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What does pursuing your dream actually look like when you're dealing with rejection, motherhood, industry politics and everything else happening in real life? This week, actress Ashley Bannerman joins Clytie Tammy to talk about her journey into acting, from studying psychology to deciding that acting was the career she really wanted to pursue. Ashley talks openly about rejection, resilience and some of the realities of trying to build a sustainable career as an actress. She and Clytie get into the politics of the industry, how opportunities and roles for women have changed, and what it means to keep going when success rarely happens in a straight line. They also talk about balancing motherhood with ambition, the realities of filming intimate scenes, the roles Ashley would love to play next and her ambitions to take her career beyond the UK. It's a conversation about what audiences see on screen, but also everything that goes on behind it — the decisions, disappointments, compromises and sheer persistence involved in continuing to chase something you genuinely want.

You know when you've seen someone on screen so many times that you somehow feel like you know them? That's how it can feel with Dani Moseley. Except, of course, you don't actually know her. Dani is an actress whose work spans television, film and theatre, including Dreaming Whilst Black and Jaja's African Hair Braiding, with her new short film You and Me Makes Three also on the way. The conversation gets into Dani's journey as an actress, the reality of building and sustaining a career in the industry, accents and dialects, choosing roles, knowing when something is right for you and how both life and work have shaped the woman she is today. Dani and Clytie also talk about Black representation, supporting Black businesses and some of the realities that sit behind a career that, from the outside, can look very different from what it's actually like to live it. It's less of an interview and more of two women getting to know each other — which might be why it's one of the best kinds of conversations to listen to. Follow Dani on IG - @danimoseley

Zimbabwean author Sue Nyathi wrote The Polygamist after observing the complicated relationships happening around her in Harare; married men, mistresses, "small houses" and women whose lives were unknowingly intertwined. After struggling to find a traditional publisher, Sue eventually decided to publish the book herself. More than a decade later, that same story has been adapted for the screen and introduced Sue's work to a whole new audience on Netflix. In this episode, Sue joins me to talk about the real-life observations that inspired The Polygamist, what it feels like to hand characters you've lived with for years over to somebody else for a screen adaptation, and seeing her work find new life so many years after she first wrote it. We also talk about her other novels, including The GoldDiggers and A Family Affair, the Zimbabwean experience of migration to South Africa, writing complicated and imperfect characters, and what it means to tell distinctly Zimbabwean stories while living away from home. And, of course, we get into publishing - including the rejection that came before The Polygamist, choosing to back herself and self-publish, and what her journey says about getting your story out into the world even when the first answer is no. This is a conversation about writing, representation, persistence and what can happen when you decide a story deserves to be told. Website: Sue Nyathi IG/Twitter: @suenyathi Follow the podcast: @whomovedmybirkin Follow the host: @thatgirltammy_

Why are there still so many Black stories we want to see but can't find on our screens? This week I'm joined by HaJ, founder of VibeKast, for a conversation about Black representation in film and what actually happens behind the scenes when creatives try to get their ideas made. We talk about the barriers and red tape that can stand between a great idea and a finished project, what happens when creatives keep hearing "no", and why the traditional way of deciding which stories get funded might be leaving audiences out of the conversation entirely. HaJ also shares how those frustrations helped inspire VibeKast, a platform designed to give audiences an opportunity to show their support for projects much earlier in the creative process. We get into: • The lack of Black representation in film and television• Why so many stories audiences want still aren't being made• The barriers creatives face getting projects funded and greenlit• How the idea for VibeKast came about• Turning repeated "nos" into another way forward• Giving audiences a voice in which projects get supported• Building a business around a problem you've experienced firsthand• What needs to change for more diverse stories to make it to our screens It's a conversation about representation, creativity, access and what could happen if audiences had more power to help decide which stories get made. VibeKast - www.vibekast.com

In this episode, I sit down with pioneering filmmaker, animator and educator Ayoka Chenzira to explore a creative journey that has spanned decades. We talk about everything from African dance and storytelling to perfumery, filmmaking and her latest immersive project, Olf, a film inspired by the power of scent. Ayoka shares how following her curiosity has led her into unexpected spaces, why she believes stories can be experienced in more ways than just what we see on screen, and how platforms like VibeKast are changing the way films are funded and made. This is a conversation about creativity, innovation and what it means to keep evolving as an artist. In this episode, we discuss: Growing up with a love of African dance and how it shaped her creative voiceWhy curiosity has been the driving force behind her careerThe inspiration behind Olf and storytelling through scentHow perfume can evoke memory, emotion and connectionHow VibeKast is rethinking audience participation in filmmakingThe realities of building a career as a Black filmmakerWhy artists should never stop experimentingAyoka Chenzira is an award-winning filmmaker, director, animator and educator whose work has helped shape Black independent cinema. Throughout a career spanning nearly five decades, she has continued to push the boundaries of storytelling through film, technology and immersive experiences. About Ayoka Chenzira Ayoka Chenzira is an award-winning filmmaker, director, animator and educator whose work has helped shape Black independent cinema. Throughout a career spanning nearly five decades, she has continued to push the boundaries of storytelling through film, technology and immersive experiences. Instagram: @ayomentary Website: https://www.ayokachenzira.com VibeKast: https://vibecast.com

From interior design to candle making and art, Joycelyn Cobbold is building more than a business, she’s creating experiences people remember. In this episode, we get into the real side of turning creativity into a career: navigating self-employment, pricing your work with confidence, overcoming self-doubt, and staying authentic while building something that actually works. We also talk about the power of collaboration, the thinking behind her workshops, and how to create spaces and experiences that feel intentional, not just aesthetic. If you’ve ever thought about turning your passion into a business, this is the kind of conversation you need to hear. Follow Joycelyn on her journey to building a creative empire: noiirsquaredlondon.com Buy tickets for the workshops Instagram: @nsqeventsldn Follow the podcast: @whomovedmybirkin Follow the host: @thatgirltammy_

In this episode, Clytie Tammy sits down with Rachael Twumasi-Corson, co-founder of Afrocenchix, to reflect on her journey from building one of the UK’s most recognisable natural haircare brands to exiting the business in 2023 and starting again with Ayaa Botanicals. Rachael shares candid insights into the realities of entrepreneurship, the emotional weight of stepping away from something you built, the lessons learned from scaling Afrocenchix, and what legacy means when you move on from a brand you built from the ground up and starting a new one, Ayaa Botanicals. The conversation explores community support for Black-owned businesses, the importance of proof of concept before scaling, and the discipline required to test ideas properly. Rachael also opens up about navigating motherhood alongside business, redefining success, and building differently this time around. This episode is a powerful reflection on growth, reinvention, and what it truly means to start again with clarity. Follow Rachael: IG, YouTube, website, Substack Follow the host: @thatgirltammy_ Visit the podcast website: whomovedmybirkin.co.uk Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting After Years: A Journey of Change04:53 Navigating Business Challenges: Exiting Afrocenchix10:34 Reflecting on Afrocenchix’s Legacy16:35 Community Support and the Future of Black-Owned Businesses23:22 Breaking Barriers and Building Confidence31:53 Navigating the Startup Landscape36:42 The Importance of Proof of Concept41:36 Testing Ideas Before Scaling47:17 Personal Growth and Product Development52:49 Exploring Work-Life Harmony

Emotional intelligence doesn’t start in the boardroom. It starts at home. In this powerful conversation, Clytie Tammy sits down with Dr. Donnette Green to unpack what emotional intelligence really looks like inside families. Drawing from her years in Child Protective Services, Dr. Green shares what she’s learned about children’s behaviour, parenting patterns, and the emotional climates that shape young lives. They explore how parenting styles influence trust and communication, why self-awareness is essential before we try to “teach” our children anything, and how emotional literacy begins with something as simple — and as powerful — as naming feelings. The conversation also addresses co-parenting tensions, the emotional weight many parents carry silently, and why self-care isn’t indulgent but necessary. Dr. Green highlights the importance of community, cultural understanding, and intentional communication in raising emotionally secure children. This episode is a reminder that the way we love, regulate, and communicate at home creates ripple effects for generations. If you’re interested in building a calmer, more emotionally aware household, this conversation will stay with you. Follow Dr Donnette Green on IG Donate and follow Guilded Collaboration Collective Follow me: ⁠@thatgirltammy_ Follow the podcast: ⁠@whomovedmybirkin If you would like to be a guest on upcoming episodes, email [email protected]

Dating today is noisy, confusing and often exhausting - this conversation cuts straight through it. In this episode, Clytie Tammy sits down with professional matchmaker Siobhan Copland to talk about what actually makes relationships work beyond apps, algorithms, and surface-level attraction. Siobhan shares her journey into matchmaking and breaks down the difference between chemistry and real compatibility, especially in a world shaped by social media expectations. They explore what dating in your 30s really looks like, why vulnerability feels harder than ever, and how communication, boundaries, and self-awareness play a bigger role than “having a type.” The conversation also challenges the pressure to be endlessly picky while still staying open, and why so many people struggle to find balance there. Siobhan shares real matchmaking stories and offers insight into finding connection through community, in-person interactions, and intentional choices, reminding us that love doesn’t only live on dating apps. If you’re tired of modern dating rules that don’t seem to work, or you’re curious about how people actually build lasting relationships, you'll enjoy this episode

In this honest and expansive conversation, Clytie Tammy sits down with Banke to explore what it really means for women to honour themselves in a world that often rewards self-sacrifice, over-functioning and hyper-independence. They talk about how societal conditioning and patriarchy shape the way women show up in relationships, work, and love, and why so many women struggle to relax, receive, and feel at ease. Banke shares insight into grace as a lived experience rather than a performance, and how femininity can be rooted in authenticity not expectation. Through personal reflections, they unpack themes of visibility, healing, and self-acceptance, and why community and support matter so much on the journey back to self. This episode is an invitation to soften, to tell the truth about what you want, and to reclaim your identity without guilt. If you’ve ever felt tired of holding it all together or wondered what it would look like to live more honestly and gently, this conversation will resonate. Follow Banke - https://instagram.com/megawomancommunity Watch this e isode on Patreon - https://patreon.com/Whomovedmybirkin Follow the host - https://instagram.com/thatgirltammy_ Follow the podcast for all updates - https://instagram.com/whomovedmybirkin Website - https://whomovedmybirkin.co.uk

Motherhood has a way of forcing clarity, and in this episode, Clytie Tammy sits down with Yolande (@officialyolaund) to talk about how becoming a parent can completely change the way we relate to our stuff, our time and ourselves. They unpack the emotional weight we attach to possessions, why decluttering can feel harder than it should, and how minimalism is less about having less and more about living with intention. Yolande shares practical ways to consume more mindfully, including capsule wardrobes, Swedish death cleaning, and letting go of the pressure to constantly buy new things. The conversation also explores fashion through an intentional lens. When it makes sense to invest in quality, how to be budget-conscious without feeling deprived, why sustainability matters, and why rewearing outfits should be normal, not embarrassing. This episode is about creating space. Space in your wardrobe, your home, and your mind. If you’re craving simplicity, clarity, and a more intentional way of living, this conversation will meet you right where you are. Follow Yolaund - @officialyolaund Follow the podcast and host - @thatgirltammy_ and @whomovedmybirkin Chapters 00:00 The Journey of Motherhood 03:06 Embracing Essentialism and Minimalism 05:57 The Challenge of Sentimental Clutter 09:01 The Attachment to Material Possessions 12:00 Understanding the Psychology of Clutter 15:06 Finding Motivation for Decluttering 17:58 The Impact of Stuff on Mental Clarity 21:04 The Concept of Swedish Death Cleaning 24:57 Decluttering and Its Impact on Future Generations 26:57 Mindful Consumption: The Wish List Approach 29:53 Creating a Capsule Wardrobe: Strategies and Insights 35:01 Building a Functional Wardrobe: Key Pieces and Styling Tips 38:59 Quality vs. Quantity: The Importance of Material Choices 45:07 Sustainable Fashion: Selling and Recycling Clothing 51:36 Navigating Social Dynamics 52:47 Simplifying the Selling Process 55:51 Understanding Market Trends 01:00:01 Intentional Living and Minimalism 01:05:43 The Power of Planning 01:10:21 Building a Personal Uniform 01:12:02 Normalizing Rewearing Outfits 01:15:09 Embracing Intentional Living

Sugar is hiding in more places than we think, and it is quietly draining our energy, affecting our skin, and making healthy habits harder to sustain. In this episode, Clytie Tammy (@thatgirltammy) sits down with Yvonne Okiyo, Certified Holistic Nutrition Coach and founder of Your Core Life, to talk honestly about sugar, cravings, and why so many women struggle to cut back. They explore the addictive nature of sugar, the psychological side of eating, and why discipline alone is often not enough, especially for women navigating hormonal changes. This conversation breaks down what sustainable nutrition really looks like, how to manage cravings without restriction, and why consistency and self compassion matter more than perfection. If you are tired of dieting, confused by nutrition advice, or want a healthier relationship with food that actually fits real life, this episode is for you. To work with Yvonne: https://www.yourcorelife.com https://www.instagram.com/realthealthwithyvonne Follow @WhoMovedMyBirkin on TikTok, IG, Facebook, X Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Sugar Challenge Discussion 01:19 The Impact of Sugar on Health 06:50 Personal Experiences with Sugar Addiction 12:20 Hormonal Changes and Sugar Cravings 18:36 Sustainable Dieting: The 80-20 Rule 25:47 Plant-Based Protein Sources 26:55 Dieting Trends: The Risks of Restriction 30:19 Mindset: Progress Over Perfection 34:28 The All or Nothing Mindset 37:01 Understanding Our Relationship with Food 39:27 Childhood Influences on Eating Habits 45:33 The Impact of Stress on Appetite 50:02 Nutrition and Hormonal Health 54:04 Personalized Dietary Plans for Women 01:00:13 The Role of Supplements in Nutrition 01:03:31 How to Work with a Health Coach

In this conversation, Clytie Tammy and Peta-Kay discuss the evolution of personal finance perspectives over the years, emphasising the importance of stability, maturity, and financial literacy. Peta-Kay shares her journey of understanding the value of a stable job, the significance of investing early, and the strategies for managing debt effectively. They also touch on the emotional aspects of money management and the necessity of having a clear financial plan for the future. In this conversation, Peta-Kay and Clytie discuss various financial tools and strategies, including the use of apps like Revolut and Monzo for budgeting and rewards. They delve into the Double Payday initiative by Monzo, which incentivises users to get paid into their Monzo accounts. The discussion also covers travel budgeting techniques, investment basics for beginners, and the importance of financial planning. Peta-Kay introduces her Finance Reset session aimed at helping individuals take actionable steps towards financial success. Peta-Kay King - www.instagram.com/yourfinancept Website: pearlsandperils.com Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Financial Growth 02:58 Life Lessons in Your 30s 06:01 The Value of Stability vs. Entrepreneurship 09:05 Setting Up Financially for the Future 11:59 Investing Early: A Path to Financial Security 15:02 Holistic Financial Planning 17:59 Managing Holiday Expenses Wisely 20:53 Healthy Debt Management 24:38 Managing Credit Card Debt Effectively 27:21 Strategies for Overcoming Existing Debt 30:43 Understanding Debt Management Options 34:04 Building Financial Resilience Post-Debt 37:29 The Psychology Behind Spending Habits 41:28 Innovative Banking Solutions: Monzo and Revolut 47:26 The Art of Solo Travel 48:45 Budgeting for Travel Adventures 49:55 Financial Planning for Holidays 52:49 Savvy Spending and Cash Back Strategies 55:41 Investing Basics for Beginners 56:54 Understanding Risk in Investments 01:01:18 Long-Term Investment Strategies 01:04:15 The Finance Reset Workshop

In this return episode of the Who Moved My Birkin podcast, Clytie Tammy reintroduces the show with a renewed focus empowering black and brown women. She discusses the new monthly themes, starting with a focus on reset, wellness, and finances for the new year. Clytie shares her personal journey of overcoming challenges that led to her hiatus and emphasises the importance of intentional conversations that amplify women's stories. The episode sets the stage for future discussions with experts and professionals in various fields.

5 tips on how to remain consistent or start to be consistent. The new year can bring a lot of anxiety and pressure so I have broken it down into five simple ways to not feel overwhelmed and beat the new years' blues in order to reach your full potential and tap into your greatness. To join in the conversation #WhoMovedMyBirkin on twitter and follow @whomovedmybirkin on TikTok and IG. If you would like to be a guest on the podcast email [email protected] . Keep up to date with all the episodes on whomovedmybirkin.co.uk