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In this episode Dex breaks down how social media fuels selective outrage, responding to recent viral controversies—from a disputed Trump post to incidents of racial slurs—and explains why he’s stepping away from platforms that amplify division. As a Black police officer and father, he shares personal stories about race, hypocrisy, and culture, critiques the NFL’s choices and halftime politics, and calls for consistent standards of outrage and accountability across the board.

Host Dex pushes back against the fast news cycle and urges facts over hot takes, unpacking recent protests, viral videos, and the confusion between ICE and Border Patrol surrounding the Alex Pretty shooting. Drawing on 17 years as a cop and time in Border Patrol, he shares personal arrest footage, criticizes agitators and unprofessional behavior on both sides, and examines high‑profile incidents like Don Lemon's arrest. Dex closes by addressing veteran issues—VA disability, social media conduct, and fraud concerns—arguing that personal responsibility and accountability matter more than attention or ideology.

After a lengthy hiatus and time off to recover from shoulder surgery, I am back to speak my mind. In this episode, I discuss why I decided to step away from social media and podcasting due to drama, negativity, and conspiracy theories. With the chaos unfolding in Minneapolis, I wanted to remind everyone that we are not seeing anything new. It’s the same playbook with different faces—just recycled chaos.

Host Dexter Pitts returns after a months-long break with personal updates about an upcoming shoulder surgery, the challenges of podcasting, and the surprising recognition his show has received. He reflects on family, work, and his motivation for getting back behind the mic. Dexter responds emotionally to the assassination of Charlie Kirk, explores the social and political fallout, warns about radical voices filling the void, and delivers a frank critique of rising crime, criminal justice policy, and cultural division — calling listeners to stay vigilant, mourn responsibly, and keep fighting for their values.

I'm not one to say that we are on the verge of a race war (white vs. black), but if we are, I did not expect it to start via Gofundme or GiveSendGo. The fact that black Americans are finicnally supporting black criminals who have killed white people and white people are donating their money to a racist white lady who called a black child the N-word is a major concern and step back for all of America. And speaking of the N-word, my son, who is 9, had his first encounter with the word. Sad to say, it's not going to be his last either. Lastly, the new phrase going around is "Black Fatigue." It seems like everyone, even other black folks, are getting tired of the rachet, entitled, ghetto behavior being exhibited and praised by black culture. I think it's long time past due that we refine what it means to be black and it's time to change black culture for the better. The question is, can it be changed or is it too late and is black culture too far gone?

A few months ago, my name was brought up to the producer of the tv "On Patrol: Live" as a possible guest host. Me, being the skeptic that I am, did not put much thought into. My skepticism faded when I received a message inviting me to Jersey City to do a screen test for the show!

As a police officer and a Christian, sometimes it gets old being being the bigger person and having to turn the other cheek. At times, it feels like I am a punching bag for society and I am not allowed to respond to defend my honor in the name of remaining professional. Sometimes I get so mad dealing with people insulting me and saying outlandish things to me that I want to lose control and just be a bad boy. However, I have to remind myself that God and my chosen profession has called me to be different than the everyday citizen who lets their anger and carnal nature control them. Being insulted while on duty is one thing, but being insulted inside a business while off duty as a paying customer is a different feeling.

When I was a rookie police officer on LMPD, overtime (OT) was a forbidden word. Now, in 2024, with police staffing levels at an all time low across the country, officers all over America have the ability to set themselves up for future financial success with unlimited OT and high paying off duty jobs. With that in mind, remember this one thing: Don't get greedy and steal money or time from the government like NYPD Lt. Quathisha Epps who is being accused / investigated for earning an additional $204,000 in OT. And on a final note, if you want to ensure you have a great police career and make it to retirement, be weary of these four things: Money, Lying, Sex and Alcohol. You can enjoy these things in the right environment at the proper time, but I've seen many careers crash and burn behind all four.

Americans voted and unamously agreed that it was time for Donald Trump to be the leader in America once again! Those who oppose Donald Trump being president are now questioning, "How did this happen?" You can only compare someone to Hitler so many times that people realize how farfetched that is. You can only label a group of people as Nazis and racists so many times until people start to see how outlandish that is. The American people are tired of being lied to and having their emotions played with and spoke in a unified voice, screaming "No more!" Everyone is tired of identity politics and the division it causes. Yet there are still people in positions of power (Jefferson County Public School System Chief Equity Officer) that want black people to believe that white people want to do them physical harm. Are there racist people? Of course there are. How do I know this? Because I had to deal with a racist the other night on my shift, and boy do I have a story to tell you all about it! Lastly, an LMPD officer who was shot in the line of duty during 2020 is suing LMPD for claims of racism, discrimination, and lies about the Breonna Taylor Case.    Need A  Cigar? Checkout Deployment Cigar Company https://deploymentbrands.com/

Happy Veteran’s Day! In this on the fly, last minute, shoot from the hip, unscripted episode recorded from my police car, I address all the veterans who feel undeserving of a free meal or service on Veteran’s Day. Some of us in the veteran community have lost sight of how Vietnam Veterans were treated upon returning home from the battlefield. It’s time for us to put aside our pride, ego, and negative view of Veteran’s Day and just accept the thank you and gratitude people want to show us.

As a cop and podcaster who often comments on officer's worse days on the job and their mistakes (intentional or not), it might be easy to assume that I think I am better than others and have an arrogance that makes it seem like I am perfect and make no mistakes. Well, that can't be any further from the truth. In my 15 years as a police officer I have made a lot of mistakes and bad decisions. In this episode, I go our my entire disciplinary history to show people that I am not perfect. I want to show people that there is a difference between an honest mistakes and going out of your way to do the wrong thing with evil intentions. Nobody's perfect. We all make mistakes. Lastly, I talk about how false allegations can ruin someone's life, career, and how you have to safeguard against those false accusations.

Policing in 2024 is no longer about the facts of an incident or a case. What matters in 2024 are the optics of an incident. The recent encounter between NFL superstar Tyreek Hill and the Miami-Dade Police proves that. In this brief episode, I give my take on the incident and talk about the current state of policing in 2024 where the public nor the media cares about officer safety, but the how the officers actions are perceived by the public. It's not about what it is, it's about what it looks like, and police departments continue to lose the PR battle because they have not figured that out.

Everyone is familiar with the 22 A Day slogan that represents the 22 veteran's a day that end up taking their own lives.  We all know the saying and we all know the 22 A Day push up challenge, but do you know the faces of the 22? Unfortunately for myself and many other veterans around the country, we know the faces of the 22 all too well because they are our brothers and sisters. On August 20, 2024, myself and my Alpha Company brothers from the 2nd Battalion 14th Infantry Regiment lost a brother who become one of the 22 A Day. This past weekend, seven of us gather to say goodbye to our brother Leland Shanle III. In this episode, I talk about the time I spent with Leland in the army, his love for his brothers, and the small things we can do to help our brothers and sister from becoming part of the 22 A Day.

Being in the military is honorable, period. Combat veteran or peace time, service is service. Behind a desk pushing papers or in a foxhole with bullets zipping past you, we are thankful for your service. How and where you serve doesn't matter. But what does matter to me and many others is when veterans lie about their service (Tim Walz). Lastly, is anyone else burned out on special operation stories and influencers? It’s almost like they fought the entire War On Terror on their own.

After an extended period of time, I Am. Pitts is back! In this audio only episode, I talk about cults. When I say cults, I am talking about the Anti-Trump Cult and the MAGA Cult. Over the last few weeks, I seemed to have angered both. The cult of blackness (being black) still believes that Donald Trump has the power and ability to take away black people's rights and put them back in slavery. America has fallen away from being a country built on personal responsibility and has embraced the cult of victimhood. Everyone is a victim. How do we counter this cult that as taken America by storm. Lastly, I have to come clean and talk about my time and experience in a sex cult.