed his doctoral studies in rehabilitation counseling and administration at East Carolina University and his Master of Science in rehabilitation counseling from Rutgers University (formerly the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey). Dr. Wolstein holds the following licenses and certifications: Certified Rehabilitation Counselor (CRC) Certified Life Care Planner (CLCP) International Psychometric Evaluation Certification (IPEC) Diplomate of the American Board of Vocational Experts (ABVE/D) Licensed Rehabilitation Counselor (LRC) Forensic Vocational Expert (FVE) Certified Vocational Evaluator (CVE) 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Stacey Wynn, MDiv, PCC to talk about the intersection of ✝️ faith, 💔 divorce, and 💪 empowerment. Together, they unpack the realities of spiritual abuse, the stigma surrounding women of faith who pursue divorce, and the practical steps women can take to reclaim their agency. What you'll hear in this episode: ✨ Why "divorce heals broken homes" is a powerful reframe 🚫 How toxic theology impacts women navigating high-conflict divorce 🤝 The importance of building safe, judgment-free community 🧠 What emotional intelligence is—and why it matters in divorce 💜 Encouragement for women of faith: nothing separates us from the love of God Resources mentioned: 📖 Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown 📘 Daniel Goleman's work on Emotional Intelligence 📝 IEQ9 Emotional Intelligence Assessment 🔎 Myers-Briggs, DiSC, and CliftonStrengths (StrengthsFinder) This conversation is both practical and hopeful - a reminder that you're not alone, and that your faith and your future can be reclaimed on your terms.  👤 Meet Our Guest: Stacey Wynn, PCC, specializes in trauma-informed coaching for faith and life transitions, guiding individuals from confusion to clarity during pivotal moments—whether navigating shifts in spirituality, career, or relationships. As an ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC), Stacey draws on her academic foundation in theology and her own experience exiting toxic evangelicalism, along with years of supporting others deconstructing from harmful belief systems and spiritual abuse. She offers a compassionate, empowering environment for deep growth and genuine renewal. A certified iEQ9 Level 1 and 2 practitioner, Stacey has coached more than 300 clients - spanning both corporate teams and private practice - using the Enneagram's profound insights, and is currently deepening her expertise through "Building Wise, Talented, and Humble Leaders with the Enneagram" via the Enneagram in Business organization. Her trauma-informed coaching merges spiritual understanding, leadership wisdom, and practical support for those facing the complexities of identity and transformation. Outside of coaching, Stacey enjoys exploring nature, sharing adventures with her daughter, and beekeeping alongside her partner Dave in North Florida Connect with Stacey Wynn: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/clarityunleashed 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

Divorce mediation doesn't have to feel confusing. In this episode, Rhonda sits down with her friend Rebecca Stern, owner of Pearl Mediation, to break down the different types of mediation and how to know which one is the best fit for your divorce journey. Whether you're in a high-conflict situation 😤 or navigating things more peacefully 🤝, Rebecca shares how mediators can balance power, guide tough conversations, and help you walk away with clarity and confidence. 👉 If you've ever felt lost in mediation or unsure what questions to ask, this conversation will give you the tools to move forward with strength. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✨ The 4️⃣ main types of mediation (and when each is useful) ✨ How mediators address power imbalances ⚖️ ✨ Smart questions to ask when interviewing a mediator 💬 ✨ The difference between compromise vs. sacrifice 🤔 ✨ How to know if you're working with the right mediator for you ✅ 👤 Meet Our Guest: Rebecca Stern is a divorce & family mediator, special education parent advocate, parenting coordinator, strategic divorce consultant, and founder of Pearl Mediation. She works with both amicable and high-conflict couples and is driven to change the divorce experience for families. A professional problem-solver, Rebecca navigates clients through issues of custody, parenting, child support, spousal maintenance, property division, and has created right-fit special education plans for countless families. Avoiding the expense, time, and drama associated with the traditional adversarial process of divorce, Rebecca helps clients build enduring agreements and move forward on solid ground, educated, and empowered. Connect with Rebecca Stern: Website: https://www.Rebecca-Stern.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccasternjd/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccapearlstern/ 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

In this solo episode, Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, unpacks the psychology behind the "Disney Dad" and why his extravagant gestures aren't really about the kids. If you've ever felt frustrated, exhausted, or even questioned your worth as a parent while your ex showers the kids with trips, gifts, and treats—this episode is for you. Rhonda reveals how Disney Dad tactics often mask deeper issues like guilt, ego, or financial manipulation, and how those behaviors can quietly erode your financial future if left unchecked. She shares the tools and mindset shifts you need to reclaim your power, protect your financial stability, and create a safe, consistent environment for your kids. What you'll learn in this episode: The psychology driving Disney Dad behavior—and why it's not about the kids How financial control and guilt are used as manipulation tools in divorce The real cost of staying silent during negotiations (including the 41% lifestyle drop women often face post-divorce) Practical steps to advocate for yourself and uncover the true value of your assets How to "flip the script" and redefine what it means to be the fun, empowering parent—without sacrificing your financial security Rhonda also shares her free mini-course: 6 Steps to Advocate for a Fair Divorce Settlement, where you'll learn how to spot red flags in financial disclosures, ask the tough questions, and build a strategy to secure your future. If you've been feeling overshadowed by Disney Dad antics, this episode will help you step into your power, advocate with confidence, and focus on what truly matters: your financial stability, your kids' well-being, and the empowered future you deserve. 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

In this powerful episode, Tracy Malone returns to discuss what most lawyers don't tell you about parenting plans — the money. From major expenses like cars and tech, to everyday costs like school supplies, Tracy breaks down how to build financial protection directly into your parenting plan. She and Rhonda explore real client scenarios, highlight common pitfalls in legal agreements, and share practical strategies to help you avoid future conflict, legal fees, and emotional burnout. If you're navigating divorce or co-parenting, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to stand your ground — and plan for your future. Key Topics Covered: Why financial clauses are critical in parenting plans Specific costs you must define (phones, insurance, travel, etc.) The power of a noncompliance clause — and why you need one How financial ambiguity leads to conflict (and how to prevent it) What lawyers often overlook in divorce agreements A walkthrough of Tracy's Parenting Plan Course: 52 lessons for every kind of family Using tech tools like Dcomply to track shared expenses How to split professional costs (therapy, medical, mediation) fairly Why naming a mediator or parent coordinator can prevent long-term headaches 👤 Meet Our Guest: Tracy A. Malone is a dynamic Author, Speaker, Educator, and internationally recognized narcissistic abuse and divorce coach. Tracy has a bestselling book, "DIVORCING A NARCISSIST: You Can't Make This Shit Up!". As a surTHRIVER of abuse, she has become a leading advocate for empowerment and healing. Tracy founded NarcissistAbuseSupport.com, a global resource that supports millions of survivors worldwide. She also hosts a podcast and runs a successful YouTube channel. In 2024, she launched ParentingPlans.org, a comprehensive educational platform guiding parents in creating effective co-parenting plans post-divorce. Her course promotes a collaborative, peaceful approach for parents and their children. Connect with Tracy Malone: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/188681268196044/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TracyAMalone Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/tracyamalone X: https://x.com/TracyAMalone Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracyamalone/ Podcast (iTunes): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-narcissist-abuse-support/id1244854330?mt=2 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyamalone/ 🎁 BONUS: Tracy is offering exclusive coupon codes for listeners who want to enroll in her Parenting Plan Course. Details below: Parenting Plan Course Use coupon code at checkout: RHONDA-LOVES-100 🎙️ Your Host:  Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!  

In this empowering episode of Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women, Rhonda sits down with Energy & Empowerment Coach Aimee Carlson to explore the overlooked but critical role of energy in the divorce process. Aimee shares practical strategies to help women stop running on empty and start tuning into their inner strength—even in the middle of major life transitions. They dive deep into what it means to track your energy, manage stress, and build the kind of connections that sustain you through change. Aimee's approach is clear, accessible, and deeply compassionate. Whether you're trying to hold it all together or rediscover what lights you up, this episode gives you the tools to start where you are. Key Topics Covered: How low energy sabotages decision-making during divorce The power of tracking sleep, food, mood, and productivity—without judgment Paper vs. app: How to track your energy in a way that actually works The role of gut health in clarity and resilience Why a deep breath can change your whole day (and mindset) Rebuilding trust after it's been broken—and Rhonda's "CIA" method to vet your team The importance of community and where to find connection in unexpected places How to anchor into a future vision when the present feels overwhelming   👤 Meet Our Guest: Aimee is the founder of She Force, a movement and coaching brand empowering women to rise with clarity, confidence, and unapologetic joy. Known for blending bold leadership with deep personal transformation, she helps ambitious women break outdated rules, reclaim their worth, and celebrate even their smallest wins — because that's where real power begins. Her mission is simple: help women stop shrinking and start shining — on their own terms. Connect with Aimee Carlson: Website: SheForce Coach LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/aimee-carlson-b5152b65/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sheforcecoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sheforcecoach   🎙️ Your Host: Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!

In this insightful episode of Divorce Conversations for Women, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes mortgage expert and CDLP® trailblazer Jody Bruns for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation about a critical—but often overlooked—component of divorce: mortgage planning. Together, they unpack the unique financial, legal, and emotional challenges women face when trying to keep, refinance, or buy a home during divorce. Jody shares cautionary tales, real-life case studies, and empowering advice designed to help women avoid common missteps and build a more stable financial future. This episode is more than just numbers—it's about protecting your future, understanding your options, and ensuring your divorce settlement truly supports your next chapter.   🔑 Key Discussion Points: 🏠 Why mortgage planning should be part of every divorce conversation ⚠️ Common risks: unrealistic affordability expectations and denied loans 📑 How one poorly written settlement tanked a mortgage deal 🔍 Understanding the two types of loan assumptions (and their divorce implications) 💡 Why cash flow matters more than just chasing low interest rates 📉 The emotional and financial realities of post-divorce downsizing 👩‍💼 What a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) actually does 🤝 How to build a powerful, multi-disciplinary divorce support team 🛡️ Why proactive mortgage strategy protects both spouses in divorce   👤 Meet Our Guest: Jody Bruns, CDLP® Founder of the Divorce Lending Association | Host of Beyond the House | Mortgage & Divorce Strategy Expert Jody Bruns is a nationally recognized leader in the divorce mortgage planning space. As the founder of the Divorce Lending Association and creator of the CDLP® certification, she's spent years helping professionals and clients navigate the complex intersection of divorce and home financing. Her mission? To provide clarity, education, and strategic solutions so divorcing individuals—especially women—can make smart housing decisions that support long-term stability. 🎙️ Host of: Beyond the House 🌐 Website: divorcelendingassociation 🌐 IG: jodybrunsofficial   🎙️ Your Host: Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence. For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce. 🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control. 🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access We love putting out great content for you! Do us a favor? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!