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The weekend of May 20th-22nd, 2022 was supposed to be the Parenting Decolonized Conference, but the conference has been postponed and rescheduled for September 23rd-25th, 2022. In this solo episode of Parenting Decolonized, I share my candid thoughts and feelings behind this decision and what you can expect from Parenting Decolonized moving forward in 2022. You’ll also hear a bit about my journey in building an intentional community in Georgia with other single, Black moms.  I hope to see you at the Parenting Decolonized Conference on September 23rd-25th, 2022! Until then… Pause. Seek rest. Choose joy. Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of Parenting Decolonized Podcast on Facebook and Instagram! Read the TRANSCRIPT here: link

We need new educational curriculums, we need to unpack our ableism and check out privilege, and we need to do it now. In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Heather Clarke, a Black Afro Caribbean educational disability advocate, professor of special education and child development, and neurodivergent mother of two. Listen in as Heather and I have a powerful discussion about how to create real change in your child’s school system and why it’s important to unpack your own ableism and privilege (even if you’re Black and neurodivergent). In this episode, we talk about… How to better show up for your community’s education and advocate for your child. Should parents be in charge of their children’s educational curriculum? Anti-Blackness and ableism in the parenting space. How to unpack your ableism and your privilege as a parent. ….and more! Are you ready to lead with acceptance, dismantle ableism, and see real change in your child’s education?  Tune into this discussion to learn more! Then, join us in the Conscious Parenting for Social Justice Collective, our Black-led, multiracial collective of parents, working together to simultaneously transform ourselves, our families, and our communities by decolonizing our minds! Can’t wait to see you there! P.S. Heather is hosting a workshop for parents on navigating the IEP process with a culturally responsive lens during the Parenting Decolonized Conference (May 20th-22nd, 2022). Don’t miss it! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Heather: Visit her website: www.learning-advocate.com Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/learning_advocate Follow her on Twitter: www.twitter.com/learnadvocate

What can our ancestral history teach us about parenting, liberation, and revolution? A lot. Let’s get into it. In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Dr. Crystal Menzies, Founder and Chief Innovation Officer of EmancipatED, an organization that centers stories of joy and resistance within the African Diaspora through the creation of educational resources and curricula. Listen in to learn about how liberation work and conscious parenting are rooted in our ancestral practices and how we can reclaim these colonized practices to revolutionize our future. In this episode, we talk about… The history of Maroon communities and why they’re significant to us today. How white people have colonized and rebranded tribal parenting methods. How to intentionally build a supportive community to help nurture your conscious parenting and liberation work. The EmancipatED Experience: A brand new community education resource that supports the enrichment of Black families and our larger kinship communities. ….and more! Looking for a community that will support you on your parenting decolonization journey? Listen in to this discussion to learn more and consider joining the Conscious Parenting for Social Justice Collective, our Black-led, multiracial collective of parents, working together to simultaneously transform ourselves, our families, and our communities by decolonizing our minds and healing racial traumas! Hope to see you there! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Dr. Crystal & EmancipatED: Visit EmancipatED’s website: www.emancipatededucation.com Follow them on Instagram: www.instagram.com/emancipate_ed

In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Ira X Armstrong, a mixed Black trans parent, Freedom Fighter, Social Entrepreneur and Educator who is working to create climate sustainability through social permaculture. Listen in to gain insight into Ira’s decolonization journey and learn how you can begin to shift your mindset, reprogram yourself, and become the decolonized parent you want to be. In this episode, we talk about… Defining social permaculture through the lens of decolonization. Overcoming depression and exhaustion as an activist and decolonizer. The impacts of enslavement and colonization on African-Americans & The traumatic effects of experiencing houselessness. How colonization harms everyone, including white people & Why decolonization is harm reduction. 4 ways to start decolonizing your life. ….and more! Curious to know more about what it means to decolonize parenthood?  Need a community that will support you on your decolonization journey? Tune in to this powerful discussion to learn more and consider joining the Conscious Parenting for Social Justice Collective, a Black-led, multiracial collective of parents, working together to simultaneously transform ourselves, our families, and our communities by decolonizing our minds and healing racial traumas caused by white supremacist/capitalist power structures. Hope to see you there! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Ira & PEACE Out Loud: Visit Ira’s website: www.iraxarmstrong.com Follow them on Twitter: www.twitter.com/fraggle94  Visit PEACE Out Loud’s website: www.peaceoutloud.org Connect with them on Facebook: www.facebook.com/polberkeley Follow them on Instagram: www.instagram.com/peace_out_loud

So, your child just received an Autism diagnosis… Now what? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Maria Davis-Pierre, the Founder and CEO of Autism in Black Inc., an organization that aims to bring awareness to Autism and reduce the stigma associated with the diagnosis in the Black community. Tune in to gain insight into what it’s like to be the parent of a Black Autistic child and how to best support yourself and your child throughout this journey. In this episode, we talk about… How difficult is it to get an Autism diagnosis for my child? What to do after your child gets diagnosed. The problem with Autism “support groups” & Dealing with racism and ableism inside and outside of your community. Defining ableism in the context of anti-blackness. The two most important things you can do for your Autistic child. Advice for parents struggling to self-regulate during stressful parenting moments. What is masking? Why is masking harmful for disabled kids? ….and more! Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Maria & Autism in Black: Visit Autism Black’s website: www.autisminblack.org Connect with them on Facebook: www.facebook.co/autisminblk Follow them on Instagram: www.instagram.com/autisminblack

What can we do to nurture not only our own mental health, but the mental health of our children? How can we raise children to be more conscious? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Olaolu Ogunyemi, a husband, father of three, teen mentor, U.S. Marine Officer, and author of the best-selling children’s book, Crow From the Shadow. Tune in to learn how to combat harmful mental health norms while raising conscious children. In this episode, we talk about… The importance of discussing mental health/illness in the black community. Advice for parents who are struggling with mental illness & parents whose children are struggling with mental illness. Raising mentally tough boys - Is it necessary? How patriarchy and “masculinity” are actually harming men. How to change unhealthy behavior patterns to become a more conscious parent. Helping children build resilience in the face of racism and the pressures of life. Why Olaolu started writing children’s books & The meaning behind Crow From the Shadow. ….and more! Ready to combat harmful mental health norms? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Olaolu: Visit Parent-Child-Connect: https://parent-child-connect.com Connect with him on Facebook: www.facebook.com/olaolu.ogunyemi Follow him on Instagram: www.instagram.com/captainono06

Do you ever wonder: What is going on with my kids at school? Are they truly thriving or just scraping by? Is homeschooling the best option for us? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Jae Williams, a former teacher turned BlackDad YouTuber and relaxed homeschooler for his two young kids. Tune in to learn about the flaws of the traditional education system and how unschooling attempts to counter those flaws, along with tips for black dads on being a conscious parent. In this episode, we talk about… • Why Jae left his teaching job to unschool his children at home. • How he reacts to stigmas and misconceptions of homeschooling, particularly from family/in-laws. • Advice for parents whose children are struggling in school. • Advice for parents who want to pursue unschooling/homeschooling. • Jae’s biggest fears as a black dad and unschooler & How he parents from love instead of fear. • Capitalism, societal constructs, & raising happy, liberated children. • Trying to be a good father after growing up without a father. • ….and more! Ready to start unschooling yourself and child(ren)? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Jae: Subscribe to his YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/blackdad Follow him on Twitter: www.twitter.com/BlackDadJourney Watch the Happy movie: https://thehappymovie.square.site Join Conscious Parenting for the Culture Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/CPTime

Does low self-worth impact the parent/child dynamic? Can we raise liberated children by cultivating our unconditional self-worth? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Dr. Adia Gooden, a licensed clinical psychologist, speaker, and host of the Unconditionally Worthy Podcast. Tune in to learn why it’s crucial to center your self-worth in your parenting journey. In this episode, we talk about… Ways that low self-worth can impact you and your children’s lives. How to recognize underlying triggers that stem from low self-worth and respond appropriately. Why it’s important to detach your worthiness from your child’s worthiness. How to cultivate unconditional self-worth in your children. ….and more! Ready to start cultivating your unconditional self-worth? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Adia: Visit her website: www.dradiagooden.com Listen to her podcast: www.dradiagooden.com/podcast Connect with her on Facebook: www.facebook.com/dradiagooden Follow him on Instagram: www.instagram.com/draidagooden

Is it possible to decolonize parenting by “fighting the system”? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Sundiata Soon-Jahta, an Unschooler, Systems Thinker, Authentic Dialogue Facilitator, Entrepreneur, and Anti-Oppression Educator, Content Creator, & Organizer. Tune in to learn how systems thinking can help us understand the root cause of colonization and how to dismantle systems of oppression. In this episode, we talk about… Defining systems thinking, specifically in the context of decolonization. Why we shouldn’t be “fighting the system” & What you should do instead. How various systems, like patriarchy and white supremacy, were created & How they continue to evolve and feed one another. Conscious parenting and unschooling as an act of social justice and decolonization. Resources for learning more about systems thinking. ….and more! Ready to start reimagining the future using systems thinking? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Sundiata: Visit his website: drsundiata.com Listen to his podcast: www.liveindivisible.com Connect with him on Facebook: www.facebook.com/iGoToGrow Follow him on Instagram: www.instagram.com/dr.sundiata More Resources: Theory of Indivisibility Framework: https://bit.ly/33FXqK5 Systems Thinking Resource - The Unschool of Disruptive Design: www.unschools.co Systems Thinking Resource (free) - thwink.org Thinking in Systems by Donella Meadows: https://amzn.to/3rn17ws “My Violent Youth And The Systems That Made Me” by Sundiata Soon-Jahta: https://bit.ly/3fCZl4I “After The Protest…Organize. A Radical Guide For Creating Sustainable Change” by Sundiata Soon-Jahta: https://bit.ly/3nBAOSf

How does our childhood impact the way we parent? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Danielle Faust, an Intuitive Life Coach, Hypnotherapist, Energy Healer, and Manifesting Mentor. Tune in to learn how our childhood wounds affect us throughout parenthood and what we can do to rewrite these harmful narratives. In this episode, we talk about… What is inner child work and “reparenting”? Common inner child wounds and how they show up in parenting. 2 ways to heal and integrate your inner child wounds. Why it’s harder for black and brown parents to work through inner child wounds and societal wounds. 3 mindset shifts you can make to be the parent you want to be. ….and more! Ready to start healing your inner child wounds? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Danielle: Visit her blog: www.OKDani.com Visit her website: DanielleFaust.com Listen to her podcast: http://bit.ly/manifestitsis Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/thedanifaust Follow her on Twitter: www.twitter.com/daniellefaust Subscribe to her YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/c/DaniFaust Connect with her on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/daniellefaust Connect with her on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CoachDaniFaust

The sex talk… every parent’s worst nightmare, right? Actually, it doesn’t have to be scary. In reality, it can kickstart an empowering, educational experience for your kids. In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Raven Faber, Founder and CEO of EngErotics, Inc., a company using the fundamentals of engineering, math, and science to design and develop high-quality sex toys and CBD-infused intimate body care products. Tune in to hear an eye-opening conversation about sexual shame and stigma as well as how to start talking to your kids about sex. In this episode, we talk about… The historical context behind why we feel shame and stigma towards sex. Tips for parents on talking to your kids about sex, intimacy, pleasure, and the body. At what age do I start the sex talk? Should parents encourage masturbation? Raven shares the story of why her mom suggested masturbating with a vibrator. The problem with the lack of safety regulation for sex toys and intimate body care products. ….and more! Ready to start instilling confidence in your children and empowering them to embrace their sexuality? Listen in to this incredible discussion to learn more and be sure to check out EngErotics! Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram! To connect further with Raven & EngErotics: Visit her website: www.engerotics.com Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/engerotics Follow her on Twitter: www.twitter.com/EngErotics Connect with her on Facebook: www.facebook.com/EngErotics

Is your child autistic or have you just found out that your child is autistic? Allow me to connect you with a powerful resource and autism advocate. In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Natasha Nelson, Certified Positive Discipline Parent Educator, Founder of Supernova Momma, and mother of two wonderful autistic Black girls. Natasha sheds light on what it’s like to be autistic, to parent autistic children, and to combat ableism at home and at school. In this episode, we talk about… Natasha’s experience being diagnosed with autism as an adult & How that’s helped her parent her children. Ways you can relate to and connect with your autistic child. What is masking and how does it impact the lives of autistic people? The mourning period that may come after an autism diagnosis. How to support the needs of your autistic child. Advice on being a better advocate for an autistic child. ….and more! To connect further with Natasha: Visit her website: www.supernovamomma.com Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/supernova_momma Follow her on Twitter: www.twitter.com/supernovamomma The Intro to Positive Discipline Workshop: www.supernovamomma.com/the-intro Try a Little Tenderness Workshop: www.supernovamomma.com/positive-discipline-workshop/try-a-little-tenderness Take Me As I Am Workshop: www.supernovamomma.com/take-me-as-i-am Supernova Momma Course: www.supernovamomma.com/positive-discipline-workshop/7-session-virtual-positive-discipline-parenting-course Ready to start COMBATTING ABLEISM? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more and be sure to check out Natasha’s positive discipline workshops and courses. Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!