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Blended Bond: Building Connection in Your Blended Family Blending a family can be beautiful…but that doesn't mean it's always easy. ❤️ In this episode of Enjoying Your Blended Family, I'm chatting with the creator of Blended Bond about the real-life ups and downs that come with bringing two families together—and what they've learned along the way. We talk about some of the hardest parts of their blended family journey, challenges they didn't expect, what helped them work through those difficult seasons, and some of the most rewarding parts of building the family they have today. We also talk about Blended Bond, a conversation card deck created specifically with blended families in mind. Because sometimes connection doesn't happen automatically—and having the right questions can help open conversations that might not happen otherwise. In this episode, we talk about: Their personal blended family story Some of the hardest challenges they faced The things about blending a family they didn't see coming What helped them work through difficult seasons The most rewarding parts of their blended family journey Why intentional connection matters in a blended family How the Blended Bond card deck came to be How families can use the cards to start meaningful (and fun!) conversations One of my favorite reminders from this conversation is that we don't have to spend all of our time focusing on what's difficult about blended family life. Sometimes we need to put down the problems, ask a question, laugh together, learn something new about each other and just enjoy the family that's right in front of us. ❤️ Because around here, we want to have more fun and see less problems! Make sure you check out Blended Bond and follow along with them to learn more about the card deck and where you can grab one for your own family. Connect with Blended Bond: Blended Bond Blended Bond on Instagram  Blended Bond on TikTok And don't forget to follow Enjoying Your Blended Family for more encouragement, honest conversations and practical ways to enjoy your blended family!

Season 2, Episode 1 Adult Kids Moving Back Home: 7 Things We Learned After almost two years away, we're back! In this first episode of Season 2, I'm sharing a life update and discussing something many blended families eventually face: adult children moving back home. Whether they're returning after college, navigating a breakup, saving money, or simply needing a fresh start, bringing adult children back into the home can create unique challenges—especially when step-relationships, multiple households, and changing family dynamics are involved. In this episode, we share 7 lessons we've learned that can help you navigate this season while protecting your marriage, maintaining healthy boundaries, and enjoying the extra time together. In This Episode: ✅ Enjoy the season you're in ✅ Have a plan and an exit strategy ✅ Discuss expectations early ✅ Have the hard conversations ✅ Protect your marriage with intentional date nights ✅ Consider counseling when needed ✅ Learn when to let go and allow your adult children to grow If you're part of a blended family, you know that parenting doesn't end when children become adults. The relationships may change, but the opportunities to love, support, and grow together continue.

In this episode, Jamee from Make it a Date joins me to discuss the importance of looking for the good in your husband. Connect with her here https://www.instagram.com/makeitadate_/ Join me for the next few weeks as we read our way through the book, Loving Him Well by Gary Thomas. https://a.co/d/07petDij This book will discuss some pretty serious issues, so be cautious if the kids are around. You might not be in such a bad place as some of the things we talk about, but it goes to show even in the worst of situations, there is hope. I'd love to hear from you if you are following along.  Stepfamily Jumpstart https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamil...  Get Out Pass: Code "BFAM" for the best price. https://getoutpass.com/

As Randall and I have been moving in and out of this empty-nester season, we have found it hard to prioritize each other. When we don't prioritize each other, the enemy can and will use it to cause division. I don't know about you, but I do not want a roommate for a husband, where we barely get to see each other much less have intimate conversations. We are both to blame for putting other things above our relationship. Join me for the next few weeks as we read our way through the book, Loving Him Well by Gary Thomas. https://a.co/d/07petDij  This book is going to discuss some pretty serious issues, so be cautious if the kids are around. You might not be in such a bad place as some of the things we talk about, but it shows that even in the worst of situations, there is hope. I'd love to hear from you if you are following along. Stepfamily Jumpstart https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamil...  Get Out Pass: Code "BFAM" for the best price. https://getoutpass.com/

This episode is really all about our current struggles. I thought I would share them with you because you might be walking through this season now or in the future. Even everyday life issues affect us differently in a blended family. We just want you to know, you are not alone! We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process.  This process not only helped us, but countless other stepfamilies.  Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family. This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future.  Check out the resources available so you'll have them when needed.  Private Facebook Group Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script 5 Family Games Fridge Calendar Family Scripture Get Your Ebook on Amazon Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount

We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process.    This process not only helped us, but countless other stepfamilies.    Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family.   This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future.    Check out the resources available so you'll have them when needed.    Private Facebook Group Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script 5 Family Games Fridge Calendar Family Scripture   Get Your Ebook on Amazon Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount

235. The Blended Family Bucket List (Part 4 of 5)   We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process.    This process not only helped us, but countless other stepfamilies.    Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family.   This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future.    Check out the resources available so you'll have them when needed.    Private Facebook Group Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script 5 Family Games Fridge Calendar Family Scripture   Get Your Ebook on Amazon   Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount

We want you to have your best Summer with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and made the E.N.J.O.Y process.    This process has helped not only us but also countless other stepfamilies.    Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family.   This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future.    Check out the resources available so you'll have them when needed.    Private Facebook Group Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script 5 Family Games Fridge Calendar Family Scripture   Get Your Ebook on Amazon   Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount

We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process. This process has not only helped us but countless other stepfamilies. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family. This week's video is all about exploring common interests as a couple. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future. Check out the resources available so you'll have them when needed.  Private Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/blendedfamilyvillage Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook https://drive.google.com/file/d/1enYSYhnTel4ICgZ-HzcZ9CmZaKnYh5hv/view?usp=drive_link E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script https://drive.google.com/file/d/1vSLArTbXR-HKSFjmTFY4K-F6CaH2fa7g/view?usp=drive_link 5 Family Games https://drive.google.com/file/d/195MaKDY0A4ylC7_vunvDKRuYkM8ie0Ze/view?usp=drive_link Fridge Calendar https://drive.google.com/file/d/1LT776fMBeH8aBFKazEgh93NkqhiFDoC0/view?usp=drive_link Family Scripture https://drive.google.com/file/d/19jH2HPsFRT0CGRkehmxj1sKgCGDxYBi6/view?usp=drive_link Get Your Ebook on Amazon https://amzn.to/4bPlk3L Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount https://getoutpass.com/

232.  Exploring Common Interest in Your Stepfamily | Part 1 of 5   We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process.    This process has not only helped us but countless other stepfamilies.    Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family.   This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future.    Check out the resources available so you'll have them when needed.    Private Facebook Group Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script 5 Family Games Fridge Calendar Family Scripture   Get Your Ebook on Amazon   Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount

We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether that be with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you have access to. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love.    Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family.   This first video is just an introduction and breaks down what you will need. So take a moment to listen in and check out the resources available so you'll have them when needed.    Private Facebook Group Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script 5 Family Games Fridge Calendar Family Scripture   Get Your Ebook on Amazon Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount

I found some old videos from a challenge I did with a group of ladies in 2020 about taking our thoughts captive. This concept changed my life. The information is so valuable, that I wanted to share it with you. It's set up as a 5-day challenge so feel free to listen to it day-by-day or all at once. The key is putting these things to use.    Day 1: Take Your Thoughts Captive Challenge Let's get started with Day 1. Some of these things may take you out of your comfort zone or seem insignificant, trust me, do them anyway. If you are ready for a change, it's time to do something different. If you missed last night's email, go back and read it and watch that video before this one. It lays the groundwork for today. If it takes you longer to complete, take your time and work at your own pace.   1. Find 10-20 minutes to brain dump.  2. Spend 20-30 minutes quietly listening to God's direction.  3. Journal any thoughts from your quiet time.   Day 2: Learn to sit and listen.    1. Find a place in your house that is quiet and where you will have privacy.   2. Sit and listen to the meditation video. Do your very best to follow the breaths and clear your mind. But if you find your mind wandering, mentally take note of what your thoughts are focusing on.    3. Journal your experience, good and bad. Things you noticed.    4. Pay attention to what you listen to today and how much time you spend filling your head with this stuff (Music, TV, Social media, other people) Write it down when you can.   Day 3: Discover your weaknesses. Own your mistakes. Recognize Triggers.   1. Write down areas of your life you feel like a failure.    2. Ask God to show you where you have made mistakes so that you can take ownership of them.  Ask God to show you why you feel this way and what triggers you.    3. I want to introduce you to my favorite meditation podcast, it combines meditation, scripture, and prayer. You can find it on your podcast app under Cultivate Connections or use this link,    4. Take a mental note of anything that comes to mind.   5. Journal your experience, good and bad. Did God reveal anything to you? Have you noticed what your triggers are?   6. Look at your list and ask yourself why you think you feel like a failure in these areas. This won't be solved in a day, but keep asking.   Day 4: Find truth. Stop taking yourself so seriously. Have Fun!    1. Write down areas in which you feel like you have succeeded.   2. Find a quiet place in your house where you will have privacy.  Do the first 14ish minutes of  "Recognize" Yoga with Adriene. Then pause and be quiet. (If you prefer Cultivate Connection, do that)   3. Journal your experience. Did God reveal anything new today?   4. Take at least 15 minutes to replace some of the negative thoughts you have with truth from scripture. Place these truths where you can see them.   5. Today might seem like a silly exercise, but I think it is very important. Find time to have fun today. Make time to laugh with your family. Do something silly with them. Turn on music and dance around the house. Go outside and play tag or hide-n-seek.    6. When you make a mistake today, laugh at yourself, and move on.   Day 5: Recognize that this is not an emergency. Take it to God. Discover your "Go-To" activity.   1. Continue the meditation practice, either the yoga video or Cultivate Connection meditation.    2. Journal your experience.    3. Practice gratitude. Name 1 thing from the day before that brought you joy. Write it down or say it out loud.    4. Learn to ask yourself "Is this an emergency?" Even when it feels like it is, it usually isn't. We can't practice this until a situation arises. Watch today's video so I can explain it better.   5. Today we find a new positive activity that you can turn to instead of reacting the same way you always have. You should have filled out your favorite activity in the survey before we started. How can you turn that into your new coping skill?   Take Your Thoughts Captive Recap   I know 5 days doesn't seem long enough to break a cycle you've been trapped in for a long time, but with God anything is possible. For me, it took a whole Summer to break this down. If during this process you find some issues go deeper than what you can handle on your own, I recommend finding a licensed therapist. There is no shame in talking to a professional and allowing their unbiased opinion to guide you in helping you heal.    Thank you for sticking with me over the last 5 Days. Check out this recap and let me know if this Take Your Thoughts Captive Challenge benefited you in any way by emailing me and letting me know.  Love you! Scarlett Tandy EPISODE RESOURCES:   If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this... STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com/opt-in   GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together.    JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US!   PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: [email protected]

In this episode, I am sharing my best advice to a single mom or an alienated mom (someone who doesn't have contact with their children).    If you are in this season of life you are not alone.    Honestly, if you are an empty nester or struggling mom, this could help you too.    EPISODE RESOURCES:   If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this... STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com/opt-in   GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for $90 off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together.    JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US!   PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: [email protected]

Do you desire a relationship with your stepchild but don't know how or where to start? Maybe you have been rejected in the past and stopped trying. Even if your stepchild has nothing to do with you, check this out. Who knows maybe it's just what you need to turn things around.  If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this... STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamil... EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together.    JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8X...  (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: [email protected]

Is your stepchild being manipulative causing drama and division in your stepfamily, is it a misunderstanding, or is your child just hurting? In this episode, I will talk with my stepdaughter about her perspective.  EPISODE RESOURCES: If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com/opt-in GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family  https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx  (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at)   Follow us on INSTAGRAM  Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: [email protected]