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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
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Helping Your Kids Choose Presence This Summer
2025/05/20
This Summer, Don’t Let Screens Raise Your Kids
What if the “golden idol” in your home glows… and fits in your child’s hand?
This week on Needed Conversations, Ryan & Viktoriya Cole unpack one of the most urgent topics facing families today: how to reclaim your kids from screen time and reset your home around God’s presence this summer.
With school out and devices calling louder than ever, most parents feel stuck between survival mode and spiritual neglect. But this episode offers something different—a practical reset plan rooted in Scripture, presence, and peace.
💡 In this powerful episode:
– What the golden calf in Exodus reveals about modern distraction
– Why your kids need your face more than FaceTime
– The surprising science behind overstimulation (and how to reverse it)
– Screen swaps: Easy ways to replace digital chaos with soulful connection
– How to reframe this summer as a season of spiritual renewal, not just survival
👨👩👧👦 Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or mentor—your influence matters.
Your kids are watching. And what they see in you becomes what they pursue.
✨ Make this a Summer of Presence, not just entertainment.
Sign the Presence Pledge and join families who are choosing to rebuild altars, not idols.
Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge
00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations
00:03 The Importance of Spiritual Renewal
00:20 Modeling Behavior for Children
01:34 The Presence Pledge Explained
02:33 Incorporating Kids into The Presence Pledge
03:52 Challenges and Strategies for Parents
10:41 Biblical Lessons on Presence
17:36 Practical Tips for Reducing Screen Time
27:30 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals #screentime #kidsscreentime
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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
When In-Laws Cross The Line
2025/05/07
In this week’s powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole tackle one of the most sensitive issues many couples face: setting healthy boundaries with extended family.
Whether it’s in-laws overstepping, family drama leaking into your marriage, or blurred lines of emotional dependency, learning how to protect the spiritual atmosphere of your home is critical. With biblical examples and personal stories, Ryan and Viktoriya walk you through:
✅ Why "leave and cleave" still matters
✅ How to honor your parents without giving them unlimited access
✅ Creating a united front with your spouse
✅ What to do when family members don’t accept your boundaries
✅ How to protect your marriage from emotional outsourcing
✅ And how acceptance, not just confrontation, can bring peace
Plus, they explore biblical case studies like Abraham & Hagar, Moses & Jethro, and even Jesus’ own family tensions to show how God uses boundaries to build healthy legacy.
Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge
00:00 Introduction to Healthy Boundaries
00:45 Navigating Boundaries with Extended Family
03:19 The Presence Pledge and Social Media Fast
04:29 When Family Crosses the Line
08:43 Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries
20:55 Biblical Examples of Boundaries
28:05 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Fix Your Gaze: How Worship Can Reset Your Marriage
2025/04/29
On today’s episode of Needed Conversations, we dive deep into how worship can recalibrate your heart, your home, and your marriage.
Too often, we allow distractions, busyness, and even our own pain to shift our focus. But Scripture reminds us that we become what we behold. If your eyes are constantly fixed on problems, comparison, or negativity, your spirit will grow weary — and your marriage will suffer.
Worship shifts our gaze back to what’s true, restoring intimacy with God and softening our hearts toward our spouse.
Today, we unpack:
Why worship is more than a song — it’s a posture of lifeHow gratitude changes the atmosphere of your marriageHow true intimacy starts with vulnerability before GodWhy presence — with God and your spouse — is the foundation for lasting connection
We also share practical ways you can invite worship into your daily rhythms and reconnect through stillness, gratitude, and spiritual intimacy.
Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge
Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.
#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals
00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations
00:03 The Power of Gratitude and Worship
01:33 Welcome and Setting the Scene
02:01 The Presence Pledge and Worship
02:28 Understanding Worship in Marriage
04:24 Personal Reflections on Worship
17:16 Worship's Impact on Family and Marriage
26:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
31:54 Closing Remarks and Announcements
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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
From Hustle to Harmony
2025/04/22
What if the most spiritual thing you could do right now… is rest?
In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole unpack a revolutionary truth: you were never meant to live from hustle to exhaustion, from pressure to burnout. You were designed to work from rest—not for it. Before Adam received his assignment, God introduced him to the rhythm of rest. His very first full day was the Sabbath. In this episode, the Coles explore how our obsession with productivity has disrupted our marriages, diminished intimacy, and distanced us from God’s voice. They call couples back to a slower, more sacred pace—a Kingdom rhythm where rest becomes our posture, not our reward. If you’ve been chasing success but feel emptier than ever, this conversation is your reset.
Join the Presence Pledge—a digital detox and rhythm reset for your marriage—and begin reclaiming the most important hours of your day. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge
Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.
#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals
00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Opinions on Success
00:25 Embracing Kingdom Culture Over Hustle Culture
00:53 Understanding Purpose and Presence
01:16 The Principle of Rest Before Responsibility
02:28 Welcome Back: The Presence Pledge Series
02:35 Setting Margins and Boundaries in Marriage
03:42 The Digital Detox: The Presence Pledge Explained
07:59 Reclaiming Energy and Overcoming Digital Addiction
10:11 The Importance of Fasting and Health
11:24 The Power of Community and Connection
15:44 Building Margins for Work and Rest
16:09 The Biblical Foundation of Rest and Work
21:05 The Deception of Striving for Success
24:32 The Sabbath Lifestyle: Rest as a Daily Experience
25:44 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
Desire, Distraction, & Preventing The Death Of Intimacy
2025/04/15
What does your social media algorithm say about the state of your soul—and the health of your marriage?
In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya take you deep into the quiet war being waged right in your pocket. It's not just about screens—it's about desires, distractions, and the subtle erosion of intimacy.
You’ll explore:
How your algorithm is discipling your desiresThe spiritual dangers of ambient noise and digital fatigueWhy stillness is where God speaks—and connection thrivesA powerful couples' challenge: swap phones and examine your explore feedsThe biblical roots of temptation and how sin begins with distorted desireThe connection between what you feed your soul and what flows from your heartHow to curate your feed and your environment to protect what matters most
Sign the pledge today at https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge
Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.
You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time.
#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals
00:00 Introduction to the Presence Pledge
00:06 The Digital Dilemma in Marriages
01:56 Understanding the Presence Pledge Challenge
04:31 The Impact of Digital Overload
05:59 Defining Algorithms and Their Influence
10:43 Guarding Your Heart and Mind
15:38 Practical Steps for Digital Detox
19:08 Spiritual Insights and Final Thoughts
30:17 Join the Presence Pledge
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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
The Presence Pledge
2025/04/09
It's time to reset. Your marriage needs your presence—not constant distractions.
Welcome to a brand new 8+ week series on Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole — The Presence Pledge. In this first episode, we're laying the foundation for a relationship reset that prioritizes connection, restores rhythm, and realigns your heart with God and your spouse.
In Episode 1: The Power of Presence, we’ll explore:
What the Bible says about presence in the Garden (Genesis 3:8)How daily rhythms affect emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacyWhy two sacred windows—morning and evening—matter more than you thinkWhat neuroscience says about breaking habits and building lasting connections
Join the challenge by signing The Presence Pledge:
No phones 2 hours before bed and 2 hours after wakingKeep devices 5 feet away from your bedCreate intentional check-in moments with God and your spouseGive yourself permission to restart with grace when you fall off
Sign the pledge today at https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge
Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.
You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time.
#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals
00:00 Introduction to The Presence Pledge
00:42 Setting the Foundation for the Series
01:11 The Importance of Presence in Marriage
02:51 Details of The Presence Pledge
05:02 Challenges and Solutions for Digital Detox
13:00 Scientific and Biblical Foundations
18:35 Practical Tips for Implementing the Pledge
27:19 Encouragement and Final Thoughts
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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
Cultivating Intimacy In The Garden of Marriage
2025/03/25
Can intimacy grow again after betrayal, distance, or seasons of silence? In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how intimacy in marriage—emotional, spiritual, and physical—is not just a moment, but something that must be cultivated like a garden.
Drawing from the rich imagery of the Song of Solomon and personal stories, they invite couples to rethink intimacy as more than sex. It's about trust, pursuit, and the daily tending of your marriage soil. Whether your garden is blooming or buried under weeds, this episode will help you find hope, healing, and a fresh start.
Learn how:
Intimacy begins with emotional connection and intentionalitySeasons of marriage (like winter and spring) impact closenessBetrayal doesn’t have to be the end of your storyThe roles of cultivation (husband) and nurturing (wife) work together to create lasting loveGod uses the garden metaphor from Genesis to the Resurrection to show how relationships grow through care and time00:00 Introduction: Upcoming Episode Highlights
00:03 Understanding True Intimacy
00:29 A Testimony of Faith and Marriage
01:22 Gardening as a Metaphor for Marriage
02:32 Series Overview: When Love Gets Tough
02:50 Building Back Intimacy After Betrayal
03:19 Personal Stories and Reflections
04:58 The Evolution of Love and Intimacy
07:04 The Role of Trust and Understanding
10:33 Rebuilding After Betrayal
19:58 Gardening and Marriage: A Deeper Connection
22:23 Maintaining Your Garden: Vigilance and Care
23:19 Life's Unpredictability and Faith
25:31 The Role of Men and Women in Marriage
26:33 Lessons from the Song of Solomon
27:40 Balancing Passion and Intentionality
30:48 The Importance of Planning and Mission in Marriage
33:44 Seeking Help and Community Support
39:17 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement
Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #ConflictResolution #MarriageAdvice #HowToFightFair #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #healthycommunication 👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.#MarriageRestoration #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #Boundaries #intimacy #intimacyadvice Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
Boundaries, Betrayal & Building Back Trust
2025/03/18
In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, we discuss one of the most difficult topics couples face—betrayal—and how to rebuild trust after it's been broken. Whether you're dealing with infidelity, financial mistrust, addiction, or emotional affairs, this episode offers hope and practical tools to help you navigate the road to restoration.
We unpack the crucial difference between disclosure and discovery, and why voluntary confession is a key factor in a couple’s ability to reconcile after betrayal. You'll learn why healthy boundaries aren't punishment but safeguards that protect your marriage, and how both partners must engage in personal healing to truly rebuild.
Is healing possible after betrayal?
Yes! Research shows that 60-75% of couples recover when they seek help, set clear boundaries, and commit to doing the hard work.
In this episode, we discuss:
Why couples often wait too long to ask for help The difference between disclosure vs. discoverySetting boundaries & not viewing them as punishmentHow past trauma and rejection can impact your response to betrayalPractical steps for rebuilding trust and restoring intimacyEncouragement for both the betrayed and the betrayer
You're not alone—whether you're currently facing betrayal or walking alongside someone who is, this episode is filled with truth, tools, and hope to guide you forward.
00:00 Introduction: Boundaries, Betrayal, and Trust
00:26 Disclosure vs. Discovery in Infidelity
01:11 Setting Boundaries and Overcommunication
01:36 Real Repentance and Personal Reflection
02:33 Series Recap: When Love Gets Tough
03:37 The Importance of Early Counseling
05:02 Rebuilding Trust: Individual and Couple's Work
06:29 The Role of Pastors and Professional Help
08:31 Different Forms of Betrayal
11:00 Disclosure as a Sign of Willingness to Change
20:17 Forgiveness vs. Trust Restoration
21:35 Understanding Boundaries in Marriage
22:41 Personal Boundaries and Safeguards
25:36 Accountability Measures
30:11 The Role of Forgiveness and Healing
32:09 Impact of Past Relationships
39:25 Encouragement and Hope for Couples
41:14 Conclusion and Upcoming Topics
Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #ConflictResolution #MarriageAdvice #HowToFightFair #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #healthycommunication
👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131
Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.#MarriageRestoration #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #Boundaries Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
When I'm Sorry Isn't Enough
2025/03/11
Sometimes apologies feel empty—either because they’re not genuine or because the pain runs too deep to move on. But in marriage, forgiveness isn’t optional. So how do you heal, rebuild trust, and truly reconcile after hurt?
In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole, we’re diving deep into:
Why "I'm sorry" doesn’t always fix things & what a real apology looks likeThe difference between forgiveness & trust (they are NOT the same!)What Jesus really meant by forgiving 70x7—and why that doesn’t mean being a doormatWhat "love always trusts" actually means (hint: it’s not blind trust!)How unforgiveness poisons your heart & why forgiveness is more for YOU than themThe path to true reconciliation (and what to do when trust is broken) Forgiveness frees you, but trust is rebuilt over time. In this episode, we’ll help you navigate the journey of letting go of resentment, setting healthy boundaries, and rebuilding what was broken.
Key Scriptures:
Matthew 6:14-15 – If you don’t forgive, your Father won’t forgive you
Matthew 18:21-22 – What Jesus meant by forgiving 70x71 Corinthians 13:5-7 – Love keeps no record of wrongs & always trusts
James 5:16 – Confess your sins to one another and be healed
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:28 The Meaning of True Forgiveness
01:39 Series Recap and Personal Reflections
03:01 Understanding Apologies in Relationships
03:42 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned
10:50 The Importance of Genuine Apologies
22:32 Forgiveness and Its Spiritual Significance
28:31 Reconciliation and Moving Forward
35:57 Conclusion and Next Week's Preview
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How to Fight Fair
2025/03/04
Part 1 from the new series "When Love Gets Tough."
Do you and your spouse struggle with conflict? Do your arguments leave you feeling more distant instead of closer? In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most important marriage skills—fighting fair. Conflict is inevitable, but how you handle it determines whether it strengthens or weakens your relationship.We’ll cover:- The 4 toxic fight patterns that destroy marriages (from Dr. John Gottman’s research)- 5 biblical principles for handling conflict with love, wisdom, and patience- Practical steps to resolve arguments without resentment- How to repair damage after a disagreement and grow closer as a couple- Scripture-based wisdom on communication, forgiveness, and conflictKey Scriptures:James 1:19 | Ephesians 4:26 | Proverbs 15:1 | Colossians 3:13Takeaway: Fighting isn’t the problem—it’s how you fight that makes or breaks your marriage. Let’s learn how to argue in a way that builds trust, connection, and love.00:00 Introduction: Fighting in Marriage00:16 The Inevitability of Conflict00:22 Internal Dialogues and Their Impact00:45 Predictors of Divorce01:34 Series Introduction: When Love Gets Tough01:55 Communication Struggles in Marriage02:24 How to Fight Fair03:09 Weekend Recap and Personal Stories04:57 Healthy Conflict Resolution10:00 Four Destructive Fight Patterns18:41 Five Rules for Healthy Conflict23:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement30:48 Upcoming Episodes and New PodcastSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever
Your Capacity Determines Your Future—Here’s How to Increase It
2025/02/25
In this episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how to enlarge your capacity for the next stage in life and marriage. They discuss the importance of exposure to new experiences and the power of building effective networks and relationships. Highlighting the significance of taking personal responsibility and aligning with God's purpose, they emphasize strategies for couples to navigate transitions and elevate their spiritual and relational growth. This episode also touches on the detrimental impact of toxic relationships and the benefits of seeking mentors and wise counsel, all within the context of their 'Built to Last' series.00:00 Introduction: Enlarging Your Capacity00:11 The Power of Relationships and Networks01:11 Personal Responsibility in Growth01:36 Welcome Back: Needed Conversations02:23 Series Overview: Built to Last03:03 Marriage and Shifts in Life04:15 Developing New Rules for a New Season05:47 Choosing the Right Relationships05:56 Mutually Beneficial Relationships06:30 The Importance of Mentorship08:15 Eliminating Negative Influences09:09 Exposure to New Environments10:06 Scriptural Basis for Capacity Building12:25 Pain or Precision: Making Decisions13:09 Prophetic Insight: Building Phase13:45 Practical Steps to Exposure19:04 Thinking Like a King29:53 Conclusion: Needed ConversationsSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #personalgrowth #marriagegrowth #marriagelife #marriageadvice #christianmarriagecounseling #christianmarriageadvice #christianmarriagetips Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
New Rules For A New Season In Your Marriage
2025/02/18
🚨 Are you operating with old strategies in a new season? 🚨
If you don’t learn the protocols of your next level before you get there, the very thing meant to bless you could become the thing that crushes you. Many marriages struggle not because of a lack of love, but because of a failure to adapt to the new challenges, responsibilities, and blessings that come with growth.
In this episode of Needed Conversations, we (Ryan & Viktoriya Cole) are talking about New Rules for a New Season in Marriage—how to recognize when it’s time to shift, redefine what “winning” looks like in your marriage, and upgrade your strategy so you can fully step into what God has for you.🔥
Consider the season of your marriage that you're in—what worked before may not work now, and that’s okay! But if you don’t recognize the shift, resist change, or fail to prepare for what’s ahead, you’ll find yourself frustrated, disconnected, and stuck.
💬 Drop a comment below and let us know: What’s one area in your marriage that needs a new strategy for this season?
00:00 Introduction: Embracing Change
00:47 Biblical Insights on Change
01:38 Welcome to Needed Conversations
02:00 New Rules for a New Season
03:36 Practical Steps for Marriage and Personal Growth
10:30 Personal Testimonies and Experiences
24:19 Reevaluating Roles and Responsibilities
29:36 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
33:03 Upcoming Podcast Announcement
Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #personalgrowth #marriagegrowth #marriagelife #marriageadvice #christianmarriagecounseling #christianmarriageadvice #christianmarriagetips Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.
You Can’t Change Your Spouse—But You CAN Do This!
2025/02/11
In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the importance of personal commitment within a marriage and how to navigate differing levels of discipline and commitment between spouses. They share personal stories, strategies for supporting your spouse, and emphasize accepting rather than trying to control your spouse. The episode also touches on how to set realistic expectations, the power of prayer, and the significance of seeking wise counsel. As part of their 'Built to Last' series, they aim to help couples find strength in individual commitment while working collaboratively towards shared goals.
00:00 Introduction: The Illusion of Control in Marriage
01:07 Personal Commitment: The Key to a Successful Marriage
01:57 Real-Life Challenges: When I Lost 100lbs
05:02 Strategies for Supporting Your Spouse
06:16 The Role of Mediation and Counseling
14:20 Balancing Responsibilities and Offering Support
20:23 Encouragement and Prayer: Tools for a Stronger Marriage
28:12 Final Thoughts: Building a Lasting Marriage
29:51 Conclusion and Announcements
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A Better Marriage Starts With You
2025/02/04
Built To Last Part 1 | Needed Conversations
In this first episode of season 7 of Needed Conversations, hosts Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the importance of personal commitment and alignment with God's purpose as a foundation for a healthy marriage. They emphasize the necessity of creating intentional moments of silence, practicing self-discipline, and leading by example in your spiritual and emotional growth. The episode also outlines the significance of knowing your identity in Christ and the impact that maintaining your personal commitments has on your marriage.
00:00 Introduction: Aligning with God's Purpose
00:52 Welcome to Season Seven
01:35 New Format and Upcoming Content
03:44 The Power of Personal Commitment
04:56 Jesus as a Model of Commitment
06:02 Self-Discipline vs. Self-Care
15:57 Creating Healthy Rhythms
25:39 Avoiding Self-Sabotage
28:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Navigating Boundaries In Marriage
2024/06/29
In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of the 'Summer Shorts' series, we discuss the essential need for boundaries in marriage to foster healthy communication. We break down different types of boundaries such as personal space, communication, emotional, financial, and sexual boundaries, emphasizing their importance and offering practical advice on how to implement them.
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phhs08 2025/04/13
Great Marriage Podcast
I stumbled across Ryan and Viktoriya’s podcast while searching for a biblically-based marriage podcast to listen to as my husband and I begin our marr...
wife mother business woman 2022/01/11
Tammy
I have thoroughly enjoyed this podcast and have anxiously awaited each new episode. So many fresh and thought provoking topics from family to marriage...
Sam&Charlie 2022/01/10
Love this!
My husband and I love listening to your podcast every week! Full of wisdom and encouragement!
r.f.t.b 2021/02/18
Exhortation
The topics, the discussion, and even the tempo of bouncing off one another, is such an example and teaching of important aspects we all need especiall...
Meka4love 2020/11/15
Needed conversations is the perfect name!
I don’t think there has been a more appropriate title for a podcast! Needed conversations is so refreshing and insightful. I love how REAL topics are ...
caspianwzdo 2020/04/21
Amazing Podcast !!
This podcast really calms and now I’ve been inspired to have my own podcast to talk about the teen years, God, and everything that crosses path with ...
Ali Butler 2020/04/20
Awesome Podcast!
I love how real the Coles. Very informative!!
Yafah One 2020/04/01
Riveting!!! This podcast is so needed! 🙌🏾
I just listed to the introductory podcast! It is purely amazing! I love it so much! Ryan and Viktoriya Cole are riveting, open and hilarious! I look f...
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