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Bri Woodson, descendant of Carter G. Woodson (also known as The Father of Black History), sat down with Danielle to discuss how we can each show up in this moment, as Black history is getting erased, racism is on the rise, and fear seems to be a main tactic of this administration. Bri talks about the intersection between racism and mental health, and how we need to change our understanding and treatment of that which is so deeply embedded in the soul of this country. Is it possible that racism changes the makeup of DNA and other physical aspects of human's genetic makeup? Will it even be possible to convince people, in this divisive climate, that racism is something we need to discuss and dismantle on such a more profound level? Bri also discusses how White women, and especially, parents, need to be that much more cognizant of how we are speaking to our kids, and how we are allowing others to speak and behave, just because they are "family." Why is it so important that we stop giving our friends and family a "pass" because they are people in our lives about whom we care? Additionally, she breaks down the real history and celebration behind Juneteenth, and why it is such an important aspects of Black history. This episode is filled with the truth, harsh realizations, and strategies to be better humans who show up for those in need right now, that so many of us need to hear and utilize. Follow Bri at The Controversial Blonde on Instagram and TikTok. Check out her amazing resources and substack here and then send her links to five friends, because we all need more education from Bri right now!! If you listen to Marriage and Martinis, you know what Adam and I went through after the election, and how disconnected we were. Where we are now feels worlds ahead, in a REALLY awesome way. Of course, we've been doing this communication thing publicly for a minute (ok, seven years to be exact), so we definitely have a leg up on what works. That's why I created (Re)Connecting Through The Chaos - The ONLY relationship guide for right now. Filled with activities, tons of conversation starters, and fresh ways to approach sensitive issues such as current events, boundaries with family members, and how we can better understand and show up for one another as partners. If you loved the Date Night Questions Experience, you will LOVE this guide. For podcast listeners only, use code, "RIGHTNOW" for 15% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Danielle challenges Adam to a Jeopardy-style game in which she asks him questions all about the history of Women's Rights, famous female badasses, and tons of miscellaneous knowledge concerning feminist topics. Looking to host a party, work event, or team-building experience? You have to check out Kabloom Events, and now is the perfect time and opportunity to support this LGBTQ+ inclusive company! They even donate 10% of their profits to LGBTQ+ non-profits. And make sure you mention Marriage and Martinis to get 15% off your event! It's almost the one-month anniversary of The 3AM Uprising! It has been so incredible to have a space in which like-minded, amazing women come together to uplift one another, feel safe venting and communicating, become better allies and activists, and get to have incredible experiences like workshops with experts and famous authors, and book and documentary clubs. For our one-month anniversary, I'm offering a FREE, one-week trial for our podcast listeners! Decide to stick around? It's only $29.99/month following! But the experience of being in a tight-knit community where EVERY SINGLE WOMAN supports and values the same issues as you? PRICELESS! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Danielle and Adam discuss new ventures on which they've both recently embarked. Adam opening a new store, and the first that's just his, and Danielle launching her new Virtual Community. The two discuss taking risks and delving into unknown territory in their late 40s: their excitement, concerns, and how it's impacted their relationship. Some things they discuss: What made Adam finally take the leap and do something so major, and why now?What's it like starting a new small business right now? Tariffs, economic uncertainty, etc.How Danielle has realized that everyone has a "superpower," and how she's trying to use hers to meet this moment.How have they been impacted by weight of the world, on top of dealing with work, family stuff, etc.Will Danielle be involved in Adam's new business? If so, in what ways? Curious about being a part of Danielle's new community, The 3AM Uprising? Check it out! Sponsor: Me! Visit https://partyfair.shop/ use code: MNM20 for 20% Off your first order! Our famous Mother's Day Digital downloads are now available! Perfect for brunch, dinner, or just your next "mom's night out!" Use code "MNM15" for 15% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Walter English has always loved history, but was always told that his family's history didn't exist. In 2021, a historian friend offered to help Walter fill in his family tree. Eventually with their help, Walter saw a slave census with his second great grandfather’s name on it. After that, everything changed for him. In this eye-opening, thought-provoking conversation, Danielle sat down with her friend Gina (who introduced her to The Blister English Project), and Walter English, a man on a mission to connect as many descendants of Chattel Slavery as possible with accurate family history. His mission is to uncover the stories and legacies that have been lost, burned, lied about or forgotten over time. And his stories and experiences are mesmerizing, gut-wrenching, and will hopefully make each of us better understand the ways in which we need to hold ourselves personally accountable to keep learning, listening, and doing our part to ensure that we progress as individuals and as a nation. Check out The Brister Project and if possible, please donate to this incredible endeavor. Follow Walter English on Instagram to stay up to date on the project and share his work far and wide! Follow Gina on Instagram for all things resistance, joy, and creativity. If you enjoyed this episode and learned something, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast on Apple and/or Spotify. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Admittedly, Danielle hasn't been very involved in the environmental lane of activism. We each have our lanes in which we feel most "qualified" and experienced to make an impact. And while this isn't one Danielle has concentrated on very deeply, members of her family have dedicated their life to this exact lane of activism. So when Danielle's incredible sister-in-law and her team at the Environmental Defense Fund, asked her to help disseminate crucial information that people (especially parents) may not otherwise acquire due to acts by the current administration, she of course knew she needed to use her platforms for this exact reason. Luckily, Kari Rhinehart, a mom from Indiana who has gone through the unimaginable, is beyond determined to retell her daughter's story to ensure we don't tune out and assume that just because we aren't hearing about "invisible" injustices and life-threatening exposures happening in our communities, that they aren't there. At 13-years-old, Kari's charismatic, passionate teen daughter, Emma, was diagnosed with a rare form of brain cancer. Determined to find out the cause, Kari began researching, and led to the overwhelming evidence that it was caused by trichloroethylene (TCE), a carcinogen that contaminated groundwater in Franklin, Indiana. Within a decade, over 50 other local children would be diagnosed with rare forms of blood, brain, and bone cancer. Devastatingly, Emma died three months later. Kari has not stopped fighting since then. Her story is heartbreaking, brave, and a stark reminder that we live in a society in which the greatest dangers are often the ones about which we've never been informed, on purpose. This conversation is not meant to instill overwhelming fear, but is a call-to-action for each of us to be increasingly observant, alert, and to trust our gut. With the enormous federal cuts taking place in environmental protections, even the limited information we once had is greatly at risk. For the unforeseeable future, it will be up to each of us and all of us to share stories, search for truth, and fight for justice, just like Kari. One small act can help this fight! Fill out the petition telling congress to protect our communities from TCE! Want to find out if your community is at risk for Petrochemical Air Pollution? Check out this map. Passionate about Climate Action and Environmental protections? Learn more about the amazing work the EDF is doing, and donate to further support their impactful agenda. SOMETHING EXCITING IS HAPPENING! Sign up for emails to learn more about Danielle's new community for women, The 3AM Uprising! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When Danielle asked Adam to watch Adolescence, he was a little confused at first. But as he kept watching, he started to put the pieces together as to why. In this episode, they discuss aspects of the series, including how much there's still to learn about teenage life nowadays, and how much we, as parents, have to keep up with. Topics include: Andrew Tate's influence on our younger generation.How" Adolescence" relates to the movie "Fight Club."Why podcasters such as Joe Rogan are more insidious than they seem.How Right Wing influencers use "pop culture" and "gossip" to lure people in.In what ways does the Wellness industry lead to "tradwife" culture?What aspects of Danielle and Adam's own parenting do they think they've done well concerning these situations, and how can they improve? If you enjoy this episode, make sure you check out our episodes Pivot One and Pivot Two. Please don't forget to rate and review on Apple and/or Spotify! and please share our podcast and social media with friends and family! Make sure to get on our email list to receive updates on Danielle's new community, and other current events! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this "catch up" episode, Danielle and Adam do their best to keep things more on the lighthearted side despite everything being complete chaos. Of course, it's virtually impossible to do that right now, so it winds up being a blended conversation of a lot of different timely subjects for them, including: Adam selling his Tesla, which he also calls, "his favorite thing he ever bought."Adam's thoughts about Danielle's episode with her mom.Danielle's first trip, at age 47, to a dispensary.The reliance of "vices" right now, while we're all on "airport time."Why Danielle just canceled her trip to speak at the largest mom's convention in the world.Why it's hard to bond as partners right now, and how we need to work harder to maintain connection. If you want to follow Marriage and Martinis despite whatever happens to social media, make sure you're signed up for their email. Get Marriage and martinis FREE ACTIVIST GUIDE! If you enjoyed this episode, or others, it would mean so much if you rate and review the podcast on Apple and/or Spotify. Episodes mentioned in this episode that you might love: Get in B*tches, We're going to F*ck Sh*t Up! Eight Decades: An Episode With Danielle's Mama Pivot Episodes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Danielle has been wanting to sit down with some people who have been inspiring her throughout this new movement to fight for Democracy and humanity. Gina is a content creator whom Danielle has come to really respect and admire for her incredible voice and insight. She was so excited that Gina agreed to be a guest on the podcast. Danielle and Gina discuss: How Gina's brand has morphed and evolved recently.Gina's thoughts about the election results and why there's so many issues surrounding the outcome.Growing up in the south, and how it impacted her ideals and views.Participating in a 100 day consumer boycott.How Gina is staying grounded and "calm-ish" during this period.The process of becoming a "self-sufficient" household.The "extinction burst" of the patriarchy.The necessary conversation Gina had with her husband immediately following the election. And so much more! Learn more about Gina and her incredible magazine and courses here! Follow her on instagram! Get our FREE activist guide! Like what we're doing? Please buy us a coffee to support our work and efforts to keep fighting the good fight! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Danielle fully realizes what a privilege it is to be able to sit down with her mom, Linda, and discuss eight decades of her life! And right now, we need to learn from the wisdom and experiences of older women more than ever! In this episode, Danielle and her mom discuss: Linda's childhood: growing up in Trenton, NJ. Which inventions/advancements she most remembersPolio and the vaccineWhether or not there was ever a thought that a woman could choose not to get married and have kidsHow she raised three activistsDid she and her husband ever disagree about politicsHow worried is she about the state of our democracyThe rise in vaccine skepticism, intolerance of immigrants, and the attack on women and other marginalized groupsAND SO MUCH MORE! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Adam and Danielle discuss Danielle's most recent diagnosis. Danielle talks about how this new "revelation" about herself has been somewhat emotional, even though the diagnosis is something she's known about herself for so long. Other subtopics include: Why didn't Danielle tell Adam she was going to get evaluated?What aspect of ADHD has been the most eye-opening for Danielle?How ADHD is further exposing the unfairness of gender roles for womenWhen did Danielle first become suspicious that she has ADHD?Why hasn't Adam done more research, gotten more help concerning his ADHD? If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and review! It would mean so much right now if you could buy us a coffee! And thank you all for your ongoing support. We love you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this part follow-up to the post election episodes, part "how do we best support one another in hard times?" episode, Danielle highlights an obvious shift in Adam's overall attentiveness and sensitivity towards her recently. She wonders what has prompted this change, and how Adam feels since making it. What is Adam doing differently that Is totally making Danielle feel seen and heard in a way she never has before? She also asks whether or not he's still listening to Joe Rogan, and what he thinks about "bro culture" amidst the current state of things in the country. Additionally, as Adam is facing new endeavors in his business life, how can Danielle best support him? What methods of care and comfort are most effective for Adam from Danielle? Plus, we polled around 5,000 members of our audience about the current state of their relationship and mutual support at the present moment. Danielle reads the answers, and discusses what their audience thinks about how differing views of the current administration is affecting their relationships. Have you downloaded the FREE Marriage and Martinis' activist guide? Make sure you keep checking it, as it's being updated weekly with new ways to take action, more small business to support, and issues that need more attention. Share it with anyone you think might find it to be useful. Right now, while Danielle is putting her brand deals and affiliate programs aside to concentrate on content that's more relevant and necessary to the current events taking place, she would be so appreciative if you would BUY HER A COFFEE. The support helps ensure that she can keep working on free resources such as the activist guide, sharing important information on the Marriage and Martinis' platforms, and collaborate with other content creators to ensure they're offering the most helpful resources available to their audiences. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Danielle and Adam have the opportunity to choose one challenge for each other to complete in the next thirty days. They discuss how they came up with these challenges, how they think one another should go about doing the work to complete them, and what the ultimate goal is for each. Start your challenge now! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Following up to their episode from two weeks ago, "What does Adam REALLY need?" it's Danielle's turn to discuss what it is she most wants and needs from a partner at this stage of life. Danielle and Adam discuss: What does "romance" even mean anymore?What's the difference between being "sweet" and being "romantic?" What did Adam ask Danielle for the first time a few days ago that he had never asked her before?Why "companionship" is taking on a more important role the older Danielle gets?In what ways has Adam really stepped up and showed he's finally listening to certain needs that Danielle has long expressed?Why "self-awareness" can help avoid so many issues in a relationship. Want to follow the same steps as Adam and Danielle when they were working on healing their relationship? Check out the 30 Day Challenge! Check out their wildly popular Date Night Questions book and ebook. Use code "Reconnect" to get 15% off! Make sure to follow Marriage and Martinis on Instagram to keep up with new events, episodes, and a whole lot of laughter! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this highly requested episode, Danielle gives her perspective concerning the current F*ckedupedness happening in our country. Things seem REALLY bleak. And yes, we have a sh*t ton of work to do. But Danielle also wants everyone to remember, that this HAS always been our country. This time, we just have no choice but to not look away. In this episode: Why Danielle is optimistic, while also enraged and of course, worried.How our upbringings as Gen-Xers and Millennials give us a false sense that our country is "more divided than ever."Her very philosophical comparison of Trump to Charlie and The Chocolate Factory.Why we CANNOT look away right now, and what we can do to stay motivated.Small ways we can make a different even while being exhausted AF. If you enjoy this episode, it would mean so much if you could support Danielle by buying her a coffee so she can keep doing the work and sharing with you! Also, if you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast, on Apple and/or Spotify. CHECK INSTAGRAM STORIES or the blog for the guide to this episode, which will be available late in the afternoon EST. Also, make sure you subscribe to the podcast and sign up for emails if you want to receive updates on ways to participate and get involved. Know friends or family members who would love this episode? Please, share it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After what was possibly the most volatile year of their relationship, Danielle asks Adam what he truly, at this point in his life, needs from a partner. Also, how is Danielle doing satisfying these needs? How have his needs changed over the years? Some other things discussed: Why did Adam recently think Danielle might be cheating on him, and how did he react?What romantic gesture did Danielle make in an attempt to kickstart the two of them "dating" each other again?Adam's semi-viral text to their kids, and why Danielle calls it, "one of the sexiest things" Adam has ever done. Look out for next week's episode when it's Danielle's turn to tell Adam what she really needs. Looking for Valentine's Day ideas? Check out our Amazon Shop for all of Danielle's favorites, from fun decorating ideas, to romantic date night essentials. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.