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200 episodes
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Neha PatelExplicit
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Date created
2020/07/10
Latest episode
2025/11/19
Average duration
19 min.
Release period
15 days
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Each week you will get a window into how I unpack the clutter and hard stuff in my mind. I will leave you with questions so you can do the same. The only expert on this podcast is YOU. Find me on Instagram: @unpackingmyself or email me [email protected]. Would love to hear from you!
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TRUST THE FEELING | Trusting your gut when the words and actions don't add up.
2025/11/19
There is a shift happening in the world where people are moving from just relying on their 5 senses to trusting the other senses we have been given such as our intuition and gut. We hear more and more people say "I can't explain it but I just have a feeling" but it can be hard to trust our gut if those around us demand an explanation andd information. It can make us doubt our gut or dismiss it because it doesn't make sense. In this episode I dive into all of this - how to lean into your gut, trust it and gain confidence in moving through life with our gut feelings at the forefront. If we don't learn to use our intuition and gut, we are leaving a valuable tool on the table as we go through life.
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
SPEAKING UP | Why so many of us shy away from speaking up in our life, and why it's time to change this.
2025/10/23
Have you ever found yourself wanting to speak up about something but you decide not to? It could be at work, with friends, with your spouse, at the store, at a restaurant. We don't want to create conflict or make it awkward. In this episode, I tap into all the reasons we often choose to stay quiet instead and why its important we don't in order for us to be our authentic self. The good hearted, compassionate, kind voices need to be louder in this world, and it starts with our own lives and interactions. I dive into how other people will try to discourage or make you doubt yourself when you speak up and how to combat this. Check it out!
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
OUR SHARED HUMANITY | How we lose sight of our humanity when we define ourselves—and others—by roles, titles, and identities.
2025/10/16
You know what we have become really good at doing? Coming up with labels and boxes to put people in. We want to pack a punch and invoke emotion with the least words possible. What better way than to call people names that puts them into a box. Eliminates the need to even have a rational, intellectual argument. In this episode, I unpack how easily we lose sight of our humanity when we define ourselves—and others—by our roles, beliefs, or identities. From "mom" or "entrepreneur" to political or religious boxes, these labels make us forget the deeper essence of who we are at our core. When we drop the labels, even for a moment, we reconnect with that pure, loving part of us that existed long before the world told us who to be. This episode is an invitation to remember that we are all human first—and that real connection, grace, and peace come when we live from that place.
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
INTENTIONALITY | The cost of not being intentional is greater than you think.
2025/10/08
Ever wake up and realize you've been living on autopilot — saying yes to things you didn't choose and following a path someone else set for you? In this episode, I unpack a quote by Brené Brown that got me thinking about what it really means to be intentional — and why we sometimes avoid it. Let's get honest about what (and who) we're prioritizing, so we can either make changes or drop the guilt and own our choices. Tune in for a dose of clarity and calm confidence.
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
LIFE WISDOM WITH MY MENTOR: JONATHAN ORD | A deep dive into real confidence and humility in leadership, choosing grace over ego, the struggles young people face today, and so much more.
2025/09/24
There are a small number of people who leave a lifelong impact on who you become. The individual I'm interviewing on this episode, Jonathan Ord, is one of those humans for me. You have to listen in order to understand why I look up to this individual for his example, principles and wisdom. He has a wonderful way of helping us come back to the core of who we are meant to be. A lot of things in the world today make us feel like humanity has drifted too far from who we are but I promise this episode will bring you back to a place of faith, hope and optimism for the world and humanity. Listen in to hear directly from one of the best humans I know!
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
FOLLOWING THE CROWD | Do you have control of your reality, or are you following theirs?
2025/09/18
It has never been more important than now to be in touch with your inner self and knowing so that your reality is an expression of you and not those around you. How do you do this when we are constantly being bombarded with opinions, reels, tiktoks, marketing to make us follow the crowd? In this episode, I dive into my observations and realizations around this topic and what happens when we follow the crowds versus our inner voice. This episode will invite you to reflect on how much of your reality is influenced by the crowd versus YOU.
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
PSYCHOLOGICAL VS PRACTICAL MOTIVE | What really drives your actions—the need itself, or the story behind it?
2025/09/10
Have you ever noticed the difference between doing something because it's necessary versus doing it because you want to be seen or because of insecurities? In this episode, I unpack the distinction between practical motive and psychological motive, and how this subtle shift can be the root of stress, disappointment, or peace in our lives. I share stories from a weekend at a Krishnamurti ashram, conversations over morning chai with my in-laws, and the insights that came from those moments. Check it out!
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
UNPACKING WITH MY DAUGHTER | The episode where I unpack live with a special guest - my daughter Saaya!
2025/09/05
Something I love doing is unpacking life with my kids too. Its a skill I want them to grow up having and using as they move through life. My eight year old daughter has been watching me for the last 5 years doing this podcast and asked if she could do an episode with me so here it is! We talk about the mind vs heart, friendship, how to release hard things and much more. Enjoy and listen with your kids!
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
EPISODE 200: OPINIONS | The downside of opinion overload - our own and others.
2025/08/28
Opinions seem to be a dime a dozen these days. Humans probably have always had opinions but now they are thrown in our face by every Joe Shmoe through social media, news, etc. Someone in my life recently shined a light on all my opinions, especially the unnecessary ones. In this episode, I unpack this for myself and what I discovered along the way. Are they all necessary? What is the impact of constant opinions on our mental and physical health? What happens when we reduce the opinions? How do you reduce your opinions? Listen in !
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
LIFE UPGRADE | How and why the universe pushes us beyond what's working in our life even though it feels "good enough."
2025/08/21
In this episode, I unpack a lesson from my old boss who told me, "don't get too comfortable with the status quo." At the time, I thought everything was great so why 'fix what ain't broken?' I later realized he was pointing to something deeper: when we settle into "good enough," we often miss out on the more life has for us. I talk about how life nudges us and gives us opportunities to upgrade if we pause and notice the opportunity. These moments can feel hard, uncomfortable and confusing like a reboot, but they're actually invitations to grow, expand, and experience life in ways we never imagined if we stayed comfortable. Check this episode out to see if you might have an upgrade opportunity right now in your life.
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
THE QUIET SHIFT | How the world is asking us to wake up. The flashy stuff is losing its shine — here's what's replacing it.
2025/08/14
I'm making a prediction in this episode - feel free to hold me to it. I think life's quieter truths are making a comeback. Its nothing new but when life gets easy, comfortable, we lose sight of the ideals and values and things that truly matter to us. We forget to defend it, speak up about it and prioritize it. And thank god that when we forget the important things in life, the universe nudges us and eventually smacks us in the face if we still don't listen. There is a heaviness in the world but I see the light at the end of the tunnel. Let me explain how and why. My hope is that this episode will alleviate some of the heaviness you might be carrying or feeling. Give it a listen!
Let's unpack together! Sometimes all you need is a nudge and someone to ask the questions so you can find the answers for you. Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
SEEING YOURSELF | The eyes show us the world, but only when we close them can we truly see ourselves.
2025/06/19
Isn't it ironic that we can see everything with our eyes—except ourselves. In this episode, I reflect on why true self-connection requires us to go inward. Meditation, stillness, and closing our eyes aren't just practices—they're the only way to truly see who we are beyond the noise and connect with ourselves. We will travel all over to see the world but what a tragedy it would be to go our entire lives without seeing what matters most - ourselves.
Want to unpack a topic that is creating mental clutter for you? Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
TOUGH LOVE | Do your actions invite honesty or flattery?
2025/05/28
A recent post by Adam Grant on one of the most underrated skills being able to receive tough love inspired this episode. A majority of people struggle to receive constructive criticism from others. In this episode I explore why that is and why we take it so personally. On the surface most people say they don't mind the unpleasant truths but I share a way to know whether that is actually true for you or not. If you are committed to growing, improving then you can't be surrounded by people who feed you comforting lies and your actions dictate whether people will tell you the hard truths or not.
Want to unpack a topic that is creating mental clutter for you? Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
WHAT GROUNDS YOU | Why having something to ground us matters now more than ever.
2025/05/14
Have you ever thought about what grounds you in life? Something constant, steady, a strong foundation that brings you back no matter what is happening around you or to you? In this episode, I talk about the many things past generations had but how we are moving away from a lot of them. Life changes with each generation but the need for something that grounds us is something we all still need. I share the deeper significance behind all this and why it matters so much. I will also leave you with a question to help you find what that could be for you.
Want to unpack a topic that is creating mental clutter for you? Send me a DM or check out my website: www.unpackingmyself.com
OUR PERSONALITY | Realizing that the parts of our personality that brings pain, also is the source of so much good.
2025/04/30
When things don't go our way in life, its easy to get caught up in self-doubt and become our very own harshest critic. We wonder why we let something happen or why we keep doing this particular thing. Many times we are often saying, why were you being who you are but a friend recently said something brilliant that made me realize that what I needed to do was not be overly critical of myself but rather do a slight perspective shift. This is what I did recently and like magic, instantly, any negative self talk ceased to exist. Listen in if you get annoyed with your "faults" to see how you can see them differently and how you can realize the upside.
Want to unpack a topic or something you are going through with me? Send me a DM
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P Leboeuf 2022/11/13
Good stuff!
Working with Neha in the past, I’ve always thought very highly of her. Neha’s genuine, concern, dedication and commitment to any task we teamed up o...
jfffghjjkkkoiiuuyyrreeewwq 2021/04/11
Really Insightful
Neha is a gem. She plants little nuggets of wisdom that I continue to reflect upon months later. Highly recommend this podcast!
WhiteKnuckle 2020/12/31
Love for Neha
I worked with Neha for years. She is a seasoned thinker and love her perspective, you will too!
mr i dont like this game 2020/12/07
Raw, Genuine and Relatable
Thank you Neha for digging into topics that we can all relate to. We often push certain emotions down and pretend they don’t exist because for some r...
Chrissy Buechler 2020/11/25
Emotion intelligence at its best
I love learning from Neha and her thoughts! I love the Jonathan Ord interview... so great to be reminded what is important. Thank you for sharing ...
Awake5am 2020/10/15
Insightful, authentic and funny!
I love this podcast. Neha is honest, genuine, wise and relatable. I have listened to the first two and feel like I came away with not just learning ab...
Genuine mama 2020/10/13
Didn’t know how much I needed this
Love the raw honesty of Neha’s podcast. All things we want .. NO...NEED to talk about but rarely have the courage to do so... even with our best of fr...
Dr. Rinesh Ganatra 2020/08/09
WOW!! SO Insightful and Well Articulated!!
Just listened to the first two episodes- Neha captures the pure essence of human emotion in topics that most people avoid talking or thinking about ev...
muhammady 2020/08/05
Waiting for the next episode
Can you talk more about your last full-time job, how did you manage to walk up career ladder so fast and when is the right time to quit? I'm working a...
Nisha Ganatra 2020/07/28
Authentic & Brilliant!
Love everything about this podcast! The authenticity and realness behind Neha’s approach makes for a perfect podcast with so many thought provoking ge...
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