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What does it really mean to be “the man”? In many Latino communities—and beyond—men are taught that having lots of sexual partners is proof of status, strength, and masculinity. In this special episode, Dramos unpacks that toxic message, sharing personal stories about chasing validation, peer pressure, and the role of machismo culture in shaping harmful expectations. He explores why this obsession with “numbers” can lead to dishonesty, emptiness, and broken trust, and why true masculinity means respect, empathy, and protecting the people you’re intimate with—including their sexual health. Dramos also gets real about what he’s learned from his own past, and why having tough, honest conversations is the foundation of healthy relationships and healthy sexuality.   This episode is brought to you by Healthysexual from Gilead Sciences. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Growing up in a Latino household, real conversations about sex often felt one-sided—or didn’t happen at all. In this special episode, Dramos opens up about how that silence made it harder to talk openly with friends and partners about sex, intimacy, and boundaries. He explores the fears and cultural pressures that make these talks intimidating, from worries about inexperience to the weight of tradition. Dramos also shares why learning to be vulnerable with peers and partners is so important for sexual health and building real trust. From navigating dating and safe sex to getting tested regularly, this episode breaks down why these “hard conversations” matter—and how having them can help protect yourself and others, emotionally and physically.   This episode is brought to you by Healthysexual from Gilead Sciences. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cultural taboos around sex and sexuality run deep in many Latino households, often shutting down important conversations before they even start. In this special episode, Dramos opens up about how religion, gender roles, and family expectations shaped his own understanding of sexual health—or lack of it. He explores how these cultural norms can leave young people unprepared, misinformed, and anxious about their own well-being. Plus, Dramos shares what he wishes he'd learned growing up, why sexual health is about so much more than just sex, and how we can start having the hard conversations to better support the next generation.   This episode is brought to you by Healthysexual from Gilead Sciences. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After over three years, Life as a Gringo comes to a close. In this final episode, Dramos reflects on the journey—from launching the show as a passion project to building a platform that gave a voice to the unheard. He opens up about the personal growth, the lessons learned, the community built, and why it’s time to turn the page. Plus, he answers listener questions, sharing what’s next and how this ending is really just the beginning of a new chapter. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bad Bunny's Debí Tirar Más Fotos World Tour is selling out fast, proving once again that Latino artists are dominating the global stage. This week, we dive into what his massive success means for representation and cultural power. We also spotlight how Latina moms are being celebrated this Mother's Day—not just with gifts, but with recognition for their strength, wisdom, and the iconic phrases that shaped us. And in political news, George Santos has been sentenced to 87 months in prison, closing the chapter on one of the most bizarre fraud cases in recent memory.   https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/george-santos-sentenced-87-months/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/bad-bunny-world-tour-us-canada/ https://fiercebymitu.com/beauty-and-style/latina-moms-shine-bright/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One week away from the series finale, Dramos takes a moment to reflect on the wild ride that has been Life as a Gringo—from its early beginnings during the pandemic to becoming a platform for unfiltered truth, cultural pride, and connection. He opens up about how the show helped him find his voice, reconnect with his roots, and build a community that felt seen. As he prepares to close this chapter, Dramos shares what he’s learned, what he’s leaving behind, and what’s next in the evolution of his journey. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Three U.S. citizen children were deported—one with stage 4 cancer—while Trump downplays the fallout in a chaotic ABC interview. His national security adviser resigns over a Signal scandal. Women are quietly signaling a recession through canceled appointments and DIY beauty. And Yale launches a Bad Bunny course that’s really about Puerto Rico, colonialism, and cultural power. https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/maddowblog/trump-abrego-garcia-ms-13-abc-news-interview-rcna203688 https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/children-citizens-deported/ https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/maddowblog/mike-waltz-out-trump-national-security-adviser-signal-chat-rcna204115 https://fiercebymitu.com/work-and-money/women-spending-recession-signal/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/bad-bunny-course-at-yale/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode, Dramos recaps everything we uncovered during Financial Literacy Month—from building wealth without generational money to healing from financial trauma and learning how to shift from survival mode to long-term stability. Whether you’re just starting your money journey or trying to level up, this one’s all about the real talk they don’t teach us: mindset shifts, money mistakes, and what financial freedom actually looks like for our community. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trump says tariffs on China are coming down, but not disappearing, as major retailers push back against rising costs. Meanwhile, a prisoner swap proposal between Latin American leaders stirs international tension, and a viral debate has Gen Z women asking: is marriage still a good deal? Plus, Pedro Pascal makes a bold statement for trans rights without saying a word. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For Financial Literacy Month, this week’s episode is with Rita-Soledad Fernández Paulino, former public school math teacher and founder of Wealth Para Todos. Soledad breaks down how she and her husband are on track to retire by 45—not through flashy schemes, but by shifting from survival mode to long-term wealth planning. We talk about the power of financial education in our communities, how Latinos can build wealth without coming from money, and why self-care isn’t just about spa days—it’s about building the life you actually want, one smart decision at a time. Instagram: @wealthparatodos https://wealthparatodos.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when power is ignored, abused, or taken back? In this episode, we break down the deportation of Kilmar Abrego Garcia—a Maryland man sent to a Salvadoran mega-prison despite a court ruling protecting him—and the Trump administration’s outright refusal to comply with a Supreme Court order. Meanwhile, Puerto Rico faces yet another massive blackout, leaving millions without power and prompting artists like Bad Bunny to speak out. And at Coachella, Latino artists are showing up stronger than ever, reclaiming the spotlight on one of music’s biggest stages. From government defiance to cultural power moves, we explore what resistance looks like across courts, islands, and festival stages. https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/kilmar-abrego-garcia-deportation-fight-explainer/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/bad-bunny-puerto-rico-blackout-callout/ https://www.latimes.com/delos/story/2025-04-10/latino-acts-coachella-2025-junior-h-ivan-cornejo-the-marias-rawayana-ca7riel-paco-amoroso See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As part of Financial Literacy Month, we're breaking down the real story behind the gig economy with award-winning leadership consultant Dr. Nika White. From side hustles that build long-term wealth to the burnout and instability that come with hustle culture, this episode explores how people of color are redefining success. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, we dive into a series of heavy-hitting stories shaping our communities: the tragic collapse of Jet Set nightclub in the Dominican Republic that killed over 100 people—including music legend Rubby Pérez and former MLB players—raising urgent questions about safety and accountability. We also unpack a major shift in U.S. immigration policy as the IRS agrees to share taxpayer data with ICE, a move that could send shockwaves through immigrant communities. Plus, we break down the economic chaos following Trump’s latest tariff hikes on China, the record-breaking rise of Latin music in 2024, and why Bad Bunny’s Tiny Desk concert became a powerful love letter to Puerto Rico. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As a part of Financial Literacy Month, Dramos is joined by Dr. Paul Rivera—co-founder of BeActChange and a man whose journey spans academia, diplomacy, international economics, and strategic coaching. We dive into the harsh realities behind the so-called “American Dream,” especially for Latinos. From financial stress to mental health struggles, we unpack the hidden costs of chasing success in the U.S. and explore whether it’s all even worth it. Dr. Rivera shares his perspective as someone who left the U.S. to start a new life in the Dominican Republic with his family, offering a fresh lens on what real success can look like when you step outside the box and reject the hustle-at-all-costs mindset. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

To kick off Financial Literacy Month, we’re joined by stand-up comedian and Creative Director of Mente World, Luis Galilei. Beyond the laughs, Luis has been on the frontlines of mutual aid work in New York, helping shift the narrative around mental health by first addressing the basic needs of our communities. Mente is building spaces where young Americans can find connection and healing amid the mental health crisis. In this episode, we dive into how financial hardships—from childhood struggles to adult money trauma—shape our mental wellbeing, and how breaking free from limiting beliefs can be a path toward both financial and emotional freedom. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.