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A rich conversation with Dr. Pepper Schwartz, an acclaimed sociologist, sexologist, and bestselling author. Dr. Schwartz discusses the importance of communication and intimacy in relationships, debunks myths about sex and aging, and provides practical advice for individuals at different stages of life. The episode concludes with a segment called 'They Said It,' where Dr. Schwartz offers her perspectives on notable quotes related to love, sex, and relationships.   Topics 02:40 Reflecting on 2025 and Looking Ahead to 2026 04:47 The Power of Pause and Measuring Success 07:18 Reflecting on Past Episodes and Guests 11:21 Discussing Relationships and Marriage 16:06 Dating Post-Divorce and Intimacy 26:12 Financial Planning and Divorce 34:11 End of Year Reflections and Future Plans 38:49 The Physical Benefits of Climax 39:22 Sexuality After Age 50 42:00 Gray Divorce and Sexuality 43:53 Misinterpretations in Human Sexuality 47:56 AI Companions and Relationships 50:25 Reality TV and Marriage 54:12 Politics and Love 57:13 Advice for Different Ages 59:03 Communication in Relationships 01:02:09 Rituals to Keep Chemistry Alive 01:07:56 Famous Quotes on Love and Sex

Evan is joined by communication experts Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski, co-authors of 'Outwitting the Manipulator.' The episode delves into recognizing and responding to manipulation in real-time, particularly within the context of high-conflict divorces and everyday relationships. Topics include common manipulation tactics such as gaslighting and love bombing, managing post-divorce parenting, and the significance of premarital counseling. The podcast also features a discussion on handling manipulation from leadership in the workplace and offers practical advice for those dealing with manipulators. The episode concludes with the fun segment 'They Said It,' where Evan and guests analyze famous quotes related to manipulation. More on Robin & Dennis at https://www.outwitinrealtime.com/ Find Outwitting the Manipulator: The Podcast at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/outwitting-the-manipulator/id1644706232 Topics 02:39 Holiday Struggles During Divorce 05:48 Co-Parenting During the Holidays 11:18 Life After Divorce: Remarriage and Moving On 13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Fun and Legal Topics 24:06 Interview with Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski  36:51 Understanding Manipulative Personalities 37:34 Can Manipulators Change? 38:15 Manipulation Tactics in the Workplace 39:29 Mastering Skills to Handle Manipulation 43:11 Manipulation in High Conflict Divorces 44:17 Communicating with a Manipulative Ex 47:06 Spotting Manipulation in Legal Cases 59:09 Quotes on Manipulation 01:04:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan dives into the complexities of divorce and addiction with featured guest Erin Khar, author of 'Strung Out'. The episode covers Erin's personal journey through a 15-year heroin addiction, her approach to recovery, and her advice on navigating relationships plagued by substance abuse. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, such as the stigma around addiction and the flawed family court system. Listeners will find practical advice on handling the holiday season amidst divorce, the nuances of parental alienation claims, and thoughts on cultural phenomena like Taylor Swift. The episode concludes with an engaging segment featuring quotes from notable figures and a lively discussion on the underrated cranberry sauce.   Topics 00:15 Divorce and the Holiday Season 05:26 AI Relationships and Legal Challenges 12:04 Overrated or Underrated: Pop Culture Edition 23:14 Interview with Erin Khar: Addiction and Recovery 36:15 Addressing Skeptical Senators on Harm Reduction 36:47 The Economic Argument for Medicated Assisted Treatment 39:05 Personal Reflections on Writing a Memoir 40:40 The Dichotomy of Heroin Use 43:39 The Unwinnable War on Drugs 45:41 Advocating for Harm Reduction and Community Support 50:51 Balancing Advice and Personal Experience 52:51 Lessons from Beverly Hills 90210 54:40 Changing the Language Around Addiction 56:31 Parenting and Personal Accountability 01:14:05 The Importance of Sharing Your Story 01:19:36 Final Thoughts and Reflections

In Episode 93 of The Schein On Podcast, Evan talks to Dr. Tracey Dalgleish, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss her latest book, 'You, Your Husband and His Mother.' The conversation delves into the intricacies of the relationship triangle between husbands, their wives, and mother-in-laws. Tracey provides actionable advice for couples aiming to strengthen their marriage while managing familial boundaries. The episode also touches on significant issues such as the current state of divorce law, the value of farmers' markets, and the communal joy of fantasy sports leagues. Additionally, listeners get treated to the engaging 'Overrated/Underrated' and 'They Said It' segments, making for a well-rounded and insightful episode.   Topics 00:33 Exploring Divorce Dynamics with Dr. Tracey Dalgleish 02:47 The Impact of Equal Custody Laws 08:42 Overrated or Underrated 25:08 Navigating Boundaries with Family 26:26 Practical Tools for Tough Moments 28:25 Personal Struggles and Professional Insights 30:12 The Power of Vulnerability in Therapy 34:01 Shifting Perspectives on Marriage and Divorce 35:27 Balancing Professional and Personal Life 38:53 Advice for Couples in Therapy 42:58 Co-Parenting After Divorce 44:42 Reflecting on the New Book 46:48 Fun Segment: They Said It 52:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan welcomes Dr. Rachel Glik, a relationship specialist and author of 'A Soulful Marriage.' Dr. Glik shares insights on maintaining healthy marriages, the misconceptions about love, and her personal experiences that inspired her book. The episode also includes fun segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where the hosts debate pumpkin spice lattes, reality dating shows, and the wisdom of quotes from famous personalities.   Topics 00:30 Fall Season and Football Talk 01:52 Birthday Wishes and Aging Secrets 02:33 Exciting Episode Preview 03:33 Diving into the Docket: Trophy Husband 04:03 Discussion on Income Disparity in Marriages 10:29 Overrated or Underrated: Rebound Relationships 12:51 Overrated or Underrated: Co-Parenting Apps 15:03 Overrated or Underrated: Board Games 16:33 Overrated or Underrated: Reality TV Dating Shows 20:15 Overrated or Underrated: Pumpkin Spice Everything 23:34 Introduction to Dr. Rachel Glik 24:10 Inspiration Behind 'A Soulful Marriage' 25:42 Challenges in Relationships 28:16 The Importance of Physical Intimacy 29:43 Misconceptions About Love 31:24 Early Marriage Counseling 39:21 The Role of Quantum Physics in Relationships 40:49 The Relevance of Marriage Today 44:15 Impact of 'A Soulful Marriage' 46:58 Fun Segment: They Said It 52:19 Conclusion and Where to Find the Book

Evan concludes the summer with a compelling episode featuring Bela Gandhi, founder of the Smart Dating Academy. They explore themes around modern dating, the impact of online dating, and the process of finding love post-divorce. Bela shares her journey from a career in business to becoming a renowned dating coach, offering invaluable insights on dating logistics, recognizing red flags, and debunking common myths. The episode also features discussions on the financial and emotional tolls of divorce and includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It.'   Topics 00:31 Reflecting on the End of Summer 01:31 Exploring Modern Romance with Bela Ghandi 02:33 Diving into Divorce Trends 08:02 Weaponized Incompetence in Relationships 11:12 Overrated or Underrated: Divorce and Beyond 21:55 Interview with Bela Ghandi Journey and Insights 30:18 Blending Love and Compatibility 30:48 Generational Perspectives on Love 31:37 Unexpected Career Paths 32:19 The Role of Chemistry in Relationships 32:48 Modern Dating Challenges 34:20 The Paradox of Choice in Online Dating 35:51 Dating During and After Divorce 39:44 Debunking Dating Myths 44:53 Psychological Insights into Dating 53:14 The Impact of Politics on Relationships 54:27 Final Thoughts and Advice

Evan interviews Kristin Kenney, CEO and founder of High Gear Advisors. Kristin shares her expertise in career negotiations, crisis resolution, and relationship management, focusing on helping high achievers who resist traditional coaching. The episode covers navigating the divorce process, with Evan and producer Dave discussing their personal experiences. Kristin offers insights on maintaining healthy relationships, setting boundaries, and the importance of neuroplasticity in personal development. The episode also touches on global divorce rates, the challenges of celebrity marriages, and the value of preparation and organization in the divorce process.   Topics 00:39 Guest Introduction: Kristin Kenney 01:47 Summer and Divorce: Personal Experiences 04:15 Celebrity Divorce Insights: David Justice and Halle Berry 08:11 Global Divorce Rates: A Deep Dive 11:15 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 19:57 In-Depth with Kristin Kenney: Career Negotiations and Crisis Management 27:35 Building a New Roadmap for Success 28:15 The Art of Detachment in Negotiations 33:05 Patterns of Self-Sabotage 40:33 Defining True Success 42:28 Navigating Relationships with Different Worldviews 47:56 Quick Fixes for Relationship Improvement 51:28 They Said It: Insights from Authors 57:47 Conclusion and Contact Information

Evan returns after a brief hiatus to discuss the intricacies of the divorce process, featuring insights from Haleh Moddasser, CPA and author of 'Great Divorce Silver Linings.' They delve into the realities of late-life divorce, financial independence for women, and how to handle investments post-divorce. The episode also touches on the emotional aspects of divorce, personal growth, and the significance of financial planning. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave review TV shows that highlight divorce themes, reinforcing the episode's emphasis on handling life transitions with grace and insight.   Topics 00:30 Summer Vibes and July 4th Celebrations 02:57 Upcoming Episode Highlights 04:05 TV Show Review: Friends and Neighbors 12:10 TV Show Review: The Four Seasons 18:52 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics 25:54 Interview with Haleh Moddasser: Women and Wealth 27:55 Challenges Women Face in Financial Advisory 28:42 Post-Divorce Financial Mindset 31:09 Creating a Financial Plan During Divorce 33:33 The Importance of Financial Planning 36:28 The Rise of Gray Divorce 39:52 Empowering Women Through Financial Independence 48:01 Generational Differences in Financial Attitudes 54:02 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.   Topics 00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast 00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz 03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective 07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It? 11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages 24:13 Stephanie's New Book 25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms 29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage 31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships 32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience 34:34 Advice for Younger Self 41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society 45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It 53:10 Conclusion and Farewell

In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss their personal takes on Opening Day, share insights on popular shows like 'White Lotus,' and debate the value of law firm swag.    00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery 00:08 Podcast Opening and Episode Overview 00:52 Guest Introduction: Dr. Brad Reedy 01:15 Casual Conversation: Baseball and Personal Anecdotes 05:18 Discussion on Divorce and Relationships 09:37 Parenting Post-Divorce 13:46 Overrated or Underrated Segment 18:18 White Lotus Discussion 21:42 Interview with Dr. Brad Reedy 23:20 Embracing Resistance in Therapy 24:46 Mentors and Their Impact 26:19 False Heroes and Misguided Pursuits 27:34 Modern Therapy's Shortcomings 29:42 Connecting Past Trauma to Present Issues 32:06 The True Nature of Healing 34:12 The Role of Forgiveness in Therapy 35:56 Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth 39:01 The Hero's Journey Framework 41:03 Unresolved Childhood Trauma in Breakups 44:24 The Importance of Self-Knowledge 48:07 Famous Quotes and Their Insights 58:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan leads a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction and human sexuality with clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. David Ley. The conversation dispels myths, addresses misconceptions about sex addiction, and explores the nuances of intimacy, relationships, and pornography. The episode also features the lively 'Overrated or Underrated' segment and a discussion on AI's impact on child exploitation. Additionally, Dr. Ley provides professional insights on maintaining realistic expectations in relationships and discusses the potential benefits and ethical dilemmas associated with artificial intelligence in combating sexual offenses.   Topics 00:38 Diving into Divorce and Relationship Insights 02:00 March Madness and Bracket Strategies 04:46 Red Sox and Yankees Rivalry 06:40 The Docket: Sharing Truth After Divorce 14:07 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 26:17 Interview with Dr. David Ley on Sex Addiction 30:05 The Harmful Effects of the 'Sex Addiction' Label 30:45 Sex Addiction in the Courtroom 31:31 Misconceptions About Sex Addiction Treatment 33:26 Moral Judgments and Sex Addiction 35:53 Pornography and Its Misunderstood Impact 37:07 The Role of Sex Education 39:06 Pornography in Relationships 45:09 The Myth of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction 46:40 The Complexity of Human Sexuality 01:01:36 AI and Child Exploitation 01:10:17 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Featuring renowned life coach and relationship expert Laurie Gerber, the episode delves into handling breakups, dating post-divorce, and the importance of honesty and self-discovery. Highlights include Gerber's advice on the pitfalls of rushing into new relationships, the significance of personal growth, and practical tips for modern dating. The show also covers current events, such as celebrity divorces, and explores topics like the resurgence of vinyl records and the impact of one's career on relationships. Throughout the episode, engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It' add variety and depth to the conversation, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in love, relationships, and personal development.   Topics 00:14 Podcast Introduction and Season Overview 00:26 Discussing Divorce and Relationships 02:40 Celebrity Divorce News 06:24 TV Show Trailer Review 09:08 Impact of Careers on Relationships 13:26 Overrated or Underrated Segment 22:55 Interview with Laurie Gerber 39:01 Understanding Compatibility in Dating 39:56 Efficiently Ending a Relationship 41:27 The Six Key Compatibility Factors 45:37 Importance of Family and Political Views 50:12 Common Dating Mistakes After 50 59:46 The Role of Social Media in Dating 01:02:30 Quotes and Reflections on Love 01:10:42 Conclusion and Resources

Evan sits down with Alison Lefkowitz, professor at the New Jersey Institute of Technology and author of 'Strange Bedfellows: Marriage in the Age of Women's Liberation, Politics, and Culture in Modern America'. They discuss the historical and modern challenges of marriage laws, the shifts in gender roles, and how technology is reshaping relationships. The episode also features segments on notable cultural perspectives on relationships, as well as a fun 'Overrated or Underrated' segment covering topics from depositions to fanny packs.   Topics   00:00 Introduction to Marriage Laws and Social Safety Nets 00:58 Episode Introduction and Guest Announcement 01:10 Discussion on Marriage Law and Social Change 01:48 Weather Talk and Personal Updates 02:43 Docket Item: Divorcing Over Taylor Swift 05:07 Docket Item: Living with Post-Divorce Anger 08:58 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics 17:44 The Fanny Pack Debate 20:48 Introducing Alison Lefkovitz 22:22 The Evolution of Marriage Laws 24:01 Technology's Impact on Modern Marriages 25:23 Masculinity, Femininity, and Legal Rulings 36:30 Pop Culture and Marriage 38:49 The Future of Marriage 44:13 They Said It: Fun Segment 50:23 Conclusion and Farewell

An insightful conversation on the complexities of relationships and divorce featuring Dr. Galena Rhoades, a leading psychologist and research professor at the University of Denver. The episode covers a variety of topics including the science behind what keeps couples together, the importance of commitment and communication, and the controversial topic of infidelity and its recovery process. The podcast includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where Evan and producer Dave delve into trending topics and quotes about relationships. Dr. Rhoades offers research-backed truths and practical advice, making this a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of love and divorce.   Topics   01:35 February Excitement and Super Bowl Talk 03:01 Valentine's Day Discussion 04:12 Docket Items: Divorce and Cheating 06:26 Bill Gates' Divorce Regret 12:10 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 22:03 Interview with Dr. Galena Rhoades 26:27 Research on Cohabitation and Divorce 28:00 The Sliding vs. Deciding Theory 30:04 Designing the Ideal Psychological Study 31:38 Healing After Betrayal in Relationships 33:49 The Phases of Recovery from Infidelity 38:53 The Myths of Love and Relationships 41:49 Impact of Family Background on Relationships 44:14 Key Components of Thriving Relationships 47:45 Insights from 'Fighting for Your Marriage' 50:35 Analyzing Historical Relationships 52:52 They Said It: Reflections on Love and Commitment 57:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan welcomes financial advisor and author Jennifer Lee to discuss her book, 'Squeeze the Juice'. The episode dives into the intricacies of making financial resources work efficiently towards achieving life goals, such as affording private school, vacations, or an unrestricted budget for weekend shopping. Jennifer offers insightful advice on navigating major financial transitions like divorce and death, emphasizing the importance of understanding one’s financial story and leveraging resources effectively. The segment 'Overrated or Underrated' adds a fun twist, tackling topics like drive-thru coffee shops and DIY legal forms. Jennifer also shares her philosophy on money management, the importance of professional financial advice, and integrating financial planning with personal life goals.   Topics   01:07 Buzz Around Season 5 and Meredith Goldstein 03:54 Diving into Divorce: Mortgage Rates and More 05:50 Divorce Stories: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly 08:11 Impact of Divorce on Children 13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Everyday Topics 19:54 Interview with Jennifer Lee: Financial Planning Insights 23:02 Assessing Your Financial Resources 24:13 Understanding Discretionary Money 26:34 Navigating Financial Myths 27:33 Insights from 'Squeeze the Juice' 30:19 Lessons from Clients 32:03 Financial Advice and Divorce 38:01 Blended Families and Money 42:52 Fun Financial Quotes 46:15 Conclusion and Farewell