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Let's be perfectly Queer Podcast

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86 episodes
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English
Date created
2022/11/05
Latest episode
2026/10/01
Average duration
36 min.
Release period
15 days

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An Australian LGBT podcast, hosted by a Transgender teacher and a Pansexual healthcare worker, dedicated to amplifying diverse queer voices. We share personal stories, expert insights, and valuable resources on LGBTQIA+ topics—including gender identity, coming out, queer history, mental health, relationships, and activism. Join us as we build an inclusive space for learning, open discussions, and a sense of community.Whether you're queer, questioning, an ally, or simply curious, our podcast is a welcoming space for open conversations, education, and community connection. Think of it as a laid-back chat with friends—perfect for listening on the go, at home, or anywhere in between. Join us as we celebrate LGBT+ experiences, challenge misconceptions, and create an inclusive space for all.

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We Need More Queer Stories on Stage
2026/10/01
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go-to LGBTQIA+ Australian podcast for all things queer On today's episode of Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, we chat with Sean Landis, co-founder and artistic director of Fruit Box Theatre, an LGBTQIA+SB theatre company based on Gadigal land. We're talking all about queer theatre, representation and Fruit Box Theatre's production of Cruise by Jack Holden, a play that explores queer nightlife, love, community and the AIDS crisis. Sean takes us behind the scenes of how Fruit Box Theatre began, why community-led storytelling matters, and the responsibility of bringing queer history to the stage. We chat about the importance of remembering those who came before us, the way grief and joy can exist together, and why we need more diverse queer stories, particularly stories by trans writers, on Australian stages. We also get into what actually makes theatre queer, the challenges of funding and producing LGBTQIA+ work, and why creating a space where queer people can see themselves represented can mean so much. 🎭 In this episode, we're chatting about: How Fruit Box Theatre came to life aCruise by Jack Holden The responsibility of honouring LGBTQIA+ history Why queer joy, community and connection matter.What makes theatre queerThe need for more trans writers, intersectional stories and diverse LGBTQIA+ voices.A huge thank you to Sean for joining us and sharing the heart behind Fruit Box Theatre and their production of Cruise. Check out Fruit Box Theatre and Cruise through the links in our show notes. So join us as we talk all things queer and theatre.... And until next time... stay perfectly queer! Much love Archie & Katie 🌈 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fruitboxtheatre/?hl=enWebsite: https://www.fruitboxtheatre.com.au/Sydney Ticket Links (9-31 Oct): https://www.seymourcentre.com/event/cruise/Melbourne Tickets Links (11-21 Nov): https://www.theatreworks.org.au/2026/cruise #LetsBePerfectlyQueer #QueerPodcast #LGBTQIA #QueerTheatre #FruitboxTheatre  Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
I Came Out, So Why Am I Still Coming Out?
2026/09/17
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go-to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer, we talk about the reality of constantly coming out as LGBTQIA+ and the mental load that comes with it. Coming out is often portrayed as one big conversation with your family or friends. But what happens when you start a new job? Meet a new doctor? Make new friends? Or a complete stranger makes an assumption about your partner? Suddenly, you're faced with the same question again: Do I say something? Do I correct them? Do I let it go? Is this actually a safe space? In this episode: The never-ending reality of coming outThe mental load of constantly deciding whether to come outThe everyday assumptions about being straight and cisgenderProtecting your energy vs making something a teaching momentThe pressure to explain your relationship and identityWhy using the word "partner" can be more inclusiveComing out is a choice, not an obligation=Join us as we talk about the never-ending process of coming out, queer identity, LGBTQIA+ safety and the mental exhaustion that can come with constantly explaining who you are. And until next time... stay perfectly queer! Much love Archie & Katie 🌈 If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services: AUSTRALIA: Phone: Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14QLife (LGBTQI+ support): 1800 184 527Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008Kids Helpline (ages 5–25): is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24Online: Head to health online chat  - headtohealth.gov.auRUAH Community Services - ruah.org.au or [email protected]  AROUND THE WORLD: Trevor Project (US): 866-488-7386 or www.thetrevorproject.orgTrans Life Line (Canada): (877) 330-6366Trans Life Line (US):  (877) 565-8860OutLine Aotearoa: 0800 688 5463 or online https://outline.org.nz/chat/LGBT Ireland:  Find more resources: https://safeinourworld.org/news/global-lgbtq-support/ Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Is Queer Visibility Going Backwards? The Census, & Queer Disney Songs
2026/09/03
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. Small talk is BACK!.. Kind of.. we chatted more than I thought! In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer, we dive into some of the LGBTQIA+ topics, conversations and headlines that have caught our attention recently. First up: the Australian Census.  Are the new LGBTQ+ questions enough to give us an accurate picture of Australia's queer community? And what happens when people are still living at home or aren't in a position where it feels safe to be openly LGBTQIA+? Then, we're talking about that phrase we're all sick of hearing: "Stop shoving your sexuality down our throats." Is queer representation really being forced on people or are people simply uncomfortable seeing LGBTQIA+ lives represented in the same way heterosexual relationships always have been? We also discuss rainbow capitalism and why some major brands appear to be scaling back their Pride support. Were they ever genuine allies, or was supporting the LGBTQIA+ community only worthwhile when there was money to be made? Plus, Japan is introducing a nationwide LGBTQ+ education program but can education alone create genuine inclusion when same-sex marriage still isn't legally recognised? And finally, we talk about the songs that hit a little differently when you're queer. Is Part of Your World secretly a queer anthem? Why does Reflection resonate so strongly with so many trans and queer people? And what Disney song meant something completely different to you when you were growing up? In this episode: LGBTQIA+ questions in the Australian CensusBeing queer while living at home and staying in the closetIs LGBTQ+ representation really being "shoved down our throats"?Pride, backlash and rainbow capitalismBrands scaling back their LGBTQIA+ supportLGBTQ+ education in JapanCan education change attitudes without equal legal rights?Is Part of Your World a queer anthem?The queer meanings we find in Disney songsReflection, Go the Distance and the songs that helped shape usJoin us as we chat about a range of queer topics.. and until next time... stay perfectly queer! Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Were Bert and Ernie Queer? Queer Coding in Our Childhood Shows and Cartoons
2026/08/20
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. If you ever watched a childhood cartoon and thought “Hang on… were they queer?”, this episode is for you. This week on Let’s Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, Archie and Katie dive into one of the most fascinating and complicated parts of LGBTQIA+ representation in media: queer coding. From the age-old debate over Bert and Ernie to Tinky Winky and Ursula, we explore the childhood characters that generations of queer people have seen themselves in, even when those characters were never officially LGBTQIA+. But why did queer coding happen in the first place? We go back to the Hays Code and a time when openly queer characters were rarely allowed on screen, forcing writers and filmmakers to communicate queerness through mannerisms, relationships, fashion, personality and subtext.  We also unpack the darker side of queer coding, particularly the long history of queer-coded villains and what happens when the only characters who seem to reflect you are the bad guys. And then there's the big question: does it matter what the creators intended if queer audiences found genuine representation in those characters? In this episode we discuss: Whether Bert and Ernie were actually queerWhat queer coding really meansThe history of the Hays Code and LGBTQIA+ censorshipThe childhood characters we may have completely missed were queer codedWhy so many Disney villains have queer-coded traitsUrsula, Scar, Jafar, Captain Hook and the history of the queer-coded villainTinky Winky, SpongeBob, Velma, Shego, Elsa and moreWhat happens when queer representation is associated with villains, outsiders and "the other"Why positive LGBTQIA+ representation in children's media mattersWhether you're LGBTQIA+, an ally, a cartoon lover, or someone who has ever looked back at a childhood character and thought “OH… I get it now”, this episode will have you questioning everything you watched growing up. So… who was your queer-coded childhood character? 👀 🎧 Listen now, and let us know who you saw yourself in growing up... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! 🌈 Links we found useful when researching this episode: Liberal Arts Emerging ScholarsQueer coded characters paper Queer coded characters journalNBC  - Bert and Ernie are a gay couple First they came for Bert and ErnieBert and Ernie don't have a sexual orientationQueering my childhoodThe importance of lgbtq+ representation in childrens media Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Is Being LGBTQIA+ "Natural"? What Queer Ecology Can Teach Us About Ourselves
2026/07/30
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. If you've ever heard someone say being LGBTQIA+ is "unnatural," this episode is for you. This week on Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, Archie sits down with Lee Pivnick and Nicolas Baird, co-founders of the Institute of Queer Ecology, to unpack one of the most fascinating intersections of science, nature and queerness. From gay swans and bonobos to trans clownfish (yes, Finding Nemo got it wrong), we explore the incredible diversity of sexuality, gender and relationships found throughout the natural world. But this conversation goes far beyond animal facts. We dive into what queer ecology actually is, how science has historically overlooked queer perspectives, why biodiversity matters, and how viewing nature through a queer lens can change the way we think about ourselves, our communities and the planet. In this episode we discuss: What queer ecology actually meansSame-sex relationships throughout the animal kingdomGender-changing fish and the real story behind Finding NemoBonobos, gay swans and surprising animal behaviourClimate change, biodiversity and conservationWhy "it's not natural" is one of the weakest arguments against LGBTQ+ peopleWhether you're LGBTQIA+, an ally, a science nerd or simply curious, this conversation will completely change how you think about nature 🎧 Listen now to learn about more than just gay swans... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Follow the Institute of Queer Ecology: https://www.queerecology.org Instagram: @queerecology Instagram: @instituteforpostnaturalstudies Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Finding Chosen Family Through Music with Tay from FVNERAL
2026/07/16
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. This week we're joined by Tay from Australia's queer indie band FVNERAL to chat about their new EP Chosen Family, what it means to find community, and how music can connect LGBTQ+ people. We dive into Tay's journey as a trans non-binary person, the fear of coming out, finding the language to understand yourself, and why chosen family can be one of the most powerful forms of resistance. We also talk about building a proudly queer band, collaborating with other LGBTQ+ artists, the importance of visibility, and the musicians who helped shape Tay's identity, from My Chemical Romance and Laura Jane Grace to SOPHIE, boygenius, and MUNA. Whether you're queer, questioning, an ally, or simply love hearing honest conversations about identity and creativity, this episode is packed with heartfelt stories, laughs, and reminders that you don't have to figure everything out alone. In this episode we discuss:  What "chosen family" really means  Coming out as trans and non-binary  Building a queer-led band  The importance of LGBTQ+ representation in music  Why visibility still matters  The artists who inspired Tay's journey  Advice for young queer and trans people🎧 Listen now to Tay's journey through music... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Links to FVNERAL:  Instagram: @fvneralworldTiktok: @fvneralworldYoutube: @fvneralworldFacebook: @fvneralworld Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Why Queer Patients Feel Unsafe in Healthcare (And How We Fix It) with Dr Lulu
2026/07/02
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. Why do so many LGBTQ+ people walk into a doctor's office already expecting to feel dismissed, misunderstood, or unsafe? This week on Let's Be Perfectly Queer, we're joined by physician, educator, advocate and proud parent Dr. Lulu to unpack the realities of LGBTQ+ healthcare. From growing up in Nigeria surrounded by homophobia, to navigating her own queer identity, raising a transgender daughter, and becoming one of the leading voices in affirming healthcare education, Dr. Lulu shares an honest and deeply personal conversation about bias, allyship, and what truly inclusive care looks like. Together we discuss: Why many LGBTQ+ people avoid medical careThe experiences transgender people face in healthcare settingsHow doctors can unintentionally harm queer patientsThe power of asking questions with compassion and consentDr. Lulu's "Find Me, Feel Safe, Trust Me" framework for affirming careHer upcoming book First Do No Further Harm: Becoming Allies in White CoatsWhy there is still hope for families, parents, and healthcare providers to learn, grow and become better alliesWhether you're LGBTQ+, a parent, healthcare worker, educator, or simply want to understand how to create safer spaces for queer people, this conversation is full of insight, empathy, and practical ways we can all do better. 🎧 Listen now to hear Dr Lulu's experience... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! How you can connect with Dr Lulu Websites Dr. Lulu’s Pride Corner: https://drluluspridecorner.comAngels Haven Incorporated: https://angelshaveninc.orgSocial Media Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1CypCwaSvB/?mibextid=wwXIfrLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlulu?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_appInstagram (Dr. Lulu’s Pride Corner): https://www.instagram.com/drluluspridecorner?igsh=MXE1M2IwNWhyMG9paQ==Instagram (Coach Udaku): https://www.instagram.com/coachudaku?igsh=MWF6dGYwb2VicWxmYg==Podcasts Ask A Black Woman Podcast (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/@AskABlackWomanPodcastMoms 4 Trans Kids (Apple Podcasts): https://podcasts.apple.com/ng/podcast/moms-4-trans-kids/id1708676679YouTube Dr. Lulu’s Pride Corner: https://youtube.com/@drluluspridecorner?si=WSAVPycmgU5QVLn- Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Why Are So Many Queer People Neurodivergent? The Link Between LGBTQ+ Identity, Autism & ADHD
2026/06/18
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. Have you ever noticed how many LGBTQ+ people also seem to be neurodivergent? In this episode of Let's Be Perfectly Queer, Archie and Katie explore the growing research showing a significant overlap between queer identities and neurodivergence. From autism and ADHD to gender diversity, bisexuality, asexuality, and transgender identities, researchers are discovering connections that challenge traditional ideas about identity and what society considers "normal." We unpack:  Why autistic people are more likely to identify as LGBTQ+ The connection between ADHD, gender diversity, and sexualityWhat the latest research says about being "neuroqueer"The Double Minority Effect and its impact on mental healthPersonal experiences of being queer and neurodivergentWhy support, understanding, and community matter more than everWhile researchers are still exploring why this overlap exists, one thing is clear: nobody should have to hide who they are to fit into society's expectations. Whether you're queer, neurodivergent, both, or simply curious, this episode offers insight, lived experience, and an important conversation about identity, belonging, and acceptance. 🎧 Listen now to learn about the overlap of neurodiversity and queerness... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Trigger Warning: Discussion of mental health, suicidality, discrimination, and healthcare experiences. If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services: Phone: Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24Online: Head to health online chat  - headtohealth.gov.auRUAH Community Services - ruah.org.au or [email protected]  Links we found useful when researching for this episode: https://www.audhdpsychiatry.co.uk/queerness-and-neurodivergence/https://neurodivergentinsights.com/trans-autism/https://www.thetrevorproject.org/research-briefs/mental-health-among-autistic-lgbtq-youth-apr-2022https://learnfully.com/the-link-between-neurodiversity-and-the-lgbtqia-communityhttps://sparkforautism.org/discover_article/autism-lgbtq-identity/https://nhsdorset.nhs.uk/neurodiversity/living/lgbtq/https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/eating-disorders-among-gender-expansive-and-neurodivergent-individuals/202506/the-link-betweenhttps://www.audhdpsychiatry.co.uk/queerness-and-neurodivergence/https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/attention-deficit-disorder-add-or-adhdSupport the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Why LGBTQ+ People Connect With Horror with Henry Corrigan
2026/06/04
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. In this episode of Let's Be Perfectly Queer, Archie sits down with bisexual horror author and poet Henry Corrigan to explore the fascinating connection between queer identity, horror fiction, mental health and self-acceptance. Henry shares how writing queer horror helped him come to terms with his own sexuality, why horror can be a powerful tool for understanding fear and trauma, and how LGBTQ+ readers often experience horror differently from straight audiences. We also dive into the history of queer representation in horror, the harmful stereotypes that shaped the genre, and how modern queer horror writers are reclaiming those narratives. Plus, Henry discusses his new novel Party of a Lifetime, a supernatural queer horror story about four friends trying to reclaim the prom experience they never got to have. In this episode:  How horror helped Henry accept his bisexual identityLGBTQ+ representation in horror fictionHorror and mental healthWhy queer audiences experience horror differentlyReclaiming queer stories and identityHenry's new novel Party of a LifetimeThe hidden history of queer literature and horrorIf you love LGBTQ+ stories, horror books, queer authors, mental health discussions and thought-provoking conversations, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now to learn a bit of queer horror history... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Henry's Links: Instagram: @Henrycorrigan08 Good reads: Henry Corrigan Bloodhound Books: Henry Corrigan Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
The Golden Cage: Growing Up Privileged, Masculine & Gay, with Wade Belair
2026/05/21
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. In this episode Archie sits down with Wade Belair to unpack the “golden cage” of privilege, masculinity, and being a gay man in environments where fitting in feels like survival. Wade shares how growing up in wealthy, hyper-masculine country club culture shaped his understanding of masculinity, relationships, and self-worth. Even with loving parents and stability, the pressure to be “one of the boys” left him battling deep internalised shame and fear. In this episode we discuss:  The hidden mental health struggles that comes with being gay and privileged.Hyper-masculinity and “boys will be boys” cultureInternalised homophobia and self-loathingToxic relationships and emotional addictionWhy privilege doesn’t protect you from shameThe pressure to perform masculinityHealing, therapy, and self-acceptanceThis episode explores a side of queer identity that often gets overlooked, the reality that pain, shame, and identity struggles can exist even when life looks “perfect” from the outside. 🎧 Listen now to to hear Wades honest and vulnerable story... ... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Links: Instagram: @georgewbelair Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Homophobia in Schools, Queer Animals & Hidden Queer History
2026/05/07
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. In this episode, Katie is back for a chaotic, funny, and surprisingly educational episode full of queer facts, hidden history, and conversations that spiral beautifully out of control. From the accidental creation of San Francisco as a global queer capital to female samurai warriors erased from history, this episode dives into the stories we definitely didn’t learn in school. We also unpack:  The rise of homophobic language in schools  Australia’s queer animal kingdom  Why clownfish completely destroy anti-trans arguments  LGBTQ+ history hidden in ancient cultures  The Budapest mayor charged for supporting Pride  Why language and gender have always evolved  And the very important question… does Kirby have a gender? Theres a bit of queer education, and a lot of chaotic conversation, like... “how did we end up talking about monkey arms?” If you love queer history, LGBTQ+ culture, random facts, social commentary, and laughing while learning, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now and learn some wonderful facts with us... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Links that were useful for this episode: Lgbt History Months FactsStone Age Woman buried like a manWord originHistory of the word GirlGay lovers in Egyptian TombEgyptian Tomb Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
3 Mindset Shifts Every Parent Needs to Support LGBTQ+ Kids
2026/04/23
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer, we sit down with Heather Hester  author, speaker, and host of More Human, More Kind,  to talk about something a lot of parents and allies struggle with… fear. Fear of saying the wrong thing. Fear of not understanding. Fear of getting it “wrong.” Heather shares three powerful mindset shifts that can completely change how parents and allies show up for their LGBTQ+ loved ones especially in a world that often feels loud, divided, and overwhelming. We explore::  Why silence can be more harmful than saying the wrong thing The shift from judging to curiosity Why trying to control your child doesn’t work (and what does instead) The game-changing difference between fixing vs validating How to support your child without expecting them to educate you  What allyship actually looks like in real, everyday life This episode is honest, practical, and full of those “oh wow… I do that” moments. Whether you’re a parent, partner, or just trying to show up better for the queer people in your life. 💬 If you’ve ever thought “I want to support… but I don’t know how” — this one’s for you. 🎧 Listen now and learn how to be a better ally... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Heather Hester links: Website: https://www.heatherhester.net/ Podcast: More Human, More Kind Book: Parenting with Pride Substack: https://heatherhester.substack.com/ Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Why LGBTQ+ People Feel Exhausted: Masking, Code Switching & The “Game of Belonging
2026/04/09
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. In this episode Archie sits down with wellness coach and licensed social worker Devin Scott to unpack something so many LGBTQ+ people experience, but rarely talk about: the exhaustion of masking, code switching, and trying to “belong.” With Devin we unpack what it really means to play the “game of belonging”… and why even when you “win,” it can still feel like something’s missing. If you’ve ever felt exhausted from being “on,” struggled to feel seen even when your life looks successful, or questioned who you really are underneath it all, this conversation is for you. We explore:  Why masking and code switching are survival tools for LGBTQ+ people  The mental health impact of long-term masking (burnout 👀)  Queer perfectionism and the pressure to “fit” everywhere  How shame shows up and why it’s not always the enemy  The difference between being accepted and actually being seen  Where to start if you’re realising you’ve been “playing the game” Because the truth is a lot of us were never taught how to exist as ourselves safely. So we adapted. We performed. We survived. 🎧 Listen now and ask yourself… are you being yourself, or just playing the game of belonging? And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Get in touch with Devin: Email: [email protected] Website: https://findyourmeaning.coach/ Instagram: @devinscott.nyc Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Did Shakespeare Have a Secret Gay Lover? Queer Clues & The Fair Youth
2026/03/26
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. This week, we’re diving into one of the biggest literary debates of all time: was William Shakespeare gay… or at least queer? From secret lovers to “queer-coded” sonnets, we unpack the theory that Shakespeare may have had romantic or sexual relationships with men, particularly the mysterious “Fair Youth” featured in 126 of his sonnets. We explore: The Fair Youth and who he might have beenShakespeare’s sonnets and their surprisingly queer themesThe dramatic portrait theory (involving vandalism and possible heartbreak)Queer themes in plays like Twelfth Night and The Merchant of VeniceWhy we can’t label historical figures the way we do today We also touch on: Are we uncovering hidden queer history  or projecting modern identities onto the past? Because while we may never know Shakespeare’s sexuality for sure, one thing is clear: his work is filled with passion, desire, gender fluidity, and relationships that don’t fit neatly into boxes. Whether you’re a Shakespeare fan, a queer history nerd, or just here for the drama, this episode is packed with fascinating insights, chaotic theories, and a little bit of queer speculation. 🎧 Listen now and decide for yourself, did Shakespeare have a secret gay lover?... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈
Fair Game: Trans athletes and the future of sports
2026/03/12
Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer. In this powerful episode, we sit down with Dr. Anna Baeth and Ellie Roscher, co-authors of Fair Game: Trans Athletes and the Future of Sports, to unpack one of the most heated debates in the world right now: trans athletes in sport. Are transgender athletes “taking over” women’s sports? Are they stealing scholarships and medals? Is it really about fairness and safety, or is something else going on? We break down the biggest lies circulating in the media and politics, and look at what the actual research says. Spoiler: trans athletes make up less than 1% of participants, yet hundreds of laws have been proposed to exclude them. In this episode we explore: The data behind trans athlete participationWhy the “fairness” argument doesn’t hold upHow moral panic is manufacturedThe role of patriarchy and capitalism in sportWhy controlling trans bodies is part of a bigger political agendaHow trans athletes can actually help create a better, more inclusive sporting futureWe also talk about lived experience, what it feels like to move through sport in a transitioning body, the anxiety around locker rooms, and why movement and play are a human right. This episode is about more than sport. It’s about bodily autonomy, media misinformation, political fear-mongering, and what happens when we actually listen to trans athletes instead of talking about them. If you care about transgender rights, women’s sport, LGBTQIA+ inclusion, or the future of athletics, this is a conversation you need to hear. 🎧 Listen in and find out the truth about trans atheletes in sports... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! ELLIE ROSCHER  Social Media Links: Purchase the book: https://thenewpress.org/books/fair-game/?v=eb65bcceaa5fWebsite: www.ellieroscher.comInstagram: @ellieroscher , https://www.instagram.com/ellieroscher DR. ANNA BAETH  Social Media Links: Purchase the book: https://thenewpress.org/books/fair-game/?v=eb65bcceaa5fWebsite: www.annabaeth.comInstagram: @dr.bae.phd , https://www.instagram.com/dr.bae.phd/Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going.  A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

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