Welcome to Overcoming PTSD with Brad Schipke — the show that helps trauma survivors fully recover and rebuild their lives without therapy or medication.
I’m Brad Schipke, a trauma recovery coach who’s personally healed PTSD, complex PTSD, and addiction. I know exactly how hopeless trauma can feel — and I also know the proven path forward.
Each week, you’ll get powerful conversations, science-backed tools, and real-world strategies for healing trauma, calming your nervous system, and overcoming PTSD symptoms for good.
We’ll explore how to:
Process unhealed memories safely and effectively
Regulate anxiety, panic, and emotional flashbacks
Rebuild relationships and self-trust after trauma
End cycles of depression, dissociation, and avoidance
Create a life filled with peace, purpose, and joy
Through in-depth interviews with survivors and experts, plus my own lessons from guiding thousands through recovery, you’ll discover what actually works — and what doesn’t — in the healing process.
Whether you’re at the beginning of your journey or deep in recovery, you’ll find hope, validation, and clear next steps here.
Because healing from PTSD and CPTSD isn’t a dream — it’s a repeatable, achievable reality.
You can heal.
You deserve to heal.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
Join me every week for new episodes, and start your transformation today at OvercomingPTSD.com
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#93 Bilateral Processing Bootcamp | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/02/04
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Bilateral Processing Bootcamp: Foundations For PTSD Recovery
Why Bilateral Processing Is A Game Changer For Trauma Healing
From Dependent Therapy To Independent PTSD Recovery
Is Processing Trauma On Your Own Safe? The Truth About PTSD Healing
How To Stop Ruminating And Start Processing PTSD At The Root
The Mindset Shift That Makes Trauma Recovery Inevitable
Bilateral Processing For PTSD: Building Confidence To Heal Yourself
Overcoming Fear Of Trauma Processing And Taking Your Power Back
From Chaos To Clarity: Creating A PTSD Healing System That Works
Why Imperfect Action Beats Perfect Therapy In Trauma Recovery
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this episode, Brad and Kayleen kick off a special Bilateral Processing Bootcamp week, laying the mindset foundations you need before using one of the most powerful trauma-processing tools they teach. Instead of jumping straight into technique, they walk you through why your beliefs, expectations, and attitude toward healing will make or break your results.
You’ll learn why bilateral processing (similar in concept to EMDR) can give you “unlimited therapy sessions” on your own time, and why it’s actually more dangerous to stay stuck in rumination, self-sabotage, and triggers than it is to process your trauma. Brad and Kayleen dismantle the myth that you need a professional with you at every step and explain the shift from dependent healing to independent healing.
They also reframe discomfort as a good sign that you’re moving toward freedom, not further harm. By the end, you’ll see that you don’t have to be perfect, you don’t need a PhD, and you’re not “too broken” — you just need the right foundations, the right tools, and the decision to keep going.
💡 What You’ll Learn
Why bilateral processing can feel like “unlimited therapy sessions” you control
The difference between dangerous trauma patterns and healthy discomfort in processing
How to shift from dependent healing to independent, self-directed PTSD recovery
Why imperfect action with trauma tools beats waiting to feel “ready” or perfect
How to build a mindset where healing becomes inevitable if you don’t give up
The role of recovery tools and nervous system relief skills before deep processing
How to stay aware of your emotional state and know your limits while processing
Why loving yourself through “ugly” thoughts and feelings is essential to trauma healing
How to stay patient and consistent so trauma work becomes a sustainable habit
🧠 Key Takeaway
Healing from PTSD becomes inevitable when you stop waiting for perfect conditions, trust yourself with the tools, and keep taking imperfect action.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Welcome to Bootcamp Week
01:47 The Power of Bilateral Processing
02:41 Bootcamp Week Overview
05:24 Foundations of Processing
07:25 Mindset and Safety in Processing
09:26 Independent Healing and Empowerment
20:55 Pain vs. Discomfort in Processing
24:46 The Journey to Healing
26:12 Embracing Imperfection in the Healing Process
26:33 Shifting Your Mindset for Recovery
26:51 The Importance of Imperfect Action
27:09 Redefining Success in Healing
27:20 The Role of Education and Growth
27:57 Key Takeaways for Effective Processing
28:33 Understanding the Healing Journey
33:10 The Power of Decision in Recovery
37:51 Staying Positive and Consistent
45:38 Upcoming Events and Final Thoughts
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • bilateral processing • EMDR style processing • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • independent healing • overcoming PTSD triggers • rumination vs processing • mindset for trauma recovery • self-guided trauma work • PTSD relief tools • recovery toolbox • processing trauma memories • overcoming fear of healing • imperfect action in recovery • healing beliefs and affirmations
#92 How to Have Fun After PTSD (Without Feeling Guilty)
2026/02/03
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In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad and the community explore three powerful but often overlooked parts of PTSD recovery: having fun again, processing in real time, and finding sober, healthy people to share life with. You’ll see how fun isn’t a denial of your pain, but an essential skill you can rebuild after trauma.
You’ll learn why enjoying time alone is a learned skill that PTSD can shut down—and how to gently reclaim it through small, intentional choices. Brad shares practical examples from his own life and from the community, showing how to integrate play, silliness, and rest into a serious healing journey without feeling like you’re invalidating your struggles.
Then, the episode dives into “role-playing” for real-time processing—using visualization and self-talk to handle triggers, relationship conflicts, and everyday stress differently as they happen, instead of only in your formal processing sessions. Finally, Brad tackles the common fear of, “But all my friends drink,” and lays out how to meet sober, healthy people anywhere, both online and in your local community, so your environment actually supports your recovery.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How to rebuild the skill of having fun by yourself after PTSD or trauma
Why joy and pain can exist at the same time without cancelling each other out
Simple ideas for solo fun that feel safe, gentle, and actually enjoyable
How to use role-playing and visualization to process triggers in real time
Ways to turn worst-case-scenario thinking into healing inner dialogue
How to apply your processing work to real relationships and conversations
Practical strategies to meet sober, healthy people in any town or city
How to handle the objection “but all my friends drink” without staying stuck
Why changing your social circle is critical for long-term PTSD recovery
🧠 Key Takeaway
You can be in deep pain and still practice fun, safety, and connection—healing happens fastest when you allow both your darkness and your light to exist.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Starting the Live Coaching Session
01:13 Covering Three Topics: Overview
02:56 Topic 1: How to Have Fun by Yourself
16:25 Topic 2: Role Playing for Processing in Real Time
24:29 Identifying and Processing Common Problems
24:58 Preparing for Future Situations
25:58 Visualization and Self-Talk Techniques
27:35 Using Flashcards for Emotional Triggers
29:40 Meeting Sober and Healthy People
33:19 Building a Supportive Community
40:14 Q&A and Upcoming Events
44:50 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • CPTSD healing • trauma recovery tools • learning to have fun again after trauma • nervous system regulation • emotional regulation • real-time trauma processing • role-playing for healing • visualization for PTSD • overcoming worst-case thinking • trauma and relationships • sober living after trauma • how to meet sober friends • rebuilding your social circle • healthy coping skills • recovery mindset • trauma healing community • overcoming avoidance • life after PTSD
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In this episode, Brad breaks down why most people in PTSD and trauma recovery keep starting strong, burning out, and ending up right back where they began. Instead of chasing quick fixes or waiting to “feel motivated,” he introduces gradualism and the compound effect as the real path to full healing.
Using powerful examples—from the “magic penny” that quietly turns into millions to how two and a half Oreos a day can change your body over five years—Brad shows how tiny daily actions add up to massive transformation in your nervous system, relationships, and recovery. You’ll see why consistency is the only true “magic pill.”
You’ll also learn how to make your healing goals measurable and specific, so you actually know if you’re getting better. Brad walks through concrete PTSD metrics like distress and believability levels, and how to define what things like “peace,” “safety,” or “compassion” really mean for you.
By the end, you’ll know exactly how to move from all-or-nothing effort to simple, sustainable daily steps that move you from point A to point Z—no matter how big your trauma recovery goal is or how unmotivated you feel today.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How to stop relying on motivation and still move your PTSD recovery forward every day
Why “fly and die” effort keeps you stuck in trauma cycles and what to do instead
How the compound effect applies to PTSD healing, not just money or weight loss
How to turn vague goals like “heal” or “be more compassionate” into clear, measurable targets
Why small, consistent actions beat massive short-term pushes in trauma recovery
How to use distress and believability levels to track your PTSD progress over time
How to choose simple daily actions you’re truly willing to do, even on bad days
Why building a healing lifestyle gets you free faster than chasing shortcuts
How long-term thinking changes the way you approach sobriety, health, and nervous system regulation
🧠 Key Takeaway
Consistency is the only real magic pill in PTSD recovery—tiny daily steps, done over time, create the “overnight” transformation everyone else calls impossible.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Starting the Live Coaching Session
01:40 Setting and Defining Goals
06:00 The Importance of Consistency
09:49 Understanding the Compound Effect
13:54 Defining Personal Goals and Steps
16:58 The Role of Consistency in Achieving Goals
21:35 Clarifying Definitions and Breaking Down Goals
24:02 Exploring the Compound Effect with Examples
24:34 The Oreo Experiment: Small Changes, Big Impact
25:05 Life Happens in the Little Moments
28:23 Applying the Concept to Various Goals
36:10 Practical Examples and Personal Stories
39:09 Community Interaction and Upcoming Events
46:06 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • compound effect and PTSD • gradualism and consistency • small daily habits for trauma recovery • trauma coping tools • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • PTSD distress levels • believability levels in trauma processing • long-term healing mindset • sobriety and trauma recovery • overcoming all-or-nothing thinking • setting measurable healing goals • building a lifestyle of recovery
#90 Mosquito Thoughts | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/30
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Mosquito Thoughts: How Tiny Negative Thoughts Feed PTSD
How “Mosquito Thoughts” Quietly Sabotage Your PTSD Recovery
Stop the Spiral: Catching Small Negative Thoughts Before PTSD Takes Over
From Auto-Negative to Auto-Positive: Rewiring PTSD Thought Patterns
PTSD Recovery And The Power Of Tiny Daily Thoughts
How Everyday “Mosquito Thoughts” Keep Trauma Symptoms Alive
Flip The Scale: Turning Daily Negativity Into PTSD Healing Momentum
Trauma Recovery Starts With One Thought: Rebuilding A Positive Mindset
How Gratitude And “Mosquito Thoughts” Transform PTSD Healing
The Belief Scale: How Small Thoughts Shape Your Entire Trauma Recovery
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this episode, Brad and Kayleen introduce the idea of “mosquito thoughts” — those tiny, everyday thoughts that seem harmless but quietly drain your energy, shape your beliefs, and keep PTSD patterns alive. Instead of only focusing on big trauma memories, they zoom in on the subtle complaints, judgments, and negative thoughts about things like the weather, traffic, or your to-do list.
You’ll learn how every thought — no matter how small — adds a “stone” to either the positive or negative side of your internal belief scale. Over time, those stones determine whether your default mindset is hopeful and resilient, or heavy and defeated. Brad and Kayleen walk through relatable examples, from dog poop disasters to hot, sticky mornings, to show how quickly a day can spiral when unnoticed negative thoughts stack up.
Most importantly, they give you simple ways to start shifting these mosquito thoughts in real time, without denying reality or pretending everything is perfect. You’ll see how to use gratitudes, “good things” lists, and small perspective shifts to build an automatic positive mind that supports full PTSD recovery.
By the end, you’ll understand that you’re not broken or “too negative” — you’re just running a practiced pattern. And with awareness, repetition, and a little humor, you can retrain your brain to default to peace, possibility, and progress.
💡 What You’ll Learn
Notice how “mosquito thoughts” show up in your day before they snowball into a bad mood
See how every thought adds a “stone” to either the positive or negative side of your belief scale
Use simple gratitude prompts to actively build a more positive automatic mindset
Shift your perspective without denying reality by finding true, specific positives in any situation
Turn reflection at the end of the day into a chance to remove old negative stones and add new positive ones
Recognize when a thought is just a pebble versus a “boulder” that may need deeper trauma processing
Build small daily routines (car rides, showers, commutes) into automatic gratitude and mindset training time
Interrupt spirals early so one stressful event doesn’t define your entire day
Understand how changing your thoughts reshapes your beliefs, feelings, and PTSD recovery trajectory
🧠 Key Takeaway
It’s not the big traumas alone that shape your life — it’s the tiny thoughts you repeat all day that decide whether your mind stays stuck in PTSD or learns to see possibility.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Welcome to the Live Coaching Call
01:20 Introducing Today's Topic: Mosquito Thoughts
02:13 The Impact of Small Thoughts on Mindset
04:09 Building Positivity Through Small Actions
17:14 Interactive Gratitude Exercise
22:28 Reflecting on Gratitude and Positive Thoughts
27:37 Prompting Yourself for Positivity
29:13 The Power of Reflection
31:11 Building Positive Routines
34:06 Sharing and Shifting Perspectives
43:18 Humor in Everyday Life
52:46 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Events
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • mosquito thoughts • belief scale • positive mindset • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • gratitude practice • good things list • cognitive restructuring • automatic negative thoughts • trauma coping tools • mindset training • daily recovery habits • self-reflection for healing • reframing negative thoughts • building self-belief after trauma • overcoming PTSD podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
#89 Toxic Shame | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/29
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How Toxic Shame Keeps PTSD Stuck (And How To Finally Break Free)
From Toxic Shame to Self-Acceptance: A Trauma Survivor’s Guide
Why Shame Keeps Your PTSD From Healing (And What To Do Instead)
Healing Trauma by Owning Your Story (Not Hiding in Shame)
PTSD, Addiction, and Toxic Shame: How to Stop Sabotaging Your Recovery
Transforming Shame into Strength on Your PTSD Healing Journey
Letting Go of “I’m a Bad Person”: Rewiring Shame After Trauma
How to Stop Feeling Broken: Releasing Trauma, Guilt, and Shame
From Embarrassment to Empowerment: Reclaiming Your Life After Trauma
The Truth About Shame, Self-Worth, and PTSD Recovery
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad and his co-coach dive deep into toxic shame — the painful, heavy feeling that keeps so many trauma survivors stuck, hiding, and afraid to fully live. They start by redefining shame, not as proof that you’re “bad” or “broken,” but as a perception about your behavior that can be changed.
You’ll hear how shame feeds on secrecy and shadows, and why owning your struggles — addictions, explosive anger, codependency, overspending, food, TV, meds, anything — is the doorway to real change. Instead of letting shame keep you frozen, Brad walks you through what it looks like to stand up, call things what they are, and take your power back.
Throughout the episode, you’ll also see the power of community as members courageously share their own “thing” and experience the relief of being seen, accepted, and understood. Brad shows you how self-acceptance, vulnerability, and practical tools like the Protector exercise work together to release shame and move you toward genuine self-respect.
If you’ve ever thought, “I’m a bad person because of what I’ve done or what I still do,” this episode will help you separate your worth from your behavior, own your reality, and take that next step toward freedom.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How redefining shame as a perception (not a verdict) immediately loosens its grip
Why hiding addictive or “embarrassing” behaviors keeps PTSD and trauma patterns alive
How owning your actions with honesty and courage becomes the first step to change
The difference between shame and healthy responsibility (and why one heals and one harms)
How to shift from “I’m a bad person” to “I’m a human who made mistakes and can grow”
Why vulnerability in safe community melts shame and builds real self-esteem
How to use self-acceptance and new beliefs to stop absorbing other people’s judgments
When deeper trauma work and tools like the Protector exercise are needed to heal toxic shame
How to turn your past shame into future strength and even help others heal
🧠 Key Takeaway
Shame loses its power the moment you own your truth, accept yourself, and choose healing over hiding.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Starting the Live Coaching Session
01:24 Today's Topic: Overcoming Toxic Shame
03:07 Defining and Understanding Shame
03:47 The Importance of Perception in Shame
07:42 Combating Shame with Self-Acceptance
09:56 Owning Your Actions to Overcome Shame
12:06 The Power of Vulnerability and Self-Love
13:00 Breaking the Cycle of Shame
15:56 Facing Shame Head-On for True Change
29:04 Deeper Dive into Overcoming Shame
29:37 Processing Tools for Deep Trauma
30:38 The Power of Owning Your Problems
31:52 Creating a Safe Space for Sharing
32:47 The Strength in Admitting Mistakes
33:52 Transformative Power of Acceptance
34:43 Owning Your Actions and Moving Forward
35:28 The Journey of Self-Acceptance
42:08 Age and Self-Worth
52:16 Community Announcements and Events
Topics Covered:
toxic shame healing • PTSD recovery • trauma healing journey • self-acceptance after trauma • overcoming guilt and shame • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • addiction and PTSD • codependency healing • mindset shifts for recovery • owning your story • breaking negative cycles • recovery secrets daily coaching • overcoming embarrassment and worthlessness
#88 Authority Bias and Believing in Yourself | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/28
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Authority Bias, Science, and PTSD Recovery: Why You Must Believe in Yourself First
How Authority Bias Keeps Trauma Survivors Stuck (And How to Break Free)
Why Experts Say PTSD Recovery Is Impossible (And Why They’re Wrong)
Trauma Changes the Brain—but So Does Healing: The Truth About PTSD Recovery
Stop Letting Doctors Define Your Future With PTSD and Trauma
From “Permanent Damage” to Full Recovery: Rewiring the PTSD Brain
How to Trust Yourself Again After Trauma (Even When “Experts” Say You Can’t Heal)
The Hidden Power of Belief in PTSD Recovery and Trauma Healing
Neuroscience, EMDR, and Hope: The Real Science of Healing Trauma
Breaking Free From Hopeless PTSD Narratives and Reclaiming Your Life
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In today’s episode, Brad and Kayleen dive into authority bias—why we’re so quick to believe doctors, experts, and influencers when they say PTSD or trauma has “permanently” damaged our brain. They unpack how these messages quietly shape your beliefs, your hope, and ultimately the actions you do or don’t take toward healing.
You’ll hear practical stories—from golf leagues to celebrity culture to Facebook PTSD groups—showing how easily we hand our power over to other people’s opinions. Brad and Kayleen walk through how statistics, studies, and even “reliable sources” can be true but still incomplete, especially when they ignore people who are actively healing.
They also explore the science of neuroplasticity and trauma, including research on EMDR, changes in the amygdala and hippocampus, and why science is always one step behind what’s already possible in real life. Instead of waiting for every study to catch up, they invite you to believe in what you can prove to yourself through action.
Most importantly, this episode helps you shift from “Is full recovery from PTSD even possible?” to “What’s the next step I can take today?” You don’t need perfect confidence or blind faith—you just need enough belief to take the next right action and start building your own proof that healing is real.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How authority bias and source bias quietly shape what you believe about PTSD and trauma
Why “trauma permanently changes your brain” is an incomplete and misleading message
How statistics and research samples can be true but still leave out people who are actively healing
The basics of how trauma impacts the amygdala and hippocampus—and how therapies like EMDR can reverse those changes
Why science will always lag behind what is already possible for human healing
How hopeless beliefs about PTSD become self-fulfilling prophecies (and how to break that cycle)
A practical way to stop outsourcing your power to doctors, experts, or online groups
How to use “just believe in the next step” as a realistic path toward full trauma recovery
🧠 Key Takeaway
You don’t need everyone to believe in your recovery—you just need enough belief in yourself to take the next step and let your own results become the proof.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Starting the Live Session with Brad and Kaylene
01:13 Understanding Authority Bias
04:17 Personal Stories and Examples of Authority Bias
09:24 The Power of Belief and Overcoming PTSD
13:06 Science, Skepticism, and the Future
17:59 The Importance of Taking Action
31:38 Challenging Conventional Beliefs
32:22 The Power of Healing and EMDR Therapy
34:59 The Story of Francine Shapiro and EMDR
38:28 Empowerment and Self-Belief
50:17 Facing Fears and Processing Emotions
51:54 Motivations and Overcoming Obstacles
56:12 Community Support and Encouragement
59:39 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • authority bias and PTSD • believing in yourself after trauma • neuroplasticity and trauma • EMDR and brain changes • overcoming hopeless PTSD narratives • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • emotional regulation skills • mindset for PTSD healing • self-belief and recovery • complex PTSD healing journey • trauma-informed neuroscience • recovery after childhood trauma
#87 Processing Installation | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/27
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How to Install New Beliefs After PTSD Processing
From Trauma Processing to Installation: Locking In Lasting PTSD Recovery
Why Processing Your Trauma Isn’t Enough (And How to Install the Positive)
PTSD Recovery Secrets: Turning Painful Processing into Empowering Installation
Stop Getting Stuck in Trauma Work: The Missing Installation Step in PTSD Healing
Installing Self-Love After Trauma: Beliefs, Visualization, and Daily Practice
From Triggered to Trusting Yourself: Installing New PTSD Beliefs That Stick
Turn Your Trauma Tools into a New Life: Installation, Believability, and Change
Emotional Recovery After PTSD: How to Reinforce Positive Beliefs Every Day
Installation vs Processing: The Overlooked Phase of Trauma Healing
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this episode, Brad and Kayleen reveal a part of trauma work almost nobody talks about: installation. You’ll hear how processing the “negative stuff” is only the first half of the healing equation—and why your brain also needs intentional installation of positive beliefs and emotions if you want lasting PTSD recovery.
They walk through the difference between processing old trauma and installing new beliefs, using simple concepts like distress level and believability to help you measure real change. Instead of staying stuck in endless trauma work, you’ll learn how to shift into building a new identity that actually feels safe, strong, and hopeful.
You’ll also discover practical ways to install new beliefs both “statically” (on purpose, during dedicated practice) and “on the move” (in the middle of real-life triggers, relationships, and decisions). This episode is both a mindset reset and a tactical guide for turning your tools into a new lifestyle.
By the end, you’ll understand why you might feel like you’ve processed so much but still feel stuck—and how a few simple shifts in how you end your sessions and live your days can multiply the impact of every trauma tool you already have.
💡 What You’ll Learn
The difference between trauma processing and installation and why you need both for PTSD recovery
How to use “distress level” and “believability” to track real healing in your brain
Why focusing only on the negative memories keeps you stuck in a hurt lifestyle
Practical ways to use visualization to install new trauma-free beliefs and emotions
How to turn self-talk into mobile installation throughout your daily life
What to do when you feel like you’ve processed a lot but your habits haven’t changed
How installation helps with addictions, relationships, and triggers after trauma
Why no therapist or program can do the work for you—and how to step into full responsibility
How to build a long-term “recovery lifestyle” that continues even after PTSD is healed
🧠 Key Takeaway
Processing heals the pain of the past; installation builds the person you become next. You need both for full PTSD recovery.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Today's Topic: Processing and Installation
00:57 Understanding Installation in Recovery
02:02 Engaging with the Audience
03:30 The Importance of Installation
05:41 Practical Steps for Installation
17:43 Static and Mobile Installation Techniques
24:14 Empowerment and Taking Action
30:14 Overcoming Trauma and Building Strength
31:06 The Power of Prioritizing Healing
32:28 Embracing Change and Taking Action
33:56 Facing Fear and Embracing Discomfort
35:56 The Journey of Recovery and Installation
49:53 Identifying and Replacing Negative Beliefs
52:40 Upcoming Events and Final Thoughts
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • trauma processing tools • installation after processing • positive beliefs after trauma • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • self-talk for PTSD recovery • visualization for trauma healing • challenging negative beliefs • trauma and addiction recovery • healing trauma in relationships • mindset for PTSD recovery • overcoming PTSD triggers • building a recovery lifestyle
#86 Evening Routine | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/26
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The Evening Routine That Transforms PTSD Recovery
PTSD Sleep Struggles? Build an Evening Routine That Actually Works
How a Simple Nighttime Routine Can Heal Trauma Faster
From Chaos to Calm: Designing a Trauma-Safe Night Routine
The 7-Day Evening Routine Challenge for PTSD Recovery
Why Your PTSD Healing Starts With Tonight’s Bedtime
Rewiring the Brain After Trauma Through Consistent Night Routines
Stop Nighttime Spirals: Trauma, Sleep, and the Power of Routine
One Habit That Accelerates PTSD Recovery While You Sleep
Building Unbreakable Routines: Evening, Morning, and Healing After Trauma
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this workshop-style episode, Brad and Kayleen walk you through how to build an evening routine that actually supports PTSD and trauma recovery. Instead of chasing motivation or “perfect” plans, they show you how to design a simple nighttime rhythm you can stick with long term.
You’ll hear why Brad considers the evening routine “the tipping point for everything” — the foundation for better sleep, more energy, and more consistent healing work. They break down how your brain and nervous system rely on predictable sleep and wake times to regulate, process, and repair after trauma.
Together, they help you identify your ideal bedtime and sleep time, then reverse-engineer a realistic plan around it. You’ll learn how to use anchors, alarms, and accountability to keep your foot on the gas without perfectionism, and how to make tiny adjustments that add up to massive change over weeks and months.
This episode ends with a clear 7-day evening routine challenge so you’re not just inspired — you’re taking action tonight. If you’ve struggled to be consistent with routines or feel stuck in chaotic sleep patterns, this conversation will give you structure, hope, and a doable next step.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How evening routines directly impact PTSD recovery, mood, and daily functioning
How to choose a realistic bedtime and sleep time based on your ideal number of hours
How to work backward from your wake-up time to design your night schedule
How to use “anchors” like dinner or nightly calls as cues to start winding down
How to slowly shift your bedtime earlier with small, sustainable adjustments
How consistent sleep-wake times help your brain regulate and process trauma
How to use accountability, tracking, and simple checkmarks to stay consistent
How to avoid all-or-nothing perfectionism and focus on 1% improvements
How an evening routine sets up your morning, healing routine, and overall lifestyle
🧠 Key Takeaway
A great tomorrow starts tonight — your evening routine is the foundation that makes PTSD recovery simpler, calmer, and more consistent.
🔗 Next Steps
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CHAPTERS:
00:00:00 Welcome and what Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching is
00:02:30 Why routines matter more than motivation in PTSD recovery
00:06:30 The three essential routines: morning, evening, and healing
00:10:00 How Brad and Kayleen structure their own evening routines
00:18:30 Sleep, PTSD, and why consistent bed and wake times matter
00:30:00 Using anchors, alarms, and environment to support your routine
00:42:00 The 7-Day Evening Routine Challenge and how to track it
00:54:00 Final encouragement, recap, and next steps
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • evening routine for PTSD • PTSD sleep problems • sleep and trauma recovery • nervous system regulation • emotional regulation at night • trauma coping tools • sleep hygiene for trauma survivors • consistent routines for healing • accountability in PTSD recovery • daily habits for mental health • morning and evening routines • lifestyle change after trauma
#85 Playing Hurt | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/23
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Playing Hurt: How To Stop Waiting To “Feel Ready” And Start Healing PTSD
PTSD Recovery And Playing Hurt: Why Growth Feels Uncomfortable (And How To Do It Anyway)
From Excuses To Action: How To Push Through PTSD Resistance And Finally Heal
Playing Hurt With PTSD: Short-Term Discomfort, Long-Term Freedom
Trauma Recovery When You’re Exhausted: How To Show Up For Yourself Anyway
Comfort Zone Vs. Healing Zone: The Mindset Shift Every Trauma Survivor Needs
Stop Waiting To Feel Motivated: A Practical PTSD Recovery Game Plan
PTSD And Self-Care Myths: Why “Taking It Easy” Keeps You Stuck In Trauma
Breaking The Trauma Loop: How Tiny Brave Actions Rewire Your Brain After PTSD
How To Do The Trauma Work You’ve Been Avoiding (Without Burning Out)
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this episode, Brad and Kayleen break down a hard but freeing truth: if you want change, you have to change. You can’t wait to feel fully ready, fully rested, or perfectly motivated before you do the things that will actually move your PTSD recovery forward. They unpack what it really means to “play hurt” in healing—taking imperfect action even when you’re tired, anxious, or scared.
You’ll learn the difference between healthy discomfort and real pain, and why your comfort zone can actually be full of suffering that just feels “normal.” Brad and Kayleen show how small, honest pushes outside your comfort zone build confidence, momentum, and self-respect instead of more pressure and burnout. They also talk about how culture often hands you “valid” excuses that keep you stuck, and how to lovingly stop accepting them.
Throughout the conversation, they use concrete examples from workouts, processing sessions, relationships, and daily habits to show how short-term discomfort leads to long-term peace, health, and freedom from PTSD symptoms. You’ll walk away with a new way to look at resistance, procrastination, and self-care—plus simple ways to take action today, not someday.
💡 What You’ll Learn
Why waiting to “feel ready” keeps you stuck in PTSD and trauma patterns
The difference between discomfort that grows you and pain that harms you
How to push yourself out of your comfort zone without burning out
How to spot the excuses that are secretly running your recovery
A simple way to use “What am I willing to do?” to create sustainable habits
How short-term discomfort creates long-term peace, health, and freedom
How to use resistance and avoidance as clues for what to process next
Why your brain is wired for short-term pleasure and how to retrain it for long-term healing
How to talk yourself into brave action instead of out of it
🧠 Key Takeaway
If you want change, you have to change—growth in PTSD recovery lives just outside your comfort zone, not inside your excuses.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Starting the Week with Motivation
01:14 The Concept of Playing Hurt
04:03 Facing Discomfort for Growth
07:04 Overcoming Excuses and Building New Habits
13:46 The Importance of Short-Term Discomfort for Long-Term Pleasure
26:31 Breaking Out of Painful Comfort Zones
31:30 Engaging with the Community
31:50 Kickstart Your Change
32:13 The David Goggins Inspiration
33:21 No More Excuses
35:39 Building New Habits
37:39 The Power of Willingness
41:54 Rest and Recharge
54:00 Taking Action Now
55:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • playing hurt in recovery • comfort zone and growth • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • overcoming avoidance with PTSD • breaking excuses and resistance • short-term discomfort long-term healing • self-care vs self-sabotage • healing trauma in relationships • PTSD mindset shifts • building healthy habits after trauma
#83 Responsibility Blame and Excuses | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/21
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Stop Letting PTSD Run the Show: How Radical Responsibility Gives You Your Life Back
From Victim of Trauma to Leader of Your Life: The Truth About Blame, Excuses, and PTSD
PTSD Recovery Starts With You: Taking Ownership Instead of Waiting for Life to Change
How Blaming Trauma, Triggers, and the Past Is Keeping You Stuck With PTSD
Responsibility vs Excuses: The Mindset Shift Every Trauma Survivor Needs
PTSD, Anxiety, and “It’s Not My Fault”: Reclaiming Your Power With Radical Responsibility
Trauma, Relationships, and Blame: Why Waiting on Others Is Delaying Your Healing
From “I Can’t Because of Trauma” to “How Can I?” – Rewriting Your PTSD Story
Why Your PTSD Recovery Changes When You Stop Making Excuses
Taking Ownership of Your Healing: The Real Turning Point in Trauma Recovery
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this coaching session, Brad walks you through one of the most uncomfortable but life-changing shifts in PTSD and trauma recovery: moving from blame and excuses to full responsibility. Instead of giving your power away to circumstances, people, or your past, you’ll learn how to bring that power back into your own hands.
You’ll hear real-life examples around relationships, diet, sobriety, clutter, and being late, and how we often unconsciously hand our responsibility over to traffic, partners, kids, or even the pandemic. Brad shows how this pattern quietly keeps you stuck feeling like a victim with no real options to change.
Most importantly, he gives you a simple, practical question to ask yourself when you catch blame or excuses showing up: “How can I?” This one shift turns walls into doorways, helping you access choices, creativity, and confidence even when PTSD, ADHD, or stress feel overwhelming.
By the end of the episode, you’ll understand why taking responsibility for both the “bad” and the “good” in your life is not about self-blame—it’s about reclaiming control, building self-respect, and owning your progress as you heal from trauma.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How blame and excuses quietly steal your power and control
Why giving responsibility to PTSD, other people, or circumstances keeps you stuck
The difference between unhealthy self-blame and healthy responsibility
How to use the “How can I?” question to find options instead of dead ends
Ways to take ownership of your diet, sobriety, routines, and environment
How responsibility builds real confidence, not fake positivity
Why you can still move forward even with PTSD, ADHD, or health limitations
A simple daily exercise to track when you’re blaming or making excuses
How to choose one area of life to fully own and transform
🧠 Key Takeaway
Your life changes the moment you stop saying “It’s because of them” or “Because of PTSD” and start asking, “How can I take responsibility and change this?”
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Welcome to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
01:15 – Why today’s topic is a “hug and kick in the butt”
02:40 – Acceptance vs responsibility: what changes when you own it
04:05 – Blame and excuses: common patterns we all fall into
05:30 – Story: misplacing items and instantly blaming others
07:10 – Diet, partners, and the “I can’t because of my family” excuse
08:45 – Traffic, being late, and how we give away control
09:30 – The danger of handing your responsibility to the outside world
11:20 – How blame turns you into a victim and steals your power
13:00 – Turning “they did this” into “this is my responsibility”
14:40 – Radical responsibility for being on time, regardless of traffic
16:00 – Sobriety, stress, and the myth of “I can’t get sober until…”
18:20 – Working within limitations while still owning your choices
19:30 – Using “How can I?” to find options in any situation
21:00 – Responsibility inside your “bubble” vs what you truly can’t control
24:10 – Procrastination, future-you, and passing responsibility forward
25:10 – Your current life as a reflection of your past choices
26:20 – Taking responsibility for both the good and the bad
27:30 – Confidence as a byproduct of responsibility
29:30 – Real-life examples: partners, snacks, and changing your diet
31:10 – PTSD, ADHD, eyesight, and decluttering when it feels impossible
33:00 – Breaking tasks into small, doable pieces
34:20 – Housework, shared spaces, and doing what you can control
35:30 – Journaling blame and excuses as a daily awareness practice
36:40 – Today’s challenge: track blame, excuses, and take ownership
39:10 – Choosing one area of life to fully own
40:30 – Making chores bearable with music, podcasts, and fun
41:40 – Pandemic, isolation, and taking back your power
43:20 – Financial responsibility and small daily actions
46:00 – One item a day: simple progress with a to-do list
48:00 – “It’s my fault” vs “It’s my responsibility”
50:00 – Knowing what you can’t control—and what you absolutely can
51:20 – Closing encouragement and next sessions preview
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • taking responsibility after trauma • overcoming victim mindset • blame and excuses in PTSD • radical responsibility for healing • trauma recovery coaching • PTSD and relationships • emotional regulation • mindset shifts for trauma survivors • sobriety and PTSD • trauma coping tools • anxiety and overwhelm • productivity with PTSD and ADHD • decluttering with mental health challenges • self-discipline in recovery • nervous system healing • daily PTSD recovery habits • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
#82 Positivity | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/20
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Positivity for PTSD Recovery: How to Rewire Your Brain One Thought at a Time
The 7:1 Rule Trauma Survivors Need to Know About Positivity
From Survival Mode to Growth: Using Positivity to Heal Trauma
PTSD Mindset Shift: “I Can’t” vs “How Can I”
How Positivity Builds Momentum When You’re Healing from Trauma
Trauma Healing Tools: The Good Things List That Changes Everything
PTSD Recovery Coaching: Stop Feeding Negativity and Start Expanding Your Life
Nervous System Regulation Through Positivity and Gratitude
Healing Trauma Faster: The Simple Daily Practice That Beats the Spiral
PTSD Coping Skills: How to Stay Open When Life Feels Hard
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this episode, Brad leads a practical workshop-style session on positivity—and why it’s not “fluffy,” unrealistic, or optional for PTSD recovery. He breaks down how positivity affects your mindset, your nervous system, your relationships, and your ability to see opportunity instead of danger.
You’ll hear a powerful reframe that turns a closed, stuck statement (“I can’t”) into an open, forward-moving question (“How can I?”). That one shift alone can change how your brain searches for solutions, momentum, and possibilities.
Brad also shares simple daily tools that help positivity become automatic over time, including gratitude practices and the “Good Things List.” The goal isn’t perfection—it’s training your brain to expand instead of contract, so your recovery starts to feel lighter, steadier, and more possible.
If you’ve been wired for negativity because of trauma, this episode will help you understand why that happens—and how to begin rewiring it with small, repeatable actions that create real change.
💡 What You’ll Learn
Why positivity creates momentum and opens your mind to opportunity
How negativity contracts your world and keeps you in prevention mode
The “I can’t” vs “How can I” shift that changes your entire outlook
A simple daily “Good Things List” practice to train your brain for optimism
How positivity can improve relationships through gratitude and refocusing
Why positive focus helps your brain notice solutions you’d otherwise miss
The 7-to-1 ratio of positive thoughts needed to balance one negative thought
How to pick one area of life and deliberately build positivity there
Why positivity can become automatic with consistent repetition
🧠 Key Takeaway
If you’re going to skew, skew positive—because positivity expands your life, and your brain will start finding the path forward.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Starting the Live Coaching Session
01:20 Recap of Previous Session and Announcements
02:53 The Importance of Positivity
04:25 Engaging with Positivity
05:44 Practical Exercises for Positivity
08:32 The Power of Positive Thinking
21:42 Manifestation and Visualization
26:47 Embracing Positivity and Community
27:16 The Power of Positivity and Opportunity
28:11 Gratitude in Challenging Times
29:46 Focusing on Positivity in Daily Life
30:49 Choosing One Area to Improve
32:05 Visualizing and Manifesting Positivity
33:36 Applying Positive Psychology
36:18 Practical Actions for Positivity
49:34 The Seven-to-One Positivity Ratio
53:11 Wrapping Up and Future Plans
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • positivity mindset • gratitude practice • Good Things List • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • positive psychology • reticular activating system • manifestation science • mindset shift • overcoming negativity • self-talk for trauma • confidence building • recovery coaching • PTSD triggers • resilience skills • healing in relationships • openness and acceptance
#81 Rebuilding Trust | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/19
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Rebuilding Trust After PTSD: How To Stop Swinging Between Fear And Blind Faith
How Trauma Breaks Trust And How To Safely Rebuild It
Trusting Yourself Again After PTSD: Step-By-Step Healing
From Hypervigilance To Wise Trust: Trauma Tools To Feel Safe In The World
Rebuilding Trust In Relationships After Trauma Without Losing Yourself
PTSD, Trust Issues, And The “Trust-O-Meter” Method For Safer Connections
How To Trust Authority, People, And Life Again After Trauma
Trauma, Betrayal, And Learning To Trust Your Own Judgment
Why PTSD Makes Trust So Hard And How To Heal It In Stages
Faith, Safety, And Self-Trust: A New Way To Rebuild After Trauma
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad and Kayleen break down one of the biggest trauma topics the community voted on: rebuilding trust after it’s been broken. Whether it’s trust in people, authority, the world, or yourself, they show how trauma quietly rewires what you believe is “safe” and what isn’t.
Instead of the classic “I either totally trust or totally shut down,” they introduce a more realistic, compassionate approach: rebuilding trust in stages. Using real examples from their own relationship, they walk through how to move from complete distrust to a grounded, earned trust over time—without ignoring red flags or abandoning yourself.
You’ll learn how processing trauma cuts the emotional “weights” that keep you stuck in blind trust or blind distrust, so you can respond logically to what’s actually happening in front of you. You’ll also hear how to start with the most important piece of all: rebuilding trust in yourself, your choices, and your ability to keep yourself safe.
If you’ve ever felt like you love someone but don’t know how—or if—you can trust them again, this episode will give you a clear framework, language, and mindset to move forward without rushing, forcing, or pretending.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How trauma creates blind trust or blind distrust and what to do about it
Why trust doesn’t have to be all or nothing and how to use stages of trust
How to rebuild trust in specific areas instead of labeling someone “all good” or “all bad”
How to use the “trust-o-meter” idea to gauge what feels safe in each situation
Why rebuilding self-trust is the foundation for trusting others, authority, and life
How processing trauma helps you respond logically instead of from old emotional wounds
Practical ways to “earn back” trust in a relationship through consistent behavior
How to move toward people and the world safely without ignoring your instincts
How faith in the future and trust in yourself work together in PTSD recovery
🧠 Key Takeaway
You don’t have to trust everyone—or everything—100%; you just need to trust yourself enough to decide who has earned a deeper level of trust and when.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Welcoming the Audience and Weekly Recap
01:20 Today's Topic: Regaining Trust
01:46 Personal Experiences with Trust Issues
02:16 Interactive Session: Audience Trust Challenges
06:33 Building Trust in Stages
12:37 Trusting Yourself First
19:14 Logical Trust vs. Blind Trust
29:20 The Complexity of Trust in Relationships
30:24 Trust and Mistakes: A Sliding Scale
31:42 Rebuilding Trust After It’s Broken
33:25 Trust in Different Areas of Life
36:41 The Role of Trauma in Trust Issues
42:56 Upcoming Health and Wellness Session
49:28 Final Thoughts and Farewel
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • rebuilding trust after trauma • PTSD trust issues • trusting yourself after trauma • relationship healing after PTSD • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • how to feel safe again • trust and vulnerability in relationships • processing trauma memories • overcoming fear of people • trusting authority after trauma • self-trust and confidence • overcoming betrayal trauma
#80 Control in Relationships and Addictions | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/16
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How to Stop Letting PTSD Control Your Relationships
Trauma, Addiction, and Control: How to Take Your Power Back
PTSD, Sobriety, and Control: What You Can (and Can’t) Change
From Out of Control to In Charge: Reclaiming Your Life After Trauma
Breaking Addiction Patterns in PTSD: The Truth About Control
Trauma, Relationships, and Control: Why You Feel Stuck (and How to Get Unstuck)
How PTSD Tricks You Into Chasing Control (and What to Do Instead)
Letting Go and Moving On: Control, Acceptance, and PTSD Recovery
Emotional Control After Trauma: Redirecting Your Energy to What Actually Helps
Stop Fighting What You Can’t Control: A Practical PTSD Recovery Reset
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad and Kaylene break down one of the most confusing parts of PTSD and trauma recovery: control. If you’ve ever felt out of control in your relationships, addictions, or habits, this episode helps you see exactly where your real power actually lives.
You’ll learn why trying to control other people, outcomes, or the past always creates more pain—and how to shift that energy into what you can control: your thoughts, actions, and how you process emotions. Brad and Kaylene walk through real-life examples like drinking, scrolling social media, binge-watching TV, overspending, and nitpicking your partner.
You’ll also hear a powerful reframe on addiction and “powerlessness,” and how to understand the moment when control really starts to slip. By the end, you’ll have a simple mental checklist you can use daily to stop wasting energy on what you can’t change and start building calm, confidence, and real momentum in your healing.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How to recognize when you’re trying to control things you simply can’t
The three things you always have control over, even with PTSD or trauma
How to spot the red flags that a habit or addiction is actually running you
Why time “slipping through your fingers” is a sign of lost control
How to redirect your focus from controlling others to changing your own actions
A simple question to ask yourself whenever you feel regret after a behavior
How to use short-term resistance to build long-term freedom from addiction
Practical ways to stop nitpicking and control battles in your relationships
How focusing on what you can control builds confidence and lowers anxiety
🧠 Key Takeaway
You can’t control other people, the past, or every emotion—but you can always control your thoughts, your actions, and how you respond, and that’s where your real power is.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Welcome and Announcements
01:30 Today's Focus: Control in Relationships and Addictions
03:21 Understanding Control and Acceptance
08:05 Control in Addictions: Personal Insights
13:54 Practical Steps to Regain Control
19:30 Identifying and Breaking Habits
30:19 Breaking Free from Addictions
30:24 The Power of Pushing Through Resistance
30:45 Controlling Your Thoughts and Actions
30:59 Empowerment Through Control
33:24 Steps to Regain Control
34:39 Applying Control in Daily Life
35:34 The Illusion of Control
38:21 Emotional Control and Acceptance
43:30 Focusing on What Matters
46:39 Upcoming Topics and Final Thoughts
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • control in relationships • addiction recovery • sobriety and PTSD • letting go of control • acceptance and PTSD • breaking trauma-driven habits • people-pleasing and control • relationship conflict after trauma • recovering from addictive coping • mindset for trauma healing • self-awareness and PTSD • reclaiming personal power • healing from childhood trauma patterns • practical PTSD recovery tools
#79 Processing and Personalities Myers Briggs | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/15
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How Your Personality Type Shapes PTSD Recovery
Thinker or Feeler? Using Myers-Briggs to Process Trauma Better
Processing PTSD: Matching Healing Tools to Your Personality
Why Logic Isn’t Enough: Emotional Processing for PTSD Thinkers
Feeling Everything: How Deep Feelers Can Navigate Trauma Healing
Trauma Recovery for Opposites: When Your Partner’s Personality Is Nothing Like Yours
Using the Myers-Briggs Test to Personalize Your PTSD Healing Journey
Balancing Head and Heart in Trauma Recovery
Is Your Personality Helping or Hurting Your PTSD Recovery?
Processing Trauma Smarter: Personality-Based Strategies for Emotional Release
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this episode, Brad and Kayleen break down how your personality type can directly shape the way you process trauma and move through PTSD recovery. Using the Myers-Briggs framework, they explore why some survivors feel everything intensely but struggle with the logic piece, while others can understand everything in their head yet stay emotionally shut down.
You’ll hear how Brad and Kayleen sit on opposite ends of the spectrum—thinker vs feeler, big-picture vs in-the-moment—and how that created totally different-looking healing journeys. Instead of seeing this as a problem, they now use those differences as a roadmap for which tools to use and which skills to intentionally build.
Brad walks through why thinkers often need to practice emotional release on purpose, and why feelers usually need more support with belief change and logical reframing. Together they show you how to stop fighting your wiring, accept how you’re built, and then use that self-awareness to make your processing sessions more effective and less confusing.
By the end, you’ll know how to match specific processing tools to your strengths and weaknesses, better understand your partner or loved ones, and see that there is nothing “wrong” with the way you’re wired—you just need the right strategy for your unique nervous system and personality.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How your Myers-Briggs personality type can influence the way you process PTSD and trauma
The difference between thinkers and feelers when it comes to emotional release and belief change
Why some people cry easily and “drip” emotions while others need structured time to feel anything
How to spot whether you’re over-relying on logic or over-relying on emotion in your healing
Which trauma processing tools to use if you’re more of a logical thinker (belief work and introspective healing)
Which tools to lean on if you’re more of a feeler (protector work and emotional release practices)
How opposite personality types can actually balance each other in relationships during trauma recovery
Why personality tests are helpful starting points but should never limit your growth
Practical ways to accept your wiring while still building skills on the side you’re weakest in
🧠 Key Takeaway
Healing PTSD requires both a belief shift in your mind and an emotional release in your body—and your personality type will tell you which side you need to intentionally strengthen.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Welcome and Session Overview
01:03 Understanding Personality Types in Trauma Processing
02:33 Personality Test Results and Analysis
09:46 Emotional vs Logical Processing
16:58 Practical Tips for Using Processing Tools
20:45 Balancing Logic and Emotion in Healing
30:18 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
31:13 Feedback on Thinking and Feeling
31:53 Upcoming Topics and Voting
32:12 Personality Types and Relationships
33:03 Understanding Each Other Through Personality Tests
35:34 Balancing Different Personality Traits
42:51 Health and Wellness Session Announcement
46:03 Future Plans for the Community
54:20 Concluding Remarks and Final Thoughts
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • Myers-Briggs and PTSD • thinking vs feeling in trauma processing • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • logical vs emotional processing • belief change in PTSD recovery • emotional release techniques • protector tool for trauma • challenging beliefs tool • introspective healing for PTSD • personality types in relationships • opposites in trauma healing • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive
#76 Bootcamp Boundaries Workshop | Recovery Secrets Series
2026/01/12
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How to Set PTSD Boundaries Without Guilt or Conflict
Boundary Bootcamp: The PTSD Workshop That Makes Boundaries Finally Click
PTSD and People-Pleasing: The Boundary Reset You Need at Work and Home
Internal Boundaries for Trauma Survivors: Stop Self-Sabotage When Triggered
PTSD Recovery Boundaries: How to Stay Calm When Someone Gets Negative
Trauma Healing Through Boundaries: Build Self-Respect One Rule at a Time
The “Book of Law” for PTSD: Create Boundaries You Can Actually Enforce
PTSD Emotional Regulation: How to Catch the Trigger Before You Explode
Stop the Screaming Matches: Trauma-Safe Communication Boundaries That Work
PTSD Recovery Skills: Time, Energy, and Boundary Systems That Change Everything
Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this Boundary Bootcamp workshop, Brad and Kaylene help trauma survivors turn boundary ideas into real-life action. Instead of just talking about what boundaries are, this session focuses on getting specific: what internal boundary you need most, what external boundary you’ve been avoiding, and what will actually help you enforce them when life gets messy.
You’ll hear how internal boundaries often start with one powerful goal: stop doing damage when you’re triggered. That could mean not binging substances, not spiraling into reactive conversations, and choosing self-care first so you don’t make tomorrow harder than it needs to be.
The workshop also breaks down why many boundaries fail: they’re too vague, you don’t anticipate obstacles, and you don’t have a plan for enforcement. Whether it’s bedtime, screen time, people-pleasing at work, or staying calm with a specific person, the focus is on clear rules, realistic systems, and skill-building over perfection.
If boundaries have felt confusing, guilt-heavy, or impossible to maintain, this episode reframes them as self-respect in action—simple, consistent choices that protect your nervous system and make PTSD recovery sustainable.
💡 What You’ll Learn
How to define an internal boundary as what you do to stop self-damage and support long-term healing
Why the best early PTSD boundaries focus on “don’t make it worse” before trying to make it better
How to create clearer boundaries by getting specific about behaviors, timing, and routines
How to plan enforcement by identifying the exact obstacles that will challenge your boundary
How to stay calm in hard conversations by catching emotion early and using grounding tools
How to redirect negativity without escalating, including question-based conversation control
How to build time-management boundaries with alarms, reminders, and tracking real time spent
How to do a “hard reset” when overwhelm and unfinished tasks are clogging your mind
How to choose one internal boundary and one external boundary to create immediate momentum in recovery
🧠 Key Takeaway
Boundaries work when they’re clear, realistic, and enforced with a plan—your nervous system heals faster when you stop doing damage and start protecting your peace consistently.
🔗 Next Steps
Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.
To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36 Welcome to Boundary Bootcamp Day 5
01:00 Recap of the Week's Boundary Lessons
01:29 Interactive Workshop Begins
03:09 Defining Internal Boundaries
08:22 Strategies for Enforcing Boundaries
11:42 Overcoming Challenges in Setting Boundaries
27:46 Addressing Communication Challenges
28:26 Overcoming Resistance to Change
29:46 Setting Internal and External Boundaries
30:07 Practical Tips for Enforcing Boundaries
32:02 Time Management and Estimation Skills
38:01 Handling Negativity in Relationships
41:53 People Pleasing and Work Boundaries
45:58 Building Effective Routines
49:08 Hard Reset for Overwhelming Tasks
52:17 Conclusion and Next Steps
Topics Covered:
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • boundaries workshop • internal boundaries • external boundaries • self-love and self-respect • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • trigger management • people pleasing recovery • conflict boundaries • communication skills • self-care routines • bedtime boundaries • screen time boundaries • time management for trauma survivors • procrastination and overwhelm • habit building • recovery coaching • practical PTSD tools
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4.1 out of 5
53 reviews
★★★★★
Seth Gehle 2024/05/05
Great show
Hello,
Are you interested in discussing whether my experiences align with the theme of your show? I share my journey of triumphing over severe childh...
★★★★★
Kend0g 2023/10/23
Help needed, help given
My spouse was shot in the street on her way home from work. Both of us have utilized this podcast so very much, in dealing with the traumatic aftermat...
★★★★★
jess.lives.fit 2023/04/01
LIFE CHANGED
Thank you so much for you guys creating this podcast. If I had not come across this podcast about a year ago, I don't believe I would have found the m...
★★★★★
Loner98 2022/10/25
Ptsd
Really locked in with this podcast & taking everything y’all say into consideration & using this for the better version my healing stage 💪🏿💯
★☆☆☆☆
bathtubrett 2023/01/25
Unprofessional and uninformed
This is such unstable garbage advice. There are actual licensed therapists and survivors who are giving solid advice for FREE on so many platforms. Th...
★★★★★
Future Mrs. Dery 2022/03/04
Thank you
I really enjoy this podcast. They bring real life advice. I appreciate their honesty. I use this along with a support group and they just continue to ...
★★★★★
Kellymprn 2022/01/23
Question
I have never been “diagnosed” but i am an RN and my therapists think i do! Should i even care to get this dx on file? Thanks for show
★★★★★
Snoodles16 2022/01/13
This was a great experience
Thank you for what you do I have struggled hard for about 9 yrs and I just can’t seem to stay with something anything that can help but your podcast w...
★★★★★
yankee fannn <3333333 2021/01/22
Great podcast! For supporters too!
Anyone that claims this undermines PTSD? No way. I say “whatever works...try it!” As a supporter of a c ptsd survivor. I have lived the horror of hype...
★★★★★
<3 dee 2020/09/30
Start YOUR healing journey
PTSD TV podcast and YouTube videos were extremely helpful for starting my journey. I go back to these podcasts when I’m starting to lose focus and nee...