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On Halloween 2018, an emergency response at a Kailua-Kona fire station led investigators to uncover a tragic pattern of abuse inside what a judge officially termed a "House of Horrors." Join host Honey today, on the Aloha Mysteries Podcast as we honor the memory of 6-year-old Mazen Kaniela Nihipali-Moniz, break down the timeline of events, review the grand jury indictments and court sentencings of Ashley Rose Nihipali and Kuʻuipo Leinaʻala Nihipali, and discuss the wider impact on our Big Island and Hawai'i Communities. There are so many children that need a voice. Also mentioned in this podcast episode includes: Benjamin Benny Boy Rapoza and Peter Peter Boy Kema Jr. Hawaii tragedies happen far more often than we think. In this episode, we cover: The Halloween 2018 emergency response in Kailua-KonaThe investigation into caregivers Ashley and Kuʻuipo NihipaliThe court verdict, 25-year prison sentence, and 5-year probation termsRemembering Hawaii's lost children: Benny Boy Rapoza and Peter Boy Kema Jr.Resources for anonymous child abuse reporting in Hawaiʻi Join me as we discuss another Hawaii True Crime story. As part of the True Crime Community it's important that we create an awareness for these children. The Aloha Mysteries Podcast is a True Crime Podcast Series under the Honey, Unscripted brand. ⚠️ Listener Advisory: This episode contains sensitive details of child abuse and homicide.📞 Anonymous Reporting Lines (Hawaiʻi): Neighbor Islands: 888-380-3088 | Oʻahu: 808-832-5300 Connect with the Aloha Mysteries Podcast :Don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen!

Imagine looking back at your wedding photos, only to see a particular person frowning in yours, while smiling brightly in every single photo with others. In today’s episode, we are answering a powerful viewer question: How do you forgive someone who deeply betrayed you? To answer this, I’m getting completely transparent about my own life. I'm sharing a #StoryTime that I've talked about briefly in the past, but today I'm talking about the one person who treated me the worst since I was a little girl. The painful reality of being singled out... is actually much more common than we think. Here are the steps I had to take to choose forgiveness and find my own peace anyway. Want to watch the YouTube video instead? https://youtu.be/5o4fe9kmZoc Connect with Honey, Unscripted: YouTube: https://youtu.be/5o4fe9kmZocInstagram: https://instagram.com/honeygirlkTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@honeygirlsworld

Stop letting people who aren't riding for you have front-row seats to your private life. In this episode of Honey, Unscripted, we’re getting real about fake loyalty, hidden envy, and why keeping your intimate life moments to yourself is a requirement. Let’s keep it real: too many people are quick to celebrate your losses while secretly downplaying your wins. We break down the warning signs of people with ulterior motives—the ones who claim to be close but are just waiting for you to fail. It’s time to stop oversharing, protect your energy, and realize who is actually down for you. Connect with Honey, Unscripted: YouTube: https://youtu.be/E9bjqM2JzQgInstagram: https://instagram.com/honeygirlkTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@honeygirlsworld

What does it REALLY mean to be equally yoked?We talk so much about chemistry, attraction, compatibility, and finding someone who “matches our energy”… but what happens when life doesn't go according to plan?Because relationships aren't built overnight.Life happens.Children happen.Jobs change.Money gets tight.People get sick.We lose people we love.Dreams change.And sometimes, the person who needs to be carried isn't the person we expected it to be.In this episode of Honey, Unscripted, we're having a very real conversation about what it means to choose a partner - not just for the good seasons, but for the difficult ones too.Is being equally yoked about being exactly alike?Does incredible sexual chemistry mean you're actually compatible?Are you choosing the person in front of you - or the person you hope they'll become?And perhaps the biggest question of all:When life gets hard, do you still want to sit beside this person and figure it out together?Because being equally yoked doesn't necessarily mean matching someone's personality, interests, or mood.Sometimes it means moving in the same direction, sharing the same core values, and knowing that when one person only has 20% to give, the other person is willing to carry the remaining 80%.And then… sometimes the roles reverse.That's partnership.That's commitment.That's the part of relationships nobody puts on the wedding invitations.Would you still choose your partner if everything about your current life changed tomorrow?💜 Welcome to Honey, Unscripted — where we talk about relationships, marriage, motherhood, life, the uncomfortable truths, and everything in between.

Have you ever wondered why couples divorce after 20, 30, or even 40 years together? In this episode of Honey, Unscripted, we're diving into one of the most misunderstood topics in long-term relationships. Most marriages don't end because of one argument or one bad day, they often end after years of emotional distance, unresolved conflict, unspoken needs, and accumulated disappointments. We'll discuss: ❤️ Why long-term marriages sometimes fall apart❤️ Emotional disconnection in marriage❤️ Empty nest syndrome and relationships❤️ Growing together vs. growing apart❤️ Why people rediscover themselves later in life❤️ The importance of communication before resentment builds❤️ Finding healthy ways to reduce stress and reconnect with yourself Whether you're happily married, dating, divorced, or simply interested in understanding relationships on a deeper level, this conversation is meant to encourage reflection - not judgment. I'd love to hear from you: 👉 Why do you think so many couples divorce after decades together? Share your thoughts respectfully in the comments below. 💜 Don't forget to Like, Subscribe, and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode of Honey, Unscripted.

Have you ever heard someone say, "I didn't mean it... I was drunk"? Today's Honey, Unscripted conversation dives into one of the most debated questions in relationships:Does alcohol reveal who someone truly is, or does it simply lower their inhibitions enough for them to act without thinking? From cheating and flirting to inappropriate conversations and crossed boundaries, we’re talking about the difference between an explanation and an excuse. In this episode, I share my personal thoughts on: The phrase "a drunk mind speaks a sober heart"Whether alcohol reveals hidden desires or simply impacts judgmentWhy accountability still matters when someone is under the influenceThe difference between impulse and intentionHow boundaries can be crossed long before physical cheating happensWhy "I was drunk" doesn't erase the choices someone made This is a conversation about honesty, responsibility, relationships, and the choices we make when nobody is watching.I know not everyone will agree, and that's okay. The goal of Honey, Unscripted is to have real conversations about difficult topics while respecting different perspectives. So I want to know: Do you think alcohol reveals someone's true self... or does it simply remove their self-control?Let's talk about it. 💜 Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6RaaW-xqXwoCheck out the blog: https://honeygirlsworld.com/does-alcohol-reveal-who-you-really-are-cheating-flirting-the-truth-behind-i-was-drunk/

In this episode of Honey, Unscripted, we’re having a real conversation about something that’s been sitting heavy on my mind… When did relationships become content for views? From couples content to family vlogs, social media has blurred the line between sharing your life and exploiting it. What used to feel authentic now sometimes feels like public humiliation, clout chasing, and disrespect—disguised as entertainment. As a wife, a mother, and a content creator of nearly two decades, I’ve seen the shift firsthand. And I’ll say this loud and clear:I’m not building my platform at the expense of my marriage or my family. In this episode, we talk about: The rise of couples content and family vloggingPublic embarrassment masked as “jokes”Using relationships for views, engagement, and cloutThe long-term impact on partners, children, and trustWhy protecting your relationship matters more than going viralThis is real talk about respect, boundaries, and what should never be sacrificed for social media success. 💬 I want to hear from you…Where do YOU draw the line when it comes to relationships and content? Watch the YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/107quKdQytc Read the Blog Post: CHAPTERS: 00:00 – When Did Relationships Become Content? 00:22 – Intro + What’s Been Bothering Me Lately 01:40 – The Rise of Couples & Family Content 03:00 – When “Funny Content” Crosses the Line 05:15 – Public Humiliation Disguised as Entertainment/Content 08:10 – Viral Videos That Made Me Pause 11:30 – When Content Starts Damaging Relationships 14:20 – Divorce, Clout & Social Media Fallout 17:10 – Why I Protect My Marriage (My Perspective) 19:45 – Relationships Are Not 50/50 (They’re 100/100) 22:10 – Content vs. Respect: Where’s the Line? 25:30 – Using Kids for Content (This Part Bothered Me Most) 30:10 – Safety Issues & Oversharing Online 34:00 – Is This Real… or Just for Views? 37:20 – The Long-Term Impact on Kids & Family 40:15 – Social Media Lives Forever (Be Careful) 43:10 – Are People Really Like This Off Camera? 46:30 – Going Viral at Whose Expense? 49:20 – Why I Will NEVER Build My Platform This Way 52:10 – Is This Behavior Becoming Normalized? 55:00 – Stop Supporting This Type of Content 58:20 – Brands, Sponsorships & Accountability 01:01:30 – Final Thoughts: Respect Over Engagement 01:03:00 – Let’s Talk: Where Do YOU Draw the Line?

In this episode of Honey, Unscripted, I’m getting real about why I haven’t been posting the same and what changed my perspective on social media. We talk a lot about growth, consistency, and showing up online — but not enough about privacy, boundaries, and what happens when things get too close to real life. This episode dives into: ✨ Why I stepped back from posting ✨ The pressure of social media ✨ The reality of sharing your life online ✨ And why I’m choosing to move differently Because once it’s online… it doesn’t just disappear. This is real talk - no filters, no scripts. Check out the YouTube Video and Blog Post: YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/pH8ydC4BVjk Blog Post:

In this episode of Honey, Unscripted, we're diving into the controversial topic of work wives and work husbands - known as a work spouse. Are they harmless work friendships - or emotional boundaries waiting to be crossed? From secrecy and emotional reliance to respect and relationship accountability, this episode breaks down where the line really is and why so many people get defensive when it's questions. This isn't about control or insecurity - it's about protecting your relationship and honoring your partner. Real talk, real perspective, no sugarcoating. Watch the YouTube Podcast here: https://youtu.be/CD3M4IIRspY Read the blog post here: https://honeygirlsworld.com/work-wives-work-husbands-harmless-or-crossing-the-line-honey-unscripted-podcast/

Is it really cheating if it happens online? In episode of Honey, Unscripted, I’m breaking down the modern gray areas of cheating—social media behavior and subscribing to paid online content like Patreon or platforms similar to OnlyFans.We’re talking about why people minimize digital behavior, how online interactions can still create intimacy, and why “it’s not physical” doesn’t automatically mean it’s harmless. From liking and commenting on provocative posts to paying for exclusive content, I’m sharing my honest, unfiltered opinion as your online bestie—not a therapist, not a judge.If something makes you uncomfortable but you’ve been told you’re overreacting, this conversation is for you.💬 Let’s talk in the comments:Where do YOU draw the line when it comes to online behavior in relationships? CHAPTERS: 0:00 - Welcome Back + Introducing Honey's Truths 1:50 - Why This Series Exists and Where the Question Came From 4:10 - The Situation: Liking, Commenting & Provocative Social Media 08:20 - "You're Overreacting": Gaslighting & Emotional Manipulation 12:00 - Is it Cheating? Honey's Honest Answer 16:40 - The Secret Accounts: When It Moves Into Hiding 21:20 - Only Fans Subscriptions & Financial Betrayal 26:30 - Porn, Paid Content & Boundaries in Relationships 32:10 - Narcissim, Control & Breaking Down Self-Worth 37:50 - Real Life Example: Bachelor Party Cheating Story 43:10 - Attraction vs. Finding Someone Attractive - Attraction vs Fantasizing 47:00 - Social Media Addiction & Fantasy Culture 50:30 - Honey's Truth: When to Walk Away 54:20 - How to Submit Questions & Series Plans 56:10 - Final Thoughts and Signing Off Read the Blog Post for more info: https://honeygirlsworld.com/is-it-really-cheating-social-media-paid-online-subscriptions-honey-unscripted-podcast/

In this episode of Honey, Unscripted, I’m talking about what it really means to live a soft life — not the social media trend, but the version that’s about peace, balance, and self-worth. After years of hustle culture and constant pressure, I’ve learned that softness doesn’t mean weakness. It means learning to rest without guilt, choosing calm over chaos, and finding strength in stillness. If you’ve ever felt burnt out, overwhelmed, or like you’re always “on,” this episode is your reminder to slow down and reconnect with yourself. The soft life is about creating space for healing, setting boundaries, and choosing peace — even when the world tells you to do the opposite. ✨ Honey, Unscripted — real stories, honest reflections, and conversations that remind you to live life on your terms.

In this candid episode of Honey, Unscripted, I dive into the world of content creation, sharing my journey of nearly 20 years in the field. Long before 'influencer' became the buzzword, I was building authentic connections and crafting meaningful content. Join me in this raw and unfiltered car confessional as I discuss: The evolution of content creation over two decades. The stark differences between content creators and influencers. Why the term 'influencer' doesn’t resonate with me—and what truly matters in this industry. Whether you're a content creator, aspiring influencer, or simply curious about the digital landscape, this episode sheds light on what it really takes to stay authentic and successful in a fast-changing space. 🚗💬 #ContentCreator #CarConfessionals #NotAnInfluencer #AuthenticContent #HoneyUnscripted #PodcastLife" Take the poll and let me know.

Season 1 - Episode 1 Welcome back, guys—or welcome to those of you who are new! Happy 2025! I hope you all had a great start to the new year. I’m so excited to be sharing with all of you a new outlook and rebranding of a podcast that I’m extremely passionate about. Today, I’d like to introduce you to Honey, Unscripted.

Do you or someone you know deal with the generational trauma from your past? How are you dealing with this and does it affect your life now? Does it affect your future? In our first episode of the year 2024, we are going to be talking about Generational Trauma and how we can harness the power of these inherited wounds to unleash the magic in us and seize the moment and our future. In this Podcast, I am not taking a deep dive into the subject as I would like but simply sharing a little of my experience and how I use it as my driving force. This is a quick listen, so use it as a way to open your mind to other things and pave the way to healing. Check out the transcript for this episode: https://freepodcasttranscription.com/transcription/5839b9e531c597b72bf4278abe452ac997dd7222.srt Disclaimer: This Podcast episode includes parts of my own experience. I am not a licensed therapist or professional. Please seek assistance and do not use this as a way to diagnose or treat. Link to the transcript: https://freepodcasttranscription.com/transcription/5839b9e531c597b72bf4278abe452ac997dd7222.srt

Aloha Fam & Welcome to the Aloha Mysteries Podcast. Over the last few years I did my True Crime Videos & Podcast under Honeygirl's World and I figured I would go ahead and start a True Crime Podcast through YouTube. This new Podcast - called The Aloha Mysteries will now feature my videos and episodes regarding True Crime. Today's case is about Missing Person Case Winston Kalani Torres-Kamai. Missing Since: 02/02/2010 from Makawao, Hawaii - The Island of Maui Male, Biracial - 29 years old at the time of disappearance Last seen wearing a long-sleeved blue button-down shirt over a black t-shirt, and blue jeans. Height/Weight: 5'8" - 145 to 155 lbs Black hair, brown eyes - Winston had a shaved head at the time of his disappearance and a goatee. If you have any information regarding this case - contact Maui County Police Department at: 808-244-6400 Case Sources: NAMUS Case File Page: https://www.namus.gov/MissingPersons/Case#/71045/details Missing Winston Kalani Torres-Kamai Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/people/Missing-Winston-Kalani-Torres-Kamai/100069970743479/ Websleuths: https://www.websleuths.com/forums/threads/hi-winston-kalani-torres-kamai-29-makawao-2-february-2010.601074/ The Charley Project: https://charleyproject.org/case/winston-kalani-torres-kamai Disclaimer: This video is for educational & entertainment purposes. My goal in creating True Crime-type videos is to bring awareness to the cases and hopefully get the word out so families can find their loved ones. Research on these cases is done by searching online, speaking with family & friends, speaking with law enforcement, and other available info. News reports posted in my True Crime Videos are for information only.