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Send a message to the pod! We bounce from the pure joy of high-energy concerts to the weird emotional whiplash of a party show that opens with real grief. Then we zoom out into internet etiquette, interview norms, and holiday gift dynamics that reveal what people expect from each other.  This week we get into: • why some concerts feel unforgettable because the crowd fully commits  • Lil Jon opening with a tribute and how that changes the experience  • Pitbull’s “Miami” vibe landing in Northwest Arkansas and the culture shock  • costume commitment at concerts • building a DIY LED cloud and what it takes to make big home projects work  • what happens when brand ads push content to the wrong audience  • handling nasty comments, blocking, and losing control of the comments • the viral iced coffee at a job interview debate and “knowing your audience”   • the word of the week “perfunctory” and our grammar struggle spiral  • auditory processing delay, no inner monologue, and listening styles  • whether buying and wrapping your own Christmas gifts is a red flag  • gift-giving advice that focuses on practical “elevated staples” people will use  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We bounce from music and internet culture into the real work of being partners, especially when our brains solve problems in totally different ways. Along the way we unpack anger, routines, time blindness, parenting mess-ups, and how to make big life decisions without treating them like permanent traps.  This week we talk about: • art outliving the artist  • how country music shifts from anti-establishment roots to modern patriot branding  • why bot comments and “fake consensus” make people feel more extreme  • the difference between emotional regulation and avoiding anger  • our project clash: vibes versus technical constraints and why it breaks communication  • a quick detour into food opinions and “chronically online” headlines  • Macklemore, Ed Sheeran, and what “apolitical” signals during backlash  • word of the week: bungle, plus an unfortunate barrel vocabulary lesson  • a bad dad moment with missing toddler shoes and the apology that follows  • supporting a partner with time blindness using routines, Pomodoro timers, workouts, and meditation  • advice on taking a dream job in a new city and reframing fear as temporary  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We bounce from awkward internet searches and binge-watching True Blood to the surprisingly serious stuff hiding under everyday banter. Listener messages push us into a real talk on ADHD, therapy, relationships, and what it means to look “fine” while still struggling.  Join us for: • reacting to what people search online and how it feels  • True Blood as a lens on shifting beauty standards and “mannequin” aesthetics  • the TikTok “Faneto” learning saga and why comment sections carry platforms  • Threads, echo chambers, and the idea of paying commenters for likes  • word of the week: grandiloquent and why it’s a perfect roast  • a listener’s ADHD journey, depression overlap, and the damage of “lazy” labels  • how partners navigate frustration, understanding, and real-world household impacts  • toddler activity ideas: Nugget style play couch, shape sorters, blocks, magnet tiles, Pikler triangle, indestructible books, outside time, KiwiCo style subscription boxes  • a therapist’s take on why self-acceptance can look like “success” to viewers  • neurotic habits, time blindness, and the patterns we don’t notice  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We kick things off talking about ADHD hyperfocus, sewing wins to, and the relationship friction that shows up when one of us goes full tunnel vision and the other has to remain flexible. Then we zoom out into confidence versus certainty, masculinity and misogyny, influencer stardom, and a listener story that turns an ad controversy into a real conversation about defensiveness and respect.  Join us this week to get into: • ADHD hyperfocus as a “working style” and the family tradeoffs it creates  • sewing details that break your brain, including hems, pockets and the serger temptation  • object permanence and invisible household work when everything gets put away  • caffeine habits and how small routines form without you noticing  • childhood emotional memory, late-arriving clarity and how stories get reconstructed  • confidence as performance versus certainty as internal knowledge  • masculinity without rigid coaching, privilege and standing up for others  • Dancing With The Stars casting, influencer culture and what “star” means now  • word of the week: snollygoster  • listener mail on Arizona travel ideas, our relationship timeline, chalk stains and laundry systems  • Callaway ad reaction, defensiveness and why dismissing women’s experience hurts  Great review, follow the podcast, and we will see you next week. If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We bounce from tiny tattoos and at-home haircuts to the dark side of viral media, then land on listener questions that demand real boundaries and real care. We keep coming back to the same idea: clear communication and basic literacy matter more than people want to admit, especially when everything is amplified online.  This week we get into: • getting first tattoos at a flash event and why starting is the hardest part  • how we split risk taking and overthinking in our marriage  • rebuilding fitness routines after injuries and why food is the bigger fight  • cutting hair at home and learning to say what we want, not what we do not want  • reacting to the Callaway driver ad and what “testing the line” looks like  • talking through the Target costume backlash and why “how did this happen” matters  • grieving Dolly Parton and the loss of a true cultural bridge  • our viral pronunciation video and what the comment section reveals about comprehension  • word of the week: blatherskite  • responding to a listener dealing with a CPS call and family no contact  • supporting a long-distance friend with chronic pain without othering them  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! This week we go from silly daily-life updates to a real talk on how mental health gets judged online and offline, especially when postpartum depression does not “look” the way strangers expect. We share what pathological demand avoidance feels like from the inside, how ADHD medication and therapy have shifted things in our marriage, and how we try to build healthier tools for ourselves and our kids.  On this episode we talk: • New pants joy and everyday wins  • Pop culture taste and how we consume TV now  • The pressure to share “hard things” on social media  • Why functioning online does not cancel depression  • What pathological demand avoidance means to us  • Therapy as a starting point and building a care team  • ADHD medication benefits, trade-offs, and moving goalposts  • Guilt, grief, and learning to name your strengths  • Reality TV and influencer fame crossing into mainstream  • Practical steps to find a babysitter and build trust  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We catch up on the chaos of a new kindergarten routine, a sweaty late-night recording, and a behind-the-scenes Sonic shoot that proves memorising lines is harder than it looks. Then we shift into internet misinformation, messy AI labels, and two listener questions where we get serious about change, mental health, and boundaries.  Join us as we get into: • adjusting to real school routines and the stress of new systems  • travelling for a Sonic fall campaign and navigating on-set nerves  • fact-checking dry shampoo fear, benzene headlines and how misinformation spreads  • how AI search crawlers miss reliable sources and why “AI generated” labels confuse people  • the Wicker trailer discourse, memes and why whimsy feels rare  • Word of the Week: Muckrake • college transition advice, making friends by showing up and using campus resources  • family gossip dynamics, emotional labour and opting out of holidays without guilt  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We bounce from an undisclosed last-minute work trip to the everyday realities of sleep debt, screen time and what it feels like to be “on” all the time. Then we dig into true crime discourse, postpartum mental health, and listener questions about infertility support and the pressure of deciding whether to have another child.  This week we talk: • why reading lines on camera feels unnatural even when conversation feels easy  • sleep guilt, health consequences and the screen time receipts  • Lindsay Clancy case, postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis, and why “having help” misses the point  • how online theories turn uncertainty into certainty and why that can get unhealthy fast  • the first class upgrade glitch and why travel can wreck sleep  • hosting friends, stocked-fridge hospitality and the ambivert question  • word of the week and why we hate small talk  • infertility and friendship, asking directly for support without sounding accusatory  • deciding on one child versus another, timing postpartum and the emotional baggage we bring to the choice  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! This week I was left alone with a mic, a baby monitor, and a brain that refuses to stay on one track, so we're going to lean into it. Join me for a tour through hyperfixation, the messy reality of being a tinkerer, and the fine line where curiosity turns into clutter. Jo will be back next week so if this wasn't your thing we'll see you then! If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We bounce from everyday logistics to how authenticity lands in different rooms and how birthdays can mess with your sense of progress. We also dig into what’s truly worth spending money on, what’s overhyped, and how to navigate family boundaries when you’re a young couple making adult choices.  This week we get into: • recording rhythm, tiredness, and why skipping breakfast backfires  • listening back to ourselves, tone, and the intent versus impact problem  • corporate communication norms and why directness can feel abrasive  • leadership versus mentoring, hands off management, and discomfort with confrontation  • birthday updates, the Dairy Queen power outage cake scramble, and self tanner before an event  • ADHD time blindness, clean slate thinking, and why milestones trigger reflection  • “worth the money” picks, cost per use logic, and where we happily spend  • “not worth it” picks, skincare hype, and choosing sleep and water as low hanging fruit  • backyard garden maintenance, herbicide concerns, and farm family context  • bad dad and mean mom moments, guilt around missed bedtimes and shortcuts  • word of the week “folderol” and why it fits  • listener questions, video game loot pockets, and our default “fit”  • advice on living together in college, parental financial support, boundaries, and consequences  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We jump from caffeine to what it looks like to support each other without taking on each other’s panic. We also dig into parenting language, reality TV culture, and practical listener questions about personal growth and freelance money.  Join us this week for: • caffeine, sleep quality, and the ADHD-shaped urge to chase stimulants  • how we handle stress differently in marriage and try not to enmesh  • why we try to remove words like stupid from our home vocabulary  • a parenting stance on exposure, context, and not using language at people  • life updates, sewing projects, garden hornworms, and the fruit vs vegetable rabbit hole  • Love Island follower growth, post-show content strategy, and “owning the edit”  • discomfort with reality TV incentives, humiliation as entertainment, and money’s power  • word of the week: susurrus, a whispering or rustling sound  • advice on personal growth with a partner and the reality of little-kid seasons  • freelance budgeting tips: plan to your floor, build a float account, use quarterly bonuses, consider a line of credit carefully  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We jump from sleep deprived chaos to big questions about memory, ambition, and what we owe each other in a partnership. We land on a blunt truth: “things work out” is not a plan if one person is quietly doing the work to make it true.  Join us as we discuss: • kids waking at night and how that shapes energy all day  • being “a sleepy person” and how old schedules linger  • gaps in childhood memory and what routines we can recall  • college classes, language struggles, and why confidence sticks  • how stability seeking can stifle creativity and risk taking  • the viral pull of Erling Haaland and online sports culture  • punctuality, ADHD stress, and why urgency becomes fuel  • refusing to manage a partner and letting consequences happen  • the difference between staying calm and avoiding responsibility  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We start with summer chaos, sore bodies, and a legendary DIY slip and slide, then spiral into online drama that unexpectedly turns into a real talk about food access and how systems shape daily life. We answer a heavy listener email about extremist family beliefs and end with a practical, hopeful push to donate blood and set better rhythms at home.  • delivery versus renting math for home projects  • kids chewing straws and why open cups win  • SI joint pain, turf toe, and feeling older than you are  • building a huge slip and slide with drip irrigation tips  • Fourth of July patriotism, community, and complicated pride  • chronically online headlines and what we can actually learn from them  • food deserts, small town grocery realities, and supply chain limits  • boundaries with religious family while staying safe for kids  • blood donation facts, AB plasma importance, and finding local drives  • decluttering, hobby clutter, and the stress of unfinished projects  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We start with unfiltered body talk, then tumble into everything from blood donation questions to why learning on the fly can or can't beat traditional school. The heart of the conversation lands on sewing a Pride outfit, what perfectionism is really trying to protect, and why showing up visibly for our community matters more than we think.  • periods and feeling dizzy  • blood types and why donating still matters  • applied learning versus being “good at school”  • starting sewing with an absurdly hard pattern  • perfectionism, fragile ego and learning to accept praise  • Pride parade in Northwest Arkansas and feeling hope  • navigating visibility as a “safe space” person  • Bad Dad Mean Mom moments and the word defenestration  • mini splits versus central heat and air basics  • newborn feeding anxiety and staying offline  • handling a friend rushing a new relationship with boundaries  • wedding family photo lists that keep the day moving  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/

Send a message to the pod! We bounce from time blindness and everyday chaos into the surprisingly hard work of speaking up when money, family, and expectations collide. We share what we’re learning about confidence, boundaries, and how to advocate as a couple when a “gift” starts to feel like a bill.  • running late dynamics, time blindness, and repairing the vibe  • unexpected love for Panera breakfast sandwiches  • studio mishaps, spiders, and a highlight reel of weird bites and stings  • embarrassment versus avoidance, plus how we “project” confidence  • the consulting lesson that nobody fully knows what’s going on  • World Cup visitor content, U.S. scale shock, and why walking everywhere backfires  • our passenger rail rant and the infrastructure trade-offs  • parenting misstep of hyping plans too early, then managing heartbreak  • word of the week: ultra crepidarian  • Enneagram voicemail, why we like it, and why we refuse to be boxed in by it  • horoscope skepticism, being open to woo-woo, and why tarot sparks better conversations  • navigating in-laws when a wedding couch “gift” becomes a major expense  • setting the precedent early and letting your partner handle their own family communication  If you've got a thought to share or are looking for a bit of advice on something, leave us a voicemail at the link below! https://www.speakpipe.com/overthinkingpod If you'd like to message us you can use the email below or the text link at the top [email protected] CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website:  https://jojohnsonoverby.com/