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90 episodes
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2020/11/11
Latest episode
2026/08/10
Average duration
56 min.
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29 days

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Join psychotherapist Tom Parkes as he has meaningful conversations to help you build mental flexibility. Each episode will explore topics related to psychology, mental health, and creativity. With an open mind and a sense of curiosity these conversations will help you better understand yourself, others, and the world around you. 

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Paige Rome, RPsych | CBT-I Meets ACT: A More Flexible Approach to Insomnia
2026/08/10
My guest today is Paige Rome, RPsych. Paige is a Registered Psychologist and founder of Common Thread Psychology in Airdrie, Alberta.  Paige is trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I), the leading evidence-based psychological treatment for chronic insomnia, and brings both professional expertise and personal experience with insomnia to her work. Her broader approach to therapy is collaborative, compassionate, and evidence-based, drawing particularly from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), CBT, and trauma-informed and attachment-based approaches. Paige is also the creator of The Better Sleep Blueprint: A 6-Week, Evidence-Based Program for Overcoming Insomnia, a self-guided program designed to help people understand what keeps insomnia going, change their relationship with sleep, and rebuild healthier, more sustainable sleep patterns.   Some of the topics we explore include: -How insomnia develops, why it can persist long after the original trigger is gone, and the role of sleep anxiety, hyperfocus, and control. -The paradox of sleep and why trying harder to fall asleep can actually make sleep more difficult. -The core principles of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) and how it helps retrain patterns that perpetuate insomnia. -How ACT and CBT-I can work together, with CBT-I providing a behavioral roadmap and ACT helping people approach that roadmap with greater acceptance and psychological flexibility. -Practical strategies for better sleep, including consistent wake times, building sleep pressure, understanding your chronotype, and stimulus control. -The role of radical acceptance in insomnia, and how letting go of the struggle to control sleep can help break the cycle that keeps us awake. ———————————————————————— Paige's website: https://commonthreadpsychology.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paigerometherapy/ The Better Sleep Blueprint:  https://commonthreadpsychology.com/better-sleep-blueprint/ ———————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomparkestherapy Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Steven C Hayes, PhD | Reimagining ACT
2026/07/14
My guest today is Steven C. Hayes, PhD. Steve is a clinical psychologist, researcher, and one of the most influential figures in modern psychotherapy. He is the originator of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), developer of Relational Frame Theory (RFT), and co-developer of Process-Based Therapy. An Emeritus Professor at the University of Nevada, Reno, Dr. Hayes has authored more than 45 books and over 700 scientific publications, making him one of the most cited psychologists in the world. His work has fundamentally changed how clinicians understand and treat human suffering, with a focus on psychological flexibility, values, and living a meaningful life. Some of the topics we explore include: Why the original ACT Hexaflex needs to expand — and what's missing from the classic six processesHow to define ACT functionally so it can grow without losing its identityThe case for adding sociocultural and biophysiological levels to the psychological flexibility modelWhat Process-Based Therapy (PBT) actually is — and why it's both a Trojan horse and an open invitationWhy middle-level clinical terms like "emotional flexibility" are scientifically legitimate and practically essentialThe ergodicity problem: why group-level research can't tell us what works for individual people — and what to do insteadThree principles for the future of clinical practice: practice-based evidence, every voice matters, and if you're not personalizing, you're not treating ————————————————————————— Steve’s Website: https://stevenchayes.com/ ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomparkestherapy Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Tamara Hubbard, LCPC | Parenting Through Food Allergy Anxiety with ACT
2026/05/08
Tamara Hubbard, MA, LCPC, is a licensed clinical professional counselor with more than 20 years of clinical experience. She specializes in helping parents of children with food allergies find the balance between managing anxiety and living fully. An active allied health member of professional allergy and immunology organizations, Tamara is a national speaker and has created several widely used resources within the allergy community. She is also the author of May Contain Anxiety: Managing the Overwhelm of Parenting Children with Food Allergies. Some of the topics we explore include: -Tamara’s own experience parenting a child with food allergies shaped her work as a therapist -How ACT informs her clinical approach and writing -Balancing appropriate safety precautions with quality of life, flexibility, and values-based living -Common clinical challenges families face, including post-diagnosis overwhelm, school transitions, OCD, eating disorders, and more -How parents can model healthier coping for their children, collaborate effectively with allergy care teams, and help kids build resilience rather than fear-driven identities ————————————————————————— Tamara’s Website: https://www.tamarahubbardlcpc.com/ ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomparkestherapy Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Paul Eastwick PhD | Rethinking Attraction: Why Your “Type” Isn’t What You Think
2026/04/02
My guest today is Paul Eastwick, a social psychologist and professor at the University of California, Davis, whose research focuses on attraction, romantic relationships, and the gap between what we think we want and what actually unfolds in real life. His latest book, Bonded by Evolution, challenges a lot of common assumptions about dating and compatibility. In this episode, we explore:  Why many of our inherited “rules” about attraction—like mate value, having a type, or alpha/beta dynamics—don’t hold up in real life  How attraction is far more dynamic and often grows over time rather than appearing instantly  The gap between what people say they want in a partner and who they actually choose  How context (social environments, timing, even a first kiss) plays a powerful role in shaping connection  What dating apps get wrong—and why real-life networks and shared spaces matter more than we think  How loosening rigid expectations allows attraction and relationships to unfold more naturally  Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow me on Instagram: @tomparkestherapy Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Jason Luoma, PhD | ACT & Psychedelic Science
2026/03/05
Today’s guest is Jason Luoma, PhD. Jason is a clinical psychologist, researcher, entrepreneur, and psychotherapy trainer based in Portland, Oregon. For over two decades, Jason’s research has focused on shame, stigma, and the interpersonal functions of emotion, with more recent work centered on psychedelic science. He served as Principal Investigator on one of the first MDMA-assisted psychotherapy trials in the Pacific Northwest and has contributed to multiple NIH-funded clinical trials in roles including co-investigator, consultant, therapist, and trainer. Jason is co-author of the bestselling ACT text Learning Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Values in Therapy, and is currently writing a book on psychedelic-assisted therapy for Guilford Press. A longtime leader in the ACT community, he is a peer-reviewed ACT trainer, former president of the Association for Contextual Behavioral Science, and co-founder of several innovative organizations, including the Portland Psychotherapy Clinic, Research, & Training Center and the Portland Institute for Psychedelic Science. He also hosts The Research Matters Podcast, where he interviews leading researchers about what makes their work impactful and effective. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: -His early development in Steve Hayes’ lab -The evolution of ACT and contextual behavioral science -The need for more experiential learning for clinicians  -psychedelics and their application for healing -Hopes for the future of psychedelic assisted therapy  ————————————————————————— Jason’s Website: https://jasonluoma.com/ ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Jennifer Bohle, LPC | Letting Values Guide the Creative Process
2026/02/16
My guest today is Jennifer Bohle, LPC. Jennifer is a trauma-informed therapist, content creator, and high-achieving creative based in Colorado Springs, Colorado. She works with perfectionistic women to build self-trust, confidence, and worthiness while learning to relate to perfectionism as a strength. Through content creation, Jennifer blends humor, education, and real life --  using creativity as a way to make therapy more human and accessible, and to stay connected to the playful, curious part of herself that still feels like a kid at heart. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: -Jennifer’s path into creating online content — what moved her from private work to public sharing -Working skillfully with jealousy and comparison, and learning how to genuinely support other creators -The values that anchor and shape her creative process -The unspoken costs and complexities of growing an audience online -And Navigating phone use, attention, and intentional consumption in a digital world ————————————————————————— Jennifer’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenniferanncounseling/ Jennifer’s Website: https://www.jenniferanncounseling.com/ ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Erin Jones, LCMHC | Perinatal OCD and Anxiety
2026/01/29
My guest today is Erin Jones, LCMHC. Erin is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor providing evidence-based treatment for individuals with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and related diagnoses. She works at Bull City Anxiety and OCD Treatment Center, where she sees individual clients, manages an intensive Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) program, and runs  groups. She is the treasurer for OCD North Carolina, local affiliate of the International OCD Foundation. Erin is passionate about perinatal care and int his episode we explore all things perinatal OCD, touching a range of contexts it shows up like infertility, pregnancy, birth, and postpartum. ————————————————————————— Learn more about Erin: https://www.bullcityanxiety.com/erin-jones-lcmhc Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erintalksocd/ ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Dr. Diana Hill | Focusing Your Genius Energy on What Matters Most
2025/12/22
Diana Hill, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist, international trainer, and sought-out speaker on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and compassion. Diana is the host of the podcast Wise Effort and author of The Self-Compassion Daily Journal, The ACT Daily Journal, I Know I Should Exercise But…, and her newest book Wise Effort. Diana works with organizations and individuals to develop psychological flexibility so that they can grow fulfilling and impactful lives.  Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: Struggles with change and concept of experiential attachmentThe intersection of ACT and Buddhism in Diana’s bookHow our environment impacts our energyThe our genius can be under or over-utilized The importance of feedback and honesty ————————————————————————— Diana’s website: https://drdianahill.com/ Wise Effort: https://a.co/d/81mws9E ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Marisa Mazza, PsyD | Treating OCD and Anxiety with Psychological Flexibility
2025/11/21
Dr. Marisa T. Mazza is a clinical psychologist and founder of choicetherapy psychological services, inc.  Dr. Mazza is passionate about providing evidence-based therapies, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Exposure and Response Prevention, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Mindful Self-Compassion, to teens and adults struggling with OCD or Anxiety. She enjoys supporting individuals in learning new ways of interacting with thoughts and feelings. Her approach allows individuals to face their fears in a gradual and gentle way so they can get unstuck from thoughts and feelings and live meaningful lives. Dr. Mazza was formerly a board member of OCD SF Bay Area, the International OCD Foundation’s local affiliate, and was the Vice President of the San Francisco Bay Area Association for Contextual Behavioral Science. She is also the author of The ACT Workbook for OCD which we discuss at points throughout this episode. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: -Marisa’s history of anxiety challenges  -How it has helped her grow and be connected to values as a clinician -The role that shame plays in anxiety and OCD challenges -Common OCD related challenges faced postpartum -What lead to Marisa writing The ACT Workbook for OCD -How to use ACT skills and exposure exercises flexibly in specific contexts ————————————————————————— Marisa’s website: https://www.choicetherapy.net/ The ACT Workbook for OCD: https://a.co/d/4QBveqc ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: Sign up for PsychFlex through the Mentally Flexible link! PsychFlex.com/MentallyFlexible You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Laura Knouse, PhD | ADHD: Expanding the Clinical Lens
2025/11/06
My guest today is Laura Knouse, PhD. Laura is a clinical psychologist and professor at the University of Richmond. Her research and clinical expertise focus on the nature, assessment, and treatment of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) in adults.. Her recent research aims to better understand the self-regulation and motivation difficulties of college students with ADHD in order to develop effective interventions. Recent collaborative work with faculty in other disciplines focuses on how leaders can most effectively cope with personal crisis and how growth mindsets are related to mental health and coping. She is a coauthor of the new book, Living Well with Adult ADHD, which we discuss throughout the episode.  Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: Laura’s background and research interestsThe evolution of ADHD throughout Laura’s careerThe intersecting processes of many mental health diagnosesHow modern environmental factors influence ADHD symptomsWhat the research says about medications for ADHD and the potential risksAnd the importance of individualizing treatment————————————————————————— Laura’s website: https://www.lauraknouse.com/ Living Well with Adult ADHD: https://a.co/d/gwB0Ks0 ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: Sign up for PsychFlex through the Mentally Flexible link! PsychFlex.com/MentallyFlexible You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
A Conversation with Ralph De La Rosa - Shared in Loving Memory
2025/10/10
Today’s episode features Ralph De La Rosa. Ralph was the author of three books, including Outshining Trauma: A New Vision of Radical Compassion (foreword by Richard Schwartz). He was a psychotherapist in private practice and a longtime meditation teacher known for his radically honest and humorous approach. His work was featured in GQ, CNN, NY Post, Tricycle, Mindful Magazine, and beyond. Perhaps most crucial is that Ralph walked the path of outshining trauma alongside the people he worked with. He was a survivor of PTSD, heroin addiction, Borderline Personality Disorder, ADHD, and liver failure. Walking through these matters with the help of profound therapists and mentors became an empowerment no school could have offered. It was simply part of his path to offer back what he had been shown. Ralph mentored personally with Richard Schwartz, founder of the Internal Family Systems model of psychotherapy, known for its efficacy in healing trauma. He also completed an invite-only advanced teacher training with Jack Kornfield. He began practicing meditation in 1996 and trained in a spectrum of yogic and healing traditions, including devotional Hinduism and Tibetan Buddhism. Ralph began teaching Buddhist-inspired meditation in 2008. He identified as a practitioner and teacher of human spirituality, offering a highly specialized hybrid of IFS and Buddhism to guide students on a direct path of conscious evolution and self-discovery. As a therapist, Ralph was a summa cum laude graduate of Fordham University. He spent his earliest days working in NYC’s clinical foster care system where he trained in multiple modalities of trauma-focused therapy. He maintained a small roster of therapy clients for the love of witnessing transformation up close. Ralph was also an intersectional activist, musician, wannabe acrobat, and outdoor enthusiast, who made his home in Seattle, WA. His teachings and writings continue to inspire and support people navigating trauma and transformation. Some of the topics we covered in this episode include: A beginning guided meditationWhat drew Ralph to IFSOverlaps with ACT and IFSThe value of living with an open heartAnd Ralph guides me through some experiential IFS work ————————————————————————— Outshining Trauma: https://a.co/d/cQ8kREn ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: Sign up for PsychFlex through the Mentally Flexible link! PsychFlex.com/MentallyFlexible You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Rikke Kjelgaard | Vulnerability, Scars, and Bringing ACT Into Life
2025/09/22
My guest today is Rikke Kjelgaard. Rikke is a licensed psychologist, peer-reviewed ACT trainer, and author. Rikke is on a mission to help therapists thrive and to be brave and authentic helpers. Trained as a clinical psychologist, she has a 15 year background in the science of human behavior and the practice of behavior change. Rikke is a popular speaker internationally, and she is known to bring both passion and vulnerability to her talks. She transforms the lives of her audience by bringing evidence based strategies to her listeners in ways that are accessible and impactful. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: - Rikke’s background being on stage and how that informs her training style - Her early experiences being trained by the ACT founders - The difference between wounds and scars regarding self disclosure - Cultivating willingness to sit in the darkness with others - Bringing ACT skills beyond the therapy room and into our personal relationships - And we discuss topics like, self-forgiveness, people pleasing, and being truly helpful  ————————————————————————— Rikke’s website: https://www.rikkekjelgaard.com ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: Sign up for PsychFlex through the Mentally Flexible link! PsychFlex.com/MentallyFlexible You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Jessica Borushok, PhD | The ACT Therapist
2025/09/03
My guest today is Dr. Jessica Borushok, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in private practice specializing in anxiety disorders and health-related concerns, including insomnia, chronic pain, and coping with chronic medical conditions. In addition to clinical work, Dr. Borushok provides acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) training and consultation to other mental health professionals. Dr. Borushok is the co-author of numerous books, including her most recent, The Complete Guide to Acceptance & Commitment Therapy: An Interactive Skills Manual for Clinicians to Learn and Practice ACT. In an effort to bring evidence-based resources to the public, Jessica also runs a Youtube channel called The ACT Therapist. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: What led Jessica into the psychology fieldHow she found her authentic voice and style within ACTCreative and flexible ways of training others in ACTJessica’s new bookAnd trusting ourselves to take risks in session  ————————————————————————— Jessica’s website: https://www.theacttherapist.com/ The Complete Guide to ACT: https://a.co/d/aJTFqHXh ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: Sign up for PsychFlex through the Mentally Flexible link! PsychFlex.com/MentallyFlexible You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Dr. Robyn Walser | Presence and Authenticity in the Therapy Room
2025/07/25
My guest today is Dr. Robyn Walser. Robyn is a clinical psychologist, educator, and author of several influential books on ACT for professionals and general readers. She is Assistant Clinical Professor at the University of California, Berkeley, and Director of Research at Bay Area Trauma Recovery Clinical Services. She is also on the staff of the National Center for PTSD at the VA Palo Alto Health Care System. Internationally known for her compassionate, client-centered approach, Dr. Walser has been working in the field of trauma and conducting the ACT training internationally since the 1990s. Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: The here and now unfolding of ACT in the therapy roomHow Robyn pays attention to function throughout a sessionUndermining therapist “rules”The potential downsides of bringing AI into the therapy processWe discuss Robyn’s new book You Are Not Your TraumaCreative ways Robyn helps therapists cultivate their practice————————————————————————— Robyn’s Website: https://robynwalser.com/ ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: Sign up for PsychFlex through the Mentally Flexible link! PsychFlex.com/MentallyFlexible You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw
Noelle McWard Aquino, LCSW | Anxiety Unpacked
2025/07/14
My guest today is Noelle McWard Aquino. Noelle is a Chicago-based therapist who specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders. She is the author of Anxiety Unpacked: Discover Your Type and Recover Your Peace, a bestselling book that helps readers identify and work with the specific patterns driving their anxiety. Her work has been featured in publications including Psychology Today and Psychotherapy Networker. Noelle speaks regularly to both clinical and general audiences, training therapists in her framework for understanding anxiety and helping individuals develop more effective, compassionate responses to it.   Some of the topics we explore in this episode include: - How Noelle’s relationship with her son helped inform her new book - The biological processes involved in anxiety - The difference between anxiety and intuition - Recurring root patterns of anxiety - The role of values when navigating anxiety challenges - The pitfalls of control and unhelpful beliefs ————————————————————————— Noelle’s Website: https://noellemcwardaquino.com/ Anxiety Unpacked: https://a.co/d/dJ41mEK ————————————————————————— Thank you all for checking out the episode! Here are some ways to help support Mentally Flexible: Sign up for PsychFlex through the Mentally Flexible link! PsychFlex.com/MentallyFlexible You can help cover some of the costs of running the podcast by donating a cup of coffee! www.buymeacoffee.com/mentallyflexible Please subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It only takes 30 seconds and plays an important role in being able to get new guests.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-flexible/id1539933988 Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyflexible/ Check out my song “Glimpse at Truth” that you hear in the intro/outro of every episode: https://tomparkes.bandcamp.com/track/glimpse-at-truth Check out my new album, Holding Space! https://open.spotify.com/album/0iOcjZQhmAhYtjjq3CTpwQ?si=nemiLnELTsGGExjfy8B6iw

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msomag 2026/09/18
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I am so grateful to Tom for the work he has poured into making this podcast warm and welcoming and packed with information. His guests are thoughtful ...
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Alissa Jerud, PhD 2025/07/13
A fantastic resource!
As a clinical psychologist and a recent guest on Mentally Flexible, I can’t recommend this podcast enough! Tom is an incredibly wise, thoughtful, non-...
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Great guests, great host
I have listened to five episodes and loved them all. As a grad student in clinical psychology, I have learned so much about ACT that I intend to apply...
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Guitar_man7000 2025/02/25
A Must-Listen for Anyone Who Cares About Human Growth!
I have been listening for a few years now, and through this podcast I have really developed a love and appreciation for ACT. Tom is a wonderful interv...
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Neal P. LCSW 2025/01/06
Great Podcast!
This podcast has been phenomenal in leading me to great resources in ACT with amazing guests and conversations. Imagine sitting down with the people w...
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Misterr F 2024/11/15
Really love this podcast
This is, by far, my favorite podcast through the ACT lens. The guests are well picked and interesting, concepts are broken down and discussed in a dig...
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Sarah A. G. 2024/10/01
Insightful, moving conversations!!
Thank you for making this podcast! I am a new clinician who is very interested in ACT and these episodes have been so helpful for me diving deeper int...
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Tstacy123 2024/08/28
Great podcast
I really enjoy this podcast. As a mental health professional the topics discussed are informative, thought provoking, and extremely helpful!
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Excellent mental health podcast
This podcast is informative, insightful and focuses on evidence-based therapies, which I really appreciate. The guests are high caliber and excellent...
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Fantastic podcast hosted by an ACT clinician. Come for the ACT, stay for the excellent interviews and guests. You’ll get to hear giants in the field (...
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