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Date created
2021/07/05
Latest episode
2026/02/06
Average duration
64 min.
Release period
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Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M. This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy. In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedup Instagram handles - @tmipodcast_ @_lydiakm @murugi.munyi Get in touch with us - [email protected]
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Our 2026 Ins & Outs | Episode 204
2026/02/06
Surpriseeeee🤩🎉
No, you're not dreaming , it’s actually a new episode, dropping on a Friday!
Hey Inbetweeners! Happy New Year 🥂
How have you been? We missed you so much during our two-month break, so we decided to come back quietly with a likkle sumn’.
This is our first episode of the year and we’re talking 2026 ins and outs — paced productivity, dating 👀, gatekeeping, delusion (girls, get ready to get your edges snatched😌), radical honesty, getting dolled up 💄 and more.
Let’s keep the conversation going in the comments 💬
What are your 2026 ins and outs?
TMI is back babes 💋✨
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From the Peaks to the Pits...Our 2025 Recap | Epd 203
2025/11/26
The last episode of 2025! We did it, Inbetweeners!
Happy Wednesday and welcome to our final episode of the year. What. A. Year.
We’ve both had our fair share of lows including losing loved ones and some really beautiful highs. Jo launched her lip product business (The Lip Tribe!) and stepped into such a gorgeous era. Lyd ran a whole 10km, celebrated life, and held onto friendships that truly showed up for her.
And as a team? We stood together and made sure an episode went up at least every single week. Through the chaos, the grief, the work, the joy, we really showed up.
So sit back and enjoy this episode as we take you through our highs and lows as individuals and as TMI.
We’ll still be around on Instagram and TikTok (tap the links below to follow us), so stay close. We’re going to miss you, Inbetweeners but we’ll be back in February 2026.
Byeeeeeeeeee! See you on our socials!
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Movie Moments That are Red Flags in Real Life |Epd 202
2025/11/19
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Climaxing together in one minute, falling in love in two days… umm, absolutely not.
Today we’re talking about the things movies sell to us as romantic but are actually red flags in real life or just don’t happen. The window-throwing declarations of love, the “broken man” magically fixed by a woman, and so many more.
What’s one movie moment that gives you a red flag in real life?
Tell us in the comments.
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Less of… & More of… Sex, Relationships & Friendships |Epd 201
2025/11/12
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Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners!
Less penetration, more everything else — spanking, choking, toys 👀
In the spirit of Black November, we’re getting real about the things we’re doing less of and what we’re doing more of in relationships, friendships, sex, and life in general.
And men… we’re definitely coming for you on this one 👀
So grab a snack, settle in, and let’s get into it!
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Big Girl Jobs, Older Men & Friendship Breakups |Epd 200
2025/11/05
200 episodes in the bag💼🤩✨We did that!🥰
The giveaway post goes up on our Instagram this week, so keep an eye out and make sure you participate.
This week, we’re continuing the conversation on canon events that shape you as a woman, from the boyfriend who was secretly your biggest hater, to the friendship that ended and took a chunk of you with it, to landing your first big girl job.
We hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did shooting it✨
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Canon Events That Shape You as A Woman |Epd 199
2025/10/29
Your weekly source of joy is here! Happy Happy Wednesday!
We’re talking about the canon events that shaped us as women — the moments that completely changed how we see the world. From realizing that what happened to you was actually sexual assault, to that sudden frontal lobe upgrade that, interestingly for us, came in our 30s, and even that situationship that almost finished you.
Tell us in the comments which one you related to the most.
Part 2 is coming soon…
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What's Destroying Relationships More Than Cheating? |Epd 198
2025/10/22
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We’ve always thought cheating was the biggest relationship destroyer but baby, there’s a lot more shaking things up nowadays. From addiction and neglect to lack of consideration and self-awareness, the list goes on.
In this episode, we’re unpacking some of the real issues tearing relationships apart today.
So tell us, what do you think is ruining relationships more than cheating?
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Abortion Truths No One Talks About | Epd 197
2025/10/15
Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners!
You guys sent us so many questions after our “Stranger Removal” episode and we heard you❤
This week, we’re answering some of them and breaking down some of the biggest myths around abortion.
To help us unpack your questions, we sat down with Dr. John Nyamu, a consultant obstetrician and gynaecologist with over 30 years of experience. From myths and misconceptions to mental health, infertility, and understanding what makes an abortion safe or unsafe, Dr. Nyamu breaks it all down with clarity, compassion, and zero judgment.
It’s a necessary conversation and one we hope helps shift how we think and talk about abortion.
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How to Ruin a Date 101 |Epd 196
2025/10/08
Hey Inbetweeners💖
We missed you last week but guess what… we’re back with another banger 🎉 This time we’re talking about the things that can completely ruin a date. Like imagine pulling up cute and ready only for him to ask you to pay for your own meal 🍽️😩 or spend the whole date talking about his ex 🚩
Snacks in hand because this one is an episode you don’t want to miss 🍿✨
And tell us in the comments what are some other things that instantly kill the vibe for you on a date💌
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Unspoken rules of Situationships |Epd 195
2025/09/24
Let’s talk situationshipssss! The real pandemic among the youth 🤣. On this episode we’re getting into the tea: what actually makes a situationship different from a relationship or FWB, plus the unspoken rules (like knowing it’s time-limited, and safe sex is a must 👀). We are doing the work of saving y'all from..."I said I was not looking for something serious from the beginning" text from you situationship!
Tell us, what’s one unspoken rule of situationships we didn’t mention?
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So…Are you really happy with your sex life right now? |Epd 194
2025/09/17
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✨ Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! ✨
We recently asked you on our Instagram: “What’s one thing you’d change about your current sex life?” and whew🥲the answers told us one thing loud and clear… most of us aren’t exactly thrilled in the bedroom 👀. Truth is, it’s not always 100% fireworks, as mismatched sex drives, body confidence dips, or even just life getting in the way can shift things.
Let’s get into it…enjoy the episode!
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STRANGER REMOVAL |Epd 193
2025/09/10
“CTRL+Z” aka abortion...That’s the conversation on today's episode.
Recent trends show just how alarming the rate of unsafe abortions in Kenya is, some even calling it “stranger removal.”
In this episode, we’re shining a light on the realities behind this, from the education gap in our society, like using morning-after pills as contraception to trying dangerous DIY methods… it’s messy, it’s scary, and it’s happening. Yet what we're more concerned about is that people are having sex?
We hope that this episode acts as a guide incase you ever find yourself facing the question of whether to keep a pregnancy or not.
Got questions? A story to share? Drop it in the comments or slide into our DMs.
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An Inbetweener Once Said...|Epd 192
2025/09/03
It’s TMI Wednesday✨
Today we’re reacting to your comments from episode 190: Life is Messy.
You guys shared what life is teaching you, from learning to slow down, to trusting that things will always work out and honestly, we had the best time reading through them🫶🏽
Enjoy the episode & we'll see you on Saturday in your beautiful pink outfits🩷
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Hey Big Sisters-Dilemma Epd | Epd 191
2025/08/27
It’s been a minute since we did a dilemma episode, but the wait is over!
First, thank you for being so open with us—sharing your dilemmas really helps us figure out what conversations we need to lean into more.
Got a dilemma? Slide into our DMs! We might reply to you directly, share it (anonymously, of course) on our stories—with your go-ahead—or even bring it up in an episode.
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Life is Messy!!! | Epd 190
2025/08/20
This one wasn’t even supposed to happen 😅 We sat down to shoot a dilemma episode, but ended up just catching up — and it turned out to be the conversation we didn’t know we needed.
Hope you love it as much as we did recording it 💕
And don’t worry, the next one is definitely your dilemmas!
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Britt Serwaa 2023/07/26
Love this podcast
I’m African American but I can relate to so much that is shared on this podcast. I’ve listened to every single episode. Whenever I meet a Kenyan, I as...
RashLimoo 2023/06/28
Appreciation
Murugi and Lydia
Love you guys a lot , your content is so real and so on point . This is life , this is real stuff!!!
You make me come alive .
fisndbrc 2022/09/27
I love them !
Their YouTube channel is also fire 🔥
That was what brought me over to subscribe here 💕
Darartu AKm 2022/06/08
Love it!
My best friend introduced me to this podcast, and I am obsessed. Love it!
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