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74. Handling Experts at Trial: Can't Live With Them, Can't Live Without Them, with Gene Tanaka
2026/01/20
From forensics to financials and the medical to the technical, trial lawyers rely on expert witnesses to help fact finders understand complicated concepts and issues in their case. But dealing with experts is an expert technique in itself, so in this episode NITA Program Director Gene Tanaka breaks down the battle-tested process that has brought him success. First, he lays out the standards for expert testimony and traps to avoid, then shares steps for direct examinations, issues in cross, and persuasive techniques.
Topics
04:20 Why experts are important
05:54 Breadth of expert opinions
07:24 Expert traps
11:44 Standards for expert testimony
15:28 Five steps for direct examination: Introduction and teaser
17:48 Qualifications
20:10 Red flags in an expert’s background
21:28 Opinion
25:24 Basis for opinion
27:39 Difference of experts’ opinions
28:50 Conclusion
30:19 Persuasive techniques
34:10 Conducting cross
42:06 Signoff questions
Quote
“One of the things that we [attorneys] often do is we rely too much on credentials. We look at an expert and we think, ‘Well, this person has this certification and this level of education, and therefore they must be better than the other person who doesn’t have that.’ But you know, a lot that is just lost on everybody – the trier of fact. They can’t tell the difference between one credential or the other. But what they can tell the difference is whether someone is likeable and whether they’re understandable.” Gene Tanaka
Resources
Gene Tanaka (LinkedIn)
Expert Testimony slides (PPT)
Modern Trial Advocacy: Analysis and Practice (book)
Federal Rules of Evidence with Objections: As Amended to December 1, 2023 (book)
Expert Testimony: A Guide for Expert Witnesses and the Lawyers Who Examine Them (book)
Effective Expert Testimony (book)
73. Depositions Done Right, with Carl Chamberlin
2025/12/16
With most cases settling before trial, depositions have become the real battleground—and few people know that better than Carl Chamberlin. Carl has spent decades taking and defending depositions in private practice and teaching the craft for over 30 years. In a reprise of one of May the Record Reflect's most popular episodes, he’s here to share how to kick things off the right way—from setting the stage with introductory matters to navigating preliminary and substantive questions.
Topics
3:22 The purpose of depositions
6:20 Difference between gathering information and obtaining information
10:38 Why depositions are important
12:30 Physical settings for remote depositions
14:15 The “usual stipulations”
17:20 Getting commitments
21:27 Commitments in remote depositions
24:42 Preliminary questions
29:51 Structure of substantive questioning
33:30 First demo
36:57 Key phrases for asking open-ended questions
38:25 And ones to avoid
43:01 Drilling down into a substantive topic
44:18 Second demo
1:04:19 Paying attention and listening
1:06:40 Using exhibits
1:10:15 Dealing with interruptions
1:13:56 Carl’s early depositions
1:16:53 The Effective Deposition
1:21:36 Signoff questions
Quote
“We want to make our questions clear and concise. Simple. The clearer the question, the better the answer. The fewer the objections, the more powerful it is.” Carl Chamberlin
Resources
Carl Chamberlin (LinkedIn)
The Effective Deposition, Sixth Edition (book)
72. The Vocal Edge: An Opera Singers Secrets for Trial Lawyers, with Anne Fuchs
2025/11/18
Opera and the courtroom might seem worlds apart—but they share a similar stagecraft. In this episode, Anne Fuchs, professional opera singer and Director of Communications for the Indiana Court of Appeals, reveals how posture and breath can transform your voice into a powerful advocacy tool. From mastering vocal control to learning a little Italian, this conversation will help you speak with confidence and command attention when it matters most.
Topics
02:30 Why vocal quality matters
04:03 Assessing your voice and why we hate the sound of it
07:13 Transatlantic accent
08:34 Introverts and extroverts, and skills
13:42 La Postura
21:16 Appoggio
33:05 Legato
41:26 Chiaroscuro
39:41 Nasality and vocal fry
50:20 Opera and the appellate court
55:23 Signoff questions
Quote
“Confidence is a skill set. It is not a personality trait. And so as much as it might feel like, Wow, that big, loud, bombastic person with that amazing trial experience, and Look at how he just commands the courtroom with that voice—that may be something that’s inherent to him. It may be something that he learned. But it is 100% true that every single person can learn how to use their voice more confidently and more effectively, without being an extrovert, without it being something that just came to them naturally. There are specific skills you can learn, and anybody can do it.” Anne Fuchs
Resources
Anne Fuchs (bio)
Foxy Opera (30-minute private coaching, enter Secret49 for savings)
Vocal Warm-Up Exercises (cheat sheet)
Point Well Made: Persuasive Oral Advocacy (book)
71. Mind the Gap: Generations in Trial Practice, with Professor Marian Braccia
2025/10/21
For the first time in history, attorneys from as many as five generations can be found practicing law together. From veteran trial lawyers in their 70s and up to Gen Z associates just starting out, the generational diversity in today’s legal workforce is unprecedented. In this episode, Professor Marian Braccia of Temple University Beasley School of Law discusses how generational identity influences legal practice, challenges stereotypes about Gen Z lawyers, and offers insights into fostering understanding and mentorship across age groups.
Topics
00:58 Generational span in law offices
04:40 Gen Z stereotypes and realities
05:53 Overview of generations in law
08:35 Defining characteristics by generation
26:37 Gen Z values and “sea change”
29:58 Generational mix in legal workforce
32:02 Authority and leadership styles
36:13 Policies and procedures
39:41 Decision-making preferences
42:55 Communication styles
47:58 Feedback and critique preferences
52:30 Generational tensions and perceptions
58:42 Recognition and rewards
01:01:51 Recommendations for law firms
01:07:20 Signoff questions
Quote
“We are talking about the success of the profession, we are talking about the longevity of the profession, and we want that to be something that doesn’t have to be reinvented every generation. We want to see continuity, and the only way we can do that is for there to be meaningful collaboration between the generations when it’s time to pass the baton.” Marian Braccia
Resources
Marian Grace Braccia (bio)
The Generations War Comes to the Law Firm (article)
Why We Mistake the Wholesomeness of Gen Z for Conservative (article)
70. Getting Down to Business: Deposing the 30(b)(6) Witness, with Veronica Finkelstein
2025/09/16
Rule 30(b)(6) depositions can be a game-changer in litigation—but only if you know how to use them strategically. In this episode, former Assistant U.S. Attorney and current Wilmington Law professor Veronica Finkelstein shares expert guidance on understanding the purpose and power of a 30(b)(6) deposition, identifying the right corporate representative, drafting precise specifications, and preparing your designee for examination. Whether you're deposing a Fortune 500 company or a little mom-and-pop shop, this episode will fine-tune your approach to corporate testimony.
Topics
4:23 What is a 30(b)(6) deposition?
7:11 Why all trial lawyers should know about 30(b)(6) depositions
9:40 How deposing 30(b)(6) witnesses is different
14:27 Meet-and-confer requirement about specifications
17:44 Drafting specifications
20:20 Benefit of taking 30(b)(6) depositions
23:57 Qualities of a desirable corporate designee
25:54 Designees and fact witnesses
29:21 Corporate counsel and deposing counsel preparations
35:40 Who represents the designee?
40:05 Nonresponsive or jerk designees
43:24 Things to be mindful of during examination
45:39 When interrogatories are preferable
46:56 Cases to know: QBE and Marker
49:42 Deposition Skills: Philadelphia
51:53 Sign-off questions
Quote
“This is one of the few times in litigation when you get to pick your witness, so pick somebody good. Don’t pick somebody who’s the CEO of the company who doesn’t have time to get educated. Don’t pick somebody in HR who’s been following the policies wrong for the last 20 years and you’re never gonna unteach. Pick somebody who’s gonna be a really good mouthpiece on behalf of the company who you can educate properly.” Veronica Finkelstein
Resources
Veronica Finkelstein (bio)
J.C. Lore (bio)
Deposition Skills: Philadelphia (program)
NITA Women in Trial (program)
QBE Ins. Corp. v. Jorda Enters. Inc. (case)
Marker v. Union Fidelity Life Ins. Co. (case)
Law 360 article (PDF)
69. Keep Calm and Depose On, with Whitney Untiedt
2025/08/19
Depositions can be a minefield—and not just because of the facts. In this episode of May the Record Reflect, trial attorney Whitney Untiedt returns to share her expert strategies for navigating the disruptive behaviors of difficult counsel and witnesses. From talkers and interrupters to charmers and egomaniacs, Whitney breaks down the types of jerks you’ll encounter and how to stay focused, professional, and in control. Whether you’re taking or defending a deposition, this episode offers practical tools, real-world stories, and a reminder that your attitude is your greatest ally.
Topics
4:52 Obstreperous behaviors
9:45 When the jerk is the witness
12:30 Strategies for handling witnesses
16:28 Preparing for opposing counsel
18:27 In-the-moment responses
23:16 Socialized for niceness
27:29 Supporting your client
31:45 What not to do
37:39 Rules about lawyer conduct
43:53 Remote versus in-person depositions
52:51 Why do lawyers act like jerks
57:57 A war story
1:01:01 Florida programs
1:07:01 Signoff questions
Quote
“The worst jerks are the ones that kill you with kindness than the ones who try to come at you with a butcher knife.” Whitney Untiedt
Resources
Whitney Untiedt (bio)
Deposition Skills: Florida (program)
Jayme Cassidy (bio)
Building Trial Skills: Florida (program)
68. I Feel for You: The Lawyer’s Occupational Hazard of Vicarious Trauma, with Prof. Angela Downes
2025/07/15
Long hours, heavy caseloads, high stakes—such is the modern trial practice. But when lawyers represent survivors of violent or traumatic incidents, they often experience next-level stress caused by empathetic engagement. In this episode, UNT Dallas College of Law professor and JAMS neutral mediator, arbitrator, and special master Angela Downes introduces listeners to vicarious trauma and its effects on body and mind, how vicarious trauma differs from burnout, and how to recognize compassion fatigue in yourself and your colleagues. Most importantly, Professor Downes discusses effective stress-management strategies that would benefit anyone with a busy trial practice.
Topics
3:46 What is vicarious trauma?
4:15 Lawyers, vicarious trauma, and burnout
7:31 Indicators of vicarious trauma and getting support
15:49 How firms can help
17:40 Self-care strategies
27:55 ABA studies on lawyer stress
31:02 More strategies
35:09 Recognizing vicarious trauma in others
38:20 New generation attunement to wellness
40:24 Sign-off questions
Quote
“So many of us are defined by the work that we do, and we are more than that. We are more than just … being attorneys and counselors. Although it’s a big part of us, there are so many sides to what we do and who we are as people.” Professor Angela Downes
Resources
Professor Angela Downes (bio)
NITA Women in Trial (program)
Stress, Drink, Leave (article)
ABA Profile of the Legal Profession (article)
ABA Directory of Legal Assistance Programs (resource)
67. Eight Steps for Handling Deposition Exhibits, with John Farrell
2025/06/17
Depositions are a key building block in legal disputes, especially for cases that proceed to trial. According to veteran trial lawyer John Farrell, properly handling an exhibit so it’s admissible at trial is an overlooked skill that can, and should, be practiced until it becomes second nature. In this episode, John reveals eight crucial steps for handling documents that ensure your deposition flows smoothly and exhibits are admitted for trial. He breaks down the process step by step, gives the exact sample language that ensures exhibits are properly marked and admitted, and suggests ways to keep court reporters and judges pleased with your professionalism.
Topics
3:59 Asking questions before marking a document
5:35 When witnesses want to see a document first
7:48 Making deposition exhibits admissible at trial
8:30 Eight steps for handling exhibits: Step 1
9:36 Step 2
10:35 Step 3
12:08 Demonstrations of marking different documents
25:26 Step 4 , and helping the court reporter
27:59 Step 5, and the important question to ask your witness
29:12 Step 6, and two more important questions
32:15 Step 7
33:37 Step 8
35:35 Three-article series on depositions
37:23 Signoff questions
Quote
“‘Bears the word’ . . . is the safe phrase that judges like to hear.” John Farrell
Resources
John Farrell (bio)
Deposition articles (1, 2, 3)
Refreshing Recollection and Impeachment (article)
66. Representing Survivors of the "Hidden Crime," with Barbara Barron
2025/05/20
Content Warning: This episode discusses, in non-graphic terms, representing intimate partner violence survivors.
Being a trial lawyer is one of the toughest, most demanding professions out there, and when you’re representing family members in distress it’s even more so. Hofstra Law professor Barbara Barron discusses advocacy challenges faced by lawyers working with survivors of intimate partner violence, or IPV. Although some details are particular to IPV survivor representation, trial lawyers in nearly every practice area will find Barbara’s reflections on supporting reluctant or intimidated witnesses during testimony, dealing with pro se opposing counsel, and handling emotional witnesses or clients to be applicable to their own high-stakes cases.
Topics
4:00 What is IPV?
6:56 How IPV survivors differ from other crime victims
11:23 Implicit biases judges or jurors might have about IPV
12:24 Types of evidence
14:39 Special accommodations against intimidation
16:09 Defendant as pro se counsel
19:42 Preparing for direct and cross-examination
23:22 Emotions, or none, during testimony
26:12 Preparing for anxiety
29:16 Counsel and vicarious trauma
31:53 Public Interest Award and advocacy programs
Quote
“In the case of the pro se defendant, and dealing with that person and having to answer questions on cross, the questions may not be as pristine as an experienced or talented trial lawyer’s may be, and it may not be as controlling a situation as anticipated. If the questions are such that it allows the witness to answer more than yes or no, where’s the control?” Barbara Barron
Resources
Barbara Barron (bio)
Building Trial Skills: New York–Hofstra (program)
Half-Day Intensives: Online (programs)
65. Emergency Advocacy, with Judge Mark Drummond
2025/04/15
For trial lawyers, “advocacy in a hurry” — injunctions, bail hearings, requests for orders of protection, emergency custody petitions, or immigration orders — calls for making the most of the limited time you have before the court, even if it's just 15 minutes. Former Illinois Eighth Circuit Court Judge Mark Drummond shares seven valuable tips on compressing your case to fit the time available, how to help the judge quickly understand what’s at issue in the proceeding, and what ethics concerns must remain top of mind for all advocates regardless of whether their time before the court is 10 minutes or 10 weeks.
Topics
3:43 What is emergency advocacy?
8:00 Circumstances calling for emergency advocacy
16:48 Making the most of the little time you have
17:40 Factors you must prove in your state
18:30 Primacy and recency
21:00 Appeal to the judge
21:47 Written offer of proof
23:15 Persuasive use of numbers
23:53 Offer time limits
27:00 Judges triage
27:39 What judges fear
31:02 Two things to be prepared for
34:11 Your duty of candor to the court
38:06 Signoff questions
Quote
“You’ve spent a lot of time going through law school. You’ve built a practice. Clients will come, clients will go. You built your practice brick by brick on the decisions you’ve made, the judgments you’ve made, and the choices you’ve made. And it takes a lifetime to do that. But you know, sometimes like a child that knocks down their wooden block tower, it only takes one time to tear all that down. And no single client is worth that.” Judge Mark Drummond
Resources
Judge Mark Drummond (bio)
"Death Penalty Cases in a Traffic Court Setting" (article)
"What Judges Want" (article)
Ethical duty of candor to the court (newsletter)
64. Breaking the Ice: Voir Dire Tips and Tactics, with Judge Cynthia McCollum
2025/03/18
As a sitting district court judge and 29-year public defender, NITA Program Director Judge Cynthia McCollum knows a thing or two about jury selection, and in this episode, she opens up about how to get your jurors to open up. She serves up a baker’s dozen of her best tips for getting jurors to talk during voir dire, mistakes she learned from as a public defender, what to know about Batson challenges, and anecdotes about her career trajectory before and on the bench.
Topics
3:50 First tip for getting jurors to open up during voir dire
4:47 Second tip
5:45 Judge’s first time in court as a new lawyer
9:48. Third tip
14:24 Fourth tip
18:33 Fifth tip
20:08 Being a public defender, then a judge
24:42 Sixth tip
26:39. Seventh tip
29:28 What it’s like to be a judge
31:48 Eighth tip
33:09 Ninth tip
38:25 Tenth tip
41:31 NITA involvement
45:06 Eleventh tip
48:35 Twelfth tip
50:32 Baker’s dozen tip about Batson
52:39 Signoff questions
Quote
“Everyone needs to work on their jury selection. It’s not a natural for a lot of people, because you get nervous about asking those tough questions.” Judge Cynthia McCollum
Resources
Judge Cynthia McCollum (bio)
Batson bonuses (file)
Minnesota Deposition Skills and Trial Skills (programs)
63. Effective Oral Communication, with Mark Caldwell
2025/02/19
NITA Program Director and former Resource Director Mark Caldwell joins the podcast to chat about how to effectively communicate with the various audiences in the courtroom to ensure they get — and comprehend — the information they need from you. He shares how to talk to jurors about unfamiliar courtroom procedures and substantive information, why sounding like a tv lawyer is a huge turn-off to jurors, and recommends some of his favorite lawyers from pop culture whose techniques can help trial lawyers refine their courtroom communication style.
Topics
3:05 The needs of the courtroom audience
7:14 What “talking like a lawyer” means
10:10 Juror impressions of “lawspeak”
13:53 Communicating procedural and substantive complexity
20:06 How not to sound like a lawyer
27:50 Pop culture examples of legal communication
29:00 Why my cousin Vinny is a great trial lawyer
31:42 Movies and a book to recommend
51:55 Implicit bias training
Quote
“Don’t be a tv lawyer, but take lessons from what you see on television.” Mark Caldwell
Resources
Mark Caldwell (bio)
Colorado Deposition Skills and Trial Skills (programs)
Films, shows, and book (list)
62. Cross-Examination Math: Less is More, More is Less, with Tom Innes
2025/01/14
In Episode 62, Philadelphia trial lawyer and NITA Program Director Tom Innes introduces listeners to cross-examination math and how the idea of “less is more” increases the impact of the questions counsel poses to a witness. Control is the name of the game in cross, so Tom also shares how to shepherd witnesses through cross, why to restrict interrogatories in the phrasing of questions, and why less is even more when examining an expert.
Timestamps & More
Topics
3:06 How to think about cross
3:53 Objectives of cross
5:05 Rules of cross-examination math
6:41 Why concision helps your finder of fact
9:22 Controlling an adverse or difficult witness
10:15 Cross demo
14:12 Omitting the interrogatory
17:00 Expert versus fact witness
18:11 When to break the “cross math” rule
23:26 Signoff questions
Quote
“Every word you put into a leading question permits the witness to decide which word they will, or they can, disagree with or work around or give you a hard time about.” Tom Innes
Resources
Tom Innes (bio)
Judge L. Felipe Restrepo (bio)
Mary DeFusco (bio)
Building Trial Skills Philadelphia (program)
61. "Don't Be Boring": Creating Your Commanding Courtroom Presence, with Steve Wood and Laurie Gilbertson
2024/12/20
In 2021, former prosecutor Steve Wood told May the Record Reflect that to grow as a trial advocate, he had to accept that he is “insufferably boring.” What did he mean by that? And, how can it help you grow as an advocate as well? In this self-deprecating but entirely serious conversation, Steve and fellow former prosecutor Laurie Gilbertson talk about the neuroscience of boredom, multisensory engagement in the courtroom, telling a compelling story, and how it all adds up to self-confidence and stronger advocacy for your client.
Topics
3:27 What it means to be “insufferably boring” in court
5:55 Neuroscience behind boredom
9:06 Why trials are boring
15:11 Bored judges, bored jurors
28:35 Resting postures for hands
37:07 Role of storytelling
42:42 When storytelling is most important
49:36 Repeating yourself without being boring
57:27 Confidence
1:01:36 Preparation, notes, and delivery
1:14:56 Great Hollywood courtroom performances
1:21:00 Signoff questions
Quote
“Our task as trial lawyers, as I see it, is to do three things. One, admit that we’re boring — all of us, all the time. Two, with the aid of people like Laurie, do the things that we can do to be less boring. And then three, never fall prey to the conceit that at any given time a majority of the trier of fact is paying attention. Assume the opposite. But what we can do, most primarily, is introduce change into the courtroom environment. That’s our mission.” Steve Wood
“. . . what I found often is that jurors who have watched so much tv, who have watched so many movies, who have read legal thrillers, who have maybe listened to true-crime podcasts — some of them, if not many of them, expect to be entertained, and when you, as the attorney, are not kind of doing all these things that Steve is talking about in terms of interjecting that change and keeping them entertained, a lot of the jurors are surprised that court is actually that boring. They expect it to be a lot more interesting.” Laurie Gilbertson
Resources
Steve Wood (bio)
Laurie Gilbertson (bio)
Top 10 Tips that Make a Difference, with Steve Wood (episode)
Thinking with Your Hands: The Surprising Science Behind How Gestures Shape Our Thoughts (book)
60. Demystifying Depositions, with Jason Young
2024/11/19
In this rebroadcast of our 2022 interview, we gather all sorts of admissions—about depositions—from NITA NextGen alumni Jason Young. After taking and defending thousands of depositions throughout his career, he’s no-nonsense and has figured out how to make the challenges easier on himself, his clients, and his witnesses. Jason also talks about the crucial work–life decisions all lawyers face as they begin their careers.
Topics
3:46 The hard part of taking depositions
5:55 Federal rules related to depositions
9:13 Witnesses, both expert and lay
11:36 Role of social media
15:10 When to video-record a deposition
17:35 The hard part of dealing with witnesses
19:40 Timelines for expert witnesses, plaintiff versus defendant
22:07 Subpoenas
25:00 Obnoxious opposing counsel
30:50 Preparing your witness
34:42 Protecting your witness
37:53 Remote depositions
40:31 Work–life balance and advice for new lawyers
44:35 Signoff questions
Quote
“What a lot of inexperienced deposition lawyers have a problem with is they are terrified of the unknown in depositions and afraid to follow up on things, know how to shut things down, and that really scares a lot of people. And I guess the thinking with depositions a lot of times is, you want to know more. If there’s information that’s going to come out that’s going to hurt me, I want to know it in a deposition. If there’s additional facts I need or something I didn’t know, I’d rather find out in a depo than in trial.” Jason Young
Resources
Jason Young (bio)
Blog interview (The Legal Advocate)
Federal Rules of Evidence with Objections (book)
NITA Deposition programs (registration)
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Estesubi 2021/12/07
Great tips and tools
Marsi is a fantastic host and you just settle in to being part of the conversation she has with so many smart and talented lawyers. The show always ha...
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Great listen!
NITA produces so many excellent training tools for young lawyers. This podcast is no exception!
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