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New level, same damn devil? Kimberly Spencer explores how unresolved beliefs about self-worth can resurface in relationships, business, and money—even after meaningful personal growth. Through candid storytelling and four reflection questions, discover how to recognize repeating patterns, release overresponsibility, and pair inner transformation with practical boundaries. Build sovereign success while giving yourself permission to receive the good you already deserve. In this episode of Crown Yourself®, you’ll learn: Why familiar struggles can return in new forms—and how an underlying belief about your worth can show up across relationships, business, and money. How the just-world bias can fuel self-blame, leading you to take responsibility for harmful choices someone else made. Where accountability becomes overresponsibility—and how to own your choices without carrying everyone else’s. How people-pleasing, overgiving, and hypercontrol can keep recurring patterns in motion, even as you achieve more. Four questions to uncover a repeating pattern and identify whether you need an internal shift, a practical boundary, or both. How to build success without making yourself suffer for it, allowing your ambition and self-worth to grow together. 👑 Your next level starts with recognizing that you already deserve good things—and taking action from that belief. Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.   Quotes: “You can take 100% of responsibility for your healing without taking even 1% of the blame for someone else's harmful choices.” - Kimberly Spencer “There's nothing wrong with you. You are not your behavior.” - Kimberly Spencer “You already deserve all the good that you desire.” - Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:00 — New Level, Same Damn Devil: Why Old Patterns Keep Returning03:57 — Subconscious Beliefs and the Hidden Cost of High Achievement06:54 — Childhood Trauma, Self-Worth, and Beliefs About Deserving11:34 — Hypervigilance and the Just-World Bias: Making Sense of Unfair Experiences15:24 — Self-Blame, Self-Punishment, and Kimberly’s Eating Disorder Recovery17:44 — Crowning Yourself: Letting Go of External Validation19:44 — Self-Worth in Relationships and Business: Recognizing Overgiving22:13 — Money Mindset: When Old Beliefs Resurface in Your Finances25:30 — Why Changing One Behavior Doesn’t Resolve Every Pattern27:52 — Taking Responsibility Without Carrying Someone Else’s Choices31:04 — Sovereign Leadership: When Overresponsibility Becomes Self-Punishment33:42 — Four Questions to Identify and Change Recurring Patterns37:52 — Safety, Control, and Approval: What Your Patterns May Be Protecting39:27 — Stop Proving Your Worth Through Success41:17 — Identity Transformation: Believing You Deserve Good Things43:35 — Integrating Your Growth and Finding Support for Healing   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:   The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o 🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼 Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com   Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media   Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk   NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍 We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________ 💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself   Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself   🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdipMTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. 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More visibility, same revenue? Your brand may still be introducing an identity you’ve outgrown.  Kimberly Spencer reveals why attention doesn’t automatically become clients—and walks you through five brand touchpoints to audit. Discover how clearer positioning, ownership of your accomplishments, and subconscious identity work can help you communicate your authority and the problem you solve.  Queen, let your introduction catch up with your evolution. What Will You Learn from This Episode? Why more visibility doesn’t automatically mean more money—and how unclear positioning can leave potential clients wondering what you actually do. How to recognize when your brand reflects an identity you’ve outgrown, so your messaging catches up with your accomplishments and the leader you’re becoming. The five brand touchpoints to audit: your bio, social presence, physical environment, voicemail or direct interactions, and website. How to communicate your authority without feeling like you’re bragging by owning the results and experience you’ve already earned. How to evaluate your messaging through your client’s eyes using one powerful question: “What would someone hire me to help them solve?” Queen, before you chase more attention, make sure people can clearly see the value you bring. 👑   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “The question isn't simply how do I get more people to see me? The question actually is what's happening when they actually do?”  ~ Kimberly Spencer “It's not about bragging about something that you haven't actually done. It's about being in integrity and owning what you've already earned.”  ~ Kimberly Spencer “More visibility does not correct perception. It only amplifies ambiguity.”  ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:15 — Why More Visibility Doesn’t Automatically Make You More Money01:05 — Visibility That Converts: What Happens When People Find You?02:48 — Do You Have a Visibility Problem—or a Brand Perception Problem?04:08 — Is Your Brand Positioning Reflecting an Identity You’ve Outgrown?05:27 — Align Your Professional Bio with Your Accomplishments and Future Vision06:21 — 5 Brand Touchpoints to Audit for Clearer Positioning08:45 — Use ChatGPT to Review Your Social Media Brand Consistency09:22 — How Your Business Environment Communicates Your Brand Standards11:28 — Does Your Website Clearly Explain Your Authority and the Problem You Solve?11:43 — The Client Attraction Question: What Would Someone Hire You For? Mentions and Resources: You're One Step Away From Becoming Known. Your BIO is the ONE authority-building asset that gets used on repeat...for years. Ready to make your mark? click here: https://www.crownyourself.com/offers/A2CbLihL/checkout   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to build visibility that converst? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/zh2lL9lZUa0

Successful—but still convinced you have to do everything? Kimberly Spencer explores five language patterns that may reveal your subconscious business growth ceiling. Through NLP-inspired questions, personal stories, and a one-week language audit, discover how to challenge assumptions about delegation, visibility, urgency, and messaging—so you can move from overwhelmed founder to sovereign leader with more freedom and impact. In this episode of Crown Yourself®, you’ll learn: How to recognize five language patterns that may be limiting your business growth—including “I have to do everything” and “If I slow down, everything will fall apart.” How to question the beliefs behind founder overwhelm and uncover the business decisions you’re making because of them. How to shift from doing everything to leading with direction, delegating tasks so you can spend more time in your zone of genius. How to identify what’s crowding out your visibility through a time audit and targeted support. Why impressive credentials don’t always convert into clients—and how clear messaging connects your expertise to their problems. How to practice a one-week language audit using one powerful question: “What business decision am I making because I believe this to be true?”   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “What I have seen is the more you stay in your zone of genius, the more money you make.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Language creates a gauge for your perception of your reality.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “If they cannot make that connection between what you do and how that applies to them, then you've lost them.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:00 What Your Language Reveals About Your Business Growth Ceiling 01:50 How Language Reflects Your Subconscious Success Strategy 02:20 “I Have to Do Everything”: Breaking the Founder Bottleneck 03:50 “My Team Can’t Do It Like I Can”: Delegation and Your Zone of Genius 05:50 “I Don’t Have Time to Be Visible”: Freeing Time with Systems and Support 07:30 “If I Slow Down, Everything Will Fall Apart”: Questioning Urgency and Fear 08:15 “People Don’t Understand What I Do”: Clarifying Your Messaging and Positioning 10:10 A One-Week Language Audit to Uncover Limiting Beliefs 11:15 The Question That Reveals Belief-Driven Business Decisions 11:55 Your Next Step: The Free Language-Pattern Assessment PDF   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to recognize five language patterns that may be limiting your business growth? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/Iyt--dSwxA0

What if you don’t need more—you need to stop tolerating what no longer fits? Kimberly Spencer explores how personal standards, subconscious beliefs, and your environment shape the way you lead. From a podcast studio upgrade to seven-figure client conversations, discover practical ways to support conscious business growth, strengthen team effectiveness, and create meaningful change with what you already have. In this episode you’ll learn how to: Raise your standards without spending more by making small, intentional changes that support the leader you’re becoming. Recognize what you’ve been tolerating in your workspace, daily routines, and business—and decide what needs to change. Question the belief that growth always requires “more” people, leads, space, or resources. Improve your existing team’s effectiveness through clearer responsibilities, project ownership, and performance expectations. Explore depth over volume in business development by prioritizing meaningful conversations over constant lead chasing. Bring conscious manifestation into everyday choices by aligning your environment and actions with what you want to create. Your next breakthrough could begin with a better system, a higher standard—or simply moving a plant. 👑   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “Your external reality will always mirror what you have going on inside.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “You will know your evolution by the growth of the environment that you're in.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Where judgment comes into play is when we say, ‘You should do it my way.’” ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:32 — Conscious Manifestation: Aligning Your Environment With Your Inner Standards 02:50 — How to Raise Your Standards and Stop Tolerating What Holds You Back 05:11 — Upgrade Your Environment Without Spending More: Small Changes That Matter 07:31 — Align Your Workspace With Your Goals: The Power of Moving a Plant 09:46 — Set Standards for Your Space While Respecting Your Family’s Autonomy 12:07 — Conscious Business Growth: Do You Need More Resources—or Better Systems? 14:31 — Improve Team Effectiveness and Choose Deeper Business Conversations 16:48 — Your Next Leadership Move: Maximize the Resources You Already Have Mentions + Additional Resources:   Get Kimberly’s book, Make Every Podcast Want You: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DJ4SND8Y?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback Work with Kimberly: https://www.crownyourself.com/private-coaching     Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to raise your standards? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/ZzFhyH4XtDU

How do we embrace technology without outsourcing our humanity? Jason Medley is the founder of Thrively, a boutique recruiting and HR firm helping fast-growing tech companies make smarter, evidence-based hiring decisions. With more than 20 years of experience in HR, organizational psychology, and leadership, Jason specializes in blending human insight with AI to modernize recruiting without losing the human connection. He's also the creator of VERDICT, an AI-powered leadership assessment tool, and is passionate about helping individuals and organizations thrive through clarity, purpose, and conscious innovation.  Artificial intelligence is changing everything—but trust is becoming more valuable than ever. Kimberly Spencer and Jason Medley explore conscious leadership, authentic communication, AI, company culture, and why your humanity is your greatest competitive advantage in today's visibility economy. If you're building a legacy brand in the age of AI, this conversation is essential listening.   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: "In a visibility economy where information is literally everywhere, trust is your currency, emotional resonance can actually be your positioning strategy, and your authentic voice is one of the rarest assets that you actually have."  ~ Kimberly Spencer "The leaders who adopt strong principles, lean into their humanity, and show up authentically are the ones people will want to follow."  ~ Jason Medley "AI should be a tool that enables you to make better decisions—not the thing that makes the decisions for you."  ~ Jason Medley   Moments of Note: 00:00 – Why Human Connection Is the Ultimate Competitive Advantage in the Age of AI 02:46 – The Leadership Crisis AI Didn't Create—But Is Exposing 07:33 – Why Trust Is Becoming More Valuable Than Technology 10:25 – Building Company Culture Through Emotional Resonance Instead of Burnout 14:26 – How to Hire Better Leaders Using AI Without Losing Human Judgment 19:04 – The Hidden Danger of AI-Generated Thought Leadership 23:04 – Founder-Led Brands: Why Authentic Conversations Beat Automated Content 26:12 – Depth Over Reach: The Future of Human-Centered Marketing 29:40 – Why Polarizing Ideas Build Stronger Leadership Brands 34:03 – The Golden Ladder: Are You Climbing Someone Else's Definition of Success? 39:50 – Designing Your Business Around the Life You Actually Want 43:11 – Why AI Can Never Replace Trusted Relationships and Wise Counsel 46:10 – The Danger of Letting AI Make Your Biggest Business Decisions 48:15 – Jason Medley's Health Transformation and the Birth of Orvo 52:59 – People First, Technology Second: The Future of Conscious Healthcare 55:39 – Why Human Experiences Will Matter More Than Ever in an AI Economy 58:04 – The End of Performative Company Culture and Forced Team Building 59:18 – How Values-Based Leadership Attracts Exceptional Talent 1:01:12 – Leadership Lessons for the AI Era: Humanity Is Still the Advantage 1:02:08 – Rapid Fire: Olivia Pope, Einstein, Money Habits & What It Means to Crown Yourself Mentions + Additional Resources: Connect with Jason Medley Thrively: https://thrivelytalent.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasonmedley AI Tools mentioned: ChatGPT — https://chatgpt.com Claude — https://claude.ai Perplexity AI — https://www.perplexity.ai Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:   The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o   🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com   Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media   Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself   Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdipMTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. 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Do you struggle with being overly self-critical? Are you being too hard on yourself? If you’ve ever wondered how to stop being so hard on yourself, THIS episode is for you. Having worked with high achieving leaders, entrepreneurs, and business owners for the past 5 years, and has been a recovering perfectionist who was especially skilled at being self-critical, I’ve seen so many high performers, including myself, struggle with being too hard on themselves, especially at work. There is a difference between having high expectations and goals for what you want to achieve, and being too hard on yourself. In fact, I’ve noticed that when you’re too hard on yourself, not only does your level of happiness and fulfillment suffer but so does…eventually…your performance and results.  Listen to this episode to get some examples of being too self-critical and my strategies to stop being so hard on yourself.  And if you have a fellow high-achieving friend who you wish wouldn’t be so hard on herself, then please, share this with her.    #toohardonyourself #mindset #positiveselftalk   THE CROWN YOURSELF PODCAST PLAYLIST LINK: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP   💖  RESOURCES + LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO: 👑  Join our FREE Crown Yourself Community on Facebook: http://bit.ly/crown-yourself-coaching-group   ____________ BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS TO HELP YOU STOP BEING SO HARD ON YOURSELF   📚  The Undiscovered Self by Dr. Carl Jung https://amzn.to/3rEjLyH   📚  Hardwiring Happiness by Rick Hanson https://amzn.to/2PRyoQV ____________ 📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Mompreneur Motivation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3QHR59hYlE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuik-SyGWvkK-sb0eInGQkna   Queen Convos to Rule Your Life, Body, and Business: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxujWw1RjalU1InwVHg2os1KB   Mind Your Mindset https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxuiH9Qz6EoxScY8ahlOaZjth   ____________   🎆  COACHING: Want to grow your business 150% in the next 12 months? Our Queen Team is accepting applications now to work with Kimberly 1:1. Serious inquiries only pls. Check out the deets + book a consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching   ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     #CrowYourself Facebook: https://facebook.com/crownyourselfnow #CrownYourself Twitter: https://twitter.com/crownyounow #CrownYourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now #CrownYourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ #CrownYourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourselfnow 🎙 Listen to The Princess and the B PODCAST here: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/princessandthebpodcast Google Podcasts: http://bit.ly/theprincessandtheb-googlepodcasts Stitcher: http://bit.ly/theprincessandtheb-stitcher iHeartRadio: https://ihr.fm/3qFY2Ge Spotify: http://bit.ly/theprincessandthebpodcast  AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thank you for your support!   🥰  Loved learning how to stop being too hard on yourself? Watch this video again: https://youtu.be/fntRB_s98u0

Why can a compliment feel uncomfortable—even when you secretly want to believe it? In this Encore Episode, Kimberly Spencer reveals how self-doubt and the ego’s need to be right can block praise from landing. Discover how to stop deflecting appreciation, receive compliments with gratitude, and transform an outdated self-image into sovereign confidence. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why compliments can feel uncomfortable when they contradict your self-image How insecurity and low self-worth can prevent praise from truly landing Why deflecting a compliment may unintentionally devalue the person giving it How the word “but” can cancel appreciation and reinforce negative beliefs Why the ego clings to an outdated identity—even when that identity causes pain How to surrender the need to be right about who you think you are How curiosity can transform judgment, shame, and self-deprecation A simple practice for receiving compliments without minimizing or explaining them away How to train your brain to recognize progress, beauty, strength, and capability Why accepting praise with gratitude is an essential part of sovereign confidence   #compliments #confidence #selfesteem   💖  RESOURCES + LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO:   Grab your FREE LOVE Hypnosis here to start practicing receiving more love: https://crownyourselfcoaching.com/love-wins 👑  Join our FREE Crown Yourself Community on Facebook: http://bit.ly/crown-yourself-coaching-group   ____________ BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS TO HELP YOU RECEIVE COMPLIMENTS   📚 The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership by Jim Dethmer, Diana Chapman: https://amzn.to/2IKm92P   📚  As a Man Thinketh by James Allen: https://amzn.to/384rKxb ____________ 📺  OTHER PODCAST EPISODES ON THIS TOPIC:    (#55) Need Validation? THIS is it: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-princess-and-the-b/id1452686389?i=1000452629694     (#115) Do NOT Be You: Best Self-Help Advice You’ll Ever Receive https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/115-do-not-be-you-best-self-help-advice-youll-ever/id1452686389?i=1000504305169    (#141) How to Get People to Respect You: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/141-how-to-get-people-to-respect-you/id1452686389?i=1000528605850   ____________   🎆  COACHING: Want to grow your business 150% in the next 12 months? Our Queen Team is accepting applications now to work with Kimberly 1:1. Serious inquiries only pls. Check out the deets + book a consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching   ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     #CrowYourself Facebook: https://facebook.com/crownyourselfnow #CrownYourself Twitter: https://twitter.com/crownyounow #CrownYourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now #CrownYourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ #CrownYourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourselfnow   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thank you for your support!   🥰  Loved this podcast episode? Listen to it again: https://youtu.be/pcYly90ufCk

What if your business slowdown isn’t failure—but winter? In this encore episode, Kimberly Spencer reveals how to identify your current business season, navigate cash-flow challenges and rapid growth, and prepare for sustainable success. Discover why sovereign leadership means honoring cycles of rest, creation, expansion, and harvest instead of expecting success to remain linear. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How to identify whether your business is in winter, spring, summer, or autumn Why success naturally moves in cycles rather than following a straight line How to navigate cash-flow challenges, team transitions, and strategies that no longer work Why periods of rest, destruction, and uncertainty can create fertile ground for your next breakthrough How to turn difficult business lessons into stronger boundaries, systems, and leadership decisions What to do during rapid-growth seasons so passion and momentum become sustainable success How to prepare during profitable seasons by building cash reserves, improving retention, and strengthening operations Why your body, relationships, industry, and business may each be experiencing a different season How adopting a seasonal perspective can bring more grace, resilience, and trust to your entrepreneurial journey Why a business winter is not the end—it may be preparing you for your most abundant spring yet   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “We are natural beings, and thus, to deny seasonality and think that we need to flatline at some point of productivity is just not natural.”  ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Creation always follows destruction. Spring always follows winter.”  ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Keep going, keep trusting, and keep seeing your vision and your business for the long term.”  ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:00 — What Season of Business Are You In? Kimberly introduces the natural cycles shaping business, life, relationships, and personal growth. 02:45 — Why Entrepreneurial Success Is Not Linear How social media’s highlight reel creates unrealistic expectations of constant productivity and uninterrupted growth. 05:12 — The Four Seasons of Business Growth Understanding winter as rest, spring as creation, summer as expansion, and autumn as harvest. 07:41 — Honoring Seasons of Rest, Recovery, and Renewal Kimberly shares how motherhood, maternity leave, and postpartum healing reflected a personal winter season. 10:16 — Moving From Healing Into High-Performance Growth How planting small seeds of healthy routines prepared Kimberly for a stronger, more passionate season with her body. 12:50 — Signs Your Business Is in a Winter Season Cash-flow pressure, declining sales, team changes, and strategies that no longer work may indicate a period of business contraction. 14:14 — Turning Leadership Challenges Into Stronger Boundaries Why difficult employees, misaligned clients, and operational friction can reveal the standards your business needs next. 15:35 — How Destruction Creates the Seeds of Reinvention Kimberly reflects on leaving her e-commerce business and how that challenging experience helped plant the seed for Crown Yourself®. 17:04 — Beauty From the Ashes: Finding Opportunity After Loss A powerful story of fire-damaged California hills illustrates how seemingly barren seasons can become fertile ground for renewal. 18:16 — How to Survive Cash-Flow Challenges in Business Kimberly offers encouragement for entrepreneurs navigating revenue fluctuations, financial pressure, and uncertain growth. 19:33 — Navigating Rapid Business Growth Without Burning Out What the passionate “summer” of business looks like—and why fast expansion needs supportive systems and sustainable leadership. 20:37 — Preparing Your Business for the Next Downturn How mentorship, operations, cash reserves, recurring revenue, and stronger processes can make future winters less severe. 21:58 — Understanding Economic and Industry Growth Cycles Why your company, industry, relationships, and the wider economy may each be moving through different seasons. 23:26 — Is Your Industry Growing, Harvesting, or Entering Winter? Kimberly uses the podcasting industry to explain how markets move through innovation, expansion, monetization, and contraction. 24:40 — How Seasonal Thinking Creates Resilience and Grace Why recognizing the temporary nature of every season can help conscious leaders release judgment and make wiser decisions. 26:23 — Prepare During the Harvest for a More Abundant Spring The importance of gathering resources during profitable seasons and preparing intentionally for future business challenges. 27:40 — Create a Business and Life That Rules Kimberly closes with an invitation to share the episode, create a royal ripple, and lead from sovereignty.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to thrive in challenging business seasons? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/Unf8ii3ZAug

What if achieving the dream revealed that you had outgrown it? Tirzah Shirai is a visionary entrepreneur, conscious business leader, and founder of BlinkBar, which she grew from a small apartment pop-up into a $30 million company in less than five years. She now helps purpose-driven entrepreneurs integrate spiritual wisdom, feminine leadership, and practical business strategy to create meaningful wealth, lasting impact, and soul-aligned success.  BlinkBar founder Tirzah Shirai shares how she built a $30 million company, survived a devastating shutdown, and transformed disruption into freedom. Discover how to redefine wealth, balance feminine wisdom with masculine structure, and build a soul-aligned business without sacrificing who you came here to  Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “Children don’t learn what you say. They learn who you are. They learn by what you do and how you show up in the world.” — Tirzah Shirai   “We don’t get to take anything with us except ourselves, our soul, and what we’ve built up. So what do we want to pass on and leave behind?” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “The world needs heart-led entrepreneurs, mothers, and healers to step forward in their gifts.” — Tirzah Shirai    Moments of Note: 00:00 – From $30 Million to Freedom: What Happens After Achieving the Dream? 05:56 – Leaving BlinkBar and Answering a Soul-Aligned Business Calling 09:06 – How to Recognize When Your Successful Business Is No Longer Aligned 11:30 – Redefining Wealth, Love, Motherhood, and Meaningful Success 15:26 – Losing a Major Investment: Why the Shutdown Became Her Greatest Gift 18:54 – Helping Heart-Led Entrepreneurs Turn Their Gifts Into Abundance 23:18 – How to Know When You Have Outgrown a Business or Identity 24:23 – Balancing Divine Feminine Flow With Masculine Business Structure 28:54 – Why Freedom Requires Structure, Strategy, and an Integrator 32:10 – The Missing Link in Manifestation: Becoming Able to Hold Success 35:00 – Golden Shadow Work: Reclaiming the Success You See in Others 37:36 – Signs You Are Climbing the Wrong Mountain of Success 42:27 – Creating a Slower Life Through Spiritual Practice and Conscious Structure 44:04 – From Housework to Home Care: Restoring Reverence in Everyday Life 47:04 – Business Life Cycles, Spiritual Detachment, and Redefining Legacy 51:08 – Bringing Divine Feminine Leadership Into the Future of Business 54:39 – Protecting Your Inner Pictures, Energy, and Subconscious Mind 57:25 – An Ancient Mystery-School Practice for Strengthening Your Will 1:00:06 – Rapid-Fire Questions: Spirituality, Motherhood, and Daily Rituals 1:02:37 – Servant Leadership: Redefining Your Queendom Through Service 1:04:27 – The Venusian School of Business and Building With Divine Alignment    Mentions + Additional Resources: "From Zero to $30 Million in a Blink with Blinkbar Founder and CEO, Tirzah Shirai" "Blink Bar": "00:00:00 - 00:01:37" "Venusian School of Business": "00:05:56 - 00:07:59", "01:05:05" "Amazon": "00:10:00 - 00:11:14" "Good Morning America": "00:21:35 - 00:22:34" "Traction" (book): "00:28:29" "15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership" (book): "00:28:29" Mary Magdalene The Christ Dream Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙Subscriibe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nfk368ZopWo&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP&pp=sAgC   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to go from $30 million to freedom? Listen to this podcast again: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yw0b2qU3x6Q

Have you ever watched someone else receive the opportunity, recognition, or success you wanted—and quietly thought, But I’m more qualified than they are? Being exceptional isn’t enough if no one remembers you. Kimberly Spencer reveals why talented leaders remain invisible—and how subconscious safety patterns, unclear positioning, perfectionism, and trend-chasing dilute their authority. Discover how to turn your expertise into unforgettable stories, communicate your convictions with clarity, and become known without sacrificing your integrity or performing for attention. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why the world rewards remembered excellence, not hidden expertise. How unclear positioning and inconsistent communication cause extraordinary leaders to be overlooked. Why your nervous system may choose safety over visibility—and encourage you to shrink, overexplain, or dilute your message. How to normalize criticism and prepare your subconscious mind for greater exposure. Why trying to be liked by everyone weakens your authority. How to transform credentials and accomplishments into memorable, relatable stories. Why confidence follows action—and how taking imperfect action gives you the data you need to grow. How trend-chasing can shift you from leadership into followership. How to communicate original perspectives and strong convictions without sacrificing your integrity. What it takes to become known, trusted, and impossible to ignore in your industry.   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “Popularity does not necessarily equal profitability.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Authority is something that you assert.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Trendsetters are trendsetters for a reason: they set the trends. They don’t follow the trends.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:20 — Why Talented Entrepreneurs Get Overlooked Why greater expertise doesn’t automatically lead to recognition, opportunities, or business growth. 01:22 — Hidden Excellence vs. Remembered Excellence The uncomfortable truth about visibility—and why becoming known matters as much as becoming exceptional. 02:44 — Build Authentic Authority That Attracts Customers Why followers and popularity don’t necessarily create profitability, revenue, or sustainable success. 03:22 — The Invisible Beliefs Blocking Business Visibility How subconscious patterns—not a lack of talent—create visibility ceilings for successful founders. 04:12 — Unclear Brand Positioning Dilutes Your Expertise Why inconsistent communication, sporadic content, and disconnected personal brands make exceptional leaders easier to overlook. 06:13 — Why Your Nervous System Chooses Safety Over Visibility Understanding the biological fear of rejection, criticism, and standing out from the crowd. 08:32 — Enter the Arena: How to Handle Online Criticism A counterintuitive way to prepare your subconscious mind for judgment, negative reviews, and greater exposure. 10:51 — Normalize Visibility and Survive Being Misunderstood Why growth requires accepting that you won’t satisfy everyone—and that criticism doesn’t make you unsafe. 11:33 — Stop Shrinking and Communicate with Authority How people-pleasing, perfectionism, and watering down your message weaken your sovereign leadership. 12:39 — Stop Hiding Behind Credentials and Certifications Why qualifications may support authority—but transformation, results, and meaningful stories create it. 14:41 — Imperfect Action Creates Confidence and Clarity Why confidence doesn’t come first—and how testing your ideas reveals what actually works. 16:05 — Stop Chasing Trends and Lead with Originality How following every social media trend can turn an authority into a follower—and why true leaders communicate original perspectives. 18:41 — Make Your Expertise Impossible to Overlook with KNOWN How to articulate your convictions, position your expertise, build trust, and scale beyond your constant presence.   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. 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What if your self-sabotage isn’t a character flaw, but a nervous-system response inherited through generations?  In this Encore episode, Dr. Valerie Rein reveals how Patriarchy Stress Disorder can affect women’s visibility, wealth, wellbeing, and leadership. Discover why mindset work may not be enough—and how to make power, pleasure, and success feel safe in your body. Dr. Valerie Rein is a psychologist, women’s mental health expert, business consultant, and creator of Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD). Through her science-backed approach, she helps women heal the intergenerational trauma of oppression so they can experience greater success, happiness, and fulfillment. She holds advanced degrees from Columbia University and the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology and is the bestselling author of Patriarchy Stress Disorder. A sought-after speaker, Dr. Valerie specializes in the intersection of deep inner work, leadership, business, and human potential. What You’ll Learn in This Episode What Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD) is and how intergenerational trauma can live in women’s nervous systems and subconscious minds. Why visibility, wealth, leadership, pleasure, and authentic self-expression can feel unsafe—even for confident, high-achieving women. How PSD may appear as imposter syndrome, self-sabotage, anxiety, overworking, mental fog, chronic stress, or difficulty receiving. Why these patterns are protective trauma adaptations, not evidence that you are broken or holding yourself back intentionally. Why mindset work alone may not resolve patterns rooted in the body and nervous system. How patriarchal conditioning can influence women’s relationships with money, financial decisions, ambition, and success. How to transform your internal “prison guards” into bodyguards that protect you without limiting your potential. Why community, embodied safety, and nervous-system healing are essential for reclaiming feminine power. How to shift from asking, “How much can I bear?” to “How good can it get?” #patriarchy #womensrights #internationalwomensday #feminism   💖  RESOURCES + LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO: Download my Heal Your Money Beliefs Masterclass + Workbook to shift your energy around money, so you not only attract more clients and customers to your biz, but you also stay profitable and prosperous: https://bit.ly/heal-your-money-queen   To learn more of Dr. Valerie Reins’s work, PSD, and programs, click here: https://drvalerie.com/    👑  Join our FREE Crown Yourself Community on Facebook: http://bit.ly/crown-yourself-coaching-group   ____________ BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS TO HELP YOU BREAKTHROUGH PATRIARCHY STRESS DISORDER   📚  Patriarchal Stress Disorder: The Invisible Barrier to Women’s Happiness by Dr. Valerie Rein: https://amzn.to/3poRugE    📚 Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women’s Anger by Soraya Chemaly: https://amzn.to/3poEuYe    📚 Witch: Unleashed. Untamed. Unapologetic by Lisa Lister: https://amzn.to/3sDqhcd    📚 Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagosaki: https://amzn.to/3tkzWmS   📚 Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cyle by Emily Nagosaki: https://amzn.to/3hsZngs    ____________ 📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Mompreneur Motivation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3QHR59hYlE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuik-SyGWvkK-sb0eInGQkna   Queen Convos to Rule Your Life, Body, and Business: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxujWw1RjalU1InwVHg2os1KB   Mind Your Mindset https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2ClsckBxxuiH9Qz6EoxScY8ahlOaZjth   ____________   🎆  COACHING: Want to grow your business 150% in the next 12 months? Our Queen Team is accepting applications now to work with Kimberly 1:1. Serious inquiries only pls. Check out the deets + book a consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching   ____________   🐦  TWEET THIS PODCAST: https://ctt.ec/pGDRb   “Your energy is either a super client attractor or a super client repellent.” @realkimspencer via @crownyounow https://ctt.ec/ZtV2b   "Clean + clear out the comparison to your competitors and concentrate ALL your energy on your customers." @realkimspencer via @crownyounow https://ctt.ec/tl6y1   ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     #CrowYourself Facebook: https://facebook.com/crownyourselfnow #CrownYourself Twitter: https://twitter.com/crownyounow #CrownYourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now #CrownYourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ #CrownYourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourselfnow 🎙 Listen to The Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBhCXTH-7qQ&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP&pp=sAgC   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. 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What if the drama draining your energy isn’t random—but a subconscious pattern keeping you seen, busy, or safely stuck? In this ENCORE episode, Kimberly Spencer reveals how high achievers unconsciously create chaos through avoidance and how to shift from drama and perfectionism into excellence, conscious leadership, and progress. Discover the simple framework: Approach. Decide. Create progress. Your next level doesn’t need more drama—it needs your leadership. What you will learn from this episode… Impact of drama on visibility and attention Influence of childhood experiences, trauma, and subconscious beliefs on drama Role of drama in seeking attention and its impact on mental well-being Strategies for transforming subconscious beliefs around drama, visibility, and authenticity Overcoming old programming and shifting mindset to focus on results Detrimental effects of avoidance and drama The foundation of drama being rooted in avoidance Encouraging honest conversations and facing challenges head-on Reflecting on avoidance and seeking support in eliminating limiting beliefs High-performance consultation for identifying subconscious success strategies and creating a plan for business growth   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on YouTube. Quotes: How you will know if you are healing is by what you feel inside. Your triggers are your teachers. ~ Kimberly Spencer All we have control over is ourselves and so, in our own projections, it's always you versus you. ~ Kimberly Spencer Excellence is a practice. It's a skillset, and it's a constant, moving, infinite goal. Because it's an infinite goal. You will probably never reach it in this lifetime, but we can still chase it. ~ Kimberly Spencer Avoidance gets to create drama. That's the foundation of drama. Drama is created when you avoid the problem. ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: Drama and Visibility (00:00:00) Discussion about the impact of drama on visibility and attention, especially in the context of social media and business. Childhood Trauma and Drama (00:01:25) Personal experiences of trauma and its influence on attracting drama, and the subconscious belief that drama can provide validation and attention. Subconscious Beliefs and Drama (00:02:34) Exploring the possibility of subconscious beliefs around drama and the attraction of drama for visibility and attention, especially in the context of recent world events. Conscious Scrolling and Self-Reflection (00:03:45) The importance of conscious scrolling and self-reflection in managing drama and negative comments on social media, and the role of triggers in assessing belief systems. Shifting Beliefs from Drama to Excellence (00:05:56) The process of shifting beliefs from drama and perfectionism to a focus on excellence and setting higher standards, and the impact of these shifts on personal growth and success. The decision to progress (00:25:05) Kimberly discusses the shift from drama to results and making decisions for financial growth and personal progress. Avoidance and drama in different areas (00:26:45) Kimberly talks about avoiding financial issues, business chaos, and body drama by engaging with problems and making decisions. The energetics of avoidance (00:27:45) Kimberly shares her personal experience of creating drama through avoidance and discusses the impact of avoidance on creating drama. Eliminating drama through engagement (00:30:10) Kimberly encourages listeners to identify areas of avoidance that lead to drama and engage with tough conversations for personal growth. Invitation to high-performance consultation (00:31:23) Kimberly invites listeners to book a high-performance consultation to identify subconscious success strategies and create a power profit plan. Conclusion and call to action (00:32:28) Kimberly concludes the episode by encouraging listeners to subscribe, share, and connect with her on social media for more inspiration.   Mentions + Additional Resources: Mental Health and Well-being: Perfectionism: 00:20:26 Excellence: 00:20:26 Conscious Scrolling: 00:16:45 Anne of Green Gables: 00:14:26 Productivity and Organization: Trello Board: 00:27:45 Social Media and Networking: Instagram: 00:30:10 High Performance Consultation: 00:31:23   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:   The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP  Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads  Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙Subscriibe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hcHAua2FqYWJpLmNvbS9wb2RjYXN0cy8yMTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. 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Could your identity be limiting your income?  In this powerful Encore episode of the Crown Yourself Podcast, you'll discover why your next level of income isn't determined by how hard you work—it's determined by the subconscious beliefs shaping your identity. Kimberly Spencer unpacks the hidden mindset patterns that silently cap revenue and shows you how sovereign leadership begins with expanding your capacity to receive. In this episode, you'll learn: 👑 The five subconscious beliefs that quietly sabotage your next $100K—and why they're more powerful than any business strategy. 💰 Why working harder doesn't automatically create more income, and how tying your worth to your performance keeps you stuck in hustle mode. 🧠 How identity shapes your financial reality, and why upgrading your self-concept is essential for sustainable business growth. 🚀 How fear of success, rejection, and outgrowing others can unconsciously limit your visibility, pricing, and leadership. ✨ Why imposter syndrome is actually evidence that you're stepping into a bigger room—and how to use it as fuel for growth instead of proof you're not ready. 🌿 How caretaker programming and over-responsibility create burnout, and how leading from overflow allows you to serve more without sacrificing yourself. ⚡ Why your nervous system resists abundance, and practical ways to expand your capacity to safely receive more money, opportunity, and success. 🏛️ The difference between building a business that depends on you versus creating systems that support long-term freedom and legacy. 🎯 How to turn mindset breakthroughs into tangible business results by aligning your beliefs with strategic action that actually moves the needle. 👑 Why sovereign leadership begins with subconscious alignment, empowering you to receive more, lead with greater confidence, and create lasting impact. Queen, if this episode unlocked something inside you… imagine what happens when you do this work weekly. Inside The Collective, we don’t just identify subconscious beliefs — we transform them. ✨ Weekly power-packed audio activations ✨ Quantum leadership prompts to rewire your receiving capacity ✨ Live monthly coaching ✨ A community of sovereign women rising beside you If you’re ready to stop chasing $100K and start magnetizing it… 👇 Join us inside The Collective $88/month → crownyourself.com/collective   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “Familiarity is your subconscious mind’s definition of safety, not success.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “If your belief system isn’t aligned with your next level, no strategy will stick.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Imposter syndrome means you’re playing in a bigger room. It’s a sign of growth, not inadequacy.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:00 – The Identity Behind Your Income (Powerful Opening Insight) Kimberly challenges the belief that income is tied to effort and introduces the concept of identity-driven wealth. 01:10 – The Book That Started a Podcasting Revolution (Authority Positioning) Kimberly spotlights Make Every Podcast Want You, reinforcing her credibility and mission.   02:00 – Welcome to Crown Yourself: Conscious Leadership & Sovereign Success Setting the tone for the episode—mindset, sovereignty, subconscious transformation, and high-performance identity work.   03:32 – What’s Really Holding Back Your Next $100K? (Episode Overview) Introduction to the five subconscious beliefs capping your income and keeping you in patterns of overwork.   04:40 – Case Study: The Client With a Hidden 250K Business (Revelatory Moment) A powerful client example showing how identity—not strategy—was blocking her from activating the 250K business she already built.   06:05 – Hidden Belief #1: “I Have to Work Harder to Earn More” (Worthiness Wound) How tying self-worth to performance keeps entrepreneurs exhausted, undercharging, and avoiding systems that create scalability.   08:00 – The 66.7% Revenue Increase: What Happens When a Belief Shifts (Proof of Transformation) Kimberly reveals the exact revenue change that occurred once her client rewired her core belief.   09:50 – Hidden Belief #2: “More Money Will Change Me” (Fear of Rejection & Identity Loss) Exploring how money triggers fears of losing friendships, acceptance, or your sense of self—and why this belief sabotages visibility and pricing.   13:40 – Success Illuminates More Than Just Your Path (Projection & Relationships) Kimberly discusses how your success mirrors others’ insecurities—and why their reactions aren’t about you.   16:48 – Hidden Belief #3: “I’m Not Ready Yet” (Imposter Syndrome Reframed) Why imposter syndrome is actually a sign you’re entering a bigger room—and how modeling success accelerates growth.   20:30 – The Truth About Posturing vs. Authenticity (Energetics & Integrity) A story about a new coach posturing success — and how authenticity immediately shifted her momentum and trust.   23:55 – Hidden Belief #4: “If I Receive More, I’ll Have to Give More” (Caretaker Programming) Why high-achieving women fear abundance because it feels like added responsibility—and how to reclaim overflow without depletion.   27:10 – Wealth, Nervous System Safety & The Mother Metaphor (Embodied Expansion) Kimberly compares financial expansion to pregnancy—your body must feel safe stretching into the next level.   30:35 – Hidden Belief #5: “It’s Safer to Stay Where I Am” (Familiarity vs. Success) How the subconscious clings to what’s familiar—even scarcity—and how to expand your capacity to hold more.   33:50 – How to Normalize Bigger Amounts of Money (Emotional Calibration) Why holding wealth in your awareness without rushing to spend it is a critical step in identity evolution.   36:45 – Awareness Isn’t Enough: You Must Take the Aligned Action (Systems Work) The pivotal moment when Kimberly helped her client build systems—turning belief shifts into actual income.   39:00 – The Tactical Upgrades: Email Systems, Referral Systems & Follow-Up (Business Infrastructure) How building simple systems created quantum leaps in confidence, revenue, and scalability.   41:20 – Releasing the “Hard Work” Narrative for Good (Identity Integration) The energetic shift from “hard equals worthy” to “overflow equals impact.”   42:55 – Invitation to The Collective: Transform Your Beliefs Weekly (Signature CTA) Kimberly introduces The Collective and explains how weekly activations + monthly coaching help you rewire the beliefs keeping you from your next $100K.   44:40 – Final Words of Sovereignty: Own Your Throne (Closing Message) A powerful reminder to embody your next-level identity and create a life that rules. Mentions + Additional Resources:   Get Kimberly Spencer’s best-selling book, “Make Every Podcast Want You” here: https://www.crownyourself.com/makeeverypodcastwantyou If you’re craving a safe space to do the inner work that actually moves the needle… Join us inside The Collective → crownyourself.com/collective     Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.c

Are you hiding your success because you're afraid of sounding arrogant?  In this powerful rerelease, Kimberly Spencer reveals why owning your wins isn't bragging—it's leadership. Learn how authentic storytelling builds trust, inspires others, and positions you as the guide you're meant to be. If this Encore episode reminded you that your story deserves to be told, don't keep it to yourself. Share it with the entrepreneur, leader, or visionary who's still hiding their brilliance because they're afraid of "looking too much." Your success isn't just yours anymore. It's proof of what's possible. And if you're ready to stop shrinking your gifts and start leading from your fullest expression, come join us inside The Crown Yourself Collective, where courageous leaders celebrate wins, build legacy businesses, and rise together. https://www.crownyourself.com/the-collective Because your reign was never meant to happen in secret. 👑 Own your throne. 👑 Mind your business. 👑 Your reign is now.   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “It Ain’t Bragging If It’s True.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Bragging isn’t arrogance. It’s evidence.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “It’s not ‘look at me.’ It’s ‘look at what’s possible.’” ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:00 – Why High Achievers Downplay Their Biggest Wins The hidden cost of humility and why minimizing success trains others to overlook you. 02:15 – It Ain’t Bragging If It’s True: Reframing Visibility Why owning your success isn’t ego—it’s evidence and embodiment. 04:40 – How Not Claiming Your Wins Blocks Leadership Authority The perception gap that keeps powerful leaders unseen. 07:10 – Personal Story: Redefining Failure vs. Success A powerful reframe on business exits, perspective, and delayed self-recognition. 10:35 – Why Conscious Leaders Fear Sounding “Cringe” Online The emotional dissonance between service, humility, and visibility. 13:20 – Bragging vs. Ego: Evidence vs. Illusion The difference between ego-boosting and character-building success. 16:05 – Nervous System Integration: Why Celebration Matters How skipping celebration blocks fulfillment, manifestation, and momentum. 18:50 – How to Celebrate Wins Without Making It About You Creating win-win celebrations with family, teams, and partners. 22:30 – Visibility in the Age of AI: Why Lived Experience Wins Why discernment, not content volume, builds trust and authority. 25:15 – Sharing Wins as Service, Not Self-Promotion How your story gives others permission to rise. 28:10 – The Storytelling Formula for Owning Your Achievements What you went for, what changed, the result, and the lesson. 31:40 – From Accomplishment to Authority: Becoming the Guide Why leaders must be seen winning to lead others forward. 34:20 – Not Claiming Your Brilliance Blocks Your Legacy The real cost of staying quiet about your success. 37:10 – Why Repetition Builds Visibility and Trust Why saying it once isn’t enough—and consistency matters. 40:00 – The Crown Yourself Collective: A Home for Sovereign Leaders How high-achieving leaders stop shrinking and start owning their results. 43:30 – Final Message: Own Your Throne, Lead Loudly A call to sovereign leadership, embodied success, and visibility. Transcript: For a full episode transcript, you can find it here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. 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What if your greatest competitive advantage isn't your marketing... It's your reputation? AI can generate content—but it can't generate trust. In this episode, Kimberly Spencer reveals why reputation is your greatest business asset and introduces the Four Trust Accounts every entrepreneur must build. Learn how sovereign leaders create authority, lasting influence, and legacy by aligning integrity, reputation, and real results in the new Trust Economy.   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: "Trust isn't something you earn once. It's something you compound every single day." ~ Kimberly Spencer   "Self-integrity creates self-confidence. Every promise you break to yourself is a withdrawal from your internal trust account." ~ Kimberly Spencer   "Build the kind of reputation that creates trust long before you ever make a sales pitch." ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:00 — Why Trust Is Your Greatest Business Asset (Even More Than Marketing) 00:42 — The Trust Economy: Why Leaders Win in the Age of AI 02:24 — The Parenting Lesson That Changed How I Think About Leadership 03:36 — Trust Takes Years to Build—and Seconds to Break 04:26 — The Four Trust Accounts Every Entrepreneur Must Build 04:50 — Trust Account #1: Build Self-Trust Through Integrity & Follow-Through 07:39 — Trust Account #2: How Great Leaders Build Trust with Their Team 09:19 — Trust Account #3: Why Small Client Moments Create Lasting Loyalty 09:33 — Trust Account #4: Protect Your Reputation Before It Costs Your Business 10:30 — The Dangerous Trap of Inflated Success Metrics and Fake Authority 11:42 — How Ego Prevents High Performers from Asking for Help 13:19 — The Queen & King Framework: Align Your Brand with Your Mastery 14:49 — Reputation Leaks: Is Your Brand Inflated or Are You Hiding Your Expertise? 15:32 — How to Build a Legacy Brand Through Trust, Integrity & Sovereign Leadership 16:16 — Take the Sovereign Leadership Assessment & Build a Reputation That Lasts   Mentions + Additional Resources:   Sovereign Leadership Assessment – Discover which subconscious leadership pattern may be limiting your business growth and learn how to build greater trust, authority, and alignment. 🔗 https://www.crownyourself.com/ Make Every Podcast Want You by Kimberly Spencer – The bestselling book Kimberly references while sharing how completing a meaningful goal rebuilt her self-trust and authority. 🔗 https://www.crownyourself.com/ Join The Collective – Build sovereign leadership, conscious business growth, and lasting authority alongside a community of visionary entrepreneurs. 🔗 https://www.crownyourself.com/the-collective Listen to More Crown Yourself Episodes 🔗 https://www.crownyourself.com/podcast   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? Request an interview: https://crownyourself.com/media     Watch Kimberly’s TEDx Talk on “Becoming a Warrior for Possibility” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzwbvqzbmRk     NEW MERCH! 🥰 Grab your Crown Yourself shirts, mugs, pillows, and totes!  http://tee.pub/lic/crownyourself  ____________   🎆  COACHING: Ready to transform your self-limiting stories, stand out fearlessly in your industry and build your empire on a foundation of both purpose + profit? Let's get you making the impact + income you deserve. Register for a 1:1 consult call here: https://crownyourself.com/private-coaching  ____________   🌎 OUR ABUNDANCE INITIATIVE 🌍   We at CrownYourself.com are committed to creating the conscious visionary leaders of our future. That’s why we are committed to donating 15% of all our company profits to charities that help support our future generations to live healthy, free, and sovereign.   🙏🏼 Support our abundance initiative here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/crownyourself ____________   💕 Say “hi” on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlyspencer.crownyourself/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/realkimspencer Instagram: https://instagram.com/kimberly.spencer  Linked In: https://linkedin.com/in/kimberlyspencer-crownyourself     Crown Yourself Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow  Crown Yourself Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/crownyourself  Crown Yourself TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crownyourself.now Crown Yourself Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/crownyourself/ Crown Yourself Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourself.now Crown Yourself  Youtube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/crownyourself    🎙 Subscribe + Listen to the Crown Yourself Podcast here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crown-yourself/id1452686389 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71G0xbDBToBa9ERYNRbdip MTQ3NDkzMzI4L2ZlZWQ Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/4dbb5e9b-be94-4778-b6b2-65ab518d27e8/crown-yourself Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Crownyourself/podcasts   AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in NO WAY obligated to use these links. Thanks for your support!   🥰  Loved learning about how to overcome invincible beliefs running your business? Listen to this podcast again: https://youtu.be/ItwJzaY3uEA