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WITH-ness: The experience of being deeply connected with God and others through joy, presence, mutual delight, trust, safety, and shared life. A relational environment where people become more fully alive because they are deeply known, genuinely loved, and continually invited to grow. ~ Table & Well Big Question: What happens when our longing for security turns into a need to control the relationship through performance and appeasement? Join Tennison & Ginelle as they conclude their conversation on the posture of UNDER. In this episode they will take a look at the invitation that WITH brings as couples move from: From performance to presence. From appeasement to authenticity. From anxiety to security. From managing your response to trusting our relationship. From self-abandonment to healthy autonomy. From earning belonging to living from belonging. From UNDER to WITH. Every spouse longs to know, "Are we okay? Am I safe here? Will you still be here?"That longing for security is good. We were created for secure attachment, for relationships in which we can rest, trust, grow, and know we belong.But when that security feels threatened, fear begins looking for a way to guarantee the outcome. In the UNDER posture, the strategy becomes performance, pleasing, or appeasement: "If I do everything right, our marriage will be okay." Instead of receiving security through attachment, we try to earn it through our behavior. And slowly, marriage moves from joy to fear, from relationship to rules, and from intimacy to performance. If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

WITH-ness: The experience of being deeply connected with God and others through joy, presence, mutual delight, trust, safety, and shared life. A relational environment where people become more fully alive because they are deeply known, genuinely loved, and continually invited to grow. ~ Table & Well Big Question: What happens when our longing for security turns into a need to control the relationship through performance and appeasement? Join Tennison & Ginelle as they Continue to dive into the posture of UNDER and what The Cost is in your marriage that come when you live from this relational strategy in your marriage.   Every spouse longs to know, "Are we okay? Am I safe here? Will you still be here?"That longing for security is good. We were created for secure attachment, for relationships in which we can rest, trust, grow, and know we belong.But when that security feels threatened, fear begins looking for a way to guarantee the outcome. In the UNDER posture, the strategy becomes performance, pleasing, or appeasement: "If I do everything right, our marriage will be okay." Instead of receiving security through attachment, we try to earn it through our behavior. And slowly, marriage moves from joy to fear, from relationship to rules, and from intimacy to performance. If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

WITH-ness: The experience of being deeply connected with God and others through joy, presence, mutual delight, trust, safety, and shared life. A relational environment where people become more fully alive because they are deeply known, genuinely loved, and continually invited to grow. ~ Table & Well Big Question: What happens when our longing for security turns into a need to control the relationship through performance or pleasing? Every spouse longs to know, "Are we okay? Am I safe here? Will you still be here?"That longing for security is good. We were created for secure attachment, for relationships in which we can rest, trust, grow, and know we belong.But when that security feels threatened, fear begins looking for a way to guarantee the outcome. In the UNDER posture, the strategy becomes performance, pleasing, or appeasement: "If I do everything right, our marriage will be okay." Instead of receiving security through attachment, we try to earn it through our behavior. And slowly, marriage moves from joy to fear, from relationship to rules, and from intimacy to performance. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they unpack The False Solution that come when you  live from the relational strategy of Under in your marriage.   If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

WITH-ness: The experience of being deeply connected with God and others through joy, presence, mutual delight, trust, safety, and shared life. A relational environment where people become more fully alive because they are deeply known, genuinely loved, and continually invited to grow. ~ Table & Well Big Question: What happens when our longing for security turns into a need to control the relationship through performance? Every spouse longs to know, "Are we okay? Am I safe here? Will you still be here?"That longing for security is good. We were created for secure attachment, for relationships in which we can rest, trust, grow, and know we belong.But when that security feels threatened, fear begins looking for a way to guarantee the outcome. In the UNDER posture, the strategy becomes performance: "If I do everything right, our marriage will be okay." Instead of receiving security through attachment, we try to earn it through our behavior. And slowly, marriage moves from joy to fear, from relationship to rules, and from intimacy to performance. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they begin to unpack living Under, this unhealthy relational strategy, in our marriage.  If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

WITH-ness: The experience of being deeply connected with God and others through joy, presence, mutual delight, trust, safety, and shared life. A relational environment where people become more fully alive because they are deeply known, genuinely loved, and continually invited to grow. ~ Table & Well Healthy marriages don't usually collapse because people stop loving each other. They slowly drift from connection to control. Every unhealthy posture in marriage is an attempt to secure something good—security, certainty, fulfillment, or significance—but through fear and control rather than love and connection. Throughout this series, we're going to discover that beneath nearly every conflict lies a deeper question:  What are we really longing for? And beneath every unhealthy pattern lies another:  What are we afraid of? Most couples assume their biggest problems are communication, conflict, parenting, finances, or intimacy. But what if those are only symptoms of something much deeper? In this episode, Tennison and Ginelle begin to unpack how the 4 unhealthy postures we take in our marriage try to move us back WITH-ness when fear enters in: UNDER searches for WITH-ness through Pleasing.OVER searches for WITH-ness through Certainty/Control.FROM searches for WITH-ness through Consumption.FOR searches for WITH-ness through Appearance. If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

WITH-ness: The experience of being deeply connected with God and others through joy, presence, mutual delight, trust, safety, and shared life. A relational environment where people become more fully alive because they are deeply known, genuinely loved, and continually invited to grow. ~ Table & Well Healthy marriages don't usually collapse because people stop loving each other. They slowly drift from connection to control. Every unhealthy posture in marriage is an attempt to secure something good—security, certainty, fulfillment, or significance—but through fear and control rather than love and connection. Throughout this series, we're going to discover that beneath nearly every conflict lies a deeper question:  What are we really longing for? And beneath every unhealthy pattern lies another:  What are we afraid of? Most couples assume their biggest problems are communication, conflict, parenting, finances, or intimacy. But what if those are only symptoms of something much deeper? In this opening episode, Tennison and Ginelle introduce a powerful new framework for understanding why marriages become disconnected—not because couples stop loving one another, but because fear quietly begins replacing trust, curiosity, and joy. You'll discover the five relational postures that shape every marriage and learn why living "WITH" one another changes everything. If you've ever wondered why your marriage feels different than it once did, this conversation will help you understand why—and offer hope for a different way forward. If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"...The blending of awareness of knowing we need more maturity as Elders, but we need other people,...more elders who understand the goal and understand the process and are working towards that. Elders are suppose to co-labor with God to create the environments...to help people become who they were created to be." ~ Laran Wilke Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they continue to find God's Fingerprint in the lives of God's family.  In this episode the begin a conversation with Lara & Lissa Wilke. They are newly married True Elders for the community at large and doing the individual work needed to be healthy and mature to create and leave a lasting legacy!  Listen to the conclusion of this conversation with Laran & Lissa. In this episode we talk about where the Wilkes are seeing God's fingerprints in their community, and how they are practically creating opportunity for their community to experience real relational connection. We also explore how Laran & Lissa are walking out being Elders in the community they are building. Also, learn what they are dreaming for in their community and their lives. If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"I have always tried to be aware...to be present... Tipically the questions that come up (for me), are more on the thinking, processing, how do we make it happen. I have noticed that I am spending more time when people are talking thinking about, how does that make you feel, where is that coming from. More looking at it from that side and giving more space for that." ~ Lissa Wilke Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they continue to find God's Fingerprint in the lives of God's family.  In this episode the begin a conversation with Lara & Lissa Wilke. They are newly married True Elders for the community at large and doing the individual work needed to be healthy and mature to create and leave a lasting legacy!  In this episode listen in as Lissa and Laran dive into the nuts and bolts of daily living and growing in these new relational skills. They both share how these skills affect the way they relate with their families and how healing has come in those most precious relationships.  They also talk about how these skills have changed how they relate to each other If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"We are told to love our neighbor as ourselves, but we are never told how to love ourselves...what we have learned through doing the Co-Labs with you, is what was intended... in how we were supposed to be cared for..." ~ Laran Wilke Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they continue to find God's Fingerprint in the lives of God's family.  In this episode the begin a conversation with Lara & Lissa Wilke. They are newly married True Elders for the community at large and doing the individual work needed to be healthy and mature to create and leave a lasting legacy!  Listen in today as they talk about how they met and how their own unique journey brought them on this journey to relational health together. They share how their  journeys began and the surprises that they have found in themselves along the way.    If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"When we started developing those (relational) skills, and becoming more relational toward her, (our youngest daughter), we became Gentle Protector for her. " ~ Sylvia Snodgrass Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison and Ginelle as they continue their conversation with John & Sylvia Snodgrass. In this episode listen as John and Sylvia talk about their journey to become Gentle Protectors and guides to help people see the Bible as relational and not just a book to be studied.  Also her how they learned to be Gentle Protectors in their family before trying to protect the community at large.  If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"...I have to practice it, just like Sylvia has been a piano teacher for 25 years. 'If you don't practice john, your not going to learn piano.'  ... He (my son), reminded me, 'Dad, if you don't practice, your not going to learn relational skills.'" ~ John Snodgrass Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison and Ginelle as they start a new conversation about the Fingerprints of God with John & Sylvia Snodgrass. They share how this journey started for them and why they did this together. Listen as they explain how Relational C0-Labs and it's practices have brought them closer to God, themselves and each other, how it has changed the way they connect to their adult kids, and how their kids have experienced their change.  If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"...In the evangelical word we have shrunk love down to serving someone..., but what we are wondering is, is that the fullest extent of love; is that the definition of love or this that an expression of love?" ...What you see throughout scripture is actually love being this heart to heart connection."~ Britton Smith Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they engage in another Fingerprint conversation. In this episode they begin a conversation with Britton & Michelle Smith, leaders of  Pastor to Pioneer. Britton and Michelle are helping pastors move from "managing the institution" to a more life-giving form of ministry, where your home is the hub for worship, discipleship, and mission. Listen in as Tennison & Ginelle conclude their conversation with Britton & Michelle Smith. Britton & Michelle share their dream for the family of God, what they long to see and be a art of because of His Fingerprints. Discover the true meaning of love and how attachment to each other and God is at the center. Also, why we need multigenerational communities to live in and be a part of. If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"...When a pastor and their family step away from the prevailing model (of church), ... they realize that they can't hide behind ministry anymore... What comes to the surface is all the relational issues with their own marriage and families. (Once this is acknowledged, this is when we introduce these relational skills " ~ Britton Smith Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they engage in another Fingerprint conversation. In this episode they begin a conversation with Britton & Michelle Smith, leaders of  Pastor to Pioneer. Britton and Michelle are helping pastors move from "managing the institution" to a more life-giving form of ministry, where your home is the hub for worship, discipleship, and mission. In this episode listen in as Britton and Michelle talk about their journey from Pastors to Pioneers. This shift has changed the way the way they approach "church" with their friends, family and other across the county. One thing that they noticed was that no matter where they encountered others on this journey there was one common thread, the struggle to connect relationally with those closes to them. Learn how the introduction of simple relational skills as transformed the lives of those they serve.  If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"I have always been fairly aware of what I was feeling; But where I had to grow was in learning how to express them (feelings), in a way that the other person can receive them." ~ Michelle Smith Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they engage in another Fingerprint conversation. In this episode they begin a conversation with Britton & Michelle Smith, leaders of  Pastor to Pioneer. Britton and Michelle are helping pastors move from "managing the institution" to a more life-giving form of ministry, where your home is the hub for worship, discipleship, and mission. Listen in as the share their deeply personal, incredibly funny, and painful messy journey toward relational health. Learn how life forced them into a 'fish bowl" of healing and how devoicing the "Sister Wife" called church ministry, as moved them into deeper connection and wholeness.  If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co

"The way we often try to love people is by fixing them...If we can just be with them and learn how to be with them...that is what transforms people!" ~ Chris Frost  Fingerprints: How God is Growing the Relational Health of His Family Hosted by Tennison and Ginelle Barry, Fingerprints reveals how God is quietly restoring His family through relational healing, joy, and connection. Through real stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, this podcast explores how God is forming safe, mature, emotionally healthy communities—starting with us. Discover the quiet revival already unfolding in homes, churches, and relationships, and learn how to notice His fingerprints in your own life. Join Tennison & Ginelle as they conclude their conversation with Christ Frost and Des Belford, Pastors at The Summit Church Edmonton. In this episode Chris and Des answer the question "Knowing what you know now, what what advise would you give your former pastor self?" Their answers are eye opening.  They also discuss the benefits of being a part of Relational Co-Labs and how they bring everything together.  These are the Fingerprints of God! If you have been impacted by what you have heard in this podcast and would like to support us in our mission to help people experience healthier & deeper relationships with God, themselves, and others, go to: tableandwell.org/#support To learn how we can help develop your community, family or team: Schedule Interest Call To start on your journey to relational health go to: tableandwell.org To watch this and other Podcast go to our YouTube Channel: Table & Well co