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Special thanks to Yuna for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We sit down with NYC creator Yuna B for a blunt, funny conversation about building womanhood on your own terms and dating with clear rules. We argue through chivalry, money, jealousy, online hate, and trust until the real question shows up: how much of love is truth and how much is performance? • her ideal relationship dynamic, traditional in public and more submissive at home  • why she steps back from dating to travel and enrich her life  • growing up trans, starting hormones after high school, and letting family “see” the transition  • how she thinks about “fully transitioning,” surgeries, and pressure to pass  • handling surprise reactions in content spaces and being comfortable being visibly trans  • the 50-50 relationship debate, shared finances, and why chivalry still matters to her  • why she doesn’t fight hate comments and what viral transphobia looks like online  • an awkward closet story while dating and what it taught her about safety and honesty  • being stalked by a boss through fake dating profiles and what the legal system did  • jealousy boundaries, what counts as cheating, and why trust is non-negotiable  • “unconscious dishonesty,” defining words, and communicating without endless arguments  • first date preferences, love languages, values, and the traits she knows can be toxic  • “please hit that subscribe button.”  PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Moshe & Nela for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We dig into what happens when you stop living by default and start building a relationship around honesty, autonomy, and real trust. We talk through sobriety, nonmonogamy, jealousy, cheating, and why “romance” can turn into a contract that quietly eats your values.  • substance-free pleasure and why curiosity is not a good enough reason  • microdosing as culture and identity more than proven advantage  • a committed relationship that is not monogamous and why they avoid labels  • jealousy as a trigger to study rather than a rule to enforce  • fairness as the foundation for trust during conflict  • marriage, personal reinvention, and why some relationships cannot survive change  • monogamy as sacrifice and the push for individuality inside partnership  • dominance versus arrogance and how consent changes everything  • defining cheating as secrecy and bending the agreement  • staying connected with exes and making living arrangements work  • Valentine’s Day as performance versus authentic affection  please hit that subscribe button  PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Fiona & Christy for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We get brutally honest about why dating in LA and on college campuses can feel shallow, confusing, and low effort, then test what “standards” actually mean when real tradeoffs show up. With guests Fiona and Christy, we argue about ambition, money, obsession, monogamy, and whether you can build a healthy relationship on potential.  • USC dating culture and why it can feel misaligned with personal values  • Effort on dates, chivalry expectations, and what planning signals  • Big-city dating dynamics in LA and Vegas and the “too many options” problem  • Financial security, “provider” promises, and how control can hide inside romance  • Love bombing, dominance, insecurity, and why obsession feels addictive  • The HelloFresh analogy for dating potential versus dating reality  • Sugar dating, large age gaps, and the risks of being molded by a partner  • Faith-based standards, the role of past choices, and what people will realistically accept  • First-date preferences, love languages, and small acts that build trust  • Boundaries around phones, porn, monogamy, body count, and experience PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Milan for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We get brutally honest with Milan about dating in Los Angeles, where attraction is real, authenticity is rare, and insecurity can wreck a relationship fast. Her bomb shelter story shifts everything toward gratitude, resilience, and the creative routines that keep her grounded in the modeling and acting world. • dating in LA without chasing money or clout • why attraction matters and why people lie about it • the “hot guy phase” and what replaces it long term • how trauma and near-death moments reset your priorities • the bomb shelter escape story and what it taught her • talking about past relationships without disrespecting your partner • insecurity, possessiveness, and the “where are you” spiral • being an empath, reading energy, and needing emotional boundaries • manifestation, Utah “signs,” and landing a first commercial • why modeling is a skill and not just good looks • trust issues, rumors, and friendship drama behind the scenes • bullying, jealousy, and learning not to take it personally • piano as therapy and the habit that builds confidence • martial arts discipline and why real human interaction matters • anxiety triggers, control, and why she chooses not to drink • a creative coach as therapy and the push to stop doomscrolling My Instagram is at Milan Chaim, M I L A N C H A I M My TikTok is I’m Not Milan One PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Brinley for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We sit down with Brinley Walker to unpack why dating apps feel like a Black Mirror loop and how a “go with the flow” mindset can quietly turn into letting someone waste your time. We get honest about situationships, marriage, jealousy, validation, and the difference between being chill and having real boundaries. • Astrology as an icebreaker and what “Capricorn energy” signals in dating • Dating app burnout and why first dates start feeling like interviews • Meeting people while drinking and the gap between nightlife personality and real life • A Halloween run-in with an ex that triggers the ick • Ghosting dynamics and the numbers game of high-demand matches • Clinginess vs expectations and how attachment can show up early • A four-month situationship and the cost of avoiding hard conversations • Honesty when dating multiple people and why it protects everyone • Why a past relationship ended and how distance amplifies incompatibility • Marriage as a logical commitment and why “the next step” leads to divorce • Love languages and what a thoughtful first date looks like • Insecurity, social anxiety, and growing up trained to seek approval • Submission defined as trust with boundaries, not control • Open relationships and why possessiveness changes the rules • Defining cheating and how anger, forgiveness, and accountability collide • A friend fallout after a traumatic incident and the need for explanations PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Emma for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  Emma shares how she built an OnlyFans career while navigating manipulation, betrayal, and the messy reality of dating inside the creator economy. We talk consent, attachment styles, and what it takes to unlearn the belief that love has to hurt. • building an OnlyFans business through event planning and creator management skills • dating a manager and how business control turns into relationship control • open relationship dynamics that still end in cheating • content house drama and concerns around consent • defining free use and why consent must be explicit • family history trauma and how therapy reshapes boundaries • abuse cycles including financial control gaslighting and planning an escape • porn stigma objectification and setting clear dating boundaries • love languages communication and what a healthy relationship requires • practical dating safety tips including FaceTime and quick background checks So please hit that subscribe button. PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Audrey for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We ask why dating in LA feels like abundance without alignment, and Audrey shares how trust, values, and discipline cut through the noise. From “hey girly” DMs to love languages and run clubs, we test what actually builds a lasting bond. • LA dating culture and Peter Pan tendencies • stability vs stubbornness in Taurus traits • why settling down can be joyful, not dull • long-distance rules and end-date realities • people pleasing, boundaries, and reciprocity • love language misalignment and clear asks • quality time vs quantity time debate • where to meet value-driven partners • first-date green flags and dealbreakers Thank you to all of our listeners. We’ve been getting a ton of growth and engagement over the past few weeks. So we gotta thank you guys out there for that. PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Payton for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We dig into why dating apps reward avoidant patterns, how to balance attraction with values, and why “love is a choice” beats the soulmate myth. Peyton shares a seven-month almost-relationship, a five-girlfriend reveal, and the simple rules that keep trust intact. • online dating norms in Southern California and app fatigue • attraction as entry, values and consistency as filters • avoidant attachment cycles and how to exit them • the five-girlfriend reveal and verifying red flags • rejecting soulmates, choosing growth and acceptance • age gaps, maturity, and avoiding “potential” traps • first-date formats and managing risk and vibes • height preferences, double standards, and non-negotiables • boundaries on cheating, phones, and privacy • shifting from app churn to intentional screening PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Emma for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We unpack San Diego and LA dating, how blurred boundaries let betrayal repeat, and how trusting ourselves rebuilt confidence. Emma shares how a poetry practice turned pain into meaning and how initiative at work beats waiting for permission. • San Diego dating realities and red flags • Meeting on Hinge and trusting alignment • First love, toxic love and codependency • Betrayal by friends and gray areas • Boundaries as self-respect not punishment • Writing as healing and editing with distance • Defining cheating, flirting and secrecy • Fetishes, honesty and consented standards • Intuition over surveillance and phone checks • Age gaps, maturity and power dynamics • First date design and momentum • Career lessons: action over permission • Internships, curiosity and being memorable PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Amberlynn for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We trace Amber’s path from ending a relationship at her mom’s baptism to finding calm in ER nursing while untangling grief, faith, and attachment. It’s raw, funny, and grounded in hard-won boundaries about love, sex, and what belief means when life hurts. • breaking up at a baptism to stop settling • cheating, stalking, and the moment the switch flipped • high sex drive, monogamy, and “recycling” partners • male friendships and where lines hold • petty revenge, the bedroom interception, and aftermath • teen pregnancy, absent father, and family fallout • faith vs atheism, afterlife fears, and grief • nursing school stress, ER purpose, and anxiety relief • attachment styles shaping dating choices • clear dating criteria, kids, and future hopes PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Lindsey for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We trace Lindsay’s leap from pre-professional ballet to broadcast ambitions, and how heartbreak, campus life, and tough boundaries reshaped her view of love, loyalty and growth. Raw takes on cheating, double standards, money, and social media guide a practical playbook for modern dating. • leaving ballet to protect mental health and identity • adapting to SDSU after homeschool and a breakup • how to heal without rebound habits • defining emotional vs physical cheating and gray zones • setting digital boundaries on likes, DMs and thirst traps • money, ambition and expectations for long-term partners • body count math vs double standards and context • forgiveness, second chances and trust repair • first-date paying as a signal of intent • college ROI, real-world skills and career goals • Glad to have you with us and hope you continue to be a part of our family for the foreseeable future • And if so, please hit that subscribe button PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Johanaa for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We welcome Joanna, a realtor who left Amazon and healthcare tracks to build a client-first career, and we test her firm dating standards against modern expectations. The conversation heats up around monogamy, open relationships, and what “respect” really looks like when biology, culture, and commitment collide. • leaving Amazon and medical assisting for real estate and entrepreneurship • why clear dating standards beat situationships • defining cheating across physical, emotional, and digital lines • chivalry cues and how early behavior predicts patterns • jealousy, insecurity, and trust without surveillance • monogamy vs open rules, expectations, and control • forgiveness after infidelity and when to walk away • non-negotiables: ambition over looks, respect over vibes PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Destiny for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We talk timelines, boundaries, and the emotional math of love, from first-date sparks to long-term safety. Destiny shares hard lessons from a toxic college relationship, why moving in first is non-negotiable, and how honesty outperforms vibes. • early hopes for marriage and kids meet adult responsibility • dating in LA and San Diego as trade-offs with peace and routine • living together before engagement as a core rule • toxic relationship patterns, stalking, and recovery • standards for respect, second chances, and quick exits • monogamy vs openness, intention vs action, clear lines • dopamine, intimacy, and safety across relationship stages • flirting, validation, jealousy, and control debated • submission, leadership, and shared decision-making • nightlife lessons on honesty, boundaries, and trust PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Savanna for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We unpack LA dating archetypes, the thin line between clout and coercion, and how bare-minimum chivalry can disguise deeper problems. Savannah shares how she rebuilt boundaries after a manipulative relationship, a Vegas investigation, and a fresh betrayal that sent her to small claims court. • categories of LA guys and why trust breaks fast • sex work tradeoffs, stigma, and dating limits • choosing independence over financial control • seeing patterns in partners and fixing selection • the TikTok scammer story, threats, and tracking • Vegas incident, detectives, and testifying • sugar daddies, consent, risk, and discretion • intimacy myths, skills over size, and boundaries • money, trademarks, and reclaiming power I will be suing him in small claims court because he does owe me money PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show

Special thanks to Emily & Miya for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show  We trace love, betrayal, and recovery through candid stories of long-distance cheating, messy confrontations, and the strange clarity that follows hard endings. We weigh monogamy against openness, debate masculine and feminine energy, and push beyond slogans to the daily work of reciprocity. • LA dating culture as ambition-first environment • Phone unlock confrontation and the bathroom standoff • Revenge story and boundaries after a breakup • Micro cheating, double standards, and gendered narratives • Can love recover after infidelity and what it takes • Monogamy, energy transfer, and honest preferences • Masculine vs feminine energy and reciprocity in practice • Standards, “the prize” mindset, and delusion online • Body count, experience, and judgment without shame • Height, money, size, and sexual compatibility as realities PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.  Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST  Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle  Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon AND MANY MORE  Follow /Subscribe on  instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube                                         Thank you for watching :) Support the show