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When Kaitlyn’s spark with 26-year-old David couldn’t grow into the real relationship she wanted, she finally got clear on what she truly needs — and she took that clarity back online. In this episode of Make Him Wonder, Kaitlyn returns to explore how intentional online dating can deliver genuine, lasting love when you follow the steps in my O.N.E. Love Online to Never-Ending Love self-help course. We talk about when to have “the sex talk,” how to express feminine guidance in a way men hear, and how to date more than one man without getting attached too soon. If you’re online dating, this conversation will help you level up and get the results you desire and deserve.

43-yr-old Lynn comes back on Make Him Wonder to navigate the delicate space between friendship and romance. After heartbreak, Lynn says she doesn't want more with her ex, 41-yr-old Mike, and she's now talking to a nice, new connection, 47-yr-old Chad. But Mike is still bread-crumbing, and a recent weekend getaway with Chad has left her wondering if things will ever turn romantic. In this episode, we explore what to do when a man shows uncertainty, and how a former love hanging-around can slow things down.

27-year-old Marcel started-off on the right foot with 38-year-old Karina, courting her with flowers, chocolates, and daily attention. But that quickly gave way to last-minute plans and inconsistent effort. As Karina tried to assert herself and apply “the rules,” the connection began to unravel. In this episode of Make Him Wonder, I help Karina uncover the deeper dynamic at play between independent, assertive women and those who lead with a softer, more passive energy. If you’ve ever wondered why some women can set strong boundaries and still be deeply pursued—while your boundaries seem to push a man away—this conversation will help you get clear on how to be fully yourself and still get what you deserve, without totally giving in.

29-yr-old, new mom, Bella, was happily married to her 31-yr-old HS sweetheart when tragedy struck and he passed away of cancer. Still in grief, worsened by the isolation of the Covid pandemic, Bella began dating again and quickly fell into a relationship with 44-yr-old Larry. But Larry was far from being a sweetheart.  He lied about his name and age, was controlling, and became verbally abusive, as well as physically restraining Bella at times.  After a short stint attempting to live together, Larry kicked Bella and her child out, telling her he was no longer interested in a relationship. Bella says she still loves Larry and comes on Make Him Wonder wanting to know what she can do to make things right and get Larry back.    

A 40-year-old guest on Esther Perel’s Where Should We Begin shares her story: after freezing embryos with her life partner and agreeing to start their family in her 40th year, he suddenly got cold feet. Five months of couples therapy later, they’ve separated. In this episode of Make Him Wonder, I break down what I would advise this woman to do to have everything she wants — even with the man who is now her ex, but whom she still calls “the love of her life.”

Tired of the usual dating app grind?  If swiping isn’t bringing the results you want, it might be time to try a different approach. In this episode of Make Him Wonder, I sit down with Jeremy Nelson, founder of Marrying America, a new courting platform designed for women seeking serious, committed relationships. Curious if it’s right for you? Listen for all the details, and use promo code “Podcast” if you’re ready to give it a try!

33-yr-old Esme and 37-yr-old Ivan have been dating for 6 weeks. Despite all indicators that Ivan wants to move forward in a relationship, Esme is concerned that once the two have sex, the positive momentum could abruptly stop. Wondering what will give her the best chance of Ivan wanting her for his forever “one,” and not distancing, Esme comes on Make Him Wonder to find out when it’s okay to spend the night and have sex for the first time.

After 6 weeks of dating, 33-yr-old Esme knew she had found someone special in 37-yr-old Ivan. His consistency, kindness, and candor were refreshing. Yet, despite all indicators that Ivan wanted to move forward in their relationship and fully commit, Esme had difficulty giving over. Deciding to work on what works with men and step-into trust, just 9 months later, Ivan proposed. Esme comes on back on Make Him Wonder to discuss how she stayed in Wonder Woman shape, dismissed her friend’s fears, and got her dream-come-true.

In less than 6 weeks after meeting online, 38-yr-old divorced dad, Rafael, was taking 35-yr-old Adele to meet his friends and family, and agreeing to exclusivity. Adele was therefore heartbroken when Rafael couldn’t follow through.  In this episode of Make Him Wonder, I help Adele understand why Rafael left and what she can do to stay in a positive state by moving forward and manifesting Rafael returning, ready and able to give her all she desires and deserves.

A 40-yr-old guest on Esther Perel’s podcast, Where Should We Begin, outlines her journey of freezing embryos with her life partner with an agreement to begin implantation in her 40th year. But when the time came, this woman’s partner got cold feet. Following 5 months of couples counseling, the two have separated.  On this episode of Make Him Wonder, I break down what I would be advising this woman to have all she wants with the man she calls the “love of her life.”

46-yr-old Blake let long-time-separated 61-yr-old Carlos back into her life after 10 months of his continued texts. Now that the two have been back together for a few months, Blake is growing restless to know what Carlos is willing to do to allow their relationship to go the distance. Wanting to change their history of being on-again-off-again, Blake comes back on Make Him Wonder, seeking my coaching on what is best for her to say and do to help move Carlos forward to making a commitment. 

35-yr-old Christine, reached out to her ex, 35-yr-old Maurice, who lives in another state. He responded positively and has been consistent, but Christine isn’t convinced. On this episode of Make Him Wonder, I help Christine see what is keeping her stuck and what she can practice at a long-distance to bring Maurice closer every day and in every way.

57-yr-old divorced mother of two, Robin recognized that there was something she needed to tweak in her online dating. She went on a journey to find the answers and discovered that when she managed her mindset, worked on manifesting over negative thinking, and used the mechanics of men, she could win what her heart truly desired.  Now happily married, on this episode of Make Him Wonder, Robin shares her journey of what was most challenging in her years post-divorce, and what worked to bring her a happy ending that is just the beginning of her lifelong love story.

By the time 30-yr-old Audrey met 27-yr-old Anthony in person, the two had already established a great online friendship. They fell in love within a few months and were meeting each other’s friends. However, Anthony showed signs of feeling pressured, especially as he was starting a new business.  His becoming more avoidant heightened Audrey’s anxiousness. When Anthony suddenly broke things off, Audrey admits she “freaked out.” She comes on Make Him Wonder and is happy to discover that not all is lost and that this breakup can be the reset this relationship needs to restart on the right foot.

36-yr-old Jolie's excitement over 40-yr-old Luke turned to disappointment when Luke's initial interest seemed to suddenly wane.  Not understanding why Luke's behavior was normal for a man at a long-distance, Jolie comes back on Make Him Wonder to get my coaching on where things made a turn, and how she can get things back on track to, potentially, go the distance.