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Joseph and Taylor share ideas about holding on to kids so tightly that we crush the relationship we have with them. They share examples of times when they have realized they need to let go a little, so their children could grow. Everyone worries about their kids. Some of us more than others. But, the fear that accompanies that worry can also bring up needed anger. The guys talk about mustering trust in their children, in themselves, and in God.

Joseph and Taylor discuss the vital part that mothers play in their lives. 

Taylor and Joseph discuss the foundational principle of compassion. They share thoughts on how compassion fits into their roles as fathers, as spouses, and as sons. 

Taylor and Joseph discuss the concept of contentment. What is it? How do we find it? Is it possible to have it when times are tough? Being content does not mean just settles, stops trying, growing, or learning. But what is it, and why do we seek it?

Joseph and Taylor discuss the power of vision and goals, and how they can transmute themselves into reality.  They share experiences of their own, stories of how their children have taught them more about these things. They also explore the importance of helping children learn to use goals and vision to give power to their own lives as they grow.

Taylor and Joseph discuss resolutions, goals setting, and the development of new habits as we start a new year.

Joseph and Taylor discuss ways to brighten the Christmas Holiday. They share stories and give examples on how anyone can do it – and make their Christmas lighter and more spirit-filled.

Taylor shares a story about one of his sons. As a 7-year-old his son’s integrity was in question because of some cyberbullying in school. When this was discussed with the teacher, the response was, “I knew it wasn’t your son because he never behaves that way”. The fruits of teaching kids about honesty and integrity paid off for this boy at age 7. Taylor shares a story about the lack of integrity he found in a man who decided to show his kids how to take advantage by being less than – and got called on it, and exposed in front of those same kids. As a parent, what are you teaching, what example are you showing your kids? How much of it is actually getting through to them? You may be surprised – in a good way.

A powerful episode focusing on the importance of a father to his daughter. In an interview with Samira, Taylor’s wife, we learn about a single father raising teenage daughters on his own. Samira talks about how her father was a man who had a gift for relating to all kinds of people. And, how that gift benefited her, and her sisters who are not at all the same.  She speaks of seeing the sacrifice he made for his family, the things he gave up. His love for people and his Christ-like way of living. Beyond things like money, power, and positions, her father should his girls what really matters in life. 

Joseph and Taylor discuss a subject that is a little frightening to some of us. Disciplining our kids. They share examples and experiences of how vital disciplining children is to their happiness. How holding back discipline and correction prevents kids from understanding that they are responsible for their choices and actions.  This episode dovetails well with the previous episode on setting boundaries.

A vital aspect of a peaceful home, and (believe it or not) happy children is boundaries. We’re not talking a fence around the yard – we’re talking setting limits on behavior and activities that will help keep kids safe in the long run.  Joseph and Taylor discuss the seeming dichotomy between giving children everything they want to keep them happy and set limits and boundaries that they may fight against – but in the long run that help them stay happy and grow into well-adjusted adults.  They also talk about the need to set appropriate boundaries that work for your family. Choosing limits that you are willing to stick to. Because – giving in means teaching kids that all they have to do to get what they want is keep fighting ‘cause mom and/or dad will give in.

Taylor and Joseph conduct a powerful interview with a suicide survivor Ryan Burke. Ryan unflinching shares his story. He gives perspectives and suggestions on how you might help someone who is struggling – and encouragement and wisdom if you are struggling yourself. This may be a frightening subject, but it is important that we all learn more. Suicide numbers have risen steadily in the past decade, with the largest proportion of that number being males (by almost 3 to 1). Frighteningly, the fastest-growing demographic in suicide are young people.     If you are dealing with thoughts of self-harm, or are concerned for someone else and don’t know where to start call the Nationwide Suicide Hotline: 800-273-8255 that’s 1800-273-talk  -or- go to safespace.vibrant.org. After July 16, 2022, you can simply dial 988