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In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by licensed professional counselor and author Kelly McDaniel, who coined the term “mother hunger.” We dive deep into what mother hunger really means, how it can impact healing after heartbreak, and how unmet childhood needs can show up in adult relationships. We cover why even those of us who had “good” mothers can carry mother hunger, how shame and frozen grief play a part in heartbreak recovery, and the ways our early attachments influence people-pleasing and hyper-independence. Kelly shares actionable tips for nurturing yourself, building safer friendships, and moving forward, even if you never get the apology you crave. This episode is filled with insight for anyone struggling to heal, feel validated, or understand the root of their heartbreak. Be sure to grab your copy of Mother Hunger to learn more! To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Go to luminara.care and use code HEARTBREAK10 at checkout for 10% off your first session. If you’ve been waiting to start therapy, BetterHelp works with more than 125 health plan networks, and eligible members have an average copay of just $23 per session with insurance. Don’t have insurance or don't live in the United States? You can still get 10% off your first month. Visit BetterHelp.com/HEARTBREAK to explore your payment options. Go to ZENNI.com/PODCAST and use code PODCAST15 for fifteen percent off your first order, plus free shipping on all US orders over sixty five dollars.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Sabrina Zohar, host of the Sabrina Zohar Show and author of the new book "Why Am I Like This?" In this conversation we talk all things breakups, healing, and unlearning old relationship patterns. We get into the real reasons behind our "b******t blueprint," why knowing your dating patterns isn't enough to break them, and how childhood experiences shape our nervous systems and dating lives. Sabrina shares her own stories of heartbreak, seeing her ex move on, and learning to sit with uncomfortable feelings instead of reaching for old habits. We also cover the four survival responses (fight, flight, freeze, fawn), the importance of regulation in relationships, and actionable tips for dating again after a breakup without falling into old cycles. If you’re ready for a blend of self-compassion, science, and no-BS motivation to change your relationship patterns, this episode is for you. Be sure to get your copy of Why Am I Like This? link here! To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Go to luminara.care and use code HEARTBREAK10 at checkout for 10% off your first session. If you’ve been waiting to start therapy, BetterHelp works with more than 125 health plan networks, and eligible members have an average copay of just $23 per session with insurance. Don’t have insurance or don't live in the United States? You can still get 10% off your first month. Visit BetterHelp.com/HEARTBREAK to explore your payment options. Go to ZENNI.com/PODCAST and use code PODCAST15 for fifteen percent off your first order, plus free shipping on all US orders over sixty five dollars.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Jennifer Reid, a Columbia and UCLA-trained psychiatrist, to dive deep into the topic of guilt, especially as it shows up for women during and after breakups. We discuss her new book, Guilt-Free: Reclaiming Your Life from Unreasonable Expectations, and how the emotion of guilt, while often adaptive, can become overwhelming and shape how we process the end of relationships and navigate healing. Dr. Reid shares the unique ways guilt impacts women, the difference between guilt and anxiety, and why we often blame ourselves when a relationship ends. We also explore her SPEAK framework, a powerful process to help you understand, work through, and release unnecessary guilt during heartbreak and beyond. If you struggle with guilt after a breakup, this episode is packed with validation, practical ideas, and hopeful reminders that moving forward is possible. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Go to luminara.care and use code HEARTBREAK10 at checkout for 10% off your first session. If you’ve been waiting to start therapy, BetterHelp works with more than 125 health plan networks, and eligible members have an average copay of just $23 per session with insurance. Don’t have insurance or don't live in the United States? You can still get 10% off your first month. Visit BetterHelp.com/HEARTBREAK to explore your payment options. Go to ZENNI.com/PODCAST and use code PODCAST15 for fifteen percent off your first order, plus free shipping on all US orders over sixty five dollars.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown, NYU professor, psychotherapist, and author of “Psyche’s Awakening: A Guide to Emotional and Somatic Healing Through the Wisdom of Greek Myth.” We dive into why we keep repeating the same relationship patterns (romantic and otherwise), how our psychological “Achilles heel” holds us back, and the power of using ancient Greek myths like Medusa and Sisyphus as mirrors for emotional healing. Dr. Gillian shares actionable exercises for identifying your core wounds, discusses the importance of understanding your own story’s prologue to change its ending, and explains how somatic awareness can help break painful relationship cycles. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re attracted to unavailable partners, how to identify your emotional triggers, or want concrete tools to heal heartbreak, this episode is packed with deep insights and practical tips. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Go to luminara.care and use code HEARTBREAK10 at checkout for 10% off your first session. You can find Saving the Rain by Elliott Rose wherever books are sold in print and in eBook. Use code HEARTBREAK at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak The Korean skincare brand everyone is talking about. Our listeners get 20% off their entire order by usingcode HEARTBREAK at jiyuskin.com/HEARTBREAK #JIYU #ad See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's expert episode, I'm joined by psychotherapist and author Jessica Anne Pressler to discuss her new fiction novel, Your Traitor Within. We dive into the inspiration behind the book, why she chose storytelling to illuminate cycles of self-abandonment and toxic relationships, and how early childhood fears—especially fear of abandonment—can transform into people-pleasing and fawning behaviors in adulthood. We talk about the concept of the "traitor within," how to begin recognizing and healing self-sabotaging patterns after heartbreak, and what it really takes to break free from unhealthy relationship cycles. Whether you've experienced abuse or simply struggled with setting boundaries in dating, you'll find practical advice for moving forward and, most importantly, healing your own heart. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Go to luminara.care and use code HEARTBREAK10 at checkout for 10% off your first session. You can find Saving the Rain by Elliott Rose wherever books are sold in print and in eBook. Use code HEARTBREAK at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak The Korean skincare brand everyone is talking about. Our listeners get 20% off their entire order by usingcode HEARTBREAK at jiyuskin.com/HEARTBREAK #JIYU #ad See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode I’m joined by Dr. Marisa G. Franco, psychologist, researcher, and bestselling author, to discuss her brand new book "Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment." We dive deep into the real foundations of self-worth and self-esteem—why so much of the traditional advice around affirmations, "fake it till you make it," and positive thinking doesn't align with scientific research. We chat about how changes in self-esteem can impact friendships and romantic relationships, why some connections drift as our confidence grows, and the powerful role of honesty and embracing our “bad” feelings in building a stronger sense of self. Dr. Franco also shares actionable exercises (including her favorite for memory reconsolidation), practical tips on feeling safe with uncertainty after heartbreak, and how being real with yourself is the most important ingredient in healing. If you struggle to receive love, feel lost after a breakup, or want to truly raise your self-worth, this is an episode you won’t want to miss! To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Go to luminara.care and use code HEARTBREAK10 at checkout for 10% off your first session. You can find Saving the Rain by Elliott Rose wherever books are sold in print and in eBook. Use code HEARTBREAK at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak The Korean skincare brand everyone is talking about. Our listeners get 20% off their entire order by usingcode HEARTBREAK at jiyuskin.com/HEARTBREAK #JIYU #ad See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode I’m chatting with Serena Kerrigan, confidence coach, creator, and author of the upcoming book Let’s F*****g Date. We dive into Serena’s journey of building self-confidence after years of insecurity, why mirror talk is a game-changer for self-love, and the true power of practicing vulnerability in dating. Serena shares her unique 3P theory—Potential, Plot, and Practice—and how shifting your mindset can turn dating from something dreaded to something genuinely fun. We also discuss tangible advice for moving on after heartbreak, including why holding a “funeral” for your ex can help with closure, and how to step outside your comfort zone to find meaningful connections. Whether you’re newly single or ready to start dating again, this episode is your guide to healing heartbreak, embracing confidence, and taking control of your dating life. Preorder your copy of Let's F*****g Date today to get some preorder bonuses and a chance to win a weekend in NYC with Serena! To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 You can find Saving the Rain by Elliott Rose wherever books are sold in print and in eBook. Use code HEARTBREAK at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak The Korean skincare brand everyone is talking about. Our listeners get 20% off their entire order by usingcode HEARTBREAK at jiyuskin.com/HEARTBREAK #JIYU #ad See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving deep into the no contact rule- what it really means, why it’s so vital for healing from heartbreak, and all the gray areas that pop up in our super-connected digital world. I break down what actually constitutes breaking no contact, how to set your own boundaries if you share kids or work together, and address common questions like whether watching your ex’s Instagram stories or looking through old photos counts as breaking your streak. I also share my best tips for sticking with no contact, advice for handling slip-ups, and thoughts on how to make this process work for your own unique situation. Whether you’re trying to move on after a breakup or want to understand no contact in more depth, this episode will help you set healthy boundaries and fast-track your recovery. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 You can find Saving the Rain by Elliott Rose wherever books are sold in print and in eBook. Use code HEARTBREAK at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak The Korean skincare brand everyone is talking about. Our listeners get 20% off their entire order by usingcode HEARTBREAK at jiyuskin.com/HEARTBREAK #JIYU #ad See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode, I’m sitting down with the incredible Najwa Zabian, Lebanese-Canadian author, speaker, and educator, to talk about her powerful new book, The One Who Broke You Can’t Heal You. We dive into why so many of us seek closure, validation, and even healing from the person who hurt us—and why it never truly works. Najwa breaks down the struggles we face when trying to let go after heartbreak, how we often avoid focusing on our own healing journey, and discusses the challenge of accepting someone for who they truly are once they've shown us their true colors. We also explore why crying over lost memories can be just as important as finding new joy, what it means to trust yourself after betrayal, and the freedom that comes from prioritizing your own peace over fixing or changing someone else. If you’re struggling to move on, looking for breakup advice, or want tools for healing after heartbreak, this episode is a must-listen. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Don’t let stigma stand in the way of support. Start therapy with BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak You can find DRIVE by Kate Stewart wherever books are sold in print and in eBook and REVERSE wherever books starting on 7/28. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode, I’m joined again by somatic coach and breathwork facilitator Beth Schild, whose last appearance was our most-listened-to episode of the year. We dive deep into the world of somatic healing and trauma recovery after heartbreak—Beth shares incredibly practical tools you can use immediately to bridge the gap between your mind, heart, and body. We discuss why positive mindset work and talk therapy can only take us so far, how unaddressed childhood wounds show up in our relationships, and what it really means to tap into your body to move through heartbreak. Beth also opens up about being her own first client during her divorce, and how she found deep healing (and eventually, love again) by getting to the root of her patterns. We also cover topics like self-compassion during the healing process, why ‘doing all the right things’ after a breakup sometimes isn’t enough, how to sit with discomfort, and simple practices to truly connect with yourself. If you’re ready to get unstuck from post-breakup pain, understand your triggers, and actually feel better in your body, this episode is for you. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 You can find DRIVE by Kate Stewart wherever books are sold in print and in eBook and REVERSE wherever books starting on 7/28. Don’t let stigma stand in the way of support. Start therapy with BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode I’m interviewing Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a licensed marriage and family therapist, sexologist, dating coach, and author of Why Won’t He Call. We dive deep into the topic of second chances in relationships—from giving your ex a second chance, to understanding when it might not be the best idea. We discuss how honesty, communication, and attachment styles influence our decisions to try again after a breakup, and the important role that hope and consistent change play when considering rebuilding trust. We also touch on how sex factors into second chances, the risks of situationships, and why creating space after heartbreak can be so valuable. If you’re questioning whether to give someone or a relationship another shot, this episode is full of actionable tips for discerning what’s really right for you. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 You can find DRIVE by Kate Stewart wherever books are sold in print and in eBook and REVERSE wherever books starting on 7/28. Don’t let stigma stand in the way of support. Start therapy with BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode, I’m talking with Dr. Adi Jaffe, a nationally recognized expert on transformation and author of the book Unhooked. We dive deep into the connection between addiction and heartbreak, and how compulsive behaviors, whether they involve substances or patterns in love, keep us stuck after a breakup. Dr. Jaffe shares his personal story of overcoming addiction, explains concepts like the sphere of influence and fixed versus growth mindset, and offers practical tips for shifting your mindset and changing the behaviors that keep you feeling stuck. We also discuss common struggles after a breakup, like obsessing over things outside of our control and getting trapped in shame cycles, and how to use frameworks like SPARROW and self-compassion to move forward in healing. If you’re ready for actionable advice on how to heal your heart and break unhealthy cycles, this is the episode for you. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Start therapy with BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak You can find DRIVE by Kate Stewart wherever books are sold in print and in eBook and REVERSE wherever books starting on 7/28. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving into one of the most common and painful post-breakup struggles: what to do when it seems like your ex is totally fine while you’re still hurting. I break down why seeing your ex “move on” can hit so hard, the spiral of self-doubt it can trigger, and why it’s so important to set boundaries with your friends and social media to protect your healing. I also explore some of the real reasons why your ex might look like they’re doing well—everything from unreliable social media snapshots to the way different people process pain and grief. If you find yourself comparing your healing journey to your ex’s or struggling with thoughts like “Did our relationship mean anything?”, this episode is for you. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Don’t let stigma stand in the way of support. Start therapy with BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak Sleep cooler this summer with Boll & Branch during their Annual Summer Event. For a limited time, get 20% off sitewide at BollandBranch.com/heartbreak with code heartbreak. You can find DRIVE by Kate Stewart wherever books are sold in print and in eBook and REVERSE wherever books starting on 7/28. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's listener episode, I'm interviewing a man in his late 30s who recently went through the end of a 3.5 year relationship that he moved cities for. We talk about the unique challenges of relocating for love, trying to build a new life while balancing time between a partner and family, and the cycle of arguments that made it hard to move forward. We also dive into how he navigated self-sabotage at the end of the relationship, the guilt and growth that followed, and the powerful steps he's taken to heal, build a new support system, and rediscover peace in his life. If you've ever found yourself stuck in a relationship cycle or struggling to let go, this episode is full of hope, honest insight, and actionable tips for healing after heartbreak. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Don’t let stigma stand in the way of support. Start therapy with BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak Sleep cooler this summer with Boll & Branch during their Annual Summer Event. For a limited time, get 20% off sitewide at BollandBranch.com/heartbreak with code heartbreak. You can find DRIVE by Kate Stewart wherever books are sold in print and in eBook and REVERSE wherever books starting on 7/28. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s expert episode, I’m interviewing Toni Filipone, founder of Master Grief and an expert in navigating grief and loss. We discuss her personal story of losing her partner to suicide after going through a brutal divorce, and how even with 30 years of personal development coaching experience, grief left her at a complete loss. We dive deep into why grief doesn’t follow predictable patterns, the reality of “early grief,” and how societal expectations around healing are often unrealistic. We also explore how breakups can bring a unique kind of compounded grief, why it’s common to grieve the loss of a future that never happened, and how to separate facts from the painful stories we tell ourselves. If you’ve ever felt stuck, guilty, or broken during heartbreak or loss, this episode will validate your feelings and offer a fresh, compassionate perspective on moving through grief. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://tally.so/r/Y5Z6LN To get my course bundle Heal Your Break Up, go to https://www.breakupbestie.com/heal-your-break-up-course and use the code PODCAST for $25 off! To join Healing Hearts Club for FREE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1021288124899873 Don’t let stigma stand in the way of support. Start therapy with BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/heartbreak Sleep cooler this summer with Boll & Branch during their Annual Summer Event. For a limited time, get 20% off sitewide at BollandBranch.com/heartbreak with code heartbreak. You can find DRIVE by Kate Stewart wherever books are sold in print and in eBook and REVERSE wherever books starting on 7/28. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.