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Why do some of us reach for reassurance when connection feels uncertain, while others pull away? In this episode of Decode Thyself, we’re breaking down the four main attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant) and how they can show up in the way we experience closeness and connection. No putting yourself in a box. Just another way to understand your patterns, get curious about yourself, and decide what you want to do with what you notice. 🤍 YouTube: @tidaltarotInstagram: @tidaltarotofficialTikTok: @tidal_tarotWebsite: www.selfvocate.com

Knowing yourself and actually doing something with what you know are two different things. In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when self-awareness becomes self-trust... in the small choices, boundaries, and moments where you start taking what you know about yourself seriously. Because eventually, “Why am I like this?” becomes “Okay… now what?” Next up on Decode Thyself: attachment styles. 🤍 YouTube: @tidaltarotInstagram: @tidaltarotofficialTikTok: @tidal_tarotWebsite: selfvocate.com

Change can be something you genuinely want and still feel uncomfortable once you start living it. In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when you begin showing up differently, the people around you have to adjust, and you feel tempted to slip back into an older version of yourself just because it feels more familiar. You’re allowed to give people time to adjust without abandoning the changes you’re making. And you’re allowed to be new at being different. 🧡 Connect with me:YouTube: @tidaltarotInstagram: @tidaltarotofficialTikTok: @tidal_tarotWebsite: selfvocate.com

Why does a simple “no” sometimes turn into a full explanation? In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between giving someone context and trying to explain ourselves well enough to earn their approval. Sometimes you can be kind, clear, and considerate, and someone still might not like your answer. Connect with me: ✨ Selfvocate: selfvocate.com 🔮 YouTube: @tidaltarot 📱 TikTok: @tidal_tarot ❤️ Instagram: @tidaltarotofficial

You might already know what you want and still find yourself overthinking, second-guessing, or waiting for someone else to validate it. We’re talking self-trust, decision-making, people-pleasing, and why more clarity isn’t always the answer. Sometimes the real challenge is trusting what you already know enough to choose differently, even when that choice feels uncomfortable. Because your preferences don’t need to be approved and notarized before they count. Keep exploring: ✨ Selfvocate: selfvocate.com🔮 Tidal Tarot on YouTube: @tidaltarot📱 TikTok: @tidal_tarot📸 Instagram: @tidaltarotofficial If this episode felt a little too familiar , follow Decode Thyself: Self-Discovery for Real Life so you don’t miss the next one.

You’ve journaled, learned your patterns, figured out your attachment style, taken the personality tests...and somehow you still feel stuck. At some point, the question shifts from “Why am I like this?” to “What am I actually going to do with what I know?” In this episode, we’re talking about the space between self-awareness and actual change: trusting yourself, breaking old patterns, self-advocacy, and making choices that reflect who you’ve become...without waiting until you’re perfectly healed or 100% sure. Because knowing yourself is powerful. Living like you know yourself is where things start to change. ✨ CONNECT + EXPLORE Selfvocate: https://selfvocate.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tidaltarotTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tidal_tarotInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tidaltarotofficial/Come Home to Yourself - Career, Purpose & Money Tarot Guide: https://selfvocate.com/products/tarot-guide-for-career-purpose-money If this episode felt like something you needed today, follow Decode Thyself so we can keep figuring this stuff out together. 🤍

If you’re an Enneagram Type 9, also known as The Peacemaker, you naturally bring calm, harmony, and grounding into your environment. You see all sides. You go with the flow. You help keep things steady. But underneath that peacekeeping is a deeper pattern...a tendency to disconnect from your own needs, opinions, and desires in order to avoid conflict or tension. In this episode, we’re talking about:• The core fear behind Type 9 patterns• Why avoiding conflict can feel necessary• The tendency to lose connection with self• What real growth looks like for Type 9s This isn’t about becoming more confrontational.It’s about learning to stay connected to yourself while staying connected to others. If you don’t know your Enneagram type yet, you can take a free test here:👉 https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test

If you’re an Enneagram Type 8, also known as The Challenger, you likely move through life with strength, intensity, and directness. You don’t back down easily. You protect what matters. And you don’t tolerate being controlled or overpowered. But underneath that strength is a deeper emotional layer, a fear of vulnerability, betrayal, or loss of control. In this episode, we’re talking about:• The core fear behind Type 8 patterns• Why control and strength can feel necessary• The hidden sensitivity beneath the intensity• What real growth looks like for Type 8s This isn’t about becoming less strong. It’s about learning that softness is part of strength too. If you don’t know your Enneagram type yet, you can take a free test here:👉 https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test Next episode, we’ll be going over Enneagram Type 9.

If you’re an Enneagram Type 7, also known as The Enthusiast, you’re naturally drawn to joy, freedom, and possibility. But underneath that movement is a deeper pattern, a discomfort with feeling stuck, limited, or emotionally heavy. In this episode, we’re talking about:• The core fear behind Type 7 patterns• Why staying busy or moving forward can feel necessary• The avoidance of discomfort and emotional depth• What real growth actually looks like for Type 7s This isn’t about becoming less joyful. It’s about learning how to stay with your life as it is. If you don’t know your Enneagram type yet, you can take a free test here:👉 https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test

If you’re an Enneagram Type 6, also known as The Loyalist, your mind is always trying to stay one step ahead. Questioning. Preparing. Thinking things through. Not because something is wrong with you, but because you’re trying to feel safe. In this episode, we’re talking about:• The core fear behind Type 6 patterns• Why overthinking and doubt show up• The struggle with trust and decision-making• What growth actually looks like for Type 6s This isn’t about “fixing” your anxiety.It’s about learning to trust yourself again. Not sure of your type? Take the free Enneagram test here:👉 https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test

If you’re an Enneagram Type 5, also known as The Observer or Investigator, you probably feel safest in your mind. Space, privacy, and emotional distance aren’t just preferences, they’re how you recharge and make sense of the world. In this episode, we’re exploring what’s really underneath Type 5 patterns: • The need to protect your energy • Why withdrawal can feel necessary • The fear of emotional or energetic depletion • What real growth looks like for Type 5s This isn’t about pushing yourself to be more social.It’s about understanding your inner world without judgment. Not sure of your type? Take the free Enneagram test here:👉 ⁠https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test⁠

If you feel things deeply, struggle with comparison, or feel misunderstood at times… this episode is for you. We’re exploring Enneagram Type 4 : The Individualist, and how the search for identity and meaning can shape your patterns and emotions. If you don’t know your type yet, you can take a free Enneagram test here:https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test

If you’re always focused on what’s next, feel pressure to succeed, or struggle to feel “enough” without achieving, this episode is for you. We’re exploring Enneagram Type 3: The Achiever, and how the drive for success can shape your identity and self-worth. If you don’t know your type yet, you can take a free test here:https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test

If you find yourself always showing up for others, but struggling to receive the same in return, this episode will help you understand why. We’re breaking down Enneagram Type 2: The Helper, in a simple, real-life way so you can recognize patterns like overgiving, people-pleasing, and losing yourself in the process. If you’re not sure of your type yet, you can take a free Enneagram test here:https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test

If you’ve ever noticed yourself repeating the same patterns, this episode helps you start to understand why. We’re breaking down Enneagram Type 1, The Perfectionist, in a simple, real-life way so you can recognize how it shows up in your thoughts, behaviors, and inner pressure. If you’re not sure of your type yet, you can take a free Enneagram test here:https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test Just notice what resonates, friends. No need to force a label.