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Hot, rich and obsessed with you. That was the standard. 😂 But somewhere between our 20s and now, the list got a serious rewrite. In this episode, we get into the things we used to think made a good man, what we value now and the things we have simply outgrown. So Inbetweeners, tell us what made the cut for you, what got crossed off and what you absolutely cannot compromise on anymore. Enjoy the episode 🍿 Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-cat... Authentic lip care essentials: https://theliptribe.co.ke/ A better way to find your therapist: https://hona.africa/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - / @tmipodcastke INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?ut... Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_me... Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?ut... TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - / uc6fvfxrbf0hdrw3b2mdwfga Lydia KM - / ucuutrxz1bujg6daywcc6hpa Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9...

Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Today’s agenda: a little brain dump. Think of this episode as one big extended intro. We just sat down and talked about all the things that have been popping into our minds lately. The value of individualism, cars and the things we take for granted, love, and a whole lot more. And because apparently we had A LOT to say, this ended up being one of our longest episodes, We yapped for about an hour and a half 😭 Basically, come hang out with us while we think out loud. Enjoy the episode🍿🍿 Authentic lip care essentials: https://theliptribe.co.ke/ A better way to find your therapist: https://hona.africa/ Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

We’re always asking you guys to comment and share your thoughts on our episodes, and today, we’re getting back to them! An Inbetweener once said… and we read your comments from past episodes and reacted to them. Now, let’s settle this: When is it appropriate to fart openly in a relationship? We spent almost 25 minutes diving deep into this topic!🤣🤣 Would you rather hold in a fart during sex or excuse yourself for a few minutes? Let us know in the comments! And everyone, say CONGRATULATIONS to our host, Lydia KM, on the launch of Hona, a platform bridging the mental health access gap!🥳🤩 A better way to find your therapist: https://hona.africa/ Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Hey Inbetweeners! How’s your Friday going? Thank you for tuning in once again! In today’s episode, we’re talking about relationship timelines. Is there actually an appropriate time for different milestones in a relationship? When should you or your partner say “I love you”? When is it okay to have access to your partner’s account? When should you move in together, have sex, talk about your salary or debts, or meet each other’s family and friends? We’re getting into all this and more based of our own opinions and experiences. We hope you enjoy the episode🍿 Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2635-tmipodcast It’s Friday🤩! And you know we’re back with another fire episode🔥 On today’s episode, we’re discussing the sex hills we’re willing to die on😂 And guys, please let us know… are we exaggerating?😭 Someone on the podcast said their perfect sex song is “Bandana” by Asake, and apparently THAT is the sex hill they’re willing to die on😂What’s your perfect sex song? 👀🎶 Comment below! September is sexual health awareness month, here are eight things we think you should do for your sexual health this month: -See a gynecologist 👩🏾‍⚕️ Book that appointment you’ve been putting off. -Get tested for STIs 🩺 Even when you feel completely fine, regular testing is part of taking care of your sexual health. -Learn something new about sexual health 📚 Your body, contraception, STIs, pleasure, fertility… pick something you want to understand better. -Have the uncomfortable conversation 🗣️ Talk to your partner about sexual health, testing, boundaries and expectations. -Talk about contraception 💊 Find out what options are available and which one works best for you and your needs. -Know your body 👀 Pay attention to changes, unusual symptoms or anything that doesn't feel normal, and don't be afraid to seek medical advice. -Talk about consent ❤️ Consent should be clear, mutual and ongoing. Make sure you and your partner are on the same page. -Stop believing everything you hear about sex online 😭 Unlearn the myths and get your information from credible health professionals and reliable sources. Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Happy new month, Inbetweeners. May your September be filled with love, kindness, positivity, peace of mind, laughter, healing, and plenty of good days. Today’s episode is all about those things that are working perfectly fine in your relationship, but according to social media, y’all should have broken up already. We put this question up on our Instagram stories and the responses were quite interesting. Someone said, “I loan my man money when he is low.” Another said, “I am taller than him.” We also had, “We don’t talk every day,” “He cooks and does the laundry while I sit pretty,” and “He is Muslim and I’m Christian,” among many others. We unpacked some of these responses and shared our thoughts on whether they’re actually red flags or just things that social media has decided shouldn’t work in a relationship. We’d love to hear your thoughts on the ones we mentioned, and if there’s something that works perfectly fine in your relationship but would have the internet telling you to leave, share it with us in the comments. A sexless marriage is clinically defined as a relationship where spouses have sexual intercourse 10 or fewer times per year (or less than once a month) TherapyJeff on posting partners online:https://www.instagram.com/reel/Da5R_hsNiaS/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsi=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

What’s good, Inbetweeners? Happy episode day! Thank you for all the love on our last episode. We appreciate every like, comment and share❤️. We’re back with another episode of dilemmas, but this time, we’re switching things up a little. These aren’t your usual “My boyfriend has been cheating on me, what should I do?” dilemmas😂.These ones are a little more… interesting, and we get to share exactly what we would do if we found ourselves in these situations. For example, what would you do if your husband suddenly changed his password and, when you asked why, he said, “Married people deserve privacy too.” So you change your password too… and suddenly, there’s a problem with that. 👀What would you do in a situation like that? Well, we have a few more. Watch or listen to the new episode and let us know what YOU would do in the situations we discussed. Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Another Friday, another mess to unpack 👀 And today’s mess is your dilemmas. Oufff, they were HEAVY😭 We went through some of the dilemmas you sent us via DMs on TikTok and Instagram, and Kenyan male celebrities, y’all are NOT safe! 🤣 Girls are out here doing some crazy things! Some of the dilemmas we covered included: feeling like you're in competition with your boyfriend's ex fling, domestic violence, your man who said he doesn't want kids suddenly has a 17 year old child! just to name a few... Thank you to everyone who trusts us with your dilemmas. We may not get to cover all of them in one episode, but we’ll still respond to your DMs with our advice. And to those whose dilemmas we got to answer, feel free to share any updates. We’d love to hear how things turned out👀 Enjoy the episode!🍿▶️ Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Signs of domestic violence and abuse: https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/getting-help-for-domestic-violence/ Why some mothers choose not to live with their kids: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VN3Uhhoys2U How to know if you're a possible candidate of femicide: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZbnINht6bc/?igsh=YnV6ZW14endhN2l0 Link to Lydia Km's therapy contact list: https://www.instagram.com/stories/highlights/18280861966289501/?hl=en Kenya Red Cross Psychological Support ☎️ 1190 or 1199 (24/7) Befrienders Kenya ☎️ 0722 178 177 Mental360 National Mental Health Helpline ☎️ 0710 360 360 Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Click here to buy Tides movie tickets: https://kenyabuzz.com/movies/preview/tides Happy Friday Inbetweeners!🎙️ We have guests on today’s episode! The talented Sarah Hassan and Brian Kabugi, who play Salma and Biko in the movie Tides, joined us for a conversation about the money mistakes we’ve made in the name of love. In Tides, Salma is a musician who works hard and gives all the money she makes to Biko, trusting him to “plan” for their family. But Biko ends up “saving” the money while still expecting Salma to do more, earn more and find a way to provide for their sick daughter and pay off their debts. Biko also defended his character and gave us a completely different perspective on why he did what he did. If you’ve already watched Tides, we’d love to hear your thoughts. Do you understand Biko’s actions, or do you think he was completely wrong? Let us know in the comments. Currently screening at: -Century cinema Two rivers -Anga cinema Diamond plaza -Anga cinema Panari -Prestige cinema -Mombasa Nyali cinema from the 22nd August More information: www.multan.co.ke/Tides Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment, take the quiz: https://beduc.at/bg2631-tmipodcast Happy new month, Inbetweeners!✨ Wishing you nothing but great wins this August❤️. Now... today's episode😭...A lot of us can relate to this one because, at some point, we've all made sex mistakes in the name of love. Sextakes such as: Focusing only on his pleasure because "if he finishes, that's enough." Not using lube because you're worried it'll bruise his ego. Never communicating what you need or what you enjoy. Going back to the same man after he gave you an infection. Girls... we've really been through it! Hit play, then come back and tell us which one made you pause and think, "Yeah... I've definitely done that👀" Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from. Hee... Messy Mondays! You guys are messyyyyyy. If you're new here, Messy Mondays is our weekly segment where Inbetweeners confess the wild, funny, awkward, and downright questionable things they did (or that happened to them) over the weekend. We react to some of your stories and... whew. Y'all are actually living lives, but remember, you are the one who suffers the consequences of your actions! We hope you enjoy the episode and are subscribed!#roadto200k Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

It's Friday🤩! And you know we're back with another fire episode. First, thank you for all the love on the last one. We appreciate you so much❤️🥰. So... is your group chat ruining your relationships? When you're dating or married, does your partner know everything you're saying (complaining)about them in the group chat? Are your friends helping you become a better partner, or is the chat just one long partner roast session? And when they see red flags, do they hold you accountable or cheer on the chaos? This episode might have you rethinking a few things. Pull up a seat, grab your popcorn, and press play. Enjoy the episode! Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Discover your path to greater sexual confidence and fulfillment. https://beduc.at/bg2627-tmipodcast Your ribs will be aching after this episode. It's that funny🤣🤣 Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Hope your day is going great. Today's episode is all about Hot or Cringe? Sex Edition. Is being called "my bitch" during sex hot or an instant turn off?Let's just say...the team did not agree😭👀. What about mirror sex, lights on, bondage, and more? We get into all of that! Grab your popcorn, plug in your earphones, and enjoy the episode. Then come back and tell us which ones are hot for you and which ones are cringe for you. Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Link to sexual languages: https://www.atlantatherapeuticcollective.com/post/erotic-blueprint Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

TMI is FIVE 🥹🤩❤️ 5 years of The Messy Inbetween, honest conversations, and a community that's become home. Our Inbetweeners, we appreciate you so much, thank you for loving and supporting this thing we built. Singles, come to the front right now 😭 you know those things people say that sound supportive but are actually so annoying? "Maybe you should smile more." "It'll happen when you least expect it." "You're too picky." That's exactly what we're getting into on today's episode. This one's a must watch! Tune in and let us know in the comments which ones we left out👀 We are doing a cash giveaway over at our Instagram in celebration of TMI @5🎉 Tap the link below to enter: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DafGC0KMrVR/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Shop the galaxy collection: https://enkatawatches.com/product-category/collections/galaxy/ Link to Kesi Njoro's episode: https://youtu.be/UbIc8ZgWTPQ?si=0IWMvTw4S_-7gh0r The couple mentioned: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZoHPIBspRJ/?igsh=dmVzY2hlenZ2MnU5 Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ

Happy New Month, Inbetweeners! You made it to July 🎉 May this new month bring you peace, love, comfort and so much happiness. Today's episode is all about opposite gender friendships, how to navigate them, and the do's and don'ts. We had very differing views on this one and honestly the discussion got interesting. We get into the boundaries that need to be in place for a platonic relationship between opposite genders to actually flourish, the etiquette, and the value these kinds of friendships bring. Quick one though, If you and your friend ever kissed, say a long time ago, are they supposed to tell their partner or keep it a secret? We wanna hear your thoughts in the comments below. Love in the patriarchy deserves self-abandonment - https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZJTUo9xgk_/?igsh=MTd6ZnVtY2FoMW5kaA== Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ