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Does a good DM need a Code of Ethics? Long-time listener, Dr. DM himself, Jason, brings Tony, Chris, and Dave a question that reaches beyond rules and encounter design: when a player dominates the spotlight, cheats, crosses a boundary, or simply stops having fun, what responsibility does the DM have to act? The 3 Wise DMs discuss the DM’s influence over the table, the responsibilities players share, and the value of setting expectations before play begins. Along the way, Tony recalls a treasure dispute that went spectacularly wrong, while the group considers character agency, honest feedback, and Shadowdark’s “Pact” of goodwill, respect, and fellowship. 2:45 Dr. DM’s question about a DM Code of Ethics. 5:54 Spotlight sharing, cheating, and when a DM should intervene. 7:58 DM Chris distinguishes table etiquette from professional ethics. 11:58 The elegance of Shadowdark’s “The Pact.” 14:15 Character conflict vs Player conflict. 19:11 Curating your table. 22:35 “Back in the Day with DM Tony”: Treasure gone wrong. 27:07 Fairness, Session Zero, and a shared responsibility for the fun. 29:43 Player agency: how to handle when a character’s goals are sidelined. 37:23 Checking in with players: The Open Door Policy. 40:15 Players responsibility for raising concerns with the DM. 41:40 Final Thoughts.

Shadowdark promises old-school danger with modern rules: fast character creation, deadly combat, limited resources, unpredictable magic, and a torch that burns for one real-world hour. But how does it actually feel at the table? After running Shadowdark for the Doctor’s Blades’ latest expedition, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to examine what worked, what surprised them, and which parts of the system took some adjustment. From simplified mechanics and real-time resource pressure to spellcasting, encounter balance, and character survivability, the Wise DMs explore whether Shadowdark successfully captures the tension of classic dungeon crawling—and which ideas they may carry into their other games. Check out our previous jaunt into the world of the OSR! 2:20 Why did the 3 Wise DMs decide to try Shadowdark? 4:30 Old-school danger combined with modern game design. 8:50 Fast character creation—and learning not to become too attached. 11:35 Simple rules allow players to get “off their sheet.” 15:45 The elegance of gear Slots and Torch Timer mechanics. 21:10 Darkness, resource pressure, and making meaningful decisions. 22:50 No one died died? How deadly is Shadowdark? 27:25 Spellcasting without spell slots and the danger of losing a spell. 34:40 What worked and what didn’t during the Doctor’s Blades adventure? 46:23 Final thoughts.

“Yes, and…” is one of the foundational principles of improvisation and is a powerful tool for any DM or GM to encourage creativity at the table. But does a good DM always have to say yes? In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to discuss what happens when player freedom begins pulling against the setting, the adventure, or the enjoyment of everyone else at the table (from DM Tony's kitbashed Curse of Strahd campaign). From unexpected character motives and disruptive choices to campaign boundaries and the DM’s responsibility to the world, the Wise DMs explore when to embrace an idea, when to redirect it, and when it may be necessary to simply say no. 2:05 Can “Yes, and…” go too far at the gaming table? 4:35 Improvisation may begin with “yes,” but that doesn’t mean every idea has to work. 7:10 When “Yes, And…” comes at the expense of other players at the table. 10:20 Establishing the boundaries of the world before the adventure begins. 13:50 Player agency doesn’t mean freedom from consequences. 17:15 Is the DM responsible for making every player idea work? 21:05 Why would players not do something if it’s always worked? 26:05 How the game system can assist with players who really love complete improv. 29:05 Working with the players instead of allowing the game to become adversarial. 33:10 The importance of tone, expectations, and getting everyone to play the same game. 36:55 Final Thoughts.

Few moments at the gaming table carry more weight than the death of a player character. Is it the ultimate consequence of failure, a dramatic turning point in the story, or simply an opportunity for the next chapter to begin? In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave tackle one of the oldest debates in tabletop gaming: how should DMs handle character death? From the evolution of death mechanics across editions to player agency, storytelling, and the ever-present threat of the dreaded Total Party Kill, the Wise DMs explore how death can shape both the game and the stories we tell together. 2:15 A listener question from a returning special guest! 4:55 Is it harder to kill a PC in 5e than other editions? Absolutely. 7:40 The time invested in creating a character has increased and the game has evolved with it. 8:30 Tension is increasing with everything leading up to death. Once a character dies, the tension is gone. 10:50 Does death mean that the story is over? Providing player agency to what happens with death. 11:55 There’s a difference between Gauntlet and Skyrim – meatgrinding vs story. 19:05 “We all win when we tell a good story.” What’s the story that your game is telling? 24:55 Mechanics don’t appear from the ether. They spring from playing the game and wanting to experience new things. 30:12 Total Party Kill vs Total Party Capture – which is more thrilling? 31:30 Permadeath is rare in most fantasy settings. 39:45 Final Thoughts.

Books, movies, and television shows benefit from one major advantage: the entire story is planned before the audience experiences it. D&D campaigns don't have that luxury. Players miss clues, chase unexpected leads, ignore carefully crafted plot hooks, and sometimes decide that the villain's plan sounds surprisingly reasonable. As a result, even the most carefully prepared campaign can become a tangled web of stories, side quests, and unanswered questions. In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave tackle a question that arose during Chris's ongoing Lord of the Rings campaign: How important is it for every plot thread, mystery, and adventure to fit together into a perfectly coherent story? Along the way, the Wise DMs explore the balance between narrative consistency and table enjoyment, discuss when loose ends are worth tying up, and ask a fundamental question: Is it more important for your campaign to make sense—or for everyone at the table to have fun? 1:37 Our congratulations to The New York Knicks and New York city! 3:22 DM Chris’ question regarding his Middle-Earth campaign. 4:48 Continuity is important. 5:58 DM with a Day Job’s YouTube video: Stop Connecting Everything! 7:30 This question can change when you’re playing in worlds like Middle-Earth. 9:05 “Sometimes a tomb is just a tomb.” Not everything is a reveal. 11:05 Some campaigns are one long, epic adventure: LOTR and Dragonlance. 12:30 Our discussion of the factions and innerworkings of Moria. 15:30 You don’t have to explain anything until you have to explain it. 20:15 Frequency of Play. 22:58 Your players are focused more on explaining their characters rather than explaining the adventure. 25:00 Lore heavy campaigns. 26:54 The evolution of storytelling in TTRPGs. 29:48 Paying homage to well-loved properties. 32:23 The longer you have between sessions, the more your mind will find all the “plot holes.” 36:35 Final Thoughts.

Some listener questions come in and just HAVE to be answered. This was the case with a question that came in from longtime friend of the show, Dr. DM himself, Jason. His son’s school D&D club was planning a seriously epic finale to multiple campaign tables in a stupendous one-shot. Everything was gong well until the head DM brought their BBEG… we’ll let Jason tell you the rest. In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to discuss what makes a good finale, a good BBEG, and best practices for collaborating with multiple DMs. Not surprisingly, it always comes down to communication. 1:50 Dr. DM’s question about an insane BBEG for his son’s school D&D Club Finale. 7:00 The concept of the finale game sounds AWESOME! But if you’re doing a collaboration, you have to collaborate. 8:45 Benchmarking when creating homebrewed monsters. 10:00 The BBEG should matter in each of the separate campaigns storylines. 11:05 In our Curse of Strahd finale, the players mowed through 2000 hit points in a session… that’s still 128,000 to go. 14:25 Monsters aren’t just bags of hit points to soak up damage. 20:30 With collaborative storytelling, keep lines of communication open. 22:15 Encounters and finales are meant to be challenging and epic… not impossible. Make it so that they have to really think their way through the encounter, not just swing their biggest attack every time. 30:05 In the end, it’s always about communication around the table and behind the screen. 31:55 What is the theme and story for the finale? 34:15 “Appropriately-Sized Encounters.” If there is no win condition, then you’re just whipping on your players. 37:35 A finale, even if it spans different worlds, should matter to the players in each of their individual campaigns as well. 40:15 A campaign that wipes in a TPK isn’t necessarily as cool as you think it might be. 43:00 Final Thoughts.

Birthday games are 3WDs specialty… and it has now begun to grow. New DMs are joining in on the fun and running new, unique, and exciting games in all types of systems and taking on the challenge of one-upping the Wise DMs. In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down with returning guests, Bonnie and Elizabeth, to review, unpack, and discuss the steps they took to take a one-off Call of Cthulhu investigation from last year and transform it into a massive 9-player adventure that spanned both Call of Cthulhu and D&D! For anyone that has ever thought of mashing systems and players together… this is the episode for you! 2:00 The 3 Wise DMs review the overall experience. 3:45 Our Guest DMs, Bonnie and Elizabeth, provide the high overview of approaching a large adventure combining 2 separate systems. 9:35 The inciting incident for our current Investigation. 16:15 Providing spotlight for all the characters. 19:05 The power of narrative-focused TTRPGs. 22:38 Time management in one-shots. 30:50 Developing a mystery that will allow the players to discover it and NOT blow your clock budget. 36:40 Bringing the tables back together for the finale and the “Psychology of the Sheet.” 50:05 Final Thoughts.

Recently, Matt Colville of the Running the Game YouTube series and author of the new Draw Steel TTRPG, discussed the concept of “DM Style.” With someone who has been involved in all things tabletop for over 40 years, you would think that he would believe in developing a DM Style. However, his hot take was that he wasn’t sure there even was such a thing. In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to discuss DM Style: Is it a thing and, if so, what are the things that make it up. Along the way, we discuss how to take all these lists and types of DM Styles and make them work for you in putting together a better game. 2:55 The flip side of the coin to Episode 7: The Eight Player Types. 3:22 The first issue with DM Style: It probably changes with the group you’re running for. 4:30 Lists can be helpful if they are prescriptive – not just descriptive. 6:15 DM Style is a lot like Personality Tests: you’re a mixture of all the different metrics that keeps changing. 9:55 DM Tony takes some inspiration from his MBA Program “Back in the Day…” 15:00 Management “styles” read more like DM Style metrics: Autocrat, Laissez-Faire, Democratic, Collaborative, Inspirational, Strategic, Results-Oriented. 18:00 The idea of “DM Signature” as opposed to “DM Style.” 20:00 These metrics, or dials, are always being adjusted – even in real-time during the game. 22:15 DM Chris’ 5 Metrics: Rules, Story Focus, Session Style, Prep, and Conversation Style. 25:15 Does “DM Style” change with the system you’re running? 27:15 The DMs character: the World. We return to the 8 Player Types. 37:07 “Are You Not Entertained?” Fun Gameplay supersedes rules, styles, and the like. 40:45 Final Thoughts.

Maybe you’ve run some one-shots or even multi-night campaigns. But now you’ve made the decision to run a long-term campaign for many levels – maybe all the way to 20th. How do you make the jump? What do you need to know that will make the transition seamless? What are the differences between running a single session and many sessions that tell an epic, massive story? In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down with our recurring special guest and player – the Monster Wrangler himself, Matt! Along the way, we discuss the tips, tricks, and pitfalls to making the jump to running a whole campaign. For all you new DMs, check out Episodes 29, 90, and 113 for more tips! 4:00 What made Matt want to take it to the next level? 6:40 Matt’s next level of immersive play: costume changes! 8:30 What are you going to run? Homebrew? Published? What made Matt want to run Tyranny of Dragons? 10:15 Tip #1: Published material is just information: use what you want. 14:10 Tip#2: Balance out the stronger and weaker play styles. 15:10 How to go forward when you have to have actions and consequences affect later sessions? 20:38 Tip #3: How the make-up of your table will affect how you run the campaign. 23:30 Tip #4: Let what the players offer to you about their character guide the campaign. 26:55 What did Matt take away from the first session? 30:00 Finding inspiration for the adventure hook and introduction. 31:50 The consistent lack of good adventure hooks in the early 5e campaigns. 33:50 How do you make a general campaign unique? Answer: The Players. 36:30 Where do we go from here? Weaving the sessions together. 42:20 Tip #5: Not every session will start as exciting as a dragon attack and that’s okay. 43:15 Tip #6: “I wouldn’t have changed anything.” DM Matt reveals the best tip. You didn’t mess up or ruin anything. Don’t carry things with you into the next session. 45:25 Final Thoughts.

Over the course of twelve episodes, we have enlisted the help of all our listeners to create the first-ever crowdsourced and collaborative campaign setting – what we call Boomtown! In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to reveal the end of this very successful experiment… well, maybe not the end, but a very solid foundation from which to launch Boomtown. For anyone who is new to the podcast, as well as for all the listeners that have helped us craft it, this episode puts it all into perspective and wraps it with a nice bow. Stay tuned for next steps! 1:50 Boomtown is here! 3:25 Boomtown is one of the few western settings available to set your 5e campaign in. 8:15 The Trivium, our Romanesque totalitarian Regime to the east of Boomtown. 14:00 Your starting Boomtown: Gallow Springs! 17:45 Our specific Economic Mechanics to make resource management matter in Boomtown. 25:45 Guns! How the idea of firearms really forced some mechanical and philosophical choices. 30:30 We nail down Unarmored Defense for all classes. 35:45 Making Critical Failures Matter – Misfires. 36:55 Our updated Skills for Boomtown. 39:15 Your starter adventuring party in Gallow Springs! 42:25 Our updates to magic that make it special and unique in Boomtown: Prophets and Technology. 46:15 Final Thoughts.

You’ve seen the trailer. You saw the #MinisMonday post… Tony’s birthday game where Chris and Dave teamed up to run our group through a tabletop wargame in our own custom Marvel Universe of 6-1-SHIT, where the heroes were brought to Battleplanet to fight the SECRET WARS! In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly of our custom, simplified, Heroclix system that allowed for a game that reflected the scope of the Secret Wars: The Avengers, The Fantastic Four, The X-Men, The Heroes of Hells Kitchen, and our homebrewed heroes as they fought the Brotherhood of Evil Mutants, The Masters of Evil, Doctor Doom, Ultron, and Galactus! This is another in the long line of adapting wargaming to your table, regardless of your experience! 3:00 DM Chris provides the background for the game. 7:55 DM Tony’s initial reaction to the game. 10:00 The difficulty with introducing wargaming into your games and how to simplify it for everyone to enjoy. 14:45 We start breaking down the mechanics and set-up of the game. 18:43 The benefits of co-DMing. 21:50 An easy system to adapt to any table and any game. 30:20 A run through of the basic mechanics and set-up. We use Captain America as our example. 36:10 We discuss the difficulty of integrating our Journey System into the game. 43:22 Final Thoughts.

One of the easiest ways to make your campaign and your setting feel real, immersive, and unique is by taking away the certitude that magic is always going to act the same way. This mysterious, world-altering energy should not ever be completely understood by your characters, as the discovery of it is a big part of the fun. In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to respond to a listener question about their homebrewed idea of making magic work differently in different areas of their world. They ask how we might approach it in our ever-growing, crowdsourced Boomtown campaign setting. 1:35 Our listener question from The OMG Father, Wyman! 3:15 Simple ways to approach making magic change, altering Difficulty Classes and Damage output. 4:15 DM Chris harkens back to the Green Lantern Corps and leans into our use of Components as trackable resources. 6:05 How DM Dave altered magic in the world in our recent Dragonlance campaign. 8:05 Making the zones of magic random, and DM Chris’ concern of specifically targeting arcane casters. 10:25 Motivating players to adventure by seeking tech. 12:12 Employing more narratively focused elements by having the player and DM work together to create something new. 16:45 Leaning into the resource management for spellcasting. 21:45 Allowing the tech to be utilized by any character. A Gunslinger with a Staff of Healing? Why not? 25:25 Good stories come from the characters having to struggle. Always beating the monsters is fun in a one-shot, but makes for a really boring campaign. 26:35 DM Tony asks what the tech looks like in Boomtown? 31:10 Charging up mundane tech… the Battery of the planet Oa and bringing in a usable Craft Item skill. 35:50 Final Thoughts.

We continue to build upon Boomtown - our real-time worldbuilding experiment - armed with the comments of our listeners. Having been playing through the Lord of the Rings Roleplaying Game, we’ve experienced firsthand how alterations to the classes available for players really helps to lend a unique and immersive quality to the campaign setting – setting it apart from all others. In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to discuss the class that is most effected by the inciting incident of Boomtown – namely, that arcane magic is derived from ancient technology being recovered in the Wastes. We take him from 1st to 3rd level and, along the way, discuss the changes that reflect our weird west setting. Make sure to Join the Conversation! 3:50 Naming our western Wizard. 5:55 Do we rename the Wizard class like we changed Clerics to Prophets? 7:55 We continue to nail down the idea that all classes receive Unarmored Defense. 13:30 The idea behind low hit points for Wizards. 16:05 Our customized Saving Throws. 17:20 The all-important stat rolls. 20:30 The changes to our Skill list. 23:00 What do we mean when the technology is “warping” people? 25:00 The Component Pouch. 30:45 One last Frontier Pack and his starting equipment. 33:45 We delve into how spellcasting works and some changes to make the Wizard preparing spells. 45:30 Do Schools of Magic make sense in Boomtown? The idea of Wizards taking a Technology Path. 53:15 Our 3rd Level Engineer! 54:05 Final Thoughts.

We continue to build upon Boomtown - our real-time worldbuilding experiment - armed with the comments of our listeners. Having been playing through the Lord of the Rings Roleplaying Game, we’ve experienced firsthand how alterations to the classes available for players really helps to lend a unique and immersive quality to the campaign setting – setting it apart from all others. In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to discuss Clerics in a world where all the magic that is known seems to be technologically-based. We take them from 1st to 3rd level and, along the way, discuss the changes that reflect our weird west setting. Make sure to Join the Conversation! 4:00 The Name! Always start with the name. Introducing Sister Mercy Cain. 5:30 Renaming the Cleric: The Prophet Class. 7:20 Rolling Mercy’s stats. 10:50 Customizing Saving Throws. 13:30 A short step back into Sneak Attack and finesse weapons in regards to Firearms. 16:50 No Plate Mail in the western setting - Unarmored Defense for all classes. 21:12 Skills and a discussion on a Preach skill instead of Religion. 28:00 Everyone gets a Frontier Pack! Building out equipment and weapons. 34:30 We begin to discuss spellcasting for the Prophet class – 3 separate ideas. 42:50 Leveling Sister Mercy to 2nd level and our discussion on Channel Divinity, Domains, and Deities. 53:00 Our 3rd Level Prophet! 53:30 Final Thoughts.

We continue to drive down deeper into our real-time worldbuilding experiment armed with the comments of our listeners. Having been playing through the Lord of the Rings Roleplaying Game, we’ve experienced firsthand how alterations to the classes available for players really helps to lend a unique and immersive quality to the campaign setting – setting it apart from all others. In this episode, Tony, Chris, and Dave sit down to discuss what a Rogue would look like in our Boomtown campaign setting.  We take him from 1st to 3rd level and, along the way, discuss the changes that reflect our weird west setting. Make sure to Join the Conversation! 3:03 What do we call the class? Rogue, Thief, Outlaw, Bandit? 3:55 Wait, what is this character’s name? 4:35 DM Tony comes up with an interesting change for Saving Throw proficiencies. 8:50 DM Chris comes through with John “Maverick” East! 9:45 John East’s stat roll out. 11:40 The idea of bringing in Unarmored Defense into the world for everyone. 14:30 What are his stats? A 6 in Wisdom?!? 20:25 We put our customizable Saving Throw proficiencies into play. 21:50 Maverick’s skills. 25:00 What equipment and weaponry does a Rogue start with in Boomtown? 26:00 DM Chris introduces the idea of the demolitions expert. 29:40 We begin discussing the Rogue Features as we level John East up. 33:25 The Rogue Superpower: Sneak Attack. 46:45 Rogue Archetypes. 50:51 Final Thoughts.