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Willis Austin Chimano, known simply as Chimano, is formally a key member of Africa’s biggest band Sauti Sol. Hailing from Nairobi Kenya, Chimano, through the frequency of grace, love and discernment now embarks on a solo career designed to set the world on fire through his music, product lines and advocacy.   Chimano is celebrated for his deep baritone voice, dynamic stage presence, and distinct fashion sense. His first solo EP "Heavy is the Crown" highlights Chimano's vocal prowess and his ability to blend different musical styles, including pop, soul, and electronic influences. The EP has been well-received by fans and critics alike, noting Chimano's bold step in expressing his individuality and exploring new artistic territories.   Chimano is known for his bold fashion choices, often seen in flamboyant and stylish outfits that challenge traditional norms. He has been an advocate for self-expression and individuality, inspiring many fans to embrace their unique identities. In a landmark moment for his personal life and the LGBTQ+ community in Kenya, Chimano publicly came out as gay in 2021. His openness about his sexuality has been a significant step toward breaking down barriers and challenging societal norms in a region where LGBTQ+ rights are often underrepresented.  Chimano's influence extends beyond music. His advocacy for self-expression and his courage in sharing his personal journey have made him a role model for many. Through his solo work, he continues to inspire and entertain, leaving a lasting impact on the African music scene and beyond.  Find more of Chimano here: https://www.willischimano.com/  Check him out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/willis.chimano/?hl=en  We asked Chimano which song he’d like us to play alongside this podcast episode. Here is ‘Beautiful Day,’ his song of choice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3DICz0wi8RU    Timestamps:   00:00 – Intro  00:36 – Who is Chimano?   01:54 – Being a part of Sauti Sol   04:15 – Chimano’s experience of coming out publicly  12:40 – Rethinking his identity as an artist  21:13 – The importance of a positive mindset and how to achieve it   26:43 – Reflecting on your Chimano’s childhood relationship with music  34:30 – Chimano's message to young queer people in Africa  37:29 – What’s next for Chimano  42:23 – Outro  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Toshi sat down with Issy from Our Streets Now to talk about why showing Adolescence in schools isn’t a good idea – as well as some alternatives.  Our Streets Now is a UK based organisation that is looking to end public sexual harassment. It was founded in 2019 by two teenage sisters, sharing how they experienced the world as young women. They spoke about feeling afraid walking home at night. About being harassed in their school uniform. About how their lives were restricted by the fear of public sexual harassment. And about how this was an everyday reality for millions of women, girls and people of marginalised genders up and down the country.  They began a petition to make public sexual harassment (PSH) a criminal offence. Within 100 days, that petition had over 100,000 signatures. It now sits at almost half a million. It caught the attention of local media, then national media, then policymakers at the heart of government. And, in 2023, the five year campaign to make PSH a crime was a success.    Timestamps  00:00 – Intro  00:55 – What is Our Streets Now and what do they do?  03:20 – All about the workshops run by Our Streets Now about sexual harassment  07:06 – How different genders respond differently to these workshops  10:23 – How to get students involved in difficult conversations about sexual harassment   13:43 – What do young people want to know?   18:40 – How we are all part of the problem  25:24: The ‘little and often’ approach – and why it’s so useful  26:54 – Should Adolescence be shown in schools as a learning resource?   31:14 – The alternative to showing Adolescence in schools  34:25 – How can parents and carers support these conversations?   37:41 – Issy's message to young people   39:13 – Where to find out more about Our Streets Now  40:50 – Conclusion   Find out more about Our Streets Now: https://www.ourstreetsnow.org/  Our Streets Now support: https://www.ourstreetsnow.org/support  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Toshi spoke with Mistress Sofia, the UK’s oldest dominatrix. Together they had a conversation about what it means to be a dominatrix, how Mistress Sofia got into this work, common misconceptions and what she’s learned in her time being a dominatrix.  Check out more of Mistress Sofia here: https://www.mistress-sofia.co.uk/  Timestamps:  00:00 – Intro   00:47 – Who is Mistress Sofia?   01:20 – What does it mean to be a dominatrix?  02:12 – How did Mistress Sofia get started in this work?  04:05 – Why does Mistress Sofia not use the world ‘client’?   05:03 – How do people serve Mistress Sofia?   06:58 – Is Mistress Sofia a sex worker?  08:48 – “I always ask what their kinks are”  10:06 – Caning is not as simple as it looks  12:16 – For new dominatrixes: learn from Mistress Sofia  13:20 – What does it mean to be dominant?  14:58 – Mistress Sofia on confidence  16:24 – “You cannot do this for the money”  17:23 – What does Mistress Sofia love about her job?   19:13 – What is a lifestyle slave?  20:19 – When did Mistress Sofia realise she was dominant?   21:59 – Mistress Sofia’s message to women  23:14 – How does being 75 impact her work?  24:54 – Is seeing a dominatrix while you’re in a relationship considered cheating?    27:00 – Why seeing a dominatrix can be a kind of therapy   29:30 – Navigating shame  33:07 – Final thoughts  34:58 – Mistress Sofia’s thoughts on findoms  36:16 – Why Mistress Sofia doesn’t work with women  36:44 – Goals for the future  37:59 – Where to find more of Mistress Sofia  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For this episode, Toshi had the opportunity to have a conversation with Will Adolphy, a former manosphere insider turned therapist. Will is a psychotherapist, educator, and speaker specialising in men’s mental health, masculinity, and emotional wellbeing. He leads M-Path, delivering talks and workshops to schools across the UK on masculinity, empathy, and the online world influencing boys. Will also hosts regular online parent + staff sessions for anyone interested in understanding the manosphere and how to approach conversations with boys more deeply.   Find him on Instagram @psychwill.  Check out Will’s website here: https://www.willadolphy.com/.    Trigger warning: mention of rape, suicide.  In this episode, we discuss:   Will’s story: how he was drawn into the manosphere and why online masculinity influencers attract young men. The scale of the issue: why this content is so widespread and influential. Inside the manosphere: Will’s experience with anti-feminist, anti-woke spaces. Engaging young men: how we can create safer, more open conversations about masculinity. A deeper problem: the manosphere as a symptom of society’s lack of support for men. Recovery steps: from self-empathy to accountability partners and honest dialogue.  Timestamps:  00:00 – Trailer  01:02 – Who is Will Adolphy?  03:06 – What drew Will to online masculinity influencers and why are they so appealing to young men and boys?  10:07 – How big is this issue?   12:05 – Will's experience of the manosphere  14:51 – How can we engage young men in this conversation?  17:31 – The manosphere isn’t the problem: it’s a symptom of the problem  19:00 – The difficulty of opening up as a man   21:22 – How was Will impacted by this masculinity content?   26:29 – The importance of having empathy for yourself  28:27 – What created the big shift for Will   33:53 – Will's step by step process for recovery  38:08 – How to find an accountability partner  39:45 – The importance of having open conversations  48:44 – What Will would want his younger self to know  53:34 – How do we become men?  58:36 – Conclusion  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this conversation, Daniel Guinness, co-founder and managing director of Beyond Equality, discusses the importance of engaging young boys and men in conversations about gender equality and mental health. He talks about his personal journey into this work, the organisation’s initiatives, and the impact of their programs on the boys and men who participate. Daniel emphasises the need for safe spaces for discussion, the importance of reframing how we see rejection, and advice for men who are trying to make new friends after a move.   TW: mention of self-harm.  Check out Beyond Equality here: https://www.beyondequality.org/  Find them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beyond_equality    Timestamps:   00:00 - Intro  00:56 – Who is Dan Guinness and how did he get started in this space?   08:28 – What does Beyond Equality do and who do they work with?   12:56 – How do boys and men of different ages respond to these conversations?  15:22 – Working with a men's pie-making group  16:47 – Why you can’t do Beyond Equality’s work via powerpoint or podcast  19:06 – How do boys and men feel about Beyond Equality’s workshops?  24:33 – How societal structures prevent us from connecting with others  25:41 – Talking with boys and men who are resistant to these topics  31:26 – Why it’s a good thing to change your mind  32:37 – What has Dan learned from this work?  39:17 – Advice for young men trying to create friends after a move  46:38 – Reframing rejection for men   50:57 – Dan's message to young men – you're not the only one  52:55 – How you can support Beyond Equality  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s episode, we were lucky enough to talk with Christopher Stephens and Louise Radnofsky, authors of ‘The Light of Day: The first man to come out at the dawn of gay liberation.’ This book is the story of the first man to come out voluntarily, using his own name, to the entire British public.   Toshi had a conversation with Christopher and Louise about Roger’s story and why he decided to come out publicly to all of Britain, as well as Christopher’s relationship to Roger. They also discussed why so many stories from gay men during this period have been lost, the similarities between the way that society treated gay and blind people at this time, the importance of intergenerational friendships amongst queer people, and Christopher and Louise’s take on what makes a life important.   Find a copy of the book here: geni.us/TheLightOfDay  Follow Christopher here: https://www.instagram.com/cwbstephens/  Check out Louise here: https://www.instagram.com/louiseradnofsky/  Timestamps:  00:00 – Trailer  00:45 – Intro to Christopher and Louise  02:36 – What is the book ‘The Light of Day’ about?   05:35 – Deciding on how these stories would be woven together  08:16 – How have people responded to the book so far?   10:40 – Do you know Raymond Gregson or Robert G. Moorcroft?   12:58 – Why have so many stories from gay men during this time been lost?   15:25 – What was it like for Christopher to read letters from Roger after his death?  18:44 – The similarities between society’s treatment of gay and blind people  21:51 – Intergenerational friendships amongst queer people  27:29 – The special nature of this audiobook  30:52 – Why did Roger Butler decide to come out publicly to all of Britain?   36:13 – Why you should read ‘The Light of Day’  39:49 – Reflecting on changes in law and society when it comes to homosexuality  43:17 – Where can you find a copy of ‘The Light of Day’?   45:26 – What makes a life important?   48:54 – Conclusion  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today we’re really excited to bring you a conversation with Marco Berger, an Argentinian film-maker, for a conversation about one of his latest works, which is the queer romcom ‘The Astronaut Lovers’.   Together, Tim and Marco discuss why Marco never reads reviews, what it means to follow your dreams, and why he believes cinema is an illusion. They also talk about his next project, his creative process and advice for upcoming filmmakers. Whether you’re a filmmaker yourself, a dreamer, or just curious about queer cinema that challenges norms, this episode is for you.  Find more of Marco Berger here: https://www.instagram.com/marcobergercine/?hl=en  Explore his films on Mubi: https://mubi.com/en/cast/marco-berger  Read about Marco and ‘The Astronaut Lovers’ in The Guardian: https://www.theguardian.com/film/2025/mar/26/director-marco-berger-interview-queer-romcom-the-astronaut-lovers    Timestamps:   00:00 – Trailer and intro  01:41 – What inspired ‘The Astronaut Lovers’?  07:44 – Why Marco doesn't read reviews about his films  14:02 – Why you should always follow your dreams  16:52 – Why the cinema is a lie  21:56 – Can you separate the artist from the art?   23:37 – Marco's next project  27:07 – All about Marco’s creative process   32:24 – Where can you watch ‘The Astronaut Lovers’?   39:51 – Advice for upcoming filmmakers  45:26 – Final thoughts and where you can find Marco  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Jane and Dr Bonnie Comfort explore what makes love last - from managing desire, resentment, and mismatched expectations to unpacking how porn, childhood, and power dynamics shape our relationships. They discuss why falling in love is easy but staying in love takes daily effort, how to navigate conflict with humor, and what a real apology looks like. Plus, we look at the surprising lessons from ‘Babygirl,’ why people watch porn for more than just pleasure, and whether marriages are truly meant to last.  Dr. Bonnie Comfort has been a practicing psychologist for 30 years. She has an MSW from the University of Manitoba and a PhD in psychology from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology Los Angeles. Her novel, “Denial,” a psychological thriller from Simon & Schuster, was published in eight countries and translated into five languages. As an expert on marital therapy, she has been a guest multiple times on podcasts about marriage and has taken extensive workshops with marital and sex experts like Terrence Real, David Schnarch, John Gottman, and Marty Klein. She currently lives in Portland, Oregon, with her long-time partner, Douglas Covey, MD. Find out more about Dr. Bonnie at http://bonniecomfort.com.  Check out her book, ‘Staying Married is the Hardest Part’: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/staying-married-is-the-hardest-part-bonnie-comfort/1146385315    Timestamps  00:00 – Trailer  00:38 – Why falling in love is easy, but staying in love is a daily practice  05:41 – Can you change your partner?  08:07 - Managing different desires   11:51 - How our expectations of sex and bodies are shaped by porn   16:35 - Why do people watch porn?   18:53 - What ‘Babygirl’ can teach us about sex and relationships  21:24 - How to work through resentment in a relationship  24:15 - How do childhood experiences impact our relationships?   28:46 – Understanding power imbalances in a relationship  32:25 - How do you know if a relationship needs work, or is fundamentally broken?  35:14 - This is the formula for a great apology  37:19 - Recovering from affairs in a relationship  39:46 - Are marriages meant to last?   43:18 – Here's something a therapist wants you to know  44:25 - What Dr Bonnie wishes was included in sex ed  46:42 – Dr Bonnie’s sexiest song   47:20 – Conclusion   -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we had a conversation with Professor Clare McGlynn, a law professor and expert on violence against women and girls, about image-based sexual abuse.    In this episode, we discuss:  What image-based sexual abuse is and why you should use this term rather than ‘revenge porn’ Who is impacted by image-based sexual abuse The role of Google and tech platforms in the rise of deepfake sexual abuse Where to seek help if you’re a victim, and what you can do if you’re worried someone might share your nudes Why deepfake detection tools work better on images of men And what you can do as a listener to support this work   Clare McGlynn is a Professor of Law at Durham University in the UK, with expertise in the legal regulation of sexual violence, pornography and online abuse, particularly cyberflashing and image-based sexual abuse (taking, creating and sharing intimate images without consent). She works closely with policy-makers, victim-survivors and the voluntary sector to shape law and policy reforms, as well as with social media and other companies to improve their policies. In 2020, Clare was appointed an Honorary KC (King’s Counsel) in recognition of her work championing women’s equality in the legal profession and shaping new criminal laws on extreme pornography and image-based sexual abuse.    Find more of Professor Clare McGlynn here: https://www.claremcglynn.com/  Find her on social: https://bsky.app/profile/claremcglynn.bsky.social https://www.instagram.com/claremcglynn_/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/clare-mcglynn-32b898238/ Check out the ‘Stop Image Based Abuse’ campaign here: https://www.endviolenceagainstwomen.org.uk/new-campaign-experts-call-for-image-based-abuse-law/  Sign the petition to stop image-based abuse: https://chng.it/dgY7sbkqTP    Timestamps:  00:00 – Trailer   00:27 – How Clare McGlynn got into this work  01:50 – Revenge porn vs image-based sexual abuse  03:10 – Who is most at risk?  04:11 – The invisible threat of image-based sexual abuse  06:01 – What laws are in place to protect against this?   08:33 – How tech platforms have contributed to the rise of deepfake sexual abuse  12:10 – The conversations we need to be having with young people  13:55 – About the ‘Stop Image Based Abuse’ campaign  16:33 – What to do if you’re a victim of image-based sexual abuse  18:40 – Why have we been so slow to address this issue?  21:12 – What Clare wants you to understand about image-based sexual abuse  23:27 – Why we should stop calling it ‘deepfake porn’ - and what to say instead  27:00 – Why deepfake detection tech works better on images of men  30:18 – What you can do as a listener to help support this work  31:31 – Positive accomplishments in this work  33:09 – Do this if you’re worried someone might share your nudes  34:59 – Conclusion  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kate Muir is a women’s health expert and campaigner, documentary maker, and author of ‘How to Have a Magnificent Midlife Crisis’, as well as groundbreaking books on the menopause and the pill.  We had a conversation about: Why HRT has such a bad reputation - and why it's actually a wonder drug for womenTips for advocating for your health needs with a doctorVaginal estrogen, and why it's like Chanel for your vulvaAdvice for regaining sexual confidenceWomen and wine (and Kate's personal story)How age bias impacts womenAnd more.  The smart guide that every midlife woman needs to read …  ‘A midlife crisis is a magnificent moment, and nobody should miss out on it. We need to reframe this time of questioning for a new generation of women who want to revive and thrive for longer. We must reclaim the midlife crisis from madmen with red sports cars - and make the space our own.’    Kate’s investigations into women’s health ‘Everything You Need to Know About the Menopause’ and ‘Everything You Need to Know About the Pill’ are out in paperback. She pitched and produced two award-winning menopause documentaries, ‘Davina McCall: Sex, Myths and the Menopause’ and ‘Sex, Mind and the Menopause’ for Channel 4 current affairs, which ignited a massive menopause conversation in the UK. Her most recent documentary was ‘Pill Revolution’ investigating contraceptive chaos.  Kate was chief film critic of The Times for seven years, and is the author of three novels. She is an expert public speaker on women’s health, the menopause and contraception, and an activist for The Menopause Charity.    Find more of Kate here: https://katemuir.co.uk/  Grab a copy of ‘How to Have a Magnificent Midlife Crisis’ which is out TODAY: https://www.simonandschuster.co.uk/books/How-to-Have-a-Magnificent-Midlife-Crisis/Kate-Muir/9781398525504    Timestamps:   00:00 – Trailer  00:43 – Who is Kate Muir?  01:32 – Kate’s latest book: ‘How to Have a Magnificent Midlife Crisis’  05:27 – Why does HRT have such a bad reputation?  08:35 – What you really need to know about HRT and its long-term health impacts  13:30 – Tips for advocating for your needs with a doctor  16:34 – Vaginal estrogen: Chanel for your vulva  21:33 – How to regain sexual confidence  23:04 – Why testosterone is so important for women  26:30 – Digital detox  29:50 – Women and wine  34:47 – How is divorce connected to perimenopause and menopause?   38:09 – How age bias impacts women  43:07 – Kate’s psychedelic adventure  49:56 – Final message  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Toshi had the opportunity to talk with some of the team behind the TikTok account, Sex Ed for Guys. Sex Ed for Guys is a sex ed project by Colby College students researching privilege at elite all-boys schools. Toshi spoke with two Colby students – Christopher and Conor – and Professor Adam Howard, who are all involved in the project.   Together, they had a conversation about:  How the project started and who it reaches What their creative process is like, and the research that informs each video What kind of response people have to their content The real-world conversations sparked by the project How Sex Ed for Guys is offering an alternative to the manosphere  Adam Howard, Ed.D, is the Charles A. Dana Professor of Education and Chair of the Education Department at Colby College. For over two decades, Howard has researched elite schools around the world, peeling back the layers of how privilege works through their daily practices, relations, structures, and policies. Employing a collaborative approach in most of his major studies, he teams up with privileged young people to make insider’s knowledge of how privilege works within elite schools more evident.  Find Sex Ed for Guys on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexedforguys  Check out more about the research here: https://privilegedbrotherhoods.org/  Timestamps:   00:00 – Trailer  00:59 – Introducing the team behind Sex Ed for Guys  02:41 – What is Sex Ed for Guys?   05:45 – Who is watching Sex Ed for Guys?   07:50 – What kind of response is the team getting to this work?   09:40 – What is the process to creating these videos?   13:13 – The video about female pleasure that got the channel shadowbanned  17:13 – Some favourite videos from the channel  21:52 – How these videos create real life conversations  26:20 – How Sex Ed for Guys is offering an alternative to the manosphere  29:22 – Why Sex Ed for Guys is so accessible for young people  34:06 – Biggest learnings from this project  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Remy Tucker is the founder of On the House, an organisation that is working to ensure that every woman has access to period products. They achieve this by providing free, sustainable sanitary pads, funded through their unique advertising model.     Remy leads On the House with a deep commitment to women's health and marketing innovation. As a former midwife, she has firsthand experience with the challenges women face in accessing essential menstrual products. This understanding sparked her desire to find a sustainable solution that would make these products available at no cost.    On the House combines Remy's healthcare background with her marketing expertise to create a unique business model. By integrating advertising directly onto the product packaging, On the House provides free menstrual products while generating revenue. This innovative approach does more than solve a problem—it transforms the way solutions are delivered.    Driven by a genuine passion to make a difference, Remy is dedicated to empowering women through accessible healthcare solutions. On the House is not just a business; it’s a reflection of her commitment to positive change, providing essential products one box at a time.    Check out On the House here: https://onthehousegroup.com/    Together, we spoke about:  What On the House is and how free pads are funded through ads Why Remy started On the House Why taking free period products helps everyone How the system actually works – and where you’ll be able to find these period products How you can support Remy’s mission and help end period poverty   Timestamps:  00:00 – Trailer  00:25 – What is On the House?  01:08 – What motivated Remy to create On the House?  05:29 – Remy’s advice for anyone wanting to start a business  07:17 – How On the House donates to charity – while giving away free period products  09:29 – What kind of products are On the House offering?  10:45 – How does the system actually work?   12:51 – Why you should take free period products, even if you can afford them  14:15 – What kinds of brands are supporting On the House?  16:58 – Remy’s biggest challenges so far  19:52 – When and where is On the House launching?  21:24 – What are some of Remy’s biggest wins so far?  23:27 – What you can do to support On the House  25:06 – Who does period poverty impact?  28:28 – Remy’s final message to listeners  29:23 – What other businesses have used this model before?  31:56 - Conclusion  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode is about child sexual abuse and covers subjects which might be seriously distressing for some listeners. Please use your discretion.  In this episode, Tim spoke with Jayneen Sanders about body safety education. Jayneen Sanders (aka Jay Dale) is an experienced author, publisher, elementary school teacher, mother of three and an active advocate for Body Safety, Gender Equality and Respectful Relationship Education being taught both in homes and in schools. She is also lead author of Engage Literacy published by Capstone Classroom, and has had published over 130 stories for children. Jayneen feels passionately that we can do so much more to keep our children safe by teaching them age-appropriate and empowering prevention education.  Jayneen is a strong public advocate for children’s safety, education and empowerment.  You can follow her on social media channels to access important news, development and resources.  In this episode, we cover:   Why teaching kids about body autonomy and consent from an early age is essential Why you shouldn’t tell your children to keep secrets – and what to say instead How to identify signs of grooming Protective strategies to keep your kids safe from groomers The role parents and caregivers play in preventing abuse through open, ongoing conversations Practical tips for starting body safety conversations   Check out Jayneen’s books here: https://e2epublishing.info/en-uk  Download her free body safety posters here: https://e2epublishing.info/en-uk/collections/posters/Body-Safety+Consent  Find Jayneen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayneensandersauthor?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==  Timestamps:   00:00 – Trigger warning  00:19 – Trailer  00:47 – Who is Jayneen Sanders and how did she get involved in this work?  08:08 – The role of parents in teaching kids body safety education   10:29 – How have attitudes towards this topic changed over time?  14:27 – What is a groomer, and how can you spot one?   19:30 – How body safety education prevents abuse  24:22 – Why parents need to stop using the word “secret” - and what to use instead  27:38 – How does pornography and tech impact children?  30:15 – Which children are most at risk of sexual abuse?   34:21 – How conversations can help prevent abuse  36:43 – Top tips for having the body safety talks with kids  40:39 – What kind of topics do Jayneen’s other books cover?  45:25 – Where can you find Jayneen’s books and free resources?   46:54 – Jayneen’s final message to parents  48:15 – Outro  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.  For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TRIGGER WARNING:   This episode is about child sexual abuse and covers subjects which might be seriously distressing for some listeners, including mention of suicide, sexual assault, child sexual abuse material and torture. Please use your discretion. If you are in any need of help or support, please contact one of your country’s sexual abuse support organisations – they are there for you.      We are dedicating our 100th episode to the work of the phenomenal Michael Sheath. We had a really important conversation with Michael that – amongst other things – covered the need to call out the relationship of online pornography with sexual offending.     Since 1987, Michael has been dedicated to working with child sexual abuse offenders, beginning his journey as a probation officer and later becoming the Principal Practitioner at The Lucy Faithfull Foundation – a charity devoted to preventing child sexual abuse. His critically acclaimed work with male survivors of sexual abuse at HMP Blakenhurst earned him the prestigious Butler Trust Award in 1997.     Michael’s passion for understanding people's stories has resulted in a powerful and significant book, a collection of five theatrical monologues that delves into the human impacts of child sexual abuse, trauma, and the often-overlooked effects on secondary victims like the families of offenders. All these narratives are told from the perspective of those directly affected. Michael's own story is pretty compelling. In this episode, you'll hear from him about his very impactful work in a profound conversation that shines a light on this ever-critical issue.    In this episode, we cover:   Michael Sheath’s journey into working with child sexual abuse offenders The difference between contact offenders and online/download offenders How pornography shapes harmful sexual behaviours The link between online pornography and child sexual abuse How sex offenders feel about their behaviour The psychological impact of this work on professionals – and how they deal with it Michael’s book, ‘Crossing the Line’  Buy Michael's book from Amazon UK, or get it direct from the publisher here. All proceeds will go towards Children Heard and Seen, a charity which supports children with a parent in prison.    Timestamps:   00:00 – Trigger warning and intro  01:37 – How Michael Sheath got involved in this work  07:55 – What's the difference between a ‘contact offender’ and a ‘downloader/online offender’?  16:54 – The influence of pornography on young people’s sexual behaviours  20:01 – How legal porn sites suggest problematic content, and why that’s an issue  25:39 – The role of porn in child sexual abuse  31:16 – Why people use porn and how these sites keep you hooked   34:12 – How do some sex offenders feel about their behaviour?  37:32 – Navigating the consequences of being a child sexual offender  39:17 – How do sex offenders feel towards the victims?   45:24 – How Michael manages his mental health working in this industry  50:00 – About Michael’s book, ‘Crossing the Line’  54:20 – We need sex education that’s not pornography  55:20 – What’s next for Michael Sheath?   57:07 – Conclusion  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For this episode, Toshi spoke with sociologist Dr. Amy Blackstone about the childfree choice. Amy is a childfree woman who wrote the book, ‘Childfree by Choice: The Movement Redefining Family & Creating a New Age of Independence,’ which explores the history and growing movement of adults choosing to forgo parenthood. Amy has shared her research on the childfree choice in The Atlantic, Washington Post, Huffington Post, on the Katie show, and other venues.  Amy’s teaching and research interests include the sociology of gender, work, food, families, and healthcare. She has served as a consultant on workplace sexual harassment cases, and her research on this topic has been cited in the New York Times, USA Today, BuzzFeed, TIME, NBC News, and other outlets. She is passionate about food and has taught the Sociology of Food at UMaine and in Italy.  In this episode, we cover:   Dr Blackstone’s personal journey to being childfree What the science says about ‘maternal instinct’ How gender impacts the experience of being childfree Some of the reasons people decide to be childfree How childfree individuals contribute to future generations in ways beyond parenting  Find Dr. Amy Blackstone at her website: https://www.amyblackstonephd.com/  Grab a copy of ‘Childfree by Choice’: https://www.amyblackstonephd.com/childfreebychoice  Listen to her podcast, ‘Nevertheless, Persisting’: https://www.amyblackstonephd.com/neverthelesspersisting    Timestamps:   00:00 – Trailer  00:34 – Intro   00:58 – Did Dr Blackstone always know she wanted to be childfree?  06:28 – Does science support the idea of ‘maternal instinct’?   08:54 – What's the difference between being ‘childfree’ and ‘childless’?  13:44 – How do men and women experience being childfree differently?  17:13 – Why do people decide to be childfree?  20:01 – How childfree people shape future generations  26:28 – How have people’s attitudes towards being childfree changed over time?  29:05 – Pros and cons of being childfree  34:55 – Do childfree people regret their choices?  40:35 – What should young people know about being childfree?  44:33 – Dr Blackstone’s final message for listeners  45:42 – Where to find Dr Blackstone and her work  -----------------    Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.    Follow us here:  https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom  https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom  https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace   For more info, check out our website at:  https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.