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My Love is Blind Season 10 Pre-Reunion Breakdown. Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Reattach Course: https://payhip.com/b/rdBRF 00:00:57 Alex 00:03:23 Ashley 00:08:16 Chris 00:09:36 Jessica 00:12:02 Connor 00:14:17 Bri 00:16:55 Devonte 00:19:25 Brittany 00:21:17 Jordan 00:22:29 Amber 00:22:49 Mike 00:23:45 Emma 00:26:11 Kevan 00:29:19 Tyler  00:30:30 Keya 00:32:01 Vic & Christine Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

The Disempowered-Man and Entitled-Woman dynamic is a problematic  pair, where the man sinks into a powerless role and the woman takes over. The masculine frame has broken down. The woman tries to become the man she wanted from the beginning. The catastrophic breakdown of relationships and family in America is layered. One of the major issues is the absence of healthy, present father figures. Men without role models to help guide how they lead themselves and the family has left an enormous void. We also have social-cultural issues such as media glamorizing divorce; weaponoization of the legal system; pedastalizing the woman’s experience, while dismissing and degrading the man’s experience — and more. If you’re caught in this dynamic and you need help breaking and correcting this pattern as an individual or couple, complete my interest form. From there, I’ll reach out to schedule a consultation. 👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ ⏰ Timestamps: 00:05:48 Intro to the Disempowered Man & Entitled Woman 00:10:13 Red Pill Rabbithole 00:11:41 Drained but can’t complain 00:15:35 Where does this dynamic come from? Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

This is about the Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic, where one partner consistently carries the majority of the load, while the other partner fails to show up in a way that truly progresses and deepens the relationship. We’re not blaming the person “doing less” or sympathizing with the person “doing more” — I’m pulling the veil back so you can see the inner workings of what’s happening in this dynamic and I’m giving solutions for what to do about it. Mentioned videos — 8 models for Self & Relational Development: https://youtu.be/tLHS3kaacgo SER Model: https://youtu.be/mOwCXoETFxc 👩🏾‍🏫 Conflict in Couples Workshop: https://taylorchandler.as.me/schedule/7f693168/?appointmentTypeIds[]=88471947 👉 Interest form to work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L 💻 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00:38 What are Relationship Dynamics? 0:02:37 The Capacity Problem 00:04:28 Three domains of capacity 00:11:24 Solutions for the O-U Dynamic Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

You know I love talking about Attachment! This is a major key to unlocking yourself and your relationships. Mastering my Attachment Style was a big part of my journey. I’m grateful for all I learned and how much it helped me. For a few years of my practice I almost solely helped people shift from insecure to secure attachment. I even had a group class called Reattach. Now YOU can do Reattach at your own pace. You can get the class and the exercises that have helped hundreds of people get a grip on their attachment and make positive changes. Head to my website to grab it and if you need additional help, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me through my interest form or email: [email protected] 👉 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ 👉 Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00:40 What is an attachment style? 00:02:06 My therapy journey with attachment  00:06:25 The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic 00:10:00 Cycles of learning but not acting Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

Hey y’all, I’m giving my foresights on what I think we’re going to see this year of 2026 in the dating and relationship lane. Just my thoughts! I’ll give a brief overview in the beginning of what we’ve seen in recent past. Check out the timestamps for the points and click the link below if you’re interested in working with me: 👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps: 00:01:17 What we’ve seen in the recent pasts 00:09:32 What’s coming down the pipeline 00:09:45 Polarized Daters 00:12:02 Echo chambers up, engagement down 00:15:28 Turning away from relationship influencer culture 00:27:42 Sharper discernment 00:28:37 A return to courtship 00:39:46 Learning and un-learning Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

The final part of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mindset. I’m talking about 5 core aspects of Mindset in a way that makes it easy to understand and take action on. The more positive core aspects you have, the higher quality of life you will have — and when you maximize those positives, it gets even better. In this lane of personal and relational development, you get better options (so you’ll marry better), you’ll be more likable, better energy… an overall high vibe. Everyone wants it and when you set your mind to it, you’ll get it. 👉 Work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps:  00:04:44 Mindset 00:15:25 Benefits of the Right Mindset 00:30:29 Talk about the 5 Core Aspects Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

Part 2 of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mind Control. I’m expanding on this principle: the quality of your thoughts directly affects the quality of your life. Mind control is a skill that is more important now than ever (if you don’t do it, someone else will do it for you). I have 3 mechanisms for you to activate to heighten your degree of influence over your life.   ⏰ Timestamps:  00:56:00 Thoughts are running us 00:08:56 Mind Control is a skill 00:10:30 Awareness is the starting point 00:13:35 Living beneath you 00:22:15 Three Mechanisms to Activate Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

This is for people who are determined to separate from the noise and shift to a higher level. In this episode, I’m talking about Identity, the foundation of a Renewed Mind. As we grow, we have to keep upgrading our system — and the internal system is where it all starts.  This is the first of a 3-part series. Next up is Mind Control and Mindset. ⏰ Timestamps: 00:02:09 Principle: Quality of Thinking Determines Quality of Life 00:05:30 Identity 00:12:45 Transcending Group Identity 00:15:07 Supporting Bible Verses 00:30:25 Roots and Fruits ⏯️ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glHH9JBbo_I&feature=youtu.be Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

If you’re a man or woman intentionally dating or want to start dating that way, this one is for you. Rather than focusing on how rough it is out there, let’s talk about what you can do to make it a whole lot better. I’m also sharing a bit about what started my  journey to intentional dating (which takes about the first 8 minutes). FitnessPurposeSpiritual DisciplineSexual DisciplineLifestyleRelationshipsPetsHomeTimestamps: 00:03:08 Dating in Atlanta and transitioning to intentional dating 00:10:22 Eight Areas of Focus for Serious Dating 00:12:00 Fitness 00:14:20 Purpose 00:17:44 Spiritual Discipline 00:20:41 Sexual Discipline 00:24:05 Lifestyle 00:28:00 Relationships 00:31:42 Pets 00:33:03 Home Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

I have a major update for you. I know this isn't going to fly with some people, and I've wrestled with this myself, but I know what I need to do. I'm ready to share it with you. In this video, I'm talking about: 1. The answer to your pain (relational wounds -- from family, marriage, exes) 2. Restructuring my business 3. Jesus Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

I illustrate the over-functioner/under-performer dynamic. These are high-effort people who get low returns in their relationships. The markers of the dynamic are clearly laid out as well as the consequences of allowing this problem to persist. I share about my over-functioning past and how I changed in order to get what I give in relationship. Prepared Coaching Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Prepared Guide:  https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Timestamps: 00:03:30 Introduction to the Over-functioner / Under-performer Dynamic 0:04:00 Marker #1 -  “This relationship will fall apart” 00:04:23 Marker #2 - You’re drained 00:05:19 Marker #3 - When they pull away, you give more 00:09:49 Marker #4 - You’re managing, not partnering 00:10:54 Marker #5 - You negotiate your needs 00:14:23 When the problem persists 00:18:31 Solving the problem Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

I’m not here to talk celebrity gossip — I’m here to talk principles. In this episode, I use Cardi B and Offset as a case study for real-life relationship patterns: cheating, accountability, influence, and responsibility. Their story reveals what too many couples go through privately — how we hurt each other, react, and try to rebuild trust in the aftermath. We’ll explore three key interviews: 1️⃣ Offset on Joe Budden — how he avoids the drama but misses key accountability. 2️⃣ Offset on Keke Palmer — where he finally owns his selfishness and the impact of cheating. 3️⃣ Cardi B on Jay Shetty — her reflections on depression, accountability, and faith after betrayal. Along the way, I connect this to principles I’ve shared before in my episode “A Vital Conversation About Responsibility and Accountability.” We’ll talk about how both people influence the dynamic, why accountability matters more than blame, and what it really means to operate with emotional maturity in love. This is for people who really care about handling the complexities of relationships. Episode - A Vital Conversation About Responsibility & Accountability: ON APPLE-- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/boundaries-grace-with-taylor-chandler/id1540127181?i=1000722804709 ON SPOTIFY-- https://spotify.link/aHcOC3DhOXb 👉 Share with someone who’s growing & cares about accountability (or should care) ⬇️ Want to work together? 👉 1-on-1 interest: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/jqyMCsr3  👉 Couple interest form:https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/DcaoHcan 🙌🏾 Donate to my channel: https://cash.app/$taychand (So I can do this content more often)  🤝 My links: https://linktr.ee/iamtaylorchandler (https://linktr.ee/iamtaylorchandler) #CardiB #Offset #Cheating #Relationships #Love #ModernLove #Accountability #emotionalintelligence  00:03:46 What is a principle? 00:05:40:00 Responsibility & Accountability (linked in description) 07:55:00 Offset Cheating & Cardi Behaving Poorly 00:09:04 Relational principles & intro to context 12:03:00 Some principles seem to contradict 15:01:00 Context makes things grey 00:20:23 Joe Budden x Cardi B 00:25:16 Chaotic environments 00:27:53 Flip asks Offset how he handles difficult things (Cardi) 00:36:57 Keke Palmer x Offset 00:42:22 Jay Shetty x Cardi B 00:49:00 Summary of Offset & Cardi B’s interviews & my perspective 00:53:18 Men cheating, relationships ending, and women’s accountability 00:57:11 Parallels to normal life 00:57:42 Infidelity breaks trust, deal with the underlying issue 00:58:37 If your partner cheats, DO THIS 01:01:55 Keep your private life PRIVATE Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

I’m sharing one of the most important models in self and relational development — the Perception–Reality Model — and connecting it back to the SER Framework. The P-R concept is a simple, powerful, and a major key to understanding why conversations turn into conflict and how to avoid it. Bottom line is... Perception is not reality. What you see, feel, and believe is shaped by your vantage point. That matters — but it’s not the same as truth. When your perception and reality are out of balance, chaos shows up in your interactions. Learning to check your perspective and expand it creates space for clarity, understanding, and healthier connection. Then we zoom out to the SER Framework — Self-Esteem, Energy, and Responsibility — the foundation for becoming an attractive match and increasing your quality of life as an individual. 👉 Previous Episode --  Models for Self & Relational Development -- Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/boundaries-grace-with-taylor-chandler/id1540127181?i=1000729702954 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2kjxKHyBXLgqsWdaM8wohP?si=6b464a06105d4f8d 👉 Download the model library here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IHPp0mPhKisLmyHdqNtEHufxEdiTyVWvgmAQ08pXm28/edit?usp=sharing 👉 Share the episode and support the channel if this work has helped you! Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

In this episode, I’m breaking down four key areas every woman needs to get right — fitness, friendships, media, and attitude. These aren’t random tips — they’re about how you show up in your life, your relationships, and your community. From the way you take care of your body to the energy you bring into your friendships and conversations, everything you do leaves an impression. We’ll talk about: Why fitness isn’t just about looks, but about health, confidence, and longevity.How your circle influences your mindset and relationship success.The subtle ways media shapes your values and self-image.The role your attitude plays in how you’re perceived — and how you connect with others.If you’re ready to elevate your standards, build self-awareness, and take ownership of the energy you bring to the world — this one’s for you. Listen now, reflect, and take notes — these four areas will tell you exactly where to start. Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

In this episode I walk through 8 practical models I use as a licensed marriage and family therapist and personal development coach. These frameworks are designed to help you evaluate yourself and your relationships, make better decisions, and get real results. Each model gives you a simple way to understand patterns, improve communication, and take action. If you’ve been stuck repeating the same problems in your life or relationships, these models will help you see the issues clearly and know what to do next. What you’ll learn: -Ability–Willingness Model: How to identify the real barrier to change -Energy Matrix: Managing your energy so you don’t burn out or overreact -Passive–Aggressive Communication Model: Where your communication style lands and how to adjust it -Chicken–Egg Dynamic: Breaking cycles of blame in relationships -CCC Model: Diagnosing the root of a problem (Character, Contingent, Circumstantial) -Authentic Self vs. Image Gap: Why the gap between who you are and what you project causes stress -Masculine–Feminine Polarity Model: How energy dynamics shape attraction and conflict -Time–Cost Model: Why delaying conversations makes problems more expensive to fix These are not abstract theories. They’re practical frameworks I use with clients to improve their personal growth and relationship health. 👉 Download the free guide with all 8 models here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IHPp0mPhKisLmyHdqNtEHufxEdiTyVWvgmAQ08pXm28/edit?usp=sharing Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler