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Send us Fan Mail This time of year, the pressure to be grateful is everywhere. But what if gratitude is being used to keep you small? In this episode, Kim Bolourtchi breaks open the false choice so many high-achievers are stuck in — that you can either be thankful for what you have or reach for something more. You’ll hear real stories of clients who stopped performing gratitude and started building their next level using one simple shift: “and.” This isn’t about being ungrateful.  It’s about being honest. You don’t have to leap without a net.  But you do have to move. And this episode will show you how. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail I’ll never forget standing backstage before one of my first big keynotes — mic on, ready to go, heart racing — when a single thought hit me: “What if they booked the wrong person?” That moment cracked something open. Because up until then, I had been obsessed with proving I belonged. I didn’t fully believe it — but I wanted everyone else to. This episode is about what happened next — the moment fear made me let go of performance and choose truth instead. It wasn’t by doing it right. It was by doing it real. If you’ve ever felt like you’re one mistake away from being found out, this one’s for you. It’s about what happens when you stop performing, start believing, and finally decide to be fully you. 🔥 The life you want isn’t waiting for more effort.  It’s waiting for more belief — and the courage to live like you already have it. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail Kim Bolourtchi thought she’d built the perfect version of success—until one moment in the Missouri Supreme Court exposed the rule that had quietly been running her life: Be exactly who they expect you to be… and if you’re anything different than that, hide it.  In this first episode of Season 6: Get Unruly, Kim shares the real story behind her new book, Strategic Unruliness™—and the moment everything changed. She explores how the rules that once kept us safe eventually start keeping us small, and what it takes to finally break them.  🎙️ Unruly Move of the Week: Notice one place you’re still being exactly who they expect you to be—and ask yourself what would happen if you showed a little more of the real you.  💥 Subscribe for new episodes every week, and grab your copy of Strategic Unruliness™ on Amazon to dive deeper into the framework. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail 🔥 What if rejection could be your greatest advantage? In this powerful episode, host Kim Bolourtchi sits down with publicity powerhouse and “My Rejection Story” founder Alice Draper, who reveals how re-framing failure and daring to break the rules transformed her life. Discover the hidden stories behind big successes, why rule-breakers might just change the world, and practical strategies for turning adversity into unstoppable momentum. If you’ve ever felt like you just don’t fit the mold—or wondered if your toughest moments could lead to your biggest breakthroughs—don’t miss this honest, inspiring conversation! 🎧 Tune in for authentic stories, laugh-out-loud moments, and actionable wisdom that will have you viewing rejection in a whole new light. Want to learn how embracing your uniqueness can be your superpower? Hit play now! To connect with Alice: website: https://hustlingwriters.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alice-m-draper/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alicedraper/ Podcast: https://hustlingwriters.com/podcast/ Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail I swore I was deathly allergic to cats — until I wasn’t. A week in Greece — and a few fearless kittens — made me realize how much of my life had been shaped by a story that was no longer true. This episode explores what happens when you outgrow your own limits and discover that changing your mind might be the most powerful leadership move of all. Because sometimes, the only thing standing between you and what’s possible… is the story you stopped questioning. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail It started in an airport bathroom line. A kind gesture turned into a full-blown meltdown — and a masterclass in how people use “rules” to feel in control.  In this episode of Get Unruly, Kim Bolourtchi breaks down why people cling to rules, how they mistake predictability for morality, and why challenging those invisible limits is often the most human thing you can do.  You’ll hear what happens when a small act of kindness collides with someone else’s need for control — and how to recognize when the rules you’re following don’t actually make sense for you anymore.  Because being unruly isn’t about rebellion.  It’s about discernment — the clarity to know which rules create order, and which ones just keep you small.  🎧 Listen now to “It Was Never About the Rule.” Stay kind. Stay awake. Stay unruly. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail Ever had an idea you believed in—until someone else’s doubt made you second-guess yourself?  | In this episode, Kim shares why waiting for approval can shrink your vision, how she learned to trust her own belief (even when it was hard), and the one question that can help you move forward without anyone else’s permission. Let’s talk about what happens when you stop outsourcing your confidence—and start building what’s next, your way. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Kim Bolourtchi gets real about the fear of failure as she launches her most personal project yet. You’ll see why shrinking to avoid failure is just a slow-motion collapse—and how flipping failure into feedback is the only way to set yourself free.  If you’re ready to stop buffering, go all in, and smash the rules holding you back, this one’s for you. Plus: your Unruly Move of the week. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail In this powerful and thought-provoking episode, Kim Bolourtchi and Chris West dive deep into what it truly means to live authentically and put yourself first—even when it means going against social expectations or risking disappointment.  Through candid stories and practical wisdom, Chris reveals the secret to exceptional personal branding and the transformative benefits of radical honesty and self-prioritization. Discover why saying “no” can be the most loving choice, and how embracing your unique “zone of genius” and daring to be strategically unruly can lead to deeper fulfillment, stronger relationships, and a more courageous, honest life.  Tune in and reflect on your own boundaries—what would change if you put yourself first? CLICK HERE to learn more about Chris and Video Narrative.  Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail Tired of fear holding you back? Anne Bonney—professional change-maker and keynote speaker—is about to drop the most dangerous weapon in your personal development arsenal: a 5-second courage hack that will transform how you approach change forever. In this raw, hilarious conversation, Anne reveals how she went from a rebellious teenager sent to boarding school to a keynote speaker who helps people dance in their discomfort zone. Expect zero BS, maximum inspiration, and a practical strategy that will make your inner critic shut up and sit down. Whether you're stuck in a career rut, terrified of making a big life shift, or just need a kick in the pants, this episode is your wake-up call. Get ready to "punch it, Margaret"—your most unruly life starts now. Connect with Anne:  https://YourChangeSpeaker.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/annebonney/ https://www.instagram.com/speakerannebonney/ Anne's Books On Amazon Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail It wasn’t actually about the coffee. It was about being real — and what happens when leaders stop performing and start actually connecting.  In this episode, I unpack the egg white moment that sparked 80,000+ views… and why it resonated so deeply. We’ll talk about the pressure to be polished, the power of sharing the unfiltered truth, and why being human is one of the most strategic things you can do as a leader.  If you’ve ever screwed something up and chose not to hide it? That’s not a failure. That’s leadership.  ps. If you want to join the Friday F*ckup conversations, find me on LinkedIn! Most of the week we talk about how to be Strategically Unruly, but on Fridays, we share when it all goes wrong. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail What happens when you drop the filter and say exactly what you're thinking?  In this explosive episode of Get Unruly, I reveal how a single post with an F-bomb turned into a viral sensation - not because of the swearing, but because of the raw, unfiltered truth.  Learn how breaking the rules can set you free, why playing it safe is killing your authenticity, and how one moment of radical honesty can change everything.  Warning: Contains strategic profanity and zero apologies. Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail You’re not broken. You’re not bored.  But something feels off — and it won’t go away.  You’re still showing up. Still performing. Still carrying the room.  But under the surface? There’s a quiet pull. A sense of… unsomething.  That pull? It’s not a problem.  It’s a signal.  And what happens next — the voice in your head that says: “Be realistic. Don’t ruin a good thing. Now’s not the time.” That’s the rulebook.  In this episode, I’ll show you how to spot the invisible rules that are limiting your leadership — even if everything looks great on paper.  If you’ve been feeling the quiet tension between the life you built and the person you actually are… this is your starting point.  And next week, we’ll dive into Radical Clarity — the first step in the Strategic Unruliness™ framework. Did this episode help you discover one of the rules limiting you? I'd love to hear! Email me: [email protected] or DM me on LinkedIn Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail She’s been on the mic with me before — but never quite like this. In this powerful return episode, I sit down with my daughter, Samantha, for a raw, unscripted conversation about something we’ve both lived: the pressure to shrink. To dim our light.  To tone it down.  To make ourselves smaller — so other people feel more comfortable. We talk about what that’s looked like in our lives, how it shows up differently across generations, and what it actually costs — in confidence, creativity, connection. And then we talk about what happens when we finally stop. This isn’t just about speaking up.  It’s about taking up space. In rooms, in relationships, in the world. If you’ve ever held back who you really are — this episode will hit home. Press play. Then ask yourself: Where are you still shrinking? And what if you didn’t? Connect: [email protected] https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-bolourtchi/ Learn more: www.kimbolourtchi.com Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram

Send us Fan Mail In this raw and electrifying episode, entrepreneur Frankie Russo reveals the counterintuitive secret to success: radical generosity.  After hitting rock bottom with addiction and rebuilding his life, Frankie discovered what he calls the "limitless drug" - helping others unconditionally. Learn how embracing failure, releasing ego, and serving without expectation can transform your life, business, and purpose.  Frankie's unfiltered journey from homeless shelters to multiple successful exits will challenge everything you think you know about growth, success, and personal transformation. Prepare for an unruly conversation that will:  Shatter your myths about successReveal why failure is your greatest teacherUnlock the power of unconditional givingUnderstand how serving others can be your ultimate highIf you're ready to break free from traditional thinking and create real, meaningful impact, this episode is your wake-up call. Frankie's insight is legit rocket fuel! Watch episode on Youtube About Frankie Russo: Frankie Russo is a visionary in authenticity, imagination and growth. An entrepreneur with a proven track record for using innovative methods to unlock rapid growth. Russo has led multiple companies to remarkable growth landing on the Inc. 500/5000 list 8 years in a row, including 60X growth in three years of his tech company 360ia, leading to an acquisition by a Fortune 500 company.  Organizations that Russo has collaborated with who have embraced his “Love Your Weird” movement were able to adapt, innovate and grow through massive uncertainty and change. In his latest work Russo shares the critical unlocks for driving unprecedented and continuous growth by leading with authenticity, imagination and generosity. He is the author of two best-selling books and a sought-after speaker known for transforming organizational cultures and inspiring individual and corporate growth. His keynote experiences are tailored, experiential, and full of actionable insights for fostering a culture of authenticity, imagination and collaboration to unlock breakthrough results and extraordinary transformation and growth. Frankie’s highest calling is his family, and he happily lives with his wife and six children in Louisiana. www.frankierusso.com Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz Connect with Kim: website LinkedIn Instagram