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2025/12/24
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How To Actually Clear Emotional Tension - Mediation #290
2025/12/24
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Most guys try to “think” their way out of stress, anxiety, shame, or that tight weird feeling in the body and it keeps looping because the body never got to finish the emotion.
This Emotional Processing Meditation is a guided nervous system release to help you move trapped energy through (without overthinking it): lock onto the transition points of your breath, name the emotion, locate it in the body, identify its “texture,” then let it move the way it wants to move (yawning, coughing, shaking, tensing, tears, sound).
You’ll finish by bringing safety back online with gratitude + a quick reflection so the lesson lands and the charge doesn’t run your life.
00:00:00 Emotional Processing Meditation (setup)
00:00:33 Drop into the body (sensations + relax)
00:00:59 Breath transition points (in/out awareness)
00:02:07 What “emotional processing” actually is
00:04:21 Identify and label the emotion
00:06:13 Where it lives in your body (locate it)
00:07:06 Texture / object / direction (how it wants to move)
00:08:39 Let the body do the “weird” release (yawn/cough/shake)
00:10:45 Two-part dialogue (what do you need from me?)
00:12:04 Expand it to extremes (move, sound, surrender)
00:13:20 Self-guided release window (keep going)
00:17:00 Tapping both areas (deeper integration)
00:17:56 Capture the thoughts after (quick journal prompt)
00:18:50 Gratitude + safety cues (thank the body)
00:19:17 Closing (reach out / comment / forum)
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I Ran A Mens Retreat With No More Mr Nice Guy... here is what happened
2025/12/07
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Stop believing the lie that men’s work is just guys crying in a circle. This video breaks down what really happens inside The Next Level retreat and how a strong container turns judgement and isolation into brotherhood and grounded strength.
You’ll see how key exercises and emotional releases let men face anger, grief and shame without numbing or exploding, and how that makes them safer, more powerful leaders at home and in the world.
If you’ve ever wondered what a real men’s retreat is like, this is your look behind the curtain.
00:00:00 Post-retreat banter, jokes & setup
00:01:16 First impressions of The Next Level weekend
00:02:26 From judgement & comparison to brotherhood
00:03:42 Corey on being judged as a facilitator
00:05:18 Owning projections, defenses & the “real you”
00:08:52 SPACE JUMP: healing conversations with dad/others
00:10:36 Vicarious healing: when one man works, all men heal
00:12:12 Designing the emotional rollercoaster of the retreat
00:12:53 Heist simulation: exposing patterns under pressure
00:14:31 Holding space during the deepest releases
00:16:13 BRAG CIRCLE: claiming king energy
00:18:05 Integrating shadow, power & safety
00:24:08 Tools for regulation, breath & clear decisions
00:27:35 Final takeaways from each facilitator
00:31:11 Closing reflections, hugs & wrap up
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Men's BIGGEST Dating Mistake That Kills Relationships: Chris Bates #288
2025/07/28
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The fear of rejection, being too nice, and never making a move…
If you’ve ever overthought your way into loneliness, struggled with ghosting, or felt stuck in “nice guy syndrome”, this episode is for you.
Corey sits down with dating coach and author Chris Bates to break down modern dating for men: why masculine leadership matters, how to create intimacy without being manipulative, and why being radically yourself is the real dating superpower.
Whether you’re fresh out of a breakup or just done pretending to be who she wants, this conversation will shift the way you date forever.
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📍 Timestamps:
00:00 – Why men fail at modern dating
01:30 – Fear, analysis paralysis & vulnerability
03:00 – Creating non-negotiables vs outcome obsession
06:00 – Childhood wounds shaping attraction
08:20 – Hookup vs partnership mindset
10:45 – Dating horror story: when loneliness picks your dates
14:00 – Nervous system mismatch: why she felt off
16:00 – Signs you’re not confident or assertive
18:00 – Masculine leadership & Dom-ish polarity
20:00 – When leading creates tension (and when it doesn’t)
22:00 – Gamifying dating without being toxic
24:30 – Why adult play is the spice of life
27:00 – Dating as emotional gym reps
30:00 – Sh*t tests, authenticity & masculine frames
34:30 – Avoiding the friend zone through intimacy
37:00 – Emotional honesty vs emotional manipulation
42:00 – Corey’s story: attention, ego, and loss
45:00 – Chris’s story: depression, self-worth, and healing
47:30 – Post-divorce dating & leading with truth
52:00 – Radical transparency as a masculine edge
54:00 – No date is wasted — every one is a rep
56:00 – Feminine presence is healing, not validation
59:00 – The nice guy reframe: from pleasing to honest service
1:03:00 – Leadership, purpose & emotional safety in dating
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How Dads Are Saving Their Family From Work Addiction - Jon Vroman 287
2025/07/22
Most high-performing men lead their business like a king but feel lost at home.
In this episode, Jon Vroman (Front Row Dads) and I unpack the silent cost of masculine burnout and what it really takes to lead your family with presence, clarity, and calm.
We dive into:
• Nervous system regulation for fatherhood
• Why kids don’t need a “perfect” dad—just a present one
• How men unknowingly sabotage intimacy by overworking
• Real masculine leadership (without burnout)
Whether you’re a dad, husband, or future father figure, this convo will flip your lens on what power looks like in a family.
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⏱ Timestamps
00:00 Masculine leadership starts at home
01:15 Why dads feel more pressure than ever
03:10 Jon’s burnout story: business wins, family disconnect
05:48 What children actually need from their father
07:24 Emotional safety over financial security
10:30 Nervous system = leadership foundation
12:40 Why “nice guys” fail at fatherhood
14:55 When work becomes your escape
18:12 How to repair after screwing up as a dad
21:34 Leading your relationship through conflict
25:08 Masculine embodiment and trauma
28:03 Front Row Dads mission
30:10 What Jon wishes more men knew
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How To Stop The Nice Guy Pandemic: JR Harvey Kings Community #286
2025/07/16
Most men say they want purpose… but they’re actually addicted to struggle.
In this episode, I sit down with JR Harvey founder of Kings Community and one of the most grounded, embodied mentors for men in the game to unpack what’s really keeping men stuck.
We go deep on:
• Why “managing pain” isn’t healing
• The nervous system cost of constantly performing
• Why men lead best when they stop trying to be liked
• The addiction to helping others as a way to avoid yourself
• And the real reason your relationship or leadership keeps collapsing
This conversation isn’t for the guys looking for more mindset hacks.
This is for the men who are ready to actually feel, lead with clarity, and build something sacred from a solid nervous system not from pressure and pretend power.
If you’re over the noise, stuck in your head, or feel like the leader version of you is hiding this one will flip the switch.
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⏱ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Intro – Meet JR Harvey
01:12 Why Most Men Are Addicted to Pressure
03:45 Nervous System vs Nervous System Games
06:30 The Illusion of “Helping” While Avoiding Yourself
09:01 Leading Without Performing
12:20 What’s Under Your Need to Fix
15:10 Why “Doing The Work” Can Be a Trap
18:02 Sex, Shame, and Self-Betrayal
22:49 Building Brotherhood From Authenticity
25:50 The Real King Energy Men Are Missing
29:30 Final Words for the Men Playing Small
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How to Remove Trauma - Modern Techniques Steven Jaggers #285
2025/07/02
In this episode, I chat with Steven “Jagger” Jaggers Jr (Instagram: @jaggersjr), co‑founder of Somatic Release Breathwork, somatic practitioner, and host of the Mind‑Body Mentor Podcast. We dive deep into how connection heals, the “dirty fuel” of the inner critic, and why emotional digestion is essential for clarity and high-performance.
We unpack:
• Why integration = connection
• How limiting “should” blocks self-awareness
• Emotional release vs. emotional containment
• Breathing into somatic loops to complete trauma
• How somatic safety fuels masculine leadership
• Avoiding burnout & info-addiction in healing work
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Why Nice Guys Finish Last! Dr. Robert Glover
2025/06/16
Nice guys never ask for what they truly want sexually, emotionally, or in relationships.
They overgive, avoid conflict, get resentful, and end up losing themselves and the woman.
In this powerful interview with Dr. Robert Glover (author of No More Mr. Nice Guy), we dive deep into:
• What is Nice Guy Syndrome
• Why giving without receiving leads to frustration
• How to lead in relationships without being controlling
• The truth about boundaries, resentment and masculine leadership
• Why men need embodiment work and nervous system training
• How to break codependency and reclaim your confidence
• Why Aussie and NZ men struggle with Tall Poppy Syndrome
• How to stop being passive and start leading in sex, business, and love
This is raw, honest, and packed with tools to shift your mindset, relationships, and personal power.
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Chapters:
00:00 – What is Nice Guy Syndrome
02:20 – Why giving + not receiving = frustration
05:15 – Masculine leadership vs. controlling behavior
08:45 – How women respond to strong male direction
13:10 – Boundaries, integrity and emotional health
17:55 – Borrowed functioning and codependency traps
24:00 – Nervous-system work and group initiation
40:00 – The power of men’s tribes and retreats
48:00 – Why the Gold Coast gathering matters
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How To Build A Run Club With Viral Content - Noah Rolete RawDawg Runclub #283
2025/06/15
Want to blow up your own run club using social media?
This episode with Noah Rolete from RawDawg Run Club breaks it all down.
We talk about how Noah turned a small idea into a movement using nothing but authentic content, consistency, and a love for running that’s infectious. If you’re someone who wants to build something meaningful, this is the episode to watch.
We cover:
• How to grow a real community without spending a cent
• The exact content that made RawDawg go viral
• What makes a run club stand out on Instagram & TikTok
• How to stay consistent without burning out
• Why most guys play small and never start
If you’ve got an idea a brand, a group, a movement and you want to make it go big with content, this episode will hit home.
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Why People Give Up On Relationships (And How To Avoid It) #282 Alexis Quiterio
2025/06/11
Why Boss Babe Culture Isn’t Working Anymore with Alexis Quiterio
CEO boss babe culture is officially dead.
In this episode, I sit down with feminine embodiment coach Alexis Quiterio to unpack her journey from hardcore gymnastics, extreme discipline, and masculine energy… to surrender, softness, and the magic of true feminine power.
We break down the real reason so many strong women feel exhausted, what men can do to support feminine embodiment, and why dropping control might be the most powerful decision you’ll ever make.
Whether you’re a high-performing woman ready to come back to your body, or a man wanting to understand feminine energy on a deeper level this episode will blow your mind.
Let’s go there. This one’s deep. This one’s real.
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Timestamps
00:00 Why CEO Boss Babe Culture is DEAD
00:36 Alexis’ masculine upbringing & powerful physique
02:45 The turning point: letting go of being “the strong one”
05:05 Women holding men to unrealistic standards
06:59 The art of listening and masculine/feminine communication
08:17 Why feminine women need to receive
09:44 Why men feel useless when they can’t provide
11:12 The biggest compliment men rarely hear
13:08 Masculine vs feminine responses to praise
14:20 What’s missing in modern relationships
16:09 Magic vs masculine outcomes
18:11 Do high-performing men even want wives?
20:02 “I want to be more feminine” but… do everything myself
21:04 Reflective journaling & voice notes as emotional mastery
24:41 Self-awareness, communication, and nervous system safety
27:13 Voice note therapy & embodiment
28:31 Alexis’ sensual embodiment journey
31:58 Patterns, masks, and pressure to perform
33:32 Women: how to slow down and reconnect
35:09 Morning rituals & slowing down in a fast world
39:16 Self-worth vs self-expression
42:07 “Why did I choose to come to this Earth?”
43:16 Moving cities, relationships, and the search for meaning
49:29 Getting off birth control after 12 years (the IUD story)
53:56 Understanding the 28-day feminine cycle
55:06 Healing hormones naturally & returning to feminine power
55:26 What Alexis helps women with now
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Why Most Online Coaches Fail - Nick Komadina #281
2025/06/02
f you’re an introverted business owner who’s secretly been playing small… this is the wake-up call.
In this episode, I sit down with Nick Komodina a powerhouse in the space of nervous system safety, masculine leadership, and energetic presence to unpack what’s really keeping men stuck.
We dive deep into how trauma and Tall Poppy Syndrome stop you from showing up online, crush your confidence in sales, and make you second-guess every move… even though deep down you know you’re capable of so much more.
This conversation will hit hard if:
• You keep downplaying yourself in rooms
• You say “haha” at the end of texts to not be too much
• You’re secretly scared of success and being seen
• You feel like you’re always on edge or just “managing energy”
We get raw about the costs of shrinking, and the nervous system tools to fix it fast — without needing more strategy or grind.
If you’re done dimming your light and you’re ready to become magnetic as f**,* this one’s for you.
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00:00 Hiding to holding power
01:15 The curse of Tall Poppy Syndrome for introverted men
03:02 How trauma makes you shrink in business and dating
05:41 Nervous system shutdown vs real masculine presence
08:20 The hidden cost of being the “nice guy”
11:09 My story: Carrying my ex’s trauma and losing myself
13:46 Why most men can’t be seen – and how to fix it
16:20 Masculine Social Dynamics explained
18:37 Nick breaks down leadership energy
21:00 The moment everything flipped in my business
24:30 Tension, edge, and magnetism in real time
26:44 Why you don’t need to “do more” to be powerful
29:05 The 7-day Magnetic Challenge breakdown
31:12 Closing words for the man who’s ready
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The Truth About Microdosing - Liam Donevan from Peak Human #280
2025/05/22
This episode goes deep on how microdosing and peptides are changing the game for entrepreneurs, high performers, and anyone serious about nervous system regulation.
Liam Donovan runs two human optimisation businesses focused on psychedelics and peptides. In this chat, we break down how he went from corporate depression to fully alive — and how these tools helped him save his father from Parkinson’s burnout.
We talk business, burnout, biohacking, nervous system mastery, trauma, emotional regulation, and how men can actually feel good without selling their soul to Adderall, caffeine, or burnout culture.
If you’re an entrepreneur, introvert, or ambitious man — this is your blueprint for real high performance.
🧠 You’ll learn:
•The best microdosing stack for flow + creativity
•Peptides that actually heal your gut + nervous system
•Why burnout happens and how to fix it without quitting
•What healing has to do with magnetic business success
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🔥 Timestamps
00:00 — Human Optimisation in 2025
01:00 — Liam’s Journey: Corporate to Microdosing
02:30 — LSD for Depression & Real Healing
05:00 — How Psychedelics Boost Creativity
06:45 — Business Clarity Through Microdosing
09:00 — Why Focus Peptides Work Better Than Modafinil
11:30 — Burnout Stories & Overstimulation Warnings
14:00 — Healing The Nervous System with Ketamine
17:00 — Microdosing Helped His Dad With Parkinson’s
20:00 — Big Pharma vs Real Healing
24:00 — HRV, Nervous System, and Entrepreneurship
27:00 — Parasympathetic Wins for Busy Men
30:00 — Best Peptides for Gut, Brain, and Mood
33:00 — Peptides vs Steroids & Synthetic vs Natural
36:00 — AI + Custom Health Optimisation
39:00 — What Most Men Get Wrong About Healing
43:00 — Self-Love, Leadership, and Magnetic Energy
47:00 — Why The Future of Health is Already Here
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FIXED My Marriage and Built a $12M Empire FROM SCRATCH!
2025/05/15
What happens when your business is thriving… but your marriage is falling apart?
In this episode, Tony shares how he went from drinking daily and nearly losing his family — to building a $12M empire, fixing his marriage, and becoming the man his wife and kids needed.
We break down the exact mindset shifts, communication frameworks, and self-leadership practices that helped him turn his life around. If you’re a high-performing man secretly struggling in your relationship, this episode is for you.
Perfect for men who want more success without sacrificing their family, energy, or peace of mind.
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Why High Achieving Men Fail In Relationships - Jordan Candlish
2025/05/09
You can be crushing it in business… but if your relationship is draining your energy, it'll sabotage everything.
In this raw, honest chat with Jordan Candlish, we go deep on what most high-performing men miss regarding love, leadership, and longevity in relationships.
We unpack why your woman stops being attracted to you…
Why you lose presence, energy, and passion…
And how to stop your relationship from destroying your business.
We also dive into how nervous system regulation, self-worth, seasons, shadow work, and masculine leadership can help men create deep, magnetic love without losing their mission.
This one hit deep.
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🔥 Timestamps
00:00 Intro to Jordan Candlish
00:29 How relationships secretly ruin your business
01:14 How to tell if your relationship is draining you
03:22 The missing piece in most modern relationships
04:33 Why your woman feels more like a roommate
05:57 Jordan's personal story of almost losing his relationship
07:17 The 3-month wake-up call that changed everything
08:23 What happens when your woman starts having fun without you
09:43 How they reignited the attraction
11:00 The masculine move that saved their relationship
12:29 How to re-lead your partner after a breakdown
13:49 Why most men can't receive love
15:01 How emotional shutdown shows up in men
17:04 The danger of "always needing to lead"
18:44 Why receiving is the most underrated masculine skill
20:14 The mother wound and avoidant patterns
22:05 When "being nurtured" feels gross for men
24:15 The silent rage that kills your presence
26:03 Shadow integration = actual magnetism
27:44 Fear in business, relationships, and social media
30:18 The root of confidence and powerful content
33:22 Why your season and city matter
35:13 The hidden effects of social media on your nervous system
38:47 The rhythms men need to honour
41:12 How Jordan left corporate and found purpose
44:59 The #1 energy source behind your magnetic presence
49:14 Plants, seasons, and male personal growth
51:29 Upcoming retreats and environments that change you
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Unleash Your Masculine Charm: Use FRAME and Become Irresistible
2025/04/25
Learn how to use the frame to instantly become magnetic in business, dating, and social life. Stop feeling invisible. Start creating tension, opportunities, and authentic attraction using Masculine Social Dynamics (MSD).
Frame is the secret that separates the guy who gets overlooked from the man people feel drawn to.
In this video, I show you how to use a frame correctly, where most men mess it up, and how to build magnetic tension authentically instead of relying on fake confidence or manipulation.
Perfect if you’re ready to level up your personal brand, leadership, dating life, and social circle with real confidence, real fun, and real power.
🔥 What You’ll Learn:
• How framing changes business, dating, and leadership results
• Why internal frame is more important than external tactics
• How playful tension creates deep connection
• Frame examples you can steal for business, dating, and networking
• How to spot when you’re leaking frame and self-sabotaging
• How to stay magnetic over time without losing your edge
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🎯 Take the 7-Day Magnetism Challenge by taking the quiz here:
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⚡ Set The Standard Community: Where men master social magnetism, dating, leadership, and personal branding through real masculine energy.
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🔥 Timestamps
00:00 How Frame Makes You Magnetic
00:31 The Invisible Man vs. The Magnetic Leader
01:14 My Story: Quitting My Job, Launching My Business, & Dating Growth
03:32 Why You MUST Heal First To Have Real Social Power
04:30 Sales, Dating, & Leadership: Frame vs. Manipulation
05:31 How I Used Frame To DM My Future Partner
06:40 The Fun Of Framing In Dating (Examples)
07:49 Building Real Tension Without Being Fake
09:24 Game Theory: Why Men Who Play Win
13:30 Frame Mistakes That Destroy Long-Term Relationships
19:03 How Trauma Breaks Your Frame (And What To Do)
20:05 Social Media Framing Secrets For Business
22:07 Dating Frame Examples You Can Steal
25:28 How To Create Tension Without Rejection
26:46 Bad Frame = High Resistance (Fix This)
27:18 Quick Frame Challenges To Practice
30:03 The Power Of Eye Contact and Intimate Leadership
31:21 Final Challenges To Master Masculine Social Dynamics
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Intro to Masculine Social Dynamics: Becoming Magnetic #272
2025/04/24
Unlock the secrets to becoming a magnetically confident man with our intro to masculine social dynamics.
In this video, we'll dive into the world of self-improvement, exploring the principles of authentic masculinity, emotional intelligence, and social mastery.
You'll learn how to harness your inner power and develop the influence skills needed to build strong relationships, attract like-minded individuals, and exude confidence in any social situation. From networking tricks and alpha behaviour to dating strategies and relationship skills.
This is your blueprint if you're tired of forcing results and want to attract the life, love, and leadership you know you're capable of.
💥 What You'll Learn in This Video:
• How to get over imposter syndrome as a business owner
• The mindset shift that led me to land $1K/month clients instantly
• The exact techniques behind Masculine Social Dynamics (Positioning, Framing, Delivery, Hosting, Authentic Engagement, etc.)
• The magnetism model that helped me triple my income and lead men's groups
• Why discipline alone isn't enough if your nervous system is wrecked
• How to influence people, gain respect, and become that guy without selling out
👇 TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Why MSD was created (and who it's for)
01:58 - Pitching my first $200K offer: full breakdown
05:59 - My first high-ticket client (and how it changed my identity)
07:36 - Position + Frame + Delivery = MSD
09:15 - Steamy Saturdays men's circle story
13:20 - How MSD changes your dating, business, and friendships
14:44 - Why you're haunted by your goals
15:57 - The MSD 4-Step Process
18:14 - Full MSD Skill List
23:22 - Magnetism: The X-Factor
24:53 - Emotional Intelligence = Leadership
26:34 - Self-audit questions to unlock magnetism
27:12 - Join the 7-Day Magnetic Challenge
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Big love Corey
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