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If you’ve found yourself saying “they hate me, it’s been 6 hours since my last text ” or if you run as soon as feelings start to brew, this episode is for you. Dr. Morgan, a relationship coach, is here to help us navigate through the four different attachment styles and give us advice on how to stop self-sabotage and break toxic relationship patterns. Get ready to get deep and vulnerable as we analyze past dating history and learn how to let go of unhealthy relationship beliefs. We also learn that certain attachment styles repeatedly attract each other which made the constant “you’re dating the same guy” spiral make so much sense. And remember, boundaries and self-worth is HOT. 🙌 As we enter week 3 of our Month of Love, also enter Mr. Jersey?! Yes, Raeann’s man now has a nickname which must mean they’re getting serious, right? 😍 Rae and Kristina also debate whether meeting the friends is a big deal or if the opinions on the man’s jorts is just creating unhelpful noise. Speaking of men and their icks, Travis Kelce anyone?! Meanwhile, Kristina is still obsessed with her cute little neighborhood and also found a new obsession for Nara Smith and her idyllic dream life. ☁️ Rae on the other hand is obsessed with the ‘starting over at 30’ side of TikTok...if you’re also feeling a quarter-life crisis coming on, you’re not alone.  New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! 

We have a LOT to catch up on and we are going DEEP! Rae for one, drops the big “what are we” question, but does that mean they are official?! Meanwhile, Kristina is slaying the neighborhood mom scene, future Mayor Kristina D’Angelo anyone? We’re also spilling tea about the craziest shit we’ve ever done in relationships. Hint, it involves jumping out of moving vehicles! 🚗  We also chat about Rae’s wild Breckenridge girl’s trip, some recent troll comments, and the fact that Kristina is obsessed with Mike the Situationship. The girls are thriving and leaving that toxic energy behind. “42% of people in their 20s & 30s have never been in a relationship”. On week two of our Month of Love series, we’re talking about the inner struggles that come along with never having been in a relationship. In this rom-com generation, we expect good sex and prince-charming fairytales, but overcoming the fear of rejection and battling self-doubt can be daunting. Don’t worry, you’re not alone, the TCC community chimes in with their burning questions and insecurities about their lack of experience in the dating world. We’re here to be your hype women and tell you that you ARE hot, funny, and smart enough to land the person of your dreams. Being perpetually single isn’t a bad thing, if anything it’s kind of a turn-on. 💋✨ New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod

Buckle in for the juiciest month of the year! Raeann opens up about being single for the past five years and how she’s learned to embrace and celebrate this era in her life. Kristina, drowning in NYC gloom, daydreams about Malibu beaches and for a minute contemplates a dramatic return to LA for a little sunshine. We also get into Kristina’s love for Vanderpump Rules (bonus episodes anyone 👀), influencers’ ever-evolving trends, and Travis Kelce’s freaky side. Now, as we kick off our month of love, let’s hear from a man’s perspective. Whether you’re anti-Valentine’s Day or a romantic at heart, comedian, Jared Freid, gives us his advice and hot takes on navigating the dating world. Jared has a Netflix special and a podcast talking all about this modern era of dating so he has experienced a thing or two. Get the lowdown on sliding into the DMs, how to stand out on the dating apps, and how to tackle the dreaded “what are we” question. We also chat about how confidence and being authentically yourself will only help you slay the dating scene.🔥 Are men like cabs? Are men intimidated by women who make more money? Is it harder to date as a curvy woman? Download the podcast, open Hinge, pour yourself a glass of wine, and let’s get into it! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month. Maybelline New York: A proud sponsor of our show and the feelings our mutual! We are obsessed with Maybelline and our glam has never looked better! Shop all of our favorite must-haves at Maybelline.com!

Kristina is filling us in on her new neighbor meetup and Raeann tells us about the MOST chaotic Pilates class she’s taken— no but really. You have to hear this story.  Then we’re getting a Dating Challenge Update from Rae … it’s a good one and we’re excited about it. Also, OSCAR NOMINATIONS are here and there are discussions to be had. So we will absolutely be talking about Barbie and its snubbing. 💅🏼🙃    Also, Raeann’s a Belieber and may or may not be making a public apology to SZA by the end of this ep. 🤷‍♀️   Finally, the ladies catch up with their artistic, entrepreneurial, and inspiring friend, Abby Price. We hear about the beauty and beginnings of hand-delivered dried floral arrangements, the building of her incredible store and business. To top it off, Abby’s also giving some insight and boots-on-the-ground wisdom the whole way through. She’s a boss building a great company and she’s inspiring. Oh and the timeline she did it in? It’s truly shocking. Get ready to feel like you had the best kind of espresso shot + a few belly laughs, a healthy kick in the pants, and an unexpected giggle or two. This one’s worth the download, just trust us! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! 

Okay, quick question for the class… is every single person on the earth on Ozempic? And Tom Holland and Zendaya didn’t break up, right? Because Kristina and Raeann have thoughts, questions, and opinions about it all. But before they dig into that, we’re going to get caught up on Raeann’s Vermont ski trip, WHICH may or may not have been her last. Ice is meant for drinks, not to ski on, ya know?    In other news, is Kristina made for the Mob Wife Aesthetic? Maybe she is and maybe she IS. Buckle up for a lively episode, no one’s holding back and there’s a lot of ground covered. Like, what’s got Raeann teary-eyed, is Kristina’s husband in the mob, and how important are intergenerational friendships?! Well, you’ll have to listen to find out!    Also, Kristina’s giving one of the best lines you’ve heard to use on the next annoying person you encounter. You won’t miss it. It’s an episode chock-full of goodness you don’t want to miss!  New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod

Well, first things first. Guess who hates Saltburn, Kristina or Raeann? Also, who is caught up on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City? Because Kristina has thoughts, STRONG ones at that. She believes one deserves an award while the other literally put her to sleep, in fact. 🤷‍♀️ Next up we’re getting some life updates and may or may not be hearing about a new crush, buttt you’ll have to 🎧 to find out! And don’t worry, we’re not skipping past Gypsy Rose … and the fact that her husband *MIGHT* look like her mom?! 😬 Raeann goes speed dating again and we get all the ☕️. What would YOU do if you were on a 10-minute date and it’s underscored by, “My Heart Will Go On” creating maybe the weirdest experiences ever?   This week’s ASK AWAY is a 👌🏼 one! Kristina and Raeann both have incredibly vulnerable, insightful, and wise advice to speak on dating in your 30’s after a breakup, growing your family, and having genuinely hard conversations with friends … especially where money’s concerned. Helpful and hilarious, enjoy! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month. Maybelline New York: A proud sponsor of our show and the feelings our mutual! We are obsessed with Maybelline and our glam has never looked better! Shop all of our favorite must-haves at Maybelline.com!

Raeann and Kristina are spilling the tea on everything that's been happening since the last episode -- 2024 is off to a wild start! From Raeann's January Dating Challenge (👀) to Kristina taking a wild polar plunge all by herself and all the trends that are IN and OUT in 2024. But the real icing on the cake? Alice Bell is back on the pod, and she's here to break down all things astrology! If you've been riding with TCC for a while, you know Alice Bell was the one who got Raeann hooked on astrology in the first place. Now, she's here to unpack the cosmic vibes of 2024 and how they're playing out in our everyday lives. Whether you're just dipping your toes into astrology or you're a full-blown astrology fanatic, this episode will have you locked in. Tune in for a laid-back chat with Raeann, Kristina, and the astro-expert Alice as they break down and make sense of 2024's cosmic vibes! 🌌✨ New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month.

What a year it’s been and what a fun episode to send us all into the Holidays! Today, we may or may not be getting some ☕️ *tea on the Golden Bachelor while Raeann fills us in on some circulating questions about the bachelor himself … not least of which, the pronunciation of “Gerry.” Then we get into Taylor Swift’s latest Vogue cover and some quotes to chew on, because obviously we must and we will! 👸 Before we start looking to the new year we have some dating recaps from Raeann, a solid story involving an un-called for Instagram blocking, along with some thoughts from Kristina on her own relationship with Steve and overall goals for the new year. We’re also getting therapy insights as Raeann vulnerably lets us in on her own journey. Therapy is no joke! Good thing there’s hilarious stories, sweet updates *like Christian’s projected height, and some really encouraging takeaways.  We really are so grateful for each of you and can’t wait to see you in January ‘24 with all new episodes, but until then, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!  What We Talk About: We’re getting some Golden Bachelor Gossip Is it “Gerry” or “Ga-ary”? Kristina tells us about an interesting timing between her period and fighting with her husband Once and for all, did Kristina move the garland or not?  Updates on Christian’s weight, projected height (which is impressive btw) Live Event Recaps  ‘24 Live Event Teases and some overall well wishes Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up!

It’s a wonderful day for all our single and searching friends out there because we have Sixtine Rouyre in-studio dishing the goods! She’s dropping real dating-expertise, excel spreadsheets, some simple adjustments to your dating strategy and overall? - Just some confidence and chill we can all sit back and enjoy even if you're already cuffed! She’s giving us all some permission to be our most settled and authentic selves, to hide nothing on dates, and to find our own siren eyes … You’ll get it when you hear it.   But before we get into all that goodness, we’re first finding out what and *cough who* might be making Raeann a sports fan. In the end, Raeann and Kristina are entering their sports era and we are here for it! And then after announcing our Gift Bag Giveaway winner we obviously have to address the low-hanging garland in the room and #JusticeForSteve. What We Also Get Into:  Is Raeann going to be an Avalanche or Rangers fan?  Does Kristina live in Pleasantville or what!?  Is Jack Harlow Raeann’s new perfect celeb crush?  #JusticeForSteve and the low-hanging Christmas garland Announcing the Gift Bag Giveaway  Authentically going into dates What if a date doesn’t confirm day-of?  “Most men can't be trusted to plan … Like, realistically, you're just gonna be disappointed. The same applies to sex, I think. If you just expect them to know everything, you're gonna be disappointed.” –Sixtine Rouyre New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month.

We’re still recovering from our wonderful Friendsgiving Dinner and can’t wait to announce the winner of a free Goodie Bag, so make sure to subscribe to our stories so you don’t miss the announcement!  Now, we know you’re all dying to hear whether or not Raeann went out on THAT date we talked about last week … Well, let’s just say there was a shirtless selfie and some bad communication, do you think that was a dealbreaker for Raeann and would it be one for you?    Next we’re moving on to some Golden Bachelor and Golden Bachelorette Theories, of which there are a few … Is it going to be Leslie or Teresa and WHO is right for the first Golden Bachelorette? All of that aside, Kristina spent the first night at her new house and is filling us in on her favorite parts of the house, especially a shower and bathroom that sounds like a spa— heaven.    But the last half of this episode is devoted to YOUR questions and we’re tackling two great topics today: Old crushes in new environments and confidence in context to your friends.    What We Talk About:  Did Raeann go on that date or not?  “When in doubt, don’t send sexual selfies.” Golden Bachelorette Theories- Should it be Joan, Leslie, or Teresa? Kristina’s first night in her new house A shower, some built-ins, and some waterfront light that make all the difference What do you do when the past co-worker you fell for shows up at your new job?  How do you feel confident in your skin when your friends are seemingly approached more than you? Someone else’s beauty doesn’t take away from your own. –Raeann Langas New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! Honeylove: Get Up to 60% OFF @honeylove by going to honeylove.com/TCC! #honeylovepod

Well our Confident Collective Friendsgiving was one for the books! We’re going to fill you in on our incredible night with awesome new friends, throbbing feet, a beautiful dinner, and we may even answer the age old question, “How many dirty martinis can Kristina order before the waiter tries to cut her off?” But before that, we’re catching you up on the day … which may or may not have included tears on New Jersey Transit, a euphoric cab ride, and a buccal massage— All before noon.    Raeann’s filling us in on the pre-Friendsgiving photo shoot drama and a pretty privilege joke that fell flat while also bringing us along for a Nightcap Adventure involving a pickle entrepreneur, raccoon eyes, and Lady and the Tramp. You’ll just have to listen to see what we mean! But the gist is that we had another wonderful night, just bringing women together, and we’re excited for much more.    And if you’re on board for some incredible goodies, you’ll not want to miss us going through our Holiday Gift Bag. We’ve got everything from Rose Inc. Eyelash Curlers to Kérastase and Orbe products, to Hero Cosmetics Mighty Patches and some wonderful Maybelline treats. The point is, you don’t want to miss a second!    What We Talk About: A crying commute, a lot of excitement, and some frazzled bag stuffing Sometimes things just don’t go as planned Kristina had a buccal massage that Raeann missed in the same room Why do pictures on film just look better?  Pretty privilege and when jokes miss Possibly one of the best nights ever?  Kristina tells a story about carrying a 15lb. chair around her neck via a scarf Why does everyone think Raeann and Kristina are siblings?  Going through the gift bag New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod

Finding an outfit you love and equally feel confident to rock at any party, get-together, or (in Kristina’s case) a gala, can be downright overwhelming. So we’re getting into it today! Before that though, we’re talking appropriate Christmas decorating times ... Someone may or may not already have a tree decorated and up in her house before her couch. Which, respect. Then getting into the meat of this ep, Kristina and Raeann are tackling an ongoing question and challenge for most of us— “How do you deal with dressing anxiety?”    The holidays mean prepping for all sorts of social functions, so why not eliminate future last-minute stress by sorting your fits now? Also, keep in mind that dressing up can be FUN; especially when you’re mixing textures, throwing in a feather here and there, for starters. Kristina and Raeann are giving solid advice and some practical ways to get ahead of all that potential holiday stress. We’re romancing our lives, remember? So let’s have some fun and feel good doing it together!   What We Talk About: Getting SO excited for Friendsgiving “tonight” When is the right time to start decorating for Christmas? Answering the question, “How Do you deal with dressing anxiety?” Tips for feeling the most confident when getting dress for THAT big event Some Fantasy Fashion Holiday Trends “Give me all the feathers and all the sequins” - Kristina Zias   New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!  Thanks to our sponsors! Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod