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Send episode requests here Successful men are on the dating apps...they just aren't swiping on you. In this episode, I'm pulling up three real profiles and telling these women exactly why the men they want keep passing them by. You'll find out why your outfit can be right and the picture still be wrong, what you put in your prompts that shows a man how little you'll settle for, and why the man making 400k doesn't care about one single thing you listed about yourself. Walk away able to pull up your own profile and see exactly why he's not stopping on it. If you want to build a profile that gets you pursued, join my free Profile to Pursuit Masterclass on October 25 at noon HERE. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here If you are dating…and it feels like a chore…this episode will change the game for you.  Dating only feels like a chore when you’re not getting what you want.  Tune into this episode to start getting what you want while dating…as soon as today.  Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world… …AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.  OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard  Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here Taking a break from dating to heal might seem like the right move, but it can actually mess up your love life.  You can’t truly heal your relationship wounds if you aren’t actively exploring them with men. By stepping away, you’re just avoiding the issues, not fixing them. If you want to do the real work and heal, join me in this episode to learn about the biggest mistakes people make while trying to heal and how dating can actually help you overcome them. Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to do the real work to heal and enjoy dating at the same time, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.  OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard  Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here I call it “man hunting” when you go somewhere specifically because you’re hoping to meet a man. You get dressed, go to the restaurant or event, look around for men you’re excited about, and if you don’t meet one, you leave thinking, “Well, that was a waste of time.” A lot of women think this is what “putting yourself out there” is supposed to look like. But you can go out every week looking for men and still struggle to build a dating life where you regularly meet quality men you’re excited about. In this episode, I’m breaking down why man hunting can keep you socially isolated even when you’re technically putting yourself out there. I’m sharing how I decide which places are actually worth going back to, why I connect with people I have ZERO interest in dating, and how those relationships have led to invitations, introductions, and access to even more quality men. I also get into what your lack of free time may have to do with the pressure you feel to meet a man every time you go out, and how to build a life where meeting wealthy, successful men becomes a normal part of how you live. If you want my help building a life where you’re regularly meeting quality men you’re excited about, I have two spots open for 1:1 coaching.  Book a sales call  HERE to talk about working with me 1:1. Private Coaching Spots are Available. Book a Sales call HERE Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here You're the one everybody wants at the table. You're funny, you're the connector, men love being around you — and not one of them is taking you out. So you keep being the good time and telling yourself the right man will eventually notice. In this episode, Phylicia shares how she went from asking a man for a car and getting told no to men she isn't even dating, covering flights, gifts, and a $1,000 check for her mother's birthday party.  You'll hear the change she made to her dating profile after I told her what it was really saying about her, what a married friend told her at a concert that she couldn't ignore, and the thing she was doing on every date that had men wanting to keep her around without ever asking her out. Whether you're the fun one who can't figure out why nobody pursues you, or you've been waiting on one specific man to come back and see what he missed, Phylicia's story shows what happens when you stop performing for the room and become the reason people are in it. If you want results like Phylicia's, book a sales call HERE to talk about working with me 1:1. Private Coaching Spots are Available. Book a Sales call HERE Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here Broke men don't just stumble into your life by accident - they show up because they can sense which women will tolerate their inability to provide. If you keep attracting men who either expect you to fund the relationship or can't afford to match your lifestyle, this episode breaks down why this pattern keeps happening and how to flip the script completely.  I'm sharing the real reason your success mindset is working against you in dating and my five Provider Proof tests that separate men who want to provide from men who want you to be their personal ATM. You'll learn how to stop being the woman who fixes and start being the woman who receives. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here You can ask for what you want everywhere else in your life. You do it at work. You do it with your money. Then a man is sitting across from you and the words will not come out. In this episode, Christina shares how she went from having a love life she never once sat down and thought about to the most fun she has ever had dating.  You'll hear what happened when she asked a man she'd been on six dates with for a $70 purse, why the change she made to her dating profile cut her likes down to a handful, and how she got to a place where a man covered $800 on her car and cleared his whole day for her before she has ever set foot in his house. Whether you're a woman who runs everything else in her life and goes quiet the second a man asks for something, or you're still waiting to be chosen, Christina's story shows what changes when you finally center yourself in your own dating life. JOIN C2C HERE Inside C2C, you have 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more. The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Join today to stop wasting time and energy on men who leave your texts on read, and start attracting the men who send you flowers with no rhyme or reason. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm breaking down the five thoughts making it harder for you to meet, date, and choose the right men. You'll find out why you feel so drained by dating when you've barely done any of it, what's really happening when you tell yourself you're not ready yet, and why the men who give other women flowers, trips, and princess treatment aren't doing it for the reason you think. Walk away seeing your own dating life clearly enough to know exactly what's been holding you back—and what it would take to finally get different results. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm teaching you how to have conversations with men that actually lead to pursuit.  You'll find out the one question to ask yourself the moment a man messages you, why the "fizzle" is a myth you keep telling yourself, and the three things you need in place so you know within the first week whether a man is even capable of giving you what you want. Walk away knowing how to have conversations that move toward the dates, the calls, and the pursuit you actually want—so you never have to sit around wondering what happened again. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here In this episode, Patricia shares how her love life became fun, loving, and confident after joining C2C.  You'll hear how she went from a "pick me" who considered changing her whole look just to get chosen, to a woman who chooses herself first and has quality men lining up to please her.  She gets honest about the man she left the program for early on thinking he was the one, why his "generosity" wasn't actually generous, and the hard months of learning to be responsible for her own life instead of waiting for a man to rescue her. Whether you've been told to "just love yourself" and don't know what that actually looks like in action, or you're stuck waiting to be chosen, Patricia's story shows what changes when you finally choose you. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here In this episode, my client Juliet, is back with another update of what her love life looks like now—the men who show up for her with flowers, spa days, and cleared shopping carts, the standards she holds without over-explaining herself, and the identity shift that took her from wanting to be chosen to doing the choosing.  You'll hear how she got comfortable with the caliber of men she once found intimidating, why she's in no rush to get married even with a man ready to lock her down, and what it really took behind the scenes to get the kind of results most women assume just happen by luck. Whether you're a "recovering good girl," a high achiever who's been told you're too much, or someone who believes you shouldn't have to build these skills at all, Juliet's story shows you what's possible when you commit to the work. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm answering your dating questions live and giving you real answers, not fluff.  You'll find out what to do when life is beating you up but you still want to date, why a man spending big money on you might mean nothing at all, and what most women get wrong about the man who says all the right things and then disappears. Walk away knowing how to make decisions about men without asking your girlfriends, the group chat, or the comment section what his behavior means. If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE. Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here Most women spend weeks, even months, trying to figure out if a man is worth their time—dating him, running him by the group chat, hoping it turns into something. I don't do any of that. I know pretty quickly whether a man has even earned a phone call from me, and I never waste three to six months learning what I could have known in the first week. In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework I use to evaluate a man from the moment he speaks to me. You'll find out why "do I like him?" is the wrong question to be asking, the difference between a man who's interested and a man who's actually investing, and how to spot the yellow flags most women wait months to catch. Walk away able to trust yourself enough to know who qualifies for your time—without the weeks of confusion, second-guessing, or asking everybody else what his behavior means. If you're ready to learn how to evaluate your options without settling, get on the Curved to Cuffed wait list HERE. Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.  Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here There's a difference between a man getting your number and a man actually pursuing you. I've learned how to inspire the men I want to pursue me—planning the dates, investing, and showing up consistently—without ever forcing it or looking thirsty. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I make it easy for a man to pursue me when he already wants to. You'll find out why men feel pressure from you without you ever saying a word, the way good girls accidentally push men away while thinking they're being interested, and what most women confuse for a real connection that isn't one at all. Walk away knowing how to create an experience a man can't stop thinking about—so the right man moves toward you instead of pulling back. Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.  Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here I've gotten to the point where I have no doubt that when I pick a place to go, I'm going to catch the attention of the kind of man I want—and lately that's meant meeting a millionaire four to five weeks in a row. In this episode, I'm sharing exactly how I get quality men to notice me the second I step into a room. You'll find out why you can feel invisible even when you're standing right there, what you're doing that quietly tells men to leave you alone, and the shift that takes you from waiting to be approached to being impossible to miss. Walk away knowing how to be the woman who pulls the attention of the man she actually wants—not just whoever happens to be thirsty that night. If you're ready to build these skills with feedback week after week, there’s still time to join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed