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Have you found yourself praying fervently and working endlessly, but you're still waiting in the dry season for your breakthrough? In this episode, I'm taking you deep into 2 Kings chapter 3 and the powerful story of Elisha to show you what it really means to dig ditches in faith. We often talk about wanting God's sudden miracles, but every biblical "suddenly" comes from working diligently and praying fervently. When you make room for God through radical obedience and passionate worship, you prepare your ground to hold the living waters He is about to pour out. God is a "do it right now" God, but He asks us to grab a shovel first! Even when there is no rain in sight, God will fill the ditches if we have the faith to prepare for revival. I want to encourage you to step into action, trust Him with the small matters, and get ready for the big miracles He has planned for your life. If your heart is stirred, don't keep it to yourself! Like, subscribe, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Take a screenshot of you listening, share it on your Instagram Stories, and tag @biancajuarezofficial so I can repost and celebrate your breakthrough with you! Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and celebration of the podcast's anniversary 01:18 The story of Elisha and digging ditches 04:19 The biblical concept of 'suddenly' and faith 07:29 The importance of working diligently and praying fervently 10:27 Context of 2 Kings chapter 3 and the kings' journey 13:11 Water in the desert and trusting God's provision 16:18 Seeking prophetic guidance in difficult times 19:00 The significance of worship and creating space for God 25:26 The prophetic promise of water without rain 28:33 Obedience and making room for God's move 32:39 Preparing for revival and the upcoming event 35:45 The process of faith and the promise of living waters Resources & Links Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp  Youtube: https://youtu.be/wjyrz8qxxeI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you just winging it, hoping no one notices you haven’t actually mastered the art of receiving feedback yet? If you’re tired of the "performative" stuff and ready for real, gut-level growth, this episode is your wake-up call. In this episode, Amy and I tackle the topic that makes most of us want to run and hide: feedback. We’re getting real about why we treat correction like a punishment instead of the golden ticket for personal and leadership development that it actually is. Whether you’re leading a ministry team or just trying to navigate your own personal growth, learning how to debrief and receive honest input is non-negotiable if you want to reach your full potential. We also dive deep into the messy, beautiful reality of mentorship transitions. Knowing when to start, when to stay, and—most importantly—when to end a mentorship well is an art form. We’re stripping away the ego, getting practical about communication, and talking about how to create a culture where people don’t just survive, they transform. It’s time to stop shrinking and start growing.  Let’s keep this conversation going! If this episode hit home, I want to hear about it. Screenshot this episode, tag @amylynnettee and me @biancajuarezofficial, and share your biggest takeaway on your Stories! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop a review - it helps us get this message of transformation into more hands. Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Feedback and Mentorship 02:09 The Feedback Loop and Its Importance 04:05 How to Conduct a Debrief 06:01 Leaving Ego at the Door for Growth 07:58 Distinguishing Performative Feedback from Genuine Growth 09:59 The Role of Affirmation and Constructive Criticism 11:47 Maximizing Capacity for Feedback 13:55 Knowing When a Mentorship Has Ended 16:01 Investing in Self-Development and Mentorship 17:57 Creating a Feedback Culture in Your Community 20:06 Practical Steps for Finding Mentors 21:47 Transitioning Out of Mentorship Gracefully 24:10 The Impact of Loving the Church and Its People 25:55 Practical Tips for Ending Well 27:58 Closing Remarks and Prayer Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp  Youtube https://youtu.be/8edWjHxAdfg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Has your spiritual growth hit a plateau? Amy and I are back with our friends Cesar Delgado and Sam Tenney to share their journeys and the transformative power of honest feedback in spiritual growth. We aren’t just talking about surface-level advice; we’re getting real about trust, submission, and the beauty of doing life together. I’m sharing how honest, sometimes difficult feedback is actually the fuel that refines your character and sharpens your skills. If you’ve ever wondered why you aren’t growing, this conversation might just be the wake-up call you’ve been waiting for. You’ll hear about the power of personal investment and how biblical insights can completely shift your perspective on your calling. Mentorship isn't about knowing everything - it’s about the transformative power of vulnerability. You’re not going to know something about your blind spots unless somebody loves you enough to point them out! Get ready to be challenged, encouraged, and equipped to level up your walk with God. If this episode hit home, I want to see you! Take a screenshot of the episode right now, share it on your IG Stories, and make sure you tag me @biancajuarezofficial. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop a review—it helps us get this message into the hands of more people who need it!  Let’s keep growing together.  Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Mentorship and Discipleship 02:13 The Personal Journeys of Our Guests 05:05 What True Mentorship Looks Like 07:46 The Role of Trust and Submission 12:11 Honest Feedback as a Growth Tool 16:11 Seasonal Seasons of Mentoring 20:08 The Power of Personal Investment 24:05 Overcoming Challenges in Mentoring 28:05 Different Discipling Methods 32:01 The Impact of Honest Critique 36:05 The Importance of Willingness and Availability 39:52 Trusting God and Leaders 44:01 Encouragement for Mentors and Mentees 47:47 Practical Advice for Aspiring Mentors 52:00 Closing Remarks and Final Thoughts Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Follow Sam Tenney: https://www.instagram.com/samuel_10e/  Follow Cesar Delgado: https://www.instagram.com/cesar_delgado  Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Key Takeaways Mentorship is about doing life together: It’s more than just a meeting; it’s coming alongside others and sharing the journey. Trust and submission are non-negotiable: These aren’t "bad" words—they are the foundational pillars of any effective, life-changing mentoring relationship. Feedback is your best friend: Honest critique might sting in the moment, but it’s the most powerful tool you have to refine your character and skills. Every journey is unique: Stop comparing your growth to someone else’s; your mentoring needs are tailored to your specific calling and season. Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp  Youtube https://youtu.be/as4fsGNBxx4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to learn how to leave a leadership role without burning bridges? I’ve learned the hard way that transitioning in ministry isn’t just about the "next thing"- it’s about how we honor the "now thing." In this episode, Amy and I sit down to get real about the messy, beautiful journey of mentorship and leadership development. We’re sharing our own stories of growth, grief, and the lessons we’ve picked up along the way. If you’re searching for a mentor or trying to figure out how to pour into the leaders rising up around you, we made this for you. We’re walking through the practical, heart-level steps to honoring your past while stepping boldly into your future. I often think about how every community has its own unique sound. Learning to lead isn’t about changing that sound to match yours; it’s about learning to honor the harmony that was there before you arrived. I want to help you process the mixed emotions of transition so you can lead with a clear heart. If you found something to hold onto throughout this mentoring series, tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social media to let us know. We would love to continue the conversation there. We hope you leave feeling a little more equipped and encouraged. Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Mentorship and Leadership Transition 02:08 The Role of Collaboration in Kingdom Work 04:32 Learning from Observation and Debriefing 07:10 Recognizing and Supporting Giftings in Others 09:19 The Process of Transition and Leaving Well 11:40 Understanding Cultural and Vocal Fit in Ministry 13:02 Honest Conversations During Transition 14:40 Processing Emotions and Grief in Transition 16:40 The Impact of Generosity and Community Support 17:35 The Role of Expectation and Trust in Mentorship 18:45 Celebrating New Opportunities and Growth 20:20 Forming Identity and Leadership in New Environments 21:02 Addressing Fears of Leadership Transition 22:21 The Joy of Seeing Others Flourish 23:12 The Healthy End of Mentorship Relationships 24:19 Building Relationships Beyond Organizational Boundaries 25:51 How to Find and Approach a Mentor 27:05 Practical Tips for Mentorship Success 28:19 The Joy of Seeing Mentorship Bear Fruit 29:06 Closing Remarks and Encouragement for Leaders and Mentors Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is the fear of damaging a relationship stopping you from having a difficult conversation? I’ve been there, and I know how isolating that tension can feel. But here is the truth: wounds from a friend can be trusted, and real growth only happens when we’re willing to go there. In this episode, Amy and I are pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to lead, mentor, and disciple in the messy reality of ministry. We’re talking about the "relational collateral" required to speak truth into someone’s life and how to correct in love without crushing their spirit. Whether you’re navigating past trauma that’s showing up in your leadership or learning how to handle a tough sermon critique, this conversation is for you. It’s time we stop settling for surface-level peace and start pursuing the spiritual maturity that comes through honest, grace-filled accountability. If this episode challenged or encouraged you, tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social media. Don’t forget to subscribe and drop a comment sharing one way you’re choosing growth over comfort this week.  Let’s keep going there together! Love you, B Keywords: mentorship, discipleship, ministry leadership, conflict resolution, spiritual formation. RESOURCES/LINKS Sound Bite to Share:  ** Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to the importance of tough conversations 02:02 The theology of correction and trust 02:27 Personal stories of tension and disappointment 04:13 Roots of disappointment and past trauma 07:25 The process of spiritual maturity and circumcision 08:14 Handling hard conversations with love and grace 12:07 Time management and respect in ministry 13:31 Correcting in love versus control 17:46 The military mindset in leadership and correction 20:24 Gender, opportunity, and development in ministry 24:54 Handling feedback and sermon critique 28:29 The importance of honesty and growth in preaching 32:02 Walking through seasons of change and transition 37:41 Ending well and honoring relationships 38:03 Encouragement for wounded mentees 41:44 Closing thoughts and next steps for listeners Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp  Youtube: https://youtu.be/R-Dgj9xiokU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Finding a mentor often brings immense pressure, especially when you realize you have no idea what you’re actually looking for - or worse, who to trust with your growth. If you’ve ever felt the tension of wanting to grow as a leader but feeling stuck, this episode is for you. In Day 2 of our mentoring series, Amy Ayala and I went deep into the "heart" of mentorship. It’s not just about who has the biggest platform or the most followers on social media; it’s about character, resilience, and that prophetic "X-factor" that you can't teach. Amy and I talked openly about the importance of being "seen" by a mentor and why loyalty, honor, and the willingness to put in the "reps" are what actually prepare you for your next season. Whether you are looking to be mentored or you are ready to start pouring into someone else, we’re breaking down what it actually looks like to lead well. You cannot be what you don’t see, so let’s talk about how to open your eyes to the right potential. Tag us @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social and tell me your biggest takeaway. I love hearing how these episodes are impacting your journey! If you enjoyed this talk, please make sure to like and subscribe so you never miss an episode. Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Mentoring Series 00:26 What to Look for in a Mentee 02:02 The Heart of a Mentee: Loyalty and Love for the Church 03:04 The Prophetic Edge in Mentoring 04:26 The Danger of Building Platforms Without Substance 06:18 Resilience and Making Things Happen 07:16 Transitioning to New Seasons of Leadership 08:44 The Impact of Social Media and Public Presence 11:12 The Power of Being Seen and Mentored by Influential Leaders 14:24 The Significance of Women Leaders and Role Models 17:36 The Value of Mentorship and Being Seen 20:46 Practical Hallmarks for Mentorship 22:11 The Importance of Honor and Self-Awareness 23:39 Developing Skills and Reps in Ministry 27:16 Next Steps for Aspiring Leaders 30:01 The Power of Preparation and Repetition 32:03 The Role of Spirit-Led Preaching and Communication 33:32 The Joy of Smiling and Connecting in Ministry Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp Youtube: https://youtu.be/2cGHG544Hag Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder what it really takes to walk through seven years of mentorship? In this episode, Amy Ayala and I are pulling back the curtain on our own journey—the real, raw, and often unspoken costs of discipleship. We’re talking about the spiritual, emotional, and practical realities that come with leading well.  If you’ve ever felt the weight of leadership or the fear of being surpassed, this conversation is for you. We’re getting honest about building future generations, the power of vulnerability, and why faithfulness is about the long haul. In this episode, we cover: Our origin story: How Amy and I started this journey. The real talk: Risks, fears, and honest realities of mentorship. The theology of "iron sharpening iron." How to create space for the next generation in ministry. Whether you're a mentor, a mentee, or somewhere in between, I hope this challenges you to embrace the refining process of leadership. Loved this episode? Like, follow, and subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amyayala on social and tell me your biggest takeaway—I want to hear from you! Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to the Mentoring Series and Personal Stories 01:07 The Vision and Origins of Mentorship 04:25 How Bianca and Amy Met and Their First Interactions 07:50 The Challenges of Leading as a Woman and Latina in Ministry 14:39 Reconnecting During COVID and Deepening the Mentorship 17:51 The Commitment and Sacrifice of Mentoring 24:14 The Spiritual and Emotional Costs of Mentorship 32:22 Moments of Doubt and the Desire to Walk Away 36:34 The Legacy of Mentorship and Building Future Leaders  Resources & Links Proverbs 27:17 2 Timothy 4:6 Follow Bianca: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/?hl=en  Follow Amy: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en  Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Youtube https://youtu.be/amoTMucWjBI  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever been walking in obedience—serving, tithing, leading—but felt like your soul was parched? Maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed, drowning, or just stuck in a lackluster season of faith. Friend, I have a promise for you: You don’t have to live there anymore. In this bonus episode, I’m getting real about the power of the Holy Spirit. We’re moving past just knowing the doctrine to actually living the life of power that God intended for us. From the history of revival to the promises in Joel 2, we’re looking at how God breathes life into dry places. If you are hungry for an encounter that goes beyond the surface, this is for you. We’re tearing down the fear of being "labeled" and stepping into the Naturally Supernatural life. Join the movement! I want to set the table for you to encounter God in a radical way. I’m inviting you to join us for our upcoming gathering: The Suddenly Experience. Inspired by the "suddenly" move of God in Acts 2, we are gathering teachers, worship leaders, and hungry believers on October 3rd to wait on God and expect Him to move. Mark your calendars for October 3rd. Get all the details and secure your spot at:⁠ suddenlyexperience.com⁠. Follow ⁠@revere.church⁠ to stay in the know. You were made for more than just going through the motions.  Love you, ⁠B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like gossip spreads faster than you can stop it? In today’s episode, I am diving deep into the destructive nature of gossip. It’s more than just idle talk—it’s a heart issue that affects our spiritual health and community harmony. I also break down the biblical warnings found in Proverbs and James, helping us understand why our words carry such weight. I’m not just talking about the problem; I’m giving you practical, faith-filled tools to guard your ears, close your mouth, and protect your peace.  In this episode, I cover: The Anatomy of Gossip: Understanding the different roles people play (power trippers, lightning rods, and more). Biblical Wisdom: What Proverbs and James have to say about the power of our speech. Practical Filters: Two questions you must ask before engaging in a conversation that feels like gossip. Heart Health: Why our mouths usually reveal what’s going on in our hearts. Guarding Your Temple: Practical steps to maintain unity and spiritual health. If this episode spoke to your heart, please like this video, subscribe to our channel, and share this with a friend who needs a little encouragement today. Tag me @biancajuarezofficial to show your support and help us continue to grow this space together. Love you guys! B Resources & Links Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction: The Reality of Gossip 00:30 Understanding Gossip and Its Dangers 01:28 The Visual Analogy of Feathers and Pillows 02:27 Biblical Warnings About Gossip 03:23 The Power of Words and Their Impact 04:48 Types of Gossip: Power Trippers, Haters, Processors, Lightning Rods 08:33 The Heart Issue Behind Gossip 14:22 Why Gossip Matters: Spiritual and Community Consequences 17:39 Practical Steps to Stop Gossip: Guard Your Ears and Mouth 20:30 Biblical Approach to Addressing Gossip and Conflict Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt the weight of an offense sitting in your chest like a stone, keeping you from the peace you know you’re meant to carry? In this episode I sit down with Pastors April and Micahn Carter to get real about the "spirit of offense." We’re cutting through the noise to expose how holding onto hurt isn't just a spiritual issue, it's a physical and relational cage. If you’ve been feeling isolated, exhausted, or stuck, this conversation is your key to freedom. We’re breaking down the roots of bitterness and bringing you the spiritual tools to walk in true liberation.In this episode, we dive into: The Roots of Bitterness: Micahn pulls back the curtain on why we get offended—often it's the entitlement, the embarrassment, or the unrealistic expectations we hold over others. The "Proximity" Trap: Why the people closest to us; our church family, our familia, our dearest friends; are the ones who wound us the deepest. Decisional vs. Emotional Forgiveness: We aren't just talking about saying "I forgive you." We’re teaching you the difference between the choice to let go of revenge and the daily work of replacing resentment with compassion. Prayer as an Anointing: Learn why it is impossible to stay angry when you are actively, fervently praying for the very people who hurt you. Owning Your Story: True healing starts when we realize we’ve all been the offender at some point. We discuss how to swallow our pride, listen to the pain behind the conflict, and walk in grace. Grab your Bible, get a cup of coffee, and join @michancarter, @therealaprilcarter and me @biancajuarezofficial as we choose freedom over bondage. Listen, subscribe, and share this with someone who needs to hear that they don't have to carry this burden any longer. Love you, B Guests Micahn and April Carter from The Place Indy Church https://www.instagram.com/theplaceindy/  Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to the Topic of Offense 06:32 Personal Stories and Experiences with Offense 15:00 Understanding the Roots of Offense 21:09 Navigating Relationships and Offense 22:13 Understanding Offense and Its Impact 30:31 Navigating Deep Offense in Close Relationships 36:40 The Journey from Decisional to Emotional Forgiveness 43:14 The Power of Prayer and Blessing in Healing  Resources & Links Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial. Visit IGottaAsk.com to learn more! https://tinyurl.com/WGTIGottaAsk  Youtube: https://youtu.be/ljoMZ9PtSWQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you do when life tries to shrink you, but God keeps calling you to stand tall? This week, I sat down with my brother‑friend Tim Ross in The Basement for a raw, unfiltered conversation about the parts of my story most people only see in fragments. Tim gave me the space to go there - all the way there - and I didn’t hold back. I opened up about the parts of my story that shaped me, stretched me, and ultimately rebuilt me - not through perfection, but through obedience. In this episode, we touch on: Losing a marriage, a home, and financial security - and choosing faithfulness anyway How art curation unexpectedly prepared me to bring theology to life Healing after rejection and remembering Jesus as my Kinsman Redeemer Why my restoration was never tied to a man, a marriage, or money If you’ve ever felt pressure to shrink, disappear, or carry shame that God never assigned to you, this conversation will breathe courage into your spirit. Listen now and show Tim some love by tagging us on your socials @upsetthegram and @biancajuarezofficial. Tell us how this episode impacted you -  and don’t forget to share, subscribe, and like the episode. Love you! See you next week. B Resources & Links Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors - We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef⁠ BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever felt the pressure to perform—to be the perfect wife, the most productive worker, the best mom, or even the most devoted Christian—you know the exhausting grip of a performance-based identity.  In this heart-to-heart episode, I share the difference between the identity you earn and the identity you receive. I unpack how the relentless pursuit of achievement is a spiritual trap that steals our peace and obscures the simple, profound truth of our worth in Christ. This is not about doing less; it's about shifting the why behind your doing. We explore practical, faith-aligned ways to disentangle your self-worth from your external output, embracing the radical rest that comes from knowing your value is settled.  Tune in for a message that will liberate your heart and draw you back to the truth of grace. Tag me @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Sound Bite to Share:  The most exhausting work in the world is trying to maintain a worth that God already secured. Chapter Timestamps 00:00 | Celebrating 200 Episodes 03:15 | Defining the Trap 05:13 | Breaking the Chains of Perfectionism 07:50 | The Lie of External Metrics 17:20 | Understanding Our Identity in God 19:05 | The Grace-Based Action Plan 22:32 | Practical Steps to Embrace Grace 23:00 | Closing Prayer   Resources & Links Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources Support the Podcast Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors - We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: For a limited time, get 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE. BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. Youtube: https://youtu.be/s2cQXzltWWU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is Your Strength a Spiritual Gift, or a Survival Tactic? You wear the word "Resilience" like a badge of honor. You have endured, survived, and carried the weight. We celebrate that power. But what if the very strength that saved you is now the barrier keeping you from what you truly need: healing, rest, and surrender? This week, we confront the Resilience Paradox: The more you rely on your own ability to bounce back, the less space there is for God's power to carry you through. It’s time to trade your relentless grit for His grace. Tag me @biancajuarezofficial to share how you are breaking the paradox. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 50% Off and Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/JmoVmGba4ao Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you exhausted from trying to look perfect and polished? I’m diving deep into the chokehold of performance and anxiety that keeps so many of us trapped. I’m calling out the Pharisee Complex—the dangerous lie that says excellence equals worthiness. It’s time to trade in that prison of perfection for the radical freedom found in grace. I’m giving you the keys today, including three practical, one-thing-only steps to embrace wholeness over flawlessness.  Key Takeaways for a Quick Win God desires wholeness (telios), not flawlessness. Stop striving to be perfect; start pursuing maturity and completeness. Perfectionism is a prison that limits our freedom; it’s not a personality type, it's often a protection mechanism. Radical Repentance is the shift from a life of damage control to a life dependent on God’s grace. Family, I love you and I’m cheering for you to walk in this new freedom. Don't keep this key to yourself! If this episode broke a chain in your life, you know someone else who needs to hear it. Do a sister a favor and tag me @biancajuarezofficial so we can set more captives free together.  Love you, B Sound Bite to Share:  Bring it messy, bring it undone. Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Perfectionism 02:47 The Pressure of Perfection 05:37 Understanding the Pharisee Complex 08:42 Signs of Perfectionism (Fear of Judgment, Misunderstanding Scripture, Idol of Control) 11:27 Breaking Free from Perfectionism 14:44 Practical Steps to Freedom Resources & Links Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources Support the Podcast Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Thank You to Our Sponsors - We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: For a limited time, get 50% off and Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE. BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you constantly chasing the next achievement, but still feel like it's never enough? Do you know deep down that "high-achieving" hustle is actually wearing you out? I’m kicking off the New Year, and I'm ready for more! But not more doing—more being. In this first episode of 2026, I'm peeling back the layers on how we, as high-achieving women, often confuse our drive with a deep-seated trauma response. That perfectionism? It's a mask. That performance-based identity? It's a stronghold, and we are dismantling it today!  I’m sharing my personal journey and the truth I had to face: "High achieving is often a trauma response."  This year, we are Trading Trauma Response for Trust! It's time to surrender control, trust God.  Key Takeaways: Why high achievement can be a coping mechanism. The power in surrendering control and choosing trust. Practical ways to align your ambition with your faith. The antidote to the "perfectionism prism." Let's stop performing and start living on purpose! Share your biggest takeaway—or even your 'more' journey—and tag me @biancajuarezofficial, so I can cheer you on and witness the fire God is setting in your life!  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Song Happily Hidden by Pat Barrett https://open.spotify.com/track/1KSbEDEuafGfz2fuioe5uK?si=b005de5b22584080 ⋇ Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering FIFTY PERCENT OFF and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life!! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/PtWcDejHlf0 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices