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2021/10/19
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2026/10/19
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Kyle and Sara Wester are Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs) with over 20 years experience working with children and teenagers in Tulsa, Oklahoma.Their podcast will help you parent from a place of freedom, love, and courage. Their passion is to help you uncover areas of fear and shame in your parenting and inspire you to empower your children to become healthy adults.They use the latest research in neuroscience coupled with their own experience raising 3 children.
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Understanding Anger: How It Can Help Your Family Connect (Episode 233)
2026/10/19
When someone in your family gets angry, does it feel normal, uncomfortable, or like something you need to fix?
What if understanding that anger could help you feel closer?
Kyle and Sara Wester grew up with very different messages about anger. For Kyle, it was an everyday expression. For Sara, it was something to put away quickly. In this honest, sometimes funny conversation, they share how they’ve learned to understand each other and make room for anger without letting it run their family.
Together, they explore:
Why you and your partner may see anger so differentlyWhen anger points to hurt or fear, and when it helps us recognize something that needs to changeHow to talk about anger with curiosity and take responsibility for how you express itWhat we want children to learn about feeling angry and speaking up without hurting others
Feeling angry doesn’t mean something is wrong with you or your child. Getting curious about that feeling can lead to conversations your family needs.
Start a conversation of your own: Find our free Parenting Together worksheet in the Resources section at artofraisinghumans.com.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/understanding-anger-how-it-can-help-your-family-connect
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
Free Range Parenting: What It Gets Right, What It Misses, and What Kids Actually Need (Episode 232)
2026/10/12
Are kids being overprotected, or are some being given more freedom than they’re ready to handle? You want your child to become confident and capable, but knowing when to step back and when to stay close isn’t always simple.
In Episode 232 of Art of Raising Humans, parent coaches and licensed professional counselors Kyle and Sara Wester explore free range parenting, a topic drawing attention in the news. They discuss what it gets right about independence, play, and responsibility, where it raises concerns, and what parents can learn from the conversation.
Through honest stories from their own parenting, Kyle and Sara consider how to give children meaningful opportunities to grow while staying involved and connected. They also examine how fear, exhaustion, and avoiding another argument can influence when we say yes or no.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What free range parenting means and why parents interpret it differentlyHow manageable challenges help kids build confidence and practice problem solving, judgment, and responsibilityWhy readiness for independence involves more than age or doing something successfully onceHow to tell when a child needs more preparation, supervision, or support before taking the next stepHow to recognize when anxiety, exhaustion, or avoiding conflict is influencing your decisionsFour practical steps for considering your child’s next opportunity for independenceWays to offer children and teens more freedom while maintaining clear limits and connection
Free range parenting raises worthwhile questions about what children need to grow. This conversation explores both its strengths and its limitations, helping you consider the freedom, support, and protection your child needs without asking you to adopt a parenting label.
A question to take with you:
What is the next responsible freedom my child is ready to practice, and what support would help it go well?
Have thoughts about free range parenting? We’d love to hear from you. Email Kyle at [email protected].
For free parenting resources and information about Parent Coaching, visit artofraisinghumans.com.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/free-range-parenting-what-it-gets-right-what-it-misses-and-what-kids-actually-need
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
How to Say No Without a Power Struggle: The “Yes, And” Approach (Episode 231)
2026/10/05
Most parents know the question is coming: “Can I go to my friend’s house?” “Can I stay out later?” “Can I get a phone?” And sometimes, before we have even thought it through, the answer comes out: no.
Of course, kids need parents who protect them, guide them, and hold healthy boundaries. But saying no does not have to mean shutting every door. In this episode, Kyle and Sara introduce a simple shift: looking for a real “yes, and…”
“Yes, you can, and here is what needs to be true for that to work.”
This is not about giving in, saying yes to everything, or turning every request into a negotiation. It is about helping your child grow in freedom, responsibility, and good decision-making while you remain a calm, confident leader.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why an automatic “no” can create more power struggles and distanceHow to help kids feel heard without becoming permissiveWhat a real “yes, and” can sound like with phones, friends, activities, money, and independenceHow to know when the answer should be “not yet” or a clear noCommon mistakes that make boundaries feel confusing or unfair
Your child does not need unlimited freedom. They need a parent who can help them grow into it, one wise decision at a time.
If you and your partner often land on opposite sides of these decisions, download our free Parenting Together Workbook to help you get on the same page: https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/together.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/how-to-say-no-without-a-power-struggle-the-yes-and-approach
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
Your Child Isn’t Finished Yet: Why “Knowing Better” Isn’t Enough (Episode 230)
2026/09/28
Your child can know what to do—and still be unable to do it in a hard moment. When they struggle with something they managed yesterday, it is easy to assume they are being lazy, disrespectful, or simply choosing not to try. But what if there is more going on underneath the behavior?
In this episode, Kyle and Sara explore why a child who seemed capable yesterday may struggle today—and how parents can respond with curiosity, calm limits, and support instead of labels and shame.
This does not mean lowering expectations or letting behavior slide. Understanding what is underneath behavior helps us hold limits with more calm, stay curious instead of judgmental, and help our kids build the skills they still need.
In this episode, we discuss:
Why “lazy,” “defiant,” and “disrespectful” labels miss the full storyWhy stress, hunger, exhaustion, and overwhelm can limit access to skillsHow to notice “can’t yet” beneath what looks like “won’t”How to hold limits without excusing behaviorHow to help your child grow instead of judging them against a finished brain
Follow Art of Raising Humans for practical, relationship-first parenting tools each week. For personal support, visit www.artofraisinghumans.com.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/your-child-isnt-finished-yet-why-knowing-better-isnt-enough
Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
When You and Your Spouse Parent Differently: How to Get on the Same Team (Episode 229)
2026/09/21
You love the same kids. You probably even want many of the same things for them. So why can you and your spouse look at the exact same parenting moment and see it completely differently?
In this episode of The Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara share more of their own parenting story—including the beliefs they brought into parenting, the conflicts they didn’t expect, and the very different approaches they initially had to sleep, big emotions, discipline, connection, and their roles as parents.
They talk openly about how childhood experiences, personality, fear, expectations, and even professional training can shape the way we respond to our kids—and why getting on the same page doesn’t mean becoming the same parent.
You’ll hear how they moved from judging each other’s approach to building a shared vision for their family, while still making room for their individual strengths.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why different parenting styles can create so much tension between couplesHow your own childhood can quietly influence the way you parentWhy shared long-term goals matter more than handling every situation identicallyHow to start moving toward a more connected, collaborative approach to parenting together
If parenting disagreements are creating tension in your marriage or leaving you wondering how you’ll ever get on the same page, this conversation will give you hope—and a different way to think about becoming a team.
Want help putting this into practice?
Download our free Parenting Together Workbook, created to help you and your spouse or co-parent talk through your different perspectives, uncover what’s shaping the way each of you parents, and begin building a more intentional, shared approach to raising your kids.
👉 Download the Parenting Together Workbook here: www.artofraisinghumans.com/parent-together-workbook
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/when-you-and-your-spouse-parent-differently-how-to-get-on-the-same-team
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
The Wonder and Danger of Curiosity: How to Help Kids Explore Safely (Episode 228)
2026/09/14
Curiosity is one of the most beautiful parts of childhood. It drives kids to ask questions, explore new ideas, take healthy risks, and discover who they are.
But as kids get older, curiosity can also become scary for parents.
What happens when curiosity leads your child toward pornography, vaping, alcohol, sex, risky online content, dangerous challenges, or choices they may not be ready to handle?
In this episode of The Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara explore how parents can protect their kids without teaching them to fear curiosity or hide their questions. They explain why curiosity is a normal part of child and adolescent development, why teens are especially drawn to novelty and new experiences, and how parents can become the safe person their child turns to when curiosity takes them somewhere unfamiliar.
You’ll learn:
Why curiosity changes as children move from childhood into the tween and teen yearsHow to consider curiosity, risk, access, and readiness before deciding how much freedom to giveThe SAFE framework for responding when your child brings you an uncomfortable or concerning questionHow to create boundaries around screens, pornography, substances, relationships, risky behavior, and other areas of exploration without shutting down communication
Kyle and Sara also share practical ways to guide curiosity differently with younger children, tweens, and teenagers, and how to prepare kids for moments when curiosity, peer pressure, and impulsiveness collide.
The goal isn’t to raise kids who never take risks or ask hard questions. It’s to raise kids who stay full of wonder while gradually learning how to pause, assess risk, seek help, and make choices that protect their future.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/the-wonder-and-danger-of-curiosity-how-to-help-kids-explore-safely
Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
Are You Giving Your Child Real Choices? How to Build Confidence Without Giving Up Leadership (Episode 227)
2026/08/31
Do you ever feel like you are managing every detail of your child’s life—schoolwork, activities, friendships, schedules, and responsibilities—yet worry they may not be learning how to handle life without you? Or maybe you try to give your child more freedom, only to watch them become overwhelmed, make a choice they regret, or expect you to rescue them afterward.
In this episode of The Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara Wester talk about the difference between giving children small choices and helping them practice the meaningful decision-making skills they will need for adulthood. From choosing classes, activities, and friendships to managing time, money, and growing responsibilities, children and teens need opportunities to make real choices while parents are still nearby to guide them.
You’ll learn how to give your child an appropriate voice without putting adult-sized pressure on them; how to know when to step in and when to step back; and how to help them recover when a decision does not work out. This episode is for parents who want to raise confident, capable kids—not kids who need a parent to manage every next step.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why too much control—or too much freedom—can leave kids anxious and unprepared for adulthood.How meaningful choices build confidence, responsibility, resilience, and executive-function skills.Age-appropriate choices for elementary-aged children, tweens, and teens.How to coach your child through decisions and mistakes without rescuing, shaming, or taking over.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/are-you-giving-your-child-real-choices-how-to-build-confidence-without-giving-up-leadership-ep-227
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
When Your Teen Has No Idea What to Do With Their Life (Episode 226)
2026/08/24
Does your teen have no clear plan for college, work, or life after high school? When they say, “I don’t know,” it can bring up a lot of fear for parents. Are they behind? Unmotivated? Will they be able to support themselves and find a meaningful path?
In this episode, Kyle and Sara Wester explain why pressure often makes teens shut down and how parents can guide their teen forward without taking over or backing away completely. Your teen does not need to have their whole future figured out right now. They need opportunities to learn about themselves, build real confidence, and practice making thoughtful next-step decisions.
You’ll learn:
Why uncertainty is not the same as laziness or a lack of potentialHow your own fear can accidentally make future conversations feel overwhelmingCurious questions that help teens discover strengths, interests, and what drains themPractical ways to build ownership through experiences, responsibility, and small decisions
Whether your teen is anxious about the future or seems completely unbothered by it, this conversation will help you replace pressure with calm, connected leadership and help them grow into an adult who can navigate whatever comes next.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/when-your-teen-has-no-idea-what-to-do-with-their-life
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
When Your Child Is Just Like You: How to Stop Repeating Old Patterns (Episode 225)
2026/08/17
Why can the child who is most like you also be the one who pushes your buttons the fastest?
Maybe their anxiety, sensitivity, stubbornness, big emotions, or need for control feels painfully familiar. Without realizing it, parents can begin reacting to their own past instead of responding to the child in front of them.
In this episode of The Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara explore why familiar traits can feel so triggering and how parents can interrupt old patterns without blaming themselves or trying to fix their child. They share a brain based, relationship first way to grow in awareness, regulate in the hard moments, and give your child the safety and guidance you may have needed too.
In this conversation, you’ll learn:
Why your child’s behavior can activate old fears, memories, and pressureHow to notice when you are parenting from a trigger instead of the present momentWhy understanding yourself helps you respond to your child with more calm and connectionHow to break unhealthy family patterns while still setting clear, confident limits
Your child does not need a perfect parent. They need a parent willing to pause, get curious, and choose a new path.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/when-your-child-is-just-like-you-how-to-stop-repeating-old-patterns
Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
How to Build a Secure Attachment With Your Child at Any Age with Eli Harwood (Episode 224)
2026/08/10
Have you ever worried that you missed your chance to build a secure attachment with your child? Or wondered why your child shuts down, becomes clingy, or struggles to bring their emotions to you?
In this episode, Kyle and Sara talk with licensed professional counselor and attachment expert Eli Harwood, also known as The Attachment Nerd, about what secure attachment really looks like and how parents can strengthen it at any age.
Eli explains why attachment is not about perfect parenting or avoiding conflict. It is about becoming a safe, steady person your child can turn to when life feels hard—and a secure base from which they can confidently explore the world.
In this conversation, you’ll discover:
What the four attachment patterns can reveal about a child’s behaviorWhy responding to emotions does not make children weak or overly dependentHow one secure relationship can make a lasting difference in a child’s lifeHow parents can work through their own emotional baggage and create a different legacy for their children
This hopeful conversation will help you see everyday emotions, conflicts, and repairs as opportunities to build the kind of relationship your child can carry into adulthood.
Eli Harwood, LPC, is a licensed professional counselor, USA TODAY bestselling author, mother of three, and creator of Attachment Nerd. She has more than 19 years of clinical experience helping individuals and families understand attachment and build healthier patterns of connection. Her books include Raising Securely Attached Kids, Securely Attached, and How to Deal with Your ____ So Your Kids Don’t Have To.
Connect with Eli:
Website: https://www.attachmentnerd.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd/
Books: https://www.attachmentnerd.com/books
How to Deal Podcast: https://podcast.attachmentnerd.com/
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/how-to-build-a-secure-attachment-with-your-child-at-any-age-with-eli-harwood
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
When Your Child Says “I Don’t Care” or “I Don’t Know” (Episode 223)
2026/08/03
Few things frustrate parents more than trying to have an important conversation with a child or teen and hearing, “I don’t care” or “I don’t know.”
It can feel dismissive, disrespectful, avoidant, or even scary. Parents may start wondering: Do they really not care? Are they lying? Are they avoiding responsibility? Am I losing influence?
In this episode of The Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara talk about what may actually be happening underneath these common responses. They explain why “I don’t care” can be a form of armor, why “I don’t know” can be a shutdown response, and why pushing harder often makes kids more defensive instead of more honest.
You’ll learn how to stay calm, lower the pressure without lowering the boundary, and help your child move from defensiveness into reflection, responsibility, and repair. Kyle and Sara also share practical ways to respond to kids ages 8–18, including what younger kids, tweens, and teens may need when they seem shut down or checked out.
This episode is especially helpful for parents who want to reduce power struggles, build emotional intelligence, strengthen connection, and guide their child with calm leadership instead of fear.
When your child says, “I don’t care” or “I don’t know,” try not to chase the words. Look underneath. Behind both phrases is often a child who feels overwhelmed, ashamed, confused, or unsure how to move forward.
Listen to this episode to learn how to respond with connection, clarity, and confidence.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/when-your-child-says-i-dont-care-or-i-dont-know
Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
Why Teens Need a Rite of Passage and Parents Need One Too with Dr Arne Rubinstein
2026/07/27
What if our teenagers’ risky choices, rebellion, or need to prove themselves are partly attempts to answer a deeper question: Am I ready to grow up, and does anyone see who I am becoming?
For thousands of years, communities intentionally helped young people transition from childhood into adulthood. Today, many teenagers are left to create their own rites of passage through drinking, drugs, sexual experiences, reckless behavior, or other choices they believe will prove they are grown.
In this episode, Kyle and Sara talk with Dr Arne Rubinstein about how parents can help teenagers experience this transition in a healthier, more meaningful way.
Dr Arne explains why teenagers need belonging, emotional safety, meaningful challenges, trusted adults, and opportunities to discover the gifts they can contribute to the world. He also shares how families can create an intentional rite of passage without needing an elaborate ceremony or extended retreat.
But this process is not only about helping teenagers mature. Parents must also be willing to change.
As children move toward adulthood, parents are invited to release some control, relate to them differently, and create space for greater responsibility, independence, and trust. Without that shift, even a powerful experience can quickly dissolve when the family returns to its old patterns.
This conversation will help you see adolescence as more than a difficult stage to survive. It is a pivotal season in which parents can help young people develop purpose, confidence, responsibility, and a clearer vision of the adults they want to become.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
• Why teenagers often create their own unhealthy rites of passage
• The three stages of a meaningful transition into adulthood
• Why stories and vulnerability can reach teens more effectively than lectures
• How challenges, vision, and recognition help teenagers discover who they are
• Why boys and girls may need different forms of support during adolescence
• How to honor your teenager’s natural gifts and strengths
• Why parents must go through a transition alongside their children
• Practical ways to continue the growth after the meaningful moment is over
About Dr Arne Rubinstein
Dr Arne Rubinstein, OAM, is the founder and director of the Rites of Passage Institute and a globally recognized expert on rites of passage. After 15 years in emergency medicine, he dedicated his work to helping young people, families, schools, and communities navigate major life transitions. His work has reached more than 450,000 people across 25 countries.
Connect with Dr Arne Rubinstein and the Rites of Passage Institute
Visit the Rites of Passage Institute
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Listen now and discover how intentional moments of connection can help your teenager step toward adulthood knowing they are seen, supported, and capable.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/why-teens-need-a-rite-of-passage-and-parents-need-one-too-with-dr-arne-rubinstein
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
What You Should Never Try to Fix About Your Child (Episode 221)
2026/07/20
Have you ever wondered whether your child’s sensitivity, strong will, quietness, or intensity is something you need to change?
When a behavior repeatedly frustrates or worries us, it is easy to start seeing our child as the problem. We may lecture more, push harder, compare them to other children, or try to shape them into someone who feels easier and less frightening to raise.
But what if the trait you are trying to eliminate was never broken?
In this episode, Kyle and Sara explore the important difference between accepting who your child is and guiding how they use their strengths. You will learn how sensitivity can become empathy, strong will can become leadership, quietness can reflect thoughtfulness, and intensity can grow into passion and purpose.
They also share practical language for responding to children and teens without shaming their identity, while still maintaining boundaries, teaching responsibility, and developing emotional regulation.
You’ll discover:
• How parental fear can turn guidance into rejection
• Why children need to know, “I am loved as I am, and I am capable of growing”
• How to find the strength underneath a frustrating behavior
• What children ages 8–18 need from parents at different developmental stages
• Four questions to help you decide whether a moment needs acceptance, guidance, or a clear boundary
• How protecting your child’s dignity strengthens your influence into adulthood
Your child does not need you to fix who they are. They need your help becoming the healthiest, wisest version of who they already are.
Learn more about Parent Relationship Coaching and the Art of Raising Humans at ArtOfRaisingHumans.com.
View the full podcast transcript at:
https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/what-you-should-never-try-to-fix-about-your-child
Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.
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The Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
Raising Boys in a Digital World: Masculinity, Porn, Body Image, and Character with Daniel Principe
2026/07/13
In today’s digital world, boys are being shaped by voices most parents never invited in.
Social media, porn culture, toxic influencers, looksmaxxing, pressure to be rich, pressure to be ripped, and the constant message to “act like you don’t care” are all reaching boys earlier than many adults realize. But how do we talk to our sons about these things without fear, shame, lectures, or panic?
In this episode of The Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara talk with Daniel Principe, a youth advocate and educator from Australia who works with boys, schools, parents, and communities to help young men grow into courageous, respectful, empathetic adults.
Daniel helps parents understand the world boys are navigating right now and why curiosity matters more than judgment. He shares why boys need more than warnings about what not to become. They need a hopeful, healthy vision of who they can become.
Together, Kyle, Sara, and Daniel discuss how parents can approach difficult conversations about masculinity, body image, pornography, online pressure, consent, relationships, and character. They also explore why boys are not bad or broken, why parents should not parent from shame, and how adults can become safe, steady voices in a very noisy culture.
This conversation is honest, hopeful, and deeply practical for parents raising boys in a world that often pulls them toward disconnection, insecurity, and apathy.
Daniel Principe is a passionate youth advocate and educator who creates spaces that champion boys into becoming good men. He works with young people, parents, educators, and communities to challenge harmful cultural messages and invite boys toward courage, respect, empathy, and healthy relationships.
Learn more about Daniel’s work at DanielPrincipe.com.au.
Connect with Daniel on Instagram: @lastoftheromans.
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AI, Homework, and Kids: How to Use AI Without Letting It Do the Thinking for Them (Episode 219)
2026/07/06
In Part 1 of this conversation, Kyle and Sara talked about how AI is changing childhood and why parents need to stay curious, connected, and informed.
In this Part 2 conversation, they get practical.
Kids are already using AI for homework, writing, studying, brainstorming, advice, and entertainment. So the question is no longer, “Should my child ever use AI?” The better question is, “How do we teach our child to use AI wisely?”
Kyle and Sara discuss how parents can guide kids toward healthy AI habits before those habits form on their own. They talk about homework, cheating, age-appropriate use, privacy, red flags, AI literacy, and how to create a family approach rooted in connection instead of fear.
This episode will help parents think through how AI can support learning without replacing effort, struggle, responsibility, or independent thought.
In this episode:
When AI helps with homework and when it becomes a problemThe difference between helpful support and outsourcing the struggleHow AI use may look different by ageRed flags parents should watch forWhy privacy matters when kids use AIHow to teach kids that AI can sound confident and still be wrongHow to begin creating healthy family guidelines around AI
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Scurt10 2026/04/08
Don't wait or hesitate to try this approach!
Seriously, don't wait or hesitate to try Kyle and Sarah's approach! It goes against our natural reaction but has been life changing for us and our ch...
Tamar Chansky, Ph.D. 2025/11/17
Empathy, warmth, and wisdom: The Art of Raising Humans podcast
It was such a true pleasure to talk to Kyle and Sara on my recent visit to The Art of Raising Humans podcast. They appreciate and take in the depth of...
Tina Payne Bryson, PhD 2025/09/24
Thoughtful podcast hosts
I’ve been a guest on a lot of podcasts, and this one was very enjoyable. The thoughtful preparation, insight, passion for their area of expertise is n...
Srob3594 2025/08/11
This is what the world needs ❤️🩹
I was honored to be a guest on this podcast that I absolutely adore! As a parent coach, I am so grateful that Sara and Kyle are equipping parents with...
Christine is listening 2025/05/02
Emotion-based parenting
This podcast helps me learn about myself, what drives me as a parent, spouse, daughter, and friend, and gives me the tools to do better as a parent. M...
Caroline64! 2025/04/22
Grandparent
I am raising the second generation. I listen to their advice to improve because time today are way different than when I raised the girls. It is a g...
Jlav417 2025/04/22
Amazing Content
Highly recommend, amazing info and so relatable.
forsheezzy 2024/09/20
Love
I’m a single (full time) dad and this podcast has helped me a lot of my journey. I greatly appreciate everyone who comes on the show for their knowled...
Jdaman04 2024/08/28
Love it!
I get something out of every episode, even if it’s a topic I don’t think applies to me. Kyle and Sara share their wisdom and mistakes and I learn some...
Bradchandlerlove73 2024/07/05
Empowering Journeys: A Parent's Guide to Growth and Connection
The Art of Raising Humans" podcast is a game-changer for any parent or guardian navigating the beautiful, yet often challenging, journey of raising ch...
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