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2026/09/15
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What if your biggest battles aren’t out there—but in your own mind? Join author and Christian life coach Victoria Lydon as she helps you find freedom from overthinking, anxiety, and exhausting thought loops that keep you stuck in your head. Blending biblical truth with brain science, you’ll learn how to: take every thought captive, interrupt spirals before they take over, replace lies with truth, and retrain your mind for lasting peace, clarity, and purpose. If you love God but feel mentally overwhelmed, stuck in your thoughts, or tired of the inner noise—you’re not alone. This is for you.
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410: When God Uses the Ordinary to Change You (a summer catch-up!)
2026/09/15
A Sacred Thinking catch-up, a personal story of disappointment, and learning to trust God when life doesn’t go as planned
In This Episode, You’ll Discover:
Why our thoughts matter in the ordinary moments of everyday lifeHow we can partner with the Holy Spirit to recognize and transform unhealthy thought patternsWhat disappointment can reveal about our expectations, identity, and desiresWhy trusting God doesn't mean we won't experience sadness or disappointmentHow to bring difficult thoughts captive and replace them with God's truthWhy we can come to God's table exactly as we are—hurting, hungry, thirsty, or simply needing HimA powerful book recommendation connecting neuroscience and faithAn exciting update about Sacred Thinking: Quiet Strength for Daily Living00:00 Introduction and Personal Update
02:15 A Message from Carol McLeod about Sacred Thinking
05:49 My Personal Story of Disappointment
09:32 The Biblical Perspective on Disappointment and Trust
13:41 Invitation to the Come to the Table Event
18:01 Book Recommendation: The Life-Changing Art of Self-Brain Surgery
22:04 The Power of Thoughts and Entrusting Them to God
23:25 Closing Encouragement
👉🏽 And stay tuned for more about Sacred Thinking: Quiet Strength for Daily Living, my 14-week devotional journey toward intentional, Scripture-centered mind renewal. Join the INSIDERS SECRETS GROUP for all the updates on the devo here: https://mailchi.mp/13c141a773b4/sacred-thinking-devo-interested-list
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CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:
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EMAIL: [email protected]
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CHOOSE 2 THINK JOURNAL: https://amzn.to/3Hcl7v1
Pickleball Passion A Marriage Devotional: 21 Days to a Stronger Connection on and off the Court https://amzn.to/48wnvaV
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#SacredThinking #Choose2Think #ChristianLiving #RenewYourMind #Faith #ChristianGrowth #Mindset #BiblicalTruth #ThoughtLife #SpiritualGrowth #MentalHealth #BrainScience
409: The Rest Revolution: How High Achievers Can Thrive by Doing Less with Jennifer Y. Afriyie
2026/06/25
Do you ever feel like slowing down is impossible? Like your worth is measured by your productivity, accomplishments, or how much you can get done?
In this inspiring conversation, Jennifer Y. Afriyie shares her powerful journey from overwork and a serious health crisis to discovering the biblical and practical power of true rest. Jennifer reveals how God used her season of burnout to teach her that rest is not weakness—it is a spiritual discipline designed to help us live with greater peace, purpose, and effectiveness.
Jennifer introduces her R.E.S.T. framework: Reflect, Energize, Strategize, Thrive—a practical approach to help high achievers create space for restoration while still pursuing their God-given purpose.
Together, we explore:
✨ Why rest is rooted in Scripture and modeled by God
✨ The lessons of Mary and Martha and the importance of being present with Jesus
✨ How daily reflection and gratitude can transform your mindset and productivity
✨ The science behind reflection and why it can increase effectiveness
✨ Why your value is not tied to your output
✨ Simple ways to begin building sustainable rest habits—even with a busy schedule
Jennifer reminds us that making ourselves a priority is not selfish—it is essential for long-term health, relationships, and impact.
If you are tired of constantly striving, this episode will encourage you to embrace rest as a gift from God and a pathway to thriving.
Connect with Jennifer:
Learn more about Jennifer’s work and discover resources to help you build a healthier relationship with rest.
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Consult your physician or doctor for all medical advice and counsel.
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408: Transitions: My Turn!
2026/06/18
I love You, Lord.
And I lift my voice.
To worship You,
Oh my soul, rejoice.
Take joy, my King
In what You hear.
May it be a sweet, sweet sound
in Your ear.
--Laurie Klein, 1976
Season 1 coming to a close. Thank you for tuning in! 🧡
Season 2 will launch in January of 2027.
407: How Brain Surgery Changed Her Life: Diagnosis, Dread, and a Hard-Won Recovery
2026/06/11
Join Victoria as she interviews her sister and cousin, April, sharing her powerful journey through a brain tumor diagnosis, surgery, and the unwavering faith that carried her through. This heartfelt conversation highlights God's providence, family support, and the transformative power of trusting in Him during life's toughest trials.
TOPICS
Faith and trust in God's plan during health crisesThe emotional and spiritual journey through a brain tumor diagnosisThe importance of family support and community in healingGod's providence and miracles in modern medicineTrust God's plan even when facing unexpected health crises.Family and community support are vital during difficult times.God's providence can be seen in medical miracles and personal stories.Maintaining faith and hope can transform fear into peace.From Diagnosis to Divine Hope: April's Miraculous Brain Tumor JourneyFaith in the Face of Fear: April's Story of God's Providence"It’s a miracle, and miracles are everywhere.""God kept His hand on me through it all.""Nothing takes God by surprise."Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Family Dynamics and Personal Struggles
01:04 Navigating Anxiety and Medication Decisions
05:37 Understanding Health Anxiety and Its Impact
08:41 The Journey to Diagnosis: From Symptoms to Scans
13:51 Receiving the Diagnosis: A Life-Changing Moment
19:21 Surgery and Its Implications: Facing Fears
22:55 Reflections on the Experience and Moving Forward
23:15 The Importance of Faith in Trials
25:53 Personal Stories of Divine Protection
28:27 Navigating Anxiety and Trusting God
30:48 The Role of Family Support
32:39 Miracles in Modern Medicine
43:15 The Impact on Family Dynamics
46:22 Encouragement for Others Facing Similar Challenges
50:29 Embracing Change and Connection
52:30 The Power of Community and Faith
55:38 Transforming Thoughts and Mindsets
59:36 The Impact of Family Legacy
01:06:03 Closing Reflections and Prayerkeywords
faith, brain tumor, surgery, God's providence, family, hope, Christian faith, overcoming fear, medical miracle, spiritual journey
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EMAIL: [email protected]
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CHOOSE 2 THINK JOURNAL: https://amzn.to/3Hcl7v1
Pickleball Passion A Marriage Devotional: 21 Days to a Stronger Connection on and off the Court https://amzn.to/48wnvaV
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406: Feeling low? Real stories and science-based ways to lift your mood now
2026/06/04
Victoria shares a personal journey through grief, hope, and faith, exploring how neuroscience and spiritual practices can help us navigate tough seasons. This episode offers practical insights on renewing the mind, cultivating hope, and trusting God's presence in difficult times.
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key topics
Neuroscience of hope and negativity biasThe role of faith and prayer in mental healthPractical ways to renew the mind and cultivate hopePersonal stories of grief, depression, and healingThe importance of gratitude and intentional thinking
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405: The Questions Christian Women Quietly Ask About Their Thoughts & Emotions
2026/05/28
Why do I keep spiraling into the same negative thoughts?Why does rest feel so hard?How do I know if a thought is from God… or fear?
In today’s special Q+A episode, we’re diving into some of the most common mindset, emotional health, and neuroscience questions Christian women quietly wrestle with every day.
We’ll talk overthinking, emotional exhaustion, rumination, faith, forgiveness, and practical ways to renew your mind—one thought at a time.
You are not stuck. Your brain can change. Healing is possible.
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KEY TOPICS:
Rewiring the brain through repetition and awarenessDistinguishing conviction from condemnationManaging emotional exhaustion and mental loadStopping overthinking and replaying conversationsPracticing rest without guilt and setting boundariesHandling strong emotions with faith and truthForgiveness and healing in relationships
404: Let the Light in! (Part 3 in the Spring Reset for Your Mind Series)
2026/05/21
Join Victoria as she explores the transformative power of light and renewal in the mind, emphasizing gentle, intentional practices rooted in faith and neuroscience to foster peace, clarity, and spiritual growth.
key topics
Mind renewal through gentle practicesThe role of light and gratitude in mental healthNeuroscience of thought pathways and change
Chapters
00:00The Power of Light in Our Lives
01:23 The Series on Spring Reset: A Spiritual and Mental Refresh
02:28 Clearing the Corners: Recognizing Mental Clutter
03:24 Inviting Light: Creating Space for Renewal
04:20 Neuroplasticity and the Power of Replacing Thoughts
05:12 The Process of Mind Renewal: Gradual and Repetitive
06:37 Casting Out Fearful Thoughts with Truth
07:30 Practicing Rest and Peace in Daily Life
08:23 The Impact of Rehearsing Truth Over Fear
09:21 Living Light and Not Heavy: The Invitation from Jesus
10:37 A Personal Story of Hope and Light by the Lake
12:02 The Power of Replacement and Gratitude
13:24 Gratitude as a Brain-Transforming Practice
14:51 Creating a Healthy Thought Environment
16:09 One Truth at a Time: Practical Steps for Renewal
17:05 Inviting God's Gentle Light into Your Mind
17:59 Closing Thoughts: Living a Light-Filled Lifekeywords: mind renewal, spiritual growth, neuroscience, gratitude, light, mental health, faith, inner peace, neuroplasticity, Christian living
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403: Mental Clutter: The Quiet Thoughts Shaping Your Life (Part 2 Spring Reset for Your Mind)
2026/05/14
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Victoria shares a heartfelt journey of organizing her late father's shop as a metaphor for mental decluttering and renewal. She explores how subconscious thoughts shape our emotional and spiritual well-being, offering practical steps rooted in biblical truth and neuroscience to reset and renew the mind.Chapters
00:00 Introduction: Organizing the Family Shop as a Metaphor for Mental Clutter
02:10 The Significance of Personal Projects and Memories in Our Mental Space
03:29 The Spring Reset: Opening Windows to Fresh Air in Your Mind
04:50 Recognizing the Hidden Clutter in Our Minds
06:12 The Influence of Repetitive Thoughts and Brain Pathways
07:34 The Power of Renewing the Mind Through Scripture
08:55 Partnering with God in Thought Renewal
10:40 Personal Reflection: Healing Through Rewriting Memories
12:05 The Devotional and Its Impact on Thought Patterns
12:54 Taking Thoughts Captive: Practical Biblical Strategies
14:18 Combatting Toxic Thinking with Music and Truth
15:37 Thoughts Shape Our Identity and Life Path
16:36 Hope and Change: The Power of Small Shifts
18:30 The Practical Exercise: Identifying Recurring Thoughts
19:27 Inviting God's Truth to Fill the Mind
20:23 The Journey of Mental Renewal: Patience and Progress
21:14 Filling the Space: Replacing Clutter with Light and Truth
22:11 Community and Support in the Journey of Thought Renewal
23:04Encouragement: God Is With You in the Processkeywords: mental decluttering, renewing the mind, biblical truth, neuroscience, emotional health, spiritual renewal, thought patterns, Christian women, self-care, faith-based mindset
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402: Take a breath of Truth with this Simple Spring Reset for Your Mind & Life
2026/05/07
Open the Windows of your heart and mind today!
Friend, when was the last time you opened the windows—not just in your home, but in your mind?
In this gentle, practical episode, I’m inviting you into a spring reset for your thought life. Because just like a closed-up house can start to feel heavy and stale, so can our minds when we’ve been holding onto the same thoughts, the same worries, the same patterns… over and over again.
We’re talking about what it looks like to release mental clutter, recognize toxic thought loops like rumination and mind reading, and intentionally let in fresh, life-giving truth.
I’ll walk you through the brain science behind why your thoughts feel stuck, how those pathways are formed, and—most importantly—how you can begin to redirect them with God’s help.
We’ll also look at what Scripture says about where our thoughts should dwell, and how even the smallest shift—like opening a window—can begin to change the entire atmosphere of your mind.
If you’ve been feeling mentally foggy, emotionally heavy, or just stuck in the same patterns… this is your invitation to breathe again.
Why mental clutter builds up (and how it affects your peace)The connection between your thoughts, your brain, and your emotional healthHow rumination and mind reading quietly keep you stuckWhat it means to “open the windows” of your mind and let truth inCHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction + where we’re going00:29 Personal reflection + devotional insight01:08 Why your thoughts matter more than you think02:52 The “open the windows” analogy04:13 Identifying toxic thought loops06:02 Brain science: how thought pathways form07:19 What Scripture says about your thought life10:23 Hannah’s story + releasing what you’ve held11:45 Your practical reset challenge13:12 Small shifts that lead to real change
Today, open a window.
And while you do, ask yourself:
What have I been holding onto mentally that I need to release?
Let that be your starting point.
If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who might need a fresh breath of truth today 💛
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401: Why You Keep Bringing It Up (And How to Finally Stop)
2026/04/30
Why is it so hard to let something go—even after the apology?
In this episode, Victoria unpacks the hidden thought loops that keep us stuck in cycles of frustration, accusation, and emotional replay—especially in close relationships. If you’ve ever found yourself going over the same issue again and again, feeling like you can’t move on until it’s fully resolved, this conversation will help you understand why.
Through a relatable marriage scenario, Victoria walks you step-by-step through what’s happening in the brain during conflict—how rumination, triggers, and unmet expectations keep the cycle going—and why pressing harder doesn’t actually create the safety you’re looking for.
You’ll also learn how past experiences shape present reactions, why even small moments can feel like deeper betrayal, and how to shift from reactive patterns into intentional, healthy responses.
This episode blends brain science, biblical wisdom, and practical application to help you break free from toxic thought patterns and move toward clarity, peace, and lasting transformation.
If you’re ready to stop replaying the same conversations in your mind and start responding differently, this episode will show you how.
Why your brain replays conflict—and how to interrupt the loopThe difference between apology and restored trustHow triggers and past experiences amplify present reactionsThe connection between thoughts, emotions, and relationship patterns7 practical, biblical steps to respond with clarity instead of accusationCHAPTERS
00:00 Navigating Grief and Loss03:01 The Power of Transformation03:46 Understanding Conflict in Relationships12:06 Breaking the Toxic Thought Loop19:47 The Role of Expectations in Relationships25:40 Communication Dynamics in Marriage30:53 Strategies for Conflict Resolution38:33 Finding Stability and Trust in Relationships
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400: How to Reset Your Thoughts by Bringing the Outdoors Inside (Part 2 of Nature Prescription)
2026/04/23
Your environment is shaping your thoughts—whether you realize it or not.
In this milestone episode, Victoria shares how to bring the outdoors inside your home to interrupt negative thought loops, reduce anxiety, and create a space that supports clarity, peace, and truth-filled thinking.
You don’t just need a change of scenery—
you need a change of thinking.
hy your environment affects your thoughts and emotionsHow to interrupt anxious thinking loopsSimple ways to create a thought-renewing space at homeWhy Sacred Thinking is a spiritual discipline🌱 Plants & herbs → remind you growth is happening🌤️ Natural light → boosts mood & clarity🌊 Nature sounds → calm mental noise🖼️ Visual cues → create a “mental reset” moment🌬️ Air & scent → support emotional regulation🏃♀️ Movement → break stuck thought patternsYour environment isn’t neutral.
It’s either feeding anxiety… or supporting peace.
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399: Nature Therapy - How to Reset and Renew Your Thinking in just 20 minutes a day
2026/04/16
👉🏽 Grab your FREE 1-page 7 R's for Living Your Best Thought Life guide at https//:lchi.p/b954-7/9623
Today on the show, Victoria explores how nature can be a powerful tool to interrupt toxic thought loops, reduce anxiety, and restore mental and spiritual well-being. She shares scientific insights, personal stories, and practical strategies rooted in faith to help Christian women harness God's creation for mental health.
Neuroscience of being in natureUsing nature to interrupt toxic thought loopsBiblical principles of creation and mental healthNature reduces rumination and overthinking, helping to interrupt toxic thought loops.Spending 20-30 minutes outside can significantly lower cortisol levels and improve mental clarity.Naming and replacing fear-based thoughts with scripture can shift emotional responses.God's creation is a powerful tool for mental and spiritual renewal, as seen in biblical examples and scientific studies.Nature as a Mind Reset: 20 Minutes to Calm and ClarityInterrupt Toxic Thoughts with God's Creation"Hearing birds sing improves your focus.""Seeing green slows your heart rate.""Creation is the theater of God's glory."Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Nature's Healing Power
02:17 The Neuroscience of Nature and Mental Health
05:55 Interrupting Toxic Thought Loops
09:31 Nature as a Thought Interruption Strategy
14:19 Practical Applications of Nature Therapy
17:51 Mindfulness Techniques in Nature
21:34 Conclusion and Next Steps
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398: How You Can Break the Cycle of Enabling: 4 Steps to Healthy Relationships (Codependency Part 3)
2026/04/09
📢 FREE RESOURCE TO ACCOMPANY SERIES: Codependency Patterns Guide: https://mailchi.mp/1c0f94b1875d/codependency-style-guideIn the final Part 3 of the Codependency Series, Victoria unpacks the complex issue of enabling in relationships, focusing on how to recognize enabling behaviors, understand their biblical roots, and learn practical steps to foster healthier, truth-based interactions.
You might want to tune in to Episode 396: The Rescuer and 397: The Performer - to enjoy the full series. To listen now, visit: https://www.choose2thinkpodcast.com/episodes.html
TAKEAWAYS
Enabling often stems from fear, shame, or a desire for peace.
Biblical love includes honesty, accountability, and courage.
Pausing and praying before speaking helps break the cycle of enabling.
Speaking truth in love fosters genuine healing and growth.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Codependency and Enabling Behavior
04:57 Identifying as an Enabler: Self-Reflection Questions
10:36 Types of Enablers: Understanding Motivations
17:15 Biblical Example of Enabling: Eli's Story
21:29 Solutions to Overcome Enabling Behavior
💥FREE RESOURCE: The Codependency Patterns Guide https://mailchi.mp/1c0f94b1875d/codependency-style-guide
Join the INSIDER SECRETS group for behind-the-scenes takeaways with Victoria as she writes the new Sacred Thinking devotional. Plus get bonuses and sneak peaks! https/alh.31411/p/:a3/4ce-hni-gv-neet-ds77
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397: The Hidden Trap of Being the “Helpful One” (Codependency Part 2)
2026/04/02
💥FREE RESOURCE: The Codependency Patterns Guide https://mailchi.mp/1c0f94b1875d/codependency-style-guide
In Part 2 of this series, we’re diving into a subtle but powerful pattern of codependency—the Performer.
This is the pattern where your sense of worth becomes tied to being needed, helping others, and showing up. It often looks healthy on the outside… but underneath, it can leave you feeling exhausted, unseen, or quietly frustrated.
In this episode, Victoria shares personal stories, biblical insight, and simple brain science to help you understand why this pattern forms—and how to begin breaking free from it.
If you’ve ever felt guilty resting, uncomfortable when people don’t need you, or like your value comes from what you do… this conversation will hit close to home.
takeaways
Your identity should be rooted in Christ, not in your performance or others' validation.Interrupt automatic responses to break unhealthy cycles.Practice hidden obedience and receive help without performing.Your brain forms identity loops that reinforce codependent behaviors.Transformation takes consistent practice over months, not instant change.💥FREE RESOURCE: The Codependency Patterns Guide https://mailchi.mp/1c0f94b1875d/codependency-style-guide
Join the INSIDER SECRETS group for behind-the-scenes takeaways with Victoria as she writes the new Sacred Thinking devotional. Plus get bonuses and sneak peaks! https/alh.31411/p/:a3/4ce-hni-gv-neet-ds77
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👉🏽 Join the interest list for the upcoming SACRED THINKING DEVO here! CHOOSE 2 THINK 365-DAY DEVOTIONAL: https://amzn.to/3Hcl7v1 Start your new year with the Choose 2 Think 365-day devotional! https://amzn.to/49yNtxw
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CHOOSE 2 THINK JOURNAL: https://amzn.to/3Hcl7v1
Pickleball Passion A Marriage Devotional: 21 Days to a Stronger Connection on and off the Court https://amzn.to/48wnvaV
*When you click on these Amazon affiliate links, I may earn a teeny commission from qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you. Thank you for your support!
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396: When Helping Turns into Rescuing (Overcoming Codependency Part 1)
2026/03/26
💥FREE RESOURCE: The Codependency Patterns Guide Victoria explores the subtle dynamics of co-dependency, how helping can turn into rescuing, and the importance of trusting God in relationships. This episode offers practical insights and biblical examples to foster healthier, faith-based connections.
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co-dependency, helping, rescuing, trust in God, relationships, biblical examples, emotional boundaries, spiritual growth
key topics
Co-dependency patterns in relationships
Biblical examples of unhealthy helping (Sarah and Abraham)
Practical steps to overcome rescuing behaviors
The brain science behind rescuing and anxiety
Trusting God instead of controlling outcomes
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Co-dependency
02:16 When Helping Turns into Rescuing
06:27 Understanding Codependency
10:07 The Cycle of Codependency
17:51 The Brain's Role in Codependency
22:47 Practical Steps to Overcome Codependency
25:28 Conclusion and Prayer
Join the INSIDER SECRETS group for behind-the-scenes takeaways with Victoria as she writes the new Sacred Thinking devotional. Plus get bonuses and sneak peaks! https/alh.31411/p/:a3/4ce-hni-gv-neet-ds77
🔹 MINISTRY FAVORITE FREEBIE: Ready to take your thought life to the next level?
👉🏽 Grab your free 1-page 7 R's for Living Your Best Thought Life guide here or https//:lchi.p/b954-7/9623
👉🏽 Join the interest list for the upcoming SACRED THINKING DEVO here! CHOOSE 2 THINK 365-DAY DEVOTIONAL: https://amzn.to/3Hcl7v1 Start your new year with the Choose 2 Think 365-day devotional! https://amzn.to/49yNtxw
CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:
PODCAST: www.choose2thinkpodcast.com
WEBSITE: www.choose2think.co
MINISTRY WEBSITE: www.choose2think.co
FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/choose2think
INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/victoriadwalkerlydon/
EMAIL: [email protected]
*BOOKS:CHOOSE 2 THINK 365-DAY DEVOTIONAL: https://amzn.to/3Hcl7v1
CHOOSE 2 THINK JOURNAL: https://amzn.to/3Hcl7v1
Pickleball Passion A Marriage Devotional: 21 Days to a Stronger Connection on and off the Court https://amzn.to/48wnvaV
*When you click on these Amazon affiliate links, I may earn a teeny commission from qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you. Thank you for your support!
DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Consult your physician or doctor for all medical advice and counsel.
SUPPORT CHOOSE 2 THINK MINISTRIES AND PODCAST HERE: PATREON: Patreon.com/Choose2Think
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Redpanda 0909 2026/04/07
Love!
Love the biblical truth with practical life applications
Heather O'Brien 2025/08/15
Inspiring and Truth-Filled
This podcast is a breath of fresh air! Victoria’s warmth and biblical wisdom shine in every episode, offering practical encouragement to renew your mi...
Ansie🌸 2025/07/08
Great podcast
I’ve been loving listening to Victoria’s Choose to Think podcast - it’s like I’m taking a deep breath in the middle of many a chaotic day…
Victoria ha...
Pam, Ky 2025/02/25
Episode 338 When God makes you wait
Love listening to Victoria’s podcasts. She is so intuned with our emotions and feelings and uses Scriptures to help us look at situations through God’...
rdh2366 2025/01/23
Inspiring and motivational!
I’m so grateful for the Choose 2 Think podcast. I always walk away with multiple applicable action steps that I can immediately put into practice to i...
DayOneofSobriety 2024/11/21
So Encouraging
Victoria is real, genuine, and intentional in each episode. She addresses real-world topics with a biblical & scientific approach that encourages you ...
Angela Marie123 2024/08/28
Beautiful Podcast
Victoria's ministry is a true blessing! Her genuine and authentic approach to blending biblical truth with science is both refreshing and inspiring. R...
sherrygreen79 2023/11/14
AI
I love how you used artificial intelligence!l as your personal assistant! So much good info for Christian women!! Thank you.
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Inspirational Podcasts
Victoria, again and again in her Podcasts, opens herself up with honest admission of personal struggles. She speaks to my heart and is great with help...
DInkling 2023/10/13
Joyful and Authentic
This podcast positively vibrates with authenticity, enthusiasm, joy, and information intended to help Christians and those seeking God with both their...
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