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FLiP Talks: Divorce, Separation & Family Law

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41 episodes
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English
Date created
2020/07/21
Latest episode
2026/10/06
Average duration
29 min.
Release period
80 days

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Going through divorce or separation can feel overwhelming, confusing, and emotional. FLiP – Family Law in Partnership is here to guide you every step of the way. Our podcast combines expert legal advice with compassionate support, helping all individuals navigate the complexities of family law with clarity and confidence. In each episode, we explore practical solutions from divorce and financial arrangements to child-related matters, and provide insights into NCDR options such as mediation, arbitration, and court processes. We are often joined by third-party specalists, who share advice, strategies, and real-world perspectives to help you make informed decisions while managing the emotional impact of these life changes. Whether you're just starting your journey or seeking reassurance along the way, this podcast is your trusted companion - We help people navigate family change with clarity, care and constructive support in every episode. Change is never easy, but it can be constructive. Subscribe and join us as we face family law challenges together, with guidance from experts you can rely on.

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Episode 40 - Should I Divorce in England & Wales or Hong Kong?
2026/10/06
In this episode, David Allison is joined by Caroline McNally of Hugill & Ip to compare divorce and financial claims in England and Wales with the system in Hong Kong. The discussion focuses on issues relevant to individuals with connections to both jurisdictions. Looking at both jurisdictions, they cover: • Jurisdiction for divorce, including domicile and residency • Grounds for divorce • Financial claims on divorce • Maintenance claims • Claims available to non-married couples • Pre- and post-nuptial agreements • Key differences between England and Wales and Hong Kong  About the speakers: David Allison is a highly regarded family lawyer and accredited mediator. The focus of his practice is financial claims on divorce, particularly those involving jurisdiction disputes, international asset structures, and families with connections to multiple countries. He works closely with overseas lawyers and professionals to coordinate strategies that protect individual's interests while maintaining a constructive, solutions-focused approach. Known for his calm and thoughtful style, David combines technical precision with a deep understanding of the human context behind each case. He supports people through challenging transitions with clear guidance, helping them move forward with stability and confidence. Caroline McNally is recognised locally and internationally as one of the leading family lawyers in Hong Kong. Caroline qualified in England and Wales in 1998 and in Hong Kong in 2014. In London, she worked at top tier firms before relocating to Hong Kong to set up the family team at an independent boutique law firm.  Caroline joined Hugill & Ip in 2023. Although Caroline has extensive experience in litigation, she is well-known for taking a pragmatic approach and for guiding clients sensitively through one of the most difficult times of their lives. She is a trained mediator and collaborative lawyer and uses these skills to find tailor-made and creative solutions for clients. In May 2020 Caroline broke new legal ground in Hong Kong by acting for a party in the first Private Financial Adjudication, where the parties chose to appoint an adjudicator to settle their dispute. Caroline held the position of Chair of the Hong Kong Family Law Association (HKFLA) from 2016 to 2018.  Caroline is a Fellow of the International Academy of Family Lawyers and is President Elect Designate of the Asia Pacific Chapter. * Disclaimer: • At the time of recording this podcast the proposed reform in England and Wales affecting how finances are divided when relationships end for non-married couples had not been announced. To understand more about the consultation, it can be accessed online here: https://www.gov.uk/government/consultations/a-fairer-end-to-relationships.
Episode 39 Should I Divorce in England & Wales or New York?
2026/09/11
In this episode, David Allison is joined by Mudita Chawla of Chemtob Moss Forman & Beyda to compare divorce and financial claims in England and Wales with the system in the state of New York. The discussion focuses on issues relevant to individuals with connections to both jurisdictions. Looking at both jurisdictions, they cover: • Jurisdiction for divorce, including domicile and residency • Grounds for divorce • Financial claims on divorce • Maintenance claims • Claims available to non-married couples • Pre- and post-nuptial agreements • Key differences between England and Wales and New York, United States of America.   ** Disclaimer: At the time of recording this podcast the proposed reform in England and Wales affecting how finances are divided when relationships end for non married couples had not been announced. To understand more about the consultation, it can be accessed online here: https://www.gov.uk/government/consultations/a-fairer-end-to-relationships.  About the speakers: David Allison is a highly regarded family lawyer and accredited mediator. The focus of his practice is financial claims on divorce, particularly those involving jurisdiction disputes, international asset structures, and families with connections to multiple countries. He works closely with overseas lawyers and professionals to coordinate strategies that protect individual's interests while maintaining a constructive, solutions-focused approach. Known for his calm and thoughtful style, David combines technical precision with a deep understanding of the human context behind each case. He supports people through challenging transitions with clear guidance, helping them move forward with stability and confidence. Known for his calm and thoughtful style, David combines technical precision with a deep understanding of the human context behind each case. He supports people through challenging transitions with clear guidance, helping them move forward with stability and confidence. Mudita Chawla represents clients in all aspects of family and matrimonial law. She has significant experience settling and litigating disputed cases before both the trial and appellate courts. Mudita is an assertive and compassionate advocate who fights relentlessly for her clients. Known for helping clients navigate through the divorce process and understand how the legal system works, Mudita keenly listens to her clients' concerns and crafts legal strategies with them which realize their goals. She is a skilled negotiator who recognizes that her clients' needs are often best met through settlement. At other times, however, when it is in her clients' best interests, Mudita will zealously litigate their cases, making her clients' goals her highest priority. Mudita's tenacity and attention to detail are invaluable assets that her clients revere time and again. Mudita is a member of the International Academy of Family Lawyers, where she serves as the Assistant Treasurer, the New York Bar Association (Family Law Section), the Women's Bar Association of the State of New York and the New York Women's Bar Association. She served as a member of Sanctuary for Families' Pro Bono Committee. Mudita has been qualified as an expert to testify on New York State Matrimonial Law. She has served as a faculty member of the American Bar Association, Commission on Domestic & Sexual Violence on numerous occasions and the ABA International Law Section, a guest lecturer at The Annual Fordham Forum on Domestic Violence and has presented at conferences of the International Academy of Family Lawyers.
Episode 38- Should I Divorce in England & Wales or Ontario, Canada?
2026/05/12
In this episode, Elizabeth Hicks is joined by Oren Weinberg to compare divorce and financial claims in England and Wales with the system in the province Ontario, Canada. The discussion focuses on issues relevant to individuals with connections to both jurisdictions. Looking at both jurisdictions, they cover: Jurisdiction for divorce, including domicile and residency Financial claims on divorce Maintenance claims Claims available to non-married couples Pre- and post-nuptial agreements Key differences between England and Wales and Ontario, Canada. About the speakers: Elizabeth Hicks is a leading expert in complex, cross-border family law matters. She specialises in advising high and ultra-high net worth individuals on divorce, financial remedy disputes, asset protection, and trusts, frequently involving multiple jurisdictions. Her practice also includes complex private Children Act cases and the negotiation of pre- and post-nuptial agreements, often with an international dimension. As a trained collaborative lawyer, Elizabeth is highly experienced in resolving disputes outside of court, including the use of the collaborative process to structure international pre- and post-nuptial agreements. Elizabeth works with a diverse client base, including entrepreneurs, City professionals, and high-profile individuals and their families. Known for her strategic approach and strong advocacy, she combines technical excellence with a deeply client-focused style. Oren Weinberg has practiced family law exclusively since 2005. He advocates for his clients when negotiating agreements, appearing before trial and appellate courts as well as in mediations and arbitrations. Oren handles all aspects of family law including property and support, parental decision-making responsibility (custody), and parenting time (access). Oren acts for clients based in Ontario and internationally. ** Disclaimer: At the time of recording this podcast the proposed reform in England and Wales affecting how finances are divided when relationships end for non married couples had not been announced. To understand more about the consultation, it can be accessed online here: https://www.gov.uk/government/consultations/a-fairer-end-to-relationships.
FLiP 37 - Should I Divorce in England & Wales or India? Comparing Divorce Laws and Financial Remedies
2026/04/17
In this episode, David Allison is joined by Lavanya Regunathan Fischer to compare divorce and financial claims in England and Wales with the system in India. The discussion focuses on issues relevant to individuals with connections to both jurisdictions. Looking at both jurisdictions, they cover: Jurisdiction for divorce Grounds for divorce and the concept of "irretrievable breakdown" of the marriage Religious vs secular marriage systems in India Financial claims on divorce Pre- and post-nuptial agreements Child arrangements  Claims available to non-married couples * see disclaimer at the bottom of these notes Key differences between England and Wales and India  About the speakers: David Allison is a highly regarded family lawyer and accredited mediator. The focus of his practice is financial claims on divorce, particularly those involving jurisdiction disputes, international asset structures, and families with connections to multiple countries. He works closely with overseas lawyers and professionals to coordinate strategies that protect individual's interests while maintaining a constructive, solutions-focused approach. Known for his calm and thoughtful style, David combines technical precision with a deep understanding of the human context behind each matter he deals with. He supports people through challenging transitions with clear guidance, helping them move forward with stability and confidence. David is a member of both the International Academy of Family Lawyers, where he is chair of the Gender Identity and Sexuality Committee and Secretary to the Executive Committee, and the UK & Ireland LGBT Family Law Institute.  Lavanya Regunathan Fischer began her law practice in 1998, working at J.B. Dadachanji & Co. in New Delhi, then worked for GE Capital in India & USA and eventually for the Solicitor General of India. After relocating to Heidelberg (2003) and then London (2005), she reinvented her practice at the intersection between India and European legal systems. Ever since, Lavanya has been advising on Indian law internationally. Her LLB degree is from the University of Delhi (1998) and her LLM is from the LSE (2006). Lavanya is a member of the Indian Supreme Court Bar Association and her legal scholarship (child custody, guardianship, surrogacy arrangements, migration law and citizenship) has been published in peer-reviewed journals, as book chapters and in newspapers. ** Disclaimers: At the time of recording this podcast the proposed reform in England & Wales affecting how finances are divided when relationships end for non married couples had not been announced. To understand more about the consultation, it can be accessed online here:  https://www.gov.uk/government/consultations/a-fairer-end-to-relationships  For clarity, the Special Marriage Act, 1954 which is commonly used by interfaith couples and others seeking a civil marriage, requires a 30-day notice period before a marriage can be solemnised. While this notice process may alert family members or others to the intended marriage and create opportunities for interference, any objections raised must be based on legally recognised grounds under the Act. Familial, social, or community disapproval, by itself, is not a veto over the decision of two consenting adults to marry. India does not presently have a matrimonial property regime under which assets are pooled and divided upon divorce. Questions relating to HUF (Hindu Undivided Family) property, inherited property, and self-acquired property continue to be governed by their respective legal principles, and ownership ordinarily remains with the title holder or person legally entitled to the asset. The point being made here relates primarily to the manner in which courts may consider a spouse's financial resources and access to assets while determining maintenance and other financial relief, rather than suggesting a direct redistribution of ownership in such property.
FLiP 35 - Should I Divorce in England & Wales or New Zealand? Comparing Divorce Laws and Financial Remedies
2026/04/14
David Allison and Jeremy Johnson  In this episode, David Allison is joined by leading barrister Jeremy Johnson to compare divorce and financial claims in England and Wales with the system in New Zealand. The discussion focuses on issues relevant to individuals with connections to both jurisdictions. Looking at both jurisdictions, they cover: • Jurisdiction for divorce, including domicile and residency • Financial claims on divorce • Maintenance claims • Claims available to non-married couples • Pre- and post-nuptial agreements • Key differences between England and Wales and New Zealand  About the speakers: David Allison is a highly regarded family lawyer and accredited mediator. The focus of his practice is financial claims on divorce, particularly those involving jurisdiction disputes, international asset structures, and families with connections to multiple countries. He works closely with overseas lawyers and professionals to coordinate strategies that protect individual's interests while maintaining a constructive, solutions-focused approach. Known for his calm and thoughtful style, David combines technical precision with a deep understanding of the human context behind each matter he deals with. He supports people through challenging transitions with clear guidance, helping them move forward with stability and confidence. David is a member of both the International Academy of Family Lawyers, where he is chair of the Gender Identity and Sexuality Committee and Secretary to the Executive Committee, and the UK & Ireland LGBT Family Law Institute.  Jeremy Johnson is one of New Zealand's leading barristers. Jeremy is an experienced trial, arbitration and appellate advocate with expertise in relationship property, commercial, shareholder, insolvency, equity and trust law.  Jeremy works across the Asia-Pacific region.  Jeremy is a member of the Society of Trust and Estate Practitioners (STEP), a Fellow of the Arbitrators and Mediators Institute of New Zealand (AMINZ), a Fellow of the International Academy of Family Lawyers (IAFL), and a member of the International Trust Arbitration Organisation Advisory Board (ITAO).
FLiP 36 - Should I Divorce in England & Wales or Virginia? Comparing Divorce Laws and Financial Remedies
2026/03/24
In this episode, David Allison is joined by leading attorney Katharine Maddox to compare divorce and financial claims in England and Wales with the system in the state of Virginia. The discussion focuses on issues relevant to individuals with connections to both jurisdictions. Looking at both jurisdictions, they cover: Jurisdiction for divorce, including domicile and residency Financial claims on divorce Maintenance claims Claims available to non-married couples Pre and post-nuptial agreements Key differences between England and Wales and Virginia *Update: Effective from July 1, 2026: Viewers and listeners should be aware that the law in Virginia regarding the timeline to file for a divorce has changed since the date of recording. For more information, see Virginia House Bill 303: https://lis.virginia.gov/bill-details/20261/HB303/text/HB303  About the speakers: David Allison is a highly regarded family lawyer and accredited mediator. The focus of his practice is financial claims on divorce, particularly those involving jurisdiction disputes, international asset structures, and families with connections to multiple countries. He works closely with overseas lawyers and professionals to coordinate strategies that protect individual's interests while maintaining a constructive, solutions-focused approach. Known for his calm and thoughtful style, David combines technical precision with a deep understanding of the human context behind each matter he deals with. He supports people through challenging transitions with clear guidance, helping them move forward with stability and confidence. David is a member of both the International Academy of Family Lawyers, where he is chair of the Gender Identity and Sexuality Committee and Secretary to the Executive Committee, and the UK & Ireland LGBT Family Law Institute.  Katharine Maddox has practiced family law for over 25 years and is a founding partner of Maddox & Gerock, P.C., a boutique domestic relations law firm located in Northern Virginia.  Katharine is the president of the USA Chapter of the International Academy of Family Lawyers and she is a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.  Katharine regularly lectures on family law issues throughout the United States as well as internationally.  Further, Katharine frequently publishes articles related to Virginia family law and she is the co-author of the Virginia chapter of an international family law treatise.  In addition to litigating family law matters, Katharine is a strong advocate for Alternative Dispute Resolution:  She is certified by the Virginia Supreme Court as a family law mediator and she regularly engages in the collaborative process.  When not practicing law, Katharine most enjoys spending time with her family and her two rescue dogs, gardening and cooking.    T: 020 7420 5000 or E: [email protected]
FLiP 34 - The "Must Knows" If You Are Considering a Move Abroad With Your Children
2025/11/25
In this episode Helen Greenfield and Chloe Oudiz break down the legal steps and practical considerations every parent must know when considering a move abroad with children. This conversation will help you make informed, confident decisions for your family's future. Their conversation covers: • What are the rules surrounding travelling abroad with children on a short and a long term basis? • What applications can be made to deal with any dispute? • What does the process look like once an application is made? • How do you decide which country deals with any dispute? • What factors will be considered by the court in making their decision? • What Non-Court Dispute Resolution options are there to resolve any dispute? • What can be done to prevent a move? The Hague Convention: https://www.hcch.net/en/states/hcch-members About the speakers: Helen Greenfield, Family Solicitor, Family Law in Partnership Helen Greenfield is a Director and Mediator at Family Law in Partnership. Helen advises on all matters relating to family breakdown, divorce and cohabitation. She has a particular interest in helping those who have been affected by domestic abuse. When Helen is mediating, she aims to promote constructive dialogue, reduce conflict, and minimise the emotional and financial strain associated with the more acrimonious processes. https://www.flip.co.uk/profiles/helen-greenfield/ Chloe Oudiz, The Divorce and Separation Coach Chloe Oudiz is a Certified Divorce Coach specialising in helping international families divorce with less conflict. With 17 years experience working in the City and Masters degrees in both Law and in International Affairs, Chloe's support focuses on the business of divorce and helping her clients acquire the right negotiation and conflict management skills to reach agreements out of court. https://thedivorceandseparationcoach.com/
FLiP 33 - Should I Divorce in England or France? Comparing Divorce Laws and Financial Remedies
2025/10/13
Divorcing across borders can feel daunting - especially when the choice of country could shape the outcome especically with regards to the financial settlement. In this episode, David Allison and Isabelle Rein-Lescaterreyes compare the approaches in England & Wales and in France, highlighting the key differences couples should be aware of before deciding where to issue divorce proceedings. Their conversation covers: Jurisdiction for divorce in light of the EU system Issues with sole domicile and The Hague Convention Financial remedy relief in the context of the Matrimonial Property Regime (France) Financial remedy relief under the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 (England) Pre-Nuptial Agreements  Cultural differences in relation to the concept of "needs" Maintenance provision Costs and privacy Jurisdiction races Overseas financial relief in light of Part 3 proceedings About the speakers: David Allison, Family Solicitor, Family Law in Partnership David Allison is a director at Family Law in Partnership and a leading family lawyer with particular expertise in international divorce and financial claims. He represents business owners, entrepreneurs, bankers, lawyers, and their partners, often in high-value cases involving complex jurisdictional disputes and overseas assets. David has extensive experience securing recognition and enforcement of foreign judgments and advising clients on financial relief following overseas divorces. https://www.flip.co.uk/profiles/david-allison/ Isabelle Rein-Lescastereyres, Family Solicitor, BWG Isabelle is a partner at BWG. She is bilingual and has many years of experience in complex international situations, in particular with neighbouring French-speaking and English-speaking countries. Isabelle favours "a realistic and constructive approach in order to maximise chances for a rapid conflict resolution". With her HEC (Ecole des Hautes Etudes Commerciales) training, Isabelle advises individuals, families and trusts and represents them in all aspects of divorce and family law, particularly in dealing with complex patrimonial and financial issues. In particular, she assists French expatriates and foreigners residing in France on family and patrimonial issues relating to their international mobility. https://bwg.law/en/avocat/isabelle-rein-lescastereyres/ Both Isabelle and David are members of the International Academy of Family Lawyers (IAFL).
FLiP 32 - International Co-Parenting After Separation
2025/09/08
Helen Greenfield and Chloe Oudiz meet to discuss international, long-distance co-parenting. With insights from their respective experiences, they provide practical tips on how to approach long distance co-parenting. Their conversation covers: Jurisdiction issues which come to light upon separation Who keeps the passports Contact and time spent with the "long distance" parent Parental responsibility Communicating as co-parents The introduction of a new partner The benefit of mediation Top tips for those thinking of embarking on long-distance co-parenting About the speakers: Helen Greenfield, Family Solicitor, Family Law in Partnership Helen Greenfield is a Director and Mediator at Family Law in Partnership. Helen advises on all matters relating to family breakdown, divorce and cohabitation. She has a particular interest in helping those who have been affected by domestic abuse. When Helen is mediating, she aims to promote constructive dialogue, reduce conflict, and minimise the emotional and financial strain associated with the more acrimonious processes. https://www.flip.co.uk/profiles/helen-greenfield/ Chloe Oudiz, The Divorce and Separation Coach Chloe Oudiz is a Certified Divorce Coach specialising in helping international families divorce with less conflict. With 17 years experience working in the City and Masters degrees in both Law and in International Affairs, Chloe's support focuses on the business of divorce and helping her clients acquire the right negotiation and conflict management skills to reach agreements out of court. https://thedivorceandseparationcoach.com/
FLiP 31 - Financial Planning After Separation
2025/05/06
Precis: Kara Swift and Lucy Taylor meet again to discuss financial planning after separation or divorce. Following their recent conversation on how to move from financial vulnerability to financial resilience, Kara and Lucy discuss finances following separation and divorce.  As they explain, the implications of the numbers at the outset can be huge and if you do not have an understanding of the family's finances it can be dauting.  Professionals like Kara and Lucy can help you move forward with confidence. With insights from their respective experience, they provide practical tips on how to approach your finances from the moment of separation. Their conversation covers: Divorce finances (including Form E) Cash flow planning to meet your personal goals and objectives When to get help from legal and financial professionals Personal considerations around returning to work Attitudes towards financial risk Making capital and investments work for you   About the speakers: Kara Swift, Family Solicitor, Family Law in Partnership Kara advises on all areas of family law and has a particular interest in assisting individuals and families with complex financial issues, often with an international dimension. This includes advising on the financial aspects of divorce and the separation of unmarried couples, as well as preparing Cohabitation Agreements and Pre-Nuptial Agreements. Lucy Taylor, Investment Manager, Evelyn Partners Lucy has over 27 years' experience within the investment management industry.  Over her career she has worked in large and small firms helping a broad range of individuals understand and reach their savings goals, including specialising in serious injury.
FLiP 30 - Moving from Financial Vulnerability to Financial Resilience
2025/04/07
With the context that only 53% of women feel financially independent, Kara Swift invited Lucy Taylor to discuss her mission to encourage women to make sure they are financially future proofed and strong. In a conversation that focusses on how to move from financial vulnerability to financial resilience, they discuss: The division of decisions within a relationship The difference between being part of a married or unmarried couple How Cohabitation Agreements can provide financial certainty for unmarried women How a pre-nuptial agreement can set the tone for a financially healthy marriage Paying your future self – the importance of keeping up pension contributions if you take a career beak Get out funds Planning for the next chapter whether that is older age or single life. About the speakers: Kara Swift, Family Solicitor, Family Law in Partnership Kara advises on all areas of family law and has a particular interest in assisting individuals and families with complex financial issues, often with an international dimension. This includes advising on the financial aspects of divorce and the separation of unmarried couples, as well as preparing Cohabitation Agreements and Pre-Nuptial Agreements. Lucy Taylor, Investment Manager, Evelyn Partners Lucy has over 27 years' experience within the investment management industry.  Over her career she has worked in large and small firms helping a broad range of individuals understand and reach their savings goals, including specialising in serious injury.
Protecting Children During Court Proceedings - FLiP 29
2024/12/05
Daniel Coombes and Jo Harrison discuss how to protect children's mental health when their parents are in family court proceedings, or any process where a third party needs to make a decision for them, such as arbitration. Whether proceedings are about the children themselves, or the parents' finances, Daniel and Jo agree that both the parents and the lawyers should do as much as possible to insulate children from the process and stress associated with it.  They talk about direct ways to look out for children, as well as practical strategies to help parents protect themselves and support everyone's wellbeing.  This in-depth conversation covers, but is not limited to: ·         When and how to speak to children about family proceedings ·         The value of giving children a voice and how to do this in an age-appropriate way ·         The difference between feeling heard and being stuck in the middle ·         The importance of communication and trust between parent and child ·         Spotting signs that a child is struggling with their mental health ·         Getting help from third parties such as family, school and experts ·         Children's involvement in proceedings, such as CAFCASS interviews ·         The benefit of boundaries and why parents should set them with their lawyers ·         The impact of stress on decision making ·         Dealing with disappointing outcomes ·         Managing handovers when you're in conflict Discussing separation, Daniel comments "It's one of those moments in one's life where decisions that you make, behaviours that you exhibit, have profound impacts and can really seriously and significantly affect the future of our children."   About the speakers: Daniel Coombes Daniel is an experienced family solicitor, mediator and collaborative practitioner.  He recognises that decisions made at the time of separation will have long-lasting ramifications and helps parents to focus on what is important and what needs prioritising – in the short, medium and long term. He has a reputation for handling the most challenging children cases - including where there are mental health concerns, allegations of abuse and parental alienation - and achieving creative but workable solutions, both in and out of the court arena. Jo Harrison Jo is an experienced therapist working with individuals and couples who are separating.  A former family lawyer, Jo has a depth of experience that benefits individuals and couples as she supports them through the separation and divorce process.  Jo is the author of the book 'Five Arguments All Couples (Need To) Have And Why The Washing Up Matters', and is regularly quoted in the press.  She has made appearances on ITV's This Morning (the Relationship Clinic) and Marina Fogle's The Parent Hood.
How do we tell the children we are separating? - FLiP 28
2024/11/14
In this podcast Elizabeth Fletcher, a Family Solicitor and Director at Family Law in Partnership, is joined by Couples Therapist and Divorce Consultant Jo Harrison to discuss a question they are often asked – How do we tell the children we are separating? Referencing a blog written by Jo, which highlights the ideal situation of parents communicating together, they consider a range of scenarios and topics that lead on from this, including: ·         Planning the conversation together ·         Agreeing an age-appropriate narrative that is helpful for children ·         Preparing for questions children might ask ·         Helping children answer questions about the separation ·         The role of other adults and caregivers such as family members and teachers ·         The danger of replaying negative parental dynamics ·         Safety issues and circumstance in which you wouldn't want to have this conversation jointly ·         What happens when one parent wants to introduce a new partner ·         Evolution of the conversation over time and the opportunity to try again.  The materials referenced in the podcast can be found here: ·         FLiP Blog - How to Tell Children You Are Separating: www.flip.co.uk/how-to-tell-children/ ·         Resolution guide - Parenting Through Separation: https://resolution.org.uk/publications-books/parenting-through-separation-guide-single-copy/ About the speakers: Jo Harrison Jo is an experienced therapist working with individuals and couples who are separating.  A former family lawyer, Jo has a depth of experience that benefits individuals and couples as she supports them through the separation and divorce process.  Jo is the author of the book 'Five Arguments All Couples (Need To) Have And Why The Washing Up Matters', and is regularly quoted in the press.  She has made appearances on ITV's This Morning (the Relationship Clinic) and Marina Fogle's The Parent Hood.   Elizabeth Fletcher A highly regarded family solicitor and mediator, Elizabeth advises parents on how to manage the arrangements for their children and finances following the breakdown of their marriage, relationship or civil partnership. She has particular experience navigating complicated private law children arrangements, including those with an international element. #divorce #separation #children #familylaw #childarrangements
Untangling the Mental Load after Divorce and Separation - FLiP27
2024/05/01
In this episode of the FLiP podcast, Senior Associate Hannah Greene and FLiP's in-house Divorce Consultant and Individual & Relationship Therapist Jo Harrison discuss how couples can manage their mental load once they separate. In this wide-ranging discussion, Hannah and Jo look at how tasks within a relationship are often divided and the impact a separation may have on mental load as individuals seek to resume roles which they may have relinquished during the relationship. There is an acknowledgement that many separated parents wish to be seen as a "competent parent" as they move into the next chapter of their lives, but this can be hard and it can take some adjustment. Jo suggests that the key to managing the transition successfully is goodwill and fostering a good relationship through communication and an acknowledgement of the contribution their former partner has made and is making: "The better that you get on with your former partner, the easier it will be." Hannah and Jo discuss the importance of building trust and sharing information with an acceptance that this can often take time to develop. Tread carefully and delicately, and think about your communication in terms of timing and tone. Appreciate and accept that your former partner may do things differently. At FLiP we have a team of Divorce Consultants and Individual & Relationship Therapists who have a wealth of experience in helping couples to improve their relationships, whether they are together or separating or separated. Our team offer a place to reflect on relationship issues in a confidential and stigma-free way. To learn more, visit our dedicated page found here. Jo Harrison is a Divorce Consultant and Individual & Relationship Therapist at FLiP. She is very experienced in working with individuals and couples who are separating. Hannah Greene is a Senior Associate at FLiP. She advises on all aspects of divorce and cohabitation, including financial and children matters, and on relationship agreements, including prenuptial and cohabitation agreements. A qualified collaborative lawyer, Hannah's focus is on providing clear, pragmatic advice whilst maintaining an empathetic approach, taking all available opportunities to minimise conflict, where possible.
FLiP26 Domestic Abuse: Working with Victims and Perpetrators
2023/09/15
In this episode of the FLiP podcast, FLiP Director Helen Greenfield, leads a discussion with Chantal Hughes, Chief Executive at The Hampton Trust on the topic of domestic abuse and working with victims and perpetrators. Helen and Chantal cover a wide range of points such as: Who is referred to The Hampton Trust. The interventions offered by The Hampton Trust such as Project CARA. The language surrounding domestic abuse and coercive control. The stigma encompassing domestic abuse. The impacts of abuse on a family, in particular children who as defined by The Domestic Abuse Bill can also be victims of domestic abuse, with reference to the BBC documentary featuring Ian Wright which The Hampton Trust were involved with. Whether victims feel reassured by perpetrator support work and whether it can be said it is a safeguarding system for the victims. About the Speakers The Hampton Trust was founded in 1996 to deliver domestic violence perpetrator programmes within the criminal justice system. They have developed community based interventions for families experiencing domestic abuse alongside providing innovative criminal justice response. Chantal Hughes has been part of The Hampton Trust since 2006 where she joined as the Domestic Abuse Services Manager before progressing to Deputy Chief Executive.  She took a 4-month sabbatical in 2011 to work for a charity providing rehabilitation to street children in one of the largest slums in Africa and remains connected to the work in Kenya. Taking up the role of CEO in 2013, Chantal has led the expansion of a range of domestic abuse and criminal justice interventions.  She remains firmly committed to tackling the root cause of domestic abuse by holding perpetrators to account and ensuring the voice of victims and children are at the forefront of the work. Helen Greenfield advises on all matters relating to family breakdown, divorce and cohabitation. She has a particular interest in helping those who have been affected by domestic abuse. Domestic abuse can include anything from isolating a person from their friends and family, monitoring their time or taking control over aspects of their everyday life (such as where they can go, who they can see, what to wear, their finances or when they can sleep. It can also include threats to hurt, to kill or even physical assault). Helen recognises that the legal implications of domestic abuse are accompanied by a plethora of emotional and other issues, and she aims to ensure that clients are able to work through them with the right advice and support. For further information: Helen Greenfield: https://www.flip.co.uk/profiles/helen-greenfield/ Chantal Hughes: https://hamptontrust.org.uk/about-us/management/ FLiP's Website: https://www.flip.co.uk/ The Hampton Trust's Website: https://hamptontrust.org.uk/about-us/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/family-law-in-partnership/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familylawinpartnership Twitter: https://twitter.com/FLiPLtd

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