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Laura Day at The Surf SociétéExplicit
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2019/12/15
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2026/09/16
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Confessions of a Surf Lady is a place where you can confess and openly share your thoughts and experiences as a woman who surfs. We take anonymous confessions about different topics and discuss them here on our show. It's our goal to tell an authentic story of the female surfer and represent you, how you want to be represented. Join the conversation by making a confession, reading confessions, or catching up on our blog at surfsociete.com.
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Exploring the Extremes | The Messy Middle of Learning to Noseride - Week 2 inside The Noseride Blueprint
2026/09/16
I'm injured so didn't surf this week but it was still one of the most productive weeks in my noseride progress.
In this episode:
My physical therapist told me to take a week off surfing, and how I felt about agreeing to that with warm water and good swell outsideHow I hurt my shoulder doing something completely ordinary at the climbing gym, and why coming back from a long injury is riskier than it feelsThe surf journal I've kept for a couple of years, and the trick of starting with one tiny detail to remember a whole sessionA mentor reviews video of my best wave from last week and shows me the noseride that was sitting three yards behind where I stood upWhy noseriding means paying attention to what's behind you on the wave, not just what's ahead, and how a week on dry land made me a better surfer anywaySend us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
The Messy Middle of Learning How to Noseride: My Brain Doesn't Have the Programming For that...Yet
2026/08/25
Come Learn with Us! Join The Noseride Blueprint 2026
Week one of a twelve-week diary I'm keeping through the second annual Noseride Blueprint Challenge inside Surf Societe.
On Instagram you see the clip. Five, six, seven seconds on the nose, on someone's best day, on their best wave. You don't see the eighty attempts it took. So I'm going to show you my messy middle.
In this episode:
Why I was giddy going into round two, and what changed since the first time we ran itWhat's different this year: twelve weeks instead of six, in-water drills, and two trips to BajaTaking stock of where I'm actually at, including the health year that pulled me out of the water and had me wondering whether to sell my boardWhat it's like running a kickoff call, broadcasting into a screen of squares with no idea if it's landingTwo standout sessions this week, a crowdless inside section and a deep-takeoff experiment at high tideWhere my brain programming ends, why that's good news, and what I'm taking into week twoRead the written version: surfsociete.com/blog
The Noseride Blueprint: surfsociete.com/noseride-blueprint
Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
Everybody Has a Tip. Nobody Shares a Process.
2026/08/10
Join is in 💙 The Noseride Blueprint: Surfsociete.com/noseride-blueprint
Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
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Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
Ten Years of Wanting to Noseride, and What Was Actually Missing
2026/07/31
🌊 Free Noseride Guide — the first thing I'd hand my 2012 self: https://surfsociete.com/noseride-guide
📍 The Noseride Blueprint — twelve weeks inside The Surf Société, Starting Aug 18: Surfsociete.com/noseride-blueprint
📖 Read the written version: I Spent Ten Years Wanting to Noseride
I wanted to noseride for over a decade and I couldn't do it.
Not for lack of wanting. I watched the one video that existed in 2012 — Kelia Moniz at Waikiki, toes over the nose — and I knew that was the thing I wanted. Then I spent the next ten years guessing at how to get there.
I bought the wrong board because I didn't know what to ask for. I practiced cross stepping on my bedroom floor next to my laptop. I collected kind, contextless advice from better surfers. I paid $250 for an hour with an instructor who told me "if you feel like cross stepping, take a step," and then spent the lesson talking to her friends in the lineup.
And then, slowly, I stopped saying the goal out loud.
This episode is the whole story — including the part nobody talks about, which is what it feels like to quietly get okay with not progressing at something you really want. It turned out it was never a talent gap. It was an information gap, a mindset gap, and a support gap, and all three of those are fixable.
If you've been saying you want to noseride for longer than you'd like to admit, this one is for you.
In this episode:
Why the board you were sold probably isn't a noserider, and what actually makes oneWhat length board you need to noseride, and why length is the smaller half of the answerCross stepping vs shuffling to the nose, and whether it mattersWhy your nose sinks every time you get to the front of the boardHow to get real value out of a surf coach, and the language you need before you hire oneWhat to do when Instagram stops being inspiring and starts feeling like a verdictHow long it actually takes to learn to noserideSend us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
I Didn’t Grow Up Surfing. Here’s How I’m Learning to Cross-Step and Noseride.
2026/07/27
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? Join me at our Noseride Blueprint Open House 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
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Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
78. Surfer Susie: Meet The Gidget Era Surfer Turned Social Media Queen, Still Chasing Waves at 77
2026/05/12
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
Watching Gidget as a little girl changed the entire course of Susie Terry’s life. What started with a surfboard strapped through the sunroof of her mom’s VW Bug turned into a lifetime of chasing waves, building community, and staying stoked well into her seventies.
In this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady, The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™, I talk with Surfer Susie about growing up surfing in Ventura in the late 1950s, teaching herself how to surf before leashes or wetsuits existed, and what it’s been like watching surf culture evolve over the decades. We also talk about aging, fitness, social media fame, and why surfing still gives her the same excitement it did as a little girl.
Susie’s energy is infectious. She’s hilarious, grounded, wildly relatable, and a reminder that surfing doesn’t have to stop at a certain age. If anything, her story shows how the ocean can keep giving back for an entire lifetime.
🌊 Main Themes
Growing Up in the Original Gidget Era: After watching Gidget as a young girl, Susie immediately knew she wanted to surf. With no surf mentors, no wetsuits, and no leash, she taught herself at the Ventura Pier and became part of an early generation of women surfers.Surfing as the Fountain of Youth: At 77, Susie still paddles out and says surfing keeps her feeling alive, connected, and young at heart. She talks openly about aging, staying active, and the gratitude she feels every time she gets in the water.Unexpected Social Media Fame: What started as simple beach selfies with help from her granddaughter turned into viral videos, recognition in the lineup, and a whole new community online.Follow Surfer Susie
Instagram: @surfersusie66 TikTok: @therealsurfersusie Show Resources
📲 Follow Laura Day → @confessionsofasurflady 💌 Join my Newsletter here.
How to Support the Podcast
⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify 📲 Share this episode with a surf sister 🛍 Shop Surf Société → https://shop.surfsociete.comSend us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
76. 🏄♀️ Member Spotlight: How Chey Built Resilience and Confidence in Notoriously Aggressive Santa Cruz Lineups
2025/09/28
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
What does it take to keep showing up—no matter what life throws your way? Chey’s story will leave you inspired. As a mother, a surfer living with MS, and a woman paddling out in Santa Cruz’s notoriously aggressive lineups, she reminds us that strength isn’t about perfection—it’s about choosing joy, resilience, and community.
In this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady, The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™, I talk with Chey, a Surf Société member whose journey spans from growing up around lakes in Canada to raising a family that surfs together in Mexico and now living in Santa Cruz. Along the way, she’s navigated health challenges, learned how to read the ocean, and discovered the confidence it takes to hold her ground in one of the world’s most aggressive surf lineups.
Chey’s story is a reminder that surfing is layered, personal, and ever-changing. Through The Surf Société, she’s found not just skills and knowledge, but a supportive community of women who celebrate each other’s wins. From reflecting on tough sessions to choosing joy in the lineup, her perspective will inspire you to keep going, keep learning, and keep protecting your stoke.
Main Themes
Surfing as a Lifelong Journey
Chey shares her path from early water experiences in Canada to surf trips in Costa Rica and Mexico, and finally finding home in California.Confidence in the Lineup
From Santa Cruz aggression to run-ins with entitled surfers, Chey explains how she’s learned to protect her energy and hold her ground.
“You can choose to paddle in—you’re not giving into them, you’re protecting your positive experience.”The Power of Community and Knowledge
Chey describes how Surf Société gave her confidence, ocean knowledge, and a sisterhood where everyone’s progress feels like a shared win.Show Resources
🌊 Join our global women’s surf community — The Surf Société — and start your free 7-day trial today → Join Now
Learn more first → Surf Société Overview
Follow Laura Day → @confessionsofasurflady
Follow Surf Société → @surfsociete
🛍 Shop Surf Société → shop.surfsociete.com
How to Support the Podcast
💙 Support our sponsors – They help keep this show going.🛍 Shop Surf Société – Support women-centered surfwear and community.⭐ Leave a Review – Help more women find us on Apple Podcasts & Spotify.📲 Share this episode – Send it to a surf sister who needs to hear it.Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
75. Stronger Than Ever: The Joy of Surfing Over 50 with Sassy Silver Surfers
2025/09/23
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
What does it feel like to paddle out in your fifties, sixties, or even seventies? For the women of the Sassy Silver Surfers Club, it feels like freedom. It feels like strength. And most of all, it feels like proof that surfing doesn’t have an age limit.
In this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady, The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™, I’m joined by co-founders Lisa Alfano and Inessa Love, who started surfing later in life and quickly realized how few role models they saw in the lineup. Together, they created the Sassy Silver Surfers—a vibrant community for women 50+ who are showing up with courage, joy, and inspiration.
Through heartfelt confessions from their members, Lisa and Inessa share stories of women who started surfing at 57, became instructors in their fifties, and even returned to the waves at 72. These are stories of resilience, self-discovery, and the wisdom that comes from embracing life fully at every stage.
This is a conversation that will make you laugh, tear up, and walk away believing that your best waves may still be ahead of you.
Main Themes
Redefining Surfing After 50
Lisa and Inessa share their personal journeys—one from triathlons, the other from Hawaii—and how they built a thriving community that proves surfing isn’t just for the young.Challenging Ageism in Surf Culture
The women of Sassy Silver Surfers are breaking stereotypes and pushing back against the idea that you’re “too old” to surf. Their stories show how visibility creates change.The Power of Community
From laughter to tears, their group is living proof that women thrive together. Community provides encouragement, role models, and the space to grow at any age.Guest Resources
Join Sassy Silver Surfers on Facebook → Sassy Silver Surfers GroupInstagram: @sassysilversurfersVisit Ageless Adventures → https://www.tri2surf.com/about
Show Resources
🌊 Join our global women’s surf community — The Surf Société — and start your free 7-day trial today → Join NowLearn more first → Surf Société OverviewFollow me, Laura Day → @confessionsofasurfladyFollow Surf Société → @surfsociete🛍 Shop Surf Société → shop.surfsociete.com
How to Support the Podcast
💙 Support our sponsors – They help keep this show going.🛍 Shop Surf Société – Support women-centered surfwear and community.⭐ Leave a Review – Help more women find us on Apple Podcasts & Spotify.📲 Share this episode – Send it to a surf sister who needs to hear it.Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
74. Dreaming of Noseriding? Here’s How We’ll Get There Together
2025/09/23
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
This summer inside Surf Société, we wrapped up something truly special: our six-week Nose Ride Blueprint challenge. What started as an idea we’d been carrying for nearly two years turned into a program that brought women together, inspired breakthroughs, and created real progress toward nose riding goals.
In this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady, The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™, I share how The Noseride Blueprint unfolded, the surprising ways our community showed up for each other, and why it was too good to stop there. From first-time cross-steps to vision boards filled with inspiration, the energy was undeniable—and it’s what inspired me to create the next step: The Noseride Collective.
If you’ve ever dreamed of gliding to the nose of your board—or you’re just curious what it really takes—this episode is your invitation. I’ll walk you through how the Collective will work, what you can expect, and how to grab your free Surf Lady’s Guide to Noseriding to start your journey.
Main Themes
What Made the Nose Ride Blueprint Special
How mentorship, assignments, and shared wins helped women make real progress toward nose riding.Community Energy and Shared Wins
From first cross-steps to inspirational vision boards, the group lifted each other up in powerful ways.The Nose Ride Collective
Why we’re continuing the journey with a six-month program designed for support, mentorship, and steady progress.How to Get Started
Download your free Surf Lady’s Guide to Nose Riding and join the list to be the first to know when the Collective opens.Resources
📥 Download the Surf Lady’s Guide to Nose Riding (free PDF) → https://free.surfsociete.com/noserideguide🌊 Join Surf Société — start your free 7-day trial → Join HereLearn more about Surf Société → OverviewFollow me, Laura Day → @confessionsofasurfladyFollow Surf Société → @surfsociete🛍 Shop Surf Société → shop.surfsociete.com
How to Support the Podcast
💙 Support our sponsors – They help keep this show going.🛍 Shop Surf Société – Support women-centered surfwear and community.⭐ Leave a Review – Help more women find us on Apple Podcasts & Spotify.📲 Share this episode – Send it to a surf sister who needs to hear it.Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
73. Navigating Surf Lineups as a Black Woman with Mimi Miller
2025/06/17
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
Mimi Miller embodies the fierce joy and courageous authenticity that surfing desperately needs. In a world often dominated by slim, conventional images, Mimi is breaking stereotypes and showcasing how curvy, strong, and confident women redefine surfing.
In this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady, The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™, Mimi shares her 11-year surfing journey—from dancing on the beach for warmups to confronting microaggressions in the lineup. Her candid conversation about cultural barriers, surf etiquette, and body positivity provides deep insights into how surfers of color can reclaim their joy and assert their place in the waves.
Through Mimi's vibrant storytelling, you'll connect with her fierce spirit and discover how empowerment, authenticity, and community solidarity can transform your surfing experience.
Main Themes:
Surfing with Confidence as a Curvy Woman Mimi emphasizes how representation and visibility help break barriers, empowering women of diverse body types to embrace their surfing abilities."People don't realize it takes curvy women—we're the real goats in surfing."Confronting Microaggressions and Surf Etiquette Mimi discusses the frequent microaggressions faced in predominantly white surf spaces and how she strategically addresses these challenges head-on."Sometimes you have to call it out immediately to regain your space and respect."Building Community & Cultural Representation in Surfing Mimi reflects on her efforts to foster community among surfers of color, highlighting the importance of feeling safe, seen, and supported in the water.Guest Resources
Follow Mimi on Instagram : @shesurfmimiShow resources
Join our global women’s surf community — The Surf Société — and start your free 7-day trial today. 🔗 Click here to join nowOr learn more first → The Surf Société overviewFollow us your host Laura Day: @confessionsofasurfladyFollow The Surf Société: @surfsociete for surf lady tips from #thesurflab inside the membership:How to Support the Podcast:
💙 Support our sponsors – They help keep this show going!🛍️ Shop at shop.surfsociete.com – Support women-centered surfwear and community.⭐ Leave a Review – It helps more women find us on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.📲 Share this episode – Send it to a surf sister who needs to hear this.🌊 Join Surf Société – Come learn and surf better inside a powerful, like-minded women's community.Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
72. Surfing Siargao with Respect: Filipino Culture, Community, & the Local Lineup
2025/06/10
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
What if the thing you were seeking all along was right in your own backyard?
Elaine Abonal was an exchange student in Florida when she first saw surfing—and something inside her lit up. But it wasn’t until she returned to the Philippines and realized there were waves in her own country that everything changed.
In this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady: The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™, Elaine shares how her surf journey started by breaking cultural expectations and carving out a new path in the Philippine surf scene. As a Filipina surfer, community builder, and entrepreneur, she’s created something truly powerful: a space where people feel welcome, safe, and inspired to surf.
We talk about her experience originally being one of the few women in the water in Siargao, what it's like to build surf culture from the ground up, and why inclusion—especially in the global surf conversation—has to come from people who live and breathe the culture every day.
Main Themes:
🌍 Surfing as a Cultural Awakening
“I thought I had to go far away to learn to surf. I didn’t realize the waves were in my own country.” – Elaine Abonal💪 Creating Safe Spaces in the Lineup
From guiding tourists to teaching locals, Elaine opens up about her mission to make surfing feel welcoming—especially for women in the Philippines.🏄🏽 Representation in Surf Culture
Why it matters that the face of surfing includes Filipina surfers, and how surf media often misses the real stories from local communities.🌀 Surfing as a Mirror for Growth
We explore how surfing helped Elaine confront fear, trust herself, and return to joy—even through life’s personal and professional challenges.
Resources:
Follow Elaine on Instagram: @elaineabonal
Learn about Surfista Travels: surfistatravels.comJoin our global women’s surf community — The Surf Société — and start your free 7-day trial today. 🔗 Click here to join nowOr learn more first → The Surf Société overviewShop Dip and get 15% OFF with the code "confessionsofasurflady" at checkout at Dipalready.comThe Surfing Copywriter: Learn more about his work at www.thesurfingcopywriter.com.How to Support the Podcast:
💙 Support our sponsors – They help keep this show going!🛍️ Shop at shop.surfsociete.com – Support women-centered surfwear and community.⭐ Leave a Review – It helps more women find us on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.📲 Share this episode – Send it to a surf sister who needs to hear this.🌊 Join Surf Société – Come learn and surf better inside a powerful, like-minded women's community.Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
71. Lakey Peterson on Competing, Progressing & Finding Joy in the Lineup
2025/05/22
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
What does it take to perform at the highest level—and still enjoy surfing for yourself? Lakey Peterson has competed on the world stage for over a decade, but the journey hasn’t always been smooth—especially when expectations are high and results don’t go your way.
In this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady: The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™, Lakey opens up about what it’s really like to chase progression, navigate fear, and still stay connected to joy in the water. We talk about the pressure of competition, the mental tools that keep her grounded, and why her relationship to surfing is evolving.
Whether you're pushing your own progression or simply trying to find more fun in your sessions, this conversation will remind you that surfing gets to be yours—no matter where you are in your journey.
Main Themes
Staying Grounded Through Competitive Pressure
“Sometimes I just need to surf without a goal. That’s what keeps it fun.” – Lakey PetersonNot Growing Up in Surf Culture—And Still Making It
“I didn’t have a surfy upbringing. I had to ask a lot of questions and figure it out.” – Lakey PetersonRepresentation & Progression in Women’s Surfing
“When I started, it was about who looked good in a bikini. Now it’s about how hard you charge.” – Lakey PetersonResources:
Join our global women’s surf community — The Surf Société — and start your free 7-day trial today. 🔗 Click here to join nowOr learn more first → The Surf Société overviewShop Dip and get 15% OFF with the code "confessionsofasurflady" at checkout at Dipalready.comThe Surfing Copywriter: Learn more about his work at www.thesurfingcopywriter.com.How to Support the Podcast:
💙 Support our sponsors – They help keep this show going!🛍️ Shop at shop.surfsociete.com – Support women-centered surfwear and community.⭐ Leave a Review – It helps more women find us on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.📲 Share this episode – Send it to a surf sister who needs to hear this.🌊 Join Surf Société – Come learn and surf better inside a powerful, like-minded women's community.Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
70. The Truth About Leashless Surfing: It’s Not What You Think
2025/05/15
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
Surfing without a leash isn’t about looking cool—it’s about control, awareness, and knowing when you’re ready. This episode is a reflection on skill progression, self-trust, and the invisible steps it takes to surf leashless with intention.
In this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady: The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™, I share why and when I choose to surf without a leash, the mistakes I made early on, and the checklist I’d recommend for any woman who surfs considering it. Whether or not you ever choose to go leashless, this is really about how we know we’re ready to push ourselves—and what it looks like to do that with care and connection with the ocean.
Resources
Join The Surf Société – Learn how to read the break, improve your lineup confidence, and get access to exclusive skill-building workshops. Start your free 7-day trial → Join hereFollow Laura on Instagram: @confessionsofasurfladyShop Surf Société Gear: https://shop.surfsociete.comHow to Support the Podcast
Leave a Review – Help more women surfers find Confessions of a Surf Lady by rating us on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Share with a Friend – If this episode resonated with you, send it to a surf sister who might love it.Join The Surf Société – Our global community is here to help you surf smarter, connect deeper, and progress with purpose.Support Our Sponsors – The brands we feature are hand-picked to support women in the water.Shop Surf Société – Grab surf-inspired gear at shop.surfsociete.comSend us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
69. Dismantling the ‘Beach Body’ Lie: A Surf Lady Conversation
2025/05/06
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
What if your 'summer body' wasn’t something to fix—but something to fuel your surf stoke? If you're tired of seeing summer framed as a time to shrink yourself, this episode of Confessions of a Surf Lady: The First Women’s Surfing Podcast™ is your permission slip to redefine what it means to feel good in your body—on land and in the lineup.
In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Surf Société Member Danyelle Carpenter and I reflect on body image, the toxic messages women receive from a young age, and how to gently dismantle the beliefs we inherited about how we’re “supposed” to look. We talk about what it means to build a nourishing, sustainable relationship with your body—especially in surf culture, where expectations can be as rigid as they are outdated.
From the pressure of "getting beach ready" to the insidious marketing of inclusivity in surf brands that still only reshare flat-stomached influencers, this one gets real. But it’s also full of laughs, healing moments, and the powerful reminder that we get to redefine what it means to show up for ourselves—especially in a swimsuit.
Whether you’re navigating your own summer body thoughts or just need to hear two surf sisters keeping it honest and tender, this episode is for you.
Main Themes:
✨ In this episode we explore:
The rule I live by: “Never go to war with your body”Why body neutrality might be more helpful than body positivityThe truth about surfing, endocrine health, and emotional weightHow women are marketed to—even by brands claiming to celebrate usWhy I stepped back from my surfwear line (and what that taught me)Resources:
Surf Société Membership: Join The Surf Société with 7 days free.Shop Dip and get 15% OFF with the code "confessionsofasurflady" at checkout at Dipalready.comThe Surfing Copywriter: Learn more about his work at www.thesurfingcopywriter.com.How to Support the Podcast:
💙 Support our sponsors – They help keep this show going!🛍️ Shop at shop.surfsociete.com – Support women-centered surfwear and community.⭐ Leave a Review – It helps more women find us on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.📲 Share this episode – Send it to a surf sister who needs to hear this.🌊 Join Surf Société – Come learn and surf better inside a powerful, like-minded women's community.Send us Fan Mail! Be sure to put your contact info in the message :)
Support the show
Confessions of a Surf Lady, women's surfing podcast, is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com
Surf Check – Finding Flow, Switching Boards, and Making the Wave | May 1
2025/05/04
Working on your cross-stepping or noseriding? 👉 Learn more about the Noseride Blueprint
\Welcome to the very first episode of Surf Check, a casual, biweekly mini-series keeping you in the loop on all things Surf Société! Join host Laura Day for quick updates, surf reflections, and insights into what's happening inside our women’s surf community.
In this episode:
🌊 Surf Société Q2 theme: Finding Flow
We're diving deep into connecting turns, exploring bottom turns, top turns, and cutbacks to find graceful, fluid movements on the wave.📍 April Recap: Bottom-turn workshops and our favorite event, Kooks & Legends, where we analyzed surf clips with our mentor Paul Spooner.🏄♀️ Upcoming Core Challenge: A six-week program with Dr. Alexis Pierru-Lee, boosting core strength and stability to enhance your surfing. (Prizes included!)🎥 Personal Surf Reflections: Laura shares her experience experimenting with filming on a GoPro and riding two completely different boards—a longboard and a 7’10” fish from Almond. She reflects on the impact of board choice on surfing style and flow.💡 Technique Development: This quarter’s focus is Making the Wave, emphasizing a holistic approach to surfing and maximizing every ride.If you've ever felt stuck or plateaued in your surfing and want supportive insights and community connection, Surf Société is here for you.
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halimaikealoha 2025/03/26
wished there was less time spent not advertising the surf society
but still good
sustainable kate 2024/11/16
One of my fave walking companions
I love listening to this pod when I’m getting my steps in. Don’t ever end it! 🩵🩵🩵
buttonwillow04 2024/11/15
All thanks to the Community
Best Women’s Surfing Podcast ☺️
Surf sista 2024/09/01
Love this show!
This is my favorite surfing podcasts! I love the guests and the stories are so relatable!
DPonThaBeat 2024/09/01
Great Show!
I really appreciate all the conversations about women’s surf culture. The episodes are fresh and authentic!!
Mychal17 2023/10/17
Women Surfing Community <3
Just found this podcast and have been listening to non stop! Amazing, relatable, and entertaining content every time! I feel the love!! Thank you Laur...
FeddddUppppp 2021/11/18
I’m in!!
So stoked that I found this podcast!! And I’m very excited about your announcement about the new surfing society!! I’m totally in and can’t wait to ...
Lizzie in Hawaii 2020/09/07
Positive fuel for your mermaid brain!
Love that this lady surfer created a female centric brand and is bringing together more awesome mermaids on this podcast. She is constantly bringing p...
Gypsy Pirate Queen 2020/02/19
Breath of Fresh (Salt) Air
I love this podcast! Laura is professional and experienced. I’m not a “surfer,” but I’ve been a water woman my whole life (open water swimmer, boate...
ikapcia 2020/01/16
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for creating this much needed podcast. So far all the topics are right in on the spot for me and I am so happy that we can share and...
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