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Let's Get Visible Workshop If your ideal customer doesn't know you exist, it doesn't matter how great your business is. In this workshop episode, we break down five proven, actionable strategies military spouse entrepreneurs can use to get seen, build credibility, and connect with the people who actually want to buy from them — no matter how many times you've moved or restarted. Key Highlights Media features: how to pitch your story to local news, magazines, and blogs — and the follow-up step most entrepreneurs skip. Networking groups: why being an active member (not just a member) of communities like AMSE creates real referrals. Online presence: keeping your website and social profiles current, accurate, and SEO-friendly so people can actually find you. Content as credibility: using blog posts, video, or podcasting to answer the questions your audience is already asking. Testimonials and social proof: why asking for feedback after every win is one of the easiest ways to build trust fast. Who This Episode Is For Military spouse entrepreneurs who feel like their business is invisible in a crowded market, anyone unsure where to focus their marketing energy first, and business owners ready to turn their story into their biggest asset. Grab the visibility workbook here.

Empowering Military Spouses: Inside the More Than a MilSpouse Summit Laura Early — friend of the show and fellow entrepreneur — joins Owning Up to talk about the upcoming More Than a MilSpouse Summit and why being in the room matters for military spouses building businesses. From summit updates to the power of community and networking, Laura makes the case for why every spouse's story and presence counts. Key Highlights The More Than a MilSpouse Summit is now set for October 9–10 at Dallas College, after a venue change from the National Medal of Honor Museum. Founders First Capital Partners is partnering with the summit to offer a $1,000 cash grant to select attendees. Laura shares why building a business as an active-duty spouse takes a different kind of flex and grit. The summit is built specifically for military spouses — a space to connect, share experiences, and support one another. Laura reflects on how her own business has grown through relationships built at past events, and why face-to-face connection builds trust that's hard to replicate. Memorable Quotes "Building a business as an active duty spouse takes a different kind of flex and grit." "The ROI of being in a room filled with military spouses is infinite." "You deserve to be in the room." "I want my kids to see me loving what I do." Who This Episode Is For Military spouse entrepreneurs deciding whether to attend the summit, spouses feeling isolated in their business journey, and anyone who needs a reminder that their story and presence in the room matter. Resources Purchase More Than A Milspouse Summit Tickets - https://amcagency.com/summit   Wise Advice and Assist - https://wiseadviceandassist.org   MilSpo Social Co. Magazine - https://milsposocial.com  Join AMSE: amsemembers.com We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Note: This is a cross episode promotion. Make sure to tune into The Military Spouse Show. A special thank you to Blubrry for supporting this episode and Wendy's presentation at the More Than a MilSpouse Summit. Blubrry is a podcast hosting and media publishing platform that helps creators launch, grow, and monetize their shows. This episode is dedicated to the late Todd Cochran, founder of Blubrry, a retired Navy Senior Chief Petty Officer and a true pioneer in podcasting. His support for military creators and entrepreneurs continues to make an impact. In this special Behind the Brand episode of The Military Spouse Show, Wendy sits down with Moni Jefferson, CEO and Founder of the Association of Military Spouse Entrepreneurs (AMSE), live from the More Than a MilSpouse Summit presented by Newrez in Arlington, Texas. This episode was recorded at the National Medal of Honor Museum during an event bringing together military spouses building businesses and exploring their passions. Moni shares the story behind creating a space specifically designed for military spouses – one that leaves you feeling full, seen, and empowered. From building a business rooted in family to navigating unexpected life transitions, this conversation offers honest insights into entrepreneurship, resilience, and personal growth.  In this episode, we cover: The inspiration behind More Than a MilSpouse Summit Why military spouses are one of the most untapped communities Building a business as a family affair Profit vs. nonprofit – and shifting the narrative for military spouse businesses A $10,000 lesson in entrepreneurship (and why it was still worth it) Navigating life transitions, loss, and a season of recalibration The mindset shift: Getting out of your own way  Learn more about the More Than a MilSpouse Summit and upcoming opportunities to attend:  Wendy will be sharing her featured presentation, "Your Voice, Your Show – Choosing the Right Podcast Style for You", in an upcoming episode of The Military Spouse Show. Whether you're starting something new, navigating change, or finding your way back to yourself – this is your encouragement to keep going. Connect with us on Facebook at The Military Spouse Show – The Military Spouse Coach and share your questions or ideas for future episodes, we'd love to hear from you. The Military Spouse Show is powered by Riverside. Thank you, Riverside. Thank you so much for being here and listening! We invite you to subscribe to the show and let us know what you think. Cheers! Resources Purchase More Than A Milspouse Summit Tickets - https://amcagency.com/summit MilSpo Social Co. Magazine - https://milsposocial.com  Join AMSE: amsemembers.com We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Episode Overview Moni shares the exciting details of the upcoming More Than A Milspouse Summit, emphasizing its unique value for military spouses and entrepreneurs. She discusses the event's purpose, structure, key partners, and the theme 'Build It Bold,' inspiring listeners to participate and connect.  Key  Topics Event details and venue at the National Medal of Honor Museum The importance of networking and meeting new people Partnerships with organizations like Business Beyond the Battlefield, Wise Advice and Assist, Transition Mill Spouse, and MilSpo Social Theme 'Build It Bold' and its significance for military spouses Target audience: military spouses, veterans, active duty, and entrepreneurs Event structure: three days of sessions, networking, vendor engagement, and closing activities Focus on community, collaboration, and real strategies for business growth Encouragement to attend and participate actively  Takeaways The summit is a three-day in-person event designed for military spouses and entrepreneurs. It emphasizes community, collaboration, and boldness in building businesses. Participants should come with a strategy for vendor engagement and networking. The event is inclusive of all military branches, veterans, and non-profits. The theme 'Build It Bold' encourages attendees to pursue their dreams fearlessly.  Resources Purchase More Than A Milspouse Summit Tickets - https://amcagency.com/summit Business Beyond the Battlefield - https://businessbeyondthebattlefield.org Wise Advice and Assist - https://wiseadviceandassist.org Transition Mill Spouse - https://transitionmillspouse.com MilSpo Social Co. Magazine - https://milsposocial.com  Join AMSE: amsemembers.com We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Episode Overview  Moni, the founder of AMSE, shares a heartfelt message of encouragement for military spouses navigating chaos, grief, and joy during turbulent times. She emphasizes the importance of resilience, faith, and protecting one's peace while continuing to build their businesses and lives. Takeaways You have permission to keep going despite chaos. Joy and grief can coexist; it's part of being human. Protect your peace by disengaging from negativity. Your mission and purpose still matter in tough times. Faith provides hope and strength in adversity. Resources Purchase More Than A Milspouse Summit Tickets - https://amcagency.com/summit We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

The Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide is back with its 11th issue, and this one is all about AI — specifically, how military spouse entrepreneurs can use AI tools to simplify, scale, and streamline their businesses. In this episode, we are diving into what makes this issue so valuable, why contributing to the guide is a game-changer for your visibility and credibility, and how you can use AI in your day-to-day operations without feeling overwhelmed by the tech.  Plus, we are talking about what is coming next — the 12th issue and the More Than a Military Spouse Summit. If you are a military spouse entrepreneur looking to grow smarter, not harder, this episode is for you. In This Episode, You'll Learn: What is inside Issue 11 of the Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide and why AI is the focus The benefits of contributing to the guide — visibility, credibility, and community connection How military spouse entrepreneurs can use AI tools to manage operations, marketing, and content creation Real examples of AI in action for small business owners What is coming up next — the 12th issue and the More Than a Military Spouse Summit Key Takeaways: AI is not just for tech companies — it is a practical tool that can save military spouse entrepreneurs time and energy Contributing to the Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide gives you a platform to share your expertise and connect with a wider audience The guide is designed to support, educate, and elevate military spouse entrepreneurs at every stage of business Community-driven resources like the guide create opportunities for collaboration and visibility The More Than a Military Spouse Summit is an upcoming event to watch — details coming soon Resources Mentioned: Join AMSE: amsemembers.com Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide ad inquiries: here Submit photos for the guide: here Chapter information and meetup RSVPs: Available in member portal We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Episode Overview: div]:bg-bg-000/50 [&_pre>div]:border-0.5 [&_pre>div]:border-border-400 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8"> _*]:min-w-0 gap-3 standard-markdown"> In this powerful episode, host Moni sits down with Christina Kimbrough, founder of Free Life and AMSE Hampton Roads Chapter Leader, to explore her mission to revolutionize how we socialize. With 54% of Americans choosing not to drink—the lowest rate since Prohibition—Christina is creating inclusive, alcohol-free spaces where connection and celebration thrive without the pressure to drink. From mobile bartending with non-alcoholic beverages to intentional gatherings, Free Life proves that fun, friendship, and authentic connection don't require alcohol. Key Highlights Christina's journey from struggling military spouse to entrepreneur with a mission The "I'm sober, not dead" philosophy driving Free Life Why 54% of Americans aren't drinking and the rise of the "sober curious" movement Creating judgment-free spaces for genuine connection and social health Mobile bartending services and alcohol-free events that actually feel celebratory Balancing entrepreneurship with AMSE DC Chapter Leadership Addressing loneliness in military life through intentional, inclusive gatherings How to maintain meaningful friendships without alcohol as the centerpiece Memorable Quotes "I'm sober, not dead!" 54% of Americans aren't drinking—the lowest rate since Prohibition You can feel lonely in a crowd—Free Life changes that Who This Episode Is For Anyone exploring sobriety or sober-curious living, military spouses seeking genuine connection, people tired of alcohol-centric social events, and anyone who wants to celebrate life without the hangover. Connect with Christina & Free Life: Website Tags: #FreeLife #SoberCurious #MilitarySpouse #AlcoholFree #SocialHealth #AMSEChapterLeader #SoberCommunity #AuthenticConnection   Resources Mentioned: Join AMSE: amsemembers.com Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide ad inquiries: here Submit photos for the guide: here Chapter information and meetup RSVPs: Available in member portal We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Episode Overview:  In this honest conversation, Moni sits down with Stephani Shepherd, founder of Great Life is a Must and AMSE DC Chapter Leader, to talk about something military spouses rarely give themselves—permission to take a break. Stephani's "Momentarily Gone" initiative is challenging the narrative that good moms sacrifice everything, proving instead that self-care isn't selfish, it's survival. From navigating the mental load of parenting to building a thriving chapter of military spouse entrepreneurs, Stephani shares practical wisdom on creating boundaries, communicating needs, and why every mom deserves a moment to herself. Key Highlights The journey from military spouse struggle to entrepreneurship and purpose What "Momentarily Gone" really means (hint: it doesn't require a plane ticket) Why "we as moms need a break" isn't just nice—it's necessary Overcoming the guilt that keeps mothers from prioritizing themselves The mental health imperative: you can't pour from an empty cup Navigating the "default parent" role and establishing healthy boundaries How to communicate your needs with your partner effectively Leading the AMSE DC chapter and empowering military spouse entrepreneurs The transformative power of community support and connection Why self-care actually makes you a better parent and partner Memorable Moments "We as moms need a break" "I want every mom to experience a break" "It's okay to do, be a great mom" Addressing the common question: "How do I convince my husband?" The importance of creating boundaries to prioritize mental health Who This Episode Is For Military spouses feeling overwhelmed by constant relocations and the mental load, mothers carrying guilt about wanting personal time, anyone struggling with the default parent role, entrepreneurs balancing business and family, and women seeking community and empowerment. Resources Mentioned: Join AMSE: amsemembers.com Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide ad inquiries: here Submit photos for the guide: here Chapter information and meetup RSVPs: Available in member portal We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Episode Overview: In this inspiring episode of Owning Up, AMSE CEO and Founder Moni sits down with Marah Lago, cofounder of Military CreatorCon, to explore how this groundbreaking conference is transforming the landscape for military creatives. From its humble beginnings as a one-day event to becoming a thriving hub for storytellers, entrepreneurs, and innovators, Military CreatorCon offers something truly different—a community-first approach that prioritizes connection over competition. Discover what makes this event a must-attend for anyone in the military community looking to grow their creative or entrepreneurial venture. Key Highlights The Story Behind the Vision Marah's creative lineage: daughter of a renowned painter, granddaughter of a famous soccer player From successful jewelry designer to military spouse advocate Recognizing the gap: why military creatives needed their own space The evolution from one-day event to thriving annual conference What Sets Military CreatorCon Apart Come as you are—no pretenses, just authentic connection Mentorship and collaboration over competition A supportive ecosystem designed specifically for military community challenges For everyone: from curious beginners to seasoned entrepreneurs Inside the Experience Energizing morning activities: yoga and running to kickstart your day Diverse track offerings: content creation, storytelling, entrepreneurship, tech, and innovation Star-studded speakers including Silicon Valley guru Christopher Lockhead Catered meals = stress-free networking and meaningful conversations Intimate, relaxed setting that encourages genuine connection The Community Advantage Combating the isolation of military life through collaboration Building lasting relationships with people who truly understand your journey Strength in shared experiences and mutual support Growing together, not alone Who Should Attend Content creators at any stage of their journey Military spouse entrepreneurs looking to expand their network Veterans exploring creative or business ventures Anyone in the military community ready to ignite their passion and connect with their people Take Action Ready to be part of something special? Military CreatorCon is calling your name. Whether you're just starting to explore your creative side or you're a seasoned pro looking for fresh inspiration and authentic community, this event promises to deliver. Mark your calendar, grab your ticket, and get ready to connect with fellow military creatives who get it. Get started here! Resources Mentioned: Join AMSE: amsemembers.com Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide ad inquiries: here Submit photos for the guide: here Chapter information and meetup RSVPs: Available in member portal We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Episode Overview In this episode Moni highlights a dynamic lineup of February programming created specifically for military spouses. From leadership development and AI integration to conquering impostor syndrome and business strategy, these events provide practical tools, expert coaching, and meaningful connections. Whether you're launching your first venture or scaling an established business, this month offers opportunities to grow alongside a supportive community that truly understands the military spouse experience. Key Highlights Leadership development workshops tailored for military spouses Expert coaching sessions on business strategy and AI tools Community-driven support for overcoming impostor syndrome Networking opportunities with fellow military spouse entrepreneurs Actionable guidance for every stage of your business journey A full month of resources designed to build confidence and capability 👋 Welcome New Members! Excited to have members joined in January—welcome to the community! Don't forget to introduce yourself in the intro thread. Resources Mentioned: Join AMSE: amsemembers.com Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide ad inquiries: here Submit photos for the guide: here Chapter information and meetup RSVPs: Available in member portal We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Your Business Deserves Love Too: A February Playbook. February is the month of love — but when was the last time you actually showed your business some love? Not just hustle, not just grind, but real, intentional care for the thing you have been building. In this episode, Moni is walking through a simple February playbook with actionable ways to pour into your business this month. From tidying up your finances to giving your brand a refresh, nurturing your people, and even taking your business on a date night — this is all about showing up with intention. If you have been running on autopilot or feeling disconnected from your business lately, this episode is your reset button.  In This Episode, You'll Learn: How to show your finances some love — reconcile your books, revisit your pricing, and follow up on outstanding invoices Simple ways to give your business a glow up — clean your inbox, update your website, refresh your social profiles How to invest in yourself as the business owner — study what is working, learn a new skill, say yes to something you have been putting off Why nurturing your people matters — send real thank yous, engage authentically, and spread the love to other businesses How to take your business on a date night — revisit your vision, do something fun, and celebrate your wins Key Takeaways: Loving your business does not have to be complicated or expensive — it just takes intention Small actions like cleaning up your inbox or updating your website can make a big impact on how you feel about your business Investing in yourself is investing in your business — the two are connected Gratitude and engagement go a long way in building real relationships with your customers and collaborators Celebrating your wins — big or small — is not optional, it is necessary  Your Action Step: Pick two or three things from this playbook and commit to doing them this month. Start small, stay intentional, and watch how it shifts the way you show up for your business. We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

In this episode of the Owning Up podcast, Moni speaks with Kera Sanchez, founder of MilSpo Social Magazine, about her journey as a military spouse and entrepreneur. They discuss the importance of community, collaboration, and support among military spouses, the challenges of starting a business, and the mindset shifts necessary for success. Kera shares her experiences with failure, time management, and the mission of her magazine to empower women and provide visibility to diverse voices in the military spouse community. Takeaways Kera Sanchez emphasizes the importance of community and collaboration among military spouses. Investing time is more crucial than financial investment when starting a business. Failing fast is essential for growth and learning in entrepreneurship. Women should not hesitate to share their stories and support each other in business. Diversity in representation is vital for inspiring others in their entrepreneurial journeys. Starting a business requires a vision, grit, and courage to overcome challenges. It's important to embrace failure as a learning opportunity rather than a setback. Kera's magazine aims to provide visibility to women at all stages of their entrepreneurial journey. Your story and business matter, and they can thrive even in military life. Learn more about Kera Sanchez and MilSpo Magazine:  IG Website Amazon Link Issuu Link We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Episode Overview Running a business as a military spouse means navigating PCS moves, deployments, and constant change. In this episode, we're ditching the hustle mentality and talking about what it really means to build a lifestyle business—one that adapts to YOUR life, not the other way around. Plus, our CEO, Moni Jefferson is sharing her exact weekly schedule structure and the game-changing approach to daily to-do lists that finally helped me feel "done." In This Episode What is a Lifestyle Business? A business built around your desired lifestyle, values, and season of life—not just maximum revenue. The key difference: You're optimizing for flexibility and fulfillment rather than scaling at all costs. Lifestyle Business Examples for Milspouses Virtual assistant services you can do from anywhere (PCS-proof!) Coaching or consulting with flexible scheduling around deployment cycles Digital products like courses, templates, or printables that generate income during a move Photography business where you control your booking calendar Freelance writing or social media management with location independence My Weekly Themed Day Schedule Monday - Admin & Alignment Day: Goal review, planning, organizing, and setting the week's tone Tuesday - Forward-Facing Day: Client calls, podcast recording, anything that requires being "on" Wednesday - Deep Work Day: Strategy sessions, big projects, creative thinking—no meetings allowed Thursday - Ad Hoc/Flex Day: Buffer for overflow, unexpected tasks, or whatever inevitably comes up Friday - Finance Friday: Invoicing, bookkeeping, bank reconciliation, budget review, all things money Weekends: Every other weekend, one half-day work session for flexibility without burnout Why Themed Days Work Themed days reduce decision fatigue, create momentum through batching similar tasks, make it easier to defer non-urgent work, and protect your energy and focus. The Daily To-Do List Strategy The problem: We finish our work list and immediately add more tasks—we never feel "done." The solution: Create your realistic daily task list in the morning Once complete, STOP adding work tasks Keep a separate "Life List" for household projects, reading, hobbies, and rest activities Train your brain that completion is real and creates space for life beyond work Bonus tip: Try keeping a "done list" to acknowledge what you actually accomplished each day Key Takeaways Your business should serve your life, not consume it—and that doesn't make you less ambitious, it makes you strategic Themed days aren't about perfection; they're about reducing the mental load of constantly switching contexts Finishing your to-do list should feel like an accomplishment, not an invitation to add five more things Military life is unpredictable enough—your business structure should bring calm, not chaos We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook

Episode Overview: Welcome to the AMSE monthly update! Join Moni, CEO and Founder of the Association of Military Spouse Entrepreneurs, as she shares everything happening this month inside the AMSE Circle—your verified community for military spouse business owners. In This Episode: 🎉 Big News: Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide Issue 11 75,000 printed copies distributed across military installations nationwide Ad space available starting at $250 (limited spots remaining!) Automatic inclusion for all members as of January 1st in the Military Spouse Directory Created by military spouses, for military spouses, in partnership with Stars and Stripes Submit your photos for potential feature consideration! 🔐 Join the AMSE Community Free membership at amseemembers.com Verified through GovEx (similar to ID.me) Safe, vetted community exclusively for military spouses 📅 January Events - 6 Opportunities to Learn & Connect 1. Imposter Syndrome Reset Circle Host: Heather Jones (certified coach, military spouse & veteran) Explore the mind-body connection behind freezing, shrinking, and undercharging Recurring sessions: February 18, March, April, May 2. Hampton Roads Chapter Meetup Date: January 16, 8-10am Location: Back Bay's Farmhouse (in-person) Chapter Leader: Christina Kimbrough, Founder of Free Life 3. Military Spouse Entrepreneur Open House Date: January 20 Learn AMSE benefits and network with fellow military spouse entrepreneurs RSVP via Eventbrite link 4. AMSE Leadership Lab: Lead Like You Mean It Host: Andrea Singas (certified coach) Discover leadership qualities you already have as a military spouse 5. DC Chapter Virtual Meetup: Reach Customers Online with Google Date: January 23 Chapter Leader: Stephanie Shepherd Open to entire AMSE community 6. Additional networking and learning opportunities throughout the month ✨ All Access Member Perks On-demand small business courses including Maria Elena's 3-part "Googleize Your Business" series Voxer coaching with Moni for real-time support Exclusive VIP intensive this month Access to the All Access Lounge Monthly CEO Power Hour guidance 👋 Welcome New Members! 13 new members joined in December—welcome to the community! Don't forget to introduce yourself in the intro thread. Resources Mentioned: Join AMSE: amsemembers.com Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide ad inquiries: here Submit photos for the guide: here Chapter information and meetup RSVPs: Available in member portal We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook Connect with AMSE: Ready to stop building your business alone? Join our verified community of military spouse entrepreneurs today and access events, resources, coaching, and a network that truly understands your journey.

In this episode, Moni and Andrea discuss the often-overlooked leadership skills that military spouses possess and how they can leverage these skills in their businesses. They explore the unique challenges faced by military spouses, including adaptability, crisis management, and the importance of community support. Andrea emphasizes the need for self-awareness, recognizing one's leadership abilities, and the importance of setting boundaries to avoid burnout. The conversation also touches on practical steps for military spouses to embrace their leadership roles and maintain momentum during transitions such as PCS moves. Takeaways Leadership skills are often built without conscious awareness. Military spouses possess unique leadership superpowers such as adaptability and resilience. Community support is crucial for overcoming feelings of isolation in leadership roles. Recognizing and celebrating your leadership contributions is essential for self-empowerment. Making decisions alone can be challenging; seek accountability and support. Imposter syndrome is common; focus on authenticity and self-awareness to combat  Setting boundaries is vital for maintaining personal well-being and business success. Dreaming big for your business is important; write down your goals. Utilize your skills strategically to enhance your business operations. Leadership is about influence and action, not just titles.  We love how our listeners support the mission of AMSE and the Owning Up podcast. As we continue to grow, advocate, and support military spouse entrepreneurs, we wanted to offer that same chance to you, our listeners. For only $5 - you can increase our reach within our community - locally, nationally, and globally. Visit Glow.fm/owningup to become an Owning Up supporter today!  We'd love to have you join our fantastic community! Join the ASSOC. OF MILITARY SPOUSE ENTREPRENEUR COMMUNITY: https://www.amsemembers.com/ Learn more about AMSE at www.amseagency.com Follow Monika Jefferson on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook  Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook