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Ernest Ellender, a trauma-informed life coach, discusses the transition from psychology to life coaching, the impact of insurance on practice, the importance of childhood skills, parenting and trauma-informed coaching, top questions in life coaching, the behavioral and emotional triangle, a rule-based approach to healing, natural consequences in parenting, defining success in parenting, and book availability and contact information. Takeaways Trauma-informed life coachingNatural consequences in parenting Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ernest Ellender06:06 The Impact of Insurance on Practice11:55 Parenting and Trauma-Informed Coaching17:57 Behavioral and Emotional Triangle24:05 Natural Consequences in Parenting29:58 Book Availability and Contact Information

A story of abandonment, abuse, identity, and the radical decision to break generational cycles What if the people who were supposed to love and protect you… simply disappeared? What if the adults in your life failed you in ways that shaped every relationship afterward? And what if—despite all of that—you still chose to become the parent, the protector, and the healer no one ever was for you? In this gripping conversation, author and trial attorney Steven Eichenblatt opens up about a childhood marked by abandonment, emotional neglect, violence, and a stepfather whose temper ruled the house. When Steven was just eight, his biological father emotionally checked out—and ultimately physically left—after a psychiatrist chillingly advised him to “pretend they are dead.” Decades later, a freak accident would force their worlds to collide again… and Steven was the only witness. For more than 30 years, he kept the truth of that day buried. In this episode, Steven shares: ✨ The emotional reality of growing up with a distant father and an abusive stepfather ✨ The shocking truth he uncovered about that accident ✨ How generational trauma affected his marriages, parenting, and identity ✨ The inner work required to finally break his cycle of emotional disconnection ✨ What he learned from searching for answers, forgiveness, and himself ✨ How he became the father he never had—and the advocate he needed as a child Steven’s story is raw, honest, and deeply human. This is an episode for anyone who: 💔 Has experienced parental estrangement 💔 Grew up feeling unseen or unprotected 💔 Still carries wounds from childhood they can’t quite name💔 Wants to understand why they repeat patterns in relationships 💔 Is on a healing journey to break generational trauma His message is clear: trauma shapes us, but it does not define who we get to become. If you’ve ever wondered why you struggle with connection…If your childhood still echoes in your relationships…If you long to understand your story so you can rewrite it… Steven’s journey will help you see your own wounds—and your own strength—with new clarity. This episode will shake you, soften you, and remind you: You can choose a different ending than the one you inherited. Don’t miss this one. If you skip it, you’ll miss a rare conversation that shows what healing actually looks like—messy, brave, and impossibly hopeful. http://www.stevenscotteichenblatt.com

If you’ve been running on empty, giving everyone the best of you while getting the leftovers yourself… this episode is your turning point. Today’s guest, Dr. Melanie Gray, brings more than twenty years of experience in healthcare leadership and trauma‑informed healing—and she is here with a message burnt‑out moms need right now: 👉 You are not meant to survive motherhood exhausted. You are meant to live whole. Dr. Gray has helped thousands of women move from constant reaction mode to deep nervous‑system regulation, using her signature STOP‑IT™ Method. Her work blends neuroscience, compassion, and real‑world tools to help you stop carrying burnout like a badge of honor—and start valuing yourself as much as you value everyone you care for. For moms who are tired of being tired, tired of feeling guilty for needing rest, tired of holding everything together while falling apart inside…this episode is both a wake‑up call and a soft landing. You will learn: ✨ Why so many moms feel guilty when they slow down—and how to break that cycle ✨ How trauma‑informed practices can help you recover from chronic stress ✨ Why your exhaustion isn’t a personal failure—it’s a nervous system overwhelmed ✨ The subtle early signs of emotional depletion most women ignore ✨ How to set boundaries without guilt (especially when everyone needs you) ✨ How to create calm in your body even when life is chaotic ✨ Why healing yourself creates a healthier home for your family Dr. Gray’s message is simple but revolutionary: 👉 When moms heal, families heal. When families heal, communities heal. If you’re a mom who’s been pushing beyond your limits, silently struggling, or wishing for just one moment to breathe—this conversation will help you reconnect with yourself, reclaim your energy, and remember that you matter, too.

In this episode, I sit down with Alison Bladh, an award‑winning Nutritional Therapist and esthetician with over 30 years of experience supporting women through perimenopause, menopause, and midlife transformation. Growing up on a farm in Southern England with a professional chef as her mother sparked her deep love of food, and her global travels shaped her culturally rich, evidence‑based approach to wellness. Now living in Sweden, Alison blends science, nutrition, and mindset to help women feel strong, energized, and truly at home in their bodies during one of the most misunderstood stages of life. During our conversation, Alison opens up about the early experiences that ignited her passion, the defining moment she chose to specialize in midlife women’s health, and the biggest misconceptions that leave women feeling confused and defeated. She shares how she approaches midlife weight gain (especially stubborn belly fat), why mindset and stress physiology matter more than most women realize, and the simple daily shifts that help women work with their body instead of against it. Whether you're navigating perimenopause now or preparing for it, this episode is packed with clarity, compassion, and practical steps you can start using today. After you listen, send me a message and tell me your biggest “aha” moment from this episode. And if you’re ready to feel like the best version of yourself—body, mind, and emotions—this conversation is the perfect place to start. Connect with Alison Bladh at: https://www.alisonbladh.com/ https://www.ewg.org/foodnews/clean-fifteen.php https://www.alisonbladh.com/book

If you’ve ever wondered how to build authentic relationships that go beyond wealth, fame, or status, this episode is for you. David Homan, CEO and Founder of Orchestrated Connecting, shares the secrets behind creating purposeful communities and events that foster trust and impact. You’ll hear the inspiring story behind his global network, learn why true connection matters more than money, and discover how community can help heal our world. Tune in to learn: How to change the way people connect Why intentionality is the key to trust The power of community in creating global change Website: orchestratedconnecting.com Want to be a guest on Healing For The Soul? Send Robin Stoltman a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1749851840291547b51ebfec5 Connect with Supermom, Robin Stoltman at: https://popl.co/profile/robinstoltman

What does it really take to grow a thriving business while raising kids—and do it without losing yourself? In this powerful conversation, we sit down with The Intuitive CEO, a multi-award-winning tech founder and one of the world’s first Accredited Master Intuitive Psychology Coaches. She shares raw, honest lessons from building companies and raising a family, all while using intuition as her anchor. You’ll hear how she navigated burnout, made soul-aligned decisions, and redefined success beyond the hustle culture. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance ambition with presence—or how to trust your inner compass when the stakes are high—this episode is for you. Website: www.purposepanda.co.uk Listen now and discover how intuition can transform the way you lead, parent, and live. Connect with Supermom, Robin Stoltman at: https://popl.co/profile/robinstoltman

In this powerful conversation with Dani Sheriff, we dive into a topic most women—and even many doctors—overlook: hypothalamic amenorrhea (HA), the condition behind missing periods in women who think they’re living “healthy.” Dani shares her personal turning point when her own body shut down despite clean eating and intense training, and how that experience led her to create The HA Society, a science-based program that’s helped hundreds of women restore their cycles naturally. We unpack why HA isn’t just an athlete’s issue, but something affecting high-achieving women everywhere—especially those juggling careers, families, and perfectionist tendencies. Dani explains the hidden fears driving resistance to recovery, the identity crisis around exercise, and why “just eat more” is not the solution. She also reveals the surprising dark side of recovery and what happens after your period returns. For parent entrepreneurs, this episode is a wake-up call: the same drive that fuels your success can silently sabotage your health. If you’ve ever pushed yourself to the limit or feared slowing down, you need to hear this. Dani’s insights will challenge your beliefs about discipline, health, and self-worth—and might just change the way you care for yourself. Why listen? Because your health is the foundation of your business, your family, and your future. This episode will help you recognize the warning signs, understand the science, and take the first steps toward true balance. Website: https://thehasociety.com

This episode isn’t about dating tips. It’s about the real reason love feels so hard—especially in mid-life. After losing his 19-year-old son, Jonathon Aslay’s understanding of love was forever changed. Grief didn’t just break his heart—it stripped everything down to what actually matters. What emerged was a deeper truth most people never confront: we don’t struggle to find love because we’re unlovable… we struggle because we don’t fully love ourselves. In this raw, honest conversation, Jonathon exposes the quiet self-worth wounds that keep women stuck in unhealthy relationships, choosing the wrong partners, or walking away from love altogether out of exhaustion and self-protection. We talk about: What grief teaches us about love that success and happiness never can How to recognize when “bad luck in love” is really a self-worth issue Why mid-life heartbreak hits differently—and how to rebuild after it The most damaging lie about self-love that keeps people lonely The first practical step to loving yourself differently—starting today If you’ve ever felt unseen, unchosen, too much, or not enough… If you’re tired of repeating the same relationship patterns… If you know you want love but don’t trust yourself anymore… This episode is for you. https://www.youtube.com/@JonathonAslay 🎧 Listen now and discover why self-love isn’t selfish—it’s the foundation of everything.

In this week’s episode, Robin sits down with Santa Molina‑Marshall — Holistic Psychotherapist, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, healer, yoga teacher, Reiki Master, ordained interfaith minister, and author of Running Through Darkness: Memoir of a Spiritual Warrior. For 26+ years, Santa has helped survivors reclaim their bodies, rebuild inner safety, and awaken their full potential. From the very first moment, Santa shares wisdom that stops you in your tracks and makes you rethink everything you thought you knew about healing. Santa breaks down the powerful difference between traditional talk therapy and holistic psychotherapy — and why healing must include the mind, body, and spirit. If you've ever felt like talk therapy “wasn’t enough,” this part alone will feel like the permission slip your soul has been waiting for. Santa explains how trauma gets trapped in the nervous system, shaping your reactions, relationships, emotional patterns, and even your business decisions. She reveals why somatic work gently unwinds fight, flight, or freeze — and how you can start reconnecting with your body today in simple, accessible ways. You’ll hear the deeply moving journey behind Santa's book, Running Through Darkness, and how her experiences with trauma, cultural roots, and faith shaped her path. This is the kind of origin story that leaves you breathless — a reminder that healing doesn’t just free you… It awakens your mission. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected from your intuition, or unsure why certain patterns keep repeating — Santa’s insights will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. This episode is for you if you are a woman who: Wants deeper healing beyond mindset workFeels called to integrate spirituality with emotional wellnessIs tired of repeating the same cycles in business or relationshipsSenses there is more inside you — if only you could access itIs ready for a nervous-system reset and a gentler way to healYou’ll walk away feeling seen, grounded, hopeful, and empowered by tools you can use immediately. Santa’s voice, her presence, and her wisdom are medicine. This isn’t just another episode — it’s a healing experience. Website: www.hpbysanta.net 👉 Tune in now and step into your own spiritual warrior energy.

In this episode, parenting coach and behavior analyst Melissa Schulz, MS, BCBA, shares practical strategies for parents of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodiverse kids. Melissa answers the toughest questions parents face—like why kids act out, what to do when rewards and consequences fail, and how to stay calm when every button is being pushed. She also explains how to tell if challenging behavior is linked to deeper issues like anxiety, ADHD, or sensory sensitivities. If you’re tired of meltdowns, power struggles, and feeling like nothing works, this conversation will give you hope and actionable tools to create calmer, more connected moments with your child. Website: www.melissaschulz.com

🎙 Why You Need This Episode in Your Life If you’ve ever felt the pull to rise above pain, break free from old patterns, or rediscover the truest version of yourself, this conversation with author and world traveler Nancy will move you in ways you don’t expect. Nancy has explored six continents, studied psychology, art, Kabbalah, and Buddhism, and lived a life shaped by both deep thinking and courageous healing. She brings a rare blend of wisdom, humor, spirituality, and radical self‑honesty—making this episode an emotional reset button for anyone who listens. Growing up between Manhattan and South Florida, Nancy became a xenophile early on—embracing diverse cultures over comfort, sun, and sand. Through her books Whispers, Sinners, and Saints and Whispers, Shadows, and Saints, she reveals a transformational truth: “One who laughs loudest masters pain the best.” Nancy learned—through her own trials—that pain is an invitation to become stronger, clearer, and more aligned with your intuition. Her story has helped others see their struggles for the first time and finally take back control of their lives. We dive into conversations that will stick with you long after the episode ends, including: The moment that turned Nancy’s deepest pain into undeniable personal growthHow her global travels and spiritual studies shaped her understanding of happiness and resilienceWhy trusting your higher intelligence—intuition, angels, or gut—is the key to rebuilding your lifeHow to release shame, even when it feels impossiblePractical steps to start unshackling emotional weight todayAnd how laughter (yes, even dark‑humored laughter) can be potent medicineNancy’s goal? To help people become better… not bitter. Nancy’s authenticity is disarming, healing, and empowering. She’s an ambivert who writes with her two pups—Cookie‑Cake and Gypsy—at her side, yet she carries the wisdom of someone who has lived multiple lives. If you’re ready to see your own story differently—or if you’ve been waiting for a sign to trust your intuition again—this episode is that sign. This isn’t just a conversation. It’s a mirror.It’s a permission slip.It’s a reminder that you can laugh again, trust again, and rebuild again. Connect with Nancy at: https://nancyheart.com/ 👉 Listen now—your future self will thank you. Connect with Supermom, Robin Stoltman at: https://popl.co/profile/robinstoltman

🎙 Why You Need This Episode in Your Life If you’ve ever felt the pull to rise above pain, break free from old patterns, or rediscover the truest version of yourself, this conversation with author and world traveler Nancy will move you in ways you don’t expect. Nancy has explored six continents, studied psychology, art, Kabbalah, and Buddhism, and lived a life shaped by both deep thinking and courageous healing. She brings a rare blend of wisdom, humor, spirituality, and radical self‑honesty—making this episode an emotional reset button for anyone who listens. Growing up between Manhattan and South Florida, Nancy became a xenophile early on—embracing diverse cultures over comfort, sun, and sand. Through her books Whispers, Sinners, and Saints and Whispers, Shadows, and Saints, she reveals a transformational truth: “One who laughs loudest masters pain the best.” Nancy learned—through her own trials—that pain is an invitation to become stronger, clearer, and more aligned with your intuition. Her story has helped others see their struggles for the first time and finally take back control of their lives. We dive into conversations that will stick with you long after the episode ends, including: The moment that turned Nancy’s deepest pain into undeniable personal growthHow her global travels and spiritual studies shaped her understanding of happiness and resilienceWhy trusting your higher intelligence—intuition, angels, or gut—is the key to rebuilding your lifeHow to release shame, even when it feels impossiblePractical steps to start unshackling emotional weight todayAnd how laughter (yes, even dark‑humored laughter) can be potent medicineNancy’s goal? To help people become better… not bitter. Nancy’s authenticity is disarming, healing, and empowering. She’s an ambivert who writes with her two pups—Cookie‑Cake and Gypsy—at her side, yet she carries the wisdom of someone who has lived multiple lives. If you’re ready to see your own story differently—or if you’ve been waiting for a sign to trust your intuition again—this episode is that sign. This isn’t just a conversation. It’s a mirror. It’s a permission slip. It’s a reminder that you can laugh again, trust again, and rebuild again. Connect with Nancy at: https://nancyheart.com/ 👉 Listen now—your future self will thank you. Connect with Supermom, Robin Stoltman at: https://popl.co/profile/robinstoltman

In this powerful conversation, artist and ministry-minded creative Craig Speakman shares how visual art can transform the way we experience Scripture. Craig introduces his groundbreaking book, The Second Advent of God Through Art, which uses imaginative art to clarify the Book of Revelation—making it more comforting, accessible, and deeply human. We explore: The inspiration behind his book and how art brings clarity to complex biblical truths. Balancing creativity with everyday responsibilities, including his role as a maintenance supervisor. The role of art in ministry and how it helps people encounter God in a personal, tangible way. Challenges in publishing and outreach, and how Craig discerns opportunities with wisdom and faith. A glimpse into his next project, Creation Through Art, and his vision for future ministry. For parent entrepreneurs, this episode is a reminder that creativity and faith can coexist with the demands of life and business. Craig’s journey will inspire you to embrace your gifts, find balance, and use your talents to make a lasting impact. Website: www.craigspeakman.com 🎧 Listen now to discover how art can heal, inspire, and draw you closer to God—while encouraging you to pursue your calling with confidence. Connect with Supermom, Robin Stoltman at: https://popl.co/profile/robinstoltman

If you’ve ever felt trapped in your own mind—spinning on the same thoughts, questioning every decision, or holding yourself to impossible standards—this episode is your lifeline. Licensed Clinical Counselor and OCD/Anxiety Specialist Laura Miller breaks down the real difference between anxiety and OCD… and why so many high‑achieving parents and entrepreneurs misinterpret their own symptoms. This isn’t just another mental health chat. It’s clarity. It’s relief. It’s permission to finally stop blaming yourself for what your brain is doing. Here’s what you’ll uncover: ✨ The #1 misunderstanding that keeps people stuck in fear, shame, and isolation ✨ How to tell whether repetitive thoughts or rituals are OCD—or just anxiety doing its thing ✨ Why perfectionism hits parent entrepreneurs harder than anyone else ✨ How OCD and anxiety can coexist… and the hidden ways they sabotage your daily functioning ✨ One small, brave action you can take TODAY to break the cycle of doubt, fear, and mental exhaustion If you're a parent running a business, juggling a million roles, and constantly trying to “think your way out” of your stress… this episode will hit home in a way you didn’t expect. You’ll walk away with tools. With understanding. With hope. Connect with Laura Miller at: https://www.unboundcounselingservicespllc.com/ 🎧 Don’t skip this one. Your future, calmer self will thank you.Connect with Supermom at: https://popl.co/profile/robinstoltman

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Shelley Kenow — internationally-recognized speaker, author, educator, and Master IEP Coach® with over 30 years of experience transforming the way families, schools, and organizations understand human behavior. Shelley has written hundreds of IEPs, trained thousands of parents and educators, and built a global reputation for helping people see beyond limits… including the ones we place on ourselves. Shelley brings her signature warmth, humor, and truth-telling as we dive into some of the most misunderstood topics in education, parenting, and human development — and you’ll likely walk away seeing behavior, learning, and even your own potential through a brand-new lens. 💡 1. What behavior really is:Shelley breaks down the fundamental truth about behavior — what it communicates, what drives it, and why our interpretation of it shapes everything from family dynamics to workplace culture. 💡 2. How to respond when someone’s behavior triggers you:Her top strategies for staying grounded, curious, and compassionate (even when you want to do the opposite!). These insights apply to children, coworkers, partners… truly everyone. 💡 3. Why she wrote her book Those Who “Can’t …” Teach:Shelley shares the heartfelt stories and experiences that inspired her to give voice to families navigating special education — and why acceptance, inclusion, and empathy matter more today than ever. 💡 4. The biggest lessons from three decades of advocacyHear the truths Shelley learned from real-world IEP rooms, global classrooms, and thousands of families — including the mindset shift that changes everything. 💡 5. Her advice for parents of children who learn differentlyPractical, empowering guidance that helps parents see their child’s strengths, advocate confidently, and trust that there truly are #NoLimits to who their child can become. If you’re a parent, educator, leader, or simply someone who wants to understand people better… this episode is a must-listen. Shelley reminds us that behavior isn’t the problem — it’s communication. And when we learn to understand it, we unlock connection, confidence, and growth in ways we never expected. This episode will challenge how you see others… but more importantly, how you see yourself. You want to better understand children, adults, clients, or teamsYou’ve ever felt stuck responding to “behaviors you don’t like”You’re seeking a more compassionate, effective approach to communicationYou’re raising or working with someone who learns differentlyYou’re ready to release limiting beliefs about what’s possible🎙️ Press play now — because once you hear Shelley’s perspective, you’ll never see behavior the same way again. And honestly… you shouldn’t. Your relationships, your parenting, your leadership, and even your self-growth will shift. Connect with Shelley at: www.shelleykenow.com