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Don't Change A Thing

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Rating
★★★★★
4.9
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243 reviews
This podcast has
74 episodes
Language
English
Publisher
StyleLikeU
Explicit
Yes
Date created
2018/05/02
Latest episode
2025/08/16
Average duration
55 min.
Release period
11 days

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Join hosts Elisa Goodkind and Lily Mandelbaum, the mother-daughter duo renowned for their groundbreaking YouTube channel StyleLikeU and 'What's Underneath' series, as they delve deep into the heart of radical self-love in an intimate filmed podcast. From cultural icons to lesser-known gems, each episode features a guest working to proudly embrace their identity through the lens of unapologetic personal style, challenging societal norms and owning their differences as superpowers. Through candid conversations exploring themes of redefining beauty, dress as self-expression, and shedding shame, Elisa and Lily not only spotlight those who defy conformity but also unravel the complexities of their own evolving relationship in the name of self-acceptance.

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Everything You Need to Know About Self-Acceptance: Podcast Season 2 Finale
2025/08/16
Welcome to the Season 2 finale of “Don’t Change A Thing”! From redefining beauty and reclaiming confidence to owning personal-style and radical self-love, our wonderfully unique and singular guests remind us that freedom begins when we stop trying to fit in. Tune in to this final episode for golden takeaways and nourishing nuggets that will transform the way you think about deep, unrestrained self-acceptance, along with exciting news of what’s coming soon from Style Like U! What were your favorite moments from this season? Let us know! Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU FOLLOW STYLELIKEU ON IG: https://www.instagram.com/stylelikeu/ SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Elisa and Lily ON IG: @elisagoodkind @lilymandelbaum Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
My Superpower is Being “Too Much”: Moonchild Sanelly
2025/08/02
Singer, songwriter, and fashion designer Moonchild Sanelly has reclaimed the label “overbearing” as a badge of honor. When mentors told her she was too much, she refused to shrink, proving instead the power that is creative expression unrestricted by boxes or rules. Moonchild’s music is her medicine, and her style, sound, and story are declarations of freedom. She processes her pain through her music in order to heal herself and others, overcoming eating disorders, sexual abuse, and bullying, and gifting the world with the truth: being yourself is never too much. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU FOLLOW STYLELIKEU ON IG: https://www.instagram.com/stylelikeu/ SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Moonchild ON IG: https://www.instagram.com/moonchildsanelly/?hl=en Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Rejecting the Hetero Blueprint Was My Gateway to the Good Life: Lava La Rue
2025/07/19
Musician and director Lava La Rue opts out of any system that seeks to control them. From embracing their queerness in the face of a traditional Christian background to rejecting the idea of a 9 to 5, they take accountability for their choices, which has aligned them with their truth and set them free. Tune in now to learn why having the bravery to stand out not only brings your life together but is the antidote to our world’s judgement, hatred, and violence. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU FOLLOW STYLELIKEU ON IG: https://www.instagram.com/stylelikeu/ SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW LAVA ON IG: https://www.instagram.com/lavalarue/?hl=en Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
How Adversity Gave Me My Voice: Intersex “Ponyboi” Filmmaker River Gallo
2025/07/05
Intersex filmmaker and actor River Gallo debuted their first feature-length film “Ponyboi” on June 27th, turning their “otherness” into their power. Coming of age in an antiquated world that tried to erase them by deeming their intersex variant medically and socially “faulty,” River discovered the truth of their wholeness through the joy of self-expression, sobriety, and spiritual enlightenment. Tune in now to learn how they overcame the crushing weight of being forced into the mold of manhood and unlocked their creativity through their fluidity: when there was no room for them at the table, they built a stage. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU FOLLOW STYLELIKEU ON IG: https://www.instagram.com/stylelikeu/ SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW River ON IG: https://www.instagram.com/rivergallo/ Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hot, Wise, and Free in her 70s: Creator of “The Vagina Monologues” V (Formerly Eve Ensler)
2025/06/21
V (formerly Eve Ensler), rebellious flower child and author of “The Vagina Monologues”, DEMANDS liberation. In a world that once tried to destroy her, surviving family sexual abuse as a child, she claims life, committed to feeling the depths of pain and the heights of joy. V defends humanity in the face of fascism, from protesting nude in her 20s to embracing her sensuality in her 70s. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn how V healed from her trauma and reconnected with the magnificent creature she’s always been. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU FOLLOW STYLELIKEU ON IG: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW V ON IG: @eveensler Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Everything You’ve Been Told Is a Lie: Barry Brandon
2025/06/05
Queer, creative powerhouse Barry Brandon found his way back to his heel-wearing, unshackled childhood self by embracing a radical truth: everything he’d been told was a lie. After surviving multiple heart surgeries before his mid twenties, Barry realized early on that he couldn’t live his life “safe,” watered-down, or stuck behind a desk. Instead he unlocks the portal to his most freed self through small moments of defiance that ultimately turn into life-defining choices. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn how Barry truly breaks out of the Matrix – refusing the victim-narrative, calling out the myths designed to keep us small, and not only taking freedom into his own hands, but creating it. Barry’s gorgeous garment was made by designer Maciej Bohen. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU We want to hear from you! Submit a question https://forms.gle/qBSPjn88TWYSRAaN8 or DM us about topics you’d like us to discuss in our monthly mother-daughter “Don’t Change a Thing” episodes. FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Barry: @Barrybrandon FOLLOW Maciej Bohen: @maciejbohen Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
A Rockstar With a Limb-Difference: Victoria Canal
2025/05/29
Singer-songwriter Victoria Canal was born with one arm – but that never stopped her from stepping into the spotlight. Victoria challenges assumptions and questions celebrity culture, embodying the liberating belief that your body doesn’t define how you move through the world. Embracing her limb-difference, position in the public eye, and recovery from sexual assault, Victoria makes space to live out her depth and nuance. She reveals that while her wildest dream is to win a Grammy, she also craves creating art off-the-grid for the sake of self-expression; simply “being” and living out your complex wholeness is, and always has been, enough. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU We want to hear from you! Submit a question https://forms.gle/qBSPjn88TWYSRAaN8 or DM us about topics you’d like us to discuss in our monthly mother-daughter “Don’t Change a Thing” episodes. FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Victoria: @Victoriacanal Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
“Bad Feminist” Roxane Gay: Is Perfection Holding You Back from Self-Acceptance?
2025/05/15
Author, "bad feminist", and cultural icon Roxane Gay believes that self-acceptance isn’t a destination – in a society obsessed with robotic perfectionism, embracing our messy, complex humanity is a radical mindset. She attempts to welcome the parts that don’t fit the mold of her “ideal” self, including her trauma, fatness, age, lack of self-love and finding romance later in life. Roxane chooses acceptance over shame, nuance over binaries, and grace over judgement for herself and others. How would you feel if you forgave yourself for your short-comings and mistakes? Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU We want to hear from you! Submit a question https://forms.gle/qBSPjn88TWYSRAaN8 or DM us about topics you’d like us to discuss in our monthly mother-daughter “Don’t Change a Thing” episodes. FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Roxane: @Roxanegay74 Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
I’m 35 and the Biological Clock Is Ticking: Elisa & Lily on Motherhood vs Career
2025/05/08
In this special Mother’s Day episode of DCAT, Elisa and Lily get raw about the pressure of the biological clock—from Lily’s decision to freeze her eggs at 35 to Elisa’s choice to leave her styling career to become a full-time mom. Together, they explore the sacrifices motherhood demands, the tension between ambition and caregiving, and the intergenerational conflict around bringing children into an uncertain world. Is choosing motherhood an act of hope—or a gamble on a future that feels impossible to trust? Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU We want to hear from you! Submit a question https://forms.gle/qBSPjn88TWYSRAaN8 or DM us about topics you’d like us to discuss in our monthly mother-daughter “Don’t Change a Thing” episodes. FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Elisa and Lily: @Elisagoodkind @Lilymandelbaum Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
How Chappell Roan’s Stylist Failed Her Way to Success: Genesis Webb
2025/05/01
How did Genesis Webb go from a misunderstood, punk wallflower in the Bible Belt to superwoman stylist to artists like Chappell Roan and Lisa? A mixture of constant failure and unyielding faith in her authentic self. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn how being an outcast gave Genesis the strength to drive pop culture. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU We want to hear from you! Submit a question https://forms.gle/qBSPjn88TWYSRAaN8 or DM us about topics you’d like us to discuss in our monthly mother-daughter “Don’t Change a Thing” episodes. FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Genesis: @Genesiswbb Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
The Bible Says the Truth Will Set You Free… & I’m GAY: Queen of Melrose Cosmo Lombino
2025/04/24
How do you get to be the Queen of Melrose? You start as a little catholic queen with a mob dad and an accepting family, punching the bullies back, and living steadfastly by his own version of the Bible adage “the truth will set you free.” That’s how gay internet personality, fashion designer, and stylist Cosmo Lombino did it anyways. From his battle with addiction to the soaring success of self-expression that is his store “Cosmo’s Glamsquad,” tune in to get inspired by Cosmo Lombino and how he never waited for permission to crown him/her/themself! Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU We want to hear from you! Submit a question https://forms.gle/qBSPjn88TWYSRAaN8 or DM us about topics you’d like us to discuss in our monthly mother-daughter “Don’t Change a Thing” episodes. FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Cosmo: @queenofmelrose Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
I Failed Loudly to Get This Fearless: Amber Ruffin
2025/04/17
After over a decade of being vulnerable on stage, comedian Amber Ruffin delivers the magnetic message that someone else’s truth is your lie, so take risks and fail loudly, because you are discovering your most authentic path. Amber has learned not to shrink herself – in fact, she’s embraced herself so much that she was uninvited from hosting the White House Correspondents' Dinner. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn how Amber taps into her “consequences be damned” attitude, pushing humor to access the deep courage and honesty that our society so desperately needs. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU We want to hear from you! Submit a question https://forms.gle/qBSPjn88TWYSRAaN8 or DM us about topics you’d like us to discuss in our monthly mother-daughter “Don’t Change a Thing” episodes. FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Amber Ruffin: @Amberruffin Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
How I Loved Myself When My Family Didn’t: Flèche Love
2025/04/10
Musician, composer, and artist Flèche Love found strength in her imagination, using clothing, music, and her voice as a vehicle to access the self-worth she didn’t receive in her loveless childhood home. She healed herself through self-expression, renaming herself, writing music, covering herself in tattoos, learning multiple languages, and dressing herself into the characters she imagined. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn how Flèche Love reclaimed and redefined herself from a victim of trauma to an agent of love as power. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU We want to hear from you! Submit a question https://forms.gle/qBSPjn88TWYSRAaN8 or DM us about topics you’d like us to discuss in our monthly mother-daughter “Don’t Change a Thing” episodes. FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Flèche Love: @flechelove Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Lena Waithe Is at Peace With Being Different
2025/04/03
Lena Waithe, Emmy winning writer, actor, and producer, has learned one essential writer’s rule: don’t judge your characters, but rather try to understand them. Living in a state of nonconformity and nuance, she has no need to worship OR tear down idols and celebrities, treats herself and others with grace, and is committed to the limitless internal value and beauty that everyone possesses, regardless of what society has told her. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn how Lena lives life with abandon, unafraid of failing, beginning again, or facing the real journey of life: accepting your truest self. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Lena Waithe: @lenawaithe Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Love Yourself Like Democracy Depends on It: Sarah Jones
2025/03/27
In this week’s episode, actress, comedian, writer, and director Sarah Jones is the embodiment of turning rejection into alignment. As a multicultural, Black artist who always felt like she was too much, she was boxed into minor, stereotypical roles in the entertainment industry. So, she created her own Tony Award-winning cast of diverse characters in her one-woman shows. Now she’s taking her understanding of the power of self-acceptance to the next level in this moment of extreme polarization through her podcast “America, Who Hurt You?”, spreading the message that the only way we can heal our country’s division is through deep, unconditional love for ourselves and each other. Watch the video version of the podcast: YouTube.com/StyleLikeU FOLLOW STYLELIKEU: @stylelikeu  SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER: StyleLikeU.com FOLLOW Sarah Jones: @yesimsarahjones Director: Elisa Goodkind Producer and editor: Kimberly Henry Casting: India Isaacson See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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4.9 out of 5
243 reviews
★★★★★
AgentRayneBeauX 2019/10/07
Newfound Gem!!!
I came across this podcast looking for podcasts featuring Jeffrey Marsh. Gave it a listen and here I am 4 episodes later listening to all the authenti...
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kh81 2024/08/27
wouldn't listen to more after victoria episode
i like the video series but the podcast doesn't work for me. i was extremely frustrated by the constant interruption of victoria in particular to try ...
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bettanbeckham 2021/07/31
Boring
I fell asleep watching. Nothing new or groundbreaking. Better podcasts out there.
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gretasolea 2019/07/30
My Favorite Podcast
Listening to this podcast has helped inspire my art and lifestyle in the most beautiful and healthy way. Thanks for helping me understand the true mea...
★★★★★
emma flores tattoo 2019/07/24
I listen to this all day—LOVE.
I love the presence and calm inquisitive demeanor—they truly listen and appreciate their guests. Thank you for keeping me company throughout my work d...
★★★★★
KelseaRose 2019/06/09
These conversations are a blessing.
I cannot possibly express my gratitude for all that these conversations have revealed to me about the human condition. So many different life struggle...
★★★★★
flourishanddecay 2019/05/17
refreshing, enlightening, and nuanced
what a breath of fresh air!!
★★★★★
JJahnay 2019/05/16
Very Intentional and Calming!!
I listen to this in place of my music when I am working or traveling. The interviews have this calming affect on my mood that I didn’t know could happ...
★★★★★
TheAnon101 2019/04/11
Amazing
Such great questions and insights. I love the range and depths of perspectives this podcast offers!
★★★★★
almondmilkisbest 2019/03/15
A Fan on All Platforms
I LovE StyleLikeU! I first started watching the YouTube videos, then followed on IG, and now the podcasts!
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