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Although performing stand-up comedy was what initially united Eliot, Brent, and H. Alan over 10 years ago, it’s their openness (and sense of humor) about feeling totally lost and disconnected from the gay community that’s truly bonded them. On YMIW, Eliot, Brent and H. Alan get down and dirty, exploring the good, bad, and ugly tropes of contemporary gay life, often the stuff that no one -- especially straight people -- discuss for fear of being labeled homophobic. (Don’t worry. They’ll do that for you.) Each episode features a special guest -- comedians, humorists, musicians, influencers, film/TV writers, journalists, politicians, etc. - as well as allies, enemies, and acquaintances from all backgrounds and professions, not just those in the public eye. And as white, urban-dwelling gay dudes in their thirties, Eliot, Brent and H. Alan check their own privilege at the door, eager to instead explore what life looks for those not afforded the same concessions.

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Reid Pope

2024/02/22

The brilliant comedian Reid Pope comes on to discuss their viral "thirst trap recreations," and how unamused many of those self-serious influencers were. But first, will you invest in the NEW Fire Island that's gonna be in Greece, I guess? And finally, learn how gays paved the way for all those straight DINKs out there. No, that's not a sex term, you'll just have to listen to find out what it means! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jenny Yang

2024/02/15

Comedian and action star (!!) Jenny Yang joins the guys to talk about her self-care rituals and fight scene prep. But first, find out what happened after Indiana opened up a hotline to report "transgressive" public school curriculum like...civil rights 😬. And finally, the guys debate post-wedding name changes but ONE host reveals he's inexplicably anti-all-last-names! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hot Topics: Oscars, Nipple Inspections and Straight Dudes Going Gay-ish

2024/02/08

The Oscars season is upon us! The guys pepper Alan, resident movie aficionado, with questions about this year's Oscar nods and glaring omissions. But first up, why the hell are there nipple inspections happening at gay bars in Seattle? And finally, speaking of movies like Saltburn [rolls eyes], Alan wants to know what the guys think of modern gay-baiting. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Matt McConkey

2024/02/07

Matt McConkey joins us AGAIN (hate to brag) to chat about why Sex in the City resonates with gays and to dish on its infamous reboot...fingers crossed Che Diaz doesn't listen. But first, we explore a new poll that reveals how LGBTs are more inclined to adopt and foster kids but fear of stigma stands in their way. And finally, would any of us visit a psychic? Find out AND hear our favorite psychic fail stories. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kim David Smith

2024/01/25

TWO GUESTS THIS WEEK! First, cabaret legend Kim David Smith comes on to talk Marlene Dietrich and a million other campy things that went over Brent's head. Plus, "Nate", a full service masseur (yes, Happy Endings included) joined us this week to have a frank, free-wheeling, and de-stigmatizing conversation about working in the sex industry. But first, the guys chat about Rep. Robert Garcia, the gay Congressman who quoted...the Housewives in Congress? 😬 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Maggie Winters

2024/01/18

The internet's funniest content creator Maggie Winters dazzles the guys with a convo that ranges from stew to her Disney World employee experience. But first, what do the guys think of the newest most powerful gay politician, France's Gabriel Attal? (Eat your heart out Latvia). And finally, we wade in on the 5000 word [sigh] editorial in the NYTimes about Taylor Swift's sexuality. Yikes. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Darby & Alexis (IMHO: The Show)

2024/01/11

Drag duo/icons Darby & Alexis (IMHO: The Show) basically come on and make the guys laugh for 25 minutes straight. But first, the guys discuss a Reddit thread about ways to garner 'gay attention' at the gym and why Brent qualifies as "skid row chic." And finally, hear the most precocious, adorable clip of Young Eliot, long before he was unhinged, on Public Radio! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Carson Garrett from 'Survivor' 44

2023/12/21

Survivor FINALIST Carson Garrett joins the guys to be extremely cute but also explore why he's become such a huge gay thirst trap. But first, find out what state is the gayest...percentage wise. And finally, a rare second guest! Alan brings on his good friend, Jonathan Edelman, to explore the DC gay scene and why we should all move there. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jeff Hiller

2023/12/14

The amazing Jeff Hiller, of Somebody Somewhere fame, joins the guys to chat about church, cliche gay characters, and bad improv! But first, the guys had no choice but to argue over the problematic nature of George Santos' Cameo page. And finally, learn what anxieties keep these three up at night. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bryan Safi

2023/12/07

The incomparable Bryan Safi joins us (AGAIN!!) to gab about his myriad podcasts and new solo show. But first, the guys discuss a shockingly spiteful anti-trans measure to come from a small community in California of all places! And finally, find out which of the three loves the global phenom Taylor Swift and which are neutral! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sarah Tapscott

2023/11/30

The hilarious comedy writer Sarah Tapscott joins the guys to talk about coming out "late" and, well, doll g******s. But first, why is Fox News anti-black handicapped Santas? And finally, the guys explore whether Brent was chatting on Hinge with a robot profile which leads them to a pretty terrifying revelation at the end! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shane O'Neill

2023/11/16

Shane O'Neill, fashion, culture, and media writer for WaPo's StylePost, mesmerizes the guys with his wealth of knowledge about all things culture! But first, we must debate Marjorie Taylor Greene's most recent publicity stunt. And finally, Brent shares some very shocking differences between gay and straight protocols on dating apps. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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4.3 out of 5

428 reviews

Chichi Mirengue 2023/03/18

This going to sound awful

But besides the fact that Eliot, Brent and H. have a hilarious and thoughtful podcast, they do so without vocal fry and without saying everything like...

Trixie’s Dad 2023/12/08

Insufferable

Self-loathing meets condescension and vomits into a mic.

pencilpuberty 2023/08/30

Whiny.

Three 30-something Los Angeles gay guys who have lost touch with the rest of the country and just spend the hour whining. 🙄 Hope you like Up-Speak & ...

smroland12 2023/02/12

Hilarious!

These guys crack me up every week. I love the mix of funny and serious— and always an interesting guest, also sometime funny and sometimes serious!

Dmk0988 2023/02/10

Love them!

Love the banter and silly questions! Been listening for years and highly recommend!

Newsychu 2023/02/10

Meh!

I've followed Brent and Eliot over here from "It Gets Betterish"! I love the format of the pod, glad to know H. Allen now, and really really wish "It ...

ashleyyyp 2023/01/05

Like a warm cookie out of the oven

I love this podcast and have since day on. Nothing makes me laugh while comforting me just as much. (And I’m straight.) Thank you, you three!

itsdavie 2022/12/09

Internalized homophobia happens, but it can be entertaining

Toxic Listener 2022/11/11

Great!

I really like the political and social commentary, as well as the personal talk. But sometimes there is too much discussion about social media, influe...

biokeg 2022/09/01

These guys are unhinged

The latest episode with Barbara Dixon is so funny. I listen most weeks to the guys. They’re always funny. I think the topics they cover are smart and ...

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