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Hello and welcome back! In today's episode I'm sharing a recent experience I had with someone who was trying to manipulate in some pretty blatant and creative ways- so that you can better spot and identify when someone is trying to manipulate and control you. I'm sharing the story of what happened - and the strategies they were using to deceive, manipulate and exploit me for their personal gain. I hope this episode helps you to spot these tactics if and when you encounter them in your world! Podcast Disclaimer Is It Me or Is It Them? is intended for educational and informational purposes only. While I’m a registered social worker and psychotherapist, this podcast is not therapy and listening does not create a therapist-client relationship. The ideas and perspectives shared here are general in nature and may not be appropriate for every person or situation. Please use your own judgment and seek support from a qualified professional when needed. Any examples or stories shared are intended to illustrate common experiences and have been changed, combined, or generalized to protect privacy. Nothing shared on this podcast should be understood as describing a specific client or therapeutic relationship. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect my views or professional recommendations. By listening, you understand that you are responsible for how you choose to apply the information shared.

What if the question isn’t “What’s wrong with me?” — but “What if I’ve outgrown the room I’m in?” In this episode, April explores a quiet question many self-reflective people carry: What if I’m the problem? You’ll hear about: Why depth and honesty are often mislabeled as “too much”How growth can feel isolating, even when you’re lovedWhy editing yourself isn’t the same as being adaptableWhat it can mean to crave deeper, more honest conversations This conversation isn’t about leaving your relationships or replacing the people in your life. It’s about understanding what happens when you change—and your inner world has more nuance than your current circle can easily hold. If this episode resonates, Bold as Love is a small, thoughtful group for women who want a place to speak freely, reflect honestly, and connect without shape-shifting. Doors are closing soon. Thanks for listening. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Is there someone in your life who doesn’t take no for an answer? No matter how thoughtful, flexible, or accommodating you try to be, you still end up feeling pushed, dominated, or worn down. In this episode, we explore what’s actually happening when someone wants control, not connection. If your boundaries consistently create escalation instead of respect, this conversation will help you name the pattern and stop blaming yourself. You’ll learn how control often disguises itself as care, why your autonomy can feel threatening to certain people, and how power dynamics quietly replace reciprocity in these relationships. In this episode, we cover: The difference between connection and dominanceWhy “trying harder” doesn’t fix control-based dynamicsSubtle control patterns like decision hijacking, schedule overrides, guilt, and public pressureWhy boundary violations aren’t misunderstandingsThe relief that comes from correctly naming the problemHow to take care of yourself without waiting for others to change If this episode resonates and you want support navigating difficult or draining relationships — while staying grounded in your self-respect — I share more about the Bold as Love Collective, an intimate coaching space for women who are done proving their worth. Links & Resources: → Learn more about the Bold as Love Collective → Questions? Email me anytime [email protected] Thanks for listening. I’ll see you next time. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

As the holidays wind down, many women are realizing that despite having the conversations, choosing their words carefully, and doing their inner work, nothing has really changed in their relationships. In this episode, April explores why talking things through sometimes backfires — and why trying harder to more clear can actually keep you stuck. The missing piece isn’t better communication. It’s understanding the competitive vs. collaborative disconnect — and learning how to interrupt gridlock before real connection is possible. In This Episode, We Explore: Why insight and self-awareness alone don’t create relational changeHow well-intended conversations can turn into new fightsWhy rehearsing conversations in your head rarely leads to breakthroughsThe idea of “relational software” — unconscious templates that drive conflictThe difference between a competitive mindset (me vs. you) and a collaborative mindset (us vs. the problem)Why collaborative people often over-function, explain, or justify — and why that backfiresHow competitive templates interpret explanation as dominanceWhy naming the dynamic matters more than arguing the contentWhat it really takes to “open the door” so understanding is possible Key Takeaways: You don’t need to be more patient, calmer, or clearerChange doesn’t come from one more perfectly worded conversationWhen one person is in competition and the other is seeking collaboration, conversations will stallYou cannot explain someone out of a competitive stanceReal change starts when you stop engaging in win/lose dynamicsThe work is not fixing yourself — it’s learning how to change the relational pattern Questions to Reflect On: When conflict comes up, do I tend to explain, justify, or prove my point?What happens in my body when I feel dismissed or misunderstood?Do my conversations feel like a battle — even when that’s not my intention?What would change if my first goal was opening the door, not being understood? About The Bold as Love Collective This episode reflects the deeper work we practice inside The Bold as Love Collective — a small, intimate group for women who want to stop repeating the same relational patterns and learn how to navigate conflict, connection, and self-respect differently. The group begins in January. Details and the link to join. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Episode DescriptionMost women are taught there are only two ways to move through conflict and relationships: Be nice → swallow your feelings, smooth things over, keep the peace at your own expenseBe strong → armor up, go sharp, cut people off, or handle everything yourselfNeither one feels good. Neither feels like you. In this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, I share the lightning-bolt insight that helped me name the heart of what so much of my work is really about: a third way for women, a middle ground where you don’t have to choose between being a doormat or a battle axe, where you can hold soft power: clear, kind, and steady. You’ll hear how over-tolerating and over-hitting both come from the same place (fear), what it means to live from simply zeroing in on what's actually true, and how the Bold as Love Collective helps women practice this “soft AND strong” way of being in real life. In This Episode, We Explore: The two default “templates” many women are handed:be nice (self-abandonment) or be strong (hard, defended, distant)Why both options come from the same place: fear of conflict, rejection, and being “too much” or “not enough”How swinging between silence and explosion keeps you out of alignment with what you actually wantWhy we need to get honest with ourselves faster and act and speak from here (What is really happening here? What is actually true for me? What do I want to see happen here?)The idea of soft power:soft without being a doormatstrong without being a battle axeclear without being cruelhonest without burning everything downHow to set “rules of engagement” for yourself (your own internal policies for how you do relationship)Why “win–win relationships” can become a powerful compass when you’re deciding how to respondThe difference between tidying your side of the street vs. trying to control how other people reactHow practicing this third way changes not just big conflicts, but the tiny everyday interactions with partners, family, coworkers, and strangersKey TakeawaysFeeling powerful because you snapped or withdrew is not the same as feeling grounded, confident and steady in your truth.Numbing out and blowing up are both protection strategies, not self-respect.Soft power sounds like: “I’m neither collapsing nor exploding. I’m steady. I’ll have my own back, no matter what.”You can be honest and boundaried and still be loving, considerate, and kind.The real shift happens when your words and actions line up with who you actually want to be — even in the messy moments.Mentioned in This Episode: The Bold as Love Collective If you’re tired of choosing between being a doormat or being “the difficult one,” you’ll love Bold as Love Collective— A 3-month coaching circle for women who want: clearer, cleaner boundaries (without guilt or explosion)fewer spirals before (and after) hard conversationsa steadier, more self-assured presence in their relationshipssoftness without disappearing; strength without the hard shellIt’s part self-paced course, part live virtual circle, and fully focused on practicing this third way in the real world, with ourselves, the people we love and the ones who push our buttons. 👉 Learn more / join the next round: here. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

We’re taught to toughen up, care less, harden ourselves. But you probably already know that none of that actually works. It doesn't make us safer or more confident, it just sends us into a tug of war with ourselves. In this episode, April unpacks the powerful middle ground — where softness and self-respect can live together — and shares a story that reframes what real strength can look like. In This Episode: Why “toughening up” disconnects you from your instinctsThe trap of believing softness equals weaknessHow we confuse fear-based posturing with strengthThe difference between the performance of confidence and genuine grounded powerWhat it looks like to be clear without being cruelHow to listen to your body’s cues instead of overriding themThe third option between collapsing and attackingWhy real safety lives in self-trust, not force. Key Takeaways: Softness isn’t vulnerability to harm — it’s your internal compass.If you have to try to force someone to respect you and treat you well- you're dealing with a completely different problem.Power isn’t making others bend to your will; it’s knowing you can have your own back in any room you walk into.Discernment comes from staying connected to yourself and listening to your emotions, not armouring up and shutting down.Links Mentioned: Join the Bold as Love Collective Experience (starting January)Learn more about the programConnect with April on Instagram / Email Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

When something feels off in a relationship, how do you know whether to speak up… or let it go? In this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, I walk you through two real-life friendship situations - one that led to a soft, productive conversation, and another that crashed and burned - to help you understand how to make this decision with more clarity and self-assurance. This episode is especially for you if you tend to overthink conversations, carry resentment quietly, or struggle with knowing when to address something versus adapting your expectations. In This Episode, We Explore: When the hurt or frustration “lingers” and why that’s an important signalWhy waiting before responding (instead of reacting) can change everythingWhat it actually means to “clear the air” — and what you’re really asking for when you doA real example of speaking up that led to reassurance, repair, and deeper understandingA second example where speaking up led to defensiveness, shutdown, and another problem to be solved.How to tell if you’re truly letting something go — or just going quiet and resentfulWhy not every relationship needs the same standardsHow boundaries are often about what you will do differently moving forwardLetting go of personalization when someone’s behaviour is about their own patternsDeciding who still gets a seat at your table — and on what termsMentioned in This Episode: Bold as LoveIf this episode resonates, you’ll love the work we’re doing inside The Bold as Love Collective— a small, intimate coaching collective for women who want to: stop overfunctioning and overgivingnavigate hard conversations with steadiness and clarityset boundaries without guilt or explosionfeel more self-trust, confidence, and integrity in their relationships👉 Learn more here. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Are your expectations a little unrealistic? If you’ve been feeling that pressure to be endlessly composed, endlessly capable, endlessly “fine” — this episode is for you. We’re talking about the real reason perfectionism shows up (hint: it’s not a personality trait). It’s an old survival strategy your nervous system learned a long time ago… one that might be quietly running your life today. Inside this episode you’ll hear: why your self-criticism spikes when you make a mistakehow old patterns of people-pleasing and “getting it right” still shape your reactionsthe one question that shows you whether a standard is actually yours — or conditioninghow perfectionism disconnects you from yourself and your relationshipswhat to do in the exact moment you feel the trap door of shame start to open I also share a real-life story about a mistake I made last week — and how easy it is to fall back into old patterns unless we consciously choose something different. Perfectionism isn’t about being better. It’s about feeling safer. And once you understand that, everything softens. If this conversation hits close to home… You’ll love the work we’re doing inside The Bold as Love Collective, my intimate coaching circle for women who want to stop overthinking, stop over-functioning, and start showing up with truth, steadiness, and self-respect — in every relationship they care about. We start in January, and early registration is now open. Join us here → [link] Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Have you been feeling the urge to reach out to that old friend you took distance from? As we move into the holidays it can be tempting to re-connect— send a quick message, extend an invite, or reopen the door with someone we’ve drifted from. But how do you know whether it’s a relationship worth revisiting… or one that’s better left gently in the past? In this episode, we help you decide whether to re-engage with an old friend, or keep your distance. You’ll hear some important questions you need to ask yourself, real examples, and a grounded look at the difference between healthy discomfort and unhealthy self-abandonment. In This Episode We Explore: How duty and obligation can both connect and confine usHow to tell when a relationship brings more stress than supportWhy we need to think of our time and energy as "investments"How the people around you shape who you becomeSome key questions, like: Has anything actually changed?Getting honest about your standards and what you are willing to put up with Reflection Questions to Consider: What’s driving the urge to reconnect — guilt, habit, or expectation?Do you have the capacity to carry someone who brings weight instead of warmth?What kind of relationships do you believe in surrounding yourself with? A Takeaway to Sit With:You can love someone, care about them, and hold fond memories — and still choose distance. Protecting your peace can be an act of honesty, not rejection. For Women Who Want Support With This Kind of Work & More Connections with Likeminded Folk: I'm reopening The Bold as Love Collective — a three-month coaching circle for women who have a tendency towards overthinking, over-functioning, and over-giving, and want to feel calmer, clearer, and more grounded in their relationships and conversations. If you want to feel more seen without performing and more heard without raising your voice, check out all the info here and DM with questions. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

If you’re wrestling with the choice to go to the family event or finally opt out of the chaos, this episode is for you. Today we explore how to decide whether you should go, skip it, or do things differently this year. You’ll hear questions, reflections, and practical guidance to help you get honest about what you’re walking into, what it will cost you emotionally, and what you actually want or need. In this episode, we talk about: • The real cost of goingWhat usually happens when you show up? Why do the same dynamics keep repeating? And why does it take days to recover afterward? • How to see the situation clearlyWho are you showing up for really? What are the unrealistic hopes that keep you stuck in the same toxic loops? How to get honest about what usually happens, without minimizing or sugarcoating it. • Understanding your own triggersWhy certain people hit your deepest buttons How old wounds get activated And how that plays into the dread and emotional overwhelm you feel • How to protect your peace if you do decide to goSetting clear intentions for yourself Showing up in a more detached, grounded way Not engaging with the people who drain you Choosing arrival and exit strategies that support you Honouring your own bottom line • The “third option” we don’t talk about enoughIt’s not only: pretend everything’s fine and keep performing…or cut everyone off and keep your distance. There’s also the thoughtful middle path: deciding how to engage on your own terms. If you’re struggling with family expectations or difficult in-law dynamics, this episode will help you: see the situation more clearlyget honest about what’s actually happening and what you need to be okayunderstand your emotional reactionsprotect your peacechoose a path that honours your wellbeing and your desire for connectionWant some extra support? If you want my help sorting out your specific situation—whether to stay, go, or set a plan for navigating it differently—you can reach out any time. 📧 Email: [email protected] 📷 Instagram: @with.love.april If this episode resonates, please share it with someone who might need it this holiday season. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Have you ever replayed a conversation - picking apart what you said, how you said it, or wishing you’d handled it differently? Maybe a mistake or embarrassing moment left you spiralling for days into shame and self-loathing?   There’s a big difference between self-reflection and self-attack.  One is productive. The other is just punishment.     ✨ Self-reflection sounds like: “What was happening for me in that moment?” “What need is being brought to my attention?” “How could I do this differently moving forward?”   🔥 Self-attack sounds like: “I can’t believe I did that again.” “What’s wrong with me?” “Omg I am such an idiot.” In today's episode I'm sharing 3 questions you can ask yourself to move out of unproductive self-attack and into healthy self-reflection- and then let it go. If this episode resonates, share it with someone who might need a softer way to look inward — and don’t forget to subscribe to Is It Them or Is It Me? for more conversations about boundaries, relationships, and the moments that shape who we become. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

When life is moving a mile a minute, it’ might feel like you just want to get in your car and get away for a few days. But you don’t need to book a vacation or escape your life to get back in control. You can shift the energy in the moment, right where you are. And really, this is where our healing actually happens, right here, right now, in how we take control of ourselves on a moment by moment basis. In this episode, I share three powerful ways to get grounded and in control, even when everything around you feels chaotic: Managing your energy with Spoon Theory – a practical way to understand your limits and use your resources wisely.Taking charge of your thoughts and self-talk – how to stop the inner spiral and slow down.Being responsible for the energy you bring into a room – how to stop adding to the negativity and reset your energy quickly. Think of this episode as a reminder that you don’t need to overhaul your your whole entire life—you may just need a few small, intentional shifts to feel more calm and grounded right now. 💌 Want more support like this? Sign up for my newsletter to get more tips, tools and resources. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

In this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, we unpack one of the most misunderstood ideas about anxiety: the belief that feeling safe is the ultimate goal. We're going to explore why seeking safety can sometimes keep us stuck—and why building trust in ourselves is a more sustainable path forward. Drawing on my work as a therapist, and real-life examples from clients and my own experiences, I walk you through the subtle but important shift from trying to avoid discomfort to learning we can handle it. What You’ll Hear: Why “safety” might not be what you actually needThe difference between control and trustHow to build inner confidence and resilience, especially after traumaA reframe for those of us who tend to overprepare, overthink, or retreatIf you’ve ever tried to fix your anxiety by making your world smaller—by canceling plans, avoiding conflict, or needing constant reassurance—this one’s for you. Resources + Next Steps:Try a self-trust journal prompt this week: What have I already survived that proves I can do hard things?Want support applying this to your own life or relationship? Learn more at www.aprilboyd.ca Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

No one warns you about this part of love. One day you look across the table at the person you built a life with—and ask yourself: What if I made a huge mistake? You have spent years getting to know them better than they may even know themselves- and some of it's ugly. And you wonder: Is this still workable—or am I just fooling myself? In this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, we’re talking about the part of long-term relationships that doesn’t get enough acknowledgment: The moment when your partner’s flaws aren’t just annoying, they are damn right repulsive, infuriating—and they make you question everything. Here’s what we explore: Why seeing the worst in your partner is sometimes inevitable—and what it meansThe difference between difficult and deal breakerHow your nervous system interprets relationship conflict as dangerThe internal process you need to go through before making major decisionsWhy even good people can still be wildly incompatible sometimesWhat to do when love starts to feel like work you don’t want to doWhether you’re in the middle of a long slow burnout or just hit a bump that’s bigger than usual, this conversation is here to bring some clarity, calm, and honest reflection. Mentioned in this episode: → The Reset Your Relationship audio program – now self-paced and audio-only, for busy people doing hard relationship work. Check it out here. If this episode resonates, share it with someone else who’s wondering what’s “normal” in long-term love—and what isn’t. And as always, thank you for being here. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here. Get on the Newsletter List here. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about? Message me and let me know. email [email protected] Instagram @with.love.april https://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if needed All identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.