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Ladies and Gentlemen, I am delighted and excited to share this conversation with you! Truly an honor to speak collegue to colleague and for the second time, with Michael Ostrolenk. Who and what is the Sovereign Gentlemen? We talk virtues, characteristics and why he matters. In a world where women trust men less with every news article coming out, this conversation is needed and it is equally for men and for women to build bridges and create more flourishing relationships. We define sovereignty, in this time and age, and when we speak about the definition of a gentlemen, I get personal about my dad. We speak about the couple as health and longevity system and life-hack and why and how your conflicts make you sick and let you age - weather you like it or not, it’s science. Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in Juli to have your personal question explored and answered. But for now, enjoy this conversation on modern day relationships, leave a comment and share it with men, on their path of embracing maturity.

This is the opening episode of The Sovereign Edge — a new chapter of Modern Couples, exploring what it actually means to be human, and to be in relationship, in 2026 and moving forward. My guest is Traver Boehm, founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, author, and two-time TEDx speaker. We started where neither of us planned to: grief. The loss of his father and his cousin — and what that unlocked in him — led us into a deep, uncensored and honest conversation. We talked about the epidemic of unexpressed grief in men, the Epstein list and why Traver says there's one in your neighborhood too, why men's circles are not optional right now, AI as pocket therapist and what it reveals about our shadow, the uncivilized bedroom and what becomes possible when sexuality is treated as sacred rather than shameful, and why being dangerous and not being a danger are two completely different things. This is not a comfortable episode. It is a necessary one.Find Traver Boehm at manuncivilized.com and on Instagram @traverboehm — and if you want to explore what a new chapter in your own relationship could look like, you'll find my 90-Day Relationship Challenge at modern-couples.com/90-day-offer.Both of us are on substack with long-form essays.

What it is and why you should join All the details, and when it starts again - next and first cohort to start 21.04.26 https://modern-couples.com/90-day-offer

In this episode, Marcella shares a personal deep dive into her longevity, biohacking, and nutrition journey over the past two years — and why this matters far beyond health. An invitation to explore your body, your patterns, and how physical wellbeing directly shapes your relationships. Links & Resources 🌿 Marcella’s Longevity & Biohacking Protocol → https://www.modern-couples.com/longevity 👓 ZENNI Optical (glasses Marcella uses) → http://rwrd.io/8at7r5e?c referral link Disclaimer: This episode reflects personal experience and exploration. It is not medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional. The way you inhabit your body influences how you: regulate emotions navigate conflict show up in love lead in life What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why your body impacts your relationship The connection between physical fitness and emotional resilience How training your body translates into navigating relationship challenges “Transfer of learning” — using discipline from fitness in love From marathon running → to weightlifting Shifting from endurance to strength and longevity-focused training Learning to listen to the body instead of following rigid systems Using a continuous glucose monitor to understand energy and focus Why “healthy food” is not always contextually healthy Simple adjustments (e.g. combining foods to reduce glucose spikes) Insights from: Hair Mineral Tissue Analysis Ketosis tracking Understanding the role of: liver function B vitamins mineral balance Links & Resources 🌿 Marcella’s Longevity & Biohacking Protocol→ ⁠https://www.modern-couples.com/longevity⁠ 👓 ZENNI Optical (glasses Marcella uses)→ ⁠http://rwrd.io/8at7r5e?c⁠ referral link Disclaimer: This episode reflects personal experience and exploration.It is not medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional.

**new launch: WAhr Siderisches Mond Tagebuch, details here* * In dieser Episode begebe ich mich mit Human Design Expertin Manuela Erhart auf eine Reise an die Grenzen dessen, was viele von uns über Astrologie, Identität und Bestimmung gelernt haben. Es ist auch für mich alles neu und ich gehe mit einer neugierigen Haltung in das Gespräch.Wir tauchen ein in die wahre siderische Astrologie, sprechen über die 13 statt 12 Sternzeichen – und vor allem über Ophiuchus, den Schlangenträger. (wir sind gerade im 13. SZ seit dem 6.12.) Was mich persönlich am meisten bewegt hat:Die Erkenntnis, wie tief eine scheinbar „kleine“ Verschiebung von 30 Grad unser Selbstbild, unsere Beziehungsmuster und sogar unser Lebensgefühl verändern kann. Und wie einen das Leben so einläd einen Ego-Tod zu erleben - wer kann ich noch sein, wenn das was ich bisher dachte nicht alles gewesen ist?! Wir sprechen darüber: warum laut NASA rund 86 % der westlichen Sternzeichen nicht mit dem realen Sternenhimmel übereinstimmen was es bedeutet, wenn dein „wahres“ Zeichen ein anderes ist als das, mit dem du dich ein Leben lang identifiziert hast warum Ophiuchus für Selbstermächtigung, Heilung, Sexualenergie und bewusste Verantwortung steht wie sich diese neue Perspektive auf Beziehungen, Berufung und innere Führung auswirkt und warum Schlaf, Träume und nächtliche Bewusstseinszustände eine viel größere Rolle spielen, als wir denken Diese Folge ist keine leichte Kost. Sie ist eine Einladung, dein Selbstbild zu hinterfragen – und vielleicht tiefer zu dir selbst zurückzukehren, als du es erwartet hast. Wenn du bereit bist, deine innere Autorität nicht länger im Außen zu suchen, sondern im eigenen Gefühl, im eigenen Körper und im eigenen Rhythmus – dann ist diese Episode für dich. Mehr zu und von Manuela: https://good-vibes.world

What if the rise of divorce isn’t a failure of love — but an initiation into conscious relating? In this conversation with Sarah Intelligator, veteran family law attorney, yoga teacher, and author of Live, Laugh, Find True Love, we explore the patterns, pitfalls, and potentials of modern marriage. Close to 20 years in the courtroom,, Sarah has seen it all (let's say US based drama, can it get any more?!) — and she’s on a mission to help couples never make it to her office in the first place. Together we dive into the six F’s that make or break relationships: Fundamental values, Fear, Foundation, Fairy Tale, Family, and Fixing. We discuss: How to set your marriage up for success before it begins - this is a tough one though! Why “starter marriages” might be a generational rite of passage // the evolutionary path of our time? What modern courtroom cases reveal about the state of intimacy in 2025 — from custody battles, IVF's to OnlyFans discoveries Why values matter more than chemistry, and how to talk about them early on How to navigate communication, honesty, and respect as moving pillars in a long-term relationship And finally, what it means to reclaim healthy masculinity and feminine polarity in today’s world This episode invites you to think beyond “happily ever after” and toward a vision of partnerships that evolve, grow, and stay rooted in reality — not fantasy. 📖 Get Sarah’s book: Live, Laugh, Find True Love 📸 Connect with Sarah: @sarah.a.intelligator.esq 🌐 Visit: lafamilylawpractice.com This episode is sponsored and hosted by Modern Couples Coaching with the intention to inspire and have new conversations to rewire our brains for the 10x kind of love. For more, send your requests [email protected]

In this intimate episode of Modern Couples, I sit down with Darshana Avila — somatic s.ex and intimacy coach — to explore what happens when we see s.ex as activism and love a cultural revolution. It only takes 3.5%, even of a minority group, to initiate change! We speak about how the quality of our relationships mirrors the health of our society — and how embodied, s.exually fulfilled humans are the foundation of conscious leadership, community, and change. Darshana and I dive into what it means to reclaim s.exuality in it wholness, not separate from our purpose, politics, or everyday choices. We explore: if our "leaders of the world" actually experienced and embodied wholesome se.xuality. Cultural and linguistic conditioning to disconnect from our pleasure, erotic self and se.xual embodyment How to bring more erotic intelligence into leadership, partnership, and self-expression. And why being sexually fulfilled is not indulgence — it’s a form of social responsibility. This episode is an invitation to remember that pleasure and purpose belong together, and that the next wave of cultural evolution might just begin in our bedrooms — and in the courage to be fully alive. Darshana Avila is a trauma-informed somatic educator, practitioner and international speaker who helps people reconnect with the most essential aspects of themselves — their truth, their desires, and their capacity for authentic connection.  Known for her grounded, candid, and relational approach, she bridges the worlds of embodiment, emotional intelligence, and personal agency with depth and accessibility. Darshana’s work has been featured on Netflix’s Sex, Love & goop, The Guardian, The New Yorker, and numerous leading podcasts. WEBSITE darshanaavila.com  SOCIAL HANDLES instagram.com/darshana_avila youtube.com/@darshana-avila linkedin.com/in/darshana-avila skool.com/galgasm This episode is sponsored and hosted by Modern Couples Coaching with the intention to get inspired and have new conversations to rewire our brains for the 10x kind of love. [email protected]

In this episode of the Modern Couples Podcast, I sit down with Miles Spencer — serial entrepreneur, father, and founder of Reflector AI, a soul-tech company that makes it possible to create digital memories and interactive “elder avatars” of our loved ones. aka. Talking with the dead (note: it's clearly AI and not the dead)What moved me most to watch my own inner monologue during the conversation move from skepticism and creepiness to opportunity and a sincere opportunity for shifting our societies' mindset to legacy awareness and building - which got lost for so many in modern times. We talk about:How love and entrepreneurship shape and challenge each other.What it means to stop pouring love and energy into a “leaky bucket” and start redirecting it.How technology can enable not just memory, but connection and healing.The opportunities and limits: how much contact with 'the dead' (note: it's clearly AI and not the dead) is healthy, and what skills we need to navigate it.Why legacy is more than asset wealth — and how we can consciously document for future generations.For me, this conversation was inspiring and challenging at the same time. It invites us to think beyond our own “relationship code” — across generations, and even across the boundaries of life and death. Which is a skill of the future And after this conversation I am convinced with discernment and awareness, this technological advancement is something I might give a try!About the guest Miles SpencerMiles Spencer is currently CEO and a founder of Reflekta.ai, a Soul Tech company that bridges generations through fully interactive digital legacies. A multi-exit entrepreneur, investor, and storyteller, he is also the author of the Amazon bestseller A Line in the Sand. As former co-host of PBS’s MoneyHunt, Miles has spent his career at the intersection of media, technology, and human-centered narrative. With Reflekta, he is pioneering a new way for families to preserve voice, memory, and values—turning stories into dynamic, spontaneous connections that endure across lifetimes

**New Launch - True Sidereal Moon Journal, details here** In this episode of the Modern Couples Podcast, I sit down with Analena Fuchs — intuitive Human Design & Gene Keys guide, creator of the Intuitive Human Design Teacher Certification, and host of the True Sidereal Summit. Analena brings a rare lens to modern spirituality by weaving Human Design with true sidereal astrology — a system that uses the actual astronomical sky rather than the traditional tropical zodiac.What struck me most in our conversation was how this evolution in astrology and the impact on the sense of self as well as the impact on relationships feels so divinely timed. Asking us to let go of ego and attachments, and step even more into wholeness, compassion and embracing life to its fullest.For me, this conversation is about permission — to stop squeezing yourself into outdated boxes, to relate from alignment instead of performance, and to see spirituality as something deeply embodied, not abstract or aesthetic. It made me reflect on what becomes possible when we update the internal map to match the real sky.As so often, I consider this conversation: advanced.There is basic tutorials on sidereal astrology out there - just check the dates, because there have been recent shifts, probably causing future higher demands in this topic. We talk about:• How Human Design and Genekeys tranform relationships - What is True Sidereal Astrology- What happens when you find out about different astrologies- How to handle and be with the different designs without getting lost or confused- How to use different astrology in every day situations- Which Astrology should you now use? E.g. for your child and education?- How do you deal with the realization that you and your partner lived "outdated" designs?- Is there a right or wrong? - How to deal with the pain of letting go of an identity? ego deathThis episode invites a quiet revolution in how we see ourselves and the people we love — not as fixed identities, but as evolving constellations finally aligned with the real sky.About Analena and the links mentioned in the episodeAnalena Fuchs is an Intuitive Human Design & Gene Keys Guide and creator of the Intuitive Human Design Teacher Training Certification. She helps conscious leaders stop people-pleasing and step into their power using her unique holistic Human Design approach. As host of the True Sidereal Summit and a 3+ year podcast veteran, Analena is a leading voice in the human design space, teaching practitioners to read charts as complete stories rather than isolated elements.https://analenafuchs.com/ probably soon offering True Sidereal HD Bodygraph but for now...Calculate a free Bodygraph Mandala: https://harmonic-explorer.onrender.com/bodygraphFor experts, here is how to calculate it yourself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEOU7tO1vnQFor more information about Ophichus, Ill soon invite a new guest. More about Modern-Couples Coaching, subscribe to our channel, subscribe to our newsletter, or send an email for coaching/mentoring requests.

In dieser Folge spreche ich mit Phi von Phi Loves Astrology – und ich kann dir sagen: dieses Gespräch hat mich wirklich bewegt. Da ich selbst seit über 10 Jahren mit Astrologie, insbesondere Human Design, lebe und arbeite, ist für mich völlig klar, das dieses Wissen ein Game Changer für private und berufliche Beziehungen ist!Wir haben gemeinsam darüber gesprochen,🌌 wie Astrologie zu einem Werkzeug für Selbstentdeckung wird – weit entfernt von simplen Horoskopen in Zeitschriften.💫 wie Paare durch das Wissen um ihr Chart mehr Mitgefühl, Klarheit und Verbindung entwickeln können.🪐 wie auch Unternehmer:innen und Gründer:innen die Sterne nutzen können, um harmonischere Entscheidungen zu treffen, Teams stärkenorientiert aufzubauen und Projekte im besseren Moment zu starten.🌙 welche Rituale und kleinen Übungen Paare im Alltag integrieren können, um spielerisch und tief zugleich mit der Astrologie zu arbeiten, unterstützt von den Energien der Planeten.Wenn du neugierig bist, wie du deine Beziehung, dein Business oder dich selbst mit Hilfe der Sterne neu sehen kannst, dann ist diese Episode für dich.Wenn du dein Wissen zu Astrologie täglich vertiefen möchtest, schau dir phi loves astrologie an.Wenn du einen Beziehungscoach suchst, der im Einklang mit astrologischem Wissen, insbesondere Human Design, arbeitet, bin ich dein Paar Coach!Jedes Coaching, individuel oder als Paar, beinhaltet ein Human Design Beziehungs reading!Mehr Infos auf www.modern-couples.com Wahr Siderisch/ True Sidereal? Hier findest du weitere Infos: https://truesidereal.lovable.app

In this episode, I sit down with Alexander Beiner, author of The Bigger Picture: How Psychedelics Can Help Us Make Sense of the World and a thought leader at the intersection of psychedelics, culture, and human connection. What moved me most in this conversation was Alexander’s way of weaving together personal relationship insights with a bigger vision for culture and community. He speaks with clarity about how psychedelics have not only deepened his 15-year marriage but also taught him lessons in empathy, radical honesty, and truly stepping into another’s perspective. Disclaimer:This conversation includes discussion of psychedelics. Nothing in this episode is intended as medical advice, encouragement, or recommendation to use psychedelic substances. Psychedelics remain illegal in many jurisdictions and can carry significant health, legal, and psychological risks. Always do your own research and seek professional guidance from qualified healthcare providers. This isn’t just about psychedelics. It’s about love, resilience, and what it takes to show up in partnership, even when it gets messy. It’s about asking ourselves: how do we relate—period? To our partners, our community, and even the natural world. In our conversation we explore: How psychedelics can unlock radical empathy and new perspectives in long-term love Why MDMA was once used in couples therapy and what makes it powerful for relationships The importance of preparation, intention, and integration when using altered states together How our digital world is reshaping trust, intimacy, and community Why relationships, like ceremonies, require phases of letting go and beginning anew This episode is for you if you’re curious about what it really means to relate with depth and courage in a time of post-truth, AI tricksters, and shifting cultural landscapes. Disclaimer:This conversation includes discussion of psychedelics. Nothing in this episode is intended as medical advice, encouragement, or recommendation to use psychedelic substances. Psychedelics remain illegal in many jurisdictions and can carry significant health, legal, and psychological risks. Always do your own research and seek professional guidance from qualified healthcare providers.

In this episode, I sit down with a role model Modern & Entrepreneurial Couple — Anna and Kaspar — and I have to say: their story deeply moved me. To witness how they live Love as Art, Family as Ceremony, and Community as Home felt both grounding and inspiring. They embody so much of what I believe modern couples can aspire to: a love that is intentional, sacred, and alive. What touched me most is how they balance it all — a healthy biohacker lifestyle, partnership, parenting, and growing businesses. Not perfectly, but consciously. They show that challenges can be invitations into deeper intimacy, and that “messy” moments are not failures, but doorways into growth. I am passionate to share this conversation with you, because I believe their way of holding love as sacred is a beacon for all of us navigating modern relationships. We dive into: Why true love requires aligning on deeper values, not just chemistry How radical honesty and nervous system awareness transform conflict into connection The role of music, ceremony, and community in weaving their love story Why making conscious sacrifices actually strengthens you as a couple Anna and Kaspar reminded me that love was never meant to be easy — it was meant to be sacred, alive, and worth showing up for every single day. About Anna & Kaspar Kaspar van der Meulen is beststelling author, breathwork specialist and public speaker. Find out more about his work, here: https://breathworkmasterclass.com/ Anna Catharin Heil Anna is serial entrepreneur, public speaker, musician, ceremonialist, birth doula and biohacker. Find out more about her work here https://annaheil.com Together as a couple they are loving parents and hold psychedelic's circles and events in the Netherlands For more about Modern Couples, check out www.modern-couples.com or follow Marcella on IG

most of us invest more into learning how to drive a car than into learning how to create nurturing relationships

How to nurture a long-term, thriving, healthy and expansive relationship in these unprecedented, unpredictable modern times. In this deep and heart-opening conversation, Marcella welcomes Dajana — relationship mentor, author, speaker, and medium — who has been with her husband for 25 years. Together, they talk about the zeitgeist (the spirit of our times) and how external factors like media, economic uncertainty, and rapid technological change impact couples and the way we relate. Dajana shares for the first time her personal journey about navigating challenges like financial instability and infertility with radical honesty, energy awareness, and a daily decision for love. Marcella and Dajana also reflect on: Why inner work and energy awareness need to be non-negotiable in modern relationships. The importance of being of service, and shared values in overcoming crisis. How to consciously prepare for partnership rather than “fix it” once it’s broken. The importance of coaches, mentors, or elders in navigating modern love. Why couples must learn to balance external chaos with inner stability and ultimately learn how to balance and recharge their energy. This episode is for anyone who wants to understand how to stay committed, resilient, and loving — not in spite of challenges, but through them. And for anyone wondering why it often feels so hard. Love is a choice! 2 relationship coaches, and many shared principles and beliefs. If you want to elevate your love, feel into who do you think will click best with your relationship. For simplicity, we joked: Gen X & older probably more for Dajana, Gen Y & younger probably more Marcella. Modern Couples Coaching was founded in 2020 and supports ambitious humans to rewire their brain to 10x their love! For more information: www.modern-couples.com & book one of the limited free discovery calls with Marcella. https://www.instagram.com/marcellaannabrebaum/ About Dajana Dajana and her husband Uwe help spiritually open couples and individuals who want to live in a happy and fulfilling relationship. https://www.instagram.com/medium_dajana https://www.facebook.com/dajana.meissner14

What if the way we relate—romantically, socially, and creatively—is based on outdated illusions? In this thought-provoking conversation, Sara Pignatelli, a Portuguese visual and music artist, shares her journey of conscious relating, breaking free from relationship norms, and the intersection of art, nature, and deep self-exploration. This episode is a raw and honest look at: The illusion of marriage and traditional couplehood—and what happens when we question these social constructs.The power of plant medicine in reshaping how we experience love, intimacy, and connection.The importance of emotional safety as an individual (especially when single) and how to cultivate it.Holding high standards in relationships without fear of being “too much.”Sara’s vibrant, charismatic, and boundary-pushing artistry is reflected not just in her work, but in the way she lives, thinks, and loves. Her perspective challenges us to rethink the stories we’ve been told about love and partnership—and to create our own. Sara is a creative force whose deep connection with nature, sound, and visual expression shapes her work in unique and meaningful ways. To explore her art and music, visit: 🌿 www.sarapignatelli.com 🎨 Instagram: @sara__pignatelli At the end of our talk, Sara references Dr. Tara Swart and her insights on neuroscience and relationships. If you want to dive deeper, this is the interview she mentions: 🎥 Watch it here Love & Relationships on Your Terms If this conversation resonates with you and you’re eager to elevate your relationships, Let's connect. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or redefining love on your own terms, our coaching programs offer the tools, insights, and structure to help ambitious humans to create deep, conscious and lasting connections. 🖤 Join the movement and explore your next level in love: Learn more about Love10x & Modern Couples Coaching