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In this episode, I'm exploring why change can feel so hard, even when it's something you want. You might know you want to stop binge eating, start eating regular meals, or make a change in your work or your life. You might even know the steps, and still find yourself not taking them, or slipping back into old patterns after a good start. I explore what your nervous system has to do with resistance to change, why familiar can feel safer than better, and how to help a change feel safe enough to keep going. What you'll discover: Why knowing what to do isn't enoughThe three things your brain is wired forWhy familiar feels safer than betterHow to help change feel safe enoughIf you've ever said, "I know what to do, I just can't make myself do it," this episode is for you.  Previous episodes referenced:  Why It's So Hard to Know What You Want A Binge Eating Coach Binging in Secret  If you'd like to understand what your nervous system is doing underneath change and fear of change, get Understand Your Nervous System.  Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode, I'm exploring why it can be so hard to know what you want, even when you know exactly what you don't want. Maybe you're trying to stop binge eating, and so much of your focus has gone to what to avoid that you've never had space to ask what you'd actually love. Or maybe something new has started pulling at you in your work, your relationships, or your life, and part of you says you should just be grateful for what you have. Either way, I explore why your wants are meant to change over time, why that's a normal part of being human, and how to let yourself want something different without having to act on it yet. What you'll discover: Why your brain focuses on what you don’t wantThe reason your wants keep changingWhy wanting more can feel ungratefulOne of my favorite prompts for letting yourself dreamIf you know exactly what you don't want but feel stumped when someone asks what you do want, this episode is for you. Previous episode referenced: Your Definition of Food Freedom Might Be Keeping You Stuck If you would like to explore getting support with your eating challenges, schedule a Breakthrough Call today. Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode, I'm asking a question you may never have put into words: what does food freedom mean to you? Maybe you're still in it, trying to stop binge eating or quiet the food noise. Or maybe you've made progress and still feel like something is missing. Either way, I explore how the picture of food freedom you're carrying can unintentionally keep you stuck with emotional eating and binge eating, and how to create a definition your brain can move toward. I also share my own definition and what came up for people at a live workshop on this topic.  What You'll Discover Why your brain doesn't hear the "don't"Three questions to test your definition of food freedomWhat your younger self wants you to know about foodHow to live into your definition one experience at a timeIf you've ever said you want food freedom but couldn't quite describe what it would look like, this episode is for you. If you'd like a place to practice living into your definition with the support of people who understand, learn more about Cultivate.   Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode, I'm exploring why it can feel so hard to tell anyone how much you struggle with food. Maybe you've never told a single person about your binge eating or emotional eating. Or maybe someone knows a little, but not the whole story.  Either way, I share what happened when I finally told my husband about my binge eating, why keeping it hidden keeps you stuck, and how the right support can help with binge eating, emotional eating, or overeating so you're no longer carrying it alone. What you'll discover: Why telling someone feels so scaryHow your nervous system borrows calm from othersWhat happens when you're met with kindnessHow to find a safe person to talk toIf you've been carrying your struggle with food by yourself and wondering whether anyone could understand, this episode is for you. Previous episode referenced:    How to Talk to Your Loved Ones About Your Secret Eating If you'd like support from people who understand, you can join Cultivate, my group coaching program, or add your name to the waitlist at janepilger.com/cultivate. Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode, I'm looking at advice you've probably heard many times: "just trust your body." Maybe you're still in it, trying to stop binge eating and wondering why intuitive eating hasn't worked for you. Or maybe you've made progress and still don't fully trust yourself around food.  Either way, I explore why trusting your body isn't something you can simply decide, why your hunger signals can feel so unreliable after years of dieting and restriction, and how learning to tell the difference between your protective parts and your anchored self helps you rebuild trust with food and your body.  What you'll discover: Why trust with your body has to be builtWhat two-way trust with your body meansHow to tell which voice you're hearingWhat food freedom looks like for you If you've ever tried to trust your body and walked away feeling like you're the exception, this episode is for you.  If you would like to explore getting support with your eating challenges, schedule a Breakthrough Call today.   Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

From the outside, rest and numbing out can look exactly the same. Sitting on the couch. Watching TV. Scrolling your phone. Reading a book. Even eating. In this episode, we’re looking beyond the activity itself to understand what it’s actually doing for you. I’ll share why numbing isn’t automatically a problem, how to recognize what you actually need, and a recent Monday when I caught myself in a pattern that used to lead to a binge and made a different choice. What You'll Discover: Why rest and numbing can look exactly the sameWhy numbing isn't automatically a problemHow to recognize what you actually need and whether you're getting itHow greater awareness gives you more choice in what happens nextIf you've ever wondered whether you're actually resting or just checking out, this episode will give you a different way to understand what's happening. If you're wondering whether your nervous system might be part of this pattern for you, grab my free guide, Mapping Your Nervous System. Previous Episode Referenced: Why Rest Feels Unproductive (Even When You Need It)    Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

You know you need rest. You might even be exhausted. But when you finally have the chance to stop, you find yourself reaching for your phone, thinking about everything you should be doing, or getting back up to tackle one more thing. In this episode, we're looking at the gap between knowing you need rest and actually being able to take it. I talk about why stopping can feel surprisingly uncomfortable, what staying in motion might be doing for you, and why the discomfort that shows up when you slow down may be useful information rather than evidence that you're bad at resting. What You'll Discover: Why knowing you need rest doesn't automatically make it easy to restWhat productivity and staying in motion might be doing for youWhy thoughts, emotions, and sensations can get louder when you slow downHow to start getting curious about your own relationship with restIf you've ever wondered why you can't seem to relax even when you know how much you need it, this episode will help you look at rest through a different lens. If you're wondering whether your nervous system might be part of what's making rest so difficult, grab my free guide, Mapping Your Nervous System. Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

Is there really a connection between ADHD and binge eating? Research shows ADHD and binge eating show up together far more than chance would explain, and once you see what's actually driving that overlap, some of your own patterns might finally make sense. In this episode, I'm looking at what the research actually tells us about ADHD and binge eating and, more importantly, how this information might help you better understand your own eating patterns. What You'll Discover: The real research connection between ADHD and binge eatingWhat ADHD explains and what it doesn'tHow attention and hunger and fullness cues might be connectedThe question worth asking instead of "is ADHD why I binge?"If you've been diagnosed with ADHD, suspect you might have it, or simply recognize yourself in some of these patterns, this episode is for you. If you would like to explore getting support with your eating challenges, schedule a Breakthrough Call today. If you want to go deeper into the four pillars I mention in this episode, you can find my book, The Binge Eating Breakthrough. Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this 200th episode of the Binge Eating Breakthrough Podcast, I'm sharing the 20 things I most want you to understand about binge eating and what it really takes to change your relationship with food. Maybe you're still caught in the binge eating cycle and wondering why nothing you've tried has created lasting change. Or maybe you've already made significant progress but still find yourself struggling with urges, food rules, or trusting yourself around food. Either way, this isn't a list of 20 tips or another plan to follow. It's 20 ways of understanding binge eating, restriction, urges, nervous system regulation, self-trust, food freedom, connection, and progress that may change the way you understand your relationship with food and yourself. What You'll Discover: Why binge eating is a symptom and what your behavior may be trying to tell youHow you can be eating enough food and still experience restrictionWhy an urge to binge and a binge are two different thingsWhy knowing what to do isn't the same as having the capacity to do itWhy connection may be one of the most important pieces of ending binge eatingIf you've ever felt like you've tried everything to stop binge eating and can't understand why you still struggle, this episode offers a different place to start: not with another set of rules, but with a better understanding of what's happening and why. Want all 20 ideas in one place? I've created a free download with all 20 Things You Need to Know to Stop Binge Eating so you can save them, revisit them, and notice which ones might change the way you understand your own experience. Get your free copy at janepilger.com/top20 Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode I'm exploring a question most of us have never consciously asked ourselves: Who am I practicing becoming? Maybe you're still deep in the binge and restrict cycle, waiting for the day it finally stops. Or maybe you've already made real progress and you're wondering why you still don't feel as free as you thought you would. Either way, I break down why the life you want doesn't start with your circumstances changing, and what it actually means to build it from the inside out, one small practice at a time. What you'll discover: Why you're always practicing becoming someone, whether you realize it or notThe difference between internal and external when-then thinkingWhy your nervous system fights change even when you want itWhat it actually means to build your life from the inside outIf you've ever thought your peace was waiting on the other side of losing weight, changing jobs, or someone else finally changing, this episode is for you. If you would like to explore getting support with your eating challenges, schedule a Breakthrough Call today. Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

What does it really take to change your relationship with food? That's the question I'm answering in this episode, in a very specific way. Whether you're just starting to look closely at your relationship with food for the first time or you've already put in years of work and still find certain moments hard, I'm walking through five specific things that changed everything for me. What You'll Discover: The real reason awareness has to come before anything elseA tool I use almost daily to reconnect with my bodyThe one question that replaced years of self-judgmentThree forms of courage that might surprise youIf you've tried to change your relationship with food through willpower alone and it just hasn't stuck, this episode walks through what will. If you would like to explore getting support with your eating challenges, schedule a Breakthrough Call today. Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode, I'm talking about something I think a lot of us are quietly doing without realizing it. Maybe you're still in it, reading and listening to everything you can find about binge eating and emotional eating, trying to finally understand it well enough that something changes. Or maybe you've already gone through most of what's out there and you're left wondering why understanding it hasn't actually changed anything.  Either way, we're diving into the real difference between learning about change and actually doing it, and why staying informed, through books, podcasts, or anything else, can quietly become its own way of staying stuck. What you'll discover: Why understanding something doesn't automatically change itWhat I call shelf-help, and why it feels so safeWhat reading actually gives you, and what it doesn'tWhat doing the work actually requiresIf you've read every book, listened to every podcast, and you're still stuck in the same place with food, this episode is for you. The Book Experience begins August 18 and enrollment is open now. You can also find my book, The Binge Eating Breakthrough, and the companion workbook at janepilger.com/book. Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode, I'm talking about what actually creates peace with food, because it's probably not what you've been told. Maybe you're still in it, trying every rule and every plan to stop binge eating or emotional eating. Or maybe you've already tried most of what's out there, from books to structured programs, and you're left wondering why none of it fully stuck.  Either way, I'm breaking down the four things that actually get you to trusting yourself around food again, and why more willpower or another set of food rules was never going to be one of them. What you'll discover: Why information and support alone weren't enoughThe four things that actually create peace with foodWhy shame keeps people stuck instead of motivating changeWhat it actually feels like to trust yourself around foodIf you've tried nearly everything to stop binge eating or emotional eating and you're starting to wonder what you're missing, this episode is for you. Check out my book The Binge Eating Breakthrough. Join me for the live Book Experience beginning August 18th.  Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode, I'm continuing last week's conversation about GLP-1 medications, but this time I brought in someone who actually is the expert. Dr. Matthea Rentea, a board certified internal medicine and obesity medicine physician, joins me to answer the questions I'm not qualified to answer myself.  Maybe you're on a GLP-1 right now and know there's more to it than what your last appointment covered. Or maybe you're considering one and don't know where to start. Either way, we get into what these medications actually do in the body, who they're really for, and what almost nobody tells you about using them well for the long haul.  What you'll discover: Why GLP-1s target a hormonal problem, not a willpower oneThe warning signs of losing muscle too fast, and how to prevent itWhy going without the right support can backfireHow to tell if your medical team is helping or hurting youIf you've ever wondered whether you're using a GLP-1 the right way, or whether it's the right choice at all, this conversation is for you. Previous episodes referenced: What a GLP-1 Can't Do for Your Binge Eating If this conversation left you with more questions, Dr. Rentea has answers waiting. Her free podcast roadmap lets you search by exactly what you want to know, whether that's a specific medication, protein, fiber, or anything else that came up for you today. You can also learn more at her website.   Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.

In this episode, I'm answering a handful of questions that come up again and again around GLP-1 medications and binge eating. Maybe you're on one right now and still working out what it means for you. Or maybe you're considering starting one and aren't sure what to expect. Either way, I get into what these medications can actually do, what they can't touch, and what it really takes to feel at peace with food, whether you use one or not. What you'll discover: Why a GLP-1 is a tool, but never the only oneWhat these medications can quiet, and what stays underneathWhat determines whether old patterns return when you stopWhat no medication can touch, no matter how much weight changesIf you've ever wondered whether using a GLP-1 means you didn't really do the work, or you're on one and still don't feel at peace with food, this episode is for you. If you would like to explore getting support with your eating challenges, schedule a Breakthrough Call today. Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Food Freedom Mini Series today.